7 Unforgivable Sins Of A Narcissist

[@narcabusecoach]

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[@maenad1623]

@narcabusecoach the worst thing he has done is to manipulate my children to believe that I am basically what he is. That I am estranged and not accepted at all by them. They are adults and he continues the narrative I don’t know if we will ever reunite. Also, that he manipulated them and he does not care. He uses them for his needs and wants.

[@rainwaterfallsapothecaryay8102]

😊😊

[@MissG8340]

How do you open the eyes of the narcissist to all this?? Or is it never possible

[@amnaakram1489]

Danish Basheer Sir Plz Guide me i am In mArriage with two daughters 13 yrs

[@amnaakram1489]

I am Dying Soffocating

[@Gabriela-ig7nl]

The biggest sin: hurting you and blaming you for making them harm you.

[@joseenoel8093]

That's just weird aye, prob part of silent treatment which we asked for and deserve too, screwed thinking!

[@wendyhannan2454]

If an narcissist leaves you for someone else, think your self lucky 🙏

[@antoinettegorman8833]

PRAISE THE LORD AMEN

[@crystalmorse7412]

Facts Period 💘

[@annahrankho7361]

Thanks God.....

[@kathykolsrud9242]

Being totally ignored physically and emotionally. Replaced by tv/phone/sexting on his phone.

[@stupensardi2783]

Betrayal of trust is so incredibly painful.

[@jakid2057]

I have experienced this recently in a short term relationship. I am a trained therapist so luckily I didn’t stick it out too long however as individuals we cannot see our own blind spots and often sharing what you are going through with a professional or smart friend can help. Don’t feel ashamed and try to cover it up. It is what it is. Value yourself and move on. They are the sick ones and you can’t change them.

[@annahrankho7361]

It's sickness in itself.....

[@Child_of_God320]

God help us all ❤😢 I am seriously damaged after 33yrs of abuse and feeling so stupid for begging him to be at least human to me. Therapist still shaking heads at all the brainwashing . Still trying to get better 😢 I didn't know there was a name for such demonic actions. Until someone said the word "Narcissist" and I started to research it and everything was exactly 💯 on the money. Praying I can trust again before I die. I've learned a lot from Danish. ❤

[@cherylberk4593]

The #1 sin for me is my complete and total inability to Trust. Further, even when I begin to trust I become anxious, foolish, and fearful. I dont know how to erase the damage which started in chilhood, continued in marriage, and now appears to run rampant in society in general. It is exhausting to be constantly vigilant. Thank you, Danish, I would like to see the Top 20 Unforgiveable Sins❤️

[@VgVi13]

The #1 unforgivable sin of my mother is the triangulation of me and my children.

[@bobbarker1798]

OMG! Terrible.

[@FiiireLight]

Mine too😢

[@montena369]

Same it's the saddest part,💔

[@angelavore6705]

It's disgusting and she's rotting my kids brain he can't even function as adult and get in between us

[@VgVi13]

@@angelavore6705 I'm so sorry to hear that. I wish I had learned all this years ago and kept my kids away from her because it then effects your grandkids as well. I had no idea my mom was behind the issues my kids had with me. I didn't understand what I had done. Now I know I didn't do anything it was her. (And my ex who I think was a narcissist also. he passed away a few years ago. what a relief that was) I hope you can go no contact at some time. It's the only answer, at least it was for me.

[@paulablair395]

The biggest sin - convincing me that I was worthless, losing my mind, and no one liked me.

[@Mandolin523]

They all do this. It's the same pattern

[@Mandolin523]

I've been called a worthless, lazy loser and more for years and projecting all his issues

[@alzihr191919]

Narcissists study what and who are dear to you and use them to threat you or control you. It's like if you don't stay controlled to me , I will destroy the people you love .. When my husband and I had conflicts , he used to take the phone threatening to call my mother and annoy her , knowing my mother is the closest person to me and how much I'm careful not to hurt her . He would use the things that are dear to me in a harsh way . That is unforgivable.

[@kryssysmith1486]

Slowly but surely, I'm working on a novel that will be an autobiography. I'm incorporating all of my experiences with past narcissistic family members, past relationships, and everything in between. I intend to present it all in black and white, shedding light on the injustices that have been done to me. However, I am transforming these experiences into the most worthwhile and positive scenario I can possibly imagine.

