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@nabanitaghorai81893 жыл бұрын
Three months ago I found out about the program called Forwago. It is amazing how this program helped me to change my perspective and taught me to think more positively and to be more grateful.
@MmM209782 жыл бұрын
Messy person here, not sure anything can help. Lol
@QUINTUSMAXIMUS2 жыл бұрын
@@MmM20978 I am also very messy, but I am determined to change things around bit by bit. I think I need to find homes for places. That's a major problem for me. For example, I am going to buy a special spice organizer after payday.
@MmM209782 жыл бұрын
@@QUINTUSMAXIMUS ❤️
@DavincisGirl662 жыл бұрын
@@MmM20978 Reforming messy person here. The Minimal Mom KZbin channel has been really helpful by stressing that I probably have too much stuff in my house to make decisions about putting away. I reduced my inventory and found homes for things important enough to keep near where they are used or near where they were always landing on flat surfaces. It is getting easier to set habits to be less messy.
@michaelpisciarino53485 жыл бұрын
0:52 Organization 1:39 (1) Don't Rely too much on their brain to store information 3:02 (2) Label All Things (that need labeling) 4:12 (3) Build a Mindfulness Loop 6:24 (4) Have a backup (2 is 1, 1 is none) 7:25 (5) Organizing by Experience, not by dogma 8:14 (6) Respect the phrase "mise en place" 9:15 (7) Be deliberate about the things you own
@belder1175 жыл бұрын
Real MVP
@michaelpisciarino53485 жыл бұрын
Никита Рай you’re welcome.
@marcospineda92745 жыл бұрын
Michael Pisciarino your my father
@nidhikaushik50435 жыл бұрын
Thanks man!
@vijay-tt6py5 жыл бұрын
Thx
@Money_Making_MentalityАй бұрын
There's a book called Hidden Time Wealth, and it talks about how using some secret techniques, you can overcome procrastination and accomplish anything in life. It's not just a bunch of empty promises; it's the real deal.
@BGraves4 күн бұрын
This is a bot and this book is fake
@ykubba4 жыл бұрын
I feel like you’re literally talking about my life. I’ve discussed all of these habits with my husband. Most people think I’m “too organized,” but honestly, being organized gives you the freedom to maximize your life and do spontaneous activities without hindering your goals or success. It’s the best of both worlds!
@petmomful22604 жыл бұрын
I agree. I love being organized. My daughter and I love to organize our homes. But I want to be more minimal, and buy less. My sisters used to come to my home and make fun of me because I was so organized. I used to feel like a freak about it. But now I embrace it and realize it is a valuable skill.
@TheOrganizedPineapple3 жыл бұрын
Definitely! I try to be minimal and organized and so don't have to spend endless hours cleaning.
@jorge_carballo2 жыл бұрын
I was like watching the video and saying " ok let's see what we can learn and start implementing, but I already applied this on my life, so that's mean I'm doing good so far, some of them are kind of new that I have put it into practice, however I'm doing it already... I still remember when i was in elementary school and I don't know why , because my parents didn't teach me to be organized , I think it was something inside me, I don't know , long story short, all my notebooks I put it in an order, that without looking inside my bag , i knew the position of the specific signature and I just picked it up and that's it!!, nowadays all my stuffs are where they are suppose to be, well I'd say 95%.
@NMDecember12 жыл бұрын
I'm late to the organised party but I can relate to this. 💯 I also believe in outer order inner calm.
@miggy20022 жыл бұрын
Wow, I envy all of you.
@katherinelua68004 жыл бұрын
My parents are the definition of unorganized. I have been trying to organize myself and the home for a while now and I can’t tell you how incredibly frustrating it is to fight against 4 people.
@mryup61004 жыл бұрын
Oh my...good luck with that
@br44544 жыл бұрын
girl, i get it
@intp99444 жыл бұрын
me too....i am so sabotaged by them u can not imagine i work online and i am studying medicine i am pretty much organized but i can’t tell u how perfectly i could be organized if i could live alone...
@danacuroopen76164 жыл бұрын
I feel you
@Tozzie504 жыл бұрын
girl same..if i had a little more organization in my life i couldve gotten so much further
@ConstantCompanion2 жыл бұрын
When I was growing up, my father had the reputation of being the most productive employee they had. No one could figure it out. He was constantly stopping..shooting the breeze. Never seemed to have anywhere in particular to go. Extremely easy going. He told me when I got older that he would get up around 5 am..three hours before he needed to leave the house. Got himself a cup of coffee..and in the early hours, mentally review his day. What needed doing. What tools he would need..how long tasks might take. Then..when he got to work..would pack his van with the day's tools and supplies, IN THE ORDER HE WOULD NEED THEM, then put them in job pails in the order they would be needed per task in his van. Then..when he got to the job site..which, because of his approach, was always later than anyone else..he would work through the pails, getting his tasks done in a fraction of the time the others took because he wasn't spending timevrunning back and forth to his van, or runs to the shop to pick up missing materials. He would finish hours before everybody else with way more done,, leaving him plenty of time to do what he loved best--shooting the breeze. Probably because of my father, efficiency and effectiveness are my first loves. People don't know how powerful those two little things are. My dad used to tell me exactly the same thing. There are two ways to do things: the right way and again. He NEVER said..my way. It was--the right way..or again. Something else he would tell me: practice the habit of touching things once. Much like putting things back exactly as you found them..folliw through so you don't have to come back to it. For instance..don't leave your keys on the counter with the mail. Put the keys in their place..mail still in hand..throw out the junk mail..sort the rest and put with the others..open and ready to go. Finish everything to its best possible end without moving on. It sounds time consuming and subtractive but it saves HUGE amounts of time. And..btw..my favorite movie is Life With Father. It's an older movie about the man whose considered the father of organizational skills..and so cute!
