8 Things Christian Women Find Unattractive in Guys

[@PaulandMorgan]

Ladies, let us know one thing you find unattractive in guys, just be nice :)

[@joyhuffine342]

Bad hygiene

[@kristennnnn0902]

If a guy is mean to people or has a superior attitude

[@flowersparks4766]

(Havnt watched the entire video) Guys that think crying is for weak men. If he’s a really strong warrior for Christ he will probably be weeping a lot

[@flowersparks4766]

(Havnt watched the entire video) Guys that think crying is for weak men. If he’s a really strong warrior for Christ he will probably be weeping a lot

[@thehappyelephant8868]

When they don't care about the pro-life movement.

[@laurelstrobel5188]

One thing I find unattractive in a Christian guy is when a he flirts with every single girl. It's way nicer when he makes you feel special. ☺️

[@jennasearle8299]

Amen!! Soo many guys do that!! It needs to stahp!!

[@maryrobertson4638]

I was thinking the same thing through the whole video!

[@Brianna-yh7iy]

Soooo true

[@chocoplantss320]

I think this goes both ways too! If a guy sees a girl flirting with every single dude she meets, it's a turn off.

[@patrickjade9349]

Lol this made me laugh This won't get one over on men. They are trying to find a wife. Sure it stinks to realize that a man doesn't choose you, but come on lol. I'm asking a personal question, have you tried flirting with an insecure person before?

[@sarambj3660]

It's unnatractive when a guy is prideful/arrogant and also when he's agressive or quickly angered! ->proverbs 19:11

[@PaulandMorgan]

Sara MBJ that’s a good one. Pride is unattractive on anyone. 👏

[@bethelchangani2947]

@Sara MBJ I totally agree

[@zogly9469]

How would you define “aggressive?” I probably agree with you on all points, but I DO think aggressiveness can also be a good thing, if it is directed properly. Especially in situations where a man is protecting his family or is doing something he is being led by the Spirit to do. What is bad aggressiveness and what is good?

[@catherineleary9831]

@@zogly9469 aggressive means hostile or violent. The Holy Spirit never leads a person to act like that.

[@APPR3NTIC3]

@@catherineleary9831 Unless he asks his followers to murder every man, married woman, and child and enslave the unmarried women as your concubines. Then it's okay and good.

[@margpamo]

I would never have guessed that they're sisters

[@PaulandMorgan]

Mar GPamo really?! Haha that’s funny! 😄

[@mely260]

Ikr me too

[@tabxria9923]

LOL surprise we are.

[@maryrobertson4638]

Same!

[@megalopolis2015]

They do not look much alike, but they sure act like sisters. :0)

[@Goat.Cheese]

A turn-off for me is when a guy follows dozens of Instagram models and likes all their pictures. It makes me feel kinda werid.

[@carter5007]

Emily mabye he just appreciates God's creation.

[@buikejesus]

@@carter5007 By probably lusting after them?

[@carter5007]

buike4jesus 777 I mean there is a difference between lusting and recognizing beauty though 😄.

[@PaulandMorgan]

Emily I completely agree with you. We are called to fix our eyes on Jesus. And things that honor and glorify Him. If a guy is following model after model and all they post is seductive, sexual pictures, a lot that really are soft porn, that is not okay or acceptable in my opinion.

[@meralynewanjiku2882]

Right.. such a turnoff

[@actuallyashley4216]

I think it’s unattractive when a guy swears excessively. Anyone agree?

[@godsgirl9497]

Actually Ashley yes!!!!

[@PaulandMorgan]

Definitely not cute.

[@Enzaaa97]

Yes!!!

[@mauriciosalas3415]

Fuck off bitch

[@Dacuteone08]

TOTALLY!!!!

[@Enzaaa97]

I find so unattractive in a Christian guy when he flirts with every girl in the Church, desperate to get a girlfriend.

[@yeshuaischrist9951]

Maybe he's just spreading love❤

[@abdullahal-shimri3091]

I never talk to any women at church. They all think I’m hitting on them. I avoid women at all costs.

[@Kelle0284]

@@abdullahal-shimri3091 What about women at a mosque?

[@ameliasanders5681]

I find it unattractive when a guy talks too much, leaving you feeling like you can’t get a word in/interrupts you and doesn’t apologize and doesn’t get back to your original topic

[@PaulandMorgan]

Oh yeah, that's not cool.

[@LivingTrancefully]

Amelia Sanders - what about when a guy tries to speak but she FREAKS out anytime he doesn’t say the perfect thing?

[@APPR3NTIC3]

Maybe he doesn't want to hear about your boyfriend Jesus.

[@LivingTrancefully]

@@APPR3NTIC3 - Maybe you should stop trying to get a Christian girl when you are on your way to hell with your current beliefs.

[@LivingTrancefully]

@@APPR3NTIC3 - You mock Jesus, not a good start

[@funnygirl8750]

When a guy has bad hygeine😒ick

[@PaulandMorgan]

Funny Girl87 that is a very good one!! 🙊

[@catherineleary9831]

Definitely! Bad breath and stanky pits 😜

[@APPR3NTIC3]

Those girls on this video don't even look like they wash their hair, so maybe they should *practice what they preach* lol

[@barbozie2991]

@@APPR3NTIC3 HAHAHA

[@hiscanvasofgrace3391]

Its not attractive when guys are full of themselves and can't accept advice/correction from anyone. And when they hold on to a sin pattern that hurts you and is destructive😬

[@PaulandMorgan]

Agreed girl! That can be very frustrating. Humble men are the best men. ;)

[@ritiaggarwal995]

Lon Spector hehe what age do we live in? YES, 2019.

