7 Things I've Learned From Berghain

Although I do not go out anymore, I still learned some lessons from Berghain that I have taken into my own life. Here are the 7 things I have learned from going to Berghain.
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Love, Mischa
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[@med.i.tations]

Dancing for 6hrs straight is indeed magical ❤

[@post.mischa]

Perfect meditation

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@@post.mischa I see what you did there 😂😂🙏😎🤭✨ clever play on words 😇😇😇🐬🐬🤭✨🪄

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I think I would like it though

[@Lilablaublassgruen]

Yepp, I believe one can get out some benefits, knowledge about oneself or other people, social situations or relationships or other things or just experiences as a base to work on and go forward even from - looking backwards - not soooo good actions or habbits or whatever you ll call it. I mean if you don't do or aren't able to move forward you just .. need some more 'insights' ;) ... I can agree with the fact that it can help to accept your body/ how its build and maybe your whole apperance or what you like or don't like about yourself ... . Its really kinda 'freeing', but I guess, its just because its 'a different bubble' from the outside world and I definitely do not glorify it and definitely there are more healthy strategies - also other places (but not healthier at all) - to find acceptance fot yourself, your body-structure and make some nice experiences :). But on the other hand, I mean, life is also to make certain experiences and to get knowledge. For some people more and for others less. Depending on very different characteristics and personal history. Its all 'a try' and we all have different values and boundaries and its okay. Its at least ok, as long as one is okay and feeling good. But still we also could ask ourselfs if we really do (or did) make these choice - conciously and out of 'good reasons' or just to cope with something we - in this moment - are/were not able to get along with using other strategies - ... but well, sonetimes its just fun or .. I do not want to make it to heavy or dufficult. I, now, do have my own thoughts and believes on it and the world and society aswell but thats subjective, of course. I just would like to say to those who struggle: If you do not feel good about it anymore, you just might change perspective and the use of lifetime and move on and change certain 'things' in life. Its a just all a choice. Isn't there this bitter taste to it (I am not sure if it also always was there) - on different levels, so to say - and I am not talking about d*ug use specifically, its more the connection or the way it all works, relationships are, this superficiality and hm ... hm, I do not know .. this is just my own perspective on it. Maybe it just because it doesn't match with my values and needs anymore. Who knows if it ever did?! You know what I mean? ;) ... Take care and have an awesome (edit: and healthy :)) weekend, Mischa!

[@post.mischa]

Yeah definitely, I mean thankful for what has been. Despite the place where I am now, there will always be things I take from past experiences moving forward, especially when the surroundings change. My perspective on the world also might be too outlandish for most people, but is accepted within the bubble I have around me, all I can ask for. But I guess you understand that as well. Too be honest, I rarely have a bitter taste to anything in life, I try to stay cheerful and especially thankful and humble. I used to resent certain things due to the last years, but I noticed that it didn''t make me happier. It's why I don't follow news, social media and other things, cause my perspective is totally different. I try to stay away from that cause it doesn't matter to me and I don't want it to influence me. I hope this makes sense a bit, thank you for your kind and amazing words

[@Lilablaublassgruen]

