1. They rarely acknowledge you. 2. They never initiate conversation. 3. They cancel on you, a lot. 4. They’re taking advantage of you. 5. You’re becoming obsessed with them. 6. Your friends want you to move on. 7. They’re interested in someone else. 8. They’re dating someone else. ;)
@Arctic_and_The_F0X4 жыл бұрын
*o w*
@allura78214 жыл бұрын
Thank you...
@DragoonZX24 жыл бұрын
2 and 8..
@hello_person224 жыл бұрын
Such hero.
@alimei19834 жыл бұрын
What if I got half of that lol
@alyanamass9894 жыл бұрын
This should be called: 8 reasons that Psych2go knows my every thought. Wow I've never gotten this many likes before, Thank you all.
@RatChad4 жыл бұрын
They make it pretty general so most of us atleast relate
@mrsflower1254 жыл бұрын
They can read our minds for sure😱
@firedog3604 жыл бұрын
I know right!
@xoil1264 жыл бұрын
😔👊
@aninditamukherjee81494 жыл бұрын
Honestly!!!! Ikr
@aisling24804 жыл бұрын
The way KZbin recommended this to me feels like a personal attack
@limebonk66444 жыл бұрын
Same lmao
@kabitarai38574 жыл бұрын
same here
@mariaianavarr2914 жыл бұрын
Same 😔😔
@_devilish_12024 жыл бұрын
Same lmao
@memoryfandoms74124 жыл бұрын
Same T-T How could u...... ;-;
@yhchen79162 жыл бұрын
'Don't be afraid to lose what wasn't meant to be'
@FNAFbbmTheHomeStudio Жыл бұрын
My dad died- 13 days after my 11th birthday…
@yhchen7916 Жыл бұрын
@@FNAFbbmTheHomeStudio Rest in peace, I wish u the best
@lolololol-x6u Жыл бұрын
@@FNAFbbmTheHomeStudio😂
@pixelzebra8440 Жыл бұрын
I needed this bc I’m gonna have to either give up or confess to my crush at some point so
@frozenpumpkininspace9214 Жыл бұрын
@@lolololol-x6udude what's wrong with you? You can't just laugh at someone dying like that
@fal4thought4 жыл бұрын
“You’re obsessed with them” Marinette: I’m gonna pretend I didn’t hear that.
@amberb.63954 жыл бұрын
Omg yes lol
@katzkitten64364 жыл бұрын
Lol
@determination63464 жыл бұрын
@Anonymus Human it's from miraculous Ladybug
@teacuptea91554 жыл бұрын
Yes lol 😂
@heartshapedkiss91154 жыл бұрын
Oop
@isabeladenisefalculan31833 жыл бұрын
I have a 4 year crush, and "if it's causing you more pain than happiness" really struck me. To everyone who's letting go of their crushes, cheer up! We all deserve someone who'll love us too, not just one-sided. May you find your "someone" in the right time.
@tasfaith3 жыл бұрын
I have a feelings for her for 2 years. Feel like she doesn’t like me back. So i wanted to ask you that should i confess to her or just letting her go. My guts told me to confess her but idk what to do rn. Your opinion?
@trinityg.56203 жыл бұрын
@@tasfaith confess, better to live without regret
@tasfaith3 жыл бұрын
@@trinityg.5620 aight 👌👌, I’ll confess to her but not rn bcoz she invited me to hang out in the near time. So, it will be a lil’ awkward. I’ll let u know if i do so. Thx for ur advice, really appreciate that 🙏🙏
@sumrandomdude57023 жыл бұрын
I already let go of her a few days ago, I feel wayyy better than I do now. I feel thankful that I can focus on other people more than on her.
@aliiiyoutube3 жыл бұрын
@@tasfaith so?? How’d it go??
@batman53833 жыл бұрын
“They never initiate conversations.” That one was really painful.
@ifykyk6792 жыл бұрын
Ikr
@ninjabee89732 жыл бұрын
Yeh, I experienced that too
@pearlscorner402 жыл бұрын
That hit home for real😮💨
@naoeaschmidtesim93862 жыл бұрын
Maybe they're just shy, like me...
@bhuvansuraj80312 жыл бұрын
@@naoeaschmidtesim9386 shyness doesn't makes sense if they really like you
@lianhorvat5744 Жыл бұрын
Unrequited love/infatuation sucks like nothing else. I wouldn’t wish this pain on anyone.
@amjoseguerrero4 жыл бұрын
here a little something to save your time: 1. they rarely acknowledge you. 2. they never initiate conversation. 3. they cancel on you... a lot. 4. they're taking advantage of you. 5. you're becoming obsessed with them. 6. your friends want you to move on. 7. they're interested in someone else. 8. they're dating someone else.
@jessyavila53174 жыл бұрын
Thankyou
@Trixiestar04 жыл бұрын
guess i need to let go of sans now he doesn't love me and i dont level of violence him
@rilynnmiller87664 жыл бұрын
my crush doesnt even exist
@zelixleo54 жыл бұрын
You the Real MVP
@thecat15194 жыл бұрын
Thank u
@tempcjw4 жыл бұрын
Me: *confesses to crush* Crush: *rejects me* Psych2Go: why don't i just add more salt to the wound
@Che_Yo4 жыл бұрын
Psych2go: oh, here's some hand sanitizer while your at it as well!!!!
@lillyeastwood1174 жыл бұрын
Same.. x
@Che_Yo4 жыл бұрын
@@Mattieraus x: same
@zelixleo54 жыл бұрын
You feel me
@Che_Yo4 жыл бұрын
@@zelixleo5 yes
@pixelcat45934 жыл бұрын
"they are interested in someone else and/or is toxic" Me: *starts crying* 😭
@yanC694 жыл бұрын
I know the pain
@uglysheep22154 жыл бұрын
ಥ‿ಥ
@noahhager11874 жыл бұрын
yup it hurts dude
@ramanujmedhi27194 жыл бұрын
Now I am dealing with it
@itsmeh94984 жыл бұрын
Ye that's what happening with me now 😭
@zaca32562 жыл бұрын
Congratulations to anyone in the world that actually got to date their crush.
@enmu451 Жыл бұрын
Ong..
@ifafathima7586 Жыл бұрын
Thankyou :)
@amywilliams5729 Жыл бұрын
@@enmu451. Congratulations 🎊 to anyone in the world that actually got a to date their crush. JoMurry.
@Gillian836 Жыл бұрын
Thx
@FNAFbbmTheHomeStudio Жыл бұрын
Mine said he loves me but he’s married- Ik he didn’t mean love me love me- I think
@hazenoon_4 жыл бұрын
see but here's the thing: I'm an extremely shy person so i rarely initiate conversations, but i still like him a lot.
@graycamellia76344 жыл бұрын
Oh wait, that’s also a problem
@doglover07284 жыл бұрын
Same
@brooklilanimations62704 жыл бұрын
Ok completely get that. Mine has a girlfriend also so like-
@gioprox52074 жыл бұрын
Oh shii so maybe there is a real she is into me... Let's go boys!
@carolinarodriguez65164 жыл бұрын
Don't worry Katara, you know that Aang is crushing really hard on you right?... You might be talking about Jet here... Well we both know jet, he's not a match for you 👀😅
@oNE.and.onLY.3 жыл бұрын
“Why are you staring?” Literally the scariest thing my crush could tell me. [Edit] Woahhh how did this get 2k likes?-
@oNE.and.onLY.3 жыл бұрын
@Stella Moritz 😂
@darintoons35853 жыл бұрын
Mine too
@ventingmachine1013 жыл бұрын
"im not the one staring..."