@lailaatallah18572 жыл бұрын
This is all wonderful … and so instructive. Thank you for taking the time to share about your father, and how he has influenced you.
@Kelly-nb2hr2 жыл бұрын
LOVE the movie Life With Father❤️
@ConstantCompanion2 жыл бұрын
@@Kelly-nb2hr I got it a little mixed up. It's cheaper by the design and Bells on their toes.
@isstrue2 жыл бұрын
I am glad to say I do a lot of similar things. W Organizer
@markbennett84762 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing... this confirms some of my practices not by habit but by necessity.
@teijah19354 жыл бұрын
"Put that thing back where it came from or so help me!" - Mike Waszowski
@billyguns69753 жыл бұрын
i have"nt heard that in yearssssssss
@celestialfaitth3 жыл бұрын
I can hear his voice hahahha
@Jennyw7273 жыл бұрын
Best musical ever
@gracelarson18423 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@azbuckeyegirl95239 ай бұрын
Best comment ever! 😂
@nitariady26005 жыл бұрын
I totally agree with your point which many people don’t see : “The more things you that you own, the more energy and time you have to spend maintaining and storing and keeping them organized.”
@siobhanmulvey2 жыл бұрын
Yes yes and yes. Streamline belongings and your life home organized
@personalexperience36377 күн бұрын
Depends on your mind- most of which goes unused...
@AdrianaSanchez-sl1uq4 жыл бұрын
"TWO IS ONE AND ONE IS NONE", simple as it may seem, has changed my life in an incredible way. I just couldn´t be more grateful about that advice
@imadori10104 жыл бұрын
My dad used to make me and brother write a weekly schedule from what time we would take a bath in the morning to how much will we will use the internet and television time. I thought it was torture but now that im older I NEED A SCHEDULE. love you dad
@AlexandraLynch14 жыл бұрын
I have ADHD. What this means for me in terms of organization is this: I know that I am not going to remember. Whatever it is, I cannot count on myself to remember it, no matter how important it is. Timers and notes and lists are requisite, not optional. I don't have time NOT to take a couple seconds and set the timer or write a list etc. This is a boundary I have to defend when people want me to do things fast, nownownow! I have to do it this way. Full stop. What you say about labeling is spot-on. Absolutely. When we broke down flat-pack furniture to move it, I dropped the screws, as they came off, into a plastic freezer bag, which I had labeled as "Drafting table hardware." I also wrote on it which screwdriver/Allen wrench puts it together. If it has a special tool, well, that drops into the bag too. And this tapes with shipping tape to the underside of the desk/ around a strut, and then the whole pile of pieces get wrapped with pallet wrap to make a coherent package, which then got labeled as to what it was and what room it was going to in the move. This took a little longer. It was worth the time spent. Chaos around me means chaos in the brain.
@lavish_queen77142 жыл бұрын
I have adhd myself, I understand. Our brains are constantly flipping channels.
@rozalinarozalina21882 жыл бұрын
You do not have ADHD. Otherwise you would not have patience to go through this lengthy video.
@LilCraftyNook2 жыл бұрын
Totally hear you. 👍🏻
@LilCraftyNook2 жыл бұрын
@@rozalinarozalina2188 If it’s of interest to us then it is easier. Unless you have it yourself, are a psychologist or ADHD specialist, that comment isn’t helpful.
@Danigirl777772 жыл бұрын
@@rozalinarozalina2188 hyper focus is an aspect of ADHD. If it is something that interests you, then you can have a ton of focus. I have ADHD.
@lauratempestini57192 жыл бұрын
You are the only organizer who talks of people, animals, plants that rely on us for their well being!!! So VERY important!!!!👏🏻
@amandafacundo84924 жыл бұрын
I don't want depression to be an excuse anymore. i'm going to force myself to practice this asap
@fractaldonut-embodythrough41694 жыл бұрын
Don't beat yourself up if you mess up, keep going, you'll get there. Energy begets energy.
@deekshasharma28333 жыл бұрын
An year late, but you'll beat it!
@abdullahkaram34953 жыл бұрын
What is the reason of your depression? Let me counsel you
@countrysister7003 жыл бұрын
A good number of people are misdiagnosed with depression (yes - you ARE depressed) but the depression is the frustration from undiagnosed ADHD. My adult son was recently tested and diagnosed after YEARS of counselling, cluttered life, tardiness, procrastination, lost you-name-it etc. Psychologist says he's in fact ADHD but his high intellect helped him overcome his issues masking them from view or diagnosis. In turn, the doc asked "which parent is ADHD?" because it's usually inherited. Oh My gosh!! I've been depressed since childhood, lost, disorganized, and so on but I just thought I was a mess. Low self esteem etc. Amanda you may indeed be simply depressed but keep this in mind. Hope you're working with a good professional at least for a season to get it turned around. Good luck!
@Julia-lk8jn3 жыл бұрын
Wise decision. I doubt that any single thing clears up depression, but I also know my mood is totall different in a clean, organized environement or one where every single surface, shelf and container is cluttered. Best of luck to you :)
@PracticalInspiration5 жыл бұрын
Your father's a wise man. I know it wasn't the topic today, but the first rule/saying was great, it's not wrong, it just needs doing again!
