7 Ways We Sabotage Our Lives

[@bumpercoach]

1- wasting time (scrolling/gaming/sports) 2- destroying your health (ffod/movement) 3- ungrateful/bad-attitude/victim-mentality 4- lack/refusal of wise counsel 5- burnout (overworked/under-rested) 6- over-spending 7- lack of MISSION

[@AllAboutSurvival]

I’ve seen how discipline and responsibility play a huge role not just in the range but in life as well.

[@brettelizabethspore]

Yes!

[@kruppert54]

I’m a 70 year old retired farmer and I have to say this video was timely if not your best. That last one, you stomped on my toes man and so did your buddy! This one is going on my playlist. Thanks John!!

[@trainwreck2k2]

I have my vices just like everyone else but the people who can binge watch shows for hours and hours blows my mind.

[@balasaashti3146]

I honestly can't say much at times the other day on my day off finally got one I spent eight hours reading Crime and Punishment lol.

[@American-131]

​@@balasaashti3146did you beat off as well 🤔

[@justinw3279]

Love this! These are the types of videos that made me tune in nearly 8 years ago.

[@kaelinfisher6813]

Hillsdale college videos are actually really good. They are free. It is worth the time

[@THERESISTANCE762]

GREAT ADVICE JOHN! YOU MOTIVATE THE HELL OUT OF ME! AND I HOPE OTHERS ARE MOTIVATED BY YOU ALSO!!

[@777SFINN777]

Wasting time/ procrastinating hits me hugely as I'm sure it does for others. I get home from work, know I have to do this or that but say "hey, I work 10 hour days outside in Arizona. I deserve a rest before chors, working out etc." But I sit down on the couch, or in front of my PC and bam its 7pm and time for bed.

[@michaellautermilch9185]

We don't own a TV. Absolutely loving it!

[@LibertyFrontier]

John your channel has slowly over time become one of my favorites. Your videos are always entertaining as a fellow believer you’re a strong character that we need in this day and age.

[@thadgomez8904]

Much RESPECT!!! A MAN MUST HAVE A MISSION, A CAUSE, A PURPOSE!

[@SplashOfOrange]

I needed to hear this... I spend too much time scrolling WPS videos. ;-)

[@TJDeez]

I tend to overuse KZbin. It's great for staying current, learning about shooting, hunting, fishing and being entertained. I have little kids and work so I don't always have time to make it out fishing for long or time at the range. But I do have the ability to take little pockets of time to do this and it's free

[@Popeye12340]

I find myself watching KZbin videos. I guess like I am now but I try to keep myself informed as far as world events. We could talk about the digital ID, digital currency, war in Ukraine or even the Middle East like what is going on in Israel. I personally try to share Jesus Christ whenever I can because He is the only hope people have. Jesus Christ is Lord!

[@Eyesontheprize27]

That's awesome dude. Keep striving for perfection. Your sound like your on the right track.

[@HotelCharliHill]

Amen!

[@seanthegod4585]

Yes, I don't watch any television or movies, only KZbin. KZbin premium to watch exactly what I like, without any advertisements.

[@American-131]

Same here only KZbin brother ​@@seanthegod4585

[@American-131]

Just so everyone is on the right track be sure and vote Donald j Trump as jesse lee Peterson says the great white hope 👍🏻

[@akdefense]

This guy, this channel, this movement; simply Amazing.

[@oldwestarmory]

I need this today

[@alexc5810]

amen

[@svwanderlust9697]

Great stuff! Thanks for posting

[@benjaminbrothers1658]

Got to meet John yesterday at pistol 1. And he is an awesome guy. What you see is what you get! Caring, friendly and funny. Would 100% recommend taking his firearm classes.