[@bobbimke82]

"can't accept advice/correction from anyone. " ==> Like CREATIONISTS spouting bullshit about "It's infallible!" It's HISTORY! It's SCIENCE! It's ALL TRUE TRUTH! (Yet christians disagree about EVERYTHING, rejecting ANY CORRECTION from the 340 THOUSAND differing sets of doctrine. GET YOUR STORY STRAIGHT KIDS!)

[@APPR3NTIC3]

Maybe it hurts them when you sin shame them, didja ever think of that?

[@brianhood8827]

Amen 🙏🏼

[@noelle4104]

A guy with no patience or who gets angered easily is unattractive to me. I try to not harbor those same qualities.

[@noelle4104]

Nicht von dieser Welt explain I’m kinda confused

[@noelle4104]

@Nicht von dieser Welt Lol...I'm going to need you to chill and not act like you know me and how my relationships have been based off of a two sentence comment on a youtube video. I have never been in a relationship with a guy who had those qualities..but I have noticed it in some of my male friends and family members so I note in my mind that I would not like that in a partner. Calm down. Me saying I do not want an angry man is basic and not a "wrong standard". Bye now

[@noelle4104]

Nicht von dieser Welt you are getting bothered that I’m “demanding” something when you’re the person who is attacking me. If you don’t care for the Bible, why are you watching Christian videos? Don’t you have something better to do with your time??? And not wanting an angry man has nothing to do with the Bible. You make no sense and just wanted to attack someone. For all you know I’m not even a Christian and just happen to stumble across this video (it is KZbin and that happens a lot) and comment. But no, you wanna come and talk to me like you know me 😂Comedic. Try someone who cares about your opinion. I’m done with this

[@KAyLA_K]

When their constantly flexing or when they think their looks makes them better then other people. By the way great video!!:)

[@PaulandMorgan]

That's a good one for sure!

[@sydneywagner9389]

OMG yesss girl! That’s so unattractive.

[@jeanneesta2997]

I find it unattractive when you are walking with your boyfriend and he meets someone he knows, and all of a sudden you are forgotten or worse he introduces you as a friend when it is clear that you are his girlfriend.

[@PaulandMorgan]

That can definitely be frustrating!

[@account10558]

If he's introducing you as a friend when you're dating I would cut it off that makes zero sense lol.

[@boobies9391]

I mean there's something called keeping your relationship a secret until both spouses are okay with revealing it???

[@account10558]

@@boobies9391 That's not what they meant lmho.

[@ItsEverythingEuodia]

Yes it's very attractive to see Christian guys worship the God of the bible 😅😅🌚

[@PaulandMorgan]

Orikundela Matshili 💜💜💜

[@Nicky14music]

I agree!

[@cherryalani]

I totally agree.

[@anneeq008]

What's Christian worship exactly?

[@GodlessScummer]

@@PaulandMorgan so Morgan you check out other guys when your supposed to be worshipping God? That's not going to ho down too well with sky daddy. It'll be Hell for you girl. 🤣🤣🤣

[@briannacollie2742]

First of all, your sister is very gorgeous, and second of all I agree with all of these things. A man of God is very attractive.

[@PaulandMorgan]

Elegant Anne aww thanks. Yes she is! 😄. And amen sister!

[@carter5007]

Well I’m single ;)

[@briannacollie2742]

@@carter5007 lol this is cute

[@tabxria9923]

Elegant Anne thank you SO much ☺️ you are beautiful

[@commodoreNZ]

ooooh. sick burn. they will be fighting for weeks about which sister you meant!

[@shelby8474]

One thing I find unattractive is someone telling me I better learn how to dress more fashionable. Also guys spending hours on Pinterest for what to wear prob aren't out there looking for godly women 😛

[@MrWholdaway]

You are absolutely right, Shelby. Sounds like these Christian women are very shallow

[@vivaeuropa]

Same that was so shallow/worldy. God forbid a man of God to not be materialistic and not wanting to seek unnecessary attention.

[@SkullyBud]

I am a man and I agree with everything you said! However, while not being emotional enough is a problem some guys have because of stereotypes, there are some situations that guys just find it hard to show emotion. Not to hide it, but just because they can't. I am a huge example of that. I am probably the most emotional guy I know, but when something serious happens, I freeze and I just don't respond. I don't crack jokes or anything. No reaction except a churning stomach and a blank face. However, if someone or myself is in danger I react quickly. A lot of guys have this problem and it's not exactly something they can do anything about, but it's something that at least I am very aware and conscious about and I am trying to tweak. Great job ladies, keep it up!

[@joelnenadovich8141]

Very true brother. The male brain is different to female.

[@sevp.8185]

Thank you for your honest insight! That is helpful

[@gracedunn5321]

As a Christian girl I agree with everything you girls talked about 😘

[@PaulandMorgan]

Grace Dunn 😄🙌🏼 wahooo

[@bobbimke82]

"As a Christian" ==> This utterance in ANY vocalization RINGS ALARMS that "BULLSHIT INCOMING! High intenisy BULLSHIT! Pure, stinky, steamy, squishy, nasty, useless BULLSHIT. Duck and cover!"

[@miikael123able]

As I christian I disagree with absolutely everything they said

[@commodoreNZ]

8 reasons not to date christian girls 1:Obsessive Worship 2:Fashion expectations 3:Daddy issues 4:Screeching 5:Insecurities 6:Emotional totalitarianism 7:Gossip 8:Hobbies that aren't god

[@davzinzan]

9:Lack of rational thought

[@JesusISKingNoMatterWhat]

LOL what Christian women hurt you. Don't blame God, or your bad experience. I used to be practically an Atheist and Now a Ride or Die for Jesus. Praying for you David to receive Wisdom and Run to God with it🙏❤🤗

[@commodoreNZ]

@@JesusISKingNoMatterWhat That was just my interpretation of their points. You've made a lot of assumptions there. Anyhoo, thankyou for your prayers and I'm glad I made you laugh :)

[@katherinegrace3694]

Ouch. I don't really think that was necessary. Where did those assumptions come from?

