7 Things I Wish I Knew In My 20s

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Tim Dessaint

Tim Dessaint

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@thkhoa8805
@thkhoa8805 10 ай бұрын
The bad news is you're on your own, but the cool news is you're on your own
@nataSweet129
@nataSweet129 10 ай бұрын
is that a Taylor Swift quote?
@tdot415
@tdot415 10 ай бұрын
Yes once you get used to idea of being on your own, life gets clearer and your achievements feel bigger cause they’re truly your own
@rod5943
@rod5943 10 ай бұрын
The bad news is that you’re on your own and the bad news is that everybody around you has something to say about what you’re doing wrong. To that I say: There is no path, so walk wherever you feel like going and improve on things YOU feel you should improve on.
@audrey06lee05
@audrey06lee05 9 ай бұрын
Taylor 🥰🥰
@mfucek_
@mfucek_ 2 ай бұрын
Pretty much sums up my recent breakup after a long relationship lol
@hecl0980
@hecl0980 10 ай бұрын
I'm turning 20 in just over 8 months, and this video really helped. Starting this year, I'm prioritising my health and working out, my passion for music and the trombone (I'm applying for a year in the military band) and my growing passion for fashion and political science (the latter of which i would like to make a career in). Thanks for the video, Tim! I'm certain this won't be the last time I watch it
@user-ki4xw2rb8q
@user-ki4xw2rb8q 7 ай бұрын
So you just turned 19, and you are already thinking about turning 20
@Xo.trash.7
@Xo.trash.7 9 ай бұрын
Dawg, im so glad you exist. This shit all genuinely made me feel better, i went through a really bad breakup a few days ago and i really needed to see this
@futureow6043
@futureow6043 7 ай бұрын
Hope you are feeling a bit better already! The pain will go away, trust me :)
@Deciverse
@Deciverse 10 ай бұрын
Probably one of the most grounded "what I wish I knew" videos that I've seen personally. Love your style and editing touches in your vids too and this one was no exception. Good work man
@jaydeegabrillo1840
@jaydeegabrillo1840 10 ай бұрын
Been following you since I was in college and I especially agree that not caring about what others think is top 1 on my list that I regret. I enjoy life a lot better now that I am true to myself. I am in my mid 20s and married with child. A lot of responsibilities on my end but still managing to take A LOT OF RISKS. Things have been working out pretty good lately but I'm not stopping here and will do more not only for myself this time but for my family as well.
@JustMattyEntertainment
@JustMattyEntertainment 10 ай бұрын
I'm in a similar position, I have a child under 1 so I'd love to hear the kind of risks you're taking as I'm feeling a little slumped!
@jaydeegabrillo1840
@jaydeegabrillo1840 10 ай бұрын
I was laid off and had plenty of bills to pay and I didn't know what to do. I was desperate to find a source of income. After getting laid off I invested the money I saved over the years and created a small business (keep in my mind that I had mouths to feed as I am a breadwinner). I, of course, found a better job with better pay. The small business has been readying me and my wife to open a new business. I had a lot of help along the way but it has changed the way my mind works. I don't want to get in deep with it but I hope this will help you. I'm still trying to build a better life so I can only speak for my experience.
@thisistotallyfine
@thisistotallyfine 10 ай бұрын
Watching this in my 30s
@huismus111
@huismus111 9 ай бұрын
looking at your pfp, I wouldn't say your 20's went that well
@joshuakim2341
@joshuakim2341 10 ай бұрын
As someone who just recently turned 29 this past year thank you Tim for the advice! I really needed to hear the last one!
@Isagiyochi395
@Isagiyochi395 10 ай бұрын
I just graduated as an electrical engineer at the age of 22. I’m very into fashion and am gonna build a brand called asad alex (based off of my Arabic and American name). My goal is to flip the world upside down and change it for the better. I’ve noticed that everything seems to have become so degenerate and over the past few years I have become more religious and changed my ways. This video is proof that I will accomplish my goals and so everyone that sees this comment I want you to know that I will achieve my goals inshallah and you can achieve whatever you want in this world if you put in the work and dream big enough.
