8 Skills Sets Every Man Must Master

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There are a lot of definitions and descriptions of what it means to be a man. With so many descriptions, it's hard to know what it really means and what it really takes to be a man in today's society.
I've narrowed it down to 8 skill sets every man must master:
Relationships-Building powerful relationships with friends, family, and co-workers is necessary if you want to achieve any level of success.
Intellect-We, as men, cannot use ignorance as an excuse to live a mediocre life. We must continually gain knowledge to get ahead.
Leadership-At some point, you will be called upon as a leader in your business, family, or community. Your ability to influence and lead others will spell the difference between success and failure.
Manly Skills-A manly-man is a man that knows his way around the tools. But developing manly skills is so much more important than that. You need to become resourceful in all areas of life.
Money & Finance-Do you know how to handle your money? If not, becoming a man means that you are a good steward over the resources that you have. Learning to master your money, will ensure that you have more of it.
Physical Fitness-Losing weight, becoming stronger, eating healthy: these are all things that a real man is developing. Not only will you look better, but you'll perform better too in all areas of your life.
Self-Mastery-The man who can best control his mind, wins! Are you aware of the information that is going into your mind? Discipline, courage, commitment, and other virtues all start in the mind and it's your job to control it.
Style & Fashion-As a contractor would use a hammer to build a house, you can use style and fashion as a tool to help you accomplish what you want. Always strive to look your best. If you look good, you play good.
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[@gabrielcabello9227]

"There is nothing noble in being superior to your fellow man; true nobility is being superior to your former self." - Ernest Hemingway

[@danpmatz]

Gabriel Cabello If only Hemingway lived by anything he said...

[@thomasharrison6701]

Gabriel Cabello Truth IS Truth

[@shawnmadruga1824]

Gabriel Cabello it's funny how much negativity you can get on KZbin. No man on the Earth is perfect or infallible. Everybody struggles with their own humanity from time to time. Ernest Hemingway struggled with alcoholism and depression, basically his own imperfections. Everybody can be hypocritical at times. To think that you're not hypocritical is arrogant. This is in reply to the other comments.

[@benr.2066]

Just shows that people love the opposite of humility: pride. And pride will lead to destruction sadly.

[@mdamiruddin896]

Harry hart from kingsman

[@kiwilinn4212]

My dad didn't teach me much... So I had to learn about life the hard way. Worked for me.

[@vinoths1613]

always works doesn't it

[@stealthfur1375]

Lmao sadly it does.the truth is stranger than fiction.

[@TheLegend-gj6bw]

Same for me. But it didn't work for me. How'd it work for you?

[@billyandrew]

That isn't the _hard_ way. That's just the difficult way. Try the absence of a father figure or one that beats you up on a daily basis. Smh & Lol.

[@billyandrew]

That isn't the _hard_ way. That's just the difficult way. Try the absence of a father figure or one that beats you up on a daily basis. Smh & Lol.

[@mildmanneredmercifulmouse1839]

Be honest. Be impeccable with your word. Don't take anything personaly. Don't make assumptions. Always do your best.

[@Weirddog806]

MildManneredMercifulMouse Do you know what happens when you assume?

[@OhMyMoki]

You Me my gebder

[@Wo1fLarsen]

Four Agreements

[@garyellis6406]

Nice way to work the Four agreements, have to add the Fifth: Trust but Verify. Give credit where credit is due.

[@brianmyers9989]

Nice. 3 is difficult sometimes.

[@Kevlar_soul]

I would add being a teacher. One of the most important jobs a man has is teaching the next generation of men how to act. Teach with words and by example.

[@yourmom1302]

Example is certainly necessary and consistently effective. Not enough people lead by example anymore and that's why younger men have more and more problems lately. I'm a younger man myself and frankly i'm disgusted and disappointed by most of the people in my own generation. But I'm trying to help the people I care about to become bigger than they currently are. I just need to remember my humility.

