8 Items of Clothing I Will NEVER Declutter | Slow Fashion

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Hi everyone! Today I'm sharing 8 classic wardrobe staples that I will NEVER declutter. Or if I do, I will replace these timeless wardrobe staples with something similar. What are the timeless wardrobe staples you've had in your closet for the longest? Let me know in the comments and thank you for watching!
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[@pattir5967]

I have a very basic but great quality black knit dress that's about 30 years old. I don't wear it often but when I do I am so glad I kept it. It's perfect for so many occasions and is easy to dress up with different footwear and accessories. I really appreciate the fact that you don't blindly use the "haven't worn it in a year" criteria to decide whether or not to keep an item. Thank you, Alyssa!!

[@ifetayodavidson-cade5613]

I agree that the one year rule shouldn't be followed strictly, because that could mean decluttering clothes during a mild winter, only to need them when a severe winter happens.

[@susanschreyer7654]

I have a London Fog trench coat that is easily 35 years old. It's in fabulous condition and I love wearing it -- it's a midi length and the color is unusual -- kind of bronze with almost a 2-dimensional sheen. I'm sure I'll never get rid of it!

[@AlyssaBeltempo]

Oh that sounds like a classic!

[@kimberlyperrotis8962]

I also have a London Fog trench even older, I love it. Last year, I did order another color trench from them, but sadly they have switched from nylon to much-lower quality polyester.

[@pavla2055]

Me too ! I've held on to a London Fog trench style midi coat for close to 40 yrs . It has a warm removable liner but I would describe mine as hot chocolate in colour . The shoulder pads are a little concerning to me - I think I'll remove them for a more current look - they don't make them like this one anymore .

[@MC-gq5ms]

My red, midi London Fog trench is 40 years old and I have people stop and ask me where I got it! I lost the belt and recently found a replacement, but it’s great without a belt also. I’ll never get rid of it.

[@tracythomas343]

I have a black knit dress in my closet I bought in 1984. It was in storage for many years. I recently lost a lot of weight and can fit in it again. Yay me!

[@AlyssaBeltempo]

A second life for your dress! Have fun wearing it Tracy!

[@24Jeeya]

My grandmother's sari repurposed as a dupatta/chunni/ long scarf. Also, my Mom's Dior clutch. Love both and will pass them on to the daughter.

[@ozywomandius2290]

Sounds beautiful, I love long swaths of fabric! So dramatic. 👌🏼

[@24Jeeya]

@@ozywomandius2290 Thank you Bonnie!

[@deborahmac1997]

Valadation sisterhood! When they work for you they are signature. Those wide leg pants are just so good. Each one of your keeps just suit you so well. My oldest is a 20 year old dark gray, cotton, oversized button down with a placket that covers the buttons, a second hand navy cashmere that was 20 years old when I purchased and I've had it for 20 years and it's perfect.

[@AlyssaBeltempo]

Love that you mention a signature look - that is so true! xx

[@trishmorille8630]

My late neighbor and friend gifted me with a cashmere sweater and matching skirt she purchased in Austria in the early 60’s before I was born. It is classic and well-made and it will always be in my wardrobe. ❤️

[@AlyssaBeltempo]

And so special! xx

[@dinaoreilly9483]

For those of us who watched Alyssa's 'what I eat' and her exercise routines videos, her weight consistency is COMPLETELY UNDERSTANDABLE....she eats well, carefully and thoughtfully; and exercises consistently mixing up cardio/flexiblity/strength....no surprize to me she keeps a stable weight....it is what we do 80% of the time that makes the difference...LOL....Big Hugs Sweetheart....

[@frenchstyle7038]

My oldest piece is a pair of earrings that I paid $2 when I was about 17 years old. I am now in my fifties and wear them on a regular basis. Every time I wear them, I get compliments on them. I bought them in a flea market. They are fabulous and unique and they are still in perfect condition. Every time I wear them, I still can't believe it. Thanks for this video!

[@AlyssaBeltempo]

Those are the best finds!

[@Androgynary]

I love how practical you are in regards to building & maintaining an intentional wardrobe! I can’t relate to these minimalist channels that have

[@AlyssaBeltempo]

I'm so glad it resonates with you! xx

[@karelmillard9854]

Agreed & well said.

[@pjalexandra]

Yes thanks for this comment. I am not a minimalist. I refresh my wardrobe with good quality pieces every year, and take care of them. When I get bored of wearing items or they go off-trend, I store them, and then bring them out again a few years later later, or get them tailored differently. I feel like purging everything to be a strict minimalist is, in some ways, a rather privileged modern perspective. I know it is helpful for many people, but it's not the only path to responsible consumption.

[@youtubesurfer7271]

You should never get rid of that wrap dress. A classic.

[@AlyssaBeltempo]

I hope not to! As long as it fits!

[@user-es2ob1xd9p]

A teal halter neck dress my mom bought for me upon entering college. I wore it to my college graduation too. Found it out recently, tried it on and it still fits amazingly. It’s 16 years old.

[@AlyssaBeltempo]

Wow!! Love that!

