8 Strengths Of Introverts

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Einzelgänger

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@babatundeswana9361
@babatundeswana9361 5 жыл бұрын
The main benefits of being a introvert is not needing people to entertain yourself
@kendrad9933
@kendrad9933 5 жыл бұрын
We also don't need an audience and constant recognition for our accomplishments.
@glanced9684
@glanced9684 5 жыл бұрын
True
@love4life559
@love4life559 5 жыл бұрын
@@kendrad9933 true story son.
@MamtaNarang
@MamtaNarang 5 жыл бұрын
a blessing indeed.
@Koeras16
@Koeras16 5 жыл бұрын
@@MamtaNarang a blessing or a curse in this society... living and working with people who exhibit a strong tendency towards natural extroversion is a painful and long process..
@Gobak2DaIsLand
@Gobak2DaIsLand 5 жыл бұрын
They think we're boring, we know they're annoying.
@hermanman8235
@hermanman8235 5 жыл бұрын
dozier allen not only annoying but injurious in long term
@Divinely_ProtectedAse
@Divinely_ProtectedAse 5 жыл бұрын
dozier allen extroverts are also dramatic
@TranceGurl20
@TranceGurl20 5 жыл бұрын
I hate the ones that talk to much. They think silence is awkward while I think it's peaceful ugh
@skord176
@skord176 5 жыл бұрын
Well, not all extroverts are annoying. Some of them, yes. It's probably because they want to maintain their positive image.
@sinistergeek
@sinistergeek 5 жыл бұрын
Good one bruh!!..
@rauljaimes6739
@rauljaimes6739 5 жыл бұрын
1. Deep Thinking 2. Productivity in solitude 3. Creativity in expressing ourselves 4. Observation 5. Eye for Detail 6. Deep Relationships 7. Autonomy and Independence 8. Leadership
@ScottishLeo
@ScottishLeo 5 жыл бұрын
Perfectly descriptive of us wonderful Introverts 💖
@LOOTLORD605
@LOOTLORD605 5 жыл бұрын
This is the Truth.
@V_For_Vigilante
@V_For_Vigilante 5 жыл бұрын
Perfect list for introverted Loners like me
@nodrize77
@nodrize77 5 жыл бұрын
Uff, thank you
@Blady99
@Blady99 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@MayaAtlantis
@MayaAtlantis 5 жыл бұрын
Deep relationships or no relationships at all.
@nene90047R1
@nene90047R1 5 жыл бұрын
Very true.
@jessicabeca1234
@jessicabeca1234 5 жыл бұрын
Yep
@unahp.3751
@unahp.3751 5 жыл бұрын
Exactly!
@phillipmakris7345
@phillipmakris7345 5 жыл бұрын
god damnit your right. fml
@V_For_Vigilante
@V_For_Vigilante 5 жыл бұрын
Ur so right
@quickfingers7062
@quickfingers7062 5 жыл бұрын
Who else is watching this alone in your bed?
@somerandomgirl6732
@somerandomgirl6732 5 жыл бұрын
🙋🏻‍♀️
@akiezhaguadalquiver3028
@akiezhaguadalquiver3028 5 жыл бұрын
Lol ME
@A_B-dm6rg
@A_B-dm6rg 5 жыл бұрын
Same
@savannahsparks9704
@savannahsparks9704 5 жыл бұрын
How did u know
@ereb9658
@ereb9658 5 жыл бұрын
Meeee
@AnnaLVajda
@AnnaLVajda 5 жыл бұрын
It's only considered "over thinking" by people who don't like to think much at all. This is why introverts prefer to be alone rather than with thoughtless types.
@animarumcervantez570
@animarumcervantez570 5 жыл бұрын
Even though I do like thinking, there is times when you do overthink it, since others don’t think it out so much.
@kyrlics6515
@kyrlics6515 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you. Someone understands. So many people always say i overthink lol. Even with things that came straight off the top of my head. I think it might be partly due to communicative style/focus/values and the shallow thoughts.
@sinistergeek
@sinistergeek 5 жыл бұрын
Hmmm....Well that's How it is?
@yunz2164
@yunz2164 5 жыл бұрын
The way you put it its just simply true
@sinistergeek
@sinistergeek 5 жыл бұрын
@pete knicks hmm..
@mufasa0138
@mufasa0138 5 жыл бұрын
A confident introvert can easily be mistaken by an extrovert if you look at it superficially
@quantised1703
@quantised1703 5 жыл бұрын
describes me!
@kramer5772
@kramer5772 5 жыл бұрын
mistaken as what? an extrovert?
@monster-tc1nz
@monster-tc1nz 5 жыл бұрын
@@kramer5772 yes
@semperfi818
@semperfi818 5 жыл бұрын
Because I can fake the appropriate social noise convincingly for short periods of time when this is required, I am frequently mistaken for an extrovert; however, the agonizing energy drain that results all too suddenly when I cannot disappear quickly enough from such forced situations inevitably reminds me of my truly introverted nature. For my part, Sartre nailed it in "No Exit" when he wrote, "Hell is other people" -- and it took another introvert to become my partner/best friend. (Cf. Goethe, no doubt an introvert himself: "Love is two solitudes that meet and protect and greet one another." _Amen._ )
@mufasa0138
@mufasa0138 5 жыл бұрын
C. R. Barboni interesting insight
@filipmilosavljevic8316
@filipmilosavljevic8316 5 жыл бұрын
Extrovert : Why don't you talk ? Introvert: How can you not shut up ? Extrovert : gets angry Introvert : gives up on conversation
@josephfernando4867
@josephfernando4867 5 жыл бұрын
Hahaha that was funny...nice one.
@MamtaNarang
@MamtaNarang 5 жыл бұрын
a win win strategy
@soundwave6998
@soundwave6998 5 жыл бұрын
That question is so annoying
@zachsmith1676
@zachsmith1676 5 жыл бұрын
Someone asked me why I don’t speak up (as in give an answer and so on) to which I replied “why don’t you speak down?” Both of ended up confused by my reply...