@hikerhobby12045 жыл бұрын
Oh my, shoveling snow around the mailbox was never correct! I swore I’d be there forever! I’m 60 now and surprised I’m not still shoveling😂
@2adamast5 жыл бұрын
So repeating an action will give a different result?
@hikerhobby12045 жыл бұрын
Adamast : No, doing it correctly leads to a different result.
@arnettaturrentine53014 жыл бұрын
@@hikerhobby1204 I know the feeling
@jaydaboi89904 жыл бұрын
Ashvin Vaidyanathan that’s the definition of insanity
@Bladeclaw001003 жыл бұрын
Wow! I Do all 7 of these things. I might have gone a bit too far to organize my home like an inventory warehouse with quantities, maintenance schedules, grouped items, priority scores, and much more. These skills are really good for organizing a person's of family's budget, income, expenses, and transactions.
@cameroncannon31755 жыл бұрын
When I pack, I write out my list by pretending I'm taking a shower. Starting from hair to toes are my bathroom products (clothing, nail clippers, polish, soap, all that good stuff) and then I pretend I'm going to my class. I pretend I'm having a bad today in class so I would not miss anything. For example: whoops cant find a certain color pen or made a mistake and need white out or i need food around a certain time. Always bring snacks, a water bottle, and a change purse. Mhm prepared
@jacquelineahl9534 жыл бұрын
Me too!
@samsunggalaxya13234 жыл бұрын
Wow... Why did I never thought Of that🤯
@jazzyk40464 жыл бұрын
Omg same! A water bottle, snacks (dates, non sugar dry fruits or nuts) and foldable shopping bag!
@sandyposada92094 жыл бұрын
I'm curious if just by thinking of a bad day, it can cause a bad day.
@piratesahoy50024 жыл бұрын
Yes! I do this for camping trips! I mentally walk through my day exactly as I expect it to happen, and make note of every single item I expect to use during each process. If I'm making breakfast I think about the stove I'm using, setting up the fuel, setting up a wind guard, getting my cup with water ready, lighting the stove with a lighter, placing a lid on my cup, so on. I make a list with everything, take it with me, and use it again to make sure I've packed everything out when I'm heading back home at the end of the trip. This ensures that I'm not under packing or over packing, and keeps me from forgetting anything at home or at camp. It's also pretty easy to do once you get used to it. lol
@angieneal7362 Жыл бұрын
As a naturally organized person, I organize my kitchen by frequency of use. It looks a bit odd to most people, but I organized it for ME, not for them.
@summersundays8738 Жыл бұрын
Functionality over looks!!!! (really tried hard to find another word for some alliteration but alas)
@tinak.p.2585 жыл бұрын
Plan in buffer zones in your schedule for unexpected events and delays. In my experience, people who are always late for everything and get incredibly stressed about every little hick up are those with the unreasonable expectation that everything will go ideally and the world will bow to their plans. Organized people factor in randomness and others with competing agendas.
@yuletak2 жыл бұрын
Lol, my spouse is like that, and yet she rarely does anything to change that. I get the, "Why do we always take so much time to get out the door??" Mind you we have a 5 and 3 yr olds. I'm thinking, well, if you had spent maybe 15-30 min prepping the night before or were more efficient with your time, then you wouldn't feel this way. My spouse is super organizing when she puts her mind to it, but it's not a loop in her mind constantly.
@JscaG8135 жыл бұрын
Wow! You have described the way my mind works! I have never been able to put into words the constant “checks and balances” my mind does in the background. “Mindfulness Loop” is exactly it! I love to be organized and feel like I will drop the ball on something if I’m not! Thank you for making this video. Now I know nothing is wrong with me and I’m not crazy! 😆
@rg12834 жыл бұрын
I used to be a complete mess, hiding behind excuses like "oh I am an organic thinker" until I realized that things were spinning out of control. Ever since I have been on a constant learning curve to become more organized. Thank you. This speaks to my soul.
@IntentionalityMentor5 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing you fathers advice 1. Two ways to do things: right or again 2.Always put things back where you found them
@katuni085 жыл бұрын
It looks like I’m an organized person disguised as a messy one. I do all but the last one. It’s hard to combat an unorganized upbringing, but slowly I’ve been transforming my life. This is so encouraging!
@Shay.babycosmetics2 жыл бұрын
This is me!!!😩 every word
@pamcadd86582 жыл бұрын
Lots of good info! I'm always surprised to hear someone say, "I couldn't print that because my printer was out of ink, so I had to wait until I could buy more." You're going to have to buy it someday - why not stock it before you need it? For example, my husband and I each take a few pills every day (yes, we're old). For each med, we have a small container that holds a two-week supply. When we dip into the backup, we know it's time to get a refill. And when the refill arrives, the small container is restocked for another two week backup. It's a simple system that prevents running out.
@thoughtsdujour46174 жыл бұрын
Mise en place! That’s me😅 saves me a lot of time & money. Recently I’m working on being a minimalist & being more self disciplined when buying things & food. Im also working on being more organized when it comes to electronic files, emails & picture documents. I love organization! I’m glad there’s ppl like me out there😋
@jrank3288 Жыл бұрын
There are two ways to do something, right and again! 💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾 That's so on point
@ItsMe-ox8lm5 жыл бұрын
I had a professor who said: we have no time for doing the things in the right way, but we always have time to do them again?
