8 Passengers Is Done: Ruby Franke Starts New Family Drama With Moms of Truth

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@JordanandMcKay
@JordanandMcKay 2 жыл бұрын
APOLOGIES for the BLACK OUT that happens for a few minutes at 1:08:00. Satan screwed with our video but it only lasts for a few minutes and still has audio. Oh, and after watching this maddening video make sure you do some self-care.
@taylorellison2719
@taylorellison2719 2 жыл бұрын
This sounds like a shame-based intervention, which leads to suicide. They’re very dangerous and I’m going to report both of them to the Board of Behavioral Health. Want to join me? I’m going to use this video as evidence. Can you show me where you found your evidence?
@taylorellison2719
@taylorellison2719 2 жыл бұрын
The irony- “distortion points the finger”
@JordanandMcKay
@JordanandMcKay 2 жыл бұрын
@@taylorellison2719 they do not understand irony in any form lol. everyone ELSE is in distortion! not them of course!
@taylorellison2719
@taylorellison2719 2 жыл бұрын
I just had an epiphany!! Lori Vallows Daybell and her friend, Melanie, and her niece, Melani and her brother, Alex, were in a Mormon-based small group and that group resulted in Lori’s fourth husband being murdered and her two children being murdered and corpse’s burnt.
@ProfessorChaosKitty
@ProfessorChaosKitty 2 жыл бұрын
He bore the light away
@radybay9088
@radybay9088 11 ай бұрын
You guys were spot on with calling them out for what they are, long before they were arrested for child torture
@autumnssssss
@autumnssssss 3 ай бұрын
it's not hard to pick up bad vibes from bad people
@missellen779
@missellen779 2 жыл бұрын
Chad and Lori had “zombies” Ruby and Jodi have “distortion”. This is a slippery slope that can only get worse.
@Beensuperclean
@Beensuperclean 8 ай бұрын
How right you were…
@ranelocks
@ranelocks 2 жыл бұрын
For the record...I filed a formal complaint with the Utah Division of Occupational & Professional Licensing against Jodi. I referenced all of these comments regarding mental health. Regardless if this is being marketed as "coaching" or not, Jodi is a licensed therapist and has a responsibility to that license. Not to mention that she uses that fact that she is licensed as a marketing tool for this group. I would encourage more people to do the same.
@BrigitteDiessl
@BrigitteDiessl 2 жыл бұрын
Good for you. I was hoping someone would. I can't. I live in New Zealand.
@some_sun8502
@some_sun8502 2 жыл бұрын
Her website last week said license pending or something like that
@starrynyte158
@starrynyte158 2 жыл бұрын
I was just thinking I need to do this
@zuko803
@zuko803 2 жыл бұрын
@@some_sun8502 is still? I remember her license was pending for 18 months (that was on 2019 or some I forget)
@ericgutierrez2936
@ericgutierrez2936 2 жыл бұрын
I don't know who's more nuts. Her or Ruby.
@Madninja657
@Madninja657 8 ай бұрын
It’s so scary how quickly all the things that used to be “no” became a “yes.”
@lifegirl7
@lifegirl7 2 жыл бұрын
The rage she has about the one star reviews but then being like I don't care was so funny. It reminded me of being in grade school and kids being like yeah I can do a cartwheel I just don't want to right now.
@JordanandMcKay
@JordanandMcKay 2 жыл бұрын
It concerns me that this woman was treating peoples’ mental health.
@carterscalf5674
@carterscalf5674 Жыл бұрын
“Giving her body to some punk who thinks he’s cool because he has a baseball scholarship” 😂
@kapkone
@kapkone Жыл бұрын
I think we can add some of the more severe signs now
@nergregga
@nergregga Жыл бұрын
I'm so glad this person has been arrested. I hope this stops this dangerous culty nonsense
@karinliston6713
@karinliston6713 2 жыл бұрын
My relative is in this 'cult' and this video really helps me understand their rhetoric. It makes me sad and worried for their children.
@JordanandMcKay
@JordanandMcKay 2 жыл бұрын
It’s disturbing when you break groups like that down.
@AR-sz5lm
@AR-sz5lm Жыл бұрын
I have a cousin who "invited" me to the group on FB when I left the church- I'm still not sure how it was supposed to be a missionary tool. Just scrolling through for the little while I did- it was super disturbing to me. Very cultish. Super creepy. I left the group probably within an hour of being in it.
