8 Things Men Notice First About a Woman & Find VERY ATTRACTIVE | Dating Advice for Women

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Mat Boggs

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@matboggs 3 ай бұрын
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@MyDarling572
@MyDarling572 Ай бұрын
Thank you so much for your videos, I'm happy that I'm subscribed to your channel. One thing I notice first about a man is the look in his eyes. Even if he's not looking at me. You can tell if he's arrogant or a cheerful person or a listener. Also a nice smile confirms it. If he never smiles, that is very repelling to me.
@MsKalamity
@MsKalamity 3 ай бұрын
What I notice about men first (I'm in my early 60s) 1 - Confidence without arrogance. 2 - Kind eyes and kindness to others (the waitress, etc.). 3 - Humor that isn't centered around criticism of others. 4 - Love of animals and nature. 5 - Affection and validation. 6 - The desire to communicate well with active listening. 7 - A genuine and frequent smile. Addendum - without honesty, none of these other things matter.
@annhysell6064
@annhysell6064 3 ай бұрын
Well said. I'm in my late 50's and I couldn't agree more.
@sandramichaud8033
@sandramichaud8033 3 ай бұрын
I’d add respect.
@inneelvina6614
@inneelvina6614 3 ай бұрын
I’m in my early 60 as well single and confident 😃
@jennamasaki2134
@jennamasaki2134 3 ай бұрын
Thank you for this... wow, I agree 110%... you said it so well... ty ❤
@josochi9410
@josochi9410 3 ай бұрын
I’d add in good hygiene and care of one’s health.
@frankvaden772
@frankvaden772 Ай бұрын
I'm in my 80's and I love any man who smiles and is polite to me. Small talk is so nice, too. It all means "I see you; you exist in my world" and that is so appreciated!
@MagdoleenRafla
@MagdoleenRafla 3 ай бұрын
Best thing I love about a man is him being kind ,respectful and my safety is his top priority.
@Dancediva240
@Dancediva240 3 ай бұрын
That's the FIRST thing you notice really??😂
@evaleo2080
@evaleo2080 Ай бұрын
I totally agree
@stormyyxx
@stormyyxx 27 күн бұрын
your safety should be YOUR top priority, not anyone elses
@carolefletcher
@carolefletcher 15 күн бұрын
@@stormyyxx However, if your date doesn't give a shit how you're getting home, that's a red light.
@r.lynnsteinberg2775
@r.lynnsteinberg2775 3 ай бұрын
Whayt I love about a man is when he's showing that he's really listening, and when he's got smiling eyes that show his true self and openness to me.
@CarmenSpatz
@CarmenSpatz 2 ай бұрын
I respect a man who is loyal to his partner in his heart, soul, mind and actions, not because of who she is, but because that is who he is.
@EE-qn4ks
@EE-qn4ks 18 күн бұрын
I married one of those men.
@eveefstathiou3714
@eveefstathiou3714 Күн бұрын
There is nothing sexier than a man in love
@giadacaroli4302
@giadacaroli4302 3 ай бұрын
I notice when the man is being fully present, smells nice, a good smile and sense of humor..
@peihsinghsu8698
@peihsinghsu8698 2 ай бұрын
A man who holds the door, and good manners, and appropriate arts and good sense of humour
@julietjohn3161
@julietjohn3161 2 ай бұрын
How he treats other people, kindness factor
@marytong8013
@marytong8013 3 ай бұрын
Just as men like a woman who is confident, healthy, kind, women also like those qualities. I like a man who looks and feels masculine in the way they move and look physically. To have physical skills including intelligence. To have physical strength A healthy man, well maintained, clean and groomed. Not overweight, yet without being obsessive about building muscles and too preoccupied with their physical appearance. A man who is not just in their head, but capable of feeling. Able to open up when needed. To feel empathy, insightful, sufficiently sensitive and capable of love. Have done the work of personal growth to have sufficient self understanding and capable of being responsible for their reactions. A man who is reliable and trustworthy is a treasure.