@sophiasaeger34125 жыл бұрын
Smarttt
@MrsThollo5 жыл бұрын
@@lemonadecandy6796 😂😂😂
@bigvalley49873 жыл бұрын
I seen a plaque with those similar remarks, serving time in the U.S. Navy.🤔
@suzum56893 жыл бұрын
Great concept. Thank you!
@jimmccall63203 жыл бұрын
I'm a retired elementary school librarian. I'm organized to a tee! I can't work if my life wasn't organized. One of my best tips in the kitchen: Put all your recipe ingredients on the left of your bowl/pan, add ingredients as they are called for on the recipe, put used ingredients on the right of the bowl/pan. When finished adding, put everything away before mixing. I also keep a "running" grocery list. That way, I don't run out of anything. Lynne
@financialfreedomin7years Жыл бұрын
In all the years when I was thrown into the deep end, each time in a new job, in a different sector and in a different position, I had to learn new things quickly. Only because I always wanted to structure new knowledge, I was able to absorb it more quickly. So far, I've stuck to the idea that I have to organise everything, think about dependencies and present them visually. It helps a lot! Thank you for your content 😊
@TheAdhdGardener3 жыл бұрын
You have no idea how how helpful this is! My brain is so disorganized! Its tends to be a big issue with adhd so it takes someone such as YOURSELF!! To help us conceptualize n learn how to start being organized. Thanks 🌱 this will def help out my gardening
@solidwaterslayer5 жыл бұрын
im a minimalist there is nothing to organize
@2adamast5 жыл бұрын
One is one. And two wrongs (again) don’t make one right. Very organised people apparentjy suck at math
@tanmaysahoo74165 жыл бұрын
Then you have achieved your goal. Organization is only the means to an end. You don't even need it:-)
@mike-su1is5 жыл бұрын
@@Marie-di5gl He owes someone 1 of everything
@msenecal5 жыл бұрын
@@2adamast but three lefts make a right.
@Mink0twink5 жыл бұрын
Minimalism doesn’t mean you own hardly anything..
@wtv602 жыл бұрын
Start a list and definitely write things down..Keep a calendar and don't rely on your memory, especially for essential tasks. Thanks for this
@jillwilkerson20325 жыл бұрын
I could have written this. I have been practicing organizing for about 30 years and constantly adding to my skills. It took years of training and discipline. I found that the whole key is to invest a little time in the beginning in order to save much more time in the future. Lots of friends want to be able to do what I do but they all openly admit that they don’t want to invest the initial time to get their organized life off and running. This is like saying I want to be able to play the piano but I don’t want to practice to become competent! It takes work but it is well worth the time invested for the time it saves...and did I mention efficiency? I can eat a complete healthy breakfast and prepare to go out in the morning in less than 15 minutes now because I have everything set up in an organized system...unfortunately I am retired now and it doesn’t matter as much now as it did when I had a career...oh well.
@amandac.dossantosritzmann80745 жыл бұрын
"Two is one, one is none" Girls usually learn this one when we start having to carry tampons in all our bags just in case...
@sophiasaeger34125 жыл бұрын
Basically yes
@cheesysups68884 жыл бұрын
Lol so true
@thesnowflakediaries52674 жыл бұрын
omfg the accuracy
@billi59204 жыл бұрын
And us bikers when we carry toothpaste
@mihi-mariedixon73524 жыл бұрын
Or when we pack a weeks worth of clothes for a two day weekend haha
@jonnaborosky88364 жыл бұрын
Just found your channel. Apparently, I'm fairly well organised. 1) Understand the value of back-up and arrange it. If you think it's hard to remember things now, wait till you get older... 2) Labeling is a very good life skill. If you have very little, you might know which parts came from what. Otherwise, labeling makes life simpler and easier. 3)I've never called your mindfulness loop a mindfulness loop. My charting out the aspects of life that need "minding," which are all of them, I've used linear formats for keeping track. Everything is included in side by side columns except a weight loss graph, which goes on the fridge, and a finance graph which goes in a budget binder. If a column isn't enough to hold the needed info for a topic, it'll get it its own folder/binder. Everything's available in one spot, except that weight loss chart. So, I do what you described, just by other names. I do the same for the future by establishing S.M.A.R.T. goals: S=specific, M=measurable, A=accessible or achievable, R=realistic T=timely. 4) Definitely, from preparedness training: 2=1, 1=0. Work in layers of redundancy. 5) I organize by "flow." Example: in the kitchen, I want the sink and dishwasher to be next to each other, with the place to store dishes, pots and pans and silverware close by. I want utensils close to the food prep area, which needs to be within easy reach of the stove nn oven and fridge. Etc. I set up each room according to what I do as I enter and go through the room. I plan which room will be used for what by what I do and need as I walk in the door to the house....etc. I see and follow flow while setting up organization. 6) Everything has a place and gets returned to its place after use. Very difficult when something doesn't have a place. 7)Absolutely. Be deliberate and careful about adding to what you have, because it'll take your time and attention the rest of your life...or until you get rid of it. You'll have to provide space for it, time to clean it, possibly repair or refurbish it, move it, and even getting rid of it takes time and effort. Use what you have as much as possible. What you do have, keep as new looking and functioning as much as possible to keep it as long as possible. All this also saves money, which helps grow your financial chart! Yes, time efficiency is good. With organizational systems, a schedule needs to be determined for how often each category needs to be evaluated. Your dad taught you well. Glad to see you've been able to work his advice into your life. My dad taught me to live on half my income. That's another story altogether. It does take planning and monitoring all other facets of life....hence, organization is mandatory.
