How Your Brain Picks Your Crush!

Ever wondered why you’re irresistibly drawn to certain people? In this video, we uncover the fascinating science of attraction and reveal how your brain secretly picks your crush! From the chemicals that fuel those butterflies to the subconscious patterns that guide your preferences, this deep dive will leave you amazed at what’s really happening in your mind.
We’ll explore the roles of dopamine, oxytocin, and serotonin, the psychology of familiarity and the “X factor,” and even how evolutionary biology influences your love life. Plus, find out why it’s not just about looks but also personality, emotions, and unique connections.
#love #crush #attraction

[@PolyCodeOfficial]

"You gravitate towards people you are around a lot" I wouldn't say that about that one random girl I saw at the airport for an entire minute and never saw again...

[@lamilanesa99]

I fell for a girl that I saw at a random tiny hotel in the middle of nowhere in a cold mountaine that I'm not joking I think I had seen before at my dentist, i was too nervous to even look from a distance and never saw her again.

[@peachyrosy6253]

I had a crush on someone I was not supposed to. I had it like for 3 months. It ended yesterday when I met his wife, lol.

[@coconut_gurly]

omg 🤭

[@skymed3095]

replace his wife? no?...

[@RonaldRomeo-nt9nk]

@@skymed3095 bruhh

[@olaf-chan-728]

​@@skymed3095 ???? wth

[@JaiShreeRam....487]

Ye love story to kidney touching h😂😂

[@sewagedrink2775]

I'm starting to believe that my brain picks the worst people possible for fun

[@saudinho1436]

Imagine having a crush for your married boss.

[@ideaslimitless]

Brains can be wild like that.

[@rdx_phoenix3821]

​@@saudinho1436 😂

[@derpinheimer2993]

your brain picks whatever helps you avoid insecurity

[@synthesiatutorials3081]

@@derpinheimer2993can you elaborate on this? I’m curious what exactly you mean

[@EM-dl9sf]

I had one crush for a long time and all I learned is no matter what you may feel or how they feel Uncertainty is the worst feeling and yet the most exciting feeling for its potential

[@moshow93]

Had an insane crush for 6 months on a coworker. Love at first sight type of deal that only got worse once I got to know her a little. She liked me too, which made it way worse. She couldn't look me in the eye without her whole face turning red and gave me a quite a few gushing compliments that guys don't usually receive. Her voice was notably higher pitched when she spoke to me too, and was clearly nervous at first. I felt like I was high all the time. My sleep was perfect, my drive at work and in the gym was off the charts. I was physically stronger, hitting PRs almost everyday. I effortlessly dropped all bad habits that I had. I felt superhuman. I became ridiculously confident knowing that someone that I liked so much also liked me. I've never felt such a euphoric high. She was already in a committed relationship, and the mature and delicate way she handled the whole thing made me even more attracted to her. We both decided to avoid each other after a while. Very painful situation.

[@MIDZYwhoisaFEARNOTandSTAYingMY]

and why exactly, have you decided to avoid each other?

[@rdx_phoenix3821]

​@@MIDZYwhoisaFEARNOTandSTAYingMY cuz she taken

[@alya-jn3zl]

​@MIDZYwhoisaFEARNOTandSTAYingMY she was in a committed relationship bro

[@MIDZYwhoisaFEARNOTandSTAYingMY]

@@alya-jn3zl yes, and she handled the whole thing in a mature and delicate way right?

[@cookie12932]

You have great morals. Most guys would just go for it and not care if she was in relationship.

[@MrGreenAKAguci00]

Haven't had a crush for years now. I'm beginning to think that I just won't have another one at this point.

[@ideaslimitless]

Never say never feelings can surprise you.

[@yt-say]

you might be aroace

[@ognjenpavlovic8948]

I've not had a crush since i was 13 and I will not do that again to myself, if you ever find a girl attractive flirt and find out her values if they allign with urs ur good if not keep searching u'll get those fuzzy feelings when u enter the realashionship thats it and if you don't who cares love over feelings

[@HectorHocking]

nothing is worse than having a crush on one of your bandmates, getting to know her, sinking even deeper and deeper, finding out she's a really good person, telling her you USED to love her, going to Mexico for a week MISSING HER BIRTHDAY, coming back and telling her you still love her.

[@Soviet_duck1991]

stay strong

[@Happpylemmy]

Here before Algorithm pushes it

[@GamerAakarsh]

Me too

[@tanjirodluffy4403]

Fax

[@ideaslimitless]

❤️️

[@NeonXene]

Yep 😅

[@Coldcrown]

Lmao

[@cohina8476]

gotta be honest, it always feels like I fall for literally everyone. like, I just can’t resist having a crush on some i barely knew or talked to, always wonder if something’s wrong with me.

[@ideaslimitless]

Nothing’s wrong with you. It just means you’ve got a big heart.