@r3dsnow757
@r3dsnow757 9 ай бұрын
Inshallah brother
@chideraoko1363
@chideraoko1363 4 ай бұрын
Keep going bruh am rooting for you 💪✊
@stevemelgaming
@stevemelgaming Ай бұрын
See you at the top
@mistamop
@mistamop 10 ай бұрын
This video really helped me. As a 26 year old who still lives at home and has a ton of student debt, it’s really easy for me to feel like I’m falling behind and recently had a severe panic attack because of it. I now have the motivation to really try and change my circumstances. Thanks Tim :)
@prashantmalyala
@prashantmalyala 10 ай бұрын
A lot of creators will make videos about this kind of 20s life advice stuff, but this is probably one of the best distillations of it that I’ve seen. Never understood the attachment random internet people have to creators until my friend intro’d me to your channel, at first just for the fashion content. Thanks, Tim.
@ianmoran8760
@ianmoran8760 10 ай бұрын
As someone who's about to enter college, I love these life advice videos that you've made. Thank you Tim!
@PoorlyUtilized
@PoorlyUtilized 10 ай бұрын
Do more of these every once in awhile, maybe do a list of book suggestions
@HarryHas
@HarryHas 10 ай бұрын
The videos are looking amazing, Tim. 🔥
@leehurst172
@leehurst172 9 ай бұрын
That element of "you're right on time" hit in just the right way❤️
@diamond-zanexyxeroswaldale3116
@diamond-zanexyxeroswaldale3116 2 ай бұрын
I appreciate this video Tim whenever I'm feeling lost and not knowing what to do, I always come back to this video to remind me on the path that I really want to take. I'm in my 20's and I'm kinda taking the long route towards my goal but this video always reminds me that I'm at the right place at the right time.
@charles2395
@charles2395 7 ай бұрын
I'm so happy I made productive decisions about my finances that changed my life forever,hoping to retire next year.. Investment should always be on any creative man's heart for success in life.
@wilsonrichard440
@wilsonrichard440 7 ай бұрын
Thanks for the advice! I'm new to financial planning and wasn't sure where to start. Any tips on finding a reliable financial adviser or resource to guide beginners?
@findingpath8362
@findingpath8362 7 ай бұрын
As a beginner, it's essential for you to have a mentor that is verified by finra and SEC to keep you accountable. I'm guided by a widely known financial consultant Stacey Macken
@AIIG-zd5dx
@AIIG-zd5dx 7 ай бұрын
Wow, I'm supprised Stacey Macken is being mention here. I started off with 5K.... Now with massive portfolio highly recommended...
@robertgreg6009
@robertgreg6009 7 ай бұрын
This Woman has really change the life of many people from different countries and am a testimony of her trading platform
@nissan38p69
@nissan38p69 7 ай бұрын
I met Stacey Macken at a conference in 2018 and we have been working together ever since.
@KevinnPOV
@KevinnPOV 10 ай бұрын
just finished the shuttle art of not givin' a f*ck ..mindset and life changing.
@Arc4kEdits
@Arc4kEdits 9 ай бұрын
9:17 Wise words, Im defnetly going to rember that sentence
@Zyw0o.o
@Zyw0o.o 10 ай бұрын
More content like this man pls, listening to u is a pleasure🙏
@seanmalroy
@seanmalroy 10 ай бұрын
Oh man I’m in my 50s and I’m taking notes. Great vid!
@IamnotJokic
@IamnotJokic 10 ай бұрын
That smooth transition into an ad-read 😂 kudos bro
@hayden4279
@hayden4279 10 ай бұрын
As per usual, phenomenal inspiring stuff!
@JohnnyJoker-s9d
@JohnnyJoker-s9d 10 ай бұрын
I completely agree with the invest in yourself concept.
@yashieratiullaofficial6620
@yashieratiullaofficial6620 10 ай бұрын
Such a legend. Aye, thank you for this 👌
@TheRockyge
@TheRockyge 10 ай бұрын
Despite other KZbinrs, your video are getting better in quality and also more interesting week by week! You are like a good Italian wine Tim 🍷😉
@ryan.8328
@ryan.8328 10 ай бұрын
Today is my 21st birthday and I do feel really lost. As someone who suffers from mental health problems and doesn’t really get along with family, I’m just blessed that God gave me another year in this cycle we all call “life.” I do wish I could celebrate like other people who do their 21st birthday but I’m not that rich. I am thankful though for another year.
@YenNguyen-gh1ov
@YenNguyen-gh1ov 9 ай бұрын
Thanks a lot, I'm 21 and I'm feeling lost most of the time, your video is treasurable to me. Thank you!
