The main benefits of being a introvert is not needing people to entertain yourself
@kendrad99335 жыл бұрын
We also don't need an audience and constant recognition for our accomplishments.
@glanced96845 жыл бұрын
True
@love4life5595 жыл бұрын
@@kendrad9933 true story son.
@MamtaNarang5 жыл бұрын
a blessing indeed.
@Koeras165 жыл бұрын
@@MamtaNarang a blessing or a curse in this society... living and working with people who exhibit a strong tendency towards natural extroversion is a painful and long process..
@Gobak2DaIsLand5 жыл бұрын
They think we're boring, we know they're annoying.
@hermanman82355 жыл бұрын
dozier allen not only annoying but injurious in long term
@Divinely_ProtectedAse5 жыл бұрын
dozier allen extroverts are also dramatic
@TranceGurl205 жыл бұрын
I hate the ones that talk to much. They think silence is awkward while I think it's peaceful ugh
@skord1765 жыл бұрын
Well, not all extroverts are annoying. Some of them, yes. It's probably because they want to maintain their positive image.
@sinistergeek5 жыл бұрын
Good one bruh!!..
@rauljaimes67395 жыл бұрын
1. Deep Thinking 2. Productivity in solitude 3. Creativity in expressing ourselves 4. Observation 5. Eye for Detail 6. Deep Relationships 7. Autonomy and Independence 8. Leadership
@ScottishLeo5 жыл бұрын
Perfectly descriptive of us wonderful Introverts 💖
@LOOTLORD6055 жыл бұрын
This is the Truth.
@V_For_Vigilante5 жыл бұрын
Perfect list for introverted Loners like me
@nodrize775 жыл бұрын
Uff, thank you
@Blady995 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@MayaAtlantis5 жыл бұрын
Deep relationships or no relationships at all.
@nene90047R15 жыл бұрын
Very true.
@jessicabeca12345 жыл бұрын
Yep
@unahp.37515 жыл бұрын
Exactly!
@phillipmakris73455 жыл бұрын
god damnit your right. fml
@V_For_Vigilante5 жыл бұрын
Ur so right
@quickfingers70625 жыл бұрын
Who else is watching this alone in your bed?
@somerandomgirl67325 жыл бұрын
🙋🏻♀️
@akiezhaguadalquiver30285 жыл бұрын
Lol ME
@A_B-dm6rg5 жыл бұрын
Same
@savannahsparks97045 жыл бұрын
How did u know
@ereb96585 жыл бұрын
Meeee
@AnnaLVajda5 жыл бұрын
It's only considered "over thinking" by people who don't like to think much at all. This is why introverts prefer to be alone rather than with thoughtless types.
@animarumcervantez5705 жыл бұрын
Even though I do like thinking, there is times when you do overthink it, since others don’t think it out so much.
@kyrlics65155 жыл бұрын
Thank you. Someone understands. So many people always say i overthink lol. Even with things that came straight off the top of my head. I think it might be partly due to communicative style/focus/values and the shallow thoughts.
@sinistergeek5 жыл бұрын
Hmmm....Well that's How it is?
@yunz21645 жыл бұрын
The way you put it its just simply true
@sinistergeek5 жыл бұрын
@pete knicks hmm..
@mufasa01385 жыл бұрын
A confident introvert can easily be mistaken by an extrovert if you look at it superficially
@quantised17035 жыл бұрын
describes me!
@kramer57725 жыл бұрын
mistaken as what? an extrovert?
@monster-tc1nz5 жыл бұрын
@@kramer5772 yes
@semperfi8185 жыл бұрын
Because I can fake the appropriate social noise convincingly for short periods of time when this is required, I am frequently mistaken for an extrovert; however, the agonizing energy drain that results all too suddenly when I cannot disappear quickly enough from such forced situations inevitably reminds me of my truly introverted nature. For my part, Sartre nailed it in "No Exit" when he wrote, "Hell is other people" -- and it took another introvert to become my partner/best friend. (Cf. Goethe, no doubt an introvert himself: "Love is two solitudes that meet and protect and greet one another." _Amen._ )
@mufasa01385 жыл бұрын
C. R. Barboni interesting insight
@filipmilosavljevic83165 жыл бұрын
Extrovert : Why don't you talk ? Introvert: How can you not shut up ? Extrovert : gets angry Introvert : gives up on conversation
@josephfernando48675 жыл бұрын
Hahaha that was funny...nice one.
@MamtaNarang5 жыл бұрын
a win win strategy
@soundwave69985 жыл бұрын
That question is so annoying
@zachsmith16765 жыл бұрын
Someone asked me why I don’t speak up (as in give an answer and so on) to which I replied “why don’t you speak down?” Both of ended up confused by my reply...
@godfirst74525 жыл бұрын
😂 awesome !