[@kathysteele3071]

I love this. Many others tell us, if we have not worn it in X years, that it needs to go. I cleaned out my overstuffed closet 3 years ago and got rid of lots. I didn’t follow all the directions and kept a few classics-I am so glad I did! Explaining the WHY of keeping things really helped. I also know how to clear out a few more things-when you shared the blouses, that really hit home. Looking forward to the 29th.

[@AlyssaBeltempo]

I'm go glad you liked it Kathy! There are definitely times when I've used that as an indicator but I dont think it can be applied all the time, as you said! I'm so glad you found this video helpful and excited to see you on the 29th! xx

[@TheDriftwoodlover]

True but that’s the mantra of the fast fashion trend du jour crowd.

[@beckyscheller9358]

Key note is well made and timeless. Nice to know I am not the only one holding on to older pieces. Never go out of style

[@AlyssaBeltempo]

Yes! Thank you for watching Becky!

[@cltinturkey]

I like that DVF dress and don't recall ever seeing it before. Time to take it out to play! Thanks for NOT insisting we get rid of things not worn for a year or more. I have some beautiful and classic items I haven't worn in several years because of various reasons. I WILL enjoy them in the future and plan to keep them 20 years or more. Also honoring items you already own, no matter their source. Use and enjoy rather than replacing with something "sustainable". It's not sustainable if you ditched a perfectly good option just to buy another.

[@libbypetersen3523]

Oh, I hope you're still wearing that DVF dress when you're 80+--absolutely timeless! (as is that perfect cocktail hemline, esp. with your legs--no need to listen to come-and-go trends) I would love to see you play with it a little, and would watch a "10 ways to wear..." video featuring that dress!

[@elizabethmiddleton7003]

The DVF dress! Such a classic ❣️I’ll never part with mine either

[@AlyssaBeltempo]

Right?

[@TheDriftwoodlover]

I like that it’s an alternate length. Variety is nice.

[@jeanettekays1954]

I have several items that will never leave my closet. So I appreciate that I'm in good company.

[@nataliafinegan4076]

My oldest piece in the closet is almost 30 years old (I am 40+ 😁), it’s a Benetton overalls (or jumpsuit) which I would not wear for several years, and then spend all season in it: and then repeat it all over again 😄 I moved countries and it moved with me 😉

[@AlyssaBeltempo]

Nice I love that!

[@freefallingintograce4634]

Hi Alyssa, loved your Ode to the Button Up. So poetic! I loved hearing how they've been with you through many stages of your life. It's true. Some of my oldest items have a sentimental value and have been passed on from family members. I cherish them the most. My favourite and the oldest item is a piece of jewelry my sister and I designed to represent our family - as a family amulet. We took all the old wedding bands from women in my family who had passed on and melded them together to make three identical amulets for Mum's 75th Birthday - for her, my sister and me. So I can now carry all the strength and beauty of my grandmothers and aunts in my heart area. I cannot tell you how much love and courage this gives me.💖💖💖 Have a beautiful day, Bella! Big hugs 🌺🥰

[@sandramaki7819]

Your DVF dress looks great on you and is a classic that is always in style IMHO. I have several pieces that are over 20 years old ( black leather moto jacket, black coat dress, print skirt). I too will never get rid of these pieces and still wear them, although some only a few times a year. LOVED this video! Another youtuber said your wardrobe should be like a curated art collection. I totally agree with that and your pieces are definitely a gorgeous coll3ction that you should keep. Thanks for what you do!💚💚💚

[@AlyssaBeltempo]

Oh I love that expression, thank you for sharing!

[@tanyaeve9498]

I love all your reasons why your pieces have longevity, and that they are not necessarily basics, either. My oldest items from the 90's, are a black turtle neck cardigan with a zip ‐ super versatile and fits as an extra layer under jackets perfectly; also, a black silk chiffon, bias cut skirt with a pink underskirt, which has served for many an occasion but you can dress it down too.

[@AlyssaBeltempo]

Ooh that skirt does sound amazing! Thanks for watching and sharing Tanya!

[@schneeroseful]

I also have not worn things for like two seasons and in the third one, I saw something similar in my favorite brands catalogue and then get back to wearing it. I also think quirky timeless pieces are a perfect addition to classic pieces, as classoc and basic pnly tends to get boring quickly.

[@AlyssaBeltempo]

Yes agreed!

[@virginia6793]

I have an old Kasper navy blue pinstripe suit that I wore for my 2nd son's Christening -- 21 years ago. He's in college and the suit is still timeless and fits.

[@AlyssaBeltempo]

Aw love that !

[@12harrypotterfan34]

I've built a nice collection of classic outerwear pieces that I hope to have for many years to come - a few favorites are a trench coat, a black leather jacket, a camel wool coat, a navy wool peacoat, and a black quilted Barbour jacket. These are all timeless, well-made pieces that will never go out of style, and I don't see myself ever getting rid of them unless they physically fall apart.

