8 Tips For How To Receive More In Your Life

[@brindlegirl01]

I don't think I could ever thank you enough for your videos Candice and how much they not only help me, but have changed me. And this one here, has touched me deeply. Thank you 💜

[@mayargamal9602]

I have a father who never made any physical contact with me, like hug me or kiss me, instead I was the one who was always trying to do this, to hug him or kiss him, and he pushed me away always, he did this for years and still, now I am 22, and I realised that this affected me deeply, I couldn't receive from anyone, it's like I am always believing that " I don't deserve love, I don't deserve affection or care from any man