@DC-ok9hh4 жыл бұрын
Us introverts are extroverts in our brain
@nivedithanive63684 жыл бұрын
Sooo true Even my close friends don't know how wild my thoughts are😉 they think I am too shy just because I don't talk much
@DC-ok9hh4 жыл бұрын
Niveditha Nive frrr I guess I just think too much wild thoughts all the time maybe that’s why I’m so quiet 🤷🏻♂️😂
@user-zf1xu3nj2q4 жыл бұрын
Lol yes
@meteo55824 жыл бұрын
Sooo true aaahahhha
@videogamescausentviolence57173 жыл бұрын
I'm laughing at the fact that this is so true XD and yes I'm an introvert
@basudevadhikari91785 жыл бұрын
We Introverts are like a book , full of Knowledge, that we can only understand
@mohitpohaney88133 жыл бұрын
well said
@armjustarm3 жыл бұрын
Then they are useless, what good is a book that only one can understand
@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj Жыл бұрын
@@armjustarm Good point!
@Anon1mousLife11 ай бұрын
@@armjustarmHe's not the only introvert out there..
@sophielife15615 жыл бұрын
extrovert: why dont u talk introvert: I have nothing to say extrovert: that doesn’t make sense introvert: ok then
@PlebiasFate16095 жыл бұрын
I would just say *fk off and get outta here you nuisance*
@justmeevita75295 жыл бұрын
They would think im rude if I just say "ok then" 😂
@misssamawal98594 жыл бұрын
@@PlebiasFate1609 why i see you everywhere?
@TheGlory164 жыл бұрын
Me
@rhozzercareras74064 жыл бұрын
Extrovert: Why don't you talk? Me: Nah, I talk. Just not to you. 😂😂😂
@airamona5 жыл бұрын
8 strengths of introvert: 1. Deep thinking. Be cautious of overthinking. Great writers. Journaling. 2. Productivity in solitude. Energized when alone, most productive. 3. Creativity in expressing ourselves. Arts. 4. Observation. Know the environment. 5. Eye for detail. Looks at things from different perspective. 6. Great at relationship. Great listener. Deeper understanding, emphaty. 7. Autonomy and independence. Not codependent. Contentment in independence. Avoid abusive relationship. 8. Leadership. Listen, prepare, know, observe, structured.
@sandyvdh62264 жыл бұрын
You got the spelling of empathy wrong.excuse me as an introvert I have a good eye for details 😉
@aminahshahid88785 жыл бұрын
My biggest strength being an introvert is that I'm self sufficient at least emotionally, I love being alone and I don't actually need others to be happy,
@spiritual95745 жыл бұрын
Aminah Shahid I know right! Me being alone just makes me relax and think for myself
@devinrahney91433 жыл бұрын
Absolutely! Sitting in a room with music playing and a glass of whiskey, sitting there relaxing and reflecting on my day , all alone is a really good time to me lol
@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj Жыл бұрын
True but many do have the desire to have a partner too. My second brother was like that but deep down he desired a wife so eventually married at 49 which is late.
@darmony91535 жыл бұрын
One thing I've noticed is my extroverted friends have a much higher tolerance for other people's obnoxious traits than I do. i'd rather be alone than with some jerk.
@charlenemonique13 жыл бұрын
Yes! Omg 💯💯‼️
@saint99585 жыл бұрын
When I was young, i used to hate being an introvert, i wanted to fit in. My parents thought there was something oddly wrong about me as they want me to hang out with people, have fun. I realise many artist, musicians etc. I look up to are all introverts which comfort me deeply haha.
@stylishemerald31815 жыл бұрын
True true. The struggle is real especially when surrounded with extroverted family.
@AntonioWolfpack5 жыл бұрын
artery I wasn't to introverted as a kid I was shy and observant. But I did have friends in activities sports, music, ect. But my sis is a big extrovert. She has to ALWAYS be out n about , partying ect. Me.shit I'll take a night of chilling with my girl , smoke s bowl, play some music, watch a movie and take a night drive to a view, over a loud venue bumping into ppl I don't know haha
@Filippenzen4135 жыл бұрын
@@AntonioWolfpack Hell yh. For me it is the same.
@Filippenzen4135 жыл бұрын
@Untrepid One Don't take any bullshit from anyone and especially not from 'friends'. U have to come up for yourself bc no one else will. Fight for whats right.
@briano.57464 жыл бұрын
Right on , I'm a musician , I totally agree!
@Robidu19734 жыл бұрын
The difference between intoverts and extroverts: The intovert speaks if he has something to say. The extrovert speaks if he thinks that he has to say something.
@sidlopes44294 жыл бұрын
"May the meditations of my heart and the words of my mouth "find favor before 'you' , ' my rock and my redeemer' " ( I like that one.)😉😊
@詠萱-5oi Жыл бұрын
I am an extrovert and this is true…
@godfirst74525 жыл бұрын
The only loneliness with introverts is 'Intellectual loneliness' when people just don't get you! 😬🤦
@dynamic90165 жыл бұрын
I feel what you saying
@nikkili89445 жыл бұрын
So true...
@cyndigallo74755 жыл бұрын
God first, the reason people don't get you or US is they are not suppose to....becuz they are not LIKE YOU or US. it used to frustrate me, why they couldn't get me, but once i realize it was becuz "they are not like me" i was able to let it go......get it, the Deeper meaning.