[@griffinina]

Oohhh….love your style with the brown blazer & wide-leg trousers! It screams professional work for the day & hang-out with friends after work. I love that you still keep clothes that you haven’t use for years! Too many people nowadays say “you should throw away clothes that you haven’t use in 2 years’’.

[@jeannettemann96]

Very illuminating video. Thank you Alyssa! I enjoyed your breakdown of why you are keeping an item. I too have things I kept for a long time, decades in my case. True it helps that at 68, I still fit in the jeans from the 70’s I unearthed from my mother’s shed. I have sent you a photo of my Charles Jourdan champagne gold and black woven, Art Deco lace up evening shoes I bought.back in 1975 at Joseph Magnin in San Francisco. I will never part with them. I also have items that I may not wear but makes me happy to look at them that I will keep forever. Bisous!

[@AlyssaBeltempo]

Oh my gosh Jeannette!! Loved reading about those 70s items I'm sure you wear them so well. So glad you enjoyed the video, I hope you're enjoying the start of summer and doing well! xx

[@TheTikimel]

Yes!!! More of these videos for other seasons!!! And how do you deal with favorite pieces that become orphans over time?

[@AlyssaBeltempo]

Great question/suggestion - I think that may lead to a different decision depending on where you'd like to take your style but I'll note it for another video! I'm glad you liked the video! xx

[@sandramaki7819]

Yes agree! 💚

[@nancyharris9909]

I had that same DVF wrap dress but I parted ways with it several years ago. I was following the "rule" about decluttering items that I had not worn in a year. I've since tossed that rule out (along with a lot of other ones). Alyssa, thanks once again for another great video filled with excellent tips and style advice!

[@AlyssaBeltempo]

Ah twins!! I'm so glad you're finding what works for you Nancy. Thanks so much for sharing and see you soon! xx

[@marjet2228]

I made that mistake once, I still regret the items I threw away because they were for a real cold winter and we didn’t have that in years. Now the same style is back in fashion and the winters are cold again here. The colour (taupe, a long wide skirt in a very soft fabric and a woolen sweater with a large neck

[@ozywomandius2290]

My grandmother’s wool/cashmere camel coat from the 50s is my oldest and most precious piece. I never get to wear it in this climate, and the sleeves are too short, but if we have a cold snap and I need to look good, better believe I’m breaking out the opera length gloves!! Great video, so much fun, and your DVF dress is perfection on you!! 🌸

[@AlyssaBeltempo]

Oooh yes I love that look of a shorter sleeve coat with long gloves! Dramatic!

[@kimberlyperrotis8962]

I love all these pieces, they are all classics in their own way. I also love your happily napping cat, what could be better than a sunny windowsill with a fleece on it? A contented cat means home, comfort and peace to me.

[@AlyssaBeltempo]

aw thank you Kimberly about the cat comment it means a lot :)

[@teresafinoalchemy]

I LOVE your floofy skirt!!! It's a must keep, as is the DVF dress. Absolutely timeless... even the length is perfect.

[@AlyssaBeltempo]

thank you! The floofy skirt is getting tight but I will continue to wear it as long as possible! xx

[@karelmillard9854]

I have two vintage, mohair sweaters that my aunt and mother knit in the 50’s. They are still beautiful. Currently pairing each of them with a Liberty, floral button up for cooler days this spring. I also have two JCrew blazers (one navy/velvet, one black), and they are both 18 years old. I love them, they still fit and are classic. Thank you for sharing this type of content. I’m sensing a movement, among us, that we are appreciating a balance of current, classic & timeless pieces that last and can evolve with us as we grow older. Incredibly refreshing for us and more sustainable for our planet. 🌍🙏❤️

[@andreakalvin4257]

I have a custom made coat from 1953 (I had the name of the customer in it until fairly recently) in deep burgundy that I bought in June 2000. It has been my spring/ early autumn coat ever since and never fails to get complements.

[@AlyssaBeltempo]

It's amazing how vintage pieces last so long!

[@helenehelene1321]

Loving how you talk about interesting designs vs. trendy and how statement pieces can actually be timeless.

[@rebeckahowells5156]

That DVF dress is a DREAM 😍🤩

[@AlyssaBeltempo]

Thank yoiuuuu

[@hennahannnah]

Thanks for describing the classic white shirt as “button up” rather than “button down.” When I hear “button down” I expect further discussion on collar detail, thinking perhaps that’s now a trend for women again. Then I realize they mean a front placket & buttons. That’s nitpicky of me, but those details are what describe fashion we want versus fashion we don’t want.

[@TheDriftwoodlover]

I have the same reaction to the button down term.

[@christinamanucy8037]

Love to see pieces that have stood the test of time! Mine are a pair of Doc Martin boots that I bought in the 90s & a sweater my grandmother hand made in the 60s. I’m careful with the sweater, but it hasn’t pilled, stretched or faded at all!

[@AlyssaBeltempo]

Wow that's amazing! Those are great pieces!

