12 Reasons why she never texts first but responds when you do

[@dalucci3757]

Fellas stay on your purpose and focus on building yourself and life. She's not yours it's just your turn

[@judgejoshua8544]

Point 100

[@chandawealth]

💯

[@trigger60]

Haha, Darius !

[@seanbonds4516]

Facts!!

[@Mrfantastic-hp2en]

🤣🤣🤣🤣 just say you are scared of women

[@airpegasus5167]

It’s No Such Thing As “Too Busy”. People Make Time To Speak To Those Who They Wanna Talk To Trust Me.

[@willholmes1690]

Facts

[@kyeijoseph9572]

Exactly. If she likes you,she never sleep without you crossing her mind ,she would mostly definitely find a time within her 24-hr time frame to reach out to you

[@Denys_McShephard]

NO ONE is ever too busy to text someone they're interested in. If she's too busy to text, she probably isn't interested at all. Flee my brother. Trust me, someone who is interested in you will have to create time amidst their busy schedules.

[@Sunshine-nj8cd]

I have a friend in another country I'll text him and he will take hours or days to text me back so I leave him text me first

[@enterte]

I know you have had stories, of such but trust me someone can be really busy, And they not just ignoring ya

[@Denys_McShephard]

@@enterte It happened to me. There was a time I was completely busy to a point I would only have 2 hours of sleep and I didn't get time to touch my phone unless I'm receiving calls. But weirdly, I would find time to send even just one text to someone I was interested in a text to just let her know that I was thinking about her. And that simple text went a long way and ignited what it is right now ☺️

[@adrianwalton4489]

@@Sunshine-nj8cd I guess you're shining in that person life....if that person can't take 10 seconds to respond to you even before they go to sleep it means they aren't interested...the same way as you..

[@Denys_McShephard]

@@adrianwalton4489 Very true

[@Meetoss76]

Moral of the story. Women play alot of childish games and want a man to chase them. It's a waste of time. Fellas stay on ur purpose and get money.

[@macbook6507]

💯🤝🏾

[@bonifaciomuanda4497]

I've been loving your tips about this complicated matter which love is... Being sincere it has been so helpful to me.

[@bonifaciomuanda4497]

For a long, I fell in love with a sweet nice girl who had been at first glance the love of my life, we got on a date for one year and a half, but unfortunately, she broke up with me, and I was desolated. But I still love her, and we still talk sometimes, but I cannot forget her. So what can I do to overcome this situation... Any help, please!!!

[@paurodriguez8662]

@@bonifaciomuanda4497 let her go bro

[@johnndirangu1053]

Which is true

[@kujokannibal7081]

People make time for what they want. If she don’t make time for you, she don’t want you, and you shouldn’t want her. Move on and focus on yourself and your goals.

[@MickyTubbs1985]

PRECISELY!👏YOUR STATEMENTS SAYS IT ALL😏

[@SamuraiKensei276]

You cannot assume things so fast. A bond between two persons, needs reciprocal trust and faith to grow fond, as well as a flower requires warm and light to bloom. In the end, you get what you give.

[@StreetPurcell]

True

[@Oyzatt]

She's not invested like you, grow spine and move on. She's not the only woman who will make you happy, whatever happiness means to you. Great job Jessica ❤️

[@moneymagnet743]

I was raised/taught if a guy is interested he will pursue you.. so i could really like a guy but until I feel safe w/him I won’t reach out/text or call first. So guys for some women this is the case. They may really care and be interested but need time or need assurance that you’re genuinely interested. Also if you want her to reach out more TELL HER! Have the conversation and let her know that you’d like her to reach out more then go from there.

[@abdallahsaid7741]

true

[@ivanmalau4945]

pfft this is so honest but it doesn't work sadly. Women want to feel special like everyone else but Women take things a step further by stringing guys along until they feel "safe".

[@moneymagnet743]

@@ivanmalau4945 good point but keep in mind not all women are the same:) women who string guys along, in some cases, have been hurt before and have yet to heal or may have traumas from younger years and have yet to heal their inner child.. they’re also men who need to do their inner work as well.. I just think it’s important to communicate.. its scary at times but you’d be surprised, with the right person a simple, honest conversation can go a long way..