@lindseystein9676
@lindseystein9676 Жыл бұрын
@karinliston6713 I hope your relative heard about their arrest & stops following their “lessons.”
@annafdd
@annafdd 9 ай бұрын
Rewatching this video now, in hindsight, is particularly chilling. Lots of things we didn’t know.
@crunchberrychaos
@crunchberrychaos Жыл бұрын
For all the "love" they preach, they certainly don't practice
@JordanandMcKay
@JordanandMcKay Жыл бұрын
I think the practice of it is what got them arrested.
@Nicole-ij3mz
@Nicole-ij3mz 2 жыл бұрын
“This is the dumbest sh*t I’ve ever seen in my life” just about sums it up. 😂🤣 I truly feel bad for people who are being taken advantage of by Jodi and Ruby.
@JordanandMcKay
@JordanandMcKay 2 жыл бұрын
Preach! Lmao
@macrograms
@macrograms Жыл бұрын
a year later, ruby franke arrested for tying up and starving kids.
@RachelDoesntknow
@RachelDoesntknow Жыл бұрын
September 2023... We're going to have to update the BITE list...
@helenr4300
@helenr4300 2 жыл бұрын
It's amazing how everyone else knows more about my bipolar than my psych, I stick with the meds thank you Jody/Ruby
@hannab828
@hannab828 2 жыл бұрын
if you’ve ever looked into Maslows Hierarchy of Needs, taking your child’s bed from them directly effects their safety needs. Ruby’s son could never do anything bad enough to not have a bed, that’s so messed up
@mikalin9286
@mikalin9286 2 жыл бұрын
It was even more messed up when she publicly shamed him by making him admit he didn’t have a bed on a KZbin video and detail his other punishments and the clip got progressively worse as he admitted he had no friends bc of rubys antics and constant posting of their lives. I mean all this AFTER sending him away to a full time youth “treatment” program- that is basically a life threatening desert survival course.
@RMBlake007
@RMBlake007 Жыл бұрын
Even prisoners are given beds and a mattress...
@josiee1120
@josiee1120 2 жыл бұрын
So according to her, if you ask for proof of something, that is distortion? Does that mean that you just have to blindly follow everything? That seems very illogical…. Also, who is she to tell parents they are bad parents? No one is an expert on parenting, least of all Ruby. This is truly disgusting.
@helenr4300
@helenr4300 2 жыл бұрын
came to comments about this - also the 'anything trendy' is not truth - code for being anti various advances in our culture
@tourettehero
@tourettehero 2 жыл бұрын
You only say this because you're living in distortion. Hahaha... I'm kidding.
@EmiSuess
@EmiSuess 2 жыл бұрын
Proof is distortion even though they said that truth is concrete and can be knowable by a third party and all that. Lol literally contradict themselves in their main points
@tourettehero
@tourettehero 2 жыл бұрын
@@EmiSuess in their minds knowable by a third party is anyone else who agrees with them. Imagine getting color blind people together (I'm color blind myself)... Distortion would be saying the sky is blue.
@tourettehero
@tourettehero 2 жыл бұрын
@@grace-carolinealumbassa7142 want to? They already have.
@maia_gaia
@maia_gaia 2 жыл бұрын
Mostly off topic but when my husband and I watched tiger king wayyyy back in 2020, I remember us being like "why is no one talking about the weird tiger cult Doc Antel made?" And now going through the BITE model, I'm honestly horrified by just how many boxes that "zoo" is checking 🤢
@JordanandMcKay
@JordanandMcKay 2 жыл бұрын
So true! Doc sucks!!
@sunmeowlody
@sunmeowlody 2 жыл бұрын
I was thinking the same thing. And now Doc is in jail 🤣
@taylorellison2719
@taylorellison2719 2 жыл бұрын
There is a cult video about them.
@taylorellison2719
@taylorellison2719 2 жыл бұрын
@@sunmeowlody I’ve not heard- jail or prison?
@BrigitteDiessl
@BrigitteDiessl 2 жыл бұрын
And so many people think he is amazing. I think he's bloody nuts!
@3vaniamaria
@3vaniamaria Жыл бұрын
Distortion.... results in your arrest and prosecution for child abuse???