[@allinclusive4943]

One day, years ago, I found a handmade silk dress on my parent's attic oñ a big donate pile😱 I got it to the cleaner and it is a dream! Timeless and classy, deep red and such a gorgeous quality! My grandfather (he was a tailor) did it about 60!!!!!!! years ago! I couldn't believe in how good condition it still is. Never will get rid of it!!!

[@AlyssaBeltempo]

wow what a find! And in your own home! So special.

[@lllovesalll]

Silk ankle-length wrap-around ruffle-bottom skirt thats reversible (one side is a black layer, the other white, slightly longer so one peeks out the ruffles at the bottom to show the inside contrasting shade). Bought on a sabbatical in India 15yrs ago (def not the oldest thing I own) but a keeper because it's so versatile, will fit any occasion and fit me no matter my size! By the way Alyssa, I'm so glad you keep your shoes clean because when you were waving them above your mug I was all 😬🤯😳 Haha!! ♥️

[@LASmithBuxton]

Wonderful look into the classic pieces in your closet. My oldest piece is a reversible gold silk/black velvet tangzhuang that I thrifted almost 20 years ago. It is timeless and versatile, ready for everything from a night at the symphony or a casual coffee date with a friend.

[@AlyssaBeltempo]

Oooh that sounds lovely! What a special piece! Thank you for sharing! xx

[@annstewart4542]

I have learnt to hang onto clothing items as, when I have parted with them in the past, I have never been able to replace the item.

[@AlyssaBeltempo]

Interesting! Thanks for sharing Ann!

[@gayleritter1199]

I love the length of that DVF dress, it will last far longer than a mini.

[@ICdramas]

I have a few pieces that are over 30 years. Still recieve lots of compliments whenever I wear them. I think the oldest is a pair of Holt Renfrew pumps in slate patent leather I own since college.

[@AlyssaBeltempo]

Oooh amazing ! 👏

[@lfkilcran]

Yes...thoseitems that survive in our closet have something special about them. The oldest pieces in my closet are about 45 years old....actually I have a few pieces my mother gave me from the 1940's-1950's that she purchased when she was a TWA airline stewardess....before jets. My oldest pieces are actually some of my best. There was a boutique, The CHIC Boutique, in new shopping mall across from Marshall Fields & Company. I just landed my first job and I started investing in some high end designer pieces.....this was in around 1977-1980 time frame. We did not have credit cards, the internet, nor cell phones. Lay-away was how I was able to afford some to French and Italian Designers. My suede artist jacket was the first piece I put on layaway. I still wear it. I have a Christian Joss silk tunic button down jacket. It was part of a set. Sadly, the top and skirt no longer fit....but the jacket does. It is such a fine silk. I wore it to Paris! I have a pair of Charles Jourdan shoes....when they were still made in Paris. They survived because I purchased a full size larger as those were the only pair available. I had small feet....size 5...back in the day....and these were a size 6. I just admired them. Now my feet are a 6 1/2. I took them to the cobbler to be stretched and its like I have a new pair of shoes. Then the Christian Aujard teal curly lamb jacket from Paris. There was a sundress designed by Bridget Bardot. I still have it. Too young for me, but I can't throw it out. Pillows maybe?

[@lfkilcran]

Actually the oldest piece I have is a silk shawl from Belgium....dating back to the Revolutionary War in the United States (1776-ish). It has been handed down generation to generation. It is in excellent condition. It was the bridal shawl, originally for one of my French/English ancestors

[@suchetamehra6778]

I have an embroidered tunic that was my grandmother’s, and two aunts and a cousin’s before it became mine. It’s been mine for 24 years, and I’d outgrown it for a while. I’m losing weight now, and 4 kg away from wearing it again. It makes me so happy and is absolutely timeless.

[@amikrenzel5788]

I have a peach colored silk button up shirt that has survived many closet cleanouts that is over 25 years. Sometimes I do not wear it for a few years but when I do wear it I always feel fantastic in it.

[@AlyssaBeltempo]

Right?? Thanks for sharing Ami!

[@kristiecox7350]

If you’ve maintained your weight since you were 15, I think we need a show on what you do to stay the same!!! 😳

[@freefallingintograce4634]

Amen to that! 😃👍

[@nancyharris9909]

I was thinking the exact same thing - LOL

[@chickenleg002]

We know that she is a runner & is good at moderation. So her methods won’t work for me. Waaaah😢

[@12harrypotterfan34]

Yes, please do a diet/workout video!

[@TheDriftwoodlover]

She’s a runner. The end.

[@distantLshaw]

I have a chocolate brown casual jacket, that I wear like a jean jacket, that I've had for years and years. I actually can't remember how old it is, but it gets lots of wear, especially in the transition seasons. I also have an amazing sage green light coat, that I bought in France, that's easily more than 10 years old, and I love its details - they make it subtly different.

[@AlyssaBeltempo]

Those pieces sound like winners!

[@distantLshaw]

@@AlyssaBeltempo Definitely! Go with so much and I'd be so sad to lose them. They really feel like me. That's probably the clincher!