[@blackhat2005]

Im listening to this on my phone while doing dishes... check mate

[@MapleBar777]

It’s the only way to do dishes 🤜🤛

[@aaronalderfer4275]

Same bros 😂

[@Axis1337]

I agree with a lot of this but I think the biggest thing is moderation. Gaming, watching videos, scrolling, etc isn't inherently bad but if done to an excess THEN it is wasting time and can negatively affect your life. I myself am a gamer and do play quite a lot of hours of gaming but it is usually late nights when I have nothing going on or nothing to do. I don't see that as a negative, it's a way to destress, unwind, and have some fun. However, if you do these things IN PLACE of things you should/need to be doing then that is detracting from your life. Love your videos John and would love to have a conversation with you someday.

[@scottboyce]

Screen time-in whatever form-carries a heavy opportunity cost. It’s not just that can crowd out necessities. You’re giving up time for recreation or relationships or personal development that would be way more valuable.

[@TomahawkAssault]

@@scottboyce Wrong. Exactly what you said applies to time spent reading books, or almost any other form of recreation. Almost everything you do in life, someone like you can come along and make an argument that there is probably something even better you **could** be doing. There is time enough for balance and moderation in all things. What you are assuming is that the person who is gaming hasn't already spent quality time with his family, or on personal development, which says more about your prejudicial view of others than anything. One can watch a movie, or play a video game with friends, while also consistently spending time with family and growing in life.

[@American-131]

​@@TomahawkAssaultyou over think too much I think you're assuming that he's assuming

[@scottboyce]

@@TomahawkAssault Hey man, I completely agree that every action has an opportunity cost and of course everybody has different value systems for finding balance in their priorities. But hey, we're all on YT and clearly find some kind of value so we can be friends here :)

[@brianrowe8028]

Thanks for the reminder! I’ve had four back surgeries. I was recently in the hospital and I’m on iv antibiotics through a picc line right now. You are so right on how when your body goes down it affects everything. I was in “fighting shape” doing martial arts and now I’m gaining weight while trying to heal. I’m reignited to spend my down time better with spending more time reading things that matter and less time mindlessly scrolling. I may be sick but I’m not out of the fight! Thanks for the encouragement I needed today! God is still on the throne of my life!

[@scubasteve1236]

Thanks John!

[@IfereimiKoroiyale-pw6cl]

Amen brother. I love listening to content like this while I’m working.

[@leaveandneverturnback8226]

"Your pain will bei your healing". Wonderful video!

[@laumuseka]

You have totally nailed every point in this for me. Stuff I’ve already worked on and things I need to work on. For the record you are a massive influence in my life. I appreciate you so much!

[@brettelizabethspore]

Great list. I can totally see these issues playing out in our society and in my own life at times.

[@Wootangtw]

Thanks buddy

[@HOMETHEATERBOY]

Take every thought captive in obedience to Christ

[@officialthomasjames]

Right now I’m trying to figure out my mission. I need to set the career I want in stone and begin on that path. It’s the first time I’m making a major decision on my own, and I know it will be the official start of manhood for me. I know I’m not alone in this so men keep your head up and do not think you are stuck. Make a move.

[@countrybearassassin3098]

Thank you, sir. I'm pretty new to your following, but im here for good. You have a lot of very inspiring content.

[@kentstewart469]

I like how you touch on everything fast. I could comment forever but it wouldn't matter. Your a good egg brother.

[@vagueoldloon7985]

Turning 50 today! This really hits home as I teeder over to what is definitely less than half of my life. I weight train and exercise daily but started later than I should have. Alot of great info here. If this doesn't hit home watch again and think deeply. Look forward then apply to your current position in life. I love every day I am not fertilizer for the next life. Arm yourself. Protect your family and love often.

[@fredir3596]

John, you ARE my wise counsel.

[@andrewlrodrigues]

As soon as you mentioned wasted time, I opened my Google doc and started writing stories again. Thanks for the wisdom and motivation!

[@rhythmicpoet528]

I've been watching your channel for a while now, and this is really the first time I've commented on anything in a long time. I greatly appreciate the content you have put out. When I had my daughter, my first child, I began looking to your channel for wise counsel on firearms and really the core of what you stand for; the warrior poet way. Now, being 24 with 3 children I am overwhelmingly greatful for the content you put out because in the world we live in now we need many more men like you leading from the front. And so, from a man who has struggled through much, I thank you for being a guide in these difficult times. Everything you do and say points right back to Christ.