@lynj9088
@lynj9088 3 ай бұрын
Honesty is #1 in my opinion. Kindness, gentleness, compassion, love of life, eyes that draw me in, romantic, handsome in my opinion, loves children, family & dogs. My man is all of these things and more! I am VERY BLESSED!!!!!
@phildendron4702
@phildendron4702 2 ай бұрын
cleanliness, simplicity. authenticity.
@KimHarry-xx6tt
@KimHarry-xx6tt 3 ай бұрын
What draws me to a man, is his natural good looks, his smile, his scent (aftershave), his confidence, his politeness, his kindness.
@WavedancerWesterlyfulmar
@WavedancerWesterlyfulmar 2 ай бұрын
When we met we were both in a time of life where we were both happy single and not looking for a date. Relaxed not on the hunt. We are together nearly 31 years, married 28 years to my soulmate
@Gloriagal78
@Gloriagal78 2 ай бұрын
I love this!
@yurimaperez1145
@yurimaperez1145 3 ай бұрын
Smile, kindness, smell, easy to talk to
@TheSpiegel3
@TheSpiegel3 Ай бұрын
My attraction to a man is his eyes, his voice, his expressions, his smell, his sense of humor, his appearance, The way he treats people, his conversations.
@roxibisby6985
@roxibisby6985 3 ай бұрын
I have a serious weakness for highly intelligent men. That is the #1 thing that gets my attention.
@DsnyLuv
@DsnyLuv 2 ай бұрын
Same here😊
@yeniaustariztosca
@yeniaustariztosca 2 ай бұрын
You are a sapiosexual! And yes, intelligence is sexy
@DebNKY
@DebNKY 2 ай бұрын
Yes!
@brightemerald3924
@brightemerald3924 Ай бұрын
Same here. That was the attraction to my now husband. So smart even though he was not physically my type.
@ileniepowell
@ileniepowell Ай бұрын
Me too!!!❤
@SuperCaliforniaBarbi
@SuperCaliforniaBarbi 16 күн бұрын
A feeling of being safe. I adore a quick wit and warm laughter.
@awakenacres
@awakenacres 3 ай бұрын
I’m an introvert, so a man that can make me laugh and feel at ease is #1. Good looks and a full head of hair is#2!
@Loveyloveeeee
@Loveyloveeeee 2 ай бұрын
You sound just like me. 😂 now where is this man? lol
@maggieb4736
@maggieb4736 Ай бұрын
​@@Loveyloveeeee, I got him!😂
@carolefletcher
@carolefletcher 15 күн бұрын
Yeah, hair is nice. And a flat stomach. Good luck with that.
@robedinwhite
@robedinwhite 2 ай бұрын
Yeah, it’s similar: 1) well- groomed 2) confidence w/ humility ( big turn-on) 3)direct eye gaze- no shiftiness; expresses honesty4)gentleman manners 5)active in life- seeks out fun as well as responsibility 6) sensitive to/ concerned about disadvantaged
@BRyan-qk8qc
@BRyan-qk8qc Ай бұрын
Kindness and a witty sense of humor….a must!
@ChristinaChrist-3999
@ChristinaChrist-3999 2 ай бұрын
His honesty is 1000 percent attractive. Being truthful keeps integrity in every area of life. Happy allowing love to BE❣️
@brandyange1753
@brandyange1753 Ай бұрын
I've always found the combination of intellect and humor really attractive. Quick wit and smart jokes are a quick way to get my attention lol.
@MissHannah2036
@MissHannah2036 Ай бұрын
yes, I've always had relatively intelligent or knowledgeable partners. Knowing the man is intelligent and has a sense of humor is the bomb. I relate much better to those types of people and men.
@maggieb4736
@maggieb4736 Ай бұрын
Same. My husband is smart and funny. He's also one of the most capable people I've ever met, pretty much good at everything. He's masculine but is also kind, fairly sensitive, and enjoys helping people. He's honest and has integrity, very well thought of and respected by his colleagues---*I* respect the hell out of him. And ok, I'm not gonna lie---he's tall and handsome too. I have no idea how I got so lucky, just glad I of it---and I tell him often. Never take a good man for granted.