[@annabelle7123]

You should make a video on how to keep the white shirt or silk blouse for so long! I get stains, turn them yellow and destroy them... so please! Of course you are saving the planet of you don't buy them every two years! Same for tshirts... or heels!! (I destroy everything 😅😅)

[@AlyssaBeltempo]

Great idea!! Although to be perfectly honest my whites and creams take a beating too .. the cream blouse is nearing its end I think bc of underarm stains but this is a great topic!

[@TheAmiMom]

Oldest items: a raspberry colored trench-bought it in 1980 for my first “real” job. Wore it last week and got a huge compliment! Second: a Dior silk scarf purchased in 1981 in all “my” colors. Still wearing and loving it! Third: in about 1998, my girlfriend passed on a Nordstrom silk cream blouse she wasn’t wearing. I still wear it! Fourth, a pair of navy leather boots. They needed reheeling and my then high school daughter loved them. They were tight on me, purchased in 1983, I think, so I gave them to her and she went to get them reheeled so they would be ready to go. The old German shoemaker gave her a scolding for “not taking better care of these boots! They will last years if you do!” At the time, they were at least 25 years old. She just smiled. This video was spot on! You have constantly inspired me to shop less and focus on classics of good quality because it pays off in per wear.

[@Teverell]

I might have bought fast fashion but I've never bought any item with the idea that it's only going to be in my wardrobe for that season. I have a couple of items that my mum gave me that were in her wardrobe for years before I got them, so I have a t-shirt and a knitted jumper (sweater for you American folks) that must date back to the nineties, easily. And I have a gorgeous Breton top that cost about £30 (definitely not fast fashion prices, especially these days when the quality of fast fashion clothing is so low) that I got about fifteen years ago. And I have a cardigan that was part of my work wardrobe for my first ever job, back in about 1999. If you like something, if it fits, if it goes with other things in your wardrobe, and if you do wear it, hold onto it and make use of it!

[@AlyssaBeltempo]

YES. I totally agree!! Thank you for sharing!

[@dschultz6981]

Great video, Alyssa! I have favorites in my closet, too. As my grandma used to call them, "My old friends." :) The oldest pieces I have are the suit and dress my grandparents wore when they married in 1940. The vest from the suit had a tattered back, but the front was in good condition, so I had a tailor redo the back. I loooove wearing this vest! It's truly a "statement" piece that connects me to my beloved grandparents. Keep up the great work with your videos. Always inspiring and encouraging.

[@katerinabilkova5679]

I love the bit about old fast fashion pieces. I have this old Zara blouse (in fact so old, it has "Made in Spain" tag!) that is one of my most worn pieces throughout the last 10 or more years and it still holds pretty well. Fingers crossed it will as time goes on, because it's truly insanely flattering and even after all this time, it always brings me joy. Same goes for a red trench coat (again, ancient Zara) I've had since I was 9 years old and it probably grows with me, because it still fits, albeit after 14 years of intense wear it is now quite battered, so I keep it more for sentimental reasons :D

[@marybethmorrison]

Beautiful pieces! Would love to know more about those black jackets hanging on the end of the rail! The DVF dress is amazing, and regardless of the length being 'not current', I think it looks fresh, very Italian - and most important - hits you at one of the best spots on your leg. I started paying better attention to this recently with my skirt and short lengths, and I've been amazed at what a difference it makes in my overall outfit. I shop vintage and secondhand a lot, so age-wise, my oldest piece of clothing - that I occasionally wear - is a cotton and lace blouse from around 1910. I have a hand-made, Depression-era calf-length lace dress (I truly believe it was a wedding dress), that I wear sometimes wear for singing gigs (I paid $6 for it, which brings me great joy, and a bit of sorrow that someone's precious dress was disposed of for so little). I have some fur pieces and gloves from the 1950s-1960s, and a couple of my Grandma's cardigans from the 1950s. I wear all of these infrequently, but they do get worn, onstage, and in actual life. In terms of when I purchased the garment, regardless of its physical age... The oldest item everyday item I can think of is a Norma Kamali skirt I bought around 2011 or 2012, that I still wear all the time.

[@AlyssaBeltempo]

Oooh wow those vintage items sound stunning! And your thoughts about how little some of these precious items sell for is on point. Something to think about for sure! xx

[@SustainablyStylish]

YASSSS!!! My sentiments EXACTLY! Rules around decluttering are not always applicable to every item in your closet. I strongly believe if you love an item and its your style that is your classic piece. Despite agreeing on the narrative around what is "classic", no one should really define YOUR classic if it does not fit into the narrow definition of classic! I can go on but I will stop here :). Great pieces!

[@AlyssaBeltempo]

Yes! You said it so well! Thank you for watching and sharing!

[@brifren2]

I love my older clothes and accessories. Some are even 20 year old or even more, but they are French timeless, chic pieces, great quality, beautiful... and so much better than most of what I see in the stores nowadays. I always take good care of what I have so they don't look old at all, in fact many of these are all the trend again (cotton or silk button up shirts, woollen or cotton knitwear, trousers and skirts, leather handbags, very much like some that are currently all the rage now! So, thank you for this video!!