@trisanatandler
@trisanatandler 2 жыл бұрын
It looks like a cult, it sounds like a cult and it has Ruby Franke - definitely a cult 🤔🤔.
@mst3kharris
@mst3kharris 2 жыл бұрын
Ruby’s “I never do anything wrong” sign is raising a lot of questions answered by her sign.
@mercedesmarie21
@mercedesmarie21 Жыл бұрын
Watching this video back now that Ruby and Jodi are in jail is wild
@BrigitteDiessl
@BrigitteDiessl 2 жыл бұрын
I'm still try to get over the fact that Ruby said anxiety and depression are a choice. Shit load of people out in the world making bad "choices" then.
@hannerikruger7216
@hannerikruger7216 2 жыл бұрын
Really opened my eyes when she said that, I immediately decided to no longer to be anxious and I felt better... Wow... Why didn't i do this years ago😂
@BrigitteDiessl
@BrigitteDiessl 2 жыл бұрын
@@hannerikruger7216 Hahahaha! Me too.
@angelamaryquitecontrary4609
@angelamaryquitecontrary4609 2 жыл бұрын
"Hi! I'm Troy McClure. You might remember me from such mental health films as Get Confident, Stupid!"...
@chelseal654
@chelseal654 2 жыл бұрын
Not uncommon in conservative religious groups.
@ThePauleeny
@ThePauleeny 2 жыл бұрын
Yes it's definitely a "cult" of sorts. Ruby is bloody nuts.
@JordanandMcKay
@JordanandMcKay 2 жыл бұрын
she has reached a new level of insanity at this point
@helenr4300
@helenr4300 2 жыл бұрын
A baby cult - potential to grow into BITE stuff that not apply yet
@heidiholom8086
@heidiholom8086 2 жыл бұрын
She has changed so much
@ericgutierrez2936
@ericgutierrez2936 2 жыл бұрын
Her pray the gay away husband is the most entertaining. His shirts keep getting smaller and smaller. Chad looks like he's on the verge of a criminal career with all the shiznit they put him through. Or a porn career, for that matter, with all the maniacal oppression. The two youngest will probably be on LivePD. Sad. Shari, the oldest took off with her KZbin cash.
@weirdgalstudios
@weirdgalstudios 2 жыл бұрын
I just went and read the reviews on the Connexions Google page and I am DYING laughing reading the responses to reviews. They all start with "this is not the Truth. This is not Truthful." 🤣I can just hear Ruby saying these things as I read them.
@amybrock2592
@amybrock2592 2 жыл бұрын
Not a cult yet, but Connexions is on it's way to cult with a couple more check marks. A lot of cults start off sort of "cult light" and then the leaders start moving the goal posts and asking more and more of their followers. I'd say, stay tuned.
@JordanandMcKay
@JordanandMcKay 2 жыл бұрын
Agreed!!
@skiperdog
@skiperdog 2 жыл бұрын
@@JordanandMcKay isolating from friends and family is very cult like as well.
@Angry_Toe
@Angry_Toe Жыл бұрын
“Give me five star reviews now god dammit!!!!!”
@lozzavermy
@lozzavermy Жыл бұрын
It's so interesting seeing this a year later. I hope the kids get the care they need
@UsInSearchOfMeaning
@UsInSearchOfMeaning 2 жыл бұрын
The really sad thing about this is that Ruby’s children are being abused and manipulated as a result of this group. My heart hurts for them being raised and isolated by these ‘teachings’. They must miss their cousins, aunts, uncles, grandparents, friends terribly. Most of all, they aren’t even able to be themselves without judgement. I can’t stand Connexions. All they do is separate people - what a fucking irony!
@timnewman1172
@timnewman1172 2 жыл бұрын
As if Ruby wasn't abusive enough on her own...
@ericgutierrez2936
@ericgutierrez2936 2 жыл бұрын
The eldest daughter is crying all the way to the bank.
@timotato4662
@timotato4662 2 жыл бұрын
The distortion thing. I just want to grab her and be like lady don’t you see, your kids use “distortion” because of your over reactions. They will continue to use distortion and you will not know your true children. Also avoid anyone who says they know the truth.
@JordanandMcKay
@JordanandMcKay 2 жыл бұрын
AMEN such a good point!