[@ivanmalau4945]

@@moneymagnet743 true but that conversation never happend and ig ot does then its always misinterpreted. Your comment is very ideal that how it should be but very rarely you have tgis conversation and things become clear like that. Either (A) woman makes an i have a boyfriend move, (B) guy starts to lose interest because nothing is happening. (C) Girl or guy overthinks things and nothing happens. Or (D) Girl or guys just strings you along irregardless. Point is you are right but my stance would be everyone has (baggage) history/experience. No one is a blank slate when you meet them therefore we should take our time to understand ourselves before jumping into a serious relationship. Some people make the mistake of thinking that some people can fill voids in their lives and thats simply not true. If you empty you need more time ro figure out why. No one can fill your broken pieces. No amount of sex/money will do that.

[@farleny3827]

Has a woman I agree,we wanna know if his genuine

[@shady8910]

To put it bluntly guys. If she never texts you first, you are not her 1st option. Anything else is just a bunch of excuses.If you are important enough for her, she will take those 5 minutes from her whole day to text you first. You might be her 2nd, 3rd, 4th or even 5th choice. You are a backup. Or not even that. You need to realize she's not texting only with you but at least a few other men. And you should do the same, text other girls and not get hang up on one girl thinking its "the one". Texting first shows interest. If she never does it, she's NOT interested, you need to accept that and walk away. Don't waste your valuable time in this short life on women, who use you as a filler for their boredrom, ego lift or as emotinal "best friend" tampon.

[@JohnM...]

...and fir gods sake don't be a Simp.

[@marvinkalela3528]

Wonderfully articulated 100%

[@layback76]

Facts! Men stop simping!

[@jeremiahhoffman5797]

I agree. I always text first but after a while I realize I've texted first most of the time, I'll stop and give her a week to text first then if she doesn't then it either bye bye or I be short with her. I'll move on to someone who can treat me equally. I always get the whole blah blah like I'm a bad person. Again like what you said....it's excuses and move on.

[@scottanstine379]

“Only women, children, and dogs are cherished by society. A man is only valued based on what he can provide. It’s amazing how women don’t have to actually better themselves to be valued, pursued, or admired.. it takes blood, sweat and tears to build a man. Always remember Men have to “BECOME”. Women just “ARE”.

[@michaelfarojoye1618]

Well scripted, well said!

[@kycuganda8087]

Everyone is ever busy but what matters who needs him or her. You can't be busy for some one you love

[@desireedesenna9673]

Great saying. Thanks

[@theblackknight9783]

Only time a woman will text you first is if she’s looking for you to give her money or if she needs you to pay one of her bill(s)

[@Manmadecontent]

U ain't lien

[@joemagaya3678]

Sometimes you just pass through your youtube home feed looking for a football highlight and then boom you see the title and its something thats relating to your relationship and then end up watching the episode and actually learn... 👏 amazing

[@KCN007]

Women do the devils work.

[@tedsdogwalking]

It's fairly easy for me. I only put in the same amount of effort that I am receiving. If I texted the last message, then it is their turn. If the message is short, my message will be short. I consider messaging to be the same as a conversation. My turn, your turn. You made a very fine point at the end, you need to know your friends personality type. I am introverted, but, I have time for those who are my friends. A good rule that I keep in mind is, you must value yourself as much as the other person. No matter how busy a person is, if they truly value you, they will find time for you. As I said, earlier, I put in the same effort that I receive. I think it's only fair. And, I treat messaging as a conversation, when we can't actually talk in person. Just my thoughts. Great video, with a lot of valid points.

[@akpansamuel3962]

The fact that you just went straight to the point is what I love most

[@thexavianfamily7584]

I met this girl, we hung out several times, and even hooked up. Everything was going well, we would text almost everyday and all of a sudden she would take more than 5-8 hours to reply back or even days to reply back. I would be the one to initiate the texting from the get go. I started pulling back and have completely stop chasing her. It’s so strange because when we did hang out everything went well we would both have a good time. But, as soon as it comes to connecting through texting she is a completely different person almost uninterested. Anyway, as soon as I started pulling back she would text me back and would say if I was not interested in her that it was okay and that she would stop bothering me. WTF I don’t get her and quite honestly I was tired of playing games so I just stopped engaging with her.