@lisabadger603
@lisabadger603 Ай бұрын
I heard it said that if a man can make you laugh, he can make you do anything....
@maggieb4736
@maggieb4736 Ай бұрын
@@lisabadger603 , there's nothing like a good sense of humor (witty, funny people are intelligent). My husband makes me laugh every day and I can tell he *enjoys* making me laugh, which also makes me feel good.
@sheilawoodbury2515
@sheilawoodbury2515 19 күн бұрын
I agree! I love that in a man!
@rezotydnic
@rezotydnic 3 ай бұрын
8 things a man notices first about a woman and finds very attractive. #1. Confidence. Freedom being who you are. #2. Genuine smile and laughter. Openess to life. #3. Feminine movements. Sway of hip, brushing hair back. #4. Presence and kindness towards others. Giving compliments. #5. Health. Taking care of yourself. #6. Smell. Your scent, perfume. #7. Makeup and nails. Do for you. Natural. Not too much. #8. Authenticity. What I find highly attractive is the man's smile. His eyes as well as they tell stories. His kindness and acting like and being a gentleman.
@MM-em6ly
@MM-em6ly 2 ай бұрын
Omg thank you. I like to have something written as I listen
@rezotydnic
@rezotydnic 2 ай бұрын
@@MM-em6ly you're welcome. Me too.
@BethBurns68
@BethBurns68 2 ай бұрын
Thank you for adding this! I watched the whole video, but I, too, like it written down.
@DaviniaVanhille
@DaviniaVanhille Ай бұрын
In order for a woman to apply number 1 through 8 might needs a few contenders. I’m disappointed with this post. Im in the industrie of self care for both women and men. Happy life, happy wife starts with the men’s ability and strength to understand the opposite gender. No matter what perfume you wear there will always be a better perfume, a newer perfume and a wider brighter smile. Authenticity and self-care will attract your proper partner. Men also fake it until they make it and it might not be with you.Staying true to yourselves is key. Nobody needs surprises after a few months of dating:)
@susancarol4735
@susancarol4735 2 ай бұрын
Spiritually awake!
@theresawienecke7860
@theresawienecke7860 3 ай бұрын
Confidence in who they are and kindness
@carmenmichaelian8307
@carmenmichaelian8307 2 ай бұрын
I notice how a man carries himself, his smile and his eyes. I was walking across the street today and a nice looking guy was coming towards me. I looked up and he looked up and we both smiled at each other. I enjoyed that short encounter.
@WavedancerWesterlyfulmar
@WavedancerWesterlyfulmar 2 ай бұрын
“ do you have a sense of humour?” Best intro ever. Not hi my name is or chat up lines. Gets straight to the point of your personality
@lynnebattaglia-triggs1042
@lynnebattaglia-triggs1042 2 ай бұрын
So many men that think they have a sense of humor, or say they are funny: just aren’t.
@MissHannah2036
@MissHannah2036 Ай бұрын
and you have to have a similar sense of humor or at least get each other. I am over banter you need to be able to have a proper conversation with humor thrown in.
@georgiabelle5176
@georgiabelle5176 Ай бұрын
Confidence, intelligence,and sense of humor.
@joannebelle3662
@joannebelle3662 3 ай бұрын
Self Confidence & a Sense of Humor are the most attractive qualities in a man.
@Elena_D01xox
@Elena_D01xox 3 ай бұрын
I always notice a Smile #1 - not just any old smile though, the type of smile where they smile with their eyes and you can see the light beaming from them and the cute creases in the corners then the smile radiates from their eyes and mouth and lights up their whole face 😊... it just shows a true genuineness, Kindness and happiness in my opinion.....Then if they can make you belly laugh your onto a winner! 🏅❤
@michelle4688
@michelle4688 3 ай бұрын
And everything you said about women is the same for me, for what I find attractive in a man. I'd add someone who appears strong and to take care of his health - Im very much NOT into skinny dudes who aren't physically capable, or who do not prioritize their health. Someone who invests effort in himself and cares how he comes across in all ways - even with how he dresses - it communicates alot about his self-image and thus how he'll show up in relationship.