[@LifeWithElyse]

Yes to trying using what you already own as much possible. Specially if you love it!

[@martalucabalazs9527]

Hi Alyssa, my oldest pieces are knitwear made by my grandma. She made me an undyed virgin wool coat and a striped long tunic, also wool, when I went to high school and of course I have a couple of cardigans and sweaters from her and I must say that I love them a lot even at the age of 36. By the way the oldest Item is a cardigan, she made it for her mother and I inherited it in high school, it is ca. 40-50 years old. Every time I wear them, I feel the love she made them with and I am sooooo proud of them.

[@SoNick25]

not to mention that dress fits you like a glove!!! another great reason to keep it! I like the high boots idea!! My closet has some ancient pieces..meaning twenty plus years. They still fit well, look great, have had minor repairs, come out at least once in the season and will never leave my side (unless they totally unravel!!!)

[@andib3017]

Thanks for debunking the theory that we should get rid of something if we haven't worn it in a year. I have pieces that I love, but I may not wear them every year! Still kicking myself for getting rid of a DVF wrap dress that I got second hand BACK IN THE 80s! My oldest piece is a dress that my mother-in-law gifted me about 20 years ago. And I still wear it, but maybe not every year.

[@AlyssaBeltempo]

Glad you liked it thanks for watching and sharing! xx

[@dresser6135]

I don't know who started that if-you-haven't-worn-it-in-a-year idea...sometimes you have a piece of clothing that you just know you will wear again at some point even if it has been a while...

[@deborahcurtis1385]

Yep I have rejected that dreadful philosophy of that woman it must spark joy, and you must have worn it recently. It's BS and how can you be creative if you're constantly getting rid of stuff? Wasteful and control-freaky. I love experimenting with what I have and like you I have pieces that have lasted decades. Sometimes I change the buttons on a jacket, or take a blouse in, give it darts to fit better or create a riding style silhouette. Not giving in to mass consumption remains a personal constant and I'm proud of it. If I have something out of fashion it goes to the back of the wardrobe or kept in a suitcase, to be brought out in a few years. It never fails!

[@carolirvine7663]

I love the tiered skirt and it will never go out of style because it is a unique piece - I have a tiered dress that is 40 years old and my granddaughter loves it and it always looks stylish and unique - People always ask where it was purchased - Such Fun!!!

[@chelsealee9459]

Birkenstocks, doc martins, heeled black boots, are all been items I have worn for 20 years. My Longchamp handbag from an old collection they did with Kate Moss is an item I consider essential too. I also keep a long black wrap dress in my closet for when it may be needed. Loved this video

[@AlyssaBeltempo]

Those are some classics! Love it

[@inaballik2643]

My classic DocMartens are the oldest item in my wardrobe, had them for 30 years and they're still going strong. You can tell they've been through a lot but that's what makes them feel real vintage. My mum just gave a midi leather skirt to me she had in her wardrobe for probaly 50 years and I'm so excited about the quality of this piece! ❤️

[@AlyssaBeltempo]

Wow those are some great pieces - I find a good shoe looks better with age!

[@angelaa.9915]

Gosh, I wish I had kept my doc martens from when I was in junior high... 🤦🏻‍♀️

[@thatswhatisaidCA]

The clothes I have I usually wear for 5-10+ years. I've always enjoyed playing with my pieces (that's why I was so excited to find your vids), but recently I needed something fresh, something new during this highly restrictive covid time, and I bought a new dress, a skirt and a summer top, and it was so exciting!!! It injected some fun and ignited my creativity, which expanded my wardrobe possibilities to a new level (and made me happier and helped my mental health, ha). I so enjoy your vids, thank you.

[@carlosruiz184]

Alyssa I have a jacket that belonged to a skirt suit that my mum bought for me when I was 24 and I am turning 58 next Tuesday! I still wear it and is incredibly cool, military style cropped jacket in black...super good quality too!!!

[@AlyssaBeltempo]

Oh my gosh I love that! Happy early birthday!!

[@christiana_mandalynn]

Thank you so much for your advice! As someone whose weight has fluctuated with having children, it’s hard to know what to keep and what to part with. I hear “if you haven’t worn it in a year, time to get rid of it” but there are a few things in my closet that I’ve held on to and I’m so glad that I have. (Jackets mostly. I love a good jacket. The other is a purse that my grandma gave me. While it’s not conducive to my lifestyle, I love know that I have it still from her) I think the two oldest items in my closet are a denim jacket that I thrifted when I was 17 in Seattle. Although I cannot close the buttons over my chest, the cut and stretchy denim are super comfortable, and the sleeves are love enough to cover my long arms! The other item is a Fossil crossbody satchel. I had it in college and it could carry everything!

[@odessasudeku9985]

That wrap dress is stunning on you!

[@AlyssaBeltempo]

Thank you!