[@ellennovicky8689]

Onward and upward! No matter what. Very inspirational thoughts.

[@trumpet5565]

Words of wisdom. Thanks!

[@nealnegron1860]

This was a great and very unique way of viewing things. Unfortunately, most self-sabotage happens on an unconscious level. This is why the most important step is to be highly self aware and knowing yourself. You must call your shots on why it is that you are doing what you do. Great list. Thanks

[@douglaskaplon2595]

I definitely need to hear this one

[@Eyesontheprize27]

*more than interesting. This is a message from the Lord. God used this man to speak to us. Blessings upon blessings. Amen.

[@Jedheye]

Hey John, I know you probably won't see this at all, but I just wanted to say thank you. Thank you for being the man you are and sharing your wisdom, humor, and experiences with us all. I've been watching your content since I turned 21 and started carrying my first blaster back in 2021. You've not only helped me grow as a CCW holder, but as a man, and a Warrior Poet. This video in particular has hit a lot of points that relate to my personal life and struggles. I definitely look up to you as I never had much of a father figure in my life. You are the prime example of the man I want to be in life. So thank you, again, for all you do. God Bless you and your family. Much love brother. 🙏🫶✌️

[@stephenboldrey9973]

Is it a waste of time watching KZbin videos if your educating yourself on certain topics and then putting it to practice . Is there a point were your spending so munch time on education it’s a waste of time. If you spend 20 years educating your self on one specific topic. & then you find your self to old or out of shape to put what you studied to use . I think if there something you want to do or see before your time is up on earth. You should make that priority number one in your life . Live life like there is no tomorrow. . I’m 52 years old I found Iv put so munch on hold for one thing or the other . I now know I’m past the better half of my life . Time is not slowing down . I’ve spent my life planning for old age . Now I’d rather say I did nothing to prepare for older age and did everything before it was too late .

[@bobmarquardt393]

Attitude, burnout and mission are my 3.

[@JIMJONES66]

Wow john ... this video hits hard, outstanding

[@steveknecht3091]

Build-a-Bear mentor! That might be the greatest phrase I've ever heard!

[@DisciplesHyper]

Great video Sir John Lovell, and Ben Kelms input is always knowledgeable and appreciated.

[@wanderer3591]

Good list.

[@Joker4ultr4]

As a professional self saboteur, I appreciate that you deliver content that applies to real life. There are other types of self sabotage. It’s a darker topic and requires reflection. 🃏

[@lukehill1779]

Awesome video!

[@travisgregg4582]

Thanks dad!

[@christopherkoster7218]

Thanks for all you do brother, I liked the PTSD analogy (actually truth), it explained a lot why some of my military friends, even after years, still have PTSD, and why others "no big deal".

[@charliedarrow3048]

Great information.

[@robtalbot4594]

This is very wise counsel

[@jeffpaul6252]

Good talk!

[@aliceburte9278]

Thank You sir always enjoy listening 👍🇺🇸

[@veugeler72]

I feel the same way about work

[@AltaSurvival]

Amen! Good video!

[@avideezplayz6807]

Hey John, I'm a student at Hillsdale College who loves what you do, and I was wondering if you'd consider coming to speak here. The college frequently hosts speakers such as yourself, and your knowledge would greatly benefit the students here.

[@Papawsaurus]

Good talk. 👍🏻

[@DanielRyanScott]

The less BS I have, the more time I gain for what really matters. Sometimes less is more.

[@stevebozsa6666]

Can't find a single thing wrong with what you're saying

[@goodcitizen64]

Amen and God bless y'all

[@Cageey1117]

you convinced me. 1219hrs, 01Oct24, 2:38 into the presentation. P.S. Later today passing my time running 200 rounds through my CR920P War Poet.

[@travisbuscholl2479]

Good wisdom

[@aarondaigle8412]

Dave Ramsey Financial Peace University and the baby steps is life changing, truly!