@actingqween
@actingqween 2 жыл бұрын
To give people an idea of how harmful it can be to judge someone for experiencing suicidal ideation, I had my first major depressive episode when I was nine years old, and I was experiencing active suicidal ideation. I lived in the Bible belt, and, even though, I was not a fundamentalist, and I was raised in a very healthy and supportive church community, a classmate once said that people who "kill themselves go to Hell." I was not at my questioning phase yet, and, since I already had extremely low self esteem and I hated myself, hearing that really freaked me out. I suffered in silence for two years. I often look back on that time of my life, and wonder how things might have gone differently if I had told someone how I was feeling. Also, therapy and medication saved my life.
@katalac
@katalac Жыл бұрын
I'm not in any way shape or form religious, but watched a bunch of your videos because of this scandal and the tragic events. I just love you guy's! You have so much to say! New subscriber❤
@TangentialTif
@TangentialTif 2 жыл бұрын
Wow! I grew up Southern Baptist and the old timers would talk about ‘beating the fire out someone’ figuratively but also literally. That’s some real old school justice bullshit. She definitely has that “spare the rod” quote ready to pull out at all times. I feel like CPS should be doing weekly wellness checks on all family channels.
@taylorellison2719
@taylorellison2719 2 жыл бұрын
Don’t ever apologize about the length of videos. This could have been longer, IMO. Also, you also mentioned Chad and Lori- great minds think alike!
@ThisTimeLady
@ThisTimeLady Жыл бұрын
Just wanted to say...between your series/podcast/YT channel, FundieFridays, some cult-related podcasts on Spotify (eg. Was I In A Cult?) I came to see not just the direct messages (even indirect ones, really) but saw how my father and I had a rather cultic relationship especially since Mum, who was our buffer, passed away in August 2021. We had huge fights, lived in this toxic relationship, environment etc. But as I watched YT, funnily enough, to get away from him....I began to understand how HE came to be as he is (he has CPTSD + borderline) and how it in turn impacted me, how I in turn was beginning to exhibit the complementary behaviors he'd display towards me.... And now we are in family therapy. It isn't easy, but we're doing...so much better. It's early days, still, but it beats the past. I mentioned that other Spotify podcast on purpose. CULTS are not just....the ones we typically think of. The whole cultic relationship was new to me. And while many other families with such a dynamic (um, both actual families and those Cults calling themselves THE family or whatnot) have had it way worse, it all has truly helped me, us...my dad's relationship with my sis and we now get to see my Lil nephews so much more!! So...THANK YOU!!
@Marxnchill
@Marxnchill Жыл бұрын
All those “no’s” didn’t age well 👀
@lilacnarwhals6002
@lilacnarwhals6002 2 жыл бұрын
I find it incredibly interesting that the LDS seems to spawn so many offshoots and cults, with major ones like the FLDS and smaller ones like the doomsday cult that Lori Vallow/Chad Daybell belong to. As someone who grew up agnostic, I find it so fascinating.
@RachelDoesntknow
@RachelDoesntknow Жыл бұрын
It's a really interesting point. Something in the rhetoric specific to Mormonism. Ex-mormons would have way more to say about it, and I would be so curious to here, I do wonder if it has something to do with a theme of like "magical thinking" characteristics. An elevated feeling of self-importance -- that the entire world, including God, revolves around their personal thoughts, feelings, beliefs, actions, decisions. That they are SO important that exclusively know and define right/wrong, good/bad, and are the heroes destined to defend it. 🙄 I don't want to assume that relates back to LDS but I feel like I can see those characteristics involved in the offshoots. Although those things may just be cult things. But it calls into question the-chicken-or-the-egg Full disclosure I haven't finished the vid yet
@Martina-Kosicanka
@Martina-Kosicanka Жыл бұрын
Also enchanted global public with shit like Twilight and 50 shades
@RachelDoesntknow
@RachelDoesntknow Жыл бұрын
@@Martina-Kosicanka oh this is so true...
@Amber-Roberts
@Amber-Roberts 2 жыл бұрын
As someone who has struggled with suicide, it pissed me off that Ruby said kids commit suicide because life is not going how they want it to. Like who does she think she is?!