@godfirst7452
@godfirst7452 5 жыл бұрын
😂 awesome !
@DC-ok9hh
@DC-ok9hh 4 жыл бұрын
Us introverts are extroverts in our brain
@nivedithanive6368
@nivedithanive6368 4 жыл бұрын
Sooo true Even my close friends don't know how wild my thoughts are😉 they think I am too shy just because I don't talk much
@DC-ok9hh
@DC-ok9hh 4 жыл бұрын
Niveditha Nive frrr I guess I just think too much wild thoughts all the time maybe that’s why I’m so quiet 🤷🏻‍♂️😂
@user-zf1xu3nj2q
@user-zf1xu3nj2q 4 жыл бұрын
Lol yes
@meteo5582
@meteo5582 4 жыл бұрын
Sooo true aaahahhha
@videogamescausentviolence5717
@videogamescausentviolence5717 3 жыл бұрын
I'm laughing at the fact that this is so true XD and yes I'm an introvert
@basudevadhikari9178
@basudevadhikari9178 5 жыл бұрын
We Introverts are like a book , full of Knowledge, that we can only understand
@mohitpohaney8813
@mohitpohaney8813 3 жыл бұрын
well said
@armjustarm
@armjustarm 3 жыл бұрын
Then they are useless, what good is a book that only one can understand
@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj
@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj Жыл бұрын
@@armjustarm Good point!
@Anon1mousLife
@Anon1mousLife 11 ай бұрын
​@@armjustarmHe's not the only introvert out there..
@sophielife1561
@sophielife1561 5 жыл бұрын
extrovert: why dont u talk introvert: I have nothing to say extrovert: that doesn’t make sense introvert: ok then
@PlebiasFate1609
@PlebiasFate1609 5 жыл бұрын
I would just say *fk off and get outta here you nuisance*
@justmeevita7529
@justmeevita7529 5 жыл бұрын
They would think im rude if I just say "ok then" 😂
@misssamawal9859
@misssamawal9859 4 жыл бұрын
@@PlebiasFate1609 why i see you everywhere?
@TheGlory16
@TheGlory16 4 жыл бұрын
Me
@rhozzercareras7406
@rhozzercareras7406 4 жыл бұрын
Extrovert: Why don't you talk? Me: Nah, I talk. Just not to you. 😂😂😂
@airamona
@airamona 5 жыл бұрын
8 strengths of introvert: 1. Deep thinking. Be cautious of overthinking. Great writers. Journaling. 2. Productivity in solitude. Energized when alone, most productive. 3. Creativity in expressing ourselves. Arts. 4. Observation. Know the environment. 5. Eye for detail. Looks at things from different perspective. 6. Great at relationship. Great listener. Deeper understanding, emphaty. 7. Autonomy and independence. Not codependent. Contentment in independence. Avoid abusive relationship. 8. Leadership. Listen, prepare, know, observe, structured.
@sandyvdh6226
@sandyvdh6226 4 жыл бұрын
You got the spelling of empathy wrong.excuse me as an introvert I have a good eye for details 😉
@aminahshahid8878
@aminahshahid8878 5 жыл бұрын
My biggest strength being an introvert is that I'm self sufficient at least emotionally, I love being alone and I don't actually need others to be happy,
@spiritual9574
@spiritual9574 5 жыл бұрын
Aminah Shahid I know right! Me being alone just makes me relax and think for myself
@devinrahney9143
@devinrahney9143 3 жыл бұрын
Absolutely! Sitting in a room with music playing and a glass of whiskey, sitting there relaxing and reflecting on my day , all alone is a really good time to me lol
@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj
@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj Жыл бұрын
True but many do have the desire to have a partner too. My second brother was like that but deep down he desired a wife so eventually married at 49 which is late.
@darmony9153
@darmony9153 5 жыл бұрын
One thing I've noticed is my extroverted friends have a much higher tolerance for other people's obnoxious traits than I do. i'd rather be alone than with some jerk.
@charlenemonique1
@charlenemonique1 3 жыл бұрын
Yes! Omg 💯💯‼️
@saint9958
@saint9958 5 жыл бұрын
When I was young, i used to hate being an introvert, i wanted to fit in. My parents thought there was something oddly wrong about me as they want me to hang out with people, have fun. I realise many artist, musicians etc. I look up to are all introverts which comfort me deeply haha.
@stylishemerald3181
@stylishemerald3181 5 жыл бұрын
True true. The struggle is real especially when surrounded with extroverted family.
@AntonioWolfpack
@AntonioWolfpack 5 жыл бұрын
artery I wasn't to introverted as a kid I was shy and observant. But I did have friends in activities sports, music, ect. But my sis is a big extrovert. She has to ALWAYS be out n about , partying ect. Me.shit I'll take a night of chilling with my girl , smoke s bowl, play some music, watch a movie and take a night drive to a view, over a loud venue bumping into ppl I don't know haha
@Filippenzen413
@Filippenzen413 5 жыл бұрын
@@AntonioWolfpack Hell yh. For me it is the same.
@Filippenzen413
@Filippenzen413 5 жыл бұрын
@Untrepid One Don't take any bullshit from anyone and especially not from 'friends'. U have to come up for yourself bc no one else will. Fight for whats right.
@briano.5746
@briano.5746 4 жыл бұрын
Right on , I'm a musician , I totally agree!
@Robidu1973
@Robidu1973 4 жыл бұрын
The difference between intoverts and extroverts: The intovert speaks if he has something to say. The extrovert speaks if he thinks that he has to say something.
@sidlopes4429
@sidlopes4429 4 жыл бұрын
"May the meditations of my heart and the words of my mouth "find favor before 'you' , ' my rock and my redeemer' " ( I like that one.)😉😊
@詠萱-5oi
@詠萱-5oi Жыл бұрын
I am an extrovert and this is true…
@godfirst7452
@godfirst7452 5 жыл бұрын
The only loneliness with introverts is 'Intellectual loneliness' when people just don't get you! 😬🤦
@dynamic9016
@dynamic9016 5 жыл бұрын
I feel what you saying
@nikkili8944
@nikkili8944 5 жыл бұрын
So true...