[@zhana4518]

I reckon that was probably the right decision.

[@420kalicharan]

Girls do this I have experienced and would never commit they did it. They would put the blame on you instead. They will say that you are cheap or you are making it a issue without any reason or you are over thinking. This is just a shit hole until unless girl is attracted towards the boy. More we dive in, more shit we receive

[@alisaiful6717]

Good move.. You don't wasted your energy and time for somebody who are not interested with you

[@JayB-cj1jl]

Lol. Went through the same thing about 2 weeks ago! I stopped reaching out to her and been in No Contact mode ever since. Her birthday was Monday and she never got that "Happy Birthday" text. I don't plan on pursuing her ever again.

[@olakunle8393]

The funny part is, after ignoring a dude, then you stop texting her, and she see you with another female, she look surprise and be mad. What I known for sure is, if a woman want you, she would create time.

[@timmorisma4800]

Everything this woman is saying is the main reason why so many women are single.

[@carolinasown]

Agreed!

[@GammaShotz]

If she doesn't reciprocate the energy and i'm ALWAYS texting first. I move on. It's a waste of energy, time and emotions. I prefer to find someone who's willing to put 100% in just as I am.

[@superboixl3038]

I learned that lesson the hard way and will follow it from now on.

[@KingAtreides03]

Same here. Just blocked a girl yesterday coz her mind games and disinterest

[@kumadori9627]

THIS. Is a healthy relationship. Don´t play any games with women. We dont need to conquer them we dont live in 1920. A healthy relationship is 50 / 50 effort period.

[@davincivanderwaals]

I stopped chasing girls and its quite fun to be alone and keeps you mind and heart at ease since you won’t experience rejection or someone losing interest in you ☮️

[@aparamo1]

Thank you Jessica, this really helps me! For me, in my situation it’s definitely #1 and #2. Time really answers everything but meeting people on social media is NOT reliable.

[@paydo7719]

Just don't take it personal...if you are a nice guy and did nothing wrong,just move on,it's not your fault... Find a woman that like's you for you,not for what she can gain from you...

[@suprxmefire9497]

I’ve had bad experiences with relationships in the past too and it’s hard for me to feel confident and give people time sometimes

[@morrismwenda9138]

Jess silence is the best medicine. Chasing on women is the worst thing a man would do Even the Ego makes them Ignore

[@myanbeach]

I text once. No reply after 24 hours? I delete her number! It's not rocket science!

[@RachelLondon]

Lol, the fragility of the male ego 🤣 😂

[@maydvicky3316]

Lolll that's immatured

[@retiredsnowbunnyhunterx5106]

Bingo! An even don't sit around waiting for her response either.

[@bigtreecombatacademy2927]

@@RachelLondonyeah he should just keep texting into the void That will show his self value !

[@boratsagdiyev522]

​@@RachelLondon imagine a guy didn't text you after 24hrs. How'd you feel?

[@writeworks8599]

Spot on Jessica, you steered me clear of embarrassment and humiliation. Thank you

[@jivonstephen6677]

Me knowing that you are alive and well is enough for me to relax and know she's trying to make the world a better place With all her essence through her work. Thanks you Jessica Everytime. Nice to see you again🌞🧘.Stay safe.🦋

[@type-dev]

Gentleman. If she never texts you back, or checks back on you then it’s not worth it.

[@Gtunewaves]

No woman is busy for a man who she loves

[@keishalatmore3569]

Just love the confidence jessyca has while explaining concepts

[@emmanuelmwangi2514]

hence the reason we should jus focus on ourselves n keep becoming the best version of ourselves focus on your health,money,go to the gym.these women out here arent worth the chase.

[@chrispewkreme]

You don’t matter to her. If you were a priority in her life, she would reach out to you. If you REALLY had something going, you’d be important to her. If she’s not reaching out, you don’t matter in her life.

[@joeblack1490]

I simply cut off women who do that. Winning a woman's heart is thee most useless endeavor a man can undertake. If a woman doesn't want to be with you just accept it and move on. If your actions and efforts are the only ones keeping the relationship alive I suggest you deaden the entire thing because no one can keep that up long term. A relationship needs two people to sustain if you the only one calling, visiting or making an effort to build then you should reshuffle your priorities.