[@commodoreNZ]

@@katherinegrace3694 ? I watched the video

[@somethinggood9267]

Easily angered/vulgar about sexual stuff

[@live_unafraid47]

Or even if he just like to ise sexual innuendos or jokes. Even if its just around his guy friends. Its really off putting

[@somethinggood9267]

@@AllieLittleMonster I'm simply responding to the question they asked, and those are my turnoffs. It's nothing personal against you. I'm just trying to abide by scripture.

[@hilary1014]

@@AllieLittleMonster Same! My friends and I do that a lot

[@PaulandMorgan]

@@AllieLittleMonster I would encourage you to really seek the Lord on that type of joking around. Is it really bringing glory to God? I'm down with having fun and being light hearted but if all you do when you're around your friends is make sexual jokes, I do believe that is not the way Jesus would joke around with His friends. And are we not called to walk like Christ in all aspects of our lives?

[@fernandavaleriaperaltarami696]

I think a Christian guy is not going to do that.

[@halliebateman4797]

Not cleaning up your mess and depending on your wife to be your maid.

[@catherineleary9831]

@Lon Spector Thanks for proving my point.

[@r.c.whitaker296]

@@catherineleary9831 Lol isn't that the truth? I'm grateful to be married to a grown man and not a slobby little boy.

[@catherineleary9831]

@@r.c.whitaker296 Definitely have to be careful about who we marry🕵️ I have a good one also 😍

[@piabarbieri6539]

@@catherineleary9831 I assume you are Catholic?😉 They cover all my that in the pre-marriage class. My sister's instructor said basically the same thing " if he's an inconsiderate jerk now,he will get worse,not better".

[@r.whitaker3990]

@Lon Spector 1) I don't "have to do" anything. 2) My husband doesn't do passive-aggressive things like throw laundry around, because he is a mature adult. 3) There are no battles in my home. We are all on the same team.

[@Brianna-yh7iy]

When he is easily angered

[@numberone22459]

Omg that is my biggest pet peeve

[@PaulandMorgan]

Brianna that’s for sure a good one!

[@gabrielbermudez9012]

I can agree. Even though I am a male, I try my best to control my temper. Also nice name.

[@ameliasanders5681]

Yes! Especially when he always says “I’m so angry!” at what seems like the slightest thing!!! Like, figure out if you’re really angry or pick another word!

[@boobies9391]

Oh no! Feelings.

[@BattleOfSchruteFarms]

I disagree with number one: I consider myself a man of God and I personally don't like worship in church. I honestly just think it's boring and would rather just get into the sermon. I think worship should be saved for when you're alone or at least when you're with people you trust with whom your actually discuss your faith. Now, if I'm seeing a girl, and she wants me to come to worship, I would do that for her, but by myself, it's not my cup of tea. And in regard to the other points: I think it just comes down to confidence. You want a guy who's confident in himself and in his faith.

[@nekrocancer6141]

Synjin Ghost bruh they aint asking u whether u agree with them or not, they are just saying its attractive to see a dude worship

[@chriswalker2562]

Worship isn't only singing praises anyway and it can be silent as well.

[@sevp.8185]

I'm a woman and I agree with you. I'm more kinda the Bible study or sermon type. But worship just isn't my thing..... therefore I want a man who maybe also likes the word more than worship so that we can study together

[@jasonwilliams8321]

Statistically guys don't like the worship in most modern churches because it is " lovey dovey Jesus is my boyfriend" feminized crap.

[@ninalouw4151]

I agree with everything, Something I find unattractive is when they want to jump straight into a relationship and not start at a good friendship ....

[@PaulandMorgan]

Haha yeah that's a good one! :)

[@jsmith5443]

What would your advice be to me? I've never had a girlfriend before.

[@warpath7824]

Matthew 6:33 and also keep the Biblical Sabbath (Saturday).

[@jasonwilliams8321]

It's called friendzoning.

[@katiedrake76]

Great video, gals. It was great to see the female version of Christian Preferences! One of my turn offs is laziness. When a guy has no drive or care, or has to be repetitively asked to do something. I also have a topic suggestion. It's for those of us girls and guys who are waiting on a spouse, but are taking time to grow in God and be content first. It would be great to have a video of some tips and ways we could give our desires completely to God, be truly content, and not waste so much time thinking, dreaming, and wondering about our future spouse.

[@boobies9391]

I'm pretty sure that's just depression which one can't really control-

[@communistdaughter2861]

S a d n e s s Yeah. As a depressed person myself, I find it hard to be an rewarding relationship because my mental illness makes it difficult to put effort into almost anything. If you want to be in a relationship with me you have to be patient. I’ll love you so much, I’ll just have difficulty expressing it.

[@jsmith5443]

I have been lazy. Please pray for me to have more desire to do the things I need to do, and possibly invent things to help take away the need to do the undesirable things.

[@kelseyyoung4237]

I find it unattractive when a guy is not engaged in asking questions or making conversation. I feel like I am either the only one talking or it becomes an awkward silence. I want a man who is confident in themselves and has humor! One who isn’t afraid to show the joyous, goofy side.

[@PaulandMorgan]

😊😊

[@94BadBoyBoogie]

I'm an atheist but doesn't your holy book say something about not judging others lol

[@JesusISKingNoMatterWhat]

Were not judging them. It is Wisdom. I don't want to be marrying a man who cusses all the time, follow all these girls on igs, hit up the strip club, and don't go to church. I ain't judging. These are standards and common Respect. Wisdom and Integrity vs whatever I can get. Ride or Die for Jesus is Real👍❤🙏❤

[@nBasedAce]

@@JesusISKingNoMatterWhat Sorry, but what you are doing is definitely judging.