@@post.mischa Sorry, had to change some wording, so it might be more understandable and I am feeling a little better 🙏. ... yeah, I mean, bitter may be the wrong description. I also do try not to, you know, hm, let actions towards me, words or whatever, make me fell bitter anymore. Its just that I am now aware of (all) its me mechanisms and that a lot (words ir actions) just weren't meant the way they were said or done, you know. In good and in bad, I guess. There is a lot blabla and selfish and sesrching for personal benefits and using others and manipulation and misusing power or feelings outside in this world - conviously or even not in a state of awareness. I mean, this usually is not my problem anymore but in a way it was my problem in personal relationhips in the past cause I am just super bad at being superficial, just scratching on the surface, small talk or kind of these 'normal' activitis BECAUSE I just don't like it and there mostly is no sense in it and I was bad in setting bundaries or truely say what I want and need and what I really do not accept - I guess, I also lied a lot about that to myself cause 'the other one is always more right than I was or just 'stronger' (of course there is much more I could mention). I am out of this and it is not my 'business' anymore. But sometimes it still 'hurts' me or, hm, that is not true, I just did still not want to see the truth and searching for the good side in a person (even that I do not like most 'normal' people (normal in my way to see the world and follow 'the rules' without asking any questions or without even thinking about some. You know - most normal people are not normal to me. Its sick in my opinon what is going on and what is accepted and declared to be standard..). Whatever. ... realising that f.e. me/ my values and views do not matter or effect or attract the one I spend my time with, the one does not really care or talking roughly about it to me or just ignore it or .. BUT on the other hand just again connecting to me f.e.because of (talking as a woman) OTHER reasons BUT not clarify this and just 'try to play some games'. I hate it. Its ... also disrespectful. I canmot explain it better. Sorry. I do not mean these typical 'dating' situations. Is this even understandable? I mean, they talk to me f.e. out of a shared history of 'activities' and get in touch again and talk (but do have a gf (monogamous relationship), talking bad about her and asking hidden/ manipulative/ stupid questions. Whats wrong? In earlier times I ALWAYS thought there is something wrong with me and I have to work on myself. They are the norm. I am 'outstanding'. I do not fit in. Feeling like an alien. .. this behaviors still make me sad in a way and if it happens again but it does not effect my, how to say it, self-esteem (that I think its not interesting what I think or have to talk about or sharing what crap ;) is in my mind). Am I the 'wrong' one? Today I just realise: oh, well, hm, we are different and there is no deeper connection than this and so on. And obvioulsy thinkin' I am stupid or they are just not aware of what they try to do or are doing. I do not know. Often I do have a lot questionmarks in my head about kinda these 'things' and actions. But I also do not put any ir much energy in it anymore and just stay away. No longer searching for the answer 'Why' or thinking that something is wrong with me and my values or ideas of creating my personal life or setting boundaries or just leave situations I do not like. That is good for me, I think :). I am not mad at these persons. I am still often about 'the system' but I know it just costs my energy. Working on it. And well, I guess you said that somewhere in one of your videos: sometimes you just realize you changed, you are different and not compatible anymore, so to say and just leave it this way. ... Wuoha. I am sorry, I just had to explain it and change some wording to make it 'more myself and understandable'. Hope you are oky with it! I do not want to bother you!!! ... Me too, I just use YT - have a silent insta and silent FB profile which I just use to search for some things. Nothing important in the profiles - its not used as a social media plattform. Its mostly a fake world, I think, too much input for me, fake input and a costs so much time, energy and brings very less imput for me personally. Also I am confronted with too much 'very weird opinions and normal stuff'. So I mostly stay away and am very selective. Life is real and not virtual - I love it to be real... hahaha... Yes, the news ... I handle it the same way and stay away BUT i feel a but bad about it cause I think it matters in a way and if I stay silent, people who have a different perspective and, in my opinion, good values and thoughts and believesystems which are much healthier than it is outside and mankind develops (whuoaaa, puh) should be informed and be active in a way. But it often makes me crazy as well and if I do not take enough care for/ of myself and stay away from that, sorry, but sick bullshit, I myself get sick and depressed. So, I stay away. Even knowing that its wrong. But I am just a little, little light in this big system and I guess its better to take care than to drown, you know. I just always hope that there are still enough people (like me or in that direction) outside which actively do something. I am really a little ashamed to say so cause its ... just not cool to not care or actively do something against whats going on. Of course, I do something in my little bubble. But is that enough? Always feeling I should or could do more. Isn't there more responsibility to carry for me? I don't know. But I also have a lot personal responsibilities to carry and it needs my energy and time and well, I do have to set priorities. Still feeling it's too less. ... Hope you understand and it makes a little sense what I just said.

[@Lilablaublassgruen]

Ah, well, yes, the people I have in m life usually accept my perspective but often might think: she is weird and a little 'too' this or 'too' that and over the 'accepted' opinion or perspective. But its okay. I mean, I am thinking the same for some of their perspectives the other way around 😆. We do respect each other and have a true connection nevertheless and there is mo need to be the same in everything. There are some core values and beliefs and behaviours which 'have to be' identical and a lot is just also different and its okay. I am not sharing my whole life with them 24/7 and its also always good to hear about different perspectives. I just wanted to add this.