[@arhafrench5319]

Congratulations, and don't you quit on it! I wanted to write one myself but my narcs are still alive and family. 😑 I hope your book is a success and that your pain is a stepping stone to victory.

[@kryssysmith1486]

@@arhafrench5319 Thank you for your kind words. Now that narcissists are completely out of my life, I have every intention, and in my own right, I can write it down. It's not going to hurt anybody, and names are protected. I received a small merit accolade back in high school when I was 13 just because of my writing.

[@kryssysmith1486]

​@@arhafrench5319 Here's an idea that just dawned on me: You can still write even though the narcissists are alive. Just keep it to yourself until they pass away, and then you can publish the novel. That's one way I would approach it, and at one point, it was the way I handled it. I have a good layout for my novel, and I know what I'm going to focus on. Like I mentioned, I did the exact same thing; I had to hide it from every narcissist in my life, and it took a toll on me. So, doing this is going to be very painful, but in the end, it will be therapeutic and worthwhile.

[@ellenmanlulu3976]

Cheering for your complete healing and published book!

[@kryssysmith1486]

@@ellenmanlulu3976 Thank you. I realize that it is going to be a painful and slow process. I am in therapy to help me along with this. That being said, at least now I know what my purpose in life is. I never in a million years thought I'd start writing like this again.

[@WampaReacts]

#1 Is their Self Awareness. Being self aware that they are controlling, disrespectful, gaslighting, and emotionally kidnapping, isn't just unforgivable, but inhumane. No one who behaves this way has any right to stand on a moral high ground and lecture others. And there is no reason for someone to suffer their terrible behavior.

[@m.b.calderhead268]

Thank you so much for this. For about 40 divorced years I have pondered as to why he behaved so badly, but, tonight, when listening to the 7 Unforgiveable Sins, he fits 6 of them. Now I get it. Now I realize that, at 21, when we married, I didn’t have a chance. He was too practiced and I was naive. You have put it all so succinctly and I appreciate it.

[@m.b.calderhead268]

M.b. Calderhead, again. I was never so unhappy as I was when I was married.

[@danieljohnson2349]

- "Unforgivable" is *right* !🥊😠

[@Varykino1917]

This is my life except for #5 and #6. I would say that the worst thing that narcissists do is that they exist. They look human but they are soul, life, joy, future, trust crushing monsters from Hell.

[@heathercarter2475]

I was gonna say the exact same and I wholeheartedly wish they didn't

[@danieljohnson2349]

100 % .

[@franmosconi4680]

Great episode, Danish! The narcissist in my life is my adult son, who does not live with me. I did not realize he was a narcissist until about four years ago. He foists some of the behaviors you describe on me, and some toward his wife. He hides these behaviors well, so that most of our family and his co-workers don't know or believe he is a narcissist and abusive. Now he has been giving me the silent treatment for most of the time for eleven months. It's actually a relief at this point, to have so little interaction with him. I feel he has influenced his wife and his siblings about me in a false and bad direction. This has been very hard on my self-esteem. He tends to rage and to be insulting and demeaning to me. But I think I am gradually recovering. Your videos are helpful. Thank you!

[@JustMeeeeeee87]

Dear reader...yes the one that taught that healing the narcisist was possible...you did your best...don.t waste your time and more important don.t lose yourself again..🤗

[@GULZARVIRANI-o2d]

My ex would not say 'happy birthday'. How horrible is that. I would have been happy without a card or gift, if he just wished and hugged me. Same for anniversaries/mother's day...etc. Just pretended it was a normal day. Sickening.

[@lorimiller7261]

Unforgivable sin - My soon to be ex-husband of 19 years got so evil as he got older. He threatened to tell my teenage daughter about something horrific that happened to me when I was a teenager. He would throw it in my face when he raged. It was my story to tell her if I ever decided to. Really none of his business and he wanted to hurt me. I had to go and tell her myself my version before he told her lies. It’s sad the evil extremes they will go to to hurt and destroy people. So happy I’m out and we’re finding freedom and peace. It’s been the best decision of my life ❤ Thank you Danish for helping survivors find their strength 😊

[@dianaclark3254]

Gaslighting me to believe I had Alzheimer’s and isolated me from 5:59 family. The cheating and gaslighting were awful too

[@marka.8535]

Biggest sin ; turning my daughter against me and being an all around horrible, destructive mother and causing trauma to our sweet innocent daughter 😢

[@donnaT-ti8vj]