[@richmarko8704]

The FDA, who is supposed to make sure our food is safe & those who profit economically from us being sick, sit together at the dinner table. John , you are certainly your brothers keeper, we need to hear this from time to time. And with that being said , Let's not let our stomachs rule over us !

[@ryanhart7392]

I've gone from 260lb down to 203lb in the last year by going carnivore.

[@eriklambert3809]

Carnivore is awesome. I tell guys to at least do it for 8 weeks and see the difference. Anyone with any autoimmune issue needs to try it.

[@Lstractorman]

Lost 45 in 6 months but stalled need to lose another 30

[@zacharyrowe8667]

If you source good meat it's about the only way to eat healthy anymore.

[@918Mitchell]

Good job losing the weight, I'm in the same fight

[@jerzfiveohthree]

I would like to do carnivore but I have gout and too much red meat will make it flair up

[@NomadicGargoyle]

I want to start my own podcast and follow the footsteps of this great guy and many others but I find myself in constant battle with myself and the people closest to me. Almost like I’m my own worst enemy in form of my day to day life vs my thoughts and true intentions in life. God has a calling for me. My life experiences and my intuition all are screaming at me to do something but I don’t know where to start. I looked at microphones and cameras today and all I could ask myself is “where does this lead for my life?” Please pray for me

[@WallabieMcDee]

I'll be watching baby hippo attack videos after this

[@andrewlancaster3198]

Yo link best here?

[@raccoon6072]

8. Collecting fire arms

[@paulwilliams5800]

I need to add earphones so I can listen to you and work and others

[@masterofnone87]

Shots fired

[@BlueberryPiez]

Cmooooonn man, yeah this is hitting home hard, gentlemen. Never isolate yourself from wise strong men like this, it will be your downfall. Put your ego aside. Be teachable. And again. Don’t isolate yourself from men like this. Like this tho. Not the dirtbags a good percentage of our “friends” are.

[@646-fq7]

Interesting

[@xrfy5653]

Hello sir I was wondering if you guys still sold your appendix carry holsters, the ones that have a slot for your firearm and a slot for an extra magazine?

[@JT-xo4hq]

8. Making yourself vulnerable to the criminal justice system by operating outside the law. Some things can take years to resolve or "pay" for, and may follow you for the rest of your life.

[@donaldanderson7410]

I don’t have an attitude problem, it’s supposed to be this way.

[@braker3589]

I had to quit social media about 12 yrs ago. It was impacting my mental health. It was making me depressed. Iwas constantly seeing people’s fun, exciting, amazing parts of their lives and not acknowledging my own highs.

[@DanielJones-cl6kp]

So, Pastor Lovell what do you think about 3 of 11 project's vid on USA is gone because 1/2 of us have turned their back on God so we need to just constraint on Yeshua & what comes next?

[@michaellautermilch9185]

Totally agree with #7 for men at least. It's all in Genesis 2. Adam was made for the mission, and Eve for the relationship. Neither was made for their own personal pleasure or self fulfillment.

[@josiahmay5270]

I think that’s the first time I have heard “cradle to grave” in the proper context.

[@M_White_VA]

Where's the video you did of hurricane? Who are those 4 accounts you said to follow?

[@CoreyFPiazza]

The god of self is a cruel god. Overdemanding, full of need, and never satisfied. If you can find a good Shepherd who can keep the promise of rest, who is meek and lowly in heart, with a yoke that is easy and whose burden is light, where you can find rest for your soul, that is a God worth following.

[@Curious-Mr.-Lee]

"I'm landing this plane." So I learned of John from warrior poet society, then I found out he's a pastor 🤩, now I am wondering if he is also a pilot.