@kristalynncreates
@kristalynncreates 3 ай бұрын
What I notice the most is whether or not I feel more, or less like myself around him. Another thing I really noticed about a man once was I was entering an establishment, and he happened to be leaving. He literally tipped his hat, and nodded to me as we passed each other. That has only ever happened once to me, but is something I likely will never forget.
@MsOrganicBlack
@MsOrganicBlack 3 ай бұрын
Yes!! That happened to me once, too, and it shocked me. He was a military man. The other thing that shocked me about it was that I was in my late 20s at the time, and he must've been in his 40s or 50s. I thought I should be the one showing him respect since he was older than me and in the military, but no, he was showing ME respect for being a woman, period.
@robedinwhite
@robedinwhite 2 ай бұрын
@@kristalynncreates YES
@susanthorne8555
@susanthorne8555 2 ай бұрын
So sweet!
@lynnebattaglia-triggs1042
@lynnebattaglia-triggs1042 2 ай бұрын
I have never thought of a model when I think of confidence. Ever.
@ShelbyArtist
@ShelbyArtist Ай бұрын
LOL.
@TheDivayenta
@TheDivayenta Ай бұрын
They are some of the least confident people around.
@lisabadger603
@lisabadger603 Ай бұрын
I think.he meant how they strut.on the run way......
@Goddessctata
@Goddessctata 3 ай бұрын
What I notice first is a his energy and the way he speaks.
@FrkFiolin
@FrkFiolin Ай бұрын
Smell, happiness, confidence... are attractive. And not looking shabby...
@anasoares3389
@anasoares3389 3 ай бұрын
I love it when a man takes the takes the time to get a haircut, shape is beard, matches his clothes somewhat, and to have an overall clean sexy appearance
@rhioblair241
@rhioblair241 Ай бұрын
Their confidence, their smile & the way they treat people, their manners. Their health, their grooming, their style, whatever they wear, they own it with their masculinity. Their scent & their teeth. Their manners & being themselves. 😊❤
@LadyEsori
@LadyEsori 3 ай бұрын
Height, build, eyes, and the way they carry themselves. Their posture when they move says a LOT about a person. These are things I notice from across the room.
@pippip3107
@pippip3107 2 ай бұрын
What make a good impression for me in someone: confident yet calm and humble; kind-hearted; open-minded and respectful of others (aka not full of himself to never admit he can be wrong); supportive of his partner; take responsibility for his life and relationship (aka not blaming others); strive to be better
@estherhardcastle2732
@estherhardcastle2732 2 күн бұрын
Kind eyes. Patience, compassion, and kindness to others no matter the circumstance
@EntrepreneursBusinessandServic
@EntrepreneursBusinessandServic 3 ай бұрын
Great video!! I met my future husband at a grocery store.
@lovepeacejoyhappiness
@lovepeacejoyhappiness 3 ай бұрын
Lol this gives me hope
@il9001
@il9001 3 ай бұрын
​@@lovepeacejoyhappiness Me too 😂
@taraelmegreen5527
@taraelmegreen5527 3 ай бұрын
First thing on a man? His face, is it kind? Smile, confident, stands up tall, does he look taken care of? Clean? Tidy face/beard, clean teeth, is he looking me in the eye or is he checking me out? Is he a gentleman? Courteous, easy to speak with, does he treat me with respect? I also look at his eyes, are they smiling, happy as well? I dont look 4 a man who is perfectly sculpted, muscular, perfect jaw, hair ect....but is he taking care of himself? Even if he has a bit of dad bod? No worry! And lastly, can he laugh? Enjoy life? ALL of these are what matter to women who are looking....😊
@slcollazo.2911
@slcollazo.2911 Ай бұрын
Right on once again, Mat. I’ve learned to walk in all these areas as a, “Lady of Beauty.” Plus, my life motto is,”You don’t get a second chance to make a first impression.” What I immediately notice about a man is how he ‘communicates’ his walk with God, his dress, and his scent. I observe how he does life, his relationship with family, (especially women), and is his Faith Walk legit or just, “talk.”👍
@barbaramelendez7388
@barbaramelendez7388 24 күн бұрын
Nice, humble, good sense of humor, clean shoes, and clean face good hygiene en general and she talks to you fresh breath! Loyal I don’t believe in chances.