[@JesusISKingNoMatterWhat]

@@nBasedAce lol then you don't know your bible. Because judging and Wisdom and discernment are all different things. I practically was an atheist 3 years ago. It is a waste of time to believe that we alone have control of our lives and that God has no power. Then you haven't looked around because this is ending times in revelation. Praying you get saved because the world is lost.🙏❤❤❤

[@stuckmannen3876]

Read the whole passage 😉

[@Allen-a-tor]

One of the most mis-used scriptures in the whole Bible. That one and …..”God helps those who helps themselves.” Which is not even in the Bible. It’s found in first opinion chapter 5😝😝😝😝😝😝

[@anarebecca3715]

I easily lose interest when a guy only talks about himself without asking me about myself. Honey, I'm not your psychologist

[@jennasearle8299]

My thoughts on point 1...dont date a guy who looks constipated when worshipping.

[@PaulandMorgan]

Jenna Searle hahaha great advice!! 😂😂

[@Kelle0284]

Maybe he is constipated.

[@TheRestartLife]

Yes!! Finally! A video directed with advice for the guys! I’m so happy! Definitely a few things I can work on personally, but it seems like I’m doing pretty darn good in this area!

[@PaulandMorgan]

The Restart Life whoop! Haha I’m sure you are bro👊

[@anonymousdogg1559]

2:46 it’s crazy how times have changed, I legit don’t change my fashion because of how expensive male clothes is, women get these great deals on clothes all the TIME! I’ve proven to my own sister that the cheapest shirt you’ll ever find as a man is a plain T-shirt at target $6, then you gotta buy 2 pairs of jeans and that’s $65+ each, then nice shoes that don’t ruin the fit are gonna either save you money and hurt your feet (vans) or break your wallet (Jordan 1s, common projects). I’m out here sacrificing my wardrobe in hopes to buy my future wife a beautiful home for our family. Clothes add up in $$$. Just my 2 cents.

[@cazzystar]

La-di-da-di, I'm going harder than coming out the closet to conservative Christian fathers - Tyler, Creator of GOLF

[@Brothatscrazy628]

Wait hold on isn’t the girl on the left wearing a shirt made by Tyler the creator which last time I checked isn’t exactly the most Christian sin free person in the world I mean I’m not a Christian bigot so I don’t care just saying

[@d.b.coopers.strongest.soldier]

F I N A L L Y someone noticed. It’s pretty obvious she either just saw it at Zumiez and thought it was cool, or has only listened to a few songs off of Flower Boy.

[@hannahsalyer8228]

One thing I find very unattractive is when guys disrespect authority. Whether it's their boss, parents, or anyone in authority over them. Like i get we all say or do things without thinking but to intentionally disobey and dishonor someone who has authority over you is not cool.

[@cupofcozy708]

Aside from a boss at a job, NO ONE has authority over an adult. Not the parents, not the partner...no one

[@reversecoyote6489]

“I want someone who stands out and isn’t afraid to be seen” Me: okay(wears full crusader knight armor to church)

[@philtp8032]

So during time of worship, when you’re supposed to be focused on God ... you’re checking out your guy and/or other guys? What happens when you see a guy praising so hard that you get distracted in your attraction? Is that not your way of lusting after him? Is he not tempting you to sin with his attractive worshiping?! Maybe he needs to dress badly while worshiping so he won’t tempt the Godly women during worship time. Yeah way to really love worship and give your full attention to Jesus 😒

[@pauljackson3914]

😂😂 I’m sure she “was taken out of context” that’s usually the excuse to undo contradiction without admitting to it

[@milkcereal1988]

😂

[@fredthomasowenslll4169]

I was wondering for a new video idea "can I be a christian and join a fraternities and sororities".

[@PaulandMorgan]

Good topic for sure!

[@ChristsChemist]

Fred Thomas Owens lll kzbin.info/www/bejne/mWWyanWHaq2mhpY

[@meganbailey4092]

For me a guy, who is only a gentleman to girls he likes or is dating and not other women as well. Not something I find attractive.

[@commodoreNZ]

Hugh Heffner was a gentleman to every bimbo in his playboy mansion, not just his wife.

[@jasonwilliams8321]

Being a gentleman is one thing. Showing interest is another. If you aren't good looking to that guy he will have no interest.

[@belencita9526]

these girls: we want a man that shows his emotions 🥰 uWuuu also these girls: but don’t be too vulnerable EW what are you human? don’t cry yikes, thats weird. be a man!! 🙄

[@d.b.coopers.strongest.soldier]

W H E E Z E

[@milkcereal1988]

They got too many high standards for dudes..I’m scared

[@marinai.girgis2657]

Someone who isn't confident in themselves, constantly projecting their insecurities on other people

[@fayenwolf]