@oNE.and.onLY.3 жыл бұрын
@@ventingmachine101 🤣
@chichuuyaaaaa14213 жыл бұрын
@Stella Moritz yessssss
@aritraghosh90124 жыл бұрын
the worse thing than your crush not liking you is never knowing if she liked you or not and be trapped in the eternal anxiety which leads to everyday pain and makes you unable to stop liking them and being lost to the endless anxiety of not knowing... Edit: Guys dw everyone of you deserve the best for your, you all will find someone or the other that will keep you happy!
@summerslider24873 жыл бұрын
Ask her. Get the answer. We can try to live in the good friendship zone, but that won’t do anyone any good in the long run
@summerslider24873 жыл бұрын
@Aishani Ojha damn, nice stuff. Seems like the thing most want but never get
@luckyme76113 жыл бұрын
@Aishani Ojha did he go out with you tho?
@ivoryas16963 жыл бұрын
Aritra Ghosh I honestly knew that she didn't when I snapped back to reality and the sparks started to fizzle out... she really know me, I probably remember everything she's ever said, the last of them being "sorry" when I almost walked into her out of a door. I don't say that to be creepy; I mean to say that she's literally said roughly 50 words to me and I remember them because I remember things like and there' such little to remember.
@luckyme76113 жыл бұрын
@Aishani Ojha I commented on his stories saying he was too cute and he replied.. awe thanks, you too. I replied thanks and that was it. I’m not sure if that’s a green light or he’s just being kind 🥶
@Ikimasho_official2 жыл бұрын
I have a work crush who I thought had the same feelings, but my thoughts were speaking louder than reality. Go where you're celebrated, not tolerated
@bradyryan5105 Жыл бұрын
Boom
@charmyzard Жыл бұрын
Yet to find that place.
@happysloth44416 ай бұрын
I love the last line you said, very true
@mananda.4 жыл бұрын
My crush: Shows all of these signals Me whos liked him for the past 8 years: N O
@chloebiggs71754 жыл бұрын
I feel the exact same way and I'd let it go but because it's been so long it's so hard
@mananda.4 жыл бұрын
@@chloebiggs7175 Yes thats exactly what im thinking
@chloebiggs71754 жыл бұрын
@@mananda. omg it's so good to find someone who feels the same as me tbh
@chloebiggs71754 жыл бұрын
@@mananda. like I'm not even close to him, we have the cliche "nerd and popular guy" kind of situation going on but I just can't find a way to get over him
@mananda.4 жыл бұрын
@@chloebiggs7175 Ikr i cant get over him ive liked him since 2nd grade and have only talked to him like 10 times
@tanjadeglynys93723 жыл бұрын
" life is too short for you to be chasing someone who doesn't feel the same way" Me on the 4th year:🕴🏻
@hayleyv.w88173 жыл бұрын
Lol I'm in my 6th😬at this point I might just be killing myself from the inside
@yomamaissomefrfrong3 жыл бұрын
omg relatable sometimes you just cant let go ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
@rishav97693 жыл бұрын
kzbin.info/www/bejne/epqXl2Z5qbh7ZsU
@jpdiaz38463 жыл бұрын
@@hayleyv.w8817 I'm also in the 6th year
@PeterPeter203 жыл бұрын
I'm on the 5th lol
@jimmyanderson99573 жыл бұрын
I have a crush. And I’m young. Too young to date. And I’m obsessed with them! It’s plaguing my mind and inflicting my studies and I hate it. I’m to young to love. But I trying to get out of this crush craze before I burn out. And every time they talk about their own crush it just absolutely rocks my self esteem. Wish me luck internet people I’m gonna try to move on
@mingtheoofer41013 жыл бұрын
I feel you
@simp_king50683 жыл бұрын
Good luck!
@urloveshot3 жыл бұрын
Best of luck
@thatonerobloxfan49233 жыл бұрын
Same im only 11 bruh
@ahnelidailey91083 жыл бұрын
just kill their crush its the best way
@joshuaangellobonao39372 жыл бұрын
This is exactly what I've experienced. Even worse, I suffered from depression after being rejected because I didn't know how to control my emotions or my thoughts.
@dkwbeie26284 жыл бұрын
✓ They rarely acknowledge you.1 ✓ They never initiate conversation.2 ✓ They cancel on you.3 ✓ They're taking advantage of you.4 ✓ You are becoming obsessed with them.5 ✓ Your friend want you to move on.6 ✓ They are interested in someone else.7 ✓ They are dating someone else.8 Edit: Thanks for 💯.
@nithaazalea75794 жыл бұрын
And he has a gf rn
@evakhairunnisa68364 жыл бұрын
I have four of it lmao-
@irisd.agbayani86734 жыл бұрын
I realized that I have 7 of them F*ck
@ritacriwwker54734 жыл бұрын
My crush is dating my best friend
@sweetflux27124 жыл бұрын
If some of you has been friend zoned remember this you we’re lucky because you were able to talk to them....
@genericytaccount33514 жыл бұрын
every time I have a crush, I get so obsessed and feel like a stalker 😞
@kittylover44524 жыл бұрын
Every time i have a crush i know ima get heartbroken
@Lethabo.sourceofhappiness4 жыл бұрын
I'm not the only one 😔
@redflavor87694 жыл бұрын
Me too
@dingdonganimation35114 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂
@azertyuiopqsdfghjklm83754 жыл бұрын
Me too
@charlita254 жыл бұрын
I don’t like having a crush it gives me anxiety
@ash-uq5cq4 жыл бұрын
saaame i get really bad chest pains from it
@FloralGoddess4 жыл бұрын
Oof same, my heart drops every time I see them and when I’m with them 😳😶
@humancentipede.4 жыл бұрын
This says it was 2 days ago but it just came out!
@dontreadmyicon28404 жыл бұрын
@@humancentipede. I know right? I noticed it too Also don’t read my name
@iamaqween51564 жыл бұрын
Same tho
@kabedig Жыл бұрын
If you are crushing over someone who's taken, (speaking from experience) you should always try to be their friend, because even if your crush doesn't fade, you still will have them for support to help you through tough times.
@paolaa37023 жыл бұрын
“they never initiate conversations” called me out so badly 😭 update: i feel like she actually likes talking to me now!! we’re really close update: a few months after the original comment i ended it bc our friendship felt one sided. couple months after we became friends again n this time it’s different. she’s my best friend and one of my fav people ever. she feels the same n i don’t want anything to change
@mixedchinaa3 жыл бұрын
SAMS
@basma.gogogo3 жыл бұрын
💔
@rubyyongruxin75953 жыл бұрын
Yesss😭
@TheeDevilWearsPrada3 жыл бұрын
Lol they initiate conversations but I don't 😂
@johnpaulvillarin79053 жыл бұрын
Yep
@atkjuni4 жыл бұрын
*When you don’t have a crush on anyone yet still watch the video*
@sleepyriri93844 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂 same
@Kakjajx4 жыл бұрын
Same lol
@blazexy1064 жыл бұрын
Same😂
@christinevanscyoc30504 жыл бұрын
I just love hearing her voice
@blackpinkscomebackisataugu63424 жыл бұрын
cant relate
@Helloknight4 жыл бұрын
“They constantly cancel” Either they don’t like you, or they’re just introverts.
@Loonlun4 жыл бұрын
THATS MEEE
@ember50314 жыл бұрын
being an introvert isn't an excuse to make plans and then ditch them
@wienerdawg58324 жыл бұрын
@@ember5031 actually it kinda can be
@wienerdawg58324 жыл бұрын
Most introverts dont like either being put on the spot when talking or like being too close due to trust issues or something else
@ziggyswiggy65944 жыл бұрын
@@wienerdawg5832 Preach, someone had to say it.