I experienced all 7 of those hateful, deadly sins but I am fully enlightened now & with that comes peace of mind. Never again

[@redpillbox1882]

I'm not sure if it's "the worst sin" of a narcissist, because they are all equally diabolical. One of the worst is how they debase you. How they take a kind and talented person who has a fun personality, and friends, and inherent gifts and through means of trickery or how ever they can manage, they make you start accepting things that are not in your nature to accept. For me, I had an alcoholic cheating father, so I never wanted to be with either of those things. Yet I would wind up with narcissistic men or even friends or coworkers, who were both of those things. They get you to accept those things that are unacceptable, and try to drag you down to their own perverted level. They like to take something kind and innocent and defile it, warp it, and turn it into someone who has no choice but to accept their depravity. Having something evil or demonic that tries to change your nature, is like being in a spiritual war. Like you are in a relationship with a supernatural demon.

[@francesbernard2445]

The worst of it is that many narcissists while leaving us have an affair with no intentions of ending that affair permanently unless that person moves on with someone else or getting a divorce only so they can hang onto any assets which we and our family of origin have helped acquire. A narcissist expects us to make them happy while at the same time that is impossible for us to do. While trying to divorce them it is not uincommon for children born during the marriage to become grossly neglected by the narcissistic parent who insists on custody of the children during which time according to them only sole custody is according to them justifiable for us having left them and so affecting their public image. A person who iis going through that sort of thing needs professional support to survive the experience. The only risk involved with going for professional help is if the narcissist was involved while obtaining that help and/or if they get wind of it then surely their smear campaign is going to start while accusing us of being a liar about what we have expericienced at their hands. Until I learned that it is a common experience for women to endure through not one but 2 bad marriages like that until they learn how to appear like a hard target to narcissists after learning about narcissistic personality disorder and how to spot someone who might have it.

[@ellie_j.]

Playing the "innocent victim" while unleashing a smear campaign! That makes them beyond redemption in my opinion! "Thou shalt not bear false witness"!

[@ellasladek3124]

Trust,!how do we know who to trust ? We treat others as we want to be treated , they use and abuse that kindness!

[@gregoryritchie7852]

Great DETAIL! They really messed with me. Was told by mental health counselor it will take a lot of work and years to heal - if I ever do completely.

[@crina193]

Regarding sin no 3....i have a neck hump and whenever i meditate on releasing the tension and pain from there, it s the same energy of being held and pinned down by the neck...so it s not only psychological control, it becomes visible even in the body.

[@coachjoachimroomaney793]

I was made into a slave by my family as a child. I am not going to let it go because they tried to murder me after I got sick and disabled

[@acolley2891]

It truly will aet you free if you make the choice to forgive. It will be hard but it's a choice you keep making. That doesn't mean they are off the hook with God, nor does it mean you have to have contact. It just sets you free. 😊❤

[@coachjoachimroomaney793]

@@acolley2891 I don't have any feelings because of my condition. I only pass a judgement by lawful means. Feelings is how people get into trouble. I only feel peace and I am calm. I have to act out a feeling to make people understand me.

[@zandatee]

Sounds irritating about that forgiving. Something similar feeling like when a narcissist betrays you. Offering reading morals instead of feeling your pain, standing by your side and fighting for you.

[@coachjoachimroomaney793]

@@zandatee they all come for forgiveness when it suits them. You are always the problem and it is always you that must do this or do that but they don't have to change anything about themselves. Why don't we don't start calling them out to change instead of asking us to forgive every time.

[@Muhammad-u]

Why do they move so quickly i don't know i can't help my soul right know i am with healing soul right now

[@lindat1317]

They move fast so you’re thrown off guard and won’t have time to think (because you’d know something is “off.”) They want you disoriented.

[@MissG8340]

I was literally google searching this and then this came up on KZbin 😅

[@cindymartin6307]

Turning my children against me.

[@anne3230]

Same. It’s soul crushing. Peace and healing for you

[@cindymartin6307]

@anne3230 thank you

[@Mandolin523]

Same... when I was depressed for a year and distracted with all the cognitive dissonance and bullcrap the past years I wasn't able to be the best mother and that time I can't get back. I was a good mom but I made a point to make him have to take care of the kid so he could see how much I did. It ended up just making my child have some narc tendencies and spoiled him. He bought our 7 yr old an iPhone. Like wtf. Their brains aren't even developed right and its just ridiculous. He just basically counter parented all I did. Now I don't leave him alone period with the kid

[@MeCynthiaAnn]

GOD WILL HOLD ACCOUNTABLE NOOOOO MATTER WHAT we see with our eyes… there is ALWAY the HARVEST time

[@FiiireLight]

The narcissist's favorite phrase is "Oh, well."