I've been a Christian man for about 15 years (now married for 5) and would love to give you both some feedback/discussion as being married long-term will definitely change your outlook on things very much. 1. - In regards to "worship" it's not that some of us men don't like worship. It's that we prefer a more authentic kind of worship. So saying "we won't like Heaven" is a ridiculous claim, cause in Heaven, we won't be shamelessly idolizing Hillsong or Bethels top-ten songs that repeat the same lyrics 70x for a 12 minute session. Heaven will be utter perfection, down to the worship. And it will be diverse in theme and genre. Not the same genre of melodramatic guitars and synth were every song sounds like the last. Church corporate worship has become a cut-copy-and-paste culture, robbed of creativity and inclusion of diverse genres and styles. At least in the mainstream. So shunning any guy that doesn't like worship, try approaching him with the heart of Christ, and see his reasons why, rather than laughing and or shaming him for it, cause they might be legitimate. You say "who cares what people think about you" but yet, you seem to care and think/have opinions about men who don't want to participate in said church's flavor of worship. A tad hypocritical if you ask me, but I'll let you both slide on that. 2. - "Guys spice up your fashion." I would tend to agree, as I like to like to be presentable and put together myself, but at the end of the day, this is worldly. No man is going to browse pintrest to appease anyone's eyeballs. Lest he's very hipster or emasculated. You ladies would have rejected John the Baptist, or any one of the disciples, even Jesus Himself. Christ respects humility more than the latest fashion trends. This point made you girls made sounds extremely of the world and very superficial. His heart should matter the most. 3. - I agree for the most part. But every man and woman in Christ is going to have an off-season or a stumble. Be careful to not let this get in the way of grace, and being there for your partner. Remember that a marriage takes three. You, your man and Christ. I fell into agnosticism for a year and had deep questions that the church and leadership failed to answer. Any other so-called "christian woman" would have abandoned me, divorced me, and kicked me to the curb. But my wife trusted Christ, and I have been back in the faith even more passionately than before thanks to Gods grace and patience in her. She looked inside, rather than what was outside and temporal. 4. - 110% agree. No argument there. Just don't abuse this by using a man's ability to listen to throw fleshly and carnal words at him. 5. - Agreed this can be very annoying. They might have had a bad day, or suffer from some anxiety in the moment. It's hard to tell. This kind of behavior can communicate a multitude of things, so it's best not to assume the worst lest you want to burn a bridge by assumptions. Approach them and be direct in asking why they seem so distant, it can go a long way. 6. - Agreed. Honesty and openness is a beautiful thing. 7. - Gossip is anti-gospel. Agreed. 8. - God sets passions upon peoples hearts and even gives the gifts and talents which can be used as tools for outreach or ministry or to bring God into a social sphere of influence or realm that He was not previously. I see nothing wrong with this. God is not a narcissist. He doesn't need to be talked about 24/7 to feel validated. He's God. To ONLY talk about these things without any knowledge of God then I would say, yes I agree. Thanks for reading! I hope this fosters a healthy discussion. Stay Blessed!

[@Kelle0284]

You say that spicing up your fashion can be considered worldly. There's nothing wrong with being worldly. You need to broaden your horizons.

[@lynnetterojas4073]

dude worship isn’t about music. doesn’t matter if the songs are repetitive. worship God w your own words.

[@KatieGirl07]

It's unattractive to me when a man tells me how to dress and tries to hide it under the facade of "Christianity."

[@catherineleary9831]

Ugh,yes. Avoid the controller! They just get worse.

[@d.b.coopers.strongest.soldier]

Exactly, fuck these arbitrary concepts of purity.

[@gillesdupouy8357]

It's unattractive to me when people tell me how to behave and try to hide it under the facade of "Christianity"

[@vertigofx2451]

How dare a man have other interest than just god. How dare he talk about his hobbies outside of church. Yeah thats just awful.

[@seanbarry9561]

I'm a Christian and I agree with you

[@ethanhennigan6933]

This is good advice 👌 I'll be sure to put these things into practice. Paul and Morgan I've been watching your videos for a while and I just want to thank you for your honesty and purity in talking about these tough subjects. You guys help me find clarity in hard times in my life. Thank you so much and never stop hearing from God and giving us y'all's wisdom. Thanks again.

[@theredhead1900]

Agree with you..

[@PaulandMorgan]

Ethan Hennigan aw thank you so much! You are so kind. We are super thankful to have you in the p&m Fam! Thanks for your support. 💜

[@hannahrose743]

This video made me smile. Great job, ladies!

[@PaulandMorgan]

Hannah De Jesus yay!! 😄

[@dominikahlivkova6226]

When he wants to be always right, when he is a master of excuses and have a hard time to acknowledge his mistakes and grow from them. When he does literally nothing to build his character, life, no vision, just playing games (either on PC or with other girls) and lack of responsibility to his basic duties.

[@PaulandMorgan]

Phew, all good ones for sure!

[@catherineleary9831]

Bad breath. Poor hygiene. Flirting/being handsy. Lying. Short temper (he WILL be violent, sooner or later,if he is short tempered). Talking about sex. Talking about his ex girlfriend. Disrespectful to ANYONE. Reluctant to introduce you to his family. Addicted to drugs/alcohol/sports/video games/porn etc. I am very blessed to have a good husband who has none of these issues. He is definitely better than I deserve.

[@bloodrainicorn6193]

Because when you’re supposed to be worshipping you’re checking the guys out and judging them on their superficial fashion sense. God I’m glad I’m not this stupid!!!!

[@Diviance]

I don't think I have ever, in my life, been so happy to be considered unattractive to someone.

[@APPR3NTIC3]

Trust me, they have no room to talk. They have no personality, just a religion.

[@HaveCarapace]

@@APPR3NTIC3 (surprise, it's not the one you thought!)

[@d.b.coopers.strongest.soldier]

Me too on god

[@APPR3NTIC3]

@@HaveCarapace what? If I ask you nicely could you give context?

[@jsmith5443]

You don't like christian women, or you don't like a certain person?

[@jessiekgomotsomoabi538]

Oh yer the worship part is so true!!! It is totally attractive to see a guy vulnerable before God and caring what other people think. I think guys tend to think that is a woman thing,I dunno.

[@JoeSmith-tj9uc]

May God bless you ladies in abundance of grace and Mercy

[@PaulandMorgan]

Joe Smith thank you so much! 😄

[@tabxria9923]

May God bless you as well, Joe.

[@bobbimke82]

"god bless" ==> won't even pay for a free-cup-o-coffee. While (so-called) "christians" continue visting hospitals, doctors, dentists and opticians, I'll continue mocking the age-old-scamer's bullshit store of "religion."