@cyndigallo7475
@cyndigallo7475 5 жыл бұрын
God first, the reason people don't get you or US is they are not suppose to....becuz they are not LIKE YOU or US. it used to frustrate me, why they couldn't get me, but once i realize it was becuz "they are not like me" i was able to let it go......get it, the Deeper meaning.
@luwagasylvia3282
@luwagasylvia3282 5 жыл бұрын
@John Salvage haha please count me in
@luwagasylvia3282
@luwagasylvia3282 5 жыл бұрын
And this has kept me out of the "dating arena" I thought the beauty of a man is a deal breaker for me! BUT I seem to concentrate on what comes out of his mouth .I wonder why they would spend minutes or hours talking "silly staff", and I always wonder why they are not familiar with things which appears to be obvious to me! Its crazy .
@Lue_Jonin
@Lue_Jonin 5 жыл бұрын
I don't get lonely. I seek solitude. I left society years ago to pursue a lifestyle in nature. I live on the National Scenic Trails and National Forests...Hiking, thinking and exploring. When I come into hiker towns to resupply, I get my little share of social interactions with others. Within a day or two I'm good to go for another two weeks of solitude on trail... The other hikers I meet on trail or in town seem to have a lot of my own characteristics...so pleasurable encounters.
@user-ml1dl8zv2j
@user-ml1dl8zv2j 5 жыл бұрын
Into The Wild , 2007.
@themousethatroared3371
@themousethatroared3371 5 жыл бұрын
That sounds like a dream job!
@dameerwright7214
@dameerwright7214 5 жыл бұрын
King Luey what’s a normal day for you like? Just curious it’s interesting
@markanderson9123
@markanderson9123 5 жыл бұрын
If the world collapses or world war 3 ensues you'll be a new kind of leader for the masses.
@Filippenzen413
@Filippenzen413 5 жыл бұрын
Can i apply?🙏🏼🤔
@catheryn9028
@catheryn9028 5 жыл бұрын
"It's not that im anti-social, i just dont feel the need to socialise with people alot"
@briacarter2349
@briacarter2349 4 жыл бұрын
Coronavirus: stay indoors! Don't be around alot of people! Introverts: Where have you been all my life?❤
@loganball3088
@loganball3088 4 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣
@latoyastallworth6649
@latoyastallworth6649 4 жыл бұрын
Yes!!!
@dragonnight8030
@dragonnight8030 4 жыл бұрын
gtfo
@mthunzingadlela7672
@mthunzingadlela7672 4 жыл бұрын
lol...introverts are safe...from coronavirus
@inezae.eliane798
@inezae.eliane798 4 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂 I was trying not to say this so people won’t think I am mean.
@orion9590
@orion9590 4 жыл бұрын
Introvert superpower: +Can be alone for very long period of time. +Can understand everyone. +Always know what is going to happen IF... +can notice small details
@joshithaa5596
@joshithaa5596 4 жыл бұрын
We also notice very small details
@helenellsworth9556
@helenellsworth9556 5 жыл бұрын
This is really me, extrovert people do my head in, after a day of it I can't wait to get home, they actually give me a headache. I'm also a deep thinker. I create crochet pattern and knitting patterns, I love my solitude
@spiritual9574
@spiritual9574 5 жыл бұрын
Helen Ellsworth a lot of introverts think the same
@introvertreed6009
@introvertreed6009 5 жыл бұрын
Extroverts are energy draining vampires. Out of a staff of 35, I'm 1 of 3 introverts. I have great difficulty trying to keep up with their execessive talking and child like behavior. After a few rounds of group activity,I feel like I ran around the block 100 times.
@JotaroKujo-cd9vu
@JotaroKujo-cd9vu 2 жыл бұрын
The funny thing about Introverts is once they feel comfortable with you, they can be the funniest , most enjoyable people to be around. It's like a secret they feel comfortable sharing with you . Except the secret is their personality.❤️
@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj
@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj Жыл бұрын
Very true and my beloved late brother is like that. He was very introverted and shy but once you become close to his, he is the sweetest and funniest guy around.
@timothykozlowski3346
@timothykozlowski3346 3 ай бұрын
Those people become your comfort zone
@spanishbutterfly8546
@spanishbutterfly8546 5 жыл бұрын
Don’t forget small talk, I absolutely hate it.
@blitheixgaming1289
@blitheixgaming1289 5 жыл бұрын
Same... Screw that lol
@SANDYMILLER23
@SANDYMILLER23 5 жыл бұрын
Me too Mya. I hate it with a passion.
@V_For_Vigilante
@V_For_Vigilante 5 жыл бұрын
Me too
@lilalex7849
@lilalex7849 5 жыл бұрын
The minute small talking start I make my exit out the conversation 🤦🏽‍♂️
@AntonioWolfpack
@AntonioWolfpack 5 жыл бұрын
Dahoon Hong haha I ALWAYS feel weird asking how is your day? Or blah.blah. I say hi and that's it. Why ask how someone is if they are going to say good u? Good. OK good!
@ohmielevisope4237
@ohmielevisope4237 Жыл бұрын
Another thing you forgot to mention is that introverts make amazing parents. As a introvert i have absolutely no shame in apologizing to my child for any wrong thing i did and trying to make it better for them. I am willing to listen to them without being judgy and help them trough their stuff as best i can and i show them unconditional love because with years of introversion has given me a open mind and shown me what truly matters in life.
@augustineriley5582
@augustineriley5582 5 жыл бұрын
As a fellow introvert, thank you very much, very encouraging in a world that we can feel marginalised from, Peace.