[@heatherp7836]

Oh this was fun to watch. That floofy party skirt is tres adorbs! My oldest garment isnt that trendy but I still love it and I wont part with it-a vintage Calvin Klein sweatshirt. And can we please recognize that you have a pair of pants from when you were mid-teens that still fit you and look fantastic?! #GOALS

[@kfelong3111]

Love the "three iterations" of the fave blouse. It reminds me I don't need 10 iterations 😳 Good strategy. Thanks, Alyssa!

[@AlyssaBeltempo]

Thank you! I use it for other pieces too! (except button ups lol)

[@LisaLisaD1]

Such a fabulous video, enjoyed every minute~ LOVE the skirt!! ❤️ Lisa

[@mariawelling4194]

Hi! I love the fringe skirt it reminds me of the roaring 20's Gorgeous!

[@AlyssaBeltempo]

Ooh yes it has that vibe! xx

[@nicolehood6408]

I love the notion that a "fast fashion" piece is only that if you don't keep it and use it. I picked up a Forever 21 black ribbed tank with a lace inset from a thrift shop. I have kept and worn it often for close to 10 years, and it is now becoming too worn (unevenly see-through). The piece which started out as a short-lived trend piece from Forever 21 was classic but unique enough to be a go-to piece in my wardrobe for a decade. So, like Alyssa said about the DVF wrap dress, if it's classic enough to withstand the changing trends, it's worth keeping.

[@rebeccamercado6254]

I love hearing about old items people love in their closets! I have two cashmere pullovers that I’ve had for 20 years and will continue to keep because they’re in great condition and still fit and classic :)

[@AlyssaBeltempo]

Me too!! I've been so enjoying reading the comments! Cashmere lasts forever those are great pieces!

[@deniseoates7147]

Don't need Fall/Winter until it is getting where the leave are changing. We just starting to get warm temps here finally and it June. I see the fringe dream skirt is going to be used in your styling, this is so exciting because you know it my favorite of all my favorites I seen on your videos. My oldest pieces are around 43 years old right around when I turned 16. My favorite styling, no surprise is with the fringe skirt. I would not have thought of red top as an option with it but that looked very nice also. Thanks for sharing and blessing to you and all in the days to come.

[@mariefink3024]

This is really a brilliant video. I have clothing, shoes, and accessories that are significantly older than me (I am 60). Gorgeous materials, classic styles, and quality define what I own. It really helps that I had a mother who had wonderful taste and was a wonderful influence.

[@carolynbradshaw7969]

I commented earlier that I had pieces up to 20 yrs old. After I read other comments here, I went back through my wardrobe and thought about when I had worn certain items. Some are 25-30 yrs old! They are all classics: wool wide-leg trousers, black velvet trousers, little black dress, long sleeve wrap black dress, black pea coat. Sensing a theme here...

[@AlyssaBeltempo]

Love that! xx

[@SoNaturelleWellnessChicago]

That party skirt is an amazing piece!! So many things you can do with it. And I am a lover of DVF wrap dress as well.

[@vivianefahrni574]

Oldest piece in my closet: My grandma's wedding dress (almost 60 years old now). When I was a kid, I used to play dess up in it. Originally white, with puffed sleeves and maxi length, it is now light blue, without sleeves and reaches just above my knees. I use it for elegant occasions regularly :)

[@ozywomandius2290]

That is so wonderful!!

[@AlyssaBeltempo]

Aw wow that is a special piece 💕

[@jocmtl]

I’m a little rough on my clothes, they do seem to wear down because I get a lot of use out of them. And I do get tired of styles and end of selling them or giving them away. But I’ve learned a lot about why that is from vlogs like this one, and a Small Wardrobe and am making more selective additions to my wardrobe now. That said, I have a pale beige wool coat, very classic, that I bought for $15 as a sample about 13 years ago that I still wear and absolutely love. I always get compliments on it. And the sandals I wore at my wedding, come to think of it! They’re really cute, still in great shape after 17 years!

[@meganjackson4967]

How to you maintain your whites? Mine get dingy and don’t get me started on the armpit area. 🙈 I unfortunately buy white items knowing they won’t last forever. I would love to change that.

[@ozywomandius2290]

Megan Jackson I hear you. I live in a warm climate and gave up on white tops long ago due to the laundry situation. I do chance it with white pants tho.

[@eglesankari8996]

When you said you have a white, a dark and a light blouse, I thought Bingo! That's all I need in my wardrobe to have items for all occasions. I was wondering whether you ever done a video on sandals, as summer is approaching, what would you wear with different summer dresses/skirts? 🌹

[@AlyssaBeltempo]

Glad you found that helpful! Great suggestion! xx

[@Lisa-hr4zz]

I have a black ballerina wrap top, with black sequins around the neckline, which must be at least 20 years old. I wear it from time to time and when it starts to fade I redye it. I just love it

[@catiatavares7757]

I have one coat that belonged to my grandmother and one bag from my great great grandfather (almost 100 years old ahah). I adore them (and wear them A LOT)! And they are in good condition too!! But i have lots of clothes with years on them. The only thing that i will buy frequently is: underwear, pants, t-shirts and shoes (the temptation is real). The rest, i will use and reused a lot . I also try to modify an item if i'm getting tired of it, like changing the buttons, and stuff like that :) I also try to take real care of my clothes, air drying them, etc. , so they can last longer! By the way, loved LOVED the video Alyssa, as always!