[@Mandolin523]

"What!?! It was a just a joke."

[@Mandolin523]

"You're crazy."

[@moejohnson4498]

The most unforgivable sin for me was the lying. Just about everything he told me was untrue. The man I thought he was, doesn’t exist. The dishonesty was astronomical and shocking.

[@22zanners]

Me too. Mine told me everyday last year that he was working when he didn’t have a job. He even made up stories about his coworkers and customers. Meanwhile he was having bisexual affairs instead of working. Covert Narc…..I’m making my exit plan now.

[@mspheeincali7418]

I really wish I didn’t resonate with this episode. Thank you for so eloquently articulating these horrific experiences and validating that, yes it really was That Bad. I see the reason why I am so broken and cannot see life. Existence in survival mode is not a way to learn what living is and there is no understanding or ability to even get to that point. And yet, stupid survival mode keeps one here while preventing actual living. Sad conundrum indeed.

[@Kharizmah]

#1 sin is them trying to cause division to isolate you, followed closely by the physical and mental abuse. Even if it takes time to heal, There is time lost that from family and friends.

[@foxygayla]

It doesn't matter what he said about me. He will never destroy me. In time he will destroy himself. I know the truth and so does God.

[@bridgetsieger2261]

Broke into my Facebook and pretended to be me…. Read all the past emails.. wrote hatefilled letters to my best friends and cousins. They all believed her except for ONE aunt. She kept silent as a similar thing happened to her. To this day we are both half humans. She is her sister I am her daughter. Both half dead. And alone.

[@bethroy5053]

The biggest sin: the intentional, premeditated and attempted murder of an innocent soul. One whose only ‘mistake’ was to love a narc.

[@awuraaadwoa8169]

Number 4 is so so real, they go to any extent even crying for people to believe them.

[@BlueZebra1955]

These are all big unforgivable sins; but IMO the biggest one is rape/incest.

[@michealsilvey1124]

Thank you. Bless you. 🙌 you help me etap my head around this evil. Pray my daughter OPENS HER EYES and heart to the truth of his lies... this is earth shattering heartbreaking 💔 heartbreaking 💔

[@AnitaSharma-hc3ib]

Thank you so much danish for sharing such a important information ❤these r all very much true ❤they twist your statement intentially❤

[@bridgetsieger2261]

My narc would show up at my job and scream… not hit… scream and I never knew the trigger or why!

[@cookiegalleria6916]

This is true. I never thought this would happen to me, but it did.

[@relied7934]

The biggest sin is treating people as things. People-things that are Useful or not Useful.

[@sarat928]

These all r true my ex husband I survived after leaving and twins later and now I finally got him to spill all I already knew about him. His mask is off and yet he keeps forgetting I kno who he really is. I now have a very very uncomfortable stare down when it comes to him and it makes him uncomfortable and starts spilling things he tried to hide. He did try to get strangers to believe him with all the lies and trust me I kno he still lies and all who met him have actually turned on him instead of me. And now he knows when he tries to be a badass and think he can stand up to me but now I stand up to him and he knows my bite is bigger then my bite and I kno he’s already scared to face me knowing he has no more control over me. And he knows I will do everything to protect my twins even if I end up in jail cuz I have family that will do everything like me for my kids to protect them from their dad and trust me their dad hates it. He hates the fact he no longer has any control over me and I’m a lot more stronger then he expected me to become. Don’t give up stand up and show them what u can do. They will get scared enough to be all talk and to afraid to act.

[@francesbernard2445]

Please be careful while seeking the help of more than one professional who could for example coach you on how to file police reports when necessary. The last thing you need is to fall for getting down in the mud with him over and over again. That is a game often being orchestrated by a malignant narcissist which none of us who have an average to well developed conscience can ever win.

[@kerrytaggart8206]

Narcissists are born with upside down wiring and not made. We have narcissists in our family tree. Both of my parents were neurotypical, logical and loving. My sister is a narcissist . I am not. She has been the source of chaos since very early childhood. A baby narcissist. Please do not blame the upbringing. You cannot turn a neurotypical into a narcissist and you cannot turn a narcissist into a neurotypical. Neurotypicals need and I believe can be healed from narcissist abuse.