[@KyleHubb]

Facts.

[@jonb8633]

All sumarizes in 2 words, “ burning desire”. Believe me. Recently widowed and back to the dating arena. Already dated around 15-20 girls. When she is interested you will not need this video. Its basically effortless regarding texting or setting up a simple date. Responses will be on time for the most part. Just be yourself, that its way she choosed you

[@layback76]

If she is interested, she will make time to send a message. Dont waste your time chasing someone who doesn't want to be chased move on and stop boosting her ego!

[@dwanynejohnson5621]

Exactly

[@stanleykena7464]

Your English is fluent and clear to understand, and even explanation is quite clear, you are really doing well in helping us, thanks for your kind efforts

[@ChaseVercetti]

love the video.. but it saddens me that this is the type of things i have to deal with waddling in the dating pool… i just like honesty and would respect a woman more who doesn’t play mind games.. I’d rather her tell me upfront if she’s not liking me or feeling me and would rather just be cool acquaintances as opposed having me wasted my time trying to build with something that isn’t there and will not be.

[@shebahdebrah6076]

Sure

[@matthewcuriel991]

Same tbh

[@dvb8637]

Its simple honey, if she never ever texting me first or initiate a convo and its always me that must be first... its a hard pass and you get ghosted. Cuz idc what you said in this vid, the real reassons are... that she isnt interested in the guy. If a chick is really interested she will text first too. It also means that she doesnt put the same time, energy and effort in me as i do for her. Which tells me that she isnt serious, nor worth my time and energy and that she most likely is busy with 50 dudes at the same time. its just a 1 way street for chicks which doesnt work since a relationship is a 2 way street. It also means she is most likely entitled, arrogant and not social. So yeah i always take attention to this factor. If she ever approach me and text me first or not. Cuz if she doesnt its a big red flag and a big no!

[@terrencemilton5088]

Best way to deal with that issue. Don’t care pay her no attention. Investing to much time into something that doesn’t Matter.

[@themmysdairy691]

If she don’t take time to text you first you not the only one she has, and take note the only time she might text you first is either she wanted to make a request, no matter what you do you won’t still get the attention you needed.

[@markyeeee]

I was initially a little unsure if Jessica's observations would be applicable for American women. Her insights are really good and it seems like guys from all cultures and countries are pretty much dealing with the same issues. I love this channel

[@lecomtedeneuch9994]

I have a few tricks up my sleeve to gauge the interest of the women I'm dealing with : - First, always make connection in person before texting her your interest - After, showing interest, take action. - Send a text with a purpose and a plan for either fun night or date night or preferably both - Look at the time of response ; women are on their phones all the time and they don't respond to the persons who aren't priorities first and that goes for the guy or guys they like more than you. - Give it a one week trial if she texts you back. If she leaves you on seen and responds only the day after, just leave her on read. Women don't do that to men they truly like. - Do crash tests. If you want to be successfull and have a great sex life, you have to take risk and get rejected a lot. Everyone starts as a noob and everyone can become a pro player or stay in noob tier if you aren't willing to learn. - Make things simple. If she plays around and the answer isn't yes, she's not interested.

[@thewinnoshow]

You should not have to constantly ask her multiple times to hang out. If you ask 2 or more times and she blows you off. Do yourself a favour and stop chasing or pursuing ❤

[@maxshepherd926]

Probably one of the only respected female youtubers.

[@codyburnett1592]

Long distance relationships sucks. Takes a lot of patience and trust and it's not even close to being easy.

[@SamuraiKensei276]

I am evaluating your wisdom, you are both highly intelligent and thoughtful. No sentence is being contradictory, no concept is an actual fluke. Hence the reason of why, you have won my subscription lady.

[@JessicaOS]

Appreciate the sub. Truly.

[@SamuraiKensei276]

@@JessicaOS keep spreading your enlightment to the world, but do it softly girl; like to walking on a cloud. The same message will be both received and perceived better.

[@g-man3093]

It’s a red flag to move on period. Seek a partner with a high probability of long term success. Meaning a woman who really is in to you big time. You can’t connect unless she wants to take the time to explore who you are.

