8 GROWN WOMAN habits girls learn TOO LATE

[@shaliniekka232]

1. Self defence (know how and when to defend yourself) 2. Staying quiet (learn when amd where to stay quiet) 3. Going in different direction (taking bold decision for yourself) 4. Goals management (breaking down major goal into small and achievable targets) 5. Self discipline (cut out distraction) 6. Boundaries (learn to say no to protect your time and peace) 7. Independent (doing stuff on your own) 8. Correcting your path (it's not late to start now, take firm decision for you life) 9. Categorizing your friends (certain friends are for certain things ,based on similarities)

[@nodrvgs]

thank you❤

[@simonaslechtova4653]

Translation for my European fellows: "You need to START acting your shoe size" 😅

[@its_sabrinak]

Haaaa😂

[@ChamiaTiarra]

😂😂🫶🏾

[@plt414]

You're funny 😂

[@La-TanyaFasinae]

girl you literally just put me in my place 🤣🙆🏾‍♀️🙆🏾‍♀️rightfully so

[@asmrpicaloversunited6580]

😂 right! Me too!

[@ChamiaTiarra]

I’m learned sometimes tough love is the best love😂🫶🏾

[@anaika1393]

@@ChamiaTiarrap❤

[@littlehersheygirl6876]

I’m 18 and learning all of this the hard way. It’s working for sure and it will continue to improve!❤❤ Btw, I’m making a big change. I’m changing my major from music education to nursing. Pray for me y’all!😩

[@charlieianthe9072]

I was watching this thinking how spot on you are and was waiting to read the comments to find out you only have 40k subscribers. It's still a lot don't get me wrong but I was expecting you to have a million plus. Thank you for your advice, you deserve more love!

[@ChamiaTiarra]

Thank youu and yes i have faith i will definitely be hitting that million plus one day but for right now i’ll just keep showing the people why i deserve it lol🫶🏾

[@elizabethstewart443]

When you began on the topic about friends, it hit home. A lot of people don’t realize you can’t all your friends the same thing

[@elizabethstewart443]

Do you have a public instagram page 🥺

[@ChamiaTiarra]

Not at the moment, I’m taking a little social media break besides KZbin to just clear my mind a bit

[@xomich.]

WE NEED YOU ON SPOTIFY

[@funsizedmyah3853]

I needed this video at 26 so much is changing for me making me realize I have to change as well 💕😮‍💨

[@ChamiaTiarra]

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[@Jada455]

i’m watching this on my 18th birthday 💚. needed this

[@ChamiaTiarra]

Yess I love that for you happy birthday🫶🏾

[@kirkhammetluvrrr]

watching this at 15 SO helpful. thank you

[@ChamiaTiarra]

🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾

[@angellove7127]

You changed my life. You read me like a book. At 32 years old you shifted my mindset & made me realize that it’s not too late You’re the guidance I needed all along 🥹🥹thank you for this😭 I wish I could hug. I’m super grateful

[@ChamiaTiarra]

Yes I love to hear that and I’m so happy I could do that for you🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾

[@mikeysslice531]

You’re my “Thewizardliz” the things you say resonate with me so much! Thank you

[@ChamiaTiarra]

Aww thank you so much I really appreciate that❤️

[@Ooo7ljs]

I love both of their content 😭😩

[@Datb2]

Omg boundaries! My biggest lesson thus far cause baby the way people will test my boundary and cross them is scary no fs given

[@Yiriyiri]

This helped me define everything I’ve been feeling. Thank you 💕

[@ChamiaTiarra]

I’m happy I could do that🫶🏾🫶🏾

[@sherenachristmas5557]

KZbin recommended this video. I am now subscribed! You spoke right to me. Thanks for sharing!

[@ChamiaTiarra]

Thank youu for supporting🫶🏾

[@Ooo7ljs]

Honestly this video was SO helpful i HAD to share it to my sister’s and mother. FROM the bottom of my heart THANK you!

[@ChamiaTiarra]

I’m glad you liked it and thank youu so much for sharing it

[@Chardayvia]

Watching this at 25 🙌🏾 thank you !

[@eternalplaneofconsciousness]

absolutely, Iove the path one because its crazy how many people don't have this idea especially the "im 18 mindset"

[@chroniclesofbithia]

As someone with a tiny shoe size , the intro made me choke a little bit lol

[@ChamiaTiarra]

😂😂🫶🏾

[@PNAMIRACLES]

You ate with the ending! “She was never supposed to leave happy hour” 😂❤

[@ChamiaTiarra]

😂😂❤️

[@kelseyacaesar]

The shoe size comment slapped me silly. lol Love it!

[@Kearabetswe-d4s]

As a varsity girl....I will definitely keep u in mind😊❤❤❤❤

[@chyahnagoodridge8708]

This video blessed me thanks for sharing !!