[@Tinyteacher1111]

AMEN! My son doesn’t know how to go ANYTHING! Neither does his father. He takes care of him, my son doesn’t work, has mental problems and addictions, is 34, and my ex doesn’t even make him clean nor cook while he’s at work, let alone do any jobs around the house. Oh, now I’m furious!

[@loveroftruth8018]

Amen

[@nick624179]

Can fall under leadership

[@mohammedragab231]

Preach

[@theolynwarrender]

I would disagree with fashion ... but completely agree with style. Fashion comes and goes. Style is strong, confident and timeless.

[@ianmcfee6038]

The first time my father ever looked at me with awe was the day I took a bicycle brake cable and repaired the throttle cable on his department's pump truck on a holiday weekend...when he retired, the same cable was on that truck...he told that story time and again...

[@314jph]

"Do what you can, with what you have, where you are. "Theodore Roosevelt Again, this is advice for everyone.

[@jaymuzquiz2942]

1: jump start a car 2: change a tire 3: change oil 4: fire up a lawn mower 5: sharpen a knife 6: BBQ 7. Treat a Lady 8. Be a father 9. Raise a family 10. Defend your family 11. Going outside at night to check what that noise she heard is. Not in order of importance

[@federicogonzalez4051]

***11. A real men is never gets lost and never ask for direction. 12.Have beer in your garage fridge. 13.A real men don't go to youtube to learn about being a real men.***

[@jaymuzquiz2942]

@@federicogonzalez4051 Right! It should be internally in you. If you don't know how to act what is instinctively as nature ordained, then you got bigger problems that extends beyond any KZbin video's.

[@jaymuzquiz2942]

@@federicogonzalez4051 I forgot number one, defend your country against all enemies both foreign and domesti .

[@UserName-ii1ce]

@@federicogonzalez4051 its better than learning from Twitter

[@jonbaker476]

Idk man, jump starting a car seems like it would be #1

[@hmmm3232]

Be a man: raise a family take care of others. Help the helpless. My grandfather once said everything in the house works because I know how to work on everything thing in the house.

[@kayaeki]

Gramps is awesome

[@theSword-]

You can be a man without raising a family.

[@hozzydaemon2021]

1: master your mind. 2: master your emotions. 3: master your behaviors 4: take personal responsibility good or bad. 5: be a man of honor 6: respect self and have healthy well established boundaries. 7: be an honest communicater 8: respect others and their boundaries. 9: be confident in relationships, business, public and private. 10: believe in yourself. A woman should be all these things as well. - from a Generation X woman.

[@Unkown242]

Yea Woman Should Be This Too, But I Think This Channel Focuses Specifically On Men. But Surprisingly I Haven't Seen Any Channels That Specifically Focus On Woman. But I Have Seen Channels Trying To Stop Men From Being Men

[@Unkown242]

He Also Mentioned To Learn Manly Skills. I Have Seen Recently That Many Woman Don't Know Many Womanly Skills, That Would Help Them Take Care Of Their Family. Like Cooking For Their Family And Stuff. I knew some people who would only eat fastfood because their mom didn't know how to cook.

[@davidhoffman6980]

"A woman should be all these things as well" except for number 5. Seriously though, I agree.

[@Unkown242]

@Sissi Sweet Natural Born Dancer | nor are man servant. My friend, in my book if a woman is not working, then she should take care of the house stuff. And if a woman is working class then the responsibility of house chores and work comes on both men and woman

[@6341haha]

@@Unkown242 you really think this channel focuses on men? Wow

[@5shotgroup451]

1 relationship 2 intellect 3 leadership 4 manliness (tire changing, knife sharpening, ect) 5 money handling 6 physical fitness 7 self-mastery

[@NTLFarm]

Is number 8 learning to count?

[@vinoths1613]

number 8 for him would be short term memory power

[@BANC697]

8 style and fashion

[@lifeisneverthesame910]

It's just a common sense.

[@BroBdoubleE]

I think he failed at number 2...