@paulalane86382 жыл бұрын
Totally awesome video! 👏 I grew up in chaos and became organized as a way to keep my sanity. I do all 7 and people think I'm nuts, but I save lots of time and have greater productivity. Thanks for confirming I'm not alone!☺️
@alejandro.aranda_5 жыл бұрын
Watching these types of videos makes me want to start all over again. Throw away everything I own and have a fresh new start but I know that’s not how it works. 2019 will be the year of self improvement and creating good habits and good lifestyle.
@Janeknowsuwell5 жыл бұрын
Good luck!
@salvadormora33315 жыл бұрын
How’s it coming?
@Samej945 жыл бұрын
How's your year been?
@mryup61004 жыл бұрын
It's now 2020, how was 2019?
@greggonzalez8593 жыл бұрын
Reading this in 2021.
@sonial.33662 жыл бұрын
I consider myself an organized person, but I notice that a lot of the tools I use are repetitive, example multiple emails and task tools, so I am now organizing and getting rid of organization tools. This video was helpful in reminding me why I organize diligently. Our digital space is just as important as our physical environment . 🌱 😊 Take it one step at a time.
@ariellecalderon85185 жыл бұрын
My mom says something Similar to your dad, that her mom told her and now I tell my son “lazy people work double”
@Julia-lk8jn3 жыл бұрын
In the same vein: buying cheap is paying thrice.
@mohammadbuhamad77443 жыл бұрын
That is really good
@f.eckert4 жыл бұрын
Over the last 5 years or more, I build up to all of the things on this list. I thought I was obsessive, because no other person I know does things that way. But as it turns out now, I am just organized.
@nothinmulch5 жыл бұрын
You say you are not a minimalist, but I would say you are! The keys to minimalism are keeping things that are useful, bring joy, and help you live in the present instead of the past. If a poster of Megaman gives you joy, keep it! The number or things don't matter, its the mental freedom, utility, and long lasting happiness they bring to your life :).
@Keyboard128505 жыл бұрын
I've been thinking lately If I can be minimalist when I like anime and want to buy a lot of releated things in the future.
@2adamast5 жыл бұрын
"One is none" is a weird minimalism If you read anime over and again, there is nothing wrong to keep them
@Keyboard128505 жыл бұрын
@@2adamast Anime is part of my life, it contributed a lot to who I am today. I don't watch often nowadays but that's very important to me. I think you have right here
@kumar-mh6hy3 жыл бұрын
its 200% true :)
@susanvelon84052 жыл бұрын
@@2adamast as
@Glitch_The_Fox5 жыл бұрын
I really liked how you started with a solid "why" when entering into the "Brilliant" ad portion. It really increased the perceived value and I don't see that in youtube sponsor messages. Nice job
@GailNott5 жыл бұрын
Great tips. After years of trying to make myself use a store-bought planner or apps, bullet journaling has been the best way for me to stay organized.
@stephenhill24042 жыл бұрын
Nice video. I do most of these things. When my boss used to visit from abroad I had to find some papers to spread on my paperless desk in case she thought I wasn't busy!
@dianafoster78839 ай бұрын
Lol
@mischake5 жыл бұрын
1, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, check... 1 can use some work and I have to start work on 2, but for the rest i'm set. I'm really organised ^^
@221b-Maker-Street3 жыл бұрын
All this stuff in the face of ADHD and depression, while absolutely on-point, is _incredibly_ hard work - like wading uphill through treacle. 🥺
@Danigirl777772 жыл бұрын
Take care of yourself. You matter. When depressed you will need to do things that prioritize your needs beyond all else. Getting a good nights rest, going outside for a walk (to take in the sunshine and help get endorphins), and eating healthy food will help. If it is too overwhelming, focus on one small goal at a time, and when you develop a habit, add another goal. Hoping you are doing better today! I have ADHD and have had episodes of clinical depression. I wish you well.
@hoxiefam67312 жыл бұрын
Always remember you CAN get through this. And if all else fails eat a good nourishing cooked meal. It can help with the feeling of being overwhelmed.
@onemanenclave5 жыл бұрын
God, modern life is so complicated.
@drpsych35 жыл бұрын
What do you mean? Lol
@summydots5 жыл бұрын
It's very simple, if you make it so.
@debracisneroshhp28274 жыл бұрын
@Fled From Nowhere, No, humans love to complicate life! Stick with "simple", works much better AND, less stressful. 💎🙏😇✨💫🌱🌿🌻🐝🌳🌎💖🙌🙌🙌😺
@NotTheRambo4 жыл бұрын
@@Juan-wk8cr 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 (intended)
@loriguercio43743 жыл бұрын
lol
@Observant_Truth8 ай бұрын
I'm so envious of your digital file organization.
@NeoUno8664 жыл бұрын
I'm a chef and this made me realise how disorganized I really am. I would describe myself as organized but for some reason I haven't translated Mise en place to life outside work.
@julianvale950119 күн бұрын
Brother! 1. Your content is not good. Your content is PHENOMENAL! 2. I really dig your parents! I had the same type! 3. I am not only subscribed but I will be sharing your content across ALL my social media! 4.Keep rising superstar! You are THE TRUTH!