[@MayvaAva]

Personally, the most unattractive thing to me is when someone is super into god, like just marry god then damn

[@eternal7912]

I mean I'm a christian and I definitely see God as an important part of my life, but definitely get turned off when a woman is into nothing but God. Like calm down, get hobby, have some fun. The Bible doesn't say you have to devote every waking second of your life to God and God alone. He should just be the most important thing in your life.

[@MikahandLia]

Thank you Morgan and Maria! I am currently married but it is always a good reminder to stay attractive to the one I said "I do" to. I appreciate how you keep your conversations centered around Christ. Question: Do you find swearing unattractive?

[@PaulandMorgan]

Mikah and Lia amen! That’s such a good point. Just because you’re married doesn’t mean you get to stop trying. 😊. Personally I do not find it attractive. -Morgan.

[@Brianna-yh7iy]

I encourage you to meditate on Ephesians 4:29 and check out this link! www.openbible.info/topics/foul_language God Bless hope this helps!☺️

[@tabxria9923]

Oh yes!

[@MikahandLia]

Thanks Morgan! Yeah Brianna, I've found it somewhat difficult to justify swearing as a Jesus follower. Thanks! Such great verses.

[@lame_emo4011]

I find swearing hot I also like punk guys

[@jazzyrobot]

This might be the funniest video on your channel. The disclaimer at the start, the chairs at the end and you two are so clearly sisters- the same reactions and level of weirdness (in a good way! Me & my sister are the same!) I was just laughing along with you. Loved it!

[@PaulandMorgan]

jazzyrobot 💁🏻‍♀️💁🏻‍♀️

[@PaulandMorgan]

Hahah thank you so much! 😄😂 we have fun together for sure.

[@tabxria9923]

ooooh man yeah we’re ridiculous together. And this was the EDITED video 😂🤦🏼‍♀️

[@jazzyrobot]

@@tabxria9923Hahaha! That's brilliant.

[@APPR3NTIC3]

Ladies, trust me, the moment you open your mouth, any non-worshiper will run for the hills. Also, your faith doesn't make you unattractive, your faces and personalities do that just fine. DOUBLE THREAT!

[@vikavolt4]

LMAO HAHAHAHA

[@norezenable]

So the bible says: I suffer not a woman to teach, nor to usurp authority over the man, but to be in silence. Not very christian of you to be trying to teach men or demanding that they listen to you at any time. Also I'm very distracted by the tattoo, which the Bible has this to say about: Ye shall not make any cuttings in your flesh for the dead, nor print any marks upon you: I am the Lord.

[@GrubbyPigeon]

John I genuinely hate people like you.

[@TyVodd]

This is from 1 Timothy brother, which is all about the training/ordination of women in the church. Not in daily life

[@thechildofgodpodcast116]

If any of these two are going to judge men on fashion, then we should judge them first cause what they wearing is horrible too

[@alohilanizapata53]

First of all, it was nice to see your sis in a vid with you. Second, I agree with everything y'all said, thank you! I hope guys actually watched this

[@PaulandMorgan]

😊❤️

[@TimothyMichael]

I took notes lol, now all i need is to start a family with a Christian girl :) i wish it could happen instantly, finding a Christian girl is hard too!

[@danatanner2390]

Unfortunately, Christian is a vague word these days. The search is indeed a tough one. However, God knows what he is doing and will send your wife your way. In HIS perfect time

[@TimothyMichael]

@@danatanner2390 thank you for that encouragement, i really needed it today

[@danatanner2390]

God wants us to be happy with our spouse! Each of us has a better half out there somewhere. Time, place, past, present or future... nothing is too much for God! Allow him to guide you into the direction he wants you to go. EVERYTHING he does is for a reason. I can testify to that!! God sure is good❤ Never forget friend❤

[@kelpokonsultti]

how’s it going today?

[@idiotbun3552]

I am a born-again Christian and I like my shabby fashion, I like when sometimes I talk about some small things like cars, some silly games like chess etc. I want someone who could just be attracted to Christ in me. That's it.

[@taylorjean3561]

That ending...😂🤣😂 You two are definitely sisters! 😁😄

[@PaulandMorgan]

Taylor Jean hehehe 😄💁🏻‍♀️

[@emmagrace385]

Thanks so much for all the videos y’all make!! It’s great to have pure and encouraging content out there!

[@angelflower176]

A bad communicator or a guy with no empathy, no kindess or kind of rude/arrogant.

[@PaulandMorgan]

Yeah, that can be tough.

[@samuelplacensia9979]

Well let’s see, how do you treat guys that are fat and ugly? Do you give them the same kind of smile and kindness and flirty attitude as you would an attractive man ? Probably not.

[@caroelizau]

Hahahaha I loved this! For real 😂😂😂😂 These were spot on, especially the first one!!! 🙌🙌🙌🙌 For sure don't want a man who doesn't worship!!! Also something I find *attractive* is a guy who can talk to people about the Lord in any situation. I'm a kind of reserved person to begin with, so when someone I am with can snap out a Bible verse and talk to someone about Jesus without having to think about it... I'm attracted whether he's good looking or not! 😂🤭 anyway... Loved it! 💖

[@PaulandMorgan]

Caroline Urena ameennnn girl!! So true! I feel like Paul can do that really well and it’s HAWT. 😉😂😛.

[@caroelizau]

He and Michael have for sure upped my standards in what to look for in a Godly man! 🤗

[@bobbimke82]

"can snap out a Bible verse and talk to someone about Jesus without having to think about it..." ==> Souynds EXATLY like "DuckSpeak", as described in Orwell's 1984, whereby you seek a "Doubleplus good duckspeaker", thus : "Newspeak word duckspeak, meaning "to quack like a duck". (cf. www.orwelltoday.com/duckspeak.shtml )

[@jsmith5443]

@@PaulandMorgan I like when women do it too.