@irenepeek3211
@irenepeek3211 5 жыл бұрын
Hooray, I just found out that I'm an introvert. I am so happy to learn that I'm not stupid 😄 I kind of thought so but was never sure. Thank you so much for sharing your knowledge. My dad always told me keep my mouth shut and let everyone think I was stupid, better than opening my mouth and removing all doubt. He was such a encouragement to me and my brother ☹️. Now at 76 I know I'm quite bright, have a good mind and think and learn well. I started painting 6 years ago and I am absolutely in love with it. Have many interests and few friends. Ahh, and my husband and I have been married 56 years and we still love each other. Thanks for the opportunity to share, I don't do it often especially to this degree.🤗
@cyphrinfinity9992
@cyphrinfinity9992 4 жыл бұрын
Congratulations on your marriage of many years! That's so wonderful!
@babatundeswana9361
@babatundeswana9361 5 жыл бұрын
What I noticed when your quiet and reserved people are drawn to you and people want to talk to you.
@ironsnowflake1076
@ironsnowflake1076 5 жыл бұрын
@Northern Wind I think they somehow sense that we keep secrets and respect boundaries...rare indeed :)
@Deszpina
@Deszpina 5 жыл бұрын
It's because an introvert is a good listener and polite. Let the others talk. Two extroverts have problem to hold a conversation with each other. Each one wants just talk, and talk and talk:)
@mizukagematt1186
@mizukagematt1186 5 жыл бұрын
I noticed this with myself I just didn’t knew how to explain it
@Cooliemasteroz
@Cooliemasteroz 5 жыл бұрын
Yes I’ve noticed this as well.
@2004dale
@2004dale 5 жыл бұрын
Babatunde Swana they prob see you as mysterious
@frankv.2681
@frankv.2681 4 жыл бұрын
THANK GOD I'M AN INTROVERT! The biggest advantage of being an introvert is that we do not rely on other people for our happiness. In today's busy and impersonal world, people are nothing more than short-term, self-serving acquaintances looking for advantages from others rather than real freindship. This proves itself time and time again whether it's the workplace, schools, neighbors and sadly, even in church. Remember ... you will always learn more about people and life by using your eyes and ears rather than your mouth!
@tia5127
@tia5127 4 жыл бұрын
AMEN!
@pooch7449
@pooch7449 5 жыл бұрын
I feel so good being appreciated this way Thank you ✨
@AverageGenericN.O-Resident
@AverageGenericN.O-Resident 5 жыл бұрын
Welcome to the comment section of introverted thoughts. Here, you can read the mind of an introvert. Learn the mentality of an introvert. See what it's like to be an introvert.....
@cmebans35
@cmebans35 4 жыл бұрын
Quite fulfilling to know what like minded individuals think.
@GetThePicture
@GetThePicture 5 жыл бұрын
I´m introvert too. The point about overthinking very true👍 I can be hard to find the balance at times. Great informative video
@srujithsunny6022
@srujithsunny6022 5 жыл бұрын
Even with deep thinking we end up taking wrong decisions it's a mess actually
@OliviaMari43
@OliviaMari43 3 жыл бұрын
Deep Thinking :- 0:45 Productivity In Solitude :- 1:52 Creativity In Expressing Ourselves :- 2:49 Observation :- 3:32 Eye For Detail :- 4:28 Deep Relationship :- 5:17 Autonomy and Independence :- 5:55 Leadership :- 6:40
@karishort7561
@karishort7561 5 жыл бұрын
I 💓 being an introvert 💓💓💓💓💓💓💓💓💓💓💓💓💓💓💓💓
@somerandomgirl6732
@somerandomgirl6732 5 жыл бұрын
Yeeeee
@briano.5746
@briano.5746 4 жыл бұрын
Yep!
@onlyhuman5669
@onlyhuman5669 4 жыл бұрын
Bruh why so many hearts XD
@AnimeOST11
@AnimeOST11 5 жыл бұрын
who are introverts here like me ?
@darksaberz7930
@darksaberz7930 5 жыл бұрын
Me!!
@seleenagomezjee2503
@seleenagomezjee2503 4 жыл бұрын
Joy Siohoa Never give op, there will be a day, you will feel good forever. ;)
@romanempire1405
@romanempire1405 4 жыл бұрын
Me
@mariyahj8609
@mariyahj8609 4 жыл бұрын
Me !
@fourthcard21
@fourthcard21 4 жыл бұрын
me
@ireneachen9674
@ireneachen9674 5 жыл бұрын
I really really hate small talk..I love very much real deep conversation and authenticity.
@hopewellmotsamai4771
@hopewellmotsamai4771 4 жыл бұрын
Me too
@Symbolsysteme
@Symbolsysteme 5 жыл бұрын
The internet is wonderful for sharing things like this. Young people don't have to feel awkward nowadays, if they are more introverted, more sensitive or if they are different in other ways.
@49fa75
@49fa75 5 жыл бұрын
Your channel is going to get *very* popular soon. Take my word.
@Einzelgänger
@Einzelgänger 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you Spiralflux. I hope so :p
@halcioncocaine2096
@halcioncocaine2096 5 жыл бұрын
Your word ain't popular🎨
@choco_mint376
@choco_mint376 3 жыл бұрын
As a fellow introvert, I feel so peaceful and relaxed after knowing about these aspects🌸 Thank youu ✨
@HZR-mx2xo
@HZR-mx2xo 4 жыл бұрын
I'm definitely introverted but i noticed that i get a lot of energy from spending time with fun people but also love being by myself sometimes. I guess we're on a spectrum instead of just one side.
@stylishbele
@stylishbele 4 жыл бұрын
knowing this is really helpful cos so many people out there are introverts, getting judged and misunderstood by extroverts, thinking something must be wrong with them ....but nothing is wrong with us , we don't just understand ourselves
@Handz4NatureProject
@Handz4NatureProject 5 жыл бұрын
people drain my energy.