[@paulhampton6408]

1) Be a warrior ! 2) Learn all skills to survive and keep balance !. 3) Find what makes you truly happy and act on it ! 4) Don't deny your self good things !. 5) Don't / Do Not"" be afraid to lead the way !. 6) Never stop learning !. 7) Dress for what your suited for !" wear what makes best of the occasion !. 8) Always be prepared for financial crisis ! Even as a poor class with struggles !. That's all i know !. Good luck in life !.

[@simoncenteno2755]

Had to Show Love that for that #1) BE A WARRIOR!

[@jessejess9456]

THIS is a better list, his is for a classroom setting or to get a good grade on a paper

[@liltalent2381]

I ain’t boutta listen to a nigga with anime in his pfp

[@innovateordisintegratecomi2454]

A old man once told me being a man is a person that takes care of his business.

[@bjornchh]

I just loved how not one of the skills directly involved women. That in itself makes it worth listen to.

[@PickleBread355]

🌈

[@trinitig1115]

Aww do u hate women cuz ur little mommie ember loves you🥺 date men if u hate them sm😁

[@mohamedkoudia7356]

S..

[@GodKingChris]

Right on brother. Skol.

[@lexzander6652]

That's right, too many men are defined by what women want and how to best please them instead of becoming a better human being.

[@nmelkhunter1]

I believe number two is the most important. My paternal Grandfather went to work on a ranch as a wrangler in his early teens to help support his family and never finished high school. He made up for it two ways. First he made up for his lack of formal education by reading and writing every day as well as learning math from one of his sisters. Secondly, he learned all he could about horses and cows and became a successful rancher who started from scratch. He was well respected in the community because he was level headed and took time to think through a problem before acting. I believe we should all improve ourselves no matter where we start.

[@rodolfobevilacqua6862]

I’m 53 and listening that reinforces what my father taught me. Thanks

[@xiledpatriot5030]

I still apply what my father taught me, "when you're stupid you gotta be tough ".

[@luvmychevy1951]

Great video! I'm proud to say after years of hard work I've achieved alot of these! I'm a fighter pilot, I rebuilt a 51 Chevy pickup, my wife and I will be debt free in a year, and I quit porn about 4 years ago. Always improving but It's nice every once in awhile to look back at where I've been. Great advice all around.

[@goodmanwiseman303]

Great job. 2.5 years porn free for me. Porn is the worst.

[@alejandroespinosa4444]

Your conduct is above reproach. No profanity. Straight forward with courage and enthusiasm. Great men with survival skills (former navy seals), wealth (professional athletes) lack what you have. The guts and wisdom of a role model for future generations of boys who will soon join the ranks of manhood. Thank you.

[@gloryjoker4206]

I touch every point a bit but I call myself as a normal young man .....I am still learning and I am thankful for this mind-opening Video Thanks Mate💪🏻 Our society needs more man like you 💪🏻✌🏻

[@ericblue4231]

You should do one video for pitfalls Men should avoid.

[@Orderofman]

Good idea!

[@frankyalvarez7160]

Women 🤣

[@stevejobs8820]

I made one off i10 in Las Cruces NM. It's in the land behind the Best Western. I put some leaves on top kinda regret it now. Please be careful if you are around there

[@4wdsome444]

Franky Alvarez i was about to say marriage

[@noahmccormick525]

Zero Point not to downplay those skills but thats not the whole picture, that's not real life, thats your post apocalyptic fantasy. In real life people work together most of the time. Think of what it takes to lead other men right

[@JumpRopeVeteran]

Outstanding video. I'm happy that I found this channel.

[@krismangray]

I practically never make comments but you deserve one. This was well thought through and so wise. Thank you sir.

[@Kevlar_soul]

The ability to be brave. If I think about the things I regret in my life. the only two things that come up when I was a coward. Didn’t ask that girl out, didn’t step in the help kid getting bullied. I have had a chance to redeem myself on both counts but I’ll never forget.