@shadowfox872 жыл бұрын
She did cancel on me 3 times and then I stopped asking. Then suddenly, she asked me out to a concert. I think that the only way we truly know what someone is thinking is to ask them directly. This is hard and takes a lot of courage, but basically you have to risk it. You have to ask them not just to "hang out" but to ask them out on a date. Regardless of what the answer will be, you will walk with confidence knowing you gave it your shot.
@OnioNSquid6 ай бұрын
The problem with asking them on a date is that I don't like going out with anyone who isn't my parents, because I'm afraid people around us will think we're together and I don't like that.
@kohaiikaii68064 жыл бұрын
"You start obsessing over them" *examples show up* Me: SHI--
@sofiapofie4 жыл бұрын
**chuckles** youre in *danger* I put the word pain Bcuz I dunno what the other word was.. Not "trouble" Idk U know what I mean tho right-? Edit: THE WORD WAS DANGER HOW WAS I SO DUMB BEFORE
@touche9954 жыл бұрын
I CANT LET GO OF FINN WOLFHARD GODDAM
@duckyfuzz12004 жыл бұрын
* Ha I'm in Danger *
@trasharmy99184 жыл бұрын
Me searching for SPACIFICLY Damon and Klous* OH SHI-- (Vampire Diaries)
@Ace-pf6ll4 жыл бұрын
200th like boi 😎
@veroleri43633 жыл бұрын
Everyone: **talking about how their crush doesnt like them back** Me who hasn’t had any of the signs except the obsession: **takes out sunglasses**
@Blossy_yuh3 жыл бұрын
Samee
@eogeumpark69223 жыл бұрын
me as well
@genuinelyweird63583 жыл бұрын
Same I feel so lucky
@ivoryas16963 жыл бұрын
KaileyRH Me, who was never even close enough to her to have any more than 3 of the signs: 😶
@Akfiekdkgn3 жыл бұрын
I have had almost all the signs
@kazuha_supremacy77124 жыл бұрын
I like how the personified "crush" is portrayed as being androgynous.
@theMRsome124 жыл бұрын
Well yeah but it's obviously a guy for the advice though.
@trinf55114 жыл бұрын
theMRsome12 it doesn’t seem like it though
@Psych2go4 жыл бұрын
The animator, Murielle thought it through :)
@theMRsome124 жыл бұрын
@@trinf5511 how so? If you apply that advice to dating the average woman you will well, miss most chances basically.
@kazuha_supremacy77124 жыл бұрын
@@Psych2go yes, props to the animator uwu
@sergefiedyt2 жыл бұрын
For the longest time, I thought I was completely straight. Throughout my early school life, I’ve had certain admirations for the same sex but it didn’t amount to anything as important as to whom I’m crushing on right now: one of my expressively gay friends. It really started out as a simple admiration from him, especially in his confidence in speaking and utilizing his physical abilities. When we started talking more, well to put frankly, I was falling for him even more. What hurts the most though is that I know we’re not compatible; we have different life goals and he is in love with another guy. It really pains me at moments when I just want to confess my feelings for him, but then again not only will I jeopardize our friendship, but also my reputation. So yeah, I just wanted to share my same sex crush story :)
@belfordk4 жыл бұрын
“Your friends want you to move on” Jokes on you, I don’t have friends!
@Cyborg09204 жыл бұрын
Damn man sad but I guess happy story
@belfordk4 жыл бұрын
@@Cyborg0920 well, I don’t have friends but seriously, I have a best friend *and she’s a girl* Edit: pls don’t call me simp... She’s my crush then but now we’re BFF’s
@deadlockdgaming14974 жыл бұрын
Ha same
@shootingstars9684 жыл бұрын
Oop- 💀💀
@shawerful52094 жыл бұрын
(Y) same
@dianaramirez34183 жыл бұрын
I do have a crush, my crush is very kind towards me. We often share things such as homework and snacks. I’m not quite obsessed about my crush but they are always on my mind. But my gut feeling is telling me that they are only just genuinely friendly and nothing more. Now that I saw this video, I’ll keep continuing my feelings on the low because I’m scared to tell them and make a fool out of myself.
@saditylorena46923 жыл бұрын
whatzpp him I was like this be'fore I know who can he:lp you out text him now he can solve your problem:: don't waste your time here,......
@YtSab3 жыл бұрын
ye same, my crush is just a nice person to anyone
@dianaramirez34183 жыл бұрын
@@saditylorena4692 thank you I do appreciate but recently I found that my crush moved on and likes someone else. We are still good friends and Im slowly getting over them. I’m feeling better day by day. I learned to value myself.
@saditylorena46923 жыл бұрын
@@dianaramirez3418 messagehim now ok don't worry he can help you
@sushi72883 жыл бұрын
Same!!
@edayame81614 жыл бұрын
“They rarely acknowledge you” “You’re obsessed with them” Kpop stans: *We’re gonna pretend we didn’t hear that*
@zacharyhare35564 жыл бұрын
So true T.T
@sereneblossom29514 жыл бұрын
im gonna assume that you’re an army based on your name and profile pic, so lemme tell you that bts and army are equally delulu for each other😂
@violet_89314 жыл бұрын
myulktae *” I- “* **Cries in corner**
@edayame81614 жыл бұрын
@@sereneblossom2951 true dat
@edayame81614 жыл бұрын
@@violet_8931 lets cry together T-T
@anonyms224 ай бұрын
Ok but like I watched all of your crush related videos… I think my crush and I r a perfect match 1 i’m not so obsessed 2 If I want too see them at a park they will try to clear put time 3 They don’t use me 4 They ARE my friend 5 They aren’t dating anyone 6 They aren’t oblivious 7 They’re there to support me
@LauraSFB4 жыл бұрын
Psych2go: 8 Signs to let go of your crush. Me: *Sweat intensifies*
@Psych2go4 жыл бұрын
So what was the conclusion? :)
@LauraSFB4 жыл бұрын
@@Psych2go No need to worry! :D I mean... I am indeed a little obsessed, but I (hope) believe it's normal.
@david_laranjeira4 жыл бұрын
Psych2Go I know that I need to get rid of this crush I have on my friend for 4 years. She even friend zoned me a couple months back and it’s still so hard to let go of this stupid crush. Got any tips for me?
@david_laranjeira4 жыл бұрын
Tayler Muilenburg thanks. I’ve already acknowledged that she doesn’t like me like, the hard part for me is trying not to be hard on myself. She also friend zoned over text, and we never talked about in person, so that might also contribute to why I still like her. As for hobbies I really like playing video games and they can distract from my crush, but the only problem is that my feelings tend to come into my mind when I’m not doing anything, like when I’m about to go to sleep, and once they’re there, it’s hard to get them out. As for friends, there really aren’t that many, if any, who actually be willing to strike a conversation with me, but also I guess it wouldn’t hurt to try. Overall, things have gotten a little better, but not to the degree that I would’ve liked, but thank you for the advice, it was pretty nice to get some else’s opinion on what I should do, rather than someone just telling me to get over it.
@GRACIEE5609 ай бұрын
@@LauraSFB it is when u are having a crush, just don’t get too obsessed 😭
@Psych2go4 жыл бұрын
Who else is crushing on this artwork by Murielle Lindsley Dela Rosa? Comment below!
@denisevandillen65264 жыл бұрын
Me I luv it
@leaf25224 жыл бұрын
uvu
@SlushLoveable4 жыл бұрын
I am!
