Women are now chasing this kind of guy and he's not even rich

[@JessicaOS]

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[@Ziggle-ky9kv]

There's a book called Casanova Playbook of Magnetism, and it talks from body language and conversaton starters to dark mind tricks and flirting through texts, it's the real deal

[@emmakudos]

Once you’re principled as a man, this won’t feel like a game or hard to do. You naturally exhibit these attributes without stress and these ladies will fall at your feet. I’m a witness!

[@jerrygumisiriza9417]

Yes sir! 😅

[@NoName-m5o]

The ladies will. The rest will still seek Tyrone and cry fowl when he dumps them!

[@maverickharrell9061]

@@NoName-m5o Tyrone here. I agree.

[@BreezeeGreenz]

True.

[@thadevilzadvocate]

​@@maverickharrell9061I'm not calling myself Tyrone that's not my name however when you stop caring and giving a shit it changes the whole dynamic. I wished I've done this shit years ago instead of coming off as a non dominant simp.

[@Velwano]

Somebody once said women are a school you'll never graduate from 😅 . That is why I prefer women that want me more than I want them. Thank you Jessica. You are appreciated.

[@khaeyenen3163]

Too many people in the world worried about the wrong things 🤦🏾‍♂️.

[@darnellmiller1215]

Too many people in this world doing...the wrong things.

[@joneschilufya867]

Only works when she likes u. If she doesn’t care about u the moment u disappear from sight that’s it for u.

[@abrham.]

@@joneschilufya867 that's my problem.. Jessica please do on that topic 💔🤣

[@ckoriablack]

😂😂that's about right

[@moxine_]

There's plenty of women in the world, meaning there's pretty high chance you'll find at least one that likes you

[@SamuelSani-sc3rk]

It's better in that case. At least you know she doesn't like you. Saving your time and resources 😅

[@stan4288]

@SamuelSani-sc3rk exactly..how is that not a win win? Men really need to get out of that scarcity mindset...makes us look desperate and pathetic

[@derwoodhamburger]

When they say they want someone who is emotionally available, it's a huge trap. Don't even be available

[@asdfxcvbn746]

that means they chased emotionally unavailable bad boys in the past & they have a lot of emotional baggage, which they will unload onto you.

[@What-vo5bx]

@@asdfxcvbn746yup. A lot of traumatized people spreading their trauma around through their relationships. Most of us are traumatized in the west. Capitalism has made it much worse. Not that I have a solution, but putting a lot lore resources towards healing and preventing abuse/ trauma would go a long way towards solving many of our problems

[@Hardy-uu9ve]

@@asdfxcvbn746 Absolutely correct

[@kleinosim-asu7428]

@@derwoodhamburger ever since I became emotionally unavailable… it makes me sad to say but oh my God, the way women look at me hit different Like my female coworkers asked me to help them with a favor, I told them I will help them on Friday at 3:45pm before I go for basketball. It wouldn’t have taken me 5 minutes to help them today. But I can’t let them know I’m available when they ask. I’m free at my own convenience, not yours. Now not only do they need me, but they’re actively looking forward to me.

[@vsatrader]

I don't chase women, the way I see it is that if you have to chase her, you are low value. If she has to chase you, then you are high value. Women like men who are different to the other men. 90% of women are chasing the 1% of men, so why not concentrate of building your own infrastructure and let the women come to you. You get to choose, but the one you want might slip through the cracks, and this has happened to me, but I just don't care enough and let them go.

[@jeffersonsmith2991]

Men have work to do, boys have plenty of time to play. Men require time to meditate and strategize their next move in silence. This time and space must be respected. When this is understood and respected, the payoff is loyalty to that intuitive woman.

[@muhammadnawaz5039]

Familiarity always breeds contempt. Scarcity increases value!

[@wisdombliss-et9gg]

agreed

[@Tin841]

Amazing video. Thanks so much for speaking up in an objective and non biased way. Today, you'll either find a feminist or misogynistic type of content. We need someone like you to speak up the truth in the middle ❤

[@levisharpe9121]

This is dangerous for men as this may attract sadistic women. What happens when she finally wins that prize and that man opens to her, she may lose interest because she was not genuinely interested into you but just the idea that you were a challenge.