@shochre6497
@shochre6497 2 жыл бұрын
Right?! Also I hope you're doing better, I've been there
@Amber-Roberts
@Amber-Roberts 2 жыл бұрын
@@shochre6497 I am thank you
@PeaceStandsxo
@PeaceStandsxo 2 жыл бұрын
Right! I was watching the video she posted about antidepressants and I had to stop after a few minutes because it was making me feel so upset and frustrated. Her takes on mental health struggles are not it. It’s clear she never struggled with mental health herself
@Amber-Roberts
@Amber-Roberts 2 жыл бұрын
@@PeaceStandsxo I don’t think she understands what she says is really damaging
@Lemonade_Stand_
@Lemonade_Stand_ 2 жыл бұрын
She thinks mental health is a choice. I dont know, im pretty sure most of us struggling from mental health issues would choose NOT to if that was an option. Unfortunately even with medication and therapy, that just isnt an option.
@charlenegarner2842
@charlenegarner2842 2 жыл бұрын
New drinking game: take a shot every time they say distortion
@christinagriffin5154
@christinagriffin5154 2 жыл бұрын
I’m obsessed with the fact you’ve finally decided on a sponsor and they seem like an amazing company and are very on brand for you guys! Gonna go check out the machinery 😂 ❤
@autumnssssss
@autumnssssss 2 жыл бұрын
was gonna say the same thing. love it.
@blimeyhermione07
@blimeyhermione07 2 жыл бұрын
I was amused by that as well!
@khaIid624
@khaIid624 2 жыл бұрын
I don't remember how I came across 8 Passengers but I started watching their videos in 2015-16 ish (I'm Shari's age) and I thought they were just a normal family but Ruby has changed so much it's scary
@katelynnriley4404
@katelynnriley4404 2 жыл бұрын
I’m from the UK, I have ADHD and usually find it really hard to sit through KZbin vids but I love yours! I’m fascinated with your story. Keep it up ❤ (I’m currently binge watching your channel) 😅
@kaylalongley8708
@kaylalongley8708 2 жыл бұрын
What still baffles me is that they seem oblivious to the fact that if the 9,000 “followers” most of them are really just people like us posing and asking questions to get them to say exactly what we knew they would, but then creating receipts for their answers.
@thevoid8948
@thevoid8948 2 жыл бұрын
I think this is the first time I've ever heard of a cult within a cult. Cultception.
@hannahadler2537
@hannahadler2537 2 жыл бұрын
As someone in recovery for trauma caused by a treatment facility, which by the way the immense irony of which is hilarious, the very real consequences and ongoing influence that this brand of gaslighting and manipulated language is incredibly tangible for its victims. As always I really applaud the great work that y’all always do in each of your videos!
@limeparticle
@limeparticle 4 ай бұрын
Knowing what we know now, so many of the things listed in the BITE model that you say they didn’t do… turns out they did do.
@littlebrownjug1683
@littlebrownjug1683 2 жыл бұрын
From my experience, I was sexually actively very early. I don’t have guilt because of it, I do wish I was not. It did damage me a bit. Not to Rubys extent. A! I am trying to put myself in rubys shoes, and I don’t know why. Totally side note, Canada had a mass shooting today, and this was a good distraction. I have OCD, And I ABSOLUTELY need medication. My life was miserable without it.
@IAmNotAWoodenDuck
@IAmNotAWoodenDuck 2 жыл бұрын
Ruby Franke is the kind of person who hides behind tough "love" and says things like "well I'm the only one who's brave enough to be honest" when called out on her bullshit. I'm 100% sure that she's also the kind of person who immediately starts acting like a victim when criticized. The people who scream hardest about being the only ones who know the truth are usually the first to freak out when presented with actual truth.
@IAmNotAWoodenDuck
@IAmNotAWoodenDuck 2 жыл бұрын
Watching the video further just makes me so sad. Ruby doesn't love children. If she truly loved truth and principles and protection and children, she would try to do her actual best. She wouldn't stubbornly refuse to learn how to help, she wouldn't ignore people's warnings about what she's doing, she wouldn't talk about how if literal CHILDREN need help, they should learn to do it themselves. Ruby might think she's full of love, but she's so blinded by all the horrific lies she believes that I couldn't begrudge anyone who thinks she hates her own children.