@official_karmastudios54134 жыл бұрын
Me
@eb0nys4 жыл бұрын
I'm obsessed, 💕💕💕💕💕
@briangarcia19754 жыл бұрын
Getting over my crush wasnt that hard when I'm already used to being lonely
@Frankya924 жыл бұрын
It’s like I always say now, “you can’t miss what you never had” 🤷♂️
@forget-me-not85224 жыл бұрын
How'd you get over tho?
@cheazymonkey68184 жыл бұрын
Yeah same
@Zy___4 жыл бұрын
Rip
@luan562782 жыл бұрын
the moment when your crush asked your best friend if hes single🗿
@aeditcompany14792 жыл бұрын
Then my best friend should say goodbye
@FluxxVR.2 жыл бұрын
Happen
@rissatriz7678 Жыл бұрын
Im afraid this would happen to me because im always in her shadow🏃🏻♀️🏃🏻♀️
@Hana.alonso Жыл бұрын
My bestfriend and my crush are dating after i told him that i have a crush on him 🙂
@CookiePlaysOfficial8 ай бұрын
@@rissatriz7678 SAME- 😭
@panpanorama26994 жыл бұрын
I had a crush on someone for 7 years now... he still doesn't give a damn about me. It's just so hard to let go...
@petethecat58174 жыл бұрын
Trying to get over someone takes Time
@diegom-a79704 жыл бұрын
7 Years is too much
@JacksPearl884 жыл бұрын
You need to let go. You can't keep waiting forever. Either that or make a serious move.
@kclarke57964 жыл бұрын
I'm in the same boat...you aren't alone.
@teresamcmurrin86724 жыл бұрын
Darlin', are you really in love with him, or with the *idea* of him? Those can be very easily confused. We often fall in love with an ideal, and then project those qualities on the object of our affection. But they may not match up with our notions. See how his personality and behavior in your daydreams matches with the real-life him. (If he really is acting like he doesn't give a damn about you after 7 years, then I'm guessing he *isn't* a match.) Be brutally honest with yourself. If you are in love with the fantasy, and keep associating the fantasy with the person, it's near-impossible to let go. And we shouldn't let go of our fantasies! We can use them to help us figure out what is important to us in a partner, in a relationship. But I'm sure you know it's time to let go of your crush. If he's shown no signs of getting closer with you in all this time, it's not going to happen, he'll never be the person you want him to be. Move on and make space in your heart & life for someone that will appreciate and love you. Not saying it will be easy, but it'll be worth the struggle.
@KevinEontrainer3814 жыл бұрын
"They never initiate conversation" Wait... they're supposed to do that???
@rashelm.324 жыл бұрын
Facts... someone has to start it, it doesn’t always have to be them. I’ve never started a conversation with my crush cause I got extreme social anxiety but that doesn’t mean I’m not dying to talk to them
@faithandjessegamingmore154 жыл бұрын
Um YES HOW WOULD YOU EVEN KNOW YOU LIKE THEM
@ehm.toasting4 жыл бұрын
True. My crush almost always was the one to initiate conversation, as I was way too anxious and scared to be the initiator. Doesn't mean I don't want to tho, I'm just awkward and my heart can't take the excitement Although I did usually text him first cuz uh heheh, that's way easier lol
@rhyme33324 жыл бұрын
I usually start conversations, but she replies lightning fast and long texts so idk
@RedRoseSeptember224 жыл бұрын
@@melanymoon8900 Sounds like he's trying to control you, I'd tell him it's a two-way street and if he wants to hear from you, he needs to text or call as well. It can't always be you who does it first.
@SourRobo83644 жыл бұрын
Sign #9: They are a fictional character and causing you not to be attracted to real people.
@KarissaCutie4 жыл бұрын
Literally me
@Lalaland-og9xr4 жыл бұрын
Honestly
@yurriibee4 жыл бұрын
you read my mind.
@puddleofgender4 жыл бұрын
Me: *sweats*
@cheazymonkey68184 жыл бұрын
yes
@kingjb554 Жыл бұрын
I've developed a lot of crushes over the past year, and they've all been on close friends. And I've told them all how I feel, (except for one girl) and thankfully we're still friends. But it can still hurt, being overly fascinated about one person (or multiple) is exhausting
@thedorkeyduo Жыл бұрын
Yeah same and my most recent crush has a boyfriend and sense I am only 12 I was depressed for a few months
@i_changed_my_username_ha87184 жыл бұрын
I tried to let go of my crush It didn't work They like me back I think it's more than a crush... Sh!t
@welovemusic85424 жыл бұрын
😂
@ManWithTheCow4 жыл бұрын
Lucky mine likes boys and I'm a girl :(
@huckella21314 жыл бұрын
Literally me!
@SaraRoby53954 жыл бұрын
YEY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!11
@themoviefan69484 жыл бұрын
@@ManWithTheCow Been there, done that, haha.
@atrashlemon77354 жыл бұрын
I get the feeling most people here know how to let go but just dont want to
@estephanegomez383 жыл бұрын
Ong tho :( he shows a lot of toxic traits but I just keep telling myself he'll change bc I don't wanna let go
@wingmrta90183 жыл бұрын
I alreedy know but i choose to let go because im too young lts good for me
@miles_shore36903 жыл бұрын
I feel the same way 😭
@marklloyd1103 жыл бұрын
Is there something where you have been friends with them for a while and aren’t afraid to talk to them but you still wanna do epic things for them?
@Vichov34 жыл бұрын
This video: "Exist" Literally everyone who said that this artstyle was great: "I was looking forward to this"
@sorrychangedmyusername35944 жыл бұрын
I even had a heartache by this artstyle
@STANSTRAYKIDS44192 жыл бұрын
Now I understand why I should get over my crush that rejected me almost a month ago, thank you.
@gatorpunk3 жыл бұрын
“The worst they can say is no!” My crush is really close to me, so he texted me that he got a girlfriend over text. I congratulated him, but felt dead inside. Edit: guys now I have a new crush 😳
@idonthavethink45583 жыл бұрын
It be like that sometimes
@shayne_has_landed25113 жыл бұрын
True. I confessed over a year ago and the only response I got was “I don’t know” when I reached out to them a few weeks later. It hurts like a bitch, and it’s so hard to tell whether or not you should move on when you don’t have any answer.