[@Radioactive_Treehouse]

i cant believe how good this channel is

[@fezzywig8867]

Save you 10 minutes: Relationships (with friends, family, god, etc) Intellect (education, reasoning and logic, academics, humbling and abolishing of self-bias) Leadership Manly Skills (tools, sports, crafting, practical and resourceful stuff) Money and Financing Skills Physical Fitness Self Mastery (mental discipline) Style and Fashion

[@anselm9170]

Fezzy Wig capitalize the G in God tho

[@tonydataiga]

9. not being too lazy to watch a 10 minute video

[@josealvarado8842]

seen this video a couple times and I like how you not only give examples but share some your experiences as well. thank you so much.

[@toplobster740]

Before watching this I had been getting way behind on my checkbook and was becoming more and more afraid of facing the problem and grinding through it. I am now getting it done.

[@Skd92g]

You are getting these from hundreds of people by now, I know.. And from all the people you should get it by now.. These videos are great. I am quite enjoying your videos, and I do notice that you put alot of work and thought into them. Keep this up and I sure you, that you'll achieve much. Take care, you've earned yourself a new subscriber! *Blows confetti*

[@Orderofman]

+John Diaz Thanks, I really appreciate your words of encouragement and support!

[@JohnCorcoran]

you're doing a great job with this channel. I definitely agree relationships should be #1.

[@Orderofman]

Thanks John Corcoran. That means a ton coming from you! I've learned a lot about networking and relationships from you and The Smart Business Revolution!

[@victorlee8451]

I can't now agree with you more, my life has changed so much after consistently working out more and it feels like all the other aspects you mentioned improved too!

[@acknelspence7587]

I just subscribed to your channel.. I'm 27 years old and though I have some of these down.. there are others that I really need to work on. So I will be watching this video often and doing my best to incorporate these into my life.

[@andresmontalvocarrion]

I just got here, thanks for the video. I think the most important thing that makes us man was left out: Purpose. That for me is number one, the rest should adapt around it. Cheers from Ecuador

[@shukeelc5177]

Well said. From a Muslim in the UK, I think these are some of the universal rules for all men.

[@LiftOffLife]

Whats Islam got to do with being a man?

[@SuperDeadRooster]

@@LiftOffLife I think being a man can have slightly different meanings in different cultures. But his comment is an affirmation that this video is universally well-defined.

[@Unkown242]

@@SuperDeadRooster | I Think Islam Teaches

[@reverseimagesearch0results363]

How does it feel, knowing that you outnumber the actual english in their own home?

[@Karen-zc8pi]

Reverse image search; 0 results found What is that for question.

[@BroBdoubleE]

I think self mastery and style covers keeping a good clean home and taking care of your belongings and self But I think this is the most helpful thing I have ever watched on KZbin. Thank you.

[@lianglonghuang9424]

Fantastic Video! Thank you for all the great insight mate.

[@marcuswarren4390]

compassion, honesty and bravery also...

[@renze7133]

Marcus Warren They are all attributes that create a great man, but this video more so discusses the skill sets and not the traits. What you said is still very true.

[@chrisanthem6024]

I would say that compassion and honesty fall into the relationships skill set and bravery in the physically fit skill set.

[@Jart988]

Marcus Warren those go with self-mastery

[@gayanthaekanayake8068]

Jart988 yes, and i think he shud have put that as no. 1. although all seem interconnected.

[@GamePlaysQ8]

it was very helpful and yeah i think im going to work and develop these skills, thank you! wish you more success in your channel

[@Orderofman]

Thanks +GamePlaysQ8! Let me know how it all goes as you work on these skills!

[@_TEMP-jm9zy]

Very good channel and content! Thank you very much! Keep doing it!

[@randolino4051]

keep doing your thing boss, you’re truly helping a lot of people

[@Lucas-nu4du]

I'm taking note from your videos. I want to get fit to help my 50 y/o father with the manly skills he taught me. Also, leadership is a hard thing to learn, especially when you rise as a leader between a bunch of passive people that are just waiting to take advantage of those who are stronger enough to take the first step. Latinos here want to learn to be a real man, in order to survive in our ever-poor shithole countries. Greetings from Argentina!

[@lesallison]

Cool! Add Self Respect. Hold yourself to a higher standard in everything you do. Others will do the same.