@yoelmorales208
@yoelmorales208 6 ай бұрын
This video is a gem
@abdoundiaye8112
@abdoundiaye8112 10 ай бұрын
Probably your best video ever, thank you tim ⭐️
@mufeedjoshua4331
@mufeedjoshua4331 5 ай бұрын
Definitely helped
@joshmiller7777
@joshmiller7777 10 ай бұрын
I think there is a huge level of "survivor bias" here. The vast vast majority of people who try to quit a 9-5 job to follow a dream of freedom (such as a content creator) do not succeed. It is a combination of skill, luck and privilege.
@sisig_vids
@sisig_vids 10 ай бұрын
I'll be 26 in a few months and I've been demotivated in life due to many factors affecting it (unemployment, lack of savings, weight gain etc) but thank you for this video Tim! I really needed that push to keep moving forward
@Otijames
@Otijames 10 ай бұрын
loved this!
@victorymaaa
@victorymaaa 3 ай бұрын
This video is amazing, thank you
@randomcommenterhaha7889
@randomcommenterhaha7889 Ай бұрын
Thanks. I needed to hear this.
@david3601bulls
@david3601bulls 10 ай бұрын
Tim, loved the video. Your style of content has always been super inspiring.
@Fasthebaker
@Fasthebaker 10 ай бұрын
I've missed this type of KZbin videos
@ronharrodjr
@ronharrodjr 10 ай бұрын
I love this video. This calmed me tremendously.
@reynabdelazim6423
@reynabdelazim6423 10 ай бұрын
Im 21, ive been feeling like a failure for over 2 years, i dropped out of my dream college without my choice, i failed alot of relationship, lost alot of people i really thought would stay forever, now im in another college, im trying to find meaning and purpose, i keep falling down but whats important is getting back up, i had issues with drugs and alcohol and i wasted alot of time doing them and getting in trouble, i dont regret partying, im glad i got to experience that part of life, anyway im ranting and its dumb, (if ur still reading u can say hi) i just passed the first term in my new college and im on top of my class, maybe ill get back up, stumble and fall again, but improve
@Niimerium
@Niimerium 10 ай бұрын
keep going forward bro. u got this!
@andy_maverick1
@andy_maverick1 29 күн бұрын
Keep going bro, you got this. If it makes you feel better I'm 21 and I haven't figured out my life too. We gonna make it
@boldi365
@boldi365 7 ай бұрын
A very awesome video, i like that format too!
@oohlala6636
@oohlala6636 10 ай бұрын
From Brazil! So good advices thank you so much
@taranjeetsingh4587
@taranjeetsingh4587 10 ай бұрын
Thankyou, sir!! Respect 🫡
@murarirajan1860
@murarirajan1860 10 ай бұрын
Fresh into my 20s!!! Excited and scared! Thanks for the video mate! Super useful ❤
@venzroiabella4259
@venzroiabella4259 10 ай бұрын
Thank you Tim
@Millerdelo
@Millerdelo 10 ай бұрын
I’m 26, $300K net worth. Been saving 50% of my salary, investing in stocks & living below my means. My goal this year is to be more serious and consistent with my investments for long term. I’m worried with the numerous bank failures as of late, am I better off reinvesting my savings in the stock market or do I wait?
@jaidenSalinas
@jaidenSalinas 10 ай бұрын
Exactly what I’m doing again this week. The smartest thing I’ve ever done was having 30% in cash to buy on the way down in 2021. It hurt watching 30-40% discounts drop to 50, but grabbing Google, NVDIA, Apple, and others near the bottom has paid off
@Edgardo477
@Edgardo477 10 ай бұрын
Excellent info. My problem is when it starts dropping I think it's going to keep dropping for awhile and I wait so I can get the best deal. Next thing I know, it's back up again
@Millerdelo
@Millerdelo 10 ай бұрын
Amazing speaking with Martha on the phone, I really Appreciate 🙏
@cosmicentity1520
@cosmicentity1520 5 ай бұрын
How tf did you get a 300k net worth at 26 yrs old? Lol
@BenjaminTJames
@BenjaminTJames 10 ай бұрын
Always enjoy a life advice video, Tim. I'd also say that although it's good to think of your future self, it's important not to end up sacrificing your present self to it; life's too short not to cut yourself some slack in the moment!