[@applexx9065]

The narcissistic ex told me. I deserve everything that's going on with me while my mother was dying. Stage 4 lung cancer because I didn't want to have sex with him

[@faizashireen5]

They favor the ones who are against us, never take side with us

[@acolley2891]

I forgive all his sin against me 100%. But he will still have to deal with Gods judgement. I cannot forgive for God and God will not forgive unless he repents.

[@fairygurl9269]

*Betrayal...

[@elonathomason5846]

Thanks!

[@NaturalSpring-k5p]

Financial abuse hurts the most.

[@mausambasuray3810]

Not acknowledging sacrifices...😢

[@gelibeanzcantrell7192]

my narc ex would often do his smear campaign of me while i was in the same room or if he was talking to someone else while i was on the phone with him. it made me feel so bad that i couldn't even go to that person he talked to and defend myself. he absolutely knew what he was doing and i was blind to it. he convinced me that he was doing it because he loved me and wanted me to consider his feelings about the situation even though he never considered my feelings about anything. he would twist the stories so much that i thought no one would want to hear me out about what was actually happening.

[@awuraaadwoa8169]

Spot on. All true

[@1missy40]

Ain’t this the truth 👏🏽

[@keepcool1604]

Triangulation . I felt so bad when my mom tried to create difference between me and my closed ones .

[@agatamakulska4442]

I forgave what has been done to me but I will never go back to that relationship. I remember how small and low I felt and will never allow anybody to treat me like that again. I am no fool❤

[@Mandolin523]

After triangulating many times treating a friend of mine with all the things a partner would do for their spouse... i had enough and said she wasnt welcome back. Shes also a nasty, narcissist psychopath alcoholic... I needed a favor and Uber home for $10 she would not help with. Said okay shes a selfish person and a user. I watch her kids too etc... come to find when he was out with the boys he ended up cheating on me with her impulsively and driving her home as her personal driver. Then after stonewalling me for 2 hours. I screamed "SAY Something! ACKNOWLEDGE ME!" His reply was an excuse justifying he was a hero just driving her home 3 am to 7 am.... and said to me nothing to validate me but cared more to point out how she feels sad bc I cut her off for no reason. So he validated her feelings and their said storyline how now Im the person who doesnt care and it leads to their bonding and then cheating.... 2 hrs of my feelings, staring at me. He justified her feelings. Never once mine.

[@Mandolin523]

Mind you the only reason he wanted her was because she was my friend and we were getting to be close. Before she was a promiscuous easy woman that he belittled and would gossip about. I actually saw she needed a friend and her for more than that and our kids were friends. I'm not a judgemental person. However after they hooked up, i had a very rightful concern for testing as she would be with new guys every night but I mentioned it to him how irresponsible that way....she's now angelic and he's not going to judge her. He accused me of being so rude to my friend. Seriously. Its the most crazy response and behavior. It's just literally to opposite deny and defy me

[@lindafolks]

Wasted decades of my life believing a LIE!! God restores, saves, comforts and heals! Amen!🙏❤️🕊

[@gursimranbakshi881]

So true

[@Cherps91]

#1 unforgivable sin is he killed my daughter Oct 21, 2023, and blamed her ...leaving a destroyed family and mother in the wake. 6:20

[@ericb8413]

Did he get caught? Is he going to be tried?

[@mhlohc]

Probably meant emotionaly​@@ericb8413

[@lynne-du9ql]

I'm so sorry for your loss... God grants you peace and that your girl rests in peace too. Don't let him win, hold together and wait... you will meet her again. 🙏🙏

[@kimberlyfowler5748]

😯😞🫂

[@crystalmorse7412]

Wow u r Right About All 7 Sins Thank u Danish 4 All Your Help ❤ u

[@angelavore6705]

A wizard of words ty for helping other's God bless ur soul❤

[@JesusisLord153]

You have described my soon to be ex husband so perfectly in this one!!!

[@annbow4064]

My ex had a porn addiction,when i caught him he would say its your fault you dont cuddle me enough,i dont feel you care enough ect,when after the umtemth time i said this is not my fault its you who chooses to do it nothing to do with me stop blaming me,he then said it was his mothers fault the way he had been brought up,I said your mother is dead 15 years when are you going to start to take responsiblty for your own actions and stop blaiming everyone else,he never did.he also said ii had issues withsex as its completly normal to sneak about strippers ans uses prostitutes if your wife is ill.