[@Concatenate]

Falls within #7, Self Mastery. Adopting a philosophy that helps one to pursue excellence in all things. The Stoics called it Arete.

[@richardkremer8313]

Most will stand around an watch you. If you ask why their not working they give you your doing it for us.

[@renze7133]

This is the first video I’ve seen of yours and I want to say: great job on this video man! It’s sharp, to the point and I think the points you’ve talked about definitely are important for being a man. I especially liked the recap on the end. Great video, I am going to subscribe.

[@johnroarty9362]

Great advice Ryan. Thanks for creating this platform. Peace and success to you.

[@malaquiasalfaro81]

Excellent video. I'm glad you touched on things like physical fitness and the ever so crucial style and appearance.

[@Orderofman]

Thanks *****! Any other topics you'd like me to cover?

[@malaquiasalfaro81]

Order of Man teenagers becoming men. Art of Manliness is great but is somewhat lacking in that area. That can be used to your advantage

[@davidarbelaez4395]

We live in an era where women are becoming more masculine and men more feminine. Polarity is a wonderful thing. I love being in a presence of a feminine woman. It doesn't mean that she can't change her own tire but if two people take on the masculine role in a relationship, one of them is not needed.

[@Orderofman]

+David Arbelaez I agree!

[@Angrybogan]

Brian: I'd say that we as men need to understand violence, and your post comes close to it. "....men admit when they are wrong and apologise if they do" - This implies we know Right and Wrong as concrete, objective ideas. I personally get those from Scripture as a Christian. When it comes to the use of force and therefore violence, this must be our guide. Let me know what you think.

[@prayunceasingly2029]

Richard P I agree violence might be required to protect one's family in certain occasions but only as a last resort. Men need not be afraid of violence though and this effeminate generation seems to teach men to fear the wild untamed side of masculinity. But i do think that side must be guided by moral values and virtues. But i do this this side of masculinity is caged now more than ever before in history.

[@MrCuervo22779]

Order of Man I just ordered your book today, but it's out of stock. When will Amazon have more copies?

[@draydenfinch4256]

Gender roles were for the 1950s, though yes a stable relationship will most likely be one the leader and provider and one the caregiver or the follower, gender roles don't have any effect on a bad era

[@mindmasterart]

Great video..this definitely embodies all the goals I have been working on in the past 2 - 3 years..and like you said by working towards mastery of these ideals my life has improved 10 fold..keep doing this good work..✌

[@odomi121]

agreed! just want to add: dressing well is being respectful to others with their attention. It means you care enough to make them feel good or at ease or to earn their trust.

[@mrgruffy4499]

1. Relationship with the Universe, Creation, The Supreme Being (which ever term you prefer) is the only one that counts, unless one was foolish enough to bring children into this world 2. Intellect. Learn as much as you can about as many things as you can. 3. Leadership if you are lucky enough to have intelligent people around you. 4. Manly Skills. Gardening, carpentry, plumbing, house wiring, home repairs, auto maintenance, problem-solving. Do as much as you can without needing to hire contractors and handy-men. 5. Money. Income should be greater than expenditures. If you can't pay cash for something, you can't afford it. Pay off debts as soon as possible. Learn to do without. No debit cards. Use credit cards sparingly, and only for major purchases of what you NEED, not what you want, avoid the quick cash loan sharks. 6. Physical Fitness. I neglected this for the past 60 years. I've now decided to build as much muscle as possible, though difficult as it is. I lost 30 lbs in the past year. Physical strength increases brain power 7. Self-Mastery. You become the product of your thoughts. You create your own reality. 8. Style & Fashion. I'm retired. So, I set my own fashion standards.

[@alwynmaguire8037]

Torally and utterly agree with you. The one mistake men do is let their ego over ride their logic of thought. I see it time and time again. Sometimes toxic friends can be a major bad influence. Strike them out of your life for they'll drag you down if you let them. Great advice though.

[@k.brooks3241]

Thanks for making this video...Great job!

[@Orderofman]

+1of1KB x You bet!