[@maryw3989]

I used to text him first and got tired of being the first one to always make contact first just to be ghosted by him, I have better things to do than chase him. There's actually people that like me enough to text me back.

[@blessingbella6763]

True used to do the same now I stopped & he's complaining

[@fitnesslivingway2273]

no. 11: She may not like you. please don't forget this no. prioritize your mental health and move brother. the ones that don't like you can create a tunnel vision on you.

[@obiifiorah4852]

Shud be no1

[@jahoops9250]

Who created this intelligent woman . Ain't gonna lie jessica you are the best . You're saving and clarifying alots of relationships

[@realantagonist5324]

This should be called 12 reasons why she is not that into you. Is she never texts first she isn't that into you. No excuses, men keep it pushing.

[@frantzmicheljeannis6118]

No one is too busy to text one he or she wants.the person would make the time for the person he wants or she wants.

[@TommyD_Edits]

She doesn't like you 🤣🤣😜😜... Facts! If a girl likes you, she'll find time to message you.

[@alexbermudez8468]

Facts

[@tonybaze]

True

[@dailyselfimprovementredpil4671]

If a woman really likes you she'll reply and hit you up 1st Especially after you have let it be known that you have interest in her

[@ThePreciousRoyalty]

I’ve done this, not because I want to necessarily be chased but because if you make my position in your life confusing or unclear I don’t feel the need to give my all.

[@ThePreciousRoyalty]

Oh and I’m an introvert

[@lL-js2hg]

​@@ThePreciousRoyalty your eyes almost look like Scorpios

[@ThePreciousRoyalty]

@@lL-js2hg but im a Taurus

[@Kevinleehiltonjr]

@@lL-js2hg the eyes you see are contacts. Also seriously bro? Eyes make people look like a sign from the universe?

[@leeolie3728]

Why lead him on. Just…never mind. Fellas, get your passports

[@djcaioalberto17]

my goodness, what a beautiful voice and accent!!!! respect and admiration from Brazil

[@raretiger]

This is an unpopular opinion, but I’m talking based on experience. The whole thing began because of the lack of straightforwardness and honesty, so bringing those to the table would solve everything. In my experience, talking about it will solve it and save you a lot of overthinking. You simply ask them why that’s the case (that you always text first), and they won’t lie to you. You just have to make sure you don’t come off as paranoid, desperate, or dramatic, but rather ask it in a mature way. And if you could do it over the phone or in person, that would be better. Hope this benefits someone.

[@nathanielvernon4646]

I complexly with your statement! FACTS! don't let things just bottle up, face the music and deal with the problem at hand in person!!

[@danielmutonga2925]

If she can't text me even a single day, that's a clear indication that she is not interested in me

[@MiraklAgkou]

I am a woman, if I don't text you back or don't text you at all, it means there is no connection. However if I like you a lot but noticed you stopped chasing or texting as before I will stop texting and guard my heart so I don't get hurt. I think many women do that.

[@Gigachad-mc5qz]

Well i dont get how they know that theres no connection after i said hi

[@MiraklAgkou]

@@Gigachad-mc5qz I understand, this can be based on positive energy they receive or negative energy. Also physical appearance matters a lot. This also applies for the other way round. If a girl has bad energy you can feel it or if she is not just appealing to you.

[@ugochukwumunachisoiwunze2597]

Thats quite a selfish thing to do @Miracle Unique. The reason you don't like to text back if you don't like the guy is because you selfishly want the attention and are to scared to say to him you don't feel the same way because he may look elsewhere. So I feel, you seek affirmation from men. And, if you like a man a he always texts you an when he doesn't once you move on. Then your the type of woman men should stay away from.. meaning you thrive on attention frm men, have many options and you don't reciprocate what you get in a relationship (Selfish and self entitlement). Reality check my dear, no man wants this type of woman

[@rocke1ne]

I luv this one.. right here, you covered all the mental that I go thru with every conversation with every woman, i listen close to her wording and then I go thru your same 12 step rule... this is priceless for anyone that pays attention to what comes out of a woman's mouth...