[@abigailschilke5990]

when he doesn't know how to be friends with girls- like either he likes the girl or won't talk to her. UGH it frusterates me SO much

[@LivingTrancefully]

Abigail Schilke - that’s because that doesn’t exist dude

[@LivingTrancefully]

Abigail Schilke - unless you want to stay friend zone, don’t enter friend zone. best friends only can become lovers naturally, it’s not something you start off with with someone you are attracted to. If attracted, start dating. That doesn’t necessarily mean be physical.

[@kevindavis4709]

Okay you got me on the worshiping part. Now understand speaking for myself I love soaking in the message of the songs applied to my life and listening to God‘s word helping me become a better Godly man. See ladies it is a blessing worshiping God with music but even more better when our lifestyle reflect praise and worship. I learned that over the years I’m still learning 🙂

[@maddolynnewhite6141]

Oh my gosh #1 speaks to me!! Nothing is more attractive then a man who praises!! It is such a turn off when a guy doesn't praise!

[@Kelle0284]

What if he's not religious? Does every non-religious guy turn you off?

[@alaynagrace8843]

You can always put what I'm thinking into words Morgan! Can't wait to watch this video. 😁

[@PaulandMorgan]

Alayna Grace aww hehe yay! 😄

[@alaynagrace8843]

@Lon Spector I often forget to comment after the video is done. So I Just comment before hand, unless I have questions, or I'm confused about something that is said. That's all. 🙂

[@leiahgracemccaslanddowney2085]

I find it unattractive when a guy figures that he is too cool to do things like dance, worship, bow their head, raise your hands etc

[@Kelle0284]

Not all guys are into stuff like that. It doesn't mean they would make a bad partner.

[@marquisgomez9390]

Could you guys makes a video on being light hearted?

[@PaulandMorgan]

Marquis Gomez maybe so! 😄

[@idiotbun3552]

I think you are asking too much from them. They can not.

[@godsdaughter_1234]

When men can't communicate and they can't be satisfied with one woman.

[@buikejesus]

Can you elaborate on the communication?

[@godsdaughter_1234]

@@buikejesus When there has been an argument and they won't express how they feel and allow themselves to be open and vulnerable.

[@buikejesus]

@@godsdaughter_1234 Okay, thanks for the explanation!

[@catherineleary9831]

Avoid cheaters. They only get worse.

[@mike80436]

Some of y'all sisters have ridiculous standards. Fashion? really? What is that going to do with having a life long God centered relationship? lopsided priorities in my opinion.

[@cathyivanova]

Can’t agree with this more!🙌🏻 One thing I find unattractive in guys is when they try too hard to please you. Like, they are not themselves and they aren’t natural. God created us all so amazing and we girls like guys for who they are!

[@bex_b]

Loved this video I can totally relate on all you guy's points. But one thing I find unattractive about christian guys is they guy tells someone you know they like you but the haven't said anything because they think my parents might be strict or they are nervous.

[@SavedSis]

Passive men. Guys that don’t take control and let the woman take the initiative. It leaves the woman playing both roles in the relationship which eventually becomes exhausting.

[@PaulandMorgan]

Very true!!

[@rianenelson4852]

I lov tht u switched it up, & did one directed @ guys. Admittedly the fact tht guys r bad listeners, & don’t lik 2 show a serious emotion might hav ben brot a lil strong, but tht’s girls 4 u, even tho most guys hate drama. We r dramatic! I agree it’s something we gals find unattractive. We hav a hard time understanding whr guys r coming from. It’s just not something we can relate 2. As long as they r willing 2 @ least try 2 work on it, than we can just try 2 b more understanding, & encouraging 2 them n thr endeavors. Gr8 job girls!!! U should definitely do this more often.

[@nataliehalling]

You both laugh really similarly!😂 I love it! I have a little sister... she's 4 minutes younger. We laugh a lot too.🙂💕

[@nataliehalling]

Faternal.😁

[@PaulandMorgan]

Love it! Heheh :D

[@tabbyrh978]

Honestly, #4 is like my biggest one haha I understand that guys' brains are different than ours and they tend to focus on one thing deeply and have a harder time switching back and forth between trains of thought but seriously, if you care about someone, you're going to take the time to listen to them, really listen, not with the intent to respond necessarily but with the intent to get to know the other person. A guys who listens to me when I'm talking, like actually listens with undivided attention has instantly shot up WAYYYYY high on my interest-radar hahaha And that last one, oof, that just confuses me to no end...it's like how deep is your relationship with Christ if you barely talk about Him? Like one guy I know who professes to be a Christian knows LOADS about tech gadgets, sports, food, movies but we've only had like one or two conversations about the things that really matter and it just baffles me haha I agree with you ladies....let's step it up, men, and strive for excellence in a world that's content with mediocrity. Another thing I find reallyyyy unattractive in a guy is when he calls himself a "gym rat" and is OBSESSED with working out....like OB.SESS.ED. staying fit and healthy is one thing but going overboard with it is literally one of my pet peeves hahaha So neat getting to meet your sister, Morgan!!! Love you guys and keep shining

[@PaulandMorgan]

Hahah I love all of this girl. Yes! Love you very much! Also, I feel like you and my sister would seriously get along! Hahah. One day you'll just meet the whole fam! :D Thanks for your comment lady!