@luwagasylvia32825 жыл бұрын
@John Salvage haha please count me in
@luwagasylvia32825 жыл бұрын
And this has kept me out of the "dating arena" I thought the beauty of a man is a deal breaker for me! BUT I seem to concentrate on what comes out of his mouth .I wonder why they would spend minutes or hours talking "silly staff", and I always wonder why they are not familiar with things which appears to be obvious to me! Its crazy .
@Lue_Jonin5 жыл бұрын
I don't get lonely. I seek solitude. I left society years ago to pursue a lifestyle in nature. I live on the National Scenic Trails and National Forests...Hiking, thinking and exploring. When I come into hiker towns to resupply, I get my little share of social interactions with others. Within a day or two I'm good to go for another two weeks of solitude on trail... The other hikers I meet on trail or in town seem to have a lot of my own characteristics...so pleasurable encounters.
@user-ml1dl8zv2j5 жыл бұрын
Into The Wild , 2007.
@themousethatroared33715 жыл бұрын
That sounds like a dream job!
@dameerwright72145 жыл бұрын
King Luey what’s a normal day for you like? Just curious it’s interesting
@markanderson91235 жыл бұрын
If the world collapses or world war 3 ensues you'll be a new kind of leader for the masses.
@Filippenzen4135 жыл бұрын
Can i apply?🙏🏼🤔
@catheryn90285 жыл бұрын
"It's not that im anti-social, i just dont feel the need to socialise with people alot"
@briacarter23494 жыл бұрын
Coronavirus: stay indoors! Don't be around alot of people! Introverts: Where have you been all my life?❤
@loganball30884 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣
@latoyastallworth66494 жыл бұрын
Yes!!!
@dragonnight80304 жыл бұрын
gtfo
@mthunzingadlela76724 жыл бұрын
lol...introverts are safe...from coronavirus
@inezae.eliane7984 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂 I was trying not to say this so people won’t think I am mean.
@orion95904 жыл бұрын
Introvert superpower: +Can be alone for very long period of time. +Can understand everyone. +Always know what is going to happen IF... +can notice small details
@joshithaa55964 жыл бұрын
We also notice very small details
@helenellsworth95565 жыл бұрын
This is really me, extrovert people do my head in, after a day of it I can't wait to get home, they actually give me a headache. I'm also a deep thinker. I create crochet pattern and knitting patterns, I love my solitude
@spiritual95745 жыл бұрын
Helen Ellsworth a lot of introverts think the same
@introvertreed60095 жыл бұрын
Extroverts are energy draining vampires. Out of a staff of 35, I'm 1 of 3 introverts. I have great difficulty trying to keep up with their execessive talking and child like behavior. After a few rounds of group activity,I feel like I ran around the block 100 times.
@JotaroKujo-cd9vu2 жыл бұрын
The funny thing about Introverts is once they feel comfortable with you, they can be the funniest , most enjoyable people to be around. It's like a secret they feel comfortable sharing with you . Except the secret is their personality.❤️
@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj Жыл бұрын
Very true and my beloved late brother is like that. He was very introverted and shy but once you become close to his, he is the sweetest and funniest guy around.
@timothykozlowski33463 ай бұрын
Those people become your comfort zone
@spanishbutterfly85465 жыл бұрын
Don’t forget small talk, I absolutely hate it.
@blitheixgaming12895 жыл бұрын
Same... Screw that lol
@SANDYMILLER235 жыл бұрын
Me too Mya. I hate it with a passion.
@V_For_Vigilante5 жыл бұрын
Me too
@lilalex78495 жыл бұрын
The minute small talking start I make my exit out the conversation 🤦🏽♂️
@AntonioWolfpack5 жыл бұрын
Dahoon Hong haha I ALWAYS feel weird asking how is your day? Or blah.blah. I say hi and that's it. Why ask how someone is if they are going to say good u? Good. OK good!
@ohmielevisope4237 Жыл бұрын
Another thing you forgot to mention is that introverts make amazing parents. As a introvert i have absolutely no shame in apologizing to my child for any wrong thing i did and trying to make it better for them. I am willing to listen to them without being judgy and help them trough their stuff as best i can and i show them unconditional love because with years of introversion has given me a open mind and shown me what truly matters in life.
@augustineriley55825 жыл бұрын
As a fellow introvert, thank you very much, very encouraging in a world that we can feel marginalised from, Peace.
@irenepeek32115 жыл бұрын
Hooray, I just found out that I'm an introvert. I am so happy to learn that I'm not stupid 😄 I kind of thought so but was never sure. Thank you so much for sharing your knowledge. My dad always told me keep my mouth shut and let everyone think I was stupid, better than opening my mouth and removing all doubt. He was such a encouragement to me and my brother ☹️. Now at 76 I know I'm quite bright, have a good mind and think and learn well. I started painting 6 years ago and I am absolutely in love with it. Have many interests and few friends. Ahh, and my husband and I have been married 56 years and we still love each other. Thanks for the opportunity to share, I don't do it often especially to this degree.🤗
@cyphrinfinity99924 жыл бұрын
Congratulations on your marriage of many years! That's so wonderful!