[@angelavore6705]

10:36😭 sin #6 the next phase of suffering

[@Mandolin523]

When i realized 7 yrs my life and family was a lie it caused me to have a stroke.

[@skymeadow7762]

The unforgivable...when he beat me in front of my children

[@friedajoubert7081]

The never ending lies!!

[@KMS79877]

Please how to heal if someone faced all situation and no one world except God for help. How to survive how to face swear camping if no one trust empthy, narrciisstic manipulate and prove wrong to empathy in this whole world alone. Without murder narrciisstic kill empathy with heart, soul, mind, trust, family, friends, society, black magic also done to destroy all things and to revange and to prove good respect in society and own family by the narrciisstic. How to survive, please make video on this topic please so that who are not able to Fincially support to heal their wound issues with the help of professional, try to heal own self with the help of your precious knowledge 😢😢😢😢😢

[@IsleSeat]

wonderful, Danish

[@RenanahEphraim]

#1 sin = the rage. Being easily triggered by even the slightest statement. Even compliments.

[@SreekalaSreekala-h7h]

i have experienced all these except physical abuse

[@karenzilverberg4699]

100% correct.

[@bridgetsieger2261]

I don’t want to think that I will never trust again but.. I don’t think most people are honest. Most people lie.

[@amibeachbum2467]

Demanding in the beginning to always be at their side wherever they go to “ show you off” to do not speak when out with trying to lower confidence when other actually like your intellect to not being allowed to go on walks,breakfast lunch or dinner outings with even vacations. Not to mention showing up at your employment causing trouble with others only to get you fired Wake up and as be smarter than the average bear!

[@OceanBaby813]

💯 right on target 🎯

[@joseenoel8093]

Mine told everyone I had power of attorney, never asked for it but, by then, her insanity proven many times over was really just a meh, and where you been, she lied and even her lawyer thanked me for 1.5 secs to, as they say "Figure it out", onto cops some more (RCMP), hosp, buds (hers), family (hers maken them mine too) onto neglected 3, cats and covid, yay! She's not so into talking on the phone these yrs, hun, imagine that! Darn right proud of myself for having mastered her, hubby was next, believe it!

[@ishratjahan6206]

Sir, I want to contact you ? Im narcissistic survivor

[@PhyllisRush-t4g]

Bigest sin: physical abuse

[@beautypablotamarini7315]

Beg for minimum? 😂 He'll go to jail and beg for minimum.🎉

[@cynthiabrown5981]

Taking you away from your family.

[@paulinewroth5487]

Stonewalling.

[@tammysanford3808]

God exposed all of their lies with truth.l stayed silent.

[@meloneymoore8856]

Thank you for pointing this out ❤❤❤-Xclusyph Icon

[@shaneerasmus2591]

👍

[@FiiireLight]

❤❤❤❤❤

[@bekaharrell3885]

I honestly believe there’s no sin we can’t forgive. Forgiveness means to restore YOURSELF to right standing with El (God). You don’t forgive others for them you forgive them for yourself so that YOU don’t carry around the hurt and pain and negativity. Forgiveness doesn’t mean you restore the relationship with the abuser. Unfortunately there are two covert narcissists in my life at this point. One is my husband and the other is an adoptive daughter. Escape is impossible because I have too much to lose. No matter what they say or do I’ll always, always, always live and forgive them. I’m working on strategies to improve my life. Daughter is the worst and is obviously going to my husband behind my back to get supply. He’s not a bad person. He told me that I don’t play well with others which is projection. Big red flag. Daughter is twisting the narrative, claiming I’m being mean to her. My latest strategy is to only say nice things to them about each other while keeping emotional shields up. Praying for all of us! ❤❤❤❤

[@WearingAdos-el1xn]

For they are dead already

[@annahrankho7361]

Animalistic behaviour...