[@hellyeahedeonyia2296]

You have to make it a personality. When started, it was more of an acting. But about six months down into this regularly behavior, it started being a part of me. Being reserved and indifferent made me control my anxiety, jealous less, and not even scared to lose a woman. Now with this knowledge and reality, it became part of me.

[@TommyVXOLucia]

Never take advice from them. Only advice from the men she chases

[@adesinaoluwayemi9694]

My sentiment,what happens if you then get married to her and you are now always available,then she gets tired of be relationship and want to leave 😂😂

[@CashMasterStackzzS]

@@adesinaoluwayemi9694this guys don’t want to get married they just want options .

[@Media-oh8xc]

This has always been the case. Sometimes even if you’re not busy you should say you are, don’t be too available it’s not attractive.

[@allanbahati1942]

Excellent video! Thank you for sharing these sis. Love the advice.

[@nwankwocallistus4096]

This is true only if she finds you attractive. If she she doesn’t like you, being unavailable will make u forgotten!!

[@TonyRush21]

While what you are saying in in essence true, remember that overtime, people can grow to love someone who they never thought they would be attracted to.

[@percyvolnar8010]

@@TonyRush21 Yes, but time is time. And time is short. I typically dont want anything to do with a woman who can't immediately spot that i'm special. They seem to KNOW instantly when a man is cheating on them, but they NEVER seem to know when they are in the presence of a 'Special man' or when a man is unhappy. And believe me, my inbox is full of email messages from women ive met years ago who NOW realize my special power and are wondering where ive moved to.

[@cherubfilmz3218]

Yes! bcos..., now you're Unavailable.

[@truth5573]

Yes you are right but she may have not find you attractive because she never experienced the need for your quality, when she grows with experience she will never get you of her mind and you are kind she will find peace and love, you literally get this kind of woman if you are her first man , she won't value it until she experienced more life

[@soulemanbony9239]

@@nwankwocallistus4096 😀 but if she doesn’t like you why are you still there in the first place place

[@SoJesusChristMusic]

This was it Jessica 🥳 And I know this is right because when you give a woman your all…she uses it and then doesn’t want you when there’s nothing left…but if we do as the woman does “self love” and “self first” we are now attractive. Strange how that works…but it’s true.

[@Dboy-s8v]

Relationship without attention kills affection. Don’t be unavailable for a partner that love you

[@abdoulnasser4342]

I like Jessica OS.she's confident.

[@K3MU3L]

Why am I even paying for a therapist when I can simply come to this channel... smh THIS is the video I needed at this point in my life.

[@so3710]

Noted! Be selectively unavoidable. Cheers for sharing 👍🏼

[@godefroidniyonkuru4377]

Jessica is changing my life for real. I am new ti this channel but i have watched many of her videos . You are excellent Jessica.

[@trevorross1311]

Once u get the balance down, ur good to go. That's the key to it. 🔑

[@jonathanjacob5453]

Exactly and the balance is looks and money. Or you drop your standards. But her is the tricky bit because what you really want from a woman is genuine desire the most important thing is looks.

[@greymaterresources]

Seems Jessy being listening to Davido music track titled :Unavailable! Gracias Sis

[@RJ-ox3gi]

I literally thought about that song lol

[@dasfx2895]

Them no dey see me...

[@operanews64]

@@greymaterresources but why is Davido always available for chioma...

[@benjaminspann1892]

Thanks for the advice, Jessica O!!!

[@shadrachwiredu956]

THIS IS SO TRUEE. MY MED SCHOOL STUDIES, TAKING A GOOD PART OF MY TIME, PROVES THIS. EVERYTHING THAT IS HARD TO FIND INDEED IS RESPECTED, YEARNED FOR AND SORT AFTER. NO CAP!! GREAT CONTENT

[@atanasshalamanov6437]

If a man believes that only money can create a healthy relationship, so he doesn’t know anything about long term relationship and the dullness of life as a couple.

[@christophersemenya9890]

Thanks 🙏👍 to everyone of the crew who made this episode possible

[@YalaMan01]

She either likes you or she don't. Forget it.

[@chineduokoroafor1916]

Very correct

[@simeonkanu4392]

Yep 😅

[@YalaMan01]

@@simeonkanu4392 😂😂😂

[@samuelmawulikplim8126]

Heal bro 😂

[@Ogiftedgrm]

Right😂😂💯

[@gordonallen9095]

Thank you for your insight. LOVE your channel......