@msl3940
@msl3940 10 ай бұрын
love this ❤
@Addypro99
@Addypro99 10 ай бұрын
Thank You Tim I’m turning 21 in feb and life had started to take its toll on me thinking i am 21 and i have nothing together, hence , I had started running From problems . Harder choices are just harder to commit cause doing the right thing is often harder than doing the right thing
@LLBlossom21
@LLBlossom21 7 ай бұрын
Thank you so much, Tim. Help a lot
@coviloku7104
@coviloku7104 6 ай бұрын
I like this mindset.
@jonathanbennett8065
@jonathanbennett8065 10 ай бұрын
Very dope video, Tim. Thank you very much!
@feline6623
@feline6623 10 ай бұрын
Awesome truths, awesome animations!
@dasnurmeins
@dasnurmeins 4 ай бұрын
thank you so much tim
@jonathanpuerta4
@jonathanpuerta4 10 ай бұрын
This is the best video in KZbin to start 2024
@sahebalikhan
@sahebalikhan 10 ай бұрын
Love it bro
@zakirkhatri2902
@zakirkhatri2902 10 ай бұрын
thank you so much you save me life. I enjoy more present
@bellodoesseo
@bellodoesseo 10 ай бұрын
Tim that watch is lit 🔥🔥🔥🔥
@flamero6747
@flamero6747 6 ай бұрын
My favorite quote is "the only way to truly be comfortable is to be uncomfortable".
@bbbbbbb303
@bbbbbbb303 10 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for sharing, Tim!
@tonypizza260
@tonypizza260 10 ай бұрын
thank you tim
@vobang7161
@vobang7161 10 ай бұрын
i really love this video, thanks for sharing
@bibosteinmuller3431
@bibosteinmuller3431 7 ай бұрын
Great video! Very helpful
@tabaandy843
@tabaandy843 10 ай бұрын
Thank you brother
@jontaelincolne-lomax2884
@jontaelincolne-lomax2884 10 ай бұрын
Fantastic video
@marcosebastianelli3903
@marcosebastianelli3903 10 ай бұрын
Very cool video bro, love it❤
@5meterdeleter
@5meterdeleter 10 ай бұрын
Good wake up call video for me
@yjp4929
@yjp4929 10 ай бұрын
Well said
@Nico.Rabeee
@Nico.Rabeee 10 ай бұрын
Thanks for this 😊
@tyhuynh1852
@tyhuynh1852 9 ай бұрын
Yo idk what day it happened but happy birthday man!!
@mjvlogstudio2632
@mjvlogstudio2632 10 ай бұрын
Thank you!! i needed this!, 😢❤😊
@fadhlibgs
@fadhlibgs 10 ай бұрын
This year i'm turning 30 also !!! Lets embrace and celebrate it happily :)
@maykraezen
@maykraezen 10 ай бұрын
Totally agree, enhancing focus for a particular things is the simple advice to move further instead of doing so many things in a short of time, very inspiring! 🔥
@ganchunk
@ganchunk 10 ай бұрын
i'm 34 this year, and I agree with everything in this video. i also just started some of the things you shared, never too late. thanks for the good advice & affirmation.
@wintheingioo4100
@wintheingioo4100 10 ай бұрын
I needed this so bad. Thanks a lot Tim ❤
@bartellacreative1968
@bartellacreative1968 10 ай бұрын
Amazing vid ! As the Rock says ..One day, or day one 💪
@MBBarron
@MBBarron 10 ай бұрын
Love this vid of yours, unique
@wayveofficial
@wayveofficial 10 ай бұрын
needed this
@williamjeffs7404
@williamjeffs7404 10 ай бұрын
27 with a college degree that I don't use with a job that I hate and currently so lost😢. I have no idea what I like or what my real calling is , wish y knew what I like just to put all my effort into it
@Spades340
@Spades340 10 ай бұрын
When I was younger, I came to believe that figuring out what you don’t like is easier that figuring out what you like. To get to a point where you actually like what you do, I think you need to keep trying different things. I’m my case, after trying different jobs, I eventually ended up learning new skills online that I now use professionally. I don’t use my degree at all. The main idea though is that a lack of action won’t change your situation.