@venusandino8245
@venusandino8245 2 ай бұрын
One the best videos about dating I’ve seen. Love the simple way you explain it, I definitely related.
@juliedoo5253
@juliedoo5253 2 ай бұрын
I like a man who’s mature, confident in his own sexuality without showing arrogance, acts of violence or sexual conquests. Intelligent broad minded men with a sense of humour are good company. Looks I prefer Mediterranean types with with dark eyes and hair
@tanyasteward9968
@tanyasteward9968 2 ай бұрын
What I love about a man is his love towards his family, a good smelling man,loyal to his partner. Humor, adventures.
@baharphysics
@baharphysics 2 ай бұрын
Politeness, being a gentleman, being curious, making me a priority, being safe next to him, and not being nervous.
@music292929
@music292929 3 ай бұрын
Height - Tall men are attractive! I like masculine men. Confidence, not arrogance is attractive, because women pretty much look for a protector, leader, provider. Those are probably the first things I notice…then smile and eyes 🥰♥️
@MissHannah2036
@MissHannah2036 Ай бұрын
lol the tall guys certainly stand out.
@maggieb4736
@maggieb4736 Ай бұрын
​@@MissHannah2036, I'm 5'2" and was always attracted to tall men. My husband is @ 6'2"+. His size is comforting in that "he can protect me" sort of way.
@carolefletcher
@carolefletcher 15 күн бұрын
@@maggieb4736 I'm your height and every man I've known really liked me being small - made them feel more masculine, I guess. Even the shortish guys.
@maggieb4736
@maggieb4736 15 күн бұрын
@@carolefletcher , *especially* the shortish ones. 😂 Tall is initially attractive, but height was never a deal breaker, I've dated short, average, just happened to marry tall. Also was with handsome men and not so handsome. For me, intelligence, kindness and humor were the keys to my heart. I'm short and (was---old and tired now 😂) cute, I guess, but I like to think it was my sparkling personality that attracted people! 😊
@AndreaRJames
@AndreaRJames 3 күн бұрын
I notice a man that stands out in a crowd with his true self of being confident in his own skin. His style of clothes showing his good taste in fashion that suit him. How he interacts with the people around him. His hair style.
@carriengugi3405
@carriengugi3405 Ай бұрын
What I notice about men that attracts me, is making me feel valued as a person, is humble and not boastful, is compassionate, tender hearted towards others and determined to succeed at his goals in life. A man that is resourceful and thinks outside the box---good problem solving skills, and likes to be silly/goofy/happy/laughs---has a good sense of joy---confidence.
@jucamatilde5865
@jucamatilde5865 20 күн бұрын
A man that is confident in his masculinity, polite, no cursing or swearing, is fun and funny, kind and compassionate and sensitive, and he has to smell good
@maybee...
@maybee... Ай бұрын
Someone once asked me if I understood the fight or flight mechanism, I thought I did, but I have since learned what it really is. Thank you for touching on this elusive trait.
@jacks21glife10
@jacks21glife10 3 ай бұрын
I find open and honest coomunicaton and a sense of humor attractive, along with, trustworthiness, self assurance and reasonable vulnerability.
@DeliaNErik
@DeliaNErik 27 күн бұрын
I find attractive when a men is kind humble and attentive respectful to everyone
@CarsonSloan-it9cl
@CarsonSloan-it9cl 2 ай бұрын
A man's willingness to be his self. No pretensions. Kindness. Treats people well. Takes care of his physical self. Shares his thoughts and dreams. Is attentive and considerate.