[@Joeybeautiful_]

The greatest thing that ever happened to this world is “women,” and the worst thing that happened to this world is “women.”

[@MURCKINDOR]

No! Big no! With biblical standpoint you have no proof

[@Whitehorsehub]

@@MURCKINDOR EVE

[@MrOJohn]

🎯 and I love them all too, but spot on lol.

[@darkliter7]

A conundrum

[@frankiegunnz8066]

That makes no sense. It's like saying you're tall yet you're short...... 🤣🤣🤣

[@MJCdesigns]

Unavailable will be forgotten.

[@Wellfruits]

You don't have to be available all the time for each other., let there be some breathing space. But do make sure the little time you two spend together are meaningful and worth it..👌🏽

[@speedoflight3395]

You can only be unavailable if deep inside you actually don’t care about them. But if deep inside you care about them, you can’t not be available.

[@YalaMan01]

Someone sensible finally said it. I don't have energy for games

[@speedoflight3395]

@@YalaMan01 I tried it bro and it didn’t work. I was hurt during the process. If guys that are unavailable are getting chased by women, it’s because deep inside, these guys are sincerely not available. If they cared a bit, there’s no way they can be unavailable. Emotions are strong.

[@LordAbelking]

Not true. You can actually do care for a person but make yourself unavailable to an extent. I was that guy who is always very available and it has backfired severally but when I began to be unavailable from time to time things began to work well.

[@speedoflight3395]

@@LordAbelking Bro, for me, it came with some kind of hurt that I couldn't resist for too long. I quit the game. I'm not gonna be a simp but I'm gonna be original.

[@shedparker]

@@speedoflight3395I agree. All the time I put in trying, drained me mentally and emotionally. Now that I’ve put myself first, they come left and right but I’m uninterested.

[@Uk-star001]

U are so mature u really spoke with wisdom this is exactly how l roll when ladies thought that I am a play boy but am not

[@housenybah8908]

This one is Powerful

[@davidbraxton6600]

YOUR ADVICE IS FASCINATING JESSICA ❤

[@FrantzSaincyr]

Thank you so much for your video, I appreciate it. I really like you and your accent too

[@king676uutttgt]

That's right. I spent my time away from my sickness when I was in school, but women in my class valued me. They didn't know where I lived nor my parents. I was quiet. Nowadays, I found women going crazy about me even those whom I don't know and those who never saw me not even once

[@rahabmugambi7697]

The deep research you make bring out the content very well.thanks dear

[@KwameDerrick-kr3yg]

Great content 👍

[@hadexsunwealth6791]

You're of the best dating advicer in whole galaxy.

[@yangkong8155]

Jessica OS is very professional. A very good coach. I wish I knew you before 2016 when I was chasing a lady who thought I was stupid later I become unavailable and she start to chasse le but I ended up by having someone else just to make her feel stupid too.😊

[@Miuzikah]

your points are clear and simple ❤

[@neworleansmade504]

I think the key is to only give her your time if she worth it and she gotta show it

[@jonathanjacob5453]

What if she is not interested in your time? You can’t be unavailable to someone that doesn’t care.

[@neworleansmade504]

@@jonathanjacob5453 well move on to the next one

[@emmanuelagbafor2027]

Thanks for sharing Jessica🎉

[@patricktopsam7954]

Jesicca ❤you a gem....well done with the good work..i once was a bad guy when i become nice people took it for granted and guess what today 😅they going to see chance and bounderies no time for Mr. Foolish nice

[@jomufilms]

Basically looks, self sufficiency an independent mindset

[@abdulazizumumin3328]

Thank you ❤

[@jobistrange1668]

The key is detachment.

[@dfaro8453]

Exactly bro. Don’t be attached to no female. I see too many simps crying for their ex or deleting themselves. Jesus, we gotta get our balls back. 😅

[@pboi5339]

In simple words she said whats yours will always be yours !!.

[@abrahamdeuapiok3497]

How long should this game of unavailability has to continue? You can't remain unavailable forever otherwise there's no point in wanting that relationship in the first place. This is my opinion: if they are not okay with your availability then they prove not to be the right ones period.

[@ROBINKOSGEI99]

@@abrahamdeuapiok3497 Adapt to the game G.... 🤣

[@KantankaOsafo]

@@abrahamdeuapiok3497 How long can you be unavailable to someone? Is unavailability the start of a relationship or getting into a relationship?