@iamsas7775 жыл бұрын
I use Bullet journaling to keep track of what I have to do, or did. I like it because you can adjust it to what works best with you. I'm using a different notebook to make collections.. lists. Things to do but that I don't think I'd do for a while, etc. The always having 2 things. I do try to have some reserves but it depends on what. Also clearly this rule and the minimalist thinking don't match. I don't think you need to have just an x amount of things to be a minimalist and that you need to get rid of stuff that you use only 1 or 2x a year. Not that I see myself as a minimalist but every now and then I try to declutter. It's been a while though and my spare rooms feel like storage rooms right now.
@ryangierman4421 Жыл бұрын
I have adapted all of these habits as I saw them as “good” things without realizing I was becoming a better organized person. I guess I can now encourage these habits with new insights
@dihanmahmood1325 жыл бұрын
You've really helped me change my life and turn into a really mature and organized teenager. Loveyou man!
@Somewheredownintexas Жыл бұрын
My business paper notebook NEVER spams me with subscription requests and I’ve NEVER lost one. I have gone back and referenced EVERY one of them for refreshers on meetings and key contacts. It’s the best personal business data download system and perfectly compliments my digital iPhone contact list and digital CRM. I wouldn’t be successful in my sales role if I spent this much time pruning data but maybe I don’t have the organization for your industry. This was a nice topic thanks for sharing a diff perspective.
@Ji-wz7ys4 жыл бұрын
wow, i guess i'm really an organized person. i've been doing all of those things for a long time now.
@Younis14463 жыл бұрын
That’s good.. some people are naturally organised! By the way, the videos on the playlist on my channel may change someone’s life! All the best to anyone reading this comment!
@mouyeurlag31693 жыл бұрын
These are all so true. My favorite tip is drawing a dependency map. This would definitely improve my ability to think ahead. Thanks for putting out this video.
@veroneuwirth25684 жыл бұрын
Love it. You have been given huge gift by your parents time and education. Applause for them. And thanks to you, I have two new things to improve.
@terrybuchanan14 жыл бұрын
I do absolutely ALL of these things too, especially 5, 6 and 7! And most people I meet don't have a clue what I am talking about anytime I try to explain to them when doing any of them
@Jess0626-5 жыл бұрын
Therapist: you have anxiety Me: No, I'm mindful of my dependencies
@royvivat1134 жыл бұрын
Got me weak
@shannonsimpson40154 жыл бұрын
Lmaoooo
@凛たる光3 жыл бұрын
I find your videos more useful when I have a relaxed mind than when I'm stressed or depressed. I always over insult myself when things don't go as planned, so videos like this are more salt on the wound when something gets out of hand. But with a fresher mind, I absorb this info more easily, and I have a better chance of following advice. Thank you very much for these videos.
@elcanaldenoemicarro5 жыл бұрын
I can't believe I do all 7 of them. Seriously, my self-esteem just skyrocketed.
@RuthannTúAnАй бұрын
The concept of Hidden Time Wealth blew my mind. It’s like finding a cheat code for productivity and defeating procrastination.
@betterlivingonabudget Жыл бұрын
Your father and I would get along well! Especially the second tenant - put it back where it belongs (which is the cousin of "everything should have a specific place"). I probably get in an extra 1,000 steps / day putting things back where they belong the moment I'm finished using them - I've never regretted it.
@GraceHitchcock-n4zАй бұрын
I’m really impressed with how well-organized this tutorial was.
@Nola1222Piano5 жыл бұрын
Hey Thomas! I just wanted to thank you a lot for all of your videos. Before I found out about your videos I was procrastinating and not making my HS homework. But when I found out about them at the beginning of 2018 you motivated me to actually go work. Now looking back on this year I can't thank you enough. I finally feel like I have the time to do all my homework, I don't really play games anymore, I meditate 10 minutes a day and read 5 productivity books that you recommended. Now I've got better grades, feel happier at school and can still persue all my hobbies. Now the fact is that no one is perfect and I'm still learning and I am still procrasinating and still have bad days. But everyone has this, even the best productivity experts. Still can't thank you enough Nola :-) tl;dr love you thomas
@Nola1222Piano5 жыл бұрын
@@wa57s577 Mathematics, especially Calculus, programming and fitnessing, which I really like. I don't know why, but at the beginning of the year I started working through a Calculus textbook (yes in hs ;-)) and one of my new year resolutions is to start working in it more.
@Nola1222Piano5 жыл бұрын
@@wa57s577 Thanks man
@dnm1451 Жыл бұрын
My mum’s name is Nola 😊😊
@change_nick84304 жыл бұрын
"There are two ways to do something: right and again". THANK YOU for advice man, I just lost a game, I'll do it right this time!
@millennialknowledge3 жыл бұрын
I used to procrastinate on the important tasks of the day and do the smaller tasks first and realised that didn't have enough time to do the important stuff. For me personally, when I started using the Pareto Principle it literally changed my life. Once you realise that 20% of your actions will provide 80% of the results you start to look at things from a different perspective.
@iamhorriblylimited2 жыл бұрын
I started a new role in my organization last year and I have started implementing these tactics (i.e. labeling and writing down all the things, have a back up) and it has made life so much easier.
@sjaaksnell5 жыл бұрын
Hey, what do you think of Lawrence Peter's quote: “If a cluttered desk is a sign of a cluttered mind, of what, then, is an empty desk a sign?” ? Thanks
@rimandriux5 жыл бұрын
I don't know that quote But I rather think of it as an organised desk would be a sign of an organised mind
@leggermentesara5 жыл бұрын
Clear mind :) and ready to be filled with something valuable
@bobbywhite53195 жыл бұрын
It’s probably a witticism
@annmcneal75825 жыл бұрын
Empty brain
@achajee96335 жыл бұрын
Thought it was Einstein who said that, I could be wrong though.