@munim1667
@munim1667 5 жыл бұрын
True AF
@hinazeb6752
@hinazeb6752 5 жыл бұрын
True
@bibox9487
@bibox9487 4 жыл бұрын
I super agree with you🤝
@cyphrinfinity9992
@cyphrinfinity9992 4 жыл бұрын
Yes - and their meaningless questions, interruptions, etc.
@kevintrotter5094
@kevintrotter5094 4 жыл бұрын
Me too
@boohoo334
@boohoo334 5 жыл бұрын
I'm the quiet introvert in the class that everyone thinks is a massive nerd but then when PE came I excelled over most the boys in physical activity , their reactions were quite amazing.
@Booboobear-eo4es
@Booboobear-eo4es 4 жыл бұрын
I realized years ago I did not need the approval or acceptance of others in order to validate me or give me worth.
@peaceriver1793
@peaceriver1793 4 жыл бұрын
Extroverted introvert. I start conversations laugh and talk with people I meet everyday but try to pin me down for lunch or call me out of the blue or get too close and you will experience the most introverted person you’ve ever met in life. Lol
@True38
@True38 3 жыл бұрын
Same.
@povang
@povang 5 жыл бұрын
Being an introvert isnt as kool as you make it out to be. It can be very hard being an introvert in a society that prizes extroverts. You feel like an outcast many times, and being a pessimistic person it really is depressing. Especially when it comes to making money, because its not what you know, its who you know. In this society, popularity is more valuable than skill or knowledge. Social currency thats what they call it, and introverts are very poor in it. I know many people who were unqualified for a job position and got it anyways solely based on who they knew or popularity, while the hundreds of job applicants who were highly qualified for the position got passed up; same goes for promotions.
@manuelruffin5743
@manuelruffin5743 5 жыл бұрын
I know right Ive been down that street too they always say that you're overqualified or underqualified but the Extroverts can get the job all day long and DONT KNOW SHIT......But the one that actually knows the job gets thrown to the dogs
@davestambaugh7282
@davestambaugh7282 5 жыл бұрын
I had not realized how much our sense of self is affected as a minority class until I understood myself to have been born this way. And I am enjoying an ever expanding sense of self since then.
@exoressdelivers70
@exoressdelivers70 5 жыл бұрын
Very true. When applying for positions it is hard to even get references from connected extroverted people because introverts are so disconnected.
@theanimelibarian7881
@theanimelibarian7881 5 жыл бұрын
Actually i benefited from being an introverted person the people at my job all gets in trouble because there always stoping to talk
@davestambaugh7282
@davestambaugh7282 5 жыл бұрын
I remember on several different occasions discovering that I had a nick name that no one let me on to. In my field of employment there exists a true meritocracy the owners really liked me cause I was a cash cow. That allowed me to aquire my last ten years of employment, when finding any job for most machinists in California was very difficult. As you said it is who you know and few of the owners I had worked for had forgotten me.
@amalbacker
@amalbacker 5 жыл бұрын
People say teamwork is the best way to success. But i as an introvert i always felt i was finding it faster with my own solo effort
@wildchild1682
@wildchild1682 5 жыл бұрын
I dont like when people want to talk to me about frivolous things. 😒
@ScottishLeo
@ScottishLeo 5 жыл бұрын
I loathe chit chat, always thght I was "wrong" in avoiding small talk lol
@fwh79FOXR6
@fwh79FOXR6 5 жыл бұрын
People really do like to ramble on and on about nothing!
@valeriitopovskii3631
@valeriitopovskii3631 5 жыл бұрын
I simply don't know what to say in such cases. Weather... Talks about the weather... A U F*CKING KIDDING ME, WHO CARES ABOUT THE F*CKING WEATHER! EVERYBODY KNOWS WHAT F*CKING WEATHER IS IN THE MOMENT! But I think that such bullshit was invented by introverts in order to somehow communicate with extraverts. I dunno how to be a socially isolated introvert in countries with high quality of life, but in my country you have to answer the phone, go to work and communicate with people in order to make some money on living, no matter how introverted you are
@madaroad0311
@madaroad0311 5 жыл бұрын
it annoys me
@Ashleyapples
@Ashleyapples 5 жыл бұрын
they seems frivolous maybe cause you care less about the environment or maybe the person is nervous of the quietness and is try to offer anything for conversation to break the ice
@mashalmashal650
@mashalmashal650 5 жыл бұрын
when i was young i thought something is wrong with me . i just don’t like to spend so much time hanging out but now that i knew i feel much better ! A True Introvert indeed !!
@mudkipbrekastaf6634
@mudkipbrekastaf6634 5 жыл бұрын
I'm quite introverted, yet I volunteered to stand before over 100 people and talk about a certain subject. It only took 2 people to support me through it and I had (and still haven't) done anything like it before. But, being my introverted self with these 8 strengths, I thought over what I had to say and observed others and delivered what I wanted extremely well. STILL introverted though!!
@johnnybanana8562
@johnnybanana8562 2 жыл бұрын
I am 100% an introvert, and am comfortable with it. I was pleasantly surprised with #8. I have found myself in that exact situation a few times. It is scary and empowering at the same time. At those times the silence from the others around you is deafening, but knowing you are being heard is an amazing feeling.
@dexm795
@dexm795 5 жыл бұрын
I didn't like listening in school but I did much thinking ie. daydreaming.
@Robidu1973
@Robidu1973 4 жыл бұрын
Sounds strikingly familiar.
@amarillot.t4376
@amarillot.t4376 4 жыл бұрын
I don’t know why but I cried when you said that the stoics considered independence strength because I have always thought my shyness was pathetic and have strived to be emotionally strong so when I saw that to enjoy your own company is strength It kind of solidified that I got to the point where I wanted to be without me realizing it.
@JustAZillennial
@JustAZillennial 5 жыл бұрын
When I speak up, people listen to me for one second, then ignore me because I can't speak without stumbling over words.
@cyphrinfinity9992
@cyphrinfinity9992 4 жыл бұрын
Same here. It is so frustrating to me that for the most part I almost dislike to speak!