[@darnelljones7220]

I’m just gonna keep being the genuine thorough type of dude that’s not needy that doesn’t pressure women I’m not gonna play games & my woman well come

[@Its_superdave09]

Amazing tips here Had to watch again so as not to misconstrue it Because, at some point, I was thinking IF one shouldn't be available but striking a balance was the answer along the line as I watched Thanks Jess! 👍🏾

[@JessicaOS]

Glad it was helpful!

[@donpedro6177]

A great video ❤ Keep up the great work Also love your voice too

[@chiefk587]

A book that contains instructions about understanding women psychology in full would contain an infinite number of pages.

[@sigmatruth]

Good presentation on how complicated women are and you are right on each point. The richest, most handsome, busiest, most unavailable man in the world can be unattractive to women just because they think he is available. Its all in the mind of the woman so sadly we have to ensure we are perceived to be busy even when we are super busy. Gentlemen keep improving and be sure to present yourself well to women even if it feels like playing games.

[@RodneyFernando-p7n]

You opened me a new window to my life.i m from srILANKAN .🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@pipio4593]

I love your voice, Jessy.

[@Tate-h1t]

One of your best uploads. Well done

[@royalbloodlines1]

Nah forget all that Be this guy crap! Be your Damm self, stand on that & make these women respect it. & If they choose to get on yo program let em ride, if they choose not to... let em Go! Simple & Simply done💯

[@josephdanso21]

Thank you for this message

[@jamesaruna6869]

Mama you are the right person for subject,

[@aljoumeyli]

I have always been that man thanks to Allah. I'm not rich and I don't even own a car. But I don't get impressed by so called modern women.

[@larrysouthern5098]

Very good attitude... Oh ..you don't need a car... New technology is getting people around without a car... Press on.. 🐺

[@michael20049]

Then go for the tradition one

[@user-rt3ns3dn7w]

You really should up your game and get a car. Women don't want a guy on a bike.

[@xxxyyy-iy4hf]

Thank you Aunt Jess.

[@samuelrubaba-jk1ji]

Great video love you always Jessica

😂😂 Guy’s women don’t come with instruction manuals, so we have to make our own training manual while being unavailable! Gosh-that sounds like playing games!😂😂

[@What-vo5bx]

You’re playing the game whether you want to or not. “Not playing the game” is just strategy. Sorta like “ you’re always paying for it” or other true clichés you can think of. Lol 😂

[@jrcrit8843]

@@What-vo5bx no not at all. You can just choose not to play games with ppl. Not that hard to do.

[@What-vo5bx]

@@jrcrit8843and that’s a strategy…😅

[@What-vo5bx]

@@jrcrit8843 You do realize that that's strategy right? 😅. You're in the game man. face it...

[@jrcrit8843]

@@What-vo5bx that’s not a strategy. I’m already in a relationship without having to play games. Only kids play these little games and men who have never been with a woman before and women who are being malicious to begin with. If you feel you have to play some chess match just to get a woman then your purpose in life is greatly diminished. Believe or not, not everyone wants to live life on the internet and swallow all of this garbage that deluded both men and women. If you focus on your business and health, a lot of things can actually work itself out.

[@protechgh9429]

Scarcity, when something is not easily accessible makes it valuable. In my perspective, your value is determined by what you put on the table and the people sitting around the table. If they need what you bring then you are of value, if they do not need it then you are of less value. Also, the frequency of what you give can determine its value level. Should value be determined by what you do, who you are or is it dependent on the person receiving it ?

[@igbana_ai]

Am I the only one that didn't fully agree with her point but just watched to the end because of the softness of the tone of her voice and the video quality?

[@mrmoraks]

This one video is a whole book on women psychology! Wow!

[@juhgfdsapiyhhnnxc3517]

Your production is news level honestly 😂 it’s crazy watching on KZbin. This is like tlc 😂

[@LordMalemo]

You need to do your home work again Jessy, as this only applies to those who wants a short term engagement like in a hit and run set up but if you want a long term sustaining relationship, you need to choose your woman wisely and do more than that. Otherwise, as you are unavailable she will be busy exploring other guys peacefully without your interference until you meet again and before you know it, you will be in an open undefined relationship. Who wants that!? Coz you can't just appear and disappear in her life the way you want. She is not stupid.