@deborahscelza6835
@deborahscelza6835 Ай бұрын
As I am tall for my age group, I definitely noticed height on a man, hair seems to be quite important to me, (my daddy had thick black hair, so perhaps that’s the reason) I look at their teeth and their ears, I look at how they’re groomed how they take care of themselves, I also watch where their eyes go when they’re speaking to me if they’re fully present and not scouring the room with their eyes that shows such a sign of respect and I alsolook for qualities like a man that would stand up when you enter the room, pull out your chair at a table, open your door. Those are extremely important and yes, I am old school and never, ever will I change.
@kateelizabeth111
@kateelizabeth111 2 ай бұрын
I really enjoyed listening to this. Very well said 👏🏽👏🏽
@unariver5810
@unariver5810 12 күн бұрын
A man who is intelligent, educated (but not arrogant), one who is active listener, caring, supportive, respectful, kind, genuine, protective, neat/clean (all over), has a healthy sense of humor, smiles... gentleman!
@AJ-pd8bd
@AJ-pd8bd Ай бұрын
I am cracking up that it seems like 98% of the comments to this video are 1-from women, and 2-giving their opinions on what attracts them the most to women.
@christyrohrmayer5330
@christyrohrmayer5330 3 ай бұрын
Really helpful, as always. I especially am glad you talked about number one and the way you framed it. I recently went through a very stressful time and looking back, realized how the way I was handling it wasn't good for me or the people around me. I've course-corrected, and hearing about it in this context was very insightful.
@ShopgirlNY182
@ShopgirlNY182 3 ай бұрын
I’m attracted to a guy who’s friendly, has a happy, positive energy, peaceful, can make me laugh and is caring, thoughtful and generous. Someone who is emotionally intelligent, ready for a relationship and has honest intentions. As far as physical attraction, I like a nice smile, nice teeth, pretty eyes, nice hair, I really love curly hair on guys but that’s hard to find. I prefer them to be taller than me because it’s better to be able to hug them and put my head on their chest. Be physically fit because I like to be active and I hope they do too. Lately, I’ve been thinking a nice maintained groomed beard is pretty hot. I used to never think facial hair was attractive but my last bf had a beard and it really was pretty nice!
@nichegoseberazdvatri
@nichegoseberazdvatri 2 ай бұрын
This is all very nice and very positive. Like in movies. I'm 43 and this is what happens when I do these things naturally: 1. Smiling - younger men approach me, thinking I'm desperate 2. Healthy - I walk slow because I have back issues, so that's out the window 3. Confidence - is seen as "older woman being bossy. Oh she must be single and has no life"
@Loveyloveeeee
@Loveyloveeeee 2 ай бұрын
This is sad
@alibern4199
@alibern4199 20 күн бұрын
Honesty, integrity, morals, and authenticity. That's a start.
@barbaralyn7019
@barbaralyn7019 Ай бұрын
What I find attractive is fidelity to his beloved, but also a kind person that can relate to other beautiful women without being dishonoring to the woman he already has a relationship with…
@anniewilber7168
@anniewilber7168 4 күн бұрын
Hey Matt, great advice, as always It's always a positive approach.
@buda2049
@buda2049 3 ай бұрын
His voice and how he speaks, what language he uses( slang or eloquent)
@yessiree605
@yessiree605 2 ай бұрын
I notice 1st about a man is his smile and how hes treating others. Love a man who is happy & kind. Comfortable in his skin.
@lynnpeppa1
@lynnpeppa1 3 күн бұрын
First thing I noticed is a genuine smile
@sharonjones7138
@sharonjones7138 2 ай бұрын
Awesome video. Paying attention to your tips and info.
@jeanien102
@jeanien102 Ай бұрын
I notice a man who is neat and well-groomed. Fresh hair cuts, neat clean clothes and a wiff of cologne is very attractive to me on a man.
@celesserenity4423
@celesserenity4423 3 ай бұрын
Thank you! Love listening to these!
@paulinecarey7530
@paulinecarey7530 Күн бұрын
You got to have a spark a connection good sense of humour lovely smile and eyes
@wr-co2fn
@wr-co2fn Ай бұрын
I definitely find a sense of humor and kindness attractive. Physically I like a man with “working hands” I’ve never found soft hands attractive on a man.