@babatundeswana93615 жыл бұрын
What I noticed when your quiet and reserved people are drawn to you and people want to talk to you.
@ironsnowflake10765 жыл бұрын
@Northern Wind I think they somehow sense that we keep secrets and respect boundaries...rare indeed :)
@Deszpina5 жыл бұрын
It's because an introvert is a good listener and polite. Let the others talk. Two extroverts have problem to hold a conversation with each other. Each one wants just talk, and talk and talk:)
@mizukagematt11865 жыл бұрын
I noticed this with myself I just didn’t knew how to explain it
@Cooliemasteroz5 жыл бұрын
Yes I’ve noticed this as well.
@2004dale5 жыл бұрын
Babatunde Swana they prob see you as mysterious
@frankv.26814 жыл бұрын
THANK GOD I'M AN INTROVERT! The biggest advantage of being an introvert is that we do not rely on other people for our happiness. In today's busy and impersonal world, people are nothing more than short-term, self-serving acquaintances looking for advantages from others rather than real freindship. This proves itself time and time again whether it's the workplace, schools, neighbors and sadly, even in church. Remember ... you will always learn more about people and life by using your eyes and ears rather than your mouth!
@tia51274 жыл бұрын
AMEN!
@pooch74495 жыл бұрын
I feel so good being appreciated this way Thank you ✨
@AverageGenericN.O-Resident5 жыл бұрын
Welcome to the comment section of introverted thoughts. Here, you can read the mind of an introvert. Learn the mentality of an introvert. See what it's like to be an introvert.....
@cmebans354 жыл бұрын
Quite fulfilling to know what like minded individuals think.
@GetThePicture5 жыл бұрын
I´m introvert too. The point about overthinking very true👍 I can be hard to find the balance at times. Great informative video
@srujithsunny60225 жыл бұрын
Even with deep thinking we end up taking wrong decisions it's a mess actually
@OliviaMari433 жыл бұрын
Deep Thinking :- 0:45 Productivity In Solitude :- 1:52 Creativity In Expressing Ourselves :- 2:49 Observation :- 3:32 Eye For Detail :- 4:28 Deep Relationship :- 5:17 Autonomy and Independence :- 5:55 Leadership :- 6:40
@karishort75615 жыл бұрын
I 💓 being an introvert 💓💓💓💓💓💓💓💓💓💓💓💓💓💓💓💓
@somerandomgirl67325 жыл бұрын
Yeeeee
@briano.57464 жыл бұрын
Yep!
@onlyhuman56694 жыл бұрын
Bruh why so many hearts XD
@AnimeOST115 жыл бұрын
who are introverts here like me ?
@darksaberz79305 жыл бұрын
Me!!
@seleenagomezjee25034 жыл бұрын
Joy Siohoa Never give op, there will be a day, you will feel good forever. ;)
@romanempire14054 жыл бұрын
Me
@mariyahj86094 жыл бұрын
Me !
@fourthcard214 жыл бұрын
me
@ireneachen96745 жыл бұрын
I really really hate small talk..I love very much real deep conversation and authenticity.
@hopewellmotsamai47714 жыл бұрын
Me too
@Symbolsysteme5 жыл бұрын
The internet is wonderful for sharing things like this. Young people don't have to feel awkward nowadays, if they are more introverted, more sensitive or if they are different in other ways.
@49fa755 жыл бұрын
Your channel is going to get *very* popular soon. Take my word.
@Einzelgänger5 жыл бұрын
Thank you Spiralflux. I hope so :p
@halcioncocaine20965 жыл бұрын
Your word ain't popular🎨
@choco_mint3763 жыл бұрын
As a fellow introvert, I feel so peaceful and relaxed after knowing about these aspects🌸 Thank youu ✨
@HZR-mx2xo4 жыл бұрын
I'm definitely introverted but i noticed that i get a lot of energy from spending time with fun people but also love being by myself sometimes. I guess we're on a spectrum instead of just one side.
@stylishbele4 жыл бұрын
knowing this is really helpful cos so many people out there are introverts, getting judged and misunderstood by extroverts, thinking something must be wrong with them ....but nothing is wrong with us , we don't just understand ourselves
@Handz4NatureProject5 жыл бұрын
people drain my energy.
@munim16675 жыл бұрын
True AF
@hinazeb67525 жыл бұрын
True
@bibox94874 жыл бұрын
I super agree with you🤝
@cyphrinfinity99924 жыл бұрын
Yes - and their meaningless questions, interruptions, etc.
@kevintrotter50944 жыл бұрын
Me too
@boohoo3345 жыл бұрын
I'm the quiet introvert in the class that everyone thinks is a massive nerd but then when PE came I excelled over most the boys in physical activity , their reactions were quite amazing.
@Booboobear-eo4es4 жыл бұрын
I realized years ago I did not need the approval or acceptance of others in order to validate me or give me worth.