[@pboi5339]

Did you understand her well my brother ,😂she just say don,t chase and whats literally yours will always be yours @Jessica Os

[@CashMasterStackzzS]

Wrong term to use unavailable. Should be ambitious, porpoise driven or goal oriented.

[@menzelimtunzi8514]

If she likes you..she likes you! period!

[@kwamecliff4578]

Thank you Jessica

[@fergusonmbanali740]

I love you, Jessica, and I love your show as well

[@JessicaOS]

thanks

[@brightnyagumbo1166]

@@JessicaOS your cool vibe is making me like you fr jess!

[@kinggeorge5210]

Thanks for this, I have to religiously keep this going henceforth

[@cjbigboone]

Thank you for this video. I needed to hear this

[@henrygjean-baptiste3022]

Good insight 🙏

[@JessicaOS]

Glad you think so!

[@777lucifero]

the secret is to not have a damaged childhood and not end up in another narcisistic/abusive relationship (or being the abuser yourself)

[@microb399]

Just work on you and understand what a good addition to you looks like! Too many ppl that lack the qualities necessary want way more than their value projects! Know your lane

[@hipiri]

It's crazy, the amount of games and mind juggling you need just to get a girl or a girls attention. It's why most of us stay single.

[@PositiveVibesOnly5774]

Hi, Jessica. Your message is point on❤

[@cheffdread]

Very helpful and useful information.

[@JessicaOS]

Glad you think so!

[@ibrahimiddrisu2589]

As a man just do your possible best to your woman in relationship or marriage from your heart and leave the rest to her to decide that's all,there's no way women will be satisfy with a man's effort towards her anything you do be it good or bad she will complain so you don't need to impress woman,the hustling and bustling in other survive is not easy,life is too short so do what you can and enjoy life to the fullest Brethren

[@Kuleedinus-zy4zk]

True

[@mosesagwandah7973]

@@ibrahimiddrisu2589 I agree with you.

[@ahmadhussaini4406]

You're a Boss lady🔥🙌👏😎

[@motema_mpembe]

Jessica, you're a true gem! Keep up!

[@christiannoriega9509]

Jessica O you are O_o WEXCELLENT!!!! Thanks for sharing this knowledge with us!

[@icollinsharvey]

Insightful J!

[@EricKellyn]

There are only two types of men that women chase, the first one is a rich man and the second one is a very handsome man

[@fletchamuhalia9103]

😂😂😂 really

[@Yawziggyentertainment]

Madam it doesn't work on this generation anymore. Just get Money woman go come😅😅

[@nanakwame4329]

Stop hunting for opportunist

[@jamescollier7360]

@@nanakwame4329 they are all opportunist.

[@Yawziggyentertainment]

@@nanakwame4329 be the enn😂

[@godsoracle1212]

@@Yawziggyentertainment 😂😂😂 cut through it 😂😂😂

[@atocampoari8575]

say it again oo bro...edey funny me sef.

[@demeuredusaintesprit2709]

Africa has rich people too 😊

[@dangaravictor5988]

You are just the BOOM!!! Great video.

[@jonathanjacob5453]

*bomb

[@herbertsjeffrey]

I love your stats. very good point is made

[@JessicaOS]

Thank you

[@AnimeDailyDosage]

Thanks Maamie really needed that

[@excellencyphenom5307]

I like your content J! You are definitely a Vibe!🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🎯💯✌️

[@JessicaOS]

Thank you so much 🤗

[@Lionofthewest1980]

Real talk ❤💯

[@calixcalistus6711]

Incredible video ❤

[@georgejuma9221]

Hello Jessica . It's quiet along time I have been away from the show .Mmm, I can attest to this senior. Alady has been going after me for the last 3 years by telling me how she has feelings towards me and she is willing to meet me but I'm not interested in her despite the fact that I keeps her heart alive..she doesn't know my physically appearance but always begs me to meet her telling me how she loves me and thinking of marrying me not knowing that I'm afamily man and I respect my wife as I respect God 😅😅😅

[@asdfxcvbn746]

its a scam. probably a dude behind a computer screen lol smh

[@ayo.tunjii283]

Thanks for the new info Jessica 😇

[@JessicaOS]

Any time!

[@germainvowotor7022]

Beautiful inside ❤️🙏🏾

[@ks_pro1]

True!! True!! And true!!!