@Clarabellyha
@Clarabellyha 3 ай бұрын
I notice a man’s hair, his lips, his clothes (wether they’re neat or not and what his style is). I notice his smell definitely and his smile and teeth! And his manly body language and when we’re together I notice how he shows his love languages.
@zuzanastudena1094
@zuzanastudena1094 Ай бұрын
Amazing💖I first notice about men how they are good at what they are doing... how they are confident about themselves and genuine... is f they have a genuine heart ❤️ and if they are sincere
@susanmallak1500
@susanmallak1500 2 ай бұрын
Great Sense of Humor, Confident, Persuasive, Attentive and Communicates Well, Quiet &:Humble. Everything else will fall in ❤🙏🙏🙏
@LorieArias
@LorieArias 26 күн бұрын
I find man who is humble, and treats all the women in the room with kindness, very attractive
@yourtransformationgenie
@yourtransformationgenie 3 ай бұрын
I'm sorry but a woman does not have to be made up to be attractive. I've had some of the most staggering compliments when I wasn't wearing any make-up at all. What you are saying is that a woman has to wear some make-up in order for men to appreciate her - you are not only doing a disservice to woman, but also to men because not every man is only able to appreciate a woman or find her attractive is she is wearing make-up. Some can see a woman, and I mean really see a woman, just as she is.
@serahloeffelroberts9901
@serahloeffelroberts9901 Ай бұрын
Believe me, as a 70 year old woman, i dont set foot out of the house without a bit of makeup to add a touch of color. I am not a pretty sight otherwise. Young women can pull off the natural look much more successfully.
@MissHannah2036
@MissHannah2036 Ай бұрын
@@serahloeffelroberts9901 I love my makeup but know not everyone does or cares for it. I work fulltime so like to look and feel well-groomed among a bunch of 20 something year olds. Some pink cream blush on the cheeks and it takes 5/10 years off.
@Lynda-u9q
@Lynda-u9q 18 күн бұрын
No he's not saying that. Do what's good for you.
@carolefletcher
@carolefletcher 15 күн бұрын
Honestly? I think that's easier for darker women with defined eyebrows, darker lips and dark lashes. I'm a natural blonde and can look quite ill without a touch of makeup - naturally pallid. That said, I hardly ever wear it!
@dianapowers9950
@dianapowers9950 Ай бұрын
I am in my early 60's and these are qualities that I notice first when I see a man: 1. A healthy and well maintained confident but not cocky/arrogant man. 2. A kind man, it will show through his eyes, actions, smile, conversation, and gestures. 3. Yes, a man's scent...omg!!! What woman doesn't appreciate walking down a busy city street, notice a man and their eyes connect and he gives you a smile and as he gets closer says hello. It really is just little things like that that make you notice.
@fosterchikola1932
@fosterchikola1932 3 ай бұрын
lots of ❤from Zambia 🇿🇲🌍
@bebeface9822
@bebeface9822 3 ай бұрын
I’m Zambian too 🎉🎉
@tisabanda9497
@tisabanda9497 3 ай бұрын
Hello, team Zambia 🇿🇲
@carolmaskus440
@carolmaskus440 2 күн бұрын
"Are you in fight or flight mode, or are you in freedom?" (Leading life with freedom shows confidence, according to the video.) Some women "fight" through fight or flight mode most of our lives---illnesses, traumas, work problems, family problems that keep coming once you've solved the first one. Not even in a victim way, just sort of a critical mass that becomes difficult or impossible to get through. This idea of a woman being in "freedom" being attractive because she's confident confirms what I already know-- that women with a solid foundation of love and friendship in childhood are light years ahead of us in confidence because they have less bad experiences with men. But for those of us in fight or flight mode, that's okay. We can still be confident in other ways--thinking before speaking, setting healthy boundaries, and surrounding ourselves with good people. We don't have to breeze into a room and say something charming to everyone there...we can cope with less attention if it means we get to be our authentic selves.
@garyandkathleenaugustine5225
@garyandkathleenaugustine5225 16 күн бұрын
Fitness, nice smile, humor, smells good, attentiveness, polite to everyone.