@peaceriver17934 жыл бұрын
Extroverted introvert. I start conversations laugh and talk with people I meet everyday but try to pin me down for lunch or call me out of the blue or get too close and you will experience the most introverted person you’ve ever met in life. Lol
@True383 жыл бұрын
Same.
@povang5 жыл бұрын
Being an introvert isnt as kool as you make it out to be. It can be very hard being an introvert in a society that prizes extroverts. You feel like an outcast many times, and being a pessimistic person it really is depressing. Especially when it comes to making money, because its not what you know, its who you know. In this society, popularity is more valuable than skill or knowledge. Social currency thats what they call it, and introverts are very poor in it. I know many people who were unqualified for a job position and got it anyways solely based on who they knew or popularity, while the hundreds of job applicants who were highly qualified for the position got passed up; same goes for promotions.
@manuelruffin57435 жыл бұрын
I know right Ive been down that street too they always say that you're overqualified or underqualified but the Extroverts can get the job all day long and DONT KNOW SHIT......But the one that actually knows the job gets thrown to the dogs
@davestambaugh72825 жыл бұрын
I had not realized how much our sense of self is affected as a minority class until I understood myself to have been born this way. And I am enjoying an ever expanding sense of self since then.
@exoressdelivers705 жыл бұрын
Very true. When applying for positions it is hard to even get references from connected extroverted people because introverts are so disconnected.
@theanimelibarian78815 жыл бұрын
Actually i benefited from being an introverted person the people at my job all gets in trouble because there always stoping to talk
@davestambaugh72825 жыл бұрын
I remember on several different occasions discovering that I had a nick name that no one let me on to. In my field of employment there exists a true meritocracy the owners really liked me cause I was a cash cow. That allowed me to aquire my last ten years of employment, when finding any job for most machinists in California was very difficult. As you said it is who you know and few of the owners I had worked for had forgotten me.
@amalbacker5 жыл бұрын
People say teamwork is the best way to success. But i as an introvert i always felt i was finding it faster with my own solo effort
@wildchild16825 жыл бұрын
I dont like when people want to talk to me about frivolous things. 😒
@ScottishLeo5 жыл бұрын
I loathe chit chat, always thght I was "wrong" in avoiding small talk lol
@fwh79FOXR65 жыл бұрын
People really do like to ramble on and on about nothing!
@valeriitopovskii36315 жыл бұрын
I simply don't know what to say in such cases. Weather... Talks about the weather... A U F*CKING KIDDING ME, WHO CARES ABOUT THE F*CKING WEATHER! EVERYBODY KNOWS WHAT F*CKING WEATHER IS IN THE MOMENT! But I think that such bullshit was invented by introverts in order to somehow communicate with extraverts. I dunno how to be a socially isolated introvert in countries with high quality of life, but in my country you have to answer the phone, go to work and communicate with people in order to make some money on living, no matter how introverted you are
@madaroad03115 жыл бұрын
it annoys me
@Ashleyapples5 жыл бұрын
they seems frivolous maybe cause you care less about the environment or maybe the person is nervous of the quietness and is try to offer anything for conversation to break the ice
@mashalmashal6505 жыл бұрын
when i was young i thought something is wrong with me . i just don’t like to spend so much time hanging out but now that i knew i feel much better ! A True Introvert indeed !!
@mudkipbrekastaf66345 жыл бұрын
I'm quite introverted, yet I volunteered to stand before over 100 people and talk about a certain subject. It only took 2 people to support me through it and I had (and still haven't) done anything like it before. But, being my introverted self with these 8 strengths, I thought over what I had to say and observed others and delivered what I wanted extremely well. STILL introverted though!!
@johnnybanana85622 жыл бұрын
I am 100% an introvert, and am comfortable with it. I was pleasantly surprised with #8. I have found myself in that exact situation a few times. It is scary and empowering at the same time. At those times the silence from the others around you is deafening, but knowing you are being heard is an amazing feeling.
@dexm7955 жыл бұрын
I didn't like listening in school but I did much thinking ie. daydreaming.
@Robidu19734 жыл бұрын
Sounds strikingly familiar.
@amarillot.t43764 жыл бұрын
I don’t know why but I cried when you said that the stoics considered independence strength because I have always thought my shyness was pathetic and have strived to be emotionally strong so when I saw that to enjoy your own company is strength It kind of solidified that I got to the point where I wanted to be without me realizing it.
@JustAZillennial5 жыл бұрын
When I speak up, people listen to me for one second, then ignore me because I can't speak without stumbling over words.
@cyphrinfinity99924 жыл бұрын
Same here. It is so frustrating to me that for the most part I almost dislike to speak!
@chethan16374 жыл бұрын
Yep but we listen to all of their bullshit
@Robidu19734 жыл бұрын
Even worse when you have to anticipate the course of the conversation so that you can get appropriate responses ready, only to find that everything goes in an entirely different direction. Then try to improvise when none of your answers match... 😬
@joseenoel80934 жыл бұрын
I stutter too at times, especially when too many eyes are upon me, I want the attraction (me) to disappoint them, and quickly too not wanting their return.... It's been proven that stuttering is a sign of intelligence too!