[@MIDZYwhoisaFEARNOTandSTAYingMY]

maybe you lack emotional intimacy? like platonically or in general, rather than romantically

[@cohina8476]

@@ideaslimitless though that’s probably not the case but thanks anyway

[@cohina8476]

@@MIDZYwhoisaFEARNOTandSTAYingMY i have never thought of that, could be. i’m not so sure

[@MIDZYwhoisaFEARNOTandSTAYingMY]

@@cohina8476 hm well either way just know that there is nothing "wrong" with you. Humans are social creatures! If we don't get the attention we need, our brain tries to compensate and seek it from somewhere else. Just natural human tendency.

[@Blazer_1265]

I love this woman and she’s in a relationship. I was going to let her go of course because I’m not her bf but the more we talk the more I’ve realized we share common interests and thoughts and this shocked me. I didn’t know there was someone who had so many similar ideals as me. I’m happy but upset too because she’s had a couple relationships and something tells me this will be her successful and last relationship and it’s not with me. She’s brilliant guys. She’s smart, beautiful, funny, cool, athletic, caring. It sounds all like a normal cliché but yall don’t understand how many boxes she checks. Like usually I like the idea of someone and that’s kind of true with her as well but the difference is after learning more about her, it’s no longer the idea of her that I love, it’s really her. Usually I fall for people and then I see the downsides and either ignore or try to “fix” them but not her. Idk she’s just different. Anyway, if your like someone who you can’t be with, i understand. We’re in it together

[@elsaboardman5280]

anyone else struggle developing a crush 🙋‍♀️

[@ideaslimitless]

Take your time. Feelings can't be rushed.

[@Sacosammarak]

You're lucky 😂😂

[@ska4666]

Yup

[@sunshine7.2]

A small emotional dump about my crush: Yesternight my brain just gave me so many excuses to move on from him because i was (and am) deeply attached to him since more than one year and nothing more is happening, we just got separated and distant ;-; then while sleeping my mind proceeds to show me a dream about him and me walking together, laughing, smiling, holding hands ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh what can i even do now omg like i could write a whole book here about my love, literally i have associated every lovely song i've heard to him i cant stop thinking about him, how he smiles, our future together, i keep dreaming so so so much brooooooooo pls give advice

[@ideaslimitless]

That’s so heartfelt! 🥺 Maybe give yourself time to heal and focus on you-things will get clearer. 💕

[@owendejong9711]

Are you in love with him or your idea of him? There is a difference and its worth exploring

[@marckristerson6185]

It's normal, it will pass eventually. Your subconscious brain resists your attempts to revaluate at first. It's expected, otherwise long-term attachment wouldn't work - that is, if first new winds and counter-arguments could erase everything. It takes time for your 'body' to really get over love, you just have to keep at it. Not idealising the past or being too nostalgic, but being thankful for the good, forgiving for the bad and letting it go. It just sometimes doesn't work out, even if the feelings are right. And it takes time for your body and mind to process all of that. But for certain, you can one day love again, as if it were for the first time. Good luck.

[@synthesiatutorials3081]

You just ‘know the person do you ACTUALLY know this person?

[@sunshine7.2]

@@ideaslimitless Okay thanks

[@WielkiSzef]

It's hard to find a balance When you are in love You're lost in the middle 'Cause you have to decide Between mind and heart Heart is the engine of your body But brain is the engine of your life

[@WielkiSzef]

Enigma - Between Mind & Heart

[@sunshine7.2]

oh my god i have the exact same situation

[@mennagad7340]

Im surprised this is not viral! Loved the video and the explanation, the animation as well. Very good!😍

[@ideaslimitless]

Thank you so much! Glad you loved it!❤️️

[@monikamoon14]

My crushes have rarely been healthy and or mutual. I hate what my brain chooses and who it chooses. Most of the time you won't get the crush 💘, just crushed 😑

[@fatoumatadiallo8260]

I had a crush on two people at once. I dont even know why i like them. i just cannot stop looking at them. My first crush, i have liked him for 4 damn years. I just wnat to keep on looking at him. i camnot expalin it.

[@akshaysharma1145]

You attracted towards whom is like your parents... It's actually true.

[@mack3009]

i never felt lust to a woman who i was atracted tho

[@ideaslimitless]

Totally valid, everyone’s different.

[@slipy955]

​@@ideaslimitless did you just heart your own comment

[@HariChera]

Self love ​@@slipy955

[@mack3009]

@@slipy955 he loves himself and tjats beatfull🥰🥰🤩🥵🥵🥵

[@KunwarArnavRaj]

Thanks for explaining ! I was curious about this topic.

[@ideaslimitless]

Glad it helped! Thanks for watching! ❤️️

[@cookie12932]

Just start a conversation with the person. Ask them out on a date. It's better than wasting time thinking about them for weeks or even months. You have nothing to lose.