@chethan1637
@chethan1637 4 жыл бұрын
Yep but we listen to all of their bullshit
@Robidu1973
@Robidu1973 4 жыл бұрын
Even worse when you have to anticipate the course of the conversation so that you can get appropriate responses ready, only to find that everything goes in an entirely different direction. Then try to improvise when none of your answers match... 😬
@joseenoel8093
@joseenoel8093 4 жыл бұрын
I stutter too at times, especially when too many eyes are upon me, I want the attraction (me) to disappoint them, and quickly too not wanting their return.... It's been proven that stuttering is a sign of intelligence too!
@zantigar
@zantigar 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for posting this unpopular and unconventional view of being an introvert - of whom I count myself a member. This confirms much of what I already felt intuitively but never articulated. Quite heartening!
@sif_2799
@sif_2799 5 жыл бұрын
Everything in this video describes me really well and for some reason I'm so touched by this it made me tear up. And it also motivated me. Thank you so much.
@ripwolfe
@ripwolfe 5 жыл бұрын
Regarding meetings: "Ironically, I had to do it for my own sanity..." at @7:28. So perfect! Being an introvert myself in high tech, I've found it's also natural for me to create systems that also work well for others. I _have_ to make the systems to keep sane, so I deeply appreciate the irony.
@tonynes3577
@tonynes3577 5 жыл бұрын
You seem like an extrovert to me. Talking and making all these great videos! I'm a true introvert, no way can I talk so much and make videos.
@Einzelgänger
@Einzelgänger 5 жыл бұрын
Hi Tony, I have my extroverted qualities too. But what I do is writing a script first and then read it from the script. I don't think I could do it just from the heart. Anyways, thanks for the kind words!
@puddincup9879
@puddincup9879 5 жыл бұрын
Wow...that was interesting. Who said introverts couldn't communicate,🤔
@Robidu1973
@Robidu1973 4 жыл бұрын
@@puddincup9879 The point is, we need a reason to talk. If there's nothing to say, why say anything to begin with?
@raiagrobahadarnagar
@raiagrobahadarnagar 3 жыл бұрын
Intoverts are strong at imaginative acts. Proud to be an introvert.
@bigthunder2860
@bigthunder2860 5 жыл бұрын
Some people never shut up they talk with no one listening!!!
@markanderson9123
@markanderson9123 5 жыл бұрын
You mean the commenters?
@dashiajames1882
@dashiajames1882 4 жыл бұрын
I hate small talk, I'm so creative, my most important thoughts go into my journal...!! I'm always in my room by myself researching something or planning something. Extroverts talk so much, that I literally can't stand it. I definitely observe the smallest stuff alot. You could actually tell I'm either observing or planning something. Cuz I'm sooooo quiet, like quiet as a mouse. Great video...!!
@steveytheswitwarrior3362
@steveytheswitwarrior3362 5 жыл бұрын
YES INTROVERTS!!!!!!!! WE ARE THE BEST!!!!!!!!💖
@kavindukaveesha215
@kavindukaveesha215 2 жыл бұрын
When I was young ,I always thought i was an extrovert. But when I grew old I found myself I like to be alone and reading books or listening to music . I always avoid small useless conversations and kept my mouth shut when people come to argue with me . I thought arguing with them is very tired . My mom always thought that i'm quite different and always asked if i'm okay!!. She always tried to connect me with society , but i always felt like it was very useless to connect with society . I have trust in myself and i know that i can do many things without others .I find peace when i'm alone and i know the worth of my life. I'm so proud and happy about me being an introvert. It is my strength and I enjoy my life really well.💪 be yourself and ignore other's negative words.sorry for my English.
@tracydee1857
@tracydee1857 5 жыл бұрын
Introverts are seen as weirdos. Happy to be one. *grins* Misfits, outcasts....all because we Stand on our own without props.
@cmebans35
@cmebans35 4 жыл бұрын
😄
@balto4
@balto4 3 жыл бұрын
I LOVE being an introvert. It's who I am. I have an extroverted best friend and she tried changing me and it did not work. I love who I am. I love that I dont need others to charge my energy. I am very loyal and true friend. I'm also an empath. My strength come from within
@brianstallings4252
@brianstallings4252 5 жыл бұрын
I absolutely can’t stand dry, superficial, meaningless conversations. Love and Hip Hop is a prime example. If it’s junk food, I immediately reject it. I have problems dating women, because most women seek to be the center of attention, there’s nothing interesting within their conversations, relationships lack intimacy, and basically there’s nothing attractive beyond physical dexterity. I have hardly any friends, because I refuse to settle for mediocrity. I refuse to live a life of ordinary means. I refuse to be a sheep, or carbon copied blueprint of whatever the latest trends/fads/word in the streets are. I refuse to conform. I’ve never preferred boring places like the club, strip clubs, wild parties, etc. That’s just for starters
@AntonioWolfpack
@AntonioWolfpack 5 жыл бұрын
Brian Stallings I hear ya. The majority of women are Westernized. But don't give up hope. Keep being you. In time things will find a way. I'm not big on loud, attention seeking women with fake eyelashes. I like a real , humble , natural women. There's this cute girl who lives near me who walks her dog alone but she seems VERY different then most women. She's sweet, never have I seen her on her phone . I have chatted a few times. I think she has a bf which is cool.. But she saw me the other day and was just staring smiling at me..I'm on the right path. You attract how you act
@rverro8478
@rverro8478 4 жыл бұрын
You have a good foundation of a MGTOW. Avoiding the "fixed games" that society presents nowadays.
@joseenoel8093
@joseenoel8093 4 жыл бұрын
I love junk food, a pure right to straight happiness bliss!