@zantigar4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for posting this unpopular and unconventional view of being an introvert - of whom I count myself a member. This confirms much of what I already felt intuitively but never articulated. Quite heartening!
@sif_27995 жыл бұрын
Everything in this video describes me really well and for some reason I'm so touched by this it made me tear up. And it also motivated me. Thank you so much.
@ripwolfe5 жыл бұрын
Regarding meetings: "Ironically, I had to do it for my own sanity..." at @7:28. So perfect! Being an introvert myself in high tech, I've found it's also natural for me to create systems that also work well for others. I _have_ to make the systems to keep sane, so I deeply appreciate the irony.
@tonynes35775 жыл бұрын
You seem like an extrovert to me. Talking and making all these great videos! I'm a true introvert, no way can I talk so much and make videos.
@Einzelgänger5 жыл бұрын
Hi Tony, I have my extroverted qualities too. But what I do is writing a script first and then read it from the script. I don't think I could do it just from the heart. Anyways, thanks for the kind words!
@puddincup98795 жыл бұрын
Wow...that was interesting. Who said introverts couldn't communicate,🤔
@Robidu19734 жыл бұрын
@@puddincup9879 The point is, we need a reason to talk. If there's nothing to say, why say anything to begin with?
@raiagrobahadarnagar3 жыл бұрын
Intoverts are strong at imaginative acts. Proud to be an introvert.
@bigthunder28605 жыл бұрын
Some people never shut up they talk with no one listening!!!
@markanderson91235 жыл бұрын
You mean the commenters?
@dashiajames18824 жыл бұрын
I hate small talk, I'm so creative, my most important thoughts go into my journal...!! I'm always in my room by myself researching something or planning something. Extroverts talk so much, that I literally can't stand it. I definitely observe the smallest stuff alot. You could actually tell I'm either observing or planning something. Cuz I'm sooooo quiet, like quiet as a mouse. Great video...!!
@steveytheswitwarrior33625 жыл бұрын
YES INTROVERTS!!!!!!!! WE ARE THE BEST!!!!!!!!💖
@kavindukaveesha2152 жыл бұрын
When I was young ,I always thought i was an extrovert. But when I grew old I found myself I like to be alone and reading books or listening to music . I always avoid small useless conversations and kept my mouth shut when people come to argue with me . I thought arguing with them is very tired . My mom always thought that i'm quite different and always asked if i'm okay!!. She always tried to connect me with society , but i always felt like it was very useless to connect with society . I have trust in myself and i know that i can do many things without others .I find peace when i'm alone and i know the worth of my life. I'm so proud and happy about me being an introvert. It is my strength and I enjoy my life really well.💪 be yourself and ignore other's negative words.sorry for my English.
@tracydee18575 жыл бұрын
Introverts are seen as weirdos. Happy to be one. *grins* Misfits, outcasts....all because we Stand on our own without props.
@cmebans354 жыл бұрын
😄
@balto43 жыл бұрын
I LOVE being an introvert. It's who I am. I have an extroverted best friend and she tried changing me and it did not work. I love who I am. I love that I dont need others to charge my energy. I am very loyal and true friend. I'm also an empath. My strength come from within
@brianstallings42525 жыл бұрын
I absolutely can’t stand dry, superficial, meaningless conversations. Love and Hip Hop is a prime example. If it’s junk food, I immediately reject it. I have problems dating women, because most women seek to be the center of attention, there’s nothing interesting within their conversations, relationships lack intimacy, and basically there’s nothing attractive beyond physical dexterity. I have hardly any friends, because I refuse to settle for mediocrity. I refuse to live a life of ordinary means. I refuse to be a sheep, or carbon copied blueprint of whatever the latest trends/fads/word in the streets are. I refuse to conform. I’ve never preferred boring places like the club, strip clubs, wild parties, etc. That’s just for starters
@AntonioWolfpack5 жыл бұрын
Brian Stallings I hear ya. The majority of women are Westernized. But don't give up hope. Keep being you. In time things will find a way. I'm not big on loud, attention seeking women with fake eyelashes. I like a real , humble , natural women. There's this cute girl who lives near me who walks her dog alone but she seems VERY different then most women. She's sweet, never have I seen her on her phone . I have chatted a few times. I think she has a bf which is cool.. But she saw me the other day and was just staring smiling at me..I'm on the right path. You attract how you act
@rverro84784 жыл бұрын
You have a good foundation of a MGTOW. Avoiding the "fixed games" that society presents nowadays.
@joseenoel80934 жыл бұрын
I love junk food, a pure right to straight happiness bliss!