[@reclaimconquer-timetofindy2051]

Love the video! Thanks for always providing great help

[@darriangario3447]

That video was dope 💯

[@joepanarese6]

Great list and I'm happy to say I meet most and I am actively working on meeting the others. I would add that this list should be skills very person should know. Nothing here is really specific to men; women should also strive to meet all 8 of these.

[@ZMZ1000]

This is an awesome video that I think every man should see and ponder upon. It can be used as a guide for growth in those key areas. Thank you and great job with the list!👍🏾

[@mattandrews6735]

thanks for your great vids...keep them coming, you are helping so many people:)

[@kratoscraken5614]

Love this video and your work i would like to come to a live seminar one day. Dont give up everyone needs this 🇺🇸👍💪

[@timlee8135]

I have all except style . I will work on it.

[@RawFootTeam]

It seems growing a beard should be one from all these channels I’ve come across so far

[@javierdoblado3727]

I am a youth and i think i got most of them. The ones I don’t have I’m working to get em.Thanks for the motivation!

[@nino2real817]

I’m 16 years old & I totally agree with what your saying, sometimes I think I’m growing up to fast I had a fast childhood but at the same time I feel like I’m doing the right thing by trying to better myself as a man at this age

[@Ernesto-Pesto]

This perfectly sums up the 8 skills every woman should master. Thank you for collecting these!

[@steveindorset]

What an awesome video, boys are not taught this anymore, we need to start teaching our sons these skills. Excellent!

[@zeusjanseng.lujares7428]

Nice 👍🏼 thanks for having the list on the description.

[@connorfuriato655]

I am a Eagle Scout and through scouting it's showed me how to do all of those things. I agree with everything but I would also have to add standing for your beliefs even if you're the only one because a many who doesn't stand up for what he believes in will fall for anything

[@benhof2140]

This is a man of God. Don’t know him. But I can just tell he is.

[@mx500a4]

Being a man of "God" really doesnt mean much.

[@ridingwithjon3048]

@@mx500a4 you believe in a small god.

[@casperjack7452]

"Man of God" usually doesn't mean much these days. One thinks of sexual degenerates on the one hand and the New Testament's commands to "turn the other cheek" and to be "gentle" (such commands have the capacity to turn a man into an effeminate little lamb). But just this phrase - "Man of God" - Wow. That really SHOULD mean something. I think of a kind of stoic resolve (perhaps the stoic resolve of a Stoic?) to become courageous, virtuous, to strive to love truth and to fight for the Good above all else, and a dozen other things could be named.

[@benhof2140]

Casper Jack Yeah go ahead! Keep mocking the word of God. Keep flushing the parachute down the toilet that has the capacity to save your life, while your plane slowly looses altitude above an endless sea.

[@JM-db8ez]

If your faith works for you then that's great, but don't belittle others for not believing in the same things you do. There are many gods, many religions, many life philosophies that don't require a "god" for guidance. At the end of the day they all say the same thing. Don't be a dick. It's a simple thing, to just be respectful in life. Doesn't take some supernatural entity or religious coda. Just, as each decision point occurs, think about it and choose the option that's neither destructive or harmful to yourself or others. Be respectful of others and of your own self. Everything flows outward from that. It's not effeminate, it's not being a "lamb". It's simply not being a dick.

[@yaelrar.4460]

Unfortunately most men today have no idea they need this!🤦‍♂️

[@jest3167]

lets not get started on females being ladies then aye

[@loveroftruth8018]

Man if this ain't facts

[@josecuevas8239]

Great video! Powerful tips and right to the point. Thank you sir

[@isaiahharris4610]

I appreciate this and it is exactly what I needed to hear, thank you.