[@washingtonchikwariro5456]

Thank you for the topic Sister Jessica such circumstances do occur and tend to be emotionally constraining and being a waste of time. The advice I would then give to my brothers is never waste time chasing her if the process is one sided, cause what you're doing you're simply relinquishing your voice, power and dignity to her an act you will hate going forward. So be cool work on yourself untill you get that lady who will put effort to reciprocate to the energy you give. Thank you....

[@gillesbelanger1090]

When I feel she isn't interested, she isn't.

[@doctoreuphoria213]

To all the fellow guys This Is why you focus on yourself, if she wanted to speak she'd make time no if ands or buts

[@Kendriquecoats]

Keep the purpose the main thing and everything else will fall in place

[@peterharrell7305]

If you have to ask yourself whether she likes you or not. She doesnt. Shes likely using you. When a girl really likes you, shell find a way to make sure you know. Anything less is a finesse. Dont get finesse'd, boys.

[@JustMalcolm914]

Lol i thought that way too until i realized its a lie

[@peterharrell7305]

@@JustMalcolm914 sure, bud. That's why every dude has 100 chicks in his Dm's right now. All these guys out here complaining that they have WAY TOO MANY women hitting them up. Lmao, you live in delusion. You ever hear a girl be shy about telling people how much she's into drake? Or, you think she's play hard to get with him? Hahahaha

[@Mimi_Riko]

@@peterharrell7305i hope you learn to heal. Its heartbreaking to see someone so hurt😢

[@ModernDatingMastery]

*Some women prefer a more reserved approach to avoid coming across as desperate. If she’s responsive, it shows there’s still potential, but it’s important not to over-pursue.*

[@TheTJshow2011]

Great video! The woman I am dating now is exactly this. She very rarely texts first. When together we are super intimate. Her work hours are crazy busy but when always I mention to meet her she will reschedule her hours of work to meet. If there is intimacy when together and if she replies even if she don't reply first, then relax and go with the flow :)

[@SamBWinning]

You are blessed my guy if she reschedules her hours just for you that’s means she really likes you where in my situation I was ghosted. But she always responds but I never brought up a second date because I feel like she would just run me off.

[@alisaiful6717]

Summary. If you are doing the texting first all time, the strong signal is to move on. Forget her.

[@richardhendricks644]

Any women who not gonna recipicate my energy am gone if someone wants you they fine time fa you. Fellas move on

[@MindfulPresenceStudio-iq4zk]

You are not always right, some women like to be chased, she might have some crazy experiences in the pass and don’t want that to happen again, if you love someone you need to be patient with her. She might be a wonderful person but don’t want to give her self so cheaply. Am like that, if you want me you have to convince me you really do, most guys just want to have sex cos she is beautiful.

[@dailyselfimprovementredpil4671]

All these women have all these options because men don't have standards so if she doesn't reciprocate back towards me I leave it alone because the guy she really likes doesn't have to deal with her not ever texting him 1st so be the guy that a woman likes or don't be nothing at all keep self improving and moving in life

[@bookerfleming3898]

Bruh thank you for this

[@lindokuhleshandu4024]

Personally, after a few attempts at texting a girl first and she never texts me first, I automatically lose interest in her. What I've learned so far is that when a woman really likes you, she will not play any games with you, she won't be too busy to text you first, and she will do it without any hesitation. I'm currently dating someone who does text first and I do the same thing for her. It's so refreshing. Hopefully it stays that way.

[@donprince3452]

Ar you a Ghanaian? Your accent is different but very proper. It's hard to fetch out the Ghanaian in you but mostly British. You're beautiful!

[@jaymac8421]

The only time u need to communicate with these women is when you need to link up for a smash session other than that you should be working on your personal goals unless y’all are in a serious relationship, that takes a lot of work

[@yayahjabbie1897]

Relationship nowadays is headache Jesse! The only lady I wanted to settle with is not giving me attention 😡 I've tried for almost three good years now but same stories, the worst part of it all is that I love her naturally and I'm finding it difficult to let her go!

[@luizadanson2894]

"You only know your lover when you let her GOooOOOo"

[@femiolotu6482]

thats why she will continue to push you away. you need to let her go. if she misses you. she will holla you.