@sadiaarman363
@sadiaarman363 2 жыл бұрын
1) Deep thinking. It is an opportunity to determine a life that suits them. An introverts life is great for planning life step by step. The negative side is overthinking. 3) Creativity in expressing yourself. Coping mechanism of not wanting to be the centre of attention is.. Introverts creativity is partly born out of the avoidance. 4) Observant. 5) Eye for detail. Some people find it annoying but it is a strength. 6) Deep relationships. Introverts are deep listeners. 7) Autonomy and independence. Companionshipvcan be a great value in life but you are not a slave to it. 8) Great leadership. Speeches are deeply thought of
@sato277
@sato277 5 жыл бұрын
Now i know... So thats why my classmates look at me whenever i speak
@AntonioWolfpack
@AntonioWolfpack 5 жыл бұрын
Sato also because it's rare. With the extrovert people are use to them talking. Like a food you eat everyday. Your use to it. But if you only have it 1 time a week you value it and look forward to it
@spiritual9574
@spiritual9574 5 жыл бұрын
Sato Yeah I know how you feel bro, I’ve been there before
@hplen3th998
@hplen3th998 5 жыл бұрын
thank you so much for saying this
@MLBB_Luin
@MLBB_Luin 4 жыл бұрын
same haha all of them r looking at me
@elvistoro1873
@elvistoro1873 4 жыл бұрын
Being introvert is a gift, we just need to accept us. This wourld is loud, even it seem nobody listen. But on the other hand, introverts will give you a deep connection and they always listen to.
@happysoul1990
@happysoul1990 4 жыл бұрын
Sometimes i go shopping alone and my extrovert friend said that it's weird. Little did she know it's more peaceful for people like me.
@cyphrinfinity9992
@cyphrinfinity9992 4 жыл бұрын
I shop alone also. I can think better so I can try to make the best purchasing decisions I can in my life.
@ETAonTheEUC
@ETAonTheEUC 2 жыл бұрын
Shopping alone is weird? Always needing someone to shop with is weird
@lulushelu8618
@lulushelu8618 3 ай бұрын
Its either this or that with us introverts. And once we pick a side, we work hard to learn, search over and over for the purpose, until we find it, then we know there's improvement and growth
@pacarter7169
@pacarter7169 5 жыл бұрын
Over thinking? rather an analytical mind, seeing the comparisons regarding information, the study of information.
@cyphrinfinity9992
@cyphrinfinity9992 4 жыл бұрын
most definitely agree!
@sidlopes4429
@sidlopes4429 4 жыл бұрын
"an anaytical mind...' rather' " 😉😄
@MichelleIbarraMHAEdD
@MichelleIbarraMHAEdD 4 жыл бұрын
I love being an introvert. Sometimes I am an extroverted introvert. I love laughing and having fun with loved ones, but I will need a lot of alone time to recover and fill my emotional tank. During this quarantine time, I have never been bored because I have many projects to work on. As a Creative, my brain continually invents and innovates and I can't keep up sometimes. I don't really have time for a ton of socialization. I love my own company 😁. I resonate with all of the content you put in this video, thanks!
@fatimaadreeta
@fatimaadreeta 5 жыл бұрын
I loved the ending lol. Yeah we bring the discipline in the extroverts' chaotic life.
@maxnieves4641
@maxnieves4641 5 жыл бұрын
Introverts often see through if a conversation is genuine or not. Which I believe is another strength
@mjbankhead9063
@mjbankhead9063 5 жыл бұрын
Of the 12 people that work in my office, 9 (including myself) are introverts...and I 💙 it! #ProudINFJ
@MLBB_Luin
@MLBB_Luin 4 жыл бұрын
envy you
@tia5127
@tia5127 4 жыл бұрын
LUCKY YOU!
@imamali1409
@imamali1409 2 жыл бұрын
one of the main, major, and wonder fact about the introverts is that, they are very strengthfull from their own inner emotions. They are very capable to deal every kind of the critical situations. And other second thing, they also have the ability to solve or fix every kind of the difficulties no matter that how hard the situation is sorrounding them.
@Ratty2480
@Ratty2480 5 жыл бұрын
Being introverted and able to entertain yourself, can sometimes make you feel a little crazy. The la la land i can go too for so long is alarming.
@LottiB
@LottiB 5 жыл бұрын
Intoverts energise when reflecting and spend that energy on social interactions. Its the reverse for extroverts. We all have a bit of both but we lean to a specific one differently.
@josephinestabel9647
@josephinestabel9647 5 жыл бұрын
YES EXTREME THINKERS. AND OBSERVERS.......EVERYTHING IS TRUE!! 🤘📖
@SANDYMILLER23
@SANDYMILLER23 5 жыл бұрын
I have been an introvert since I was around 4 or 5 years old. I can't stand small talk. Just get to the point. I'm quiet and think all the time. I'm proud to be a introverted nerd. Love who you are. It's you that's enough. 😀💛❤️💙💚💜
@cassnewman8267
@cassnewman8267 5 жыл бұрын
I've found most extroverts to be very "face value". What you see is what you get, and that's usually not much.
@MrKillswitch88
@MrKillswitch88 5 жыл бұрын
Looks at Asia and much of the west today seeing how most of the existing cultures are of face with China and Japan as well the US (different but same) being the obvious examples.
@halcioncocaine2096
@halcioncocaine2096 5 жыл бұрын
If your cunning you could alternate between both!
@lorrimiller7010
@lorrimiller7010 4 жыл бұрын
Or TOO much.
@sidlopes4429
@sidlopes4429 4 жыл бұрын
"oh my"....😂 😑
@TwinkieCakey
@TwinkieCakey 4 жыл бұрын
That photo of Tesla will never get old. Dude is just chilling there and examining while this gigantic amount of electricity just blasts near him. He's a legend. :D
@erinmontoya1128
@erinmontoya1128 5 жыл бұрын
More like 8 weaknesses of extroverts am I right *weeps in loneliness*
@Einzelgänger
@Einzelgänger 5 жыл бұрын
Nahh.. not true. Love them extroverts!
@Thane36425
@Thane36425 5 жыл бұрын
But, but, but, their "charisma", charm, excitement; isn't that what really matters?