[@ChamiaTiarra]

You’re so welcome! I’m glad it resonated with you. 💕

[@aaji74]

What a beautiful video, May the Lord bless the words that flow from your heart🙏🏾💕

[@ChamiaTiarra]

Thank youu🫶🏾

[@CiiThaCancer]

this video came at the perfect time ❤️!

[@ChamiaTiarra]

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[@laurasebalj5939]

me, an european: I should not act like im 38? okaay! 😂😂

[@briannaayafor]

I love your videos 💓 you speak truth and I love learning from you. Keep doing what you’re doing and creating!

[@ChamiaTiarra]

Thank you so much, I really appreciate that!🫶🏾

[@AraErinle]

this advice is golden advice

[@d.asiatp]

Thank you Chamia, peace and blessings

[@ChamiaTiarra]

No problem and to you as well🫶🏾

[@cinthyarocano6895]

Loved loved your video I really needed this Thank you !!!

[@ChamiaTiarra]

You are so welcome🫶🏾

[@YaliciaRamos]

FIRE video !!! So so much value

[@ChamiaTiarra]

Thank youu

[@NouraSum]

Thanks for your knowledge ❤😊

[@lesmariaxique]

whew, i needed this! ❤

[@ChamiaTiarra]

🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾

[@niecydaniels7591]

LOVE LOVE LOVE. You are so wise. I am so glad I found this video and also your channel-New subbie🎉, especially the last topic you discussed about friend groups. Truly needed to hear that because for a while I was going crazy emotionally wondering why I am like this and so picky with who I hang out with…..Now I know I’m like this because I have standards, just like romantic relationships friendships has a compatibility meter as well. Good day to you and God bless! ❤

[@ChamiaTiarra]

Thank youu and thank you so much for the support🫶🏾

[@audreymaduike3989]

Girl this info is amazing!

[@ChamiaTiarra]

Thank youu

[@TheyLoveLaysiaa]

1:07 yesss cause speak up with my current bf and he tell me im a crash out which is insane cause i never spoken up for myself. I tend to hide how i feel cause i don’t want to be labeled as a crash out but then I know I deserve to speak up for myself

[@ChamiaTiarra]

Exactly people love to keep you small‼️ they hate to see you stand up for yourself because they know that means they can’t treat you how they truly want to

[@TheyLoveLaysiaa]

@ thank you for this amazing video

[@TheyLoveLaysiaa]

@ it’s just a battle everyday with me like I know how to speak but I’m exhausted with confrontation

[@ChamiaTiarra]

@ sometimes we have to know when to separate ourselves from situations, it will hurt at first but you can’t heal a wound if you keep letting someone open it🫶🏾

[@TheyLoveLaysiaa]

@ you are amazing thank you ❤️

[@Cherish-Ugo]

I can't speak up in my house because my mom finds an issue with it.

[@Honeymoonhun]

Same when i talk back to her she gets very mad which i respect with empathy. But when it comes to publicly defending my self or in social areas like school for example she had taught me to stand up for my self.

[@Bellzbellz333]

Keeep posting I love your vids sm

[@ChamiaTiarra]

🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾 thank you and yes this is just the beginning

[@essence____beauty_92]

Love these tips & congratulations on your podcast ❤❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉😊😊😊

[@ChamiaTiarra]

Thank youu🫶🏾🫶🏾

[@pipelayomimiko]

Intro got it😂

[@roe3753]

Yess girl!!!! Everytime i dont want to do something, i think of you saying, your life is gonna go inna direction regardless. So figure out the direction you want to go.. 🫶🏻 your like my personal therapist girl

[@ChamiaTiarra]

Awww thank you so much I really appreciate that🫶🏾

[@sarahogayonne3710]

Starting off with a roast is crazy 😭💀💀💀

[@Theladyleshea]

This is real

[@mauricsamoniece]

Thissssss!!!

[@ChamiaTiarra]

🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾

[@dominiqueed6432]

Love this video 🤍

[@ChamiaTiarra]

Thank youu🫶🏾🫶🏾

[@beyoncebriggs2637]

This is the earliest I’ve ever been 🥰😂

[@ChamiaTiarra]

Yess I hope you liked it🫶🏾

[@beyoncebriggs2637]

@ Loved it as usual!

[@mesha_kaye]

🔥🔥

[@ChamiaTiarra]

🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾

[@Beepboopbop-z4g]

Jesus loves you

[@chandypierre]

Dis the happy hour girl happen to you? Lol seemed so specific 😅

[@ChamiaTiarra]

No lol but it happened to a friend of mine after I told her don’t bring that girl anywhere😂😂

[@Ayishaeducates]

❤

[@ChamiaTiarra]

🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾

[@UniquelyFrandi]

Call me out, to the front!!

[@ChamiaTiarra]

Yes I had to waste no time😂🫶🏾

[@NouraSum]

Thanks for your knowledge ❤😊

[@ChamiaTiarra]

Of course🫶🏾🫶🏾