@williamjeffs7404
@williamjeffs7404 10 ай бұрын
@@Spades340 Thanks a lot man I am thinking the same thing and try to learn skills online. But I spend so much time thinking what should I study or what do I like that I don't start. That last sentences really hit the nail
@uzoma_.147
@uzoma_.147 10 ай бұрын
Really falling in love with this side of Tim ❤
@knucklehoagies
@knucklehoagies 10 ай бұрын
Your 20s is basically the same as your teen years. It's a formative time in your life. Learning about yourself. Figuring out what you value. Planting seeds for your future. The only difference is you have a bit more money and freedom compared to your teen years. Your 30s is when you actually begin that "stability" period in your life. Your 20s is for the most part an experimental period.
@Mloofylicious
@Mloofylicious 10 ай бұрын
Never followed the crowd. However in order to survive & flourish in such an environment you need to be able to sacrifice many things. They're cruel to whoever they can't blackmail into obedience. That's why powerful political leaders always focus on a room full of sheep that need a shepherd. In order to protect yourself from the flock, you may be heading towards loneliness and poverty because only those who don't have anything get to keep everything worth having.
@alexvetkin5410
@alexvetkin5410 10 ай бұрын
Thank you very much for this little enlightment☺
@empaie
@empaie 10 ай бұрын
I still struggle alot with Point 5, Nobody cares - because all my life they did care. I was the fat Kid back then in school, got bullied pretty much my entire school life. Even after school in the first two companys i worked at (which had ALOT of toxic coworkers) it continued. Now i'll be 33 in March. I still struggle with it, even though i lost most of my weight (almost 90 Pounds, i'm very close to a healthy weight now), take more care of myself and got a bit into fashion. But my past really did hurt me in this aspect. It will be really hard to get over it, if i'm even able to get over it. If somebody still goes through something like me: It will get better, if you start working on yourself. It's freaking hard but will be worth it. But some things may not change - like the way you handle specific situations. For me, it's realizing that nobody now cares how i look/what i do.
@BirdManJones
@BirdManJones 10 ай бұрын
I think for the point about nobody cares i think its a matter of "yes and no" like on a spectrum because its naunced? Sometimes I've had people point of things with my fits to give their opinion (good or bad) or notice patterns or whatever. But I think a better way to go by this is reflecting to yourself whether you should care about others opinions so deeply. I would prioritize cultivating your own self esteem by validating yourself. Just my 2 cents. Other than that, great video!
@Ultimate_Gemini
@Ultimate_Gemini 10 ай бұрын
As someone in their mid 20s feeling really stuck at life, these are honestly great tips that i didn't expect from this channel. Some of these really confronted me with the way i think about myself and stuff. Thank you for this video!
@danielrocha8820
@danielrocha8820 10 ай бұрын
Great video
@elarmincs
@elarmincs 10 ай бұрын
This must be a sign, I just turned 20 today.
@ryan.8328
@ryan.8328 10 ай бұрын
I just turned 21 today, Happy late birthday!🥳
@imErfan666
@imErfan666 10 ай бұрын
let him cook
@roselinetsen4538
@roselinetsen4538 8 ай бұрын
I wish this video existed when I was starting out my twenties
@iTeostra
@iTeostra 2 ай бұрын
Damn! I clicked on this video waiting to get a bit more of fashion content and got myself tearing up at the end.
@monkeyhigh6416
@monkeyhigh6416 10 ай бұрын
I really enjoyed this video👍
@Chrisanith
@Chrisanith 10 ай бұрын
We need another tattoo tour video!!
@Mete-7even8
@Mete-7even8 10 ай бұрын
thank you
@GyjuKomaro
@GyjuKomaro 10 ай бұрын
Thank you.
@mikeguci168
@mikeguci168 8 ай бұрын
THANK YOU VERY MUCH
@paul_fierce
@paul_fierce 10 ай бұрын
That all lies great if you have ANY passion
@alexanderdavid4271
@alexanderdavid4271 10 ай бұрын
Video like this help me a lot Thank you tim. Thank you so much, i lost my father at 20 years old and my mother at 26 years old. I'm 27 now is so hard lost both my parent at such young age. For me everytime i found someone video so helpful you guys just like my parent ❤
@98newyork98
@98newyork98 7 ай бұрын
Very great Video brother! Love from Germany
@KyawMingNaing
@KyawMingNaing 10 ай бұрын
It's very helpful
@jerikhowijaya8844
@jerikhowijaya8844 10 ай бұрын
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