@yoyoyo56214 жыл бұрын
Just have a lot of things to do and lot of responsibilities, you'll naturally learn to be organized. I am organized because I always had tons of responsibilities since I was a kid and i didnt really have anyone else to do them for me
@TinyMedicine5 жыл бұрын
To be Frank, Some people tend to be messy & non-organized outside, where as in their mind, they are a lot organized and have more clarity. Take Einstein for an example. He thought heavily investing time in organizing, was less efficient. So I think, It's okay to messy, if being organized isn't worth the time it takes.
@robertsroberts16885 жыл бұрын
organized chaos
@Rooster_Sailing5 жыл бұрын
Tomatoes and potatoes; sounds similar but is actually different. Einstein is an INTP, brilliant and self-actualized though not someone you's want to depend on to manage a team much less an organization. This isn't an organized mind but a mind of lazer beam focus that dedicates as much thinking as possible to a very specific concept versus looking after yourself, the people around you and dedicating actions toward a specific goal.
@XsDniedd5 жыл бұрын
@Kathryn Mercier ,... in start it looks time taking, but at then end you will save a lot of time by organizing things.
@michikomanalang67335 жыл бұрын
Yeah, whatever works for you! But right now, it's not working for me lmao
@andrefaaa5 жыл бұрын
" So I think, It's okay to messy, if being organized isn't worth the time it takes." Worst advice ever dude, being organized is ALWAYS worth the time it takes. Unless you want to be like everyone else and have the same results everyone else has. Your life is yours to command.
@RobertCastillon-t2i2 ай бұрын
I appreciate how well-organized your videos are.
@Keyboard128505 жыл бұрын
Some years ago when I was more interested in organization etc I thought about planning. I read and watched a lot about this topics but I made my own systems. Everything is simple and effective for me, I use just word and excel. I've been keeping with this for 2~+ years consistently and it's been improving. I think it's releated to this 5th thing from video. Btw if someone needs motivation to be more organized I recommend watching anime baby steps. It changed my life and gave me courage to pursue my dreams.
@Annalorraine2x Жыл бұрын
Good words
@mouses41ss4 жыл бұрын
I lost my job to covid. Being a family of ex army people, I have always being organized. I keep to the same routine every day and I also do some volunteer work. Keeping to a daily routine for me has being my saving grace. I use coloured coded calendars and keep all my documents in the cloud
@kimberlyhornikel7715 жыл бұрын
I am so glad this showed up in my feed! I have a feeling I will be referring to it again and again.
@joys88164 жыл бұрын
I always tell myself to put things back to its place and u have no idea how happy i get when i need it again and find it at the same place i put it last
@nohadarwish5544 жыл бұрын
That awkward moment when you realize that you actually do all 7 things but you always felt self-conscious about it because people think you waste your time.
@tammyking5623 жыл бұрын
Yup
@emilynicole1211703 жыл бұрын
Yessss
@kristenkelly20223 жыл бұрын
That’s not awkward at all… I don’t think you understand the meaning of “awkward.”
@MaiTháiHuệАй бұрын
Hidden Time Wealth is so unique. I can’t believe I hadn’t heard about it sooner. It’s amazing how life-changing this can be for anyone battling procrastination.
@christinafidance3403 жыл бұрын
My husband and I moved onto a 37 foot boat last year and everyone keeps asking how I deal with so little storage and it’s actually one of the best parts about living on a boat! I have more than enough room for all that we need. No, we can’t collect antiques anymore, but we can still visit antique shops and enjoy them! Living in such a small space, it forces us to evaluate items based on how much we actually NEED them and how much use we will actually get out of them and it has been truly WONDERFUL and LIBERATING!
@kimsnader87772 жыл бұрын
2 is 1, 1 is none is my only exception to an otherwise minimalist lifestyle. I always have backups for my various "systems" that keep my life quietly functioning because disruptions happen. Tech gear, power sources, pantry items, water, medications, functional household supplies, critical document storage, dry socks, clean underwear, an extra clothing layer, healthy snacks in the backpack and glovebox, a spare leash and extra poop bags for the demon pup.
@melissaxthai5 жыл бұрын
Tom doesn't call himself a minimalist, but then he says "I do take care to buy things that bring me value, that bring me joy or utility. I don't keep things around if they're not useful to me and let them clutter up my space." Isn't that the core of what minimalism is?
@drpsych35 жыл бұрын
Melissa Thai yes
@skepticmoderate57905 жыл бұрын
Yes. The problem is that many dogmatists think that minimalism means you can't own more than 10 things (obviously exaggeration). I would call that ultra-minimalism or even over-minimalism.
@2adamast4 жыл бұрын
The 52 books seem to indicate that he is also a maximalist, trying to get them all in fear of missing something.
@karenrich90924 ай бұрын
My husband was the Keeper Of the Calendar. All his work commitments, volunteer commitments, and personal commitments were written on his calendar from the dollar store. Managing your time is essential to be sure you finish the important things whether its a service club meeting or your daughter's birthday.
@anksters5 жыл бұрын
I think of myself as quite organised. But there is a big downfall. Whenever I have a holiday and I visit my parents, I become the most unorganized person. My sleep pattern, the food I eat, the amount of things I do, it all changes drastically. Do you have any tips/videos on how to keep organised if you're in a totally different location than usual.