[@edwhite1646]

Sir I watched this video with great interest and found it very informative. I would add one other skill set to your group. That is that every man should know and understand and practice military tactics. This could be added in to the physical fitness regimen for a dual accomplishment. I spent 7 years in the military as a field soldier... A grunt. And the tactical and strategic thinking lessons I learned have stayed with me all my life and I use them every day. Specifically I am speaking of skills that include reading the geography for potential threats; watching how an opponent moves, as this tells me how they are thinking in conflict situations; leadership that begins with the concept of leading from the front and taking care of your people first; another thing I learned in combat is how to Marshall and conserve your strength over time. Long battles take lots of energy and you don't want to run out before the battle is over. This has a lot of direct application to relationships, especially those that might be difficult and long lasting; and then there is the development of a "step back look" which is being able to be aware of what is going on immediately in front of you and to also to be able to sense the greater picture so as not to be surprised by a flanking movement so to speak. Also I would add that every man should work on developing flexibility in our responses. This entails getting out of the habit of responding to situations in pre-determined ways. We need to be flexible in thoughts, words and actions. We need to divest ourselves of that ego state that demands that we win at all costs and develop one that is less self-centric and is more nurturing and open. Being a man is easy. Being a good man is hard and dangerous and it is entirely worth the effort. I feel that masculinity is under attack and our boys, adolescents and young men are being crippled by a system designed to reduce us as people, as human beings and that a great campaign (a semi successful one) to make us more feminine in our thoughts, words and actions is being waged against us. And while there is nothing wrong with the feminine, indeed, as good men we should always respect and honor the feminine, we must also know it for what it is and how it works. And we must stay out of the trap of feminine logic that argues that we should strive to be safe and comfortable. As men we are the sheep dogs who protect our families, communities and states from the wolves out there. We cannot give up the protector role for the couch and a video game. We have to stay fit, mentally, physically, emotionally and spiritually and as we age, we need to take an active role in passing these traits and qualities on to the men who are coming up behind us. Thus it has been for humans from the dawn if time and, I believe, thus it should proceed into the misty future. Men are the line between the success and failure of our societies. Thank you.

[@ericperalta739]

Read word for word and I must say this is very well said, I entirely agree

[@binns5302]

I wish more countries had some form of mandatory service.

[@Turco949]

I'd pick courage/confidence and dignity over #8 Style and Fashion any day of the week.

[@harout0137]

Or add it as a #9 because style and fashion is pretty important as well.

[@brendaeledelaluna3338]

Turco949 rn

[@sahil47]

How is courage a skill set?

[@nickycocaine]

sahil jain How is fashion a skill? It's completely subjective.

[@stephengalindo6340]

Courage does need to be practiced. It comes from consistently putting yourself into situations where you must rise to the occasion

[@le0mendez]

Very good video. Useful for me and to teach my kids. THank you!

[@herz4217]

What a great video - I had to pause mid-vid and get my dad's old tools from the basement and then he and I fixed the doorhandle to my door that's been loose for like 2 years, in just 20 minutes! (I also agree heavily on working out leading to improvements all over life.)

[@silascochran9705]

You're right 100% bro I got to cut out the smut

[@ArtursBogdanovs]

By taking a lead, I fail every time

[@bryantwhitsett71]

Amazing tips, practical and realistic thanks you!!

[@LovingIdaho]

As I was taught growing up and still believe is what kind of man you are is shown by how you treat others . If treat others bad , you are not much of a man .

[@vicbigmagic]

Well, i think those are things any human being needs to "master" not only man, i'll be proud if my girl has all this virtues.

[@Orderofman]

Yep.

[@prayunceasingly2029]

If men and women are different then they have different ways to develop success and improve their lives... I am convinced that there are many similarities but also many differences between men and women.

[@ameliyajayawarna3094]

Yes indeed.

[@georgejackemeyer7835]

Tomas Grande that's twisted you actually hope your daughter will be manly? Like in say bull dike?

[@architecture.w]

Feminism has been drilled into the heads of young men.

[@augreich]

I need a little work on the relationship thing....but I've got the intellect

[@medhashreetak1306]

soo true..i agreed with all your points ..thanks for such an useful video sir .

[@ericblue4231]

Thanks, man. Looking forward to seeing it.

[@great9800]

Great advice.

[@Orderofman]

+SAMUEL JOHNSON thanks man!

[@gardenvarietypenis]

Cut to the chase, carrot top, I've got scotch to drink, fields to plow and beaver in the bedroom...LET"S GO!