@idonthavethink45583 жыл бұрын
@Stephanie Sim I was in the same situation. I started getting feelings for a close friends literaly out of nowhere but I never admit it. I told some of my classmates and friends and long story short he found out but he was stilled chill with me and he would talk to me normally. The thing is that I started to get so nervous around him and I stop talking to him and felt awkward when we talk so i avoided him even though I still wanted to be with him. but anyways I can't really say to be brave and tell him when I did the opposite. My tip though If he rejects you or not, be confident. Also I know is late but I can't sleep so I though why not share my story that nobody cares about. :)
@revplayyzzz52813 жыл бұрын
Bruh I asked a girl I liked at school and she said yes but at the end of the date she said she liked someone else and said they just wanna be friends 😢
@lilly-wu5kc3 жыл бұрын
@@idonthavethink4558 now now are we the same person? coz this same thing happened to me 🧍♀️
@Mk-wg4ze4 жыл бұрын
What I really hate is when you stopped having a crush on them but then they start having a crush on you when you already moved on...Uufff I Hate that feeling😒😒
@Cheezy_Bunz4 жыл бұрын
Marisa and Sam this seems like a brag of some sort
@LucielEllis4 жыл бұрын
Oohh felt this kinda
@zombioric58904 жыл бұрын
IT’S HORRIBLE
@amberb.63954 жыл бұрын
Opposite for me. They liked me, never told me, I like them, they didn’t like me. Or I only see them as a friend. I’ve had that at least twice that I can think off the top of my head
@cgeikimbot4 жыл бұрын
Oml this happend to my friends
@pearlduggan34763 жыл бұрын
I had a crush and my friend told him. Long story short he doesn’t talk to me anymore
@summerslider24873 жыл бұрын
Some friends can be stupid, but that’s part of the friendship package 🥲
@blueberrypawsome3 жыл бұрын
Same, it’s really awkward when you see them in public after that
@miles_shore36903 жыл бұрын
That sucks
@rubberduckyyouretheone11133 жыл бұрын
@@Angel-nu4zn Ooh I hope you're alright
@sanssnas62523 жыл бұрын
situations like that i hate those AND THAT'S WHY YOU SHOULDN'T HAVE FRIENDS, QUEUE END CREDITS
@o0Ella._.Wilson0o Жыл бұрын
In the beginning of my school year, the guy that I like now was OBSESSED with me. But at the time, I never felt the same. He asked me a few times to hang out, but I told him no, as I was scared to get into any relationship. I started to realize that I kinda liked him, so I gave him a note explaining how I felt. But after I gave him the note, he told my friend that he liked someone else and moved on. As soon as I heard that I was CRUSHED. But yet I knew I needed to move on. They recently are now dating the person they like, while I just sit and watch them with pain in my heart. I know that the school year is almost over for me, but this video definitely helped me figure out my next step. ( if you read this all WOW that’s crazy here’s a cookie 🍪 lol)
@Hermione456 Жыл бұрын
That’s so sad and sweet and ty for the cookie lol my crush is interested to someone else too and not only that I was giving him gifts and he I am 90% he is giving it to his crush 😢!I even gave him something really special for me and he gave it to his crush! I am really sad especially because that girl he is interested too she is really rude!I hope guys your crush likes you back😣
@XIAO-j9o3 жыл бұрын
"Life is too short for you to keep chasing someone who doesn't feel the same way". Me:Sasuke
@pinche.f3rnando3 жыл бұрын
Lol
@arkham_miami3 жыл бұрын
YOU ARE MY FRIENDDDDD AHHH
@pinche.f3rnando3 жыл бұрын
@@arkham_miami are you guys actually friends lol
@XIAO-j9o3 жыл бұрын
@@arkham_miami I know that opening.
@therealsigma573 жыл бұрын
LMFAOO
@roseismybaby82303 жыл бұрын
"They rarely acknowledge you" That hits so hard
@rajeswarivishwanathan6256 Жыл бұрын
like a fast approaching train bruh 💀
@Sandy756-o8h Жыл бұрын
SO HARD
@zerberus20463 жыл бұрын
My crush told me, that he generally can't imagine himself in a relationship right now. I respect and understand that. But it still hurts a lot, because I imagined a whole future that will not come to pass that way.
@swinerazor40753 жыл бұрын
If he says that there's only two things, first he meant it second Le doesn't like you.
@zerberus20463 жыл бұрын
@@swinerazor4075 What do you mean?
@nazatulsyah2 жыл бұрын
@@zerberus2046 It means that your crush either being honest about not able to be in a relationship atm. Or he just doesn't see you as a partner and politely declines you in that manner
@alexmihaighionea37952 жыл бұрын
I know that feeling, i found out she doesn't like me back cuz of this vid, it oppened my eyes
@Unstoppableneon_jell2 жыл бұрын
Well at least you found out what he would say, but also the fact he knows that you actually like him. Get what I mean?
@specialk2183 Жыл бұрын
Man, this animation is awesome! Very well illustrated. SO relatable
@mochi.strawbb4 жыл бұрын
The part I’m most afraid of is getting rejected, which is why I try to avoid having feelings for someone, but sometimes it can be so hard...😔😕
@artsbybware47904 жыл бұрын
Same
@amberb.63954 жыл бұрын
I faced my fear. I asked a guy out that I liked. We dated for almost two years until I dumped him. I’d go for it if you think they’re a good person for you. Mine didn’t end up being a good person for me, but I’ll still try again with someone else when I’m ready to
@legaru97904 жыл бұрын
@Arah Ya Well said!
@mochi.strawbb4 жыл бұрын
@Arah Ya thank you for your encouraging words, and giving me courage to face this fear. I will keep them in mind for the future!🥰
@ayanoaishi64454 жыл бұрын
The Spider Web or in class, in front of all your classmates and the girls u don’t like...💔
@mesmaxxy4 жыл бұрын
"You're obssessed with them" "They're interested with someone else" fu-
@broskie84 жыл бұрын
It really hurts
@drenubes7614 жыл бұрын
2019 was the number 7 still hurts and I don't talk with that person since may? i think
@doglover07284 жыл бұрын
Yep😶😐😑😬
@PlatoNgantuk4 жыл бұрын
Your not wrong
@PlatoNgantuk4 жыл бұрын
Your not wrong
@jordanrichardson23674 жыл бұрын
😐 I feel like the universe is trying to tell me something
@Scream_Tail_09854 жыл бұрын
Some time ago, I was obsessing about this boy that didn't like me back. I eventually got over it; now I'm dating someone else who is honestly better for me and it's been going since early last year. Life has a way of surprising you. I thought my situation was completely hopeless.
@amyjjewel4 жыл бұрын
Jordan Richardson 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
@wowzers74184 жыл бұрын
fr
@nuke81914 жыл бұрын
Jordan: y'all hear sum'...?
@arorasaakshi4 жыл бұрын
Same 😂😭
@shahanibarrientos64942 жыл бұрын
1. They rarely acknowledge you 2. They never initiate conversations 3. They cancel on you a lot 4. They're taking advantage of you 5. Your becoming obsessed with them 6. Your friends want you to move on 7. They're interested in someone else 8. They're dating someone else
@psychosins49164 жыл бұрын
I’ve had a crush for 6 years he knows but I’m going to let go I don’t care
@sjaedube88714 жыл бұрын
U a no longer crushing....u love him
@drown4244 жыл бұрын
If he didn't return the same let him go
@kentuckyfriedchicken68234 жыл бұрын
Christa Rothgerber I had a crush for 3 years
@rcmtsmaster2144 жыл бұрын
U been crushing for 6 years!? I been crushing for like 3 months and my crush shows signs of liking me back. Definitely let go.
@rahmatismail98184 жыл бұрын
@@rcmtsmaster214 why? your crush is already starting to like you..have patience
@ellawolfuwu35253 жыл бұрын
“You have to be careful not to let the crush get out of hand.” Yandere-chan: hm? What dose that mean-?
@meowjade26403 жыл бұрын
Monika: What? lol no wayy, lets kill sayori.
@madkatyt9683 жыл бұрын
“Dose” lol
@Lobotomite-real3 жыл бұрын
That’s pretty edgy pal’
@iwantmydamn.cast.off.3 жыл бұрын
Me in a nutshell lmao
@agnespeach90934 жыл бұрын
I don’t trust “friends” advice about me and my crush cause they’re snakes and will ruin everything. It has happened to me before and now I don’t trust anyone.
@saeedbaig42494 жыл бұрын
Sorry to hear that. Sounds like you need better friends. It's normal for some friends to tease or joke or poke fun at each other. But purposefully trying to jeopardize your relationships? Those aren't friends at all.