@KK-mx6oh
@KK-mx6oh 2 жыл бұрын
So the timeline is probably: they send their child to that program because it could be a quick effective solution, then meet Jodi as the therapist (who's no coincidence Mormon), Jodi validates Ruby's approach, enhances it, pushes it farther, and makes Ruby feel like she's right and has backing on what she thinks is true and feels like she has control over her family back. In exchange for using her social media platforms. And Ruby started life coach books at least before the move, and I've always thought the move to the new house was a whole new dynamic. With Connexions this makes sense. The family probably disagrees with the first action of sending them but then didn't think Ruby (and Kevin) could take it further. I see why Ruby is in this with Jodi and the brand is the two of them. Ruby gives Jodi a MUCH bigger platform. What's hard is everything that they talk about is how Ruby thinks and how she wants to control her - six - kids. And thanks to tiktok and Flo Rida, cries when people don't validate her efforts and are clearly not on her side. But also the fact that her kids' mental health will be changed because of this. And has been probably.
@knitsnknacks
@knitsnknacks 2 жыл бұрын
Not the ruby frankie lore
@stephaniejelnicky7944
@stephaniejelnicky7944 2 жыл бұрын
Ruby 180ing her Instagram into this whack cult page and taking all her followers along is DISTORTION 🥶🥶🥶🥶🥶🥶🥶🥶
@stephaniecarlson6689
@stephaniecarlson6689 Жыл бұрын
Thank you Jordan & MacKay ❤❤ Steph at New South Wales, Australia 💝💝 What you were sharing with us then, has come to light now. 😮😢 ohhhh my goodness. Take care 💗💗 you two lovely ones.
@NintendoNerdKim
@NintendoNerdKim 2 жыл бұрын
It is definitely very dramatic! My issue with this is the way they're using distortion. Their definition of distortion is right, and my therapist has talked about distortion herself, but in the context of anxiety, worrisome thoughts, and other mental health-related things. NOT in the context of truth which is ridiculous they're pushing that dumb shit on people and calling it advice. They're helping nobody as far as I'm concerned. They're one giant red flag.
@gab31282
@gab31282 Жыл бұрын
Well...this video aged very well.
@JordanandMcKay
@JordanandMcKay Жыл бұрын
In the worst way.
@Sarah-re7cg
@Sarah-re7cg Жыл бұрын
Jodie the flag fondler 😂😂😂
@kiterafrey
@kiterafrey 2 жыл бұрын
The idea that you’re loving your child by being homophobic to them is the type of cult mindset bullshit that led to my late mother leaving me a death letter telling me she didn’t accept me being BI and that I didn’t love her if I didn’t stop being BI so we could be together in heaven.
@monicaduffy7910
@monicaduffy7910 Жыл бұрын
SOOOOOOO creepy to see all this and comments a year later.
@ceha9517
@ceha9517 Жыл бұрын
I think what you are doing is so important for people who are asking questions to the religion they are brought up with. Thank you!
@karlaburgess9086
@karlaburgess9086 Жыл бұрын
CPS needs to be called.
@tracyveronika
@tracyveronika Жыл бұрын
Done
@jen8311
@jen8311 2 жыл бұрын
I don’t know if you have seen it but there is video on the Conexions KZbin Channel called Mother’s Day in the Psych Ward and it is about Ruby taking Kevin to the hospital when he was experiencing suicidal ideation. It’s weird that now she doesn’t think people need support for their mental health.
@cassninetyfour1238
@cassninetyfour1238 2 жыл бұрын
These situations are okay for her to experience in her mind because she has “truth and freedom” she’s just telling other people what they do is wrong because she thinks she’s some mental health expert. 🙄
@mcsmaria28
@mcsmaria28 2 жыл бұрын
45:36 - that just reminds me of the episode of Friends where Phoebe and Monica get Rachel to read this woo-woo self help book and it’s just filled with phrases just like that 😂
@kaleighbree
@kaleighbree 2 жыл бұрын
what also concerns me is that as a psychology student studying very specifically for counseling psychology, one of the first and most harped on points that we learn in every class is that you do not push your personal beliefs and views onto your clients, period. and logically you'd think jodie would know that but then again there isnt much that is logical about connexions.
@donnaclara2004
@donnaclara2004 2 жыл бұрын
There was a video on their 8 pages channel that they all fasted for like either 24 or 48 hours. And yes the whole family fasted included the youngest who was about 4!
@sedg83
@sedg83 Жыл бұрын
23:58 "it's deceptive and it's messed up" .... Would you say it's a Distortion? 🤣
@sourcandyspite
@sourcandyspite 2 жыл бұрын
It's crazy to me how quickly they've adopted all of the same control mechanisms as Scientology (absolutely a cult).