[@thiagobryan1958]

💥

[@TheMacsLife0]

👏

[@Sherlynn-b8b]

...and nobody cares Lovelle lmfao 😅🎉wasting this time on you is what it is.❤love it

[@christopherkey3488]

hear hear 🍻

[@troycroft2515]

Hey I love all your videos. I will like to see you have a conversation with this KZbinr Whatifalthist about topics about the American youth mintal health. That will be educational to see. And keep up the good work 👏 ❤

[@SSPspaz]

@@troycroft2515 I’d recommend Nick Freitas’ Making the Argument Podcast. He’s a former Green Beret, shares almost all the same values as John and he’s had at least couple episodes with WhatIfAltHist. Definitely worth a watch. PS - Nick has also done at least one episode (if not more) with John Lovell too.

[@brettbuckmaster5128]

I work too much but I also need to provide for my family financially. It is a tough balance.

[@goosecouple]

"A large and increasing US population cannot even tell time from an analog clock. Good luck !!"

[@aaronfox5559]

It’s like the old people of the day saying “ a large population can’t tell time from the shadow rock!?!” All I’m saying is time moves on gramps

[@JohnTheRevelator11]

@@aaronfox5559-15 experience gramps makes it through Armageddon, however Your character experienced lag and got wacked.

[@dashcammer4322]

Reading an unmarked analog clock is part of a quick test for dementia.

[@bryguy1725]

It is crazy what consumerism does to people. I've seen people blow their budget just by getting snacks from the corner store, every other day. That 20 or 30 bucks makes a huge difference over time.

[@jusme8060]

I think you may be speaking to people on fire about how great the smoke is.

[@hanselito2416]

14:00 its because mixing with civilians who expect them to be same same makes it worse humans also when they see someone struggling they attack the weakness. that makes it worse. its not weakness, but it sure as fuck looks like it.

[@RodneyGrefalda]

On the overspending category, if you are accumulating things that are just collecting dust, you are also sabotaging yourself because on top of debt and savings for retirement, you taking time from yourself because you will need to clean up that junk. If you don't clean up that junk, then who ever cares enough in your life after you've passed away will have to take time to clean up your junk.

[@LucasDonates]

All my friends and relatives who moved to the US gained a lot of weight. I barely recognized my cousin when he moved from London to New Jersey, thankfully, he decided to return to the UK. The last time I went to McDonald's was in 2016, and Burger King in 2019. As a Brazilian, the main problem among Brazilians is their "mongrel complex" imitating everything from the US, including junk food.

[@molallamerica896]

Eliminating soy and seed oils from my diet has helped me lose 20 lbs. No soda and no candy. If I have a craving, I grab a teaspoon of raw honey. I still eat carbs if they are soy and see oil free.

[@cavscout888]

Way too much youtube, and learning on youtube, but also world events. I think now is worse due to the manufactured stress, along with overload.

[@TjFruichantie]

Why do we seem to always blame overspending on "keeping up with the Joneses"? I can't speak for anyone else, but I know there's a little boy inside of me that doesn't like the word no. Most days, I'm much better at telling my kids no than telling myself no.

[@nonyabusinessinc]

John pushes new shit you need to buy all the time. Unplug. Or: CONSUME

[@SSPspaz]

@@nonyabusinessinc I love John, but you’re not wrong. He’s running a business, and that business sells goods and services, and has paid advertisers. Get the gear you absolutely need, train on how to use it well, and stop trying to keep up with all the Gucci gear the GunTubers are pushing. You don’t need it.

[@TjFruichantie]

@@SSPspaz And to be clear, my comment was not a jab or citisisim of John. It was just a thought that occurred to me when John mentioned that and I wanted to share. I really appreciate John and the work he does. I don't always agree 100% with everything he says, however, I don't think I need to to appreciate what he shares.

[@andrewlancaster3198]

​@@SSPspaz you know Baptist preachers aren't exactly raking it in.

[@SSPspaz]

@@andrewlancaster3198 Nope, they aren’t, but who is a Baptist preacher? Are you talking about Lovell? From what I understand, John occasionally visits different churches and preaches as a guest, but that’s obviously not his current vocation 😂

[@rustyshackelford4592]

Hope you and your family are safe and weren't affected by the storms. If so, let us in the community know if you need any help.