@agnespeach90934 жыл бұрын
Saeed Baig I know but I just can never make the right friends 😭 and always when I do make some good friends they always move☹️
@choppermuscle63584 жыл бұрын
I can relate everyone in my life leaves me no matter how nice I am so I'm not gonna open up anymore
@Idkwhatimdoing11114 жыл бұрын
When we walked to the cafeteria for the lunch my friends saw my crush and said his name loud and told him that I like him, oh god it was embarrassing! But now I'm still friends with them but we don't talk a lot like before we did
@agnespeach90934 жыл бұрын
@sarah bizer really does your crush show signs to cause if he does he don't deserve you period
@murfstr2 жыл бұрын
Man this video is the reality I needed to fix myself. Met this girl online and fell for her day one, we gamed all the time and enjoyed talking to each other a lot. We knew we liked each other but never made a move, I was to scared cause she’s be my first girlfriend ever. Eventually she said she’d fallen hard for a guy and she started to become more distant from me, to the point where she basically ticks every box in this video. (She doesn’t really use me for anything though since we’re not close to each other). But this is the clarity I need to realize that I’m hurting myself more than I should. She’s my first love, I truly care about her, but when the signs are so prevalent it’s time to move on away from my own pain. Thank you for making this video, I couldn’t have fixed myself alone and am feeling much better now. All my friends said is that “if she ever reaches out, don’t be hesitant.” Which I won’t, cause I care a lot about people. It hurts a lot in the moment, but you’re the only one hurting yourself. Keep your head up cause she’s not the only one 😊
@rachelragma7954 жыл бұрын
*"Do you like somebody?"* Me: has a crush on an anime character*
@lansinlumalangmei19514 жыл бұрын
My crush dating someone else
@lansinlumalangmei19514 жыл бұрын
Yes indeed
@itolukibami7254 жыл бұрын
This hits hard than reality
@fredycabrera75754 жыл бұрын
Same
@maryanncuyco87074 жыл бұрын
Off but true
@roxannaclayton75623 жыл бұрын
"Are you the only one that starts the conversation?" No, because I'm to scared to even make eye contact with him. Edit: thank you all for the likes and comments! ☺
@MilkyCow003 жыл бұрын
I see ...........were long lost twins
@Jane-vw3wp3 жыл бұрын
I don't have a crush but this video was helpful for when I do
@ZeKermet3 жыл бұрын
I'm scared to make eye contact too. We have a similarity.....😏
@capyxlcai53273 жыл бұрын
Bakugo: hahahah IDIOT.
@ultrastorychannel3 жыл бұрын
Well me too
@shadowwolf23534 жыл бұрын
Just moved on from crushing on someone after 5 years
@jeanrose39124 жыл бұрын
Same bro,I hope you're doing well (even Idk you lol)
@halle81104 жыл бұрын
Please.. tell me your ways!!
@ohlookitscorn.4 жыл бұрын
me too, now we are just friends
@cinnamongirl4044 жыл бұрын
I'm crushing my best friend since 3 years, i was texting him first everytime, he was never interested as much i was. But i always dreamed about him everyday, for weeks, months, and years.. And after some time ,i realised that he never liked me,and just sees me as his best friend. When i realised that, i didn't text him for weeks. I was feeling useless, and desperate. And one day, i got a text from him, he said that he has a crush in school, and she was a beautiful, intelligent, perfect girl for her. Okay that was totally horrible- I was shocked at the moment, and start saying something absurd to make him stop talking to me about the girl. And he started to say that i'm a horrible friend. And blocked me. we didn't talk for 7 months. That was AWFUL :D - "You had the chance to be with him!." That was what im telling to myself everytime. But it was never like that. Now he apologized me, and said that he wants to continue our friendship. What can i do? IDK THAT STORY WAS HELLA LONG BORING AND FAST. BUT PLEASE HELP ME. WHAT SHALL I DO???
@shadowwolf23534 жыл бұрын
@@cinnamongirl404 If he doesn't want to be with you then just move on If you keep crushing on him it will become unhealthy for you And your friendship will fall apart once again I know it's hard to move on from a long time investing on someone but it is for the best The best way to move on is to look for someone or something you can keep your mind of the person you are trying to move on from This is what I did and it helpt me Me and my ex-crush are know closer than ever since I moved on
@Krauser_Reaper9 ай бұрын
Thank you so much, because of you I asked my crush if she is still interested in me but sad to say no,but now I know so we could be friends again. Thank youuu so much fr❤
@royverde13 жыл бұрын
This video actually made me re-think my entire life right now.
@Unstoppableneon_jell2 жыл бұрын
Ikr!!!!!
@67hutch2 жыл бұрын
Glad to know I'm not the only one
@lemonyz4202 жыл бұрын
Im think about it now, ye. Im gonna rethink my life and hope a version of myself from a different timeline doesn't do stupid shit like I did in this one
@royalerozesss2 жыл бұрын
YEh
@5nub6222 жыл бұрын
real
@creativesparks21644 жыл бұрын
1:17 DONT LISTEN TO THIS ONE I WOULD NEVER INITIATE A CONVERSATION I WOULD BE WAYYY TOOOO NERVOUS so not initiating a conversation doesn’t mean anything
@ndexs51084 жыл бұрын
This comment is underrated.
@saeedbaig42494 жыл бұрын
I think not initiating conversation the first time is understandable since some people are shy. But if it's someone you meet often and who def knows you cause you've talked to them multiple times (e.g. a classmate) but you STILL are the one who always has to initiate the convo, that's a sign they just want nothing to do with you.
@creativesparks21644 жыл бұрын
Saeed Baig Yeah I agree but then I realized even when someone tried to start talking to me I was still to nervous to start the conversations or in this case FaceTime 😬 oops🤭😢
@styrdig37204 жыл бұрын
Creative Sparks stop Youself
@aclamp794 жыл бұрын
My closest friend found out I've been liking her for ages. And i asked if she did back so it wouldn't be awkward for the rest of our interactions. and....she said we'd just be better as friends. I'm sad but... not... it's a weird feeling.
@lydiavose59084 жыл бұрын
she's just not the one no need to be sad,PLENTY of other fish in the sea
@kericwu4 жыл бұрын
Yeah theres many other ppl out there
@P4NT5MASTER374 жыл бұрын
That's the boat I'm in right now. I'm happy to be friends with her but... it's still weird... on my end at least
@maciejkleszczynski98084 жыл бұрын
Some people view this move as "selfish" - that they want to keep you close doing the same things you did already while they dont engage in a relationship with you, but i really dont't think that is the case. A person may like you and just not want to be in relationship with you or isnt even ready to commit to anyone. The most important part in this situation is for you to decide if you want to stay close to them. It may be tempting to do so, but it is very dangerous and may damage you emotionally over time. Give yourself a possibility of choice at any point in the future and make sure she understands you need it just for the sake of mutual respect.
@RanitobrY78634 жыл бұрын
Hey, advice (cause I’ve been on the same boat many times) keep a bit of distance from that person (don’t ignore them completely) but do give yourself a little more time to heal, by keeping distance and basically reflecting on why you guys couldn’t work..also always tell yourself that she wants to still be friends, which is good.. It’s okay feel weird about the situation, and again, there are other people out there for you. Hang in there, I know it sucks and it hurts, but hey. Remember, there are other fishes in the sea.
@filspartan182 жыл бұрын
According to this video, it seems that my crush is actually someone I can try and know better to start something that might last❤️ obviously it's not just that easy, maybe I'm just a good friend to her, but I'm doing my best effort to overcome difficulties and doubts and try building something more, I hope she will feel the same and we can be together in the next future
@gabrielmongenot42192 жыл бұрын
"If you're looking for signs to tell you it's time to move on from your crush, than you akready know in your gut... that something is wrong" That one hit hard lol
@Unstoppableneon_jell2 жыл бұрын
I'm trusting my gut more but for good things.