[@Orderofman]

Why are you hanging out on KZbin if you got booze and a woman waiting for you. Something tells me you've the alcohol but no lady in sight my man.

[@gardenvarietypenis]

Order of Man something tells me sarcasm and most everything else eludes you...my man.

[@NoteyouraveRage]

You got BURNED!

[@davyrichards1654]

I’d get rid of the beaver mate they reek havoc on the future!!

[@KeeperPlus]

Sounds like you dont need to watch the video lol

[@Nerd_Quizes]

Thank you! I enjoyed the video, found it very enjoyable and informative

[@kevinbowers2832]

Great job on the list. Completely spot on. I just found your channel yesterday through Real Men Real Style and I love it. I'm having a great time watching your current videos and I look forward to many more in the future. Thanks for all you do.

[@Orderofman]

+Kevin Bowers You bet!

[@aidanhamilton308]

Porn is not garbage

[@mainman127]

Everyone’s definition of “ success” can be different

[@W2Capitalist]

Looking good Mr. Michler! Awesome episode brother!

[@samuelmudende312]

Thank you Ryan. I didn't grow up seeing a father figure in my life. But your information has been very helpful. Thanks alot man. Cheers

[@broderickcamel1701]

Great list!

[@Orderofman]

+Broderick Camel Thanks!

[@Masteroogway40]

You have an epic beard my friend.

[@dandimit5104]

The Tools and Handyman stuff is what got me. I realized I know more about housekeeping and home making than I know about changing oil in a car... Interesting.

[@chrisanthem6024]

Thank you for all of your efforts, I believe this is a video every man needs to watch!

[@ismylife9365]

Very good... But you missed important point " honesty"

[@Concatenate]

Kind of falls within #7. Self mastery is adopting a philosophy that strives toward greatness, be virtuous, learning how to control your thoughts, thinking before acting, etc. In fact, I would argue this is the most important of all the points in the video.

[@hotice8885]

I think he remembered: Powerful Relationships cannot happen outside honesty.

[@jonathanquiles82]

I agree with this video except for the first rule that you deem makes you a man. It truly makes me look at you skeptically! Every time I've ever had a man explain to me that no man ever got anywhere without having a team it's usually that guy that exploits his team rather than help build them up like they built him up.

[@darriangario3447]

The objective tone you hold in stating what you believe to be concrete fact is a feat of speech and communication.👍

[@SRJSmAan]

thanks for this ..it is such a great video i have ever watched.. thanks..

[@andrewrentuaya9510]

First step on becoming a man: "admit that you're still not a man"

[@westonprice6272]

God bless you

[@JK-vc7ie]

That’s absurd

[@HiThere-sc2jr]

1st) To LOVE THE LORD WITH ALL YOUR HEART, SOUL, MIND & STRENGTH. THAT IS THE MEASURE OF A MAN

[@benjarec5039]

Nah

[@HiThere-sc2jr]

@ If a Christian person is really living their life for JESUS, then JESUS IS THE MOST IMPORTANT person in their life. They should live their life in a way that is PLEASING TO JESUS. They should striving to project "Good Fruit." ( See fruits of the spirit. Galatians Chapter 5).

[@Weswinsorlaw]

Great Job Ryan. I met someone the other day who said that they had no ambition in life. I thought he was kidding, but he wasn't. I think all of the traits listed are well articulated and important. I miss the days when "being a man" was associated with mental fortitude, high pain tolerance, doing hard things without appreciation, taking care of their family, keeping their word, and respecting women along with everything else you have mentioned. There is nothing wrong with a little pride in one's gender, frankly I would like to see a lot more of it. Carry on, I think I am going to go watch a John Wayne movie tonight just thinking about all this manliness.

[@Orderofman]

+Wes Winsor Law PLLC: Wes Winsor thanks a ton! I appreciate your support! How was the John Wayne movie?

[@ryans2582]

Really great video mate. Thanks a lot! This has helped me to take my life more seriously and think a lot more. 👍