@isamayoge8736
@isamayoge8736 2 жыл бұрын
If it isn’t a cult then it is a cult in making. And I assume they will check more boxes when time progress. But warnings all over the internet might keep some people away from conneXions and you have contributed to those warnings with your video. Great video by the way.
@sabiner.8395
@sabiner.8395 2 жыл бұрын
I was in a culty group and when I went to my superiors to talk about me needing therapy because I had burnout and couldn’t go on they suggested I stay at HQ, finde a therapist there and debrief with them after every therapy session so they know what I talked about and what the therapist suggested I should do. I was also not allowed to do anything else but read my Bible and pray in my free time… I would also have to share a room… Luckily I only went there to talk and figure out what to do, after my 3 day stay I got back on the train home to my mom and I never went back.
@rachelortiz147
@rachelortiz147 Жыл бұрын
As an ex-JW I just found your channel and I loved this breakdown of the bite model!
@meluvfriends
@meluvfriends 2 жыл бұрын
Cliff notes of video- Ruby will lay on you and roll, then tell you to hold still while she beats the fire out. I wish I could say that wasnt going to live rent free in my fking head now. And in my nightmares.
@JordanandMcKay
@JordanandMcKay 2 жыл бұрын
Literally same.
@lessismoya
@lessismoya 2 жыл бұрын
Every time you talk about Ruby I'm always thinking 'I don't think that word means what you think it means.' lol
@Lexaloodle
@Lexaloodle 2 жыл бұрын
Ruby only hates tik tok bc she had a melt down over it and got made fun of. She has instagram and Facebook which contain bad content as well. Crazy how all her actions are the right way to live 😂 Also I messaged them about their non profit not having a proper Board and she changed one of the board members online and put Ruby in. They are scammers
@stephaniecarlson6689
@stephaniecarlson6689 Жыл бұрын
I appreciate the knowledge that you are both bringing to us. You have both experienced your own individual journey. Thank you.❤❤ - New South Wales, Australia
@marshathornberry7921
@marshathornberry7921 2 жыл бұрын
I’m reading “When the Mood Turns to Blood” about Lori Vallow and Chad Daybell on their fringe beliefs and this sounds a lot like the type of control in that group too…
@edwina9223
@edwina9223 2 жыл бұрын
Oh my gosh, my stomach and chest felt so anxious watching the lady in her 5 star talk. I felt like I was in trouble. That is very nerve wracking. I feel sorry for the people who are trying to learn from her and follow her instruction, and in turn are being so chastised out of apparent kindness and "we are doing this for you!". Gosh. I have three young daughters and I worry every day they may get caught up when they are older with trying to please someone who is no good.
@laurajane2258
@laurajane2258 2 жыл бұрын
I'm a lurker 😉😉😉😁😁😁 if you need any info I'll be sticking around in the group as long as I can 😂 x
@mombythec
@mombythec Жыл бұрын
Guess we need to revisit this one lol
@meagandainty4346
@meagandainty4346 2 жыл бұрын
We should all be overjoyed to be in Distortion as we can be absolutely certain that these two whack-a-dos will never be anywhere near us!!
@cork..
@cork.. 2 жыл бұрын
Jordan looking SMOKING HOT today. Shine on, sis
@mikhatela
@mikhatela 2 жыл бұрын
Ruby be like “unconditional love EXCEPT ….”
@katefriend4085
@katefriend4085 2 жыл бұрын
Ruby's rant about the sexually active daughter and how "unsafe" the daughter's soul is because she's got access to birth control reminded me of an incredible real estate opportunity I'd like to let Ruby in on! I think she's just the woman to buy this bridge!!
@Boos.andbooks
@Boos.andbooks 2 жыл бұрын
"I DONT CARE ABOUT THE GOOGLE REVIEWS". It's the yelling for me sis🍷
@JordanandMcKay
@JordanandMcKay 2 жыл бұрын
Clearly, she’s unbothered.
@SophieJackson1993
@SophieJackson1993 9 ай бұрын
I love you guys. I’m from Scotland & the Mormons won’t stop coming to my house door haha.
@2listening1
@2listening1 2 жыл бұрын
Jordan and McKay, you can do some trick thingy with KZbin where there’s a notice about tomorrow’s livestream so people who don’t hit the notification bell, can sign up to get a special notification this time just before you go live. I don’t know how to do it, though. Love to you all.