@raelab9589
@raelab9589 2 ай бұрын
What i notice is kindness, smiling, willing to aporoach to talk, good hygiene.
@jannbill3595
@jannbill3595 Ай бұрын
The very first thing I noticed to a man was his neat well groom stand infront of me his height his eyes his smile ,his biceps ,and perfume plus his kind words will reflect what is inside his heart the mouth speak
@jacquelinepadilla2831
@jacquelinepadilla2831 Ай бұрын
Subscribed....and waiting to see what your show offers.... Lolo
@annehession3950
@annehession3950 Күн бұрын
Oh! And so much more. Tall, A man with a progressive mindset. He is Kind, and thoughtful, like noticing the little things you like, and surprising you. Excellent moral compass and a good sense of humour
@Rachel_PureBold
@Rachel_PureBold 3 ай бұрын
Confidence, resourcefulness, sense of humour
@samanthasamantha1830
@samanthasamantha1830 Ай бұрын
Thank you for this wonderful video! Sooo extremely helpful!
@traceymarie9398
@traceymarie9398 Ай бұрын
Definitely confidence and a friendly smile,humour is massive and I don't find overly flirtatious attractive because I think they might be like it with every woman.smelling nice is good.just open and friendly😊nice manners appeal to me too and kindness being genuine 😍
@j6453
@j6453 9 күн бұрын
I blew it with a guy who I really liked (and who seemed crazy about me) because I was feeling down and discouraged about the small town where I was living. It got harder and harder for me to smile and muster up enthusiasm and I think he assumed I wasn't interested in him (which was totally NOT true!).
@franshaun
@franshaun 23 күн бұрын
I love a man that does not take himself too serious and can laugh! That is very attractive!
@SmittyTra-tra
@SmittyTra-tra 3 ай бұрын
My ex husband didn't like makeup and thought Soap and fabric softener smell on a woman, so I obliged. Now trying to figure out a signature scent for dating but I am a creature of habit😂
@theresacaroll3577
@theresacaroll3577 2 ай бұрын
He was controlling, trying to make you unattractive to others in case you got attention elsewhere and realised his issues. Enjoy scent, find your personal favourite and where it even to go grocery shopping. It lifts you and makes you feel wonderful. Enjoy ❤
@serahloeffelroberts9901
@serahloeffelroberts9901 Ай бұрын
The fun part is you can often find free scent samples and can try different scents until you find one (or several) that are you.
@michelericci2862
@michelericci2862 Күн бұрын
Vanilla body spray is my go to!
@CyberBizAssistance
@CyberBizAssistance 28 күн бұрын
First my biggest turn off about men: 1) Addicted to their phones!! - 2) Always talking about their problems to me before they even say "hello" to me - 3) Playing games on me!! Now My Turn Ons: 1) COLOGNE!!!! 2) Looks into my eyes when we talk 3) Romantic 4) Tall :)
@neelamdasan4147
@neelamdasan4147 Ай бұрын
Thank you so much. I really appreciate your blogs.
@ΘΗΡΕΣΊΑΘΕΟΛΟΓΟΥ
@ΘΗΡΕΣΊΑΘΕΟΛΟΓΟΥ Ай бұрын
Hello, from Athens Greece. Thanks for the amazing video.
@sherylmartin5175
@sherylmartin5175 7 күн бұрын
First impressions are extremely important. I find men attractive who are well groomed and clean, appear healthy and fit, intelligent, well rounded, listen well and are not dismissive. Men who attempt to ascertain my wealth level, or make sexual comments are a turn off. Since I am 5 ft 10 in I prefer men who are tall-- I enjoy looking up at a man, it helps me feel more like a woman.
@carlalagace7516
@carlalagace7516 3 ай бұрын
Is loyal respectful loving trustworthy attentive to his relationship with his lady there in everyway needed ❤️
@lailarichardson2933
@lailarichardson2933 2 ай бұрын
I know this has nothing to do with the video, but it's nice to see that change from 2.9k likes to 3.0k likes when liking the video. 😄
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