[@yuliirezaa5270]

Same here🤔🤔

[@joshuadzidulakwame]

Same with me

[@douglasmubirigi4414]

She knows she got you in her purse already, if she doesn’t find anyone else with more of what she wants she may start giving you attention.

[@gowonclasp7249]

If she knows that you have a lot of money you will see how fast she test you first everyday

[@jjohnson6382]

There you go. My cousin just broke up with his girl. He text her and she was going with someone else while he was texting her.

[@horaciopinto9471]

Lol women and money so predictable 😂

[@kewssienkem4197]

I like your videos. The first question is why she gave me her number in the first place if she has to sometime forget to reply my messages? It's very simple. She doesn't want a Man. If she doesn't have time or she is busy with a schedule then, there is a chance she won't have time if you get together. Successful men don't have all the time in the word to chase a lady who is not available. When a woman wants something, she will do everything to get your attention and keep you coming toward her. That's a gift women have. Play hard to get is one thing . But trying too hard to get by sometime ignoring my messages and expecting me to keep begging for a conversation is totally unthinkable from the point of Vue of a level headed guy. There are too many girls out there. Only men with no balls do that.

[@hannockchileshekasama5595]

Profound analysis, specially the point that "She might not like you"

[@mikeBigboo35]

You stated how "you" work. That's very interesting. That statement says alot. Great wake up message!!! Listen to a woman. GAMES PEOPLE PLAY!!! Time is to expensive to lose!!! Thanks for your points of view.

[@josephsielskisr3742]

Why do I feel like women are boring

[@josephsielskisr3742]

Wish I could be with you

[@ThandoKING]

Whenever she's too busy then she is stringing u along fellas

[@rockyyams]

I am a soldier and I've killed over 165 people throughout my career. I am from Chad and I have been fighting boko-haram since 2015.

[@Uzodesign]

Moral of the story is that dating is a stressful, shady guessing game.

[@tonybaze]

Yep because what works with one girl might not work on the other just be you n you’ll attract who’s attracted to you

[@Urfavplaycousin]

“ Be Yourself Everybody else is taken “

[@Butwhytv]

Am always tuned and glued to this channel coz it always give me good times to keep my relationships moving smooth

[@israelalimi4612]

It's simple, she doesn't like you. Move on

[@lawrencetettey5411]

😅😅😅😅

[@fabioalvesshow]

Just when she needs a favor, i don't even bother to respond

[@leroyrodgers6089]

It always boils down to interest. If she's interested in you, she will text you first at some point. I was lucky with my wife. She never played these dumb games.

[@rohanscott4118]

Sml

[@hior12israel49]

Ridiculous games, this happened recently to me. I came out of my peace and responded to a hello from a pretty woman on Tik Tok. When I asked her to share something about herself, she sent two long paragraphs about the woman she was, which (all sound great). I got a few LOLs from our text messages, and thought its was going well, and I wasn't clingy one bit, but she never texted first after. What got me was her saying, "Im single by choice," and "Men in ATL are not serious." What I heard was, "I choose to be single, and men don't take relationships seriously." Which was confusing AF. I'd reach out, but it was always a one word responses like "sure." Sometimes she was annoyed that I took so long to reach out, and she would never get simple humor sayin' stuff like 'HUH!" After that, I was done and deleted the entire conversation and unfollowed her. Now, listening to all this, it's clear to me why I went away in the first place. I'd be happy with a little village girl in some 3rd world country, picking mangos and coconuts barefoot in a hut then to deal with this nonsense.

[@dannypeeters130]

For me it is quite easy. If i am the one always starting the text message or never getting an answer back, i just regard it as: “i am not into you”. I delete her and move on.

[@dannypeeters130]

@Sociopath The Serial Killer I agree. You have a valid point, but i guess by meeting other women you gradually erase her from your mind. But deleting her, you are not putting her on a pedestal. THATS THE WORST THING YOU CAN DO!!!!

[@chrispewkreme]

She’s never too busy. It takes only a few seconds to ask “how are you?” or “have a good day!”. You just don’t matter to her. She does not care about you. She isn’t interested. Just move on.

[@Pastorsprophets]

this lady is an alpha female. Her confidence, hair, voice tone and accent are epic. To the future generations, dont let these videos die

[@SunshineSuperstar]

Nah!