@jeancummings4415
@jeancummings4415 5 жыл бұрын
👍
@zonamaster4763
@zonamaster4763 5 жыл бұрын
im an introvert the word lonely can applied to me only when im in the mountain fearing for my life honestly
@puddincup9879
@puddincup9879 5 жыл бұрын
Aww..someone lacks attention
@denershan
@denershan 5 жыл бұрын
I'm an introvert and I related to a lot of this. Being an introvert can be lonely at times, but at least you don't feel the need to be around people all the time. Great editing.
@Lotusblume.8
@Lotusblume.8 4 жыл бұрын
Biggest pro: being able to survive self quarantine and see it as a vacation. Lol.
@riblets1968
@riblets1968 7 ай бұрын
As an introvert, I'm never bored. My own thoughts and actions are sufficiently engaging.
@ilove2929
@ilove2929 5 жыл бұрын
Internet era opens new opp for introverts. I made a good (remote service) account manager in digital marketing agency...and also managed to have blog with decent traffic
@srujithsunny6022
@srujithsunny6022 5 жыл бұрын
ilive2929 could tell me other remote jobs that I could master and earn money from home
@prawncarl12
@prawncarl12 4 жыл бұрын
Brilliant. It’s so nice seeing scenes from the Netherlands while you speak. Plus you explain my perception of life so well
@pradeepb6428
@pradeepb6428 4 жыл бұрын
I'm an introvert and I'm a push over, I just cannot fight back like extroverts and I be too nice and quiet and get screwed in the end. That's the only thing I hate about being an introvert, otherwise I'm proud
@dylanhosborn
@dylanhosborn 4 жыл бұрын
BLACK MAGE You’ll be alright fam! You can be introverted and self confident and grounded. I’ve always been very introverted and have had phases of being a push over. Find comfort in silence and stand you ground. It never matters what you say but how you say it.
@ifuckinloveleslie
@ifuckinloveleslie 4 жыл бұрын
My wife is an introvert we have been married for 12 years and I'm just completely over it, but I want to stay married because I love her so thanks for videos like this.
@AryanSharma-ce6hw
@AryanSharma-ce6hw 5 жыл бұрын
Damn. introverts sound like boss in every damn situation....and we should talk to them with utmost care An extrovert
@Camhart15
@Camhart15 5 жыл бұрын
Aryan Sharma couldn’t agree more
@virajdobriyal6321
@virajdobriyal6321 5 жыл бұрын
Bed english bro
@meowmeow3778
@meowmeow3778 5 жыл бұрын
Shouldn't we introverts be bosses rather than extroverts?
@Echelon-xh8mb
@Echelon-xh8mb 4 жыл бұрын
@@meowmeow3778 rather than*
@meowmeow3778
@meowmeow3778 4 жыл бұрын
@@Echelon-xh8mb Fuck.
@jaredcoleman3002
@jaredcoleman3002 4 жыл бұрын
1. Deep thinking 2. Productivity in solitude 3. Creativity in expressing ourselves 4. Observations 5. Eye for detail 6. Deep relationships 7. Autonomy and independence 8. Leadership
@leopervera396
@leopervera396 5 жыл бұрын
I’m happy to be introvert
@EulaBiezen
@EulaBiezen 4 жыл бұрын
Einzelganger, I am so glad you left banking. It has been to my great benefit that you share stoic wisdom with me. I have always admired Marcus Aurelius and am delving ever deeper into Stoic philosophy. Thanks to your shift in activities, I am much the more informed, and hopefully a bit wiser. Although I am definitely an extrovert, I have a side to me that is described in this and other videos that you post online. as a deep thinker, serious and enjoying my own company. Thanks to you, I am able to understand the mystery of introverts and am no longer puzzled by their sometimes detached demeanor and appreciate all that these wonderful analytical (beings) bring to the world.
@newsim23
@newsim23 5 жыл бұрын
I really like your videos. Great content and execution. One thing I have noticed is that much of it is based on your experience alone. I think it would bring your content to a new level to include info from studies or surveys to corroborate your points. Just a suggestion. keep up the good work!
@Einzelgänger
@Einzelgänger 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you Simon. The upcoming video is more researched and not about myself ;)
@Hhhhhh8888A.
@Hhhhhh8888A. 4 жыл бұрын
I'm introvert and I'm proud of it... And I don't hesitate to admit it that I think too much or I spend my time alone instead of anyone... I gain energy when I spend my time alone and I'm happy 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰💞
@yellow-t6074
@yellow-t6074 5 жыл бұрын
Extrovert : why are you so quiet? Introvert : do you want me to go to random people and ask why are they so loud?
@cyphrinfinity9992
@cyphrinfinity9992 4 жыл бұрын
Great comment there!!!
@user-zf1xu3nj2q
@user-zf1xu3nj2q 4 жыл бұрын
Imma use this lol
@meowmeow3778
@meowmeow3778 4 жыл бұрын
Extrovert: *Fails to realize he/she's one of those people* I guess?
@hivicar
@hivicar 4 жыл бұрын
Still mostly overlooked is that many of us eventually learn to use these gifts to understand that we're constantly interacting with good spirits. These are interested and enthusiastic non-physical supporters, who are flowing to us all kinds of ideas, inspirations, guidance, protection, cautions, etc. about virtually everything positive and helpful to us. All of this was true long before what led to Dr Jung and his work.
@StylizedKitsune
@StylizedKitsune 5 жыл бұрын
I'm extroverted, but I despise small talk with a passion! I crave social interactions with meaningful people and, being honest, sometimes I get perceived as an introvert or shy because of that. Kinda sucks 😐 For the mbti people: I'm ENTP
@multicrogamer
@multicrogamer 5 жыл бұрын
INTP here , hello
@valeriitopovskii3631
@valeriitopovskii3631 5 жыл бұрын
"Kinda sucks", introverts and shy people don't think so... I hope... I don't... maybe...
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