[@higgins0112able]

"Time is not renewable. In life and in love, there is no higher form of disrespect than wasting someone else's time" Not sure who wrote that but, IMO, this is a narcissist's greatest sin. 23 years of begging for the basic needs, and begging him to let me go if he didn't love me but still he persisted to breadcrumb, abuse, and betray me. Wish I had known that these evil ones exist long ago. I have to stand in the fact that perhaps it was the Lord's timing, because there were a few good things that came out the relationship. But mostly just pain and agony and sadness. God bless and heal all of us 🙏❤️

[@simonpegg1196]

This is something I always say. Narcs have no real intention of helping anybody, as they serve no one but themselves, but if they sense you might leave them for good after being tired of their tactics, they will bread-crumb you to keep you as a standby. Ultimately, being with them is a tremendous waste of time. It's best to disengage at the earliest, start healing and create your own life, and thrive.

[@bobbarker1798]

Wow, my story is exactly as yours. Wasted my time for about 23 years. Wouldn't leave, wouldn't be respectful. Tiny bread crumbs.

[@michealsilvey1124]

With ya sister... at 32 years and the evil demon my heart hurts 💔

[@maryglo1]

Candidates for retirement in homes for the benefit of the criminally disordered and insane. Padded rooms, straight jackets, customized medical care instead of punishment! Pu using these tipos is dangerous at best. The People need to be protected from the mentally ill having to wirk out their mental illnesses on the community. Gardens, doctors, nurses, three good meals, private quarters, long term housing is essential for stability and to keep these parasites out of our lives. Loving your enemy is a challenge. Pray and keep away. Grey rock, distract, detach, no contact... Use words like, "Can't, won't, don't and no." Know how to recognize gaslighting and veiled insults, phrases that constantly shift blame. Watch for lack of intimacy, lies and exaggeration. Check their background. Most of are haughty, want your attention and seem to care but they are gathering information to later deliver abuse in their signature, individualized manner. The smear campaign starts long before you realize you have a terrible monster in your home or worse, your bedroom.

[@sushumnaaparna1006]

True

[@Rebi.G]

The biggest sin for me is that now I don't know who to trust or how to believe anyone because it seems like every time I do it's another narcissist. It's amazing how tricky these people are and I just don't know how to get away from it

[@bonnielewin8520]

I started watching videos like 'Signs they are a narcissist'. Videos like this give signs someone is a narcissist when you are just getting to know them.

[@Rebi.G]

@@bonnielewin8520 yeah I watch a lot of them but so far I haven't been able to catch their tricks until it's too late

[@danmurray1143]

Narcissists are attracted to your kindness. Maybe it's time you started getting mean. If you do, I bet narcissists quit trying to infiltrate your world.

[@Rebi.G]

@@danmurray1143 I just want a nice person and they are always nice until you get in a relationship

[@Jessecraft1954]

I am indifferent to the narcissist. I don't have unforgiveness. I just am not interested in them anymore. Those relationships desolved. The great thing is, I know I was good to everyone of them. I have no guilt from mistreating anyone at all. That's something they won't experience either because of their lack of empathy. They know how they treat others. They don't care.

[@simonpegg1196]

Beautifully said!

[@Jessecraft1954]

@@simonpegg1196 Thank you.

[@LisaTravis-m7e]

After being in a relationship for 14 yrs, he was having yet another affair while my mother was suffering in a nursing home with dementia. Nwhen she passed, he showed up to her funeral service for a mere 20mins, and left me there with my family so he could be with his new supply. He admitted it one week after her passing and moved out that very day without a word. He stole my ability to mourn my mother and left me mourning our relationship as well. I was a mess.

[@joseenoel8093]

Someone I know had an affair with a staff member too, I said you mean they're doing it in the bathroom among the pile of dirty diapers (That's what's in the shower 🚿 stall), no says my informant but still... So the wife and him are going to try and work things out (how pathetic) and she waste a more yrs on the idiot (what did she need to work on?) So tough break and if you had a good mom that's wonderful, mine always told me I was in charge of her funeral, I called to see what that entailed, it was I.D. ing her dead decaying 80lbs body, gave that honour to her nephew, she's 2 provinces away I've better things to do with my time my toilet 🚽 might need cleaning!

[@petrisallinen2123]

Murder of spirit.

[@dr.muhammadamin1554]

They suck the soul. This is their food.

[@Rebi.G]

I'm just one big glitch now. Trying to deprogram myself is the most difficult thing I ever had to do 😢

[@StudiosDelirium]

You’re a survivor! Be proud of that. Watch all videos: Dr Ramani, Dr Carter or find a good therapist who specializes in narcissistic abuse. You will get through this with tools, knowledge, self love, self respect and time. The worst part is over if you’ve gone no contact. Best wishes and luck to you. You are stronger than you think.😊