[@macbook6507]

GUYS STOP WASTING YOUR TIME ON PEOPLE WHO DONT LOVE YOU , PERIOD. GUYS LEARN TO READ THE BODY LANGUAGE, SPEECH,TEXTS OF A WOMAN AND STOP WASTING YOUR TIME FORCING LOVE. YOU WILL CLEARLY NOTICE A WOMAN WHO LOVES YOU BY JUST READING HER BODY LANGUAGE , RED FLAGS WILL BE ALLOVER HER .

[@kissrash]

One thing I like about this channel, ur title defines the contents

[@dreamerthetruthmatters619]

I agree 👍 with you Jessica on the other hand when she doesn't text she might probably be getting more attention and somehow perplexed whether you are the one who has won her heart 💘. It pains me when I text a girl 💃 and she doesn't respond until I make a follow-up. However, that is just the beginning to know if she truly loves you. Thank you, you're beautiful and eloquent, Jessica. ❤️ Every point you stretch out is essential indeed.

[@Wz96-i4c]

She doesn't text first because she's not interested in you and has her eyes on someone else so don't waste your time and money on her.

[@1963luv]

Not all women are like that David..I have this man right now in my life that I am so interested in to be my husband..I always have a crush on him since I was a teenager..I still feels the same about him..He's a older man for me, but he's not showing me absolutely no interest

[@kendoshusmiller9137]

David Smith you're absolutely correct.

[@redwhites3651]

not the message I deserved, but the message I needed .

[@iandiru6433]

@@1963luv The NOT ALL are the most dangerous ones of all i cant trust such a statement of Not ALL

[@1963luv]

@@iandiru6433 what's your point? "Not all"

[@crapdevil1772]

If a girl Is intersted in you She Will respond Always and also search you

[@leonjohnsonjr3331]

I don't care how busy a woman get if she like you she going to reach out

[@yakubuibrahim2273]

Yea ooo bro,because we also have something to do,yet we find time always to reach out to them 👽😺

[@mudashirumuniru7358]

No cap bro

[@miguell9421]

True. Phone are women’s priority, believe me, they always see your text messages. She’s not into you if she never reach you back

[@leonjohnsonjr3331]

@@miguell9421 Right!!

[@kojotuabu5567]

Thanks so much for the education. Was struggling to know why she was like that.

[@CCFIFresno]

How you feel about youself is your worth. That cheap or expensive feeling to someone else is an illusion. We're adults and texting first doesn't mean a thing and people need to get over it.

[@malikmalik-ny7tv]

You have to fight for everything in life and never give up except for a women,it aint worth it,if she doesnt like you enough in the beginning she never will,move on and look for somebody else

[@acmcbride86]

I went almost 3 weeks without texting a female see if she texts me first. She didn't. I got my answer not interested

[@matthewcuriel991]

Lololol same tho

[@missjones9737]

Hmmm as a female I expect my man to reach out, to pursue, to lead I bet she was waiting for you to text and when you didn't she took that as a sign that you don't like her.

[@matthewcuriel991]

@@missjones9737 if ur past the first time talking and ur still playing games trying to wait for someone to pursue and lead after they proved they could ... thts not good. At some point you gotta show you care just as much unless you don't but if not that's fine just let that be known. Can't rely on ur interactions having 1 sided effort If you are really in it for something valuable

[@acmcbride86]

@@missjones9737 I do like her but I feel she don't like me that much. I got folks around me saying leave her alone she using you.

[@Aniketkumar-je8io]

Do not chase such women....they r confuse, uncertain, unclear....if she likes she will make it easy....cut her off completely....ghost her after 2-3 months...take revenge so that u will feel better& she learn a lesson & will never waste time of men....

[@christianbenn316]

I agree with you

[@Neon-nh6sh]

Exactly kumar

[@om9670]

Sahi babu Kumar..

[@musabebeatrice9753]

This is murder

[@odinakajulian7474]

What do you have to say in situation of friendship. She always want you to text first and when you don't, she'll ask a close friend of yours about you

[@peace1729]

If she for you she will make effort but it works both ways … It’s all about how you pick them