[@pjalexandra]

Appreciate what you said about getting maximum wear out of the fast fashion pieces you already have, I do that as well even though I haven't purchased fast fashion in recent years. re your question: i have old pieces from the 60's through every decade til now. Oldest is either a 60's mustard wool crew neck sweater from my dad that he shrank, or a vintage purchase LBD in incredible shantung silk that's almost like a light wool, which also looks 60s. But my favourite right now is wearing my own 90s pieces and people think they are new 2021 purchases!

[@shoegalsousou]

My oldest garment is a little camisole made of silk my mother gave to me- and it’s more than 30 years old and I love it so much!!! It went with me to Greece, Spain and the UK and I am planning to wear it another 30 years…😊🥰🥰🥰

[@aprilmcqueen3048]

I have a beautiful pair of wide leg linen trousers that i've had for at least 20 years. They were gofted to me by my style icon, my aunt, who had them for at least 15 years before me. They are my favorite piece!

[@joannepetrulli4684]

Love that wrap dress. That style is never out.

[@pamelakellow4225]

Yes! More videos like this, please! Winter, accessories.... Love this. My oldest item is a sweater that was my mother's. I think it is from about 1950. It is a basic ski style sweater that still draws compliments. I have several older pieces from when I was single and had more money to invest in clothing. I just celebrated my 28th wedding anniversary yesterday, so that gives you a hint how old they are! I agree with your assessment, I hung on to high waisted pants when low rise was the rage, and wide legs when skinny was the standard. The only thing that hasn't returned is large shoulder pads -- thank goodness!

[@nemesisanna]

Pair of harem pants i bought 20 years ago. I still wear them, they are baggy and have an elastic waist so they have a potential to fit me forever. I love the skirt and i totally agree about the shoes!

[@AngelBomb5000]

Great video! My oldest piece is a floral print sweatshirt from 1985! I love it dearly and would never think of getting rid of it. It gets regular use even to this day.

[@gracegiven5093]

I love the floofy skirt. 😍

[@AlyssaBeltempo]

Thank you me too!!

[@justinebarton2931]

I lost a lot of weight about 5 years ago so had to replace everything, so most of my older stuff is gone ( on Ebay and charity shops). I found that even my feet had got narrower and my old shoes were now too wide and slipped up and down on my feet. But I have kept a couple of skirts from my honeymoon in Rome back in 2001. If we ever go back - 25th wedding anniversary perhaps - I'm going to try and get them tailored in and wear them again! They are both the same skirts from Marks and Spencer - a straight style in a fabric which looks a bit like silk with tiny embroidered flowers. One is purple and one is a muted green.

[@AlyssaBeltempo]

Wow love that idea to get them altered they sound like special items :)

[@sgvcoban]

I feel like I just got permission or validation to keep those items that I´ve had for years but never seem to wear often (aka declutter if you haven´t worn them in the past year).

[@AlyssaBeltempo]

Glad you found it helpful! I hope you find occasion to wear those pieces soon as we all get out a bit more! xx

[@CareersbyJenn]

Love this. I have some special items in my closet that I haven't worn for a while but also don't want to part with because when I do have an occasion to wear them to, they are perfect! The idea that you have to eliminate things after one year is not a great one when it comes to fancier items...I haven't been anywhere because of Covid for more than a year, never mind anywhere fancy! :) Love the floofy skirt and that wrap dress. You are always so elegant!

[@barbhill2954]

I have a black velvet pants for over 20 years. I still wear them at Christmas

[@kimberlyperrotis8962]

I have classic coats and leather jackets, shoes, belts, bags and boots that are now 35+ years old. I have a Christian Dior wool coat that I have worn for decades, and it still looks and feels wonderful.

[@AlyssaBeltempo]

oh yes - a good coat will get better with age! xx

[@susanalsembach6026]

My oldest piece is a blouse I was wearing when I first met my husband 25 yrs ago and still love wearing to this day :) I really love the concepts you talk about as I find them so easy to put into practice - thank you

[@cassiemarie859]

DVF wrap dress is freaking classic, keep that one for ever I have a bunch of her winter wraps... never never never get rid

[@TheZeyre]

Fun to hear your clothing stories,, Alyssa.. That little white t and shorts is very cute! Oldest clothes, high school. Have a safe week. We too are in step 1 lockdown in AB. Xoxo Joanne🌷🌏🌍🌎🍷

[@AlyssaBeltempo]

Amazing! I hope you're doing OK in AB - stay safe and hang in there! xx

[@amyhoover9]

I've gone through a lot of clothes, and the peak of my wasteful habits came around when I was 25... I don't like to pay department store prices for clothes as much as I used to unless I can't find any good options secondhand. That aside, I would say that my Clarks loafers are probably the oldest in terms of footwear. I've had them high school and while you can't see the brand name inside the shoe anymore, they're still holding up strong and are very comfortable! :D