@sadiaarman3632 жыл бұрын
1) Deep thinking. It is an opportunity to determine a life that suits them. An introverts life is great for planning life step by step. The negative side is overthinking. 3) Creativity in expressing yourself. Coping mechanism of not wanting to be the centre of attention is.. Introverts creativity is partly born out of the avoidance. 4) Observant. 5) Eye for detail. Some people find it annoying but it is a strength. 6) Deep relationships. Introverts are deep listeners. 7) Autonomy and independence. Companionshipvcan be a great value in life but you are not a slave to it. 8) Great leadership. Speeches are deeply thought of
@sato2775 жыл бұрын
Now i know... So thats why my classmates look at me whenever i speak
@AntonioWolfpack5 жыл бұрын
Sato also because it's rare. With the extrovert people are use to them talking. Like a food you eat everyday. Your use to it. But if you only have it 1 time a week you value it and look forward to it
@spiritual95745 жыл бұрын
Sato Yeah I know how you feel bro, I’ve been there before
@hplen3th9985 жыл бұрын
thank you so much for saying this
@MLBB_Luin4 жыл бұрын
same haha all of them r looking at me
@elvistoro18734 жыл бұрын
Being introvert is a gift, we just need to accept us. This wourld is loud, even it seem nobody listen. But on the other hand, introverts will give you a deep connection and they always listen to.
@happysoul19904 жыл бұрын
Sometimes i go shopping alone and my extrovert friend said that it's weird. Little did she know it's more peaceful for people like me.
@cyphrinfinity99924 жыл бұрын
I shop alone also. I can think better so I can try to make the best purchasing decisions I can in my life.
@ETAonTheEUC2 жыл бұрын
Shopping alone is weird? Always needing someone to shop with is weird
@lulushelu86183 ай бұрын
Its either this or that with us introverts. And once we pick a side, we work hard to learn, search over and over for the purpose, until we find it, then we know there's improvement and growth
@pacarter71695 жыл бұрын
Over thinking? rather an analytical mind, seeing the comparisons regarding information, the study of information.
@cyphrinfinity99924 жыл бұрын
most definitely agree!
@sidlopes44294 жыл бұрын
"an anaytical mind...' rather' " 😉😄
@MichelleIbarraMHAEdD4 жыл бұрын
I love being an introvert. Sometimes I am an extroverted introvert. I love laughing and having fun with loved ones, but I will need a lot of alone time to recover and fill my emotional tank. During this quarantine time, I have never been bored because I have many projects to work on. As a Creative, my brain continually invents and innovates and I can't keep up sometimes. I don't really have time for a ton of socialization. I love my own company 😁. I resonate with all of the content you put in this video, thanks!
@fatimaadreeta5 жыл бұрын
I loved the ending lol. Yeah we bring the discipline in the extroverts' chaotic life.
@maxnieves46415 жыл бұрын
Introverts often see through if a conversation is genuine or not. Which I believe is another strength
@mjbankhead90635 жыл бұрын
Of the 12 people that work in my office, 9 (including myself) are introverts...and I 💙 it! #ProudINFJ
@MLBB_Luin4 жыл бұрын
envy you
@tia51274 жыл бұрын
LUCKY YOU!
@imamali14092 жыл бұрын
one of the main, major, and wonder fact about the introverts is that, they are very strengthfull from their own inner emotions. They are very capable to deal every kind of the critical situations. And other second thing, they also have the ability to solve or fix every kind of the difficulties no matter that how hard the situation is sorrounding them.
@Ratty24805 жыл бұрын
Being introverted and able to entertain yourself, can sometimes make you feel a little crazy. The la la land i can go too for so long is alarming.
@LottiB5 жыл бұрын
Intoverts energise when reflecting and spend that energy on social interactions. Its the reverse for extroverts. We all have a bit of both but we lean to a specific one differently.
@josephinestabel96475 жыл бұрын
YES EXTREME THINKERS. AND OBSERVERS.......EVERYTHING IS TRUE!! 🤘📖
@SANDYMILLER235 жыл бұрын
I have been an introvert since I was around 4 or 5 years old. I can't stand small talk. Just get to the point. I'm quiet and think all the time. I'm proud to be a introverted nerd. Love who you are. It's you that's enough. 😀💛❤️💙💚💜
@cassnewman82675 жыл бұрын
I've found most extroverts to be very "face value". What you see is what you get, and that's usually not much.
@MrKillswitch885 жыл бұрын
Looks at Asia and much of the west today seeing how most of the existing cultures are of face with China and Japan as well the US (different but same) being the obvious examples.
@halcioncocaine20965 жыл бұрын
If your cunning you could alternate between both!
@lorrimiller70104 жыл бұрын
Or TOO much.
@sidlopes44294 жыл бұрын
"oh my"....😂 😑
@TwinkieCakey4 жыл бұрын
That photo of Tesla will never get old. Dude is just chilling there and examining while this gigantic amount of electricity just blasts near him. He's a legend. :D
@erinmontoya11285 жыл бұрын
More like 8 weaknesses of extroverts am I right *weeps in loneliness*
@Einzelgänger5 жыл бұрын
Nahh.. not true. Love them extroverts!
@Thane364255 жыл бұрын
But, but, but, their "charisma", charm, excitement; isn't that what really matters?