@saloni.sharma5 жыл бұрын
Happens to me as well... Guess we're just too much used to our own systems... 😅😅
@veena_got7igot75 жыл бұрын
Me too
@skepticmoderate57905 жыл бұрын
I experience this as well. Regular mindfulness practice should probably help with this though.
@AlexandraLynch14 жыл бұрын
Well, think back to the latest visit. Why didn't you go to bed on time? If you were just hanging out and talking and having lots of fun, that's when you set an alarm on your phone, and when it goes off say, "I need to go to bed, so I can be the wonderful person you love tomorrow. Good night!" and go to bed. If it's because you have to sleep on the couch and Dad watches TV in there til midnight, that may be time to either get a hotel or bring an air mattress so you can sleep in the sewing room or something. You can brainstorm through ideas to answer each point, and then talk to your parents and say, "Whenever I visit, I get all disorganized, and I feel rotten mentally and physically. Can you help me so that doesn't happen this time? and go through your ideas. "Mom, I have to get a certain amount of sleep or I'm all messed up the next day. So I'm going to set an alarm on my phone, and when it goes off, can you help me with stopping talking and just saying good night to me?" "Dad, I need to go to bed before midnight, so I'm going to bring an air mattress and sleep in the sewing room. That way we can both do what we want to do of an evening. " Most parents of adult kids want their kids to be as happy and healthy as possible, and if you can offer a good solution, they will often accept it.
@petmomful22604 жыл бұрын
@@AlexandraLynch1 I would just embrace the fun and novelty of the moment and stay up late laughing and talking.
@Manifestingmoon3 жыл бұрын
Thank you, I'm really struggling right now. This helped a lot, mind is all over the place!
@joannajoel5 жыл бұрын
Ah! Only now I'm realising that I'm such an organised person! All 7 tick ☑️ :) Thank you!
@PinkSheep200511 ай бұрын
After watching just one of your videos I have realized that I absolutely am not a natural organizer! I’ve taken away that I can grow in that skill and plan to begin from now on 2024 🎉bc absolutely ALL areas of my life are still in chaos currently bc overnight I became my moms caregiver from her fall (TBI Traumatic Brain Injury, now 7 years later her Dementia from all the falls) so when I have solved problems and issues with information, systems, routines, and all of that is not ORGANIZED bc I’m not naturally even thinking ORGANIZED with this kind of depth… I have hard earned pockets of organization! Thank you for making this video, it definitely will help smooth out life in the controllable areas.
@TheLifeFormulaa5 жыл бұрын
Tracking everything is a great way to be organized
@Inquire985 жыл бұрын
"Thank You", thank you VERY much 😀 Your presentation was REALLY good, and I will follow through 😎🤔😎
@Mamadriggs2 жыл бұрын
organized folder structure on your computer -- OMG... had to subscribe because i'm fairly certain this is a love language.
@JensUhlmannOfficial5 жыл бұрын
But DID you brush your teeth ?
@BenyQuinonez5 жыл бұрын
Uh... dammit!!
@quintespeed5 жыл бұрын
No friends, but at least you still have money.
@pootee84125 жыл бұрын
Lmao
@Ellen_Seokjin5 жыл бұрын
They must take a note of that, I think.
@nicolecorallo27685 жыл бұрын
Aggggh how did you know
@InnerWorkGuideShobhali10 ай бұрын
It's such a relief to have systems that work for you - though, in my experience, it does take some getting used to working with these systems because it's so easy to go back into your mind's unhelpful patterns driven by anxious energies.
@namratapdr5 жыл бұрын
Just what I needed before going into 2019 :)
@impremanshu5 жыл бұрын
True
@esra_feelit3 жыл бұрын
I enjoyed all parts of this video. Not only will I use this and watch again over with a pen and notebook but I will have my 8 yr old daughter watch. Love it! I would like to hear more about your parents input in your life as a child. I’m having difficulty with my kids being mindful and skillful. Thank you!
@joaodfbravo5 жыл бұрын
I do all 7 things as I expected. I know I am over-organized though, it is also a productivity killer
@whatstheplayofficial2 жыл бұрын
preach brotha preach
@aliciaeasterwood2 жыл бұрын
First time hearing "Two is one. One is none." Definitely like that concept of having a backup if it prevents you from interrupting your life.
@DeanaDuquesne5 жыл бұрын
Mindfulness loop = ITTT (If This, Then That)
@samuellamour68003 жыл бұрын
I would really like to see a more in depth breakdown of the process of building mindfulness loops. Maybe a recommended dependency list to help people building a system for themselves consider dependencies they might not have thought of but are likely to have. I'm really loving your work right now. It's just what I need.
@andreeaursachi84115 жыл бұрын
You changed my life! ❤️
@VươngAnMậtАй бұрын
The way Hidden Time Wealth dives into the concept of productivity is mind-blowing. Hidden Time Wealth tips are pure gold, and I wish more people knew about them.
@j.m.70565 жыл бұрын
Bingo! I proudly do all 7. Good explanations and examples.
@saloni.sharma5 жыл бұрын
I do 5 of them..if you declutter, you already don't have to think too much about stuff having its own place. His list is brilliantly crisp and valuable...
@pasharya52293 жыл бұрын
After watching several videos, i am truly impressed with the pattern of how creative you transition from the content to the promotion of your ads! Hahaha I am learning more than the content ! Humor and wit combined? Auto subscribe! Haha PS: Handsome looks not mentioned but included. 😂