@madfinnishgamer384 жыл бұрын
Me: *doesn't even have a crush on anyone* Also me: *watches this video anyway*
@LucielEllis4 жыл бұрын
Lmao me
@whatoof66044 жыл бұрын
Same. 😅
@cgeikimbot4 жыл бұрын
I dont know what it feels like to love somebody romanticly .-.
@issac94924 жыл бұрын
@@cgeikimbot same-
@Sarah-pc1di4 жыл бұрын
Me
@kenny-nk5db4 жыл бұрын
summary of the video: 1. They rarely acknowledge you 2. They never initiate conversations 3. They cancel on you.. A LOT 4. They’re taking advantage of you 5. You’re becoming obsessed with them 6. Your friends want you to move on 7. They’re interested in someone else 8. They’re dating someone else
@theresaheroinmyhead4 жыл бұрын
Thanks dude
@mikepencestoes4 жыл бұрын
my crush has been in a relationship for 3 years ಠ﹏ಠ
@theresaheroinmyhead4 жыл бұрын
@@mikepencestoes awww the sucks
@Frankya924 жыл бұрын
_ death I know the feeling. Just move on, it isn’t worth being on one person for so long
@elizabethrose6442 жыл бұрын
imagine being able to simply choose to loose feelings
@lephantomchickn36764 жыл бұрын
It's honestly annoying how they always assume we have friends who care
@rashelm.324 жыл бұрын
Facts! Pisses me off too. I don’t even have 1 friend I could go talk to.
@NorikoUsaken4 жыл бұрын
Or friends who know.
@ethan64374 жыл бұрын
Yeah I'm with you on that one, I think these videos are made from the perspectives of mostly people who are likeable enough to have friends
@wearewearetogetherbulletpr3874 жыл бұрын
Well, we also have families? Unless you are living far away and can't interact with anyone, but still there are many ways to communicate with close people
@MikhaelAhava4 жыл бұрын
@we are we are together bulletproof I’m not open to people, but I tend to joke a lot about it.
@kawaki63504 жыл бұрын
everyone : crushes are an exciting experience me : its just a phenomenon to make you even more sad
@pranubasnet93614 жыл бұрын
My crush who does all of this and still it's been 4 years that I can't get over them: 👁️👄👁️
@belfordk4 жыл бұрын
Hehe same, but I’m chatting her
@showsumdilan74624 жыл бұрын
saaaaaaaaame ;-;
@lensukunai25594 жыл бұрын
Ha! Amateurs in still holding on to my crush since preschool!
@legha94934 жыл бұрын
same but been like 5yrs ;-;
@simplyvibin46464 жыл бұрын
@@legha9493 so is it normal then like how do we move on cuz it’s not healthy I need to move on it’s been 5 years for me too
@snxbdt2 жыл бұрын
dear crush, you don't know me. i don't know if you're single or not. but thanks for the past few months which may have been nothing to you, but everything to me. it's been nice. it's time i let you go. take care. ❤
@Tofu_Delivery_Boi3 жыл бұрын
I want to and need to accept the fact I’ll truly die alone. Every crush I’ve ever had never works out and no one has ever crushed on me. Just one of those things.
@MaskedMadame093 жыл бұрын
Same
@QuickNickGT3 жыл бұрын
We are the lonely drivers mate
@zaperator44493 жыл бұрын
Courage, bro...
@Tofu_Delivery_Boi3 жыл бұрын
@@zaperator4449 ain’t that easy chief, but I feel you some days are just harder than others
@johnpaulvillarin79053 жыл бұрын
Same
@jakesouthern40504 жыл бұрын
“If they reply with a few words” My crush only sending me memes or long texts: *im playing both sides, that way I can’t lose!*
@zzsty72454 жыл бұрын
They had us in the first half not gonna lie
@mellee71324 жыл бұрын
yes they do that all the time. I'm so sick of it. they call me melllissa all the time. my name is melissa.
@fanso762 жыл бұрын
A few times in my life I've gotten feelings for people to the point ive become obsessed, I don't want to fall back into that hole again. Keeping a busy routine for myself helps and having a better approach to asking them out is helping me a lot.
@mansongamingz7559 Жыл бұрын
YT recommended me this for some reason , 2 years ago is when I lost one of my friends (She is in a completely different country from me) . She used be wonderful but after one small joke she left me which I think is my fault . She said it herself : It might have been just me and not you . Which after a few thoughts from me , this might has just been her . After I lost her , it really got me heart-broken . Because there is once I wanted her to be my gf . After that I will always be alone and don't be in a relationship whatsoever .
@dlnkles4 жыл бұрын
how about having a crush on someone who has anxiety/depression? they constantly cancel plans and lock themselves inside. what do you do then??
@davidwoodling40704 жыл бұрын
As someone with depression I would advise to let them feel at ease. Message them and make them feel comfortable, maybe set up a video call? They have to let you in and be secure with you. Good luck!! :)
@Andy-tr8th4 жыл бұрын
Don’t pressure them! Also, no phone calls. I have anxiety and I always freak out in phone calls, I definitely prefer text, and maybe they do too. Maybe to plans at their house.
@23Starcatcher4 жыл бұрын
Let them know you care but don't press/push them. It usually takes a while for them to open up to/trust people.
@negyt76654 жыл бұрын
The other comments so far before mine are dead on. Phone calls can be rough, and let them feel comfortable first. I would go even further in that, I'd say focus on being JUST friends for a while while they get comfortable wiith you. If you genuinely care for the person, and you know they're battling depression, you gotta want to work alongside them to deal with the mental stress, if that makes sense? I'm not saying don't pursue them as a crush at all, hell I have depression and I wouldn't want that to stop anyone from being attracted to me. I guess what I'm saying is approach their depression as a buddy, a friend, putting your romantic desires in the backseat at first and concentrate on helping them better themselves. At the same time though, it's tricky because you shouldn't force help on them. Just because you have a crush on them doesn't mean you should invest all your energy into "fixing" them. They have to go at their own pace---unless it's destructive behavior like self harm. Let them come out of their shell when they want to. Do enough to let them know they can count on you as a friend, invite them places, offer to hang out, but definitely don't press them to say yes. That could scare them away and you won't even be friends, let alone date them. So yeah, go slow, be their friend, no phone calls, no pressure. Jebus cripes, this comment is a trainwreck inside a dumpster fire, I apologize. That's anxiety for ya!
@Psych2go4 жыл бұрын
We have a video on how to love someone with depression, you might want to check it out. But for that, you just have to be the more active one, or alternatively, just go at their pace. What has worked or didn't work for you in the past?
@vAqeii4 жыл бұрын
Sign 1: Your crush stopped playing Minecraft
@theresaheroinmyhead4 жыл бұрын
Then you know its time to run
@ashyori96374 жыл бұрын
sign 2: your crush teleported to your best friends house instead of yours.
@somebodylikesbacon19604 жыл бұрын
Sign 3: Your crush doesn't put his/her bed next to yours in Minecraft.