@emmabrister747
@emmabrister747 2 жыл бұрын
I love the part where you guys basically sing apple bottom jeans
@hannerikruger7216
@hannerikruger7216 2 жыл бұрын
That was my favourite part also
@katyj6058
@katyj6058 2 жыл бұрын
Fully the most wholesome part of the video.
@jessicam7467
@jessicam7467 2 жыл бұрын
This gives me cult vibes like Lori and Chad Daybell had. The light... Awake... Ruby talks in circles. She so badly wants to sound profound but it's all word salad.
@elisabethsikie
@elisabethsikie 2 жыл бұрын
You guys rock. Gives me hope. You are both insightful, intelligent, and hilarious.
@JordanandMcKay
@JordanandMcKay 2 жыл бұрын
Aw, thank you so much!
@rebekahbishop8870
@rebekahbishop8870 2 жыл бұрын
I just looked at their Google reviews for shits and giggles and HOLY SHIT! This is what Jodi wrote in reply to someone who gave them a 1 star review talking about how harsh and damaging the advice they give on social media is: Mary, thank you for taking the time to share your feedback with us. ConneXions does not offer therapy or counseling. We offer a completely different modality of healing that is an alternative to the psychology world. Jodi has helped thousands of people heal when they learned to take responsibility for their thoughts, feelings, and actions, including Ruby herself. We invite you to reconsider the judgments you're making simply based on some social media posts you have seen. If you're open to consider another way of thinking, we are always available to help you heal and create joy in your life and relationships.
@Drew_hype6
@Drew_hype6 2 жыл бұрын
I died laughing when McKay just blurted out “THE FLAG FONDLER”
@actuallywaffles5267
@actuallywaffles5267 2 жыл бұрын
Running water, pasteurized milk, and anesthesia are all also new things that people lived for centuries without, and it's still pretty well accepted that it's a good thing and we shouldn't go back to the old way of doing it. Privacy is in that same boat.
@jessajuly5513
@jessajuly5513 2 жыл бұрын
hell yeah get that sponsorship!!!! so happy for yall
@aureliagold1222
@aureliagold1222 2 жыл бұрын
Ruby perpetually sounds like she's been told TGIFridays is out of honey mustard dip and she's going to cry at the minimum wage worker
@gidgetgirl1
@gidgetgirl1 2 жыл бұрын
I hate the word “distortion” after watching this video. 🤣
@erinclaire2453
@erinclaire2453 2 жыл бұрын
As a school psychologist with a degree in educational psychology, I don't claim Jodi as one of us... 😬 Also, with my degree I would not claim to be a therapist. I work in the school as a mental health professional, but would need to have my Ph.D. or be supervised by an outside provider to do anything outside the school setting.
@kateruch7196
@kateruch7196 Жыл бұрын
The red ones need to be re-reviewed, I'd say.
@kiterafrey
@kiterafrey 2 жыл бұрын
As someone who grew up in an emotionally abusive religious family. Ruby shows online what she thinks is her BEST actions. So what we don’t see is100% worse than what we do see,so their. “Well we don’t see her whole. Life”. Logic is flawed, and those saying it clearly have NEVER had. To. Suffer. Any kind ofabuse.
@nancyjaynes2868
@nancyjaynes2868 11 ай бұрын
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@RachelDoesntknow
@RachelDoesntknow Жыл бұрын
Did anyone catch her fn advertising #CatchChobaniOatmilk in the connexions streams around 55:00? "Your kids souls are on fire. Try Chobani Oatmilk!"
@wormwoodcocktail
@wormwoodcocktail 9 ай бұрын
She’s Mormon Gayle
@biancaravizza1328
@biancaravizza1328 2 жыл бұрын
Im not sure but they problably met when Ruby wanted to become an health coach and started taking classes.I have a feeling Jody was her tracher and I wouldnt be surprided if she was the one suggesting to send Chad to that wilderness camp.
@11SHS2012
@11SHS2012 2 жыл бұрын
I love listening to y’all while I craft and do woodwork!
@starrynyte158
@starrynyte158 2 жыл бұрын
Lol Adam&Eve is the best sponsor for you guys!
@joanlantis4497
@joanlantis4497 4 ай бұрын
Ruby remains silent to the point that she didn't even ask about her children. It screams guilty.
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