@jeancummings44155 жыл бұрын
👍
@zonamaster47635 жыл бұрын
im an introvert the word lonely can applied to me only when im in the mountain fearing for my life honestly
@puddincup98795 жыл бұрын
Aww..someone lacks attention
@denershan5 жыл бұрын
I'm an introvert and I related to a lot of this. Being an introvert can be lonely at times, but at least you don't feel the need to be around people all the time. Great editing.
@Lotusblume.84 жыл бұрын
Biggest pro: being able to survive self quarantine and see it as a vacation. Lol.
@riblets19687 ай бұрын
As an introvert, I'm never bored. My own thoughts and actions are sufficiently engaging.
@ilove29295 жыл бұрын
Internet era opens new opp for introverts. I made a good (remote service) account manager in digital marketing agency...and also managed to have blog with decent traffic
@srujithsunny60225 жыл бұрын
ilive2929 could tell me other remote jobs that I could master and earn money from home
@prawncarl124 жыл бұрын
Brilliant. It’s so nice seeing scenes from the Netherlands while you speak. Plus you explain my perception of life so well
@pradeepb64284 жыл бұрын
I'm an introvert and I'm a push over, I just cannot fight back like extroverts and I be too nice and quiet and get screwed in the end. That's the only thing I hate about being an introvert, otherwise I'm proud
@dylanhosborn4 жыл бұрын
BLACK MAGE You’ll be alright fam! You can be introverted and self confident and grounded. I’ve always been very introverted and have had phases of being a push over. Find comfort in silence and stand you ground. It never matters what you say but how you say it.
@ifuckinloveleslie4 жыл бұрын
My wife is an introvert we have been married for 12 years and I'm just completely over it, but I want to stay married because I love her so thanks for videos like this.
@AryanSharma-ce6hw5 жыл бұрын
Damn. introverts sound like boss in every damn situation....and we should talk to them with utmost care An extrovert
@Camhart155 жыл бұрын
Aryan Sharma couldn’t agree more
@virajdobriyal63215 жыл бұрын
Bed english bro
@meowmeow37785 жыл бұрын
Shouldn't we introverts be bosses rather than extroverts?
@Echelon-xh8mb4 жыл бұрын
@@meowmeow3778 rather than*
@meowmeow37784 жыл бұрын
@@Echelon-xh8mb Fuck.
@jaredcoleman30024 жыл бұрын
1. Deep thinking 2. Productivity in solitude 3. Creativity in expressing ourselves 4. Observations 5. Eye for detail 6. Deep relationships 7. Autonomy and independence 8. Leadership
@leopervera3965 жыл бұрын
I’m happy to be introvert
@EulaBiezen4 жыл бұрын
Einzelganger, I am so glad you left banking. It has been to my great benefit that you share stoic wisdom with me. I have always admired Marcus Aurelius and am delving ever deeper into Stoic philosophy. Thanks to your shift in activities, I am much the more informed, and hopefully a bit wiser. Although I am definitely an extrovert, I have a side to me that is described in this and other videos that you post online. as a deep thinker, serious and enjoying my own company. Thanks to you, I am able to understand the mystery of introverts and am no longer puzzled by their sometimes detached demeanor and appreciate all that these wonderful analytical (beings) bring to the world.
@newsim235 жыл бұрын
I really like your videos. Great content and execution. One thing I have noticed is that much of it is based on your experience alone. I think it would bring your content to a new level to include info from studies or surveys to corroborate your points. Just a suggestion. keep up the good work!
@Einzelgänger5 жыл бұрын
Thank you Simon. The upcoming video is more researched and not about myself ;)
@Hhhhhh8888A.4 жыл бұрын
I'm introvert and I'm proud of it... And I don't hesitate to admit it that I think too much or I spend my time alone instead of anyone... I gain energy when I spend my time alone and I'm happy 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰💞
@yellow-t60745 жыл бұрын
Extrovert : why are you so quiet? Introvert : do you want me to go to random people and ask why are they so loud?
@cyphrinfinity99924 жыл бұрын
Great comment there!!!
@user-zf1xu3nj2q4 жыл бұрын
Imma use this lol
@meowmeow37784 жыл бұрын
Extrovert: *Fails to realize he/she's one of those people* I guess?
@hivicar4 жыл бұрын
Still mostly overlooked is that many of us eventually learn to use these gifts to understand that we're constantly interacting with good spirits. These are interested and enthusiastic non-physical supporters, who are flowing to us all kinds of ideas, inspirations, guidance, protection, cautions, etc. about virtually everything positive and helpful to us. All of this was true long before what led to Dr Jung and his work.
@StylizedKitsune5 жыл бұрын
I'm extroverted, but I despise small talk with a passion! I crave social interactions with meaningful people and, being honest, sometimes I get perceived as an introvert or shy because of that. Kinda sucks 😐 For the mbti people: I'm ENTP
@multicrogamer5 жыл бұрын
INTP here , hello
@valeriitopovskii36315 жыл бұрын
"Kinda sucks", introverts and shy people don't think so... I hope... I don't... maybe...