@theperson89994 жыл бұрын
Niqxht UwU ay bro don’t underestimate the craft and just keep mining
@jeremiahbooth4234 жыл бұрын
Sign 4: She bans you from the server
@dalia_1d283 жыл бұрын
me: "I think he likes me" him: **talks about his crush to me and asks for advice to ask her out**
@spongebobpopsicle38032 жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry...I know the pain ur going through
@infinitegamingtoutorials74162 жыл бұрын
Daaaamn im sorry
@rileykitchens38922 жыл бұрын
@@infinitegamingtoutorials7416 this happened to me last Thursday they ended up liking my ex BFF that backstabbed me and got me to try and set them up together
@joranguy8822 жыл бұрын
Damn
@nieveashmore57552 жыл бұрын
I've found my long lost twin !!! (I understand the pain my crush likes my bestie but the good thing is she is already dating my brother)
@kimt81622 жыл бұрын
Yep, if your crush or whatever you want to call it. We had a situation where I think he had a crush on my daughter. But, his way of showing it was to show attention to every other girl around her instead of just talkingto "HER". Then one day he asked her who she liked? She was like what? In a weird twist, he all of a sudden acted like he had a crush on her and was trying to make her jealous??? All she thought was that he was a big flirt, and didn't want to end up getting hurt so avoided him at all costs. I told her I didn't really understand this, but felt if a guy really has a crush on YOU he should be trying to talk with just YOU and find out something about YOU. He now has a girlfriend from entirely somewhere else; Again, don't understand so I told her to keep avoiding him.
@dango41553 жыл бұрын
I will keep this in mind.. thank you.. getting over a crush is very hard.. even if they rejected you it’s hard.. but sometimes you just need to forget and move on.. thank you..
@itsmeevie33783 жыл бұрын
Number seven: They’re interested in someone else. Me: WELL THATS A BIG ONE!
@zarjakrajnik64853 жыл бұрын
yea, he is one of my best friends and some day he told me that he is into my best friend, it wasnt like a big crush but it still hurts
@luisamuchenga57993 жыл бұрын
Yes thats true cause my crush has been always been with this girl she was my friend then soon he betrayed me, then we aren't even friends nor colleague, she is just a stranger to me now cause she knew I had a crush on him for like years, she is always with him, and I mean always, cause I get happy when she isn't around cause seeing them together can be really painful, cause she did something really bad on her status saying that she is dating my crush and all, and that really hurt my feelings, its really hard to know that they might be interested in someone else
@theriffrepeaterjr.17723 жыл бұрын
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@eifachdave97013 жыл бұрын
Yeah that hurts
@nixa71633 жыл бұрын
I texted my crush he said he used to like someone in our school but he said that that's in the past. I asked him who's your crush now and he said that "It's a secret" and he said goodbye and gonna text me later. I dont know how to feel about that tbh we are both a introvert so its hard to explain if he likes me or not
@equinox29092 жыл бұрын
It kills me everyday to feel her presence, to hear her laugh and enjoy with friends while she just ignores me. I will do my best to completely let go.. please whoever can read this message, pray for me.. Edit: for all those sharing their current problems and hardships. Heads up Kings and Qeens we'll over come this hell and back stronger than before.
@itzurbutterfly30912 жыл бұрын
I pray for uuuuuuu honestly an so sorry may the lord give u strength and wisdom honestly love u deserve soooooo much more and happiness I love u eventhough am a stranger ♥️♥️
@BillyThurst_the1st2 жыл бұрын
Man I hope you can get over her soon from me
@sabbirnumaer92212 жыл бұрын
So sorry that your friend ignores you and you should tell her why she is ignoring you
@KyubeTheSleepy Жыл бұрын
I feel you bro😔
@bokal8496 Жыл бұрын
Same cheers mate
@MitchieCunanan Жыл бұрын
this helps me a lot, thank you. i know it hurts for me, but thank for cheering me up, this videos always cheering me up
@sebastiangalger88004 жыл бұрын
I like how they kept the crush’s gender ambiguous More or less
@westmezzanine43214 жыл бұрын
Me: *Has a stable girlfriend* My brain: “It’s Psych2Go, you gotta watch it anyway” Edit: Oh my goodness, the frame at 2:52 with the super happy character and the teddy bear is the cutest thing I’ve ever seen
@spoon70164 жыл бұрын
IKR FGFDUC
@davidmays89744 жыл бұрын
Thank you for blessing my eyes.
@i_changed_my_username_ha87184 жыл бұрын
omg it is
@ellanewlove2203 жыл бұрын
the first sign: me: never EVER crush again. i SHOULD acnowledge my invisiblily ;-; im so lonely
@kheez58093 жыл бұрын
😭😭😭
@AndreaMonyei3 жыл бұрын
@@justsomerandomperson7349 ❤
@sydsb1essed3 жыл бұрын
@@justsomerandomperson7349 wait...can I play Roblox with u too I want some friends 🥲
@Summer_Skiwi3 жыл бұрын
this is so sad, but relateable T_T
@invisibleairxd2613 жыл бұрын
Same
@geserdasilva38158 ай бұрын
Boxes 1-7 check ✅ It hurts, a lot, but I must accept the truth and move on.
@darcyclark76643 жыл бұрын
Ladies, Ladies, don’t take this all seriously. Us boys aren’t ignoring you, and we aren’t purposely not picking up on signs, we’re just scared, and sometimes if a dude likes you, he’ll try to ignore the signs because he’s quite certain you don’t like him back, he’s trying to avoid the pain of getting rejected because he thinks he’s misinterpreted your signs when he really hasn’t. Some of us are also just idiots and can’t read the signs (even the really smart ones).
@nazeeyamohammed46283 жыл бұрын
lol were friends for 6 years and Sunday was my birthday... even if he doesn't like me he could have at least remembered my birthday. he forgot :) makes me question if were even friends
@onuhrita50093 жыл бұрын
Hey it's hard for we girls when are trying to show you guys our feelings. I initiate every conversation with my crush, yes he answers but I feel like am the one one pushing. He is a flirt but at when he is walking with me he should try not to check out every girl that passes plus after our walk yesterday, he gave me a handshake.. Like seriously.... I'm so sad and silly that I thought he would ever like me . He brought it up himself that we could date one time in the future and now that I am pushing him isn't listening. I have already deleted our chats and I will start avoiding him. If he ever really liked me he would notice. Guys should just pay more attention
@tubbee89763 жыл бұрын
What if someone is lesbian???
@yashaswinidevi58033 жыл бұрын
@@nazeeyamohammed4628 that hurts😢😢😢
@yashaswinidevi58033 жыл бұрын
@@nazeeyamohammed4628 belated happy birthday !!
@ihshojhuf4 жыл бұрын
when all the 8 signs except obsessed are true and you had been trying for 3 years
@lillyeastwood1174 жыл бұрын
Same but ive been out with him then started crushing on him a year ago.. i did a school thing and we had to date in it and there was already rumours going around.. i also have to sit next to him in class.. and my friend asked him out yesterday for me.. he rejected me.. and then she showed me the screenshot and kept showing him things that i said about his photo because i said "screw him" then he asked if i was desperate.. thenn i asked her to show me what he said and she said she couldnt.. but apparently he was making her laugh x and i started crying because its going to be soooo embarrasing because im friends ish with him and with his friends ish and im screwed basically.. but i have my friends behind me! I hope x
@sandroshubitidze28824 жыл бұрын
Zd xD
@brithneycadena5534 жыл бұрын
4
@chocomilk82264 жыл бұрын
Girl same T^T it’s been five years, FIVE YEARS and I’ve been trynna make it obvious but we don’t have any classes together, like ever.
@falysof69134 жыл бұрын
4 years for me :))
@bananapy72784 жыл бұрын
Me: *having a crush on an anime character Also me: Jared, I'm 19-
@killmenow31814 жыл бұрын
💯
@user-yw3ke5du2n4 жыл бұрын
Where am i?
@stanfordpines90044 жыл бұрын
holy shit waddles is found on the internet
@fistsoffury73904 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@JoeDave-r3p7 ай бұрын
JARED? WHICH ONE? WARRENHEIM? KLEINMAN? ETC?
@Arpit_Sharma_-.-7 ай бұрын
" Don't be afraid to lose what wasn't meant to be."