[@You-ul8qw]

For your 5th point, almost all of that in my experience is simply shyness. Guys would love it if they could continue talking about whatever you were chatting about online, or at least I would. Most of the time I have to try to reinitiate things like this myself, and as a shy guy it's super hard ;-;

[@jjj7218]

I have one at church now I'm attracted to and I am at fault on number 5. Thanks you guys. Lets see how things turn around 😅

[@hilary1014]

I could say i'd be annoyed if a guy didn't listen to me, but that would make me a hypocrite because sometimes i don't listen either. I do agree on number 6 about hiding your emotions as i don't particularly care for that. Man, i must be a different kind of chick because other than number 6 and 7 nothing else that you two mentioned would bother me at all :) Nice to hear what you two think about guys for a change! One thing that is unattractive to me is if a guy is clingy or gets jealous easily.

[@PaulandMorgan]

A clingy guy is definitely not cute! Thanks for your comment girl :)

[@danielnilson6115]

I was getting confident until number 5 because that's my biggest problem on this list. Thanks Morgan! I'm gonna work on that!

[@DrowSorcerer]

There is probably no person more unattractive that one unwilling to appreciate and value the differences on the other. Also people screaming at you for no reason whatsoever

[@magicker8052]

Demon1: err Lord Satan we have a problem Satan: oh what's that? Demon1: the numbers are really down. They have stopped killing each other in the name of that Jesus fella you invented. People are just being nice to each other for the sake of being nice. Satan: Fear not I have a plan. Demon1: Please shared my Lord Satan: I am going to unleash a wave of Christians on KZbin. Demon1: err how will that help? Satan: As soon as everyone realises how annoying an eternity will be trapped in Heaven with that lot they will be queuing up to join us down here.

[@GabrielleCameron]

Really appreciated Maria's insights and unique perspectives!

[@PaulandMorgan]

😊😊

[@tabxria9923]

Gabrielle Cameron thank you! ♥️

[@milkcereal1988]

@@PaulandMorgan Tyler The Creator is the designer of that shirt your wearing and he’s bisexual ❤️💜💙 did you know that? I thought you didn’t like the LGBT community..but yet your wearing a shirt designed by a bisexual man .

[@livingunashamed4869]

Good stuff, don't want to dress like the rest of the world though or wear what the world deems as fashionable.

[@edgarmatzinger9742]

@Lon Spector What has wearing something or not, to do with your god being in you?

[@edgarmatzinger9742]

What has _"don't want to dress like the rest of the world"_ to do with being religious? IMNSHO, nothing.

[@edgarmatzinger9742]

@Lon Spector Any proof?

[@rowanjude2259]

girl on the left wearing a golf shirt like tyler the creator isnt the face of gays going to hell tehe

[@jimreeve8240]

You young ladies are so cute. I wish you could see me in person. because of everything you have said in this video, I am. The only thing is, I am much older than you both. I've lived and learned very much how to treat a woman. Enough so, that my future wife whom I am still waiting to meet I think, and I am in no way bragging. Is going to really appreciate and love me. This video was 4 years ago. Well, you two young ladies are so nice and cool. Never stop being yourselves for anyone, not even a man. And only a man then will treat you like God intended it to be. God bless you for all eternity. Now I am still learning about women. And God is forever teaching me new things every day. I love to learn everything I can about life and God and what Jesus wants me to be. The Holy Trinity has my love and my heart for all eternity.

[@Lovlytune]

As a Christian woman, I agree with all of this! :)

[@PaulandMorgan]

[@christyn1459]

Hey Maria and Morgan!

[@PaulandMorgan]

Christy Northup hey there! 😄

[@tabxria9923]

Christy Northup Heyyy

[@promisemoua7687]

Just subscribed!! Y’all so amazing godly fearing women!

[@PaulandMorgan]

Promise Moua aww thank you so much! 😄💜

[@waterwiz44]

Your sister promoting tyler the creator’s brand? You guys do realize he’s gay right?

[@tabxria9923]

Peyton Flesch He’s not confirmed gay, either way, it wouldn’t change that I liked this line of clothes from quite a few years ago. It’s not new. I can appreciate art whether or not I support someone’s life decisions. If we lived that religiously harsh, then you would have to burn anything you’ve ever bought from target or any other place that supports LGBTQ+.

[@cardsinweirdplaces1020]

This video touched my emotions and made me cry. Who else is glad the Raptors won the NBA championship?

[@milkcereal1988]

Me

[@clayrsa86]

0:08 and I'm regretting clicking on this video...

[@shelby8474]

Know why god is good at listening? Because he literally never talks back. Great comparison

[@APPR3NTIC3]

Something that doesn't exist can't talk. Pretty simple if you *think* about it.

[@shelby8474]

@@APPR3NTIC3 yep 😝

[@brianrichie5278]

That is where being a Charismatic can turn people away. I agreed with them the whole video, but the point is that men should be in the Word, learning theology and constantly praying. "Listening to God" is not a useful term.

[@APPR3NTIC3]

@@brianrichie5278 it's not useful because God doesn't exist.

[@Em-fz5uh]

I think he's too busy talking with Santa and the easter bunny.

[@kristennnnn0902]

Aww you guys look so much alike!!! So cute!!! Great video!!! 😀

[@PaulandMorgan]

Kristen Grace aww thanks! 😄💜

[@JesusISKingNoMatterWhat]

True. I have only been saved for 3 years and my standards ar better now. I used to date all the men who were disrespectful, now loving myself I want a Husband. Christian men only, their sexier because their Values and Morals. And not the fake Christian men either❤❤❤👍💃

[@valorandstrength2829]

I don’t like “nice guy” syndrome (“I’m going to act like your friend and therefore I deserve a relationship with you”). As far as worship, New Jerusalem is described as a city, which means there will be activity apart from what the church typically describes as “worship.”

[@SuubiNamubiru]

You look like Elsa and Anna😍

[@tabxria9923]

Suubi Namubiru AW ♥️♥️♥️ thank you

[@stephenwa7417]

The emotional part i disagree with, guys are supposed to be the rock and be stoic, maybe if a tragedy happens he can cry but for the most part it is not optimal