[@hobbesthegoblin]

We inaugurate the evening... Just drumming up a little weirdness It gets late so early now The waves come in in mountain phases I see fire where it's not supposed to be. I first saw her in a mega-store, a dayglow raven born into a freefall. The fulfillment of a tenth-grade prophecy, a motel masterpiece. Blind to the branching possibilities, teardrops were standing in my eyes I adored the way she modified my mornings/moorings. When I'd wake up in the calm shoals of her bed Somersaults are smoke in a universe of sleep / before she slipped back into her heritage and disappeared And she taught me to relight Relight RELIGHT again

[@ultimobile]

as a maybe 13yo boy I lusted for many weeks after a girl I only saw from a distance - visiting my neighbour over the road - I would hang around our front window for hours hoping a chance she would come by again. Finally one day she lingered talking to the girl over the road - I rushed over to say hello, my crush turned and said hello to me in such a raspy voice that I as a musician turned on my heel and walked away - the scales had fallen from my eyes !

[@nooben-g4t]

And how to remove it?

[@lordbeetrot]

Im asking the same question

[@Hasio-Maszkietnik]

Time, lots of sleep and avoidint contact with that person helps

[@FruitShake]

Pretty much only going no-contact works.

[@SparklyPsychic]

Wait until they do something that gives you the "ick" 😂

[@StephanieMoran-hq4dz]

My God warns me who to keep away from that's all I know!!

[@LakshyakaPathak]

And how to get rid of this crush that has been going on for 3 years now??

[@Schrödinger-o8u]

Just ask them out... The only way out.

[@LakshyakaPathak]

@Schrödinger-o8u I would but ummm I am in school and would rather not be in a relationship Hence why I would like to move on 🙃

[@ideaslimitless]

Focus on yourself and new experiences-it takes time, but it works. 💪

[@justaguywithhisgrasseson5522]

Distance yourself from them, find new hobbies

[@owendejong9711]

@LakshyakaPathak You are in school now and so won't date. Later you will be busy with work, would that situation be any different? You can ask yourself honestly if you are not avoiding intimacy by rationalizing your actions. 3 years is a long time to crush on someone

[@Kingsssssssccc]

Make video on how to forget one sided love

[@THECHEESYGRIN04]

Love can only happen after you soend time with someone and get to know them...otherwise its only infatuation

[@Joe-Phoenixxx]

Good video

[@aRAf7382]

As someone who is Aroace, i see this video as an absolute loss

[@MungsKashung]

I think I don't have enough dopamine and oxytocin to fall in love

[@lamilanesa99]

watching this after realising im developing a heavy crush on a friend that just started talking with another guy and lives 600kms away from me (I have no money and no car) 🙋‍♂🤦‍♂ I geniuenly can't find any women like her

[@ideaslimitless]

That’s tough, man. Hang in there it’ll get clearer with time.

[@breh4219]

maybe it's true that you won't be able to find a person like her, but in the future you may meet a person who is completely different and yet wonderful in his own way. This is the beauty, that we are all different and in our diversity we are unique, don't regret what happened but be happy to have found someone worth knowing, one of the many people you will meet on your journey

[@Curiosity403]

I have been wasting my important hours on these things 😢😢.... I want that person but I am just crushing my dreams, my carrier and my sleep

[@LiorSultanov]

My crush is extremely logical but it is one sided

[@karimeilleur5088]

The whole dating genre is the best for views lmao

[@lola75765]

What does it mean when I haven't had a real life crush for a really long time 😅 I just have this imaginary crush though😊

[@gbowman9429]

Your olfactory starts it, not the brain.

[@sunshine7.2]

we smell our crushes?

[@gbowman9429]

@@sunshine7.2 yep!

[@tanjiro_nobu3012]

Tf , oh yea good old non criminal days

[@Haema88776]

Leave a like for the algorithm, leave a comment for the algorithm and subscribe the channel for the algorithm! But by the way, this channel is very nice! Merry Christmas to you all!

[@ideaslimitless]

Thank you so much! Merry Christmas! 🎄🎅

[@realwetter_yt]

so, i already knew this but thanks for verifying, hahaha did you know you can stimulate your brain be in love the person you want: when you get the gemicals like dopamine on moments of reward and think of the person you wanna be in love with you can manipalute your own mind to be in love with that person (its part of selfmanipulation) and mastering selfmanipulation makes you unlock some ambilitys that are too powerfull, and with it you can doom yourseld or be greatest version of yourself

[@dereklynch8917]

Lot of words just to say 'I'unno, chemicals or something, kind of'.

[@samicakuri5296]

what to do when your crush isn’t real😔

[@Ezra-vp3qs]

My best friend 😊

[@tatacraft791]

Guys come on she listens to frank ocean and Tyler the creator

[@JulioOcampo-s1c]

This proofs love is a drug

[@ideaslimitless]

Exactly! Love hits like the strongest one.

[@iBullyAutisticKids]

worst withdrawals ever I don't recommend i should have just stuck with my speed addiction

[@seanpule266]

I can't see this right now.

[@GamerAakarsh]

Why is this not so views?

[@cringe805]

this are crazy no lie gonna

[@prussia77]

<a href="#" class="seekto" data-time="89">01:29</a> i don't like woman with confidence

[@bobtomia]

Bro thinks my brain picks my crushes. You're thinking with the wrong head. 😂

[@piratedwell4608]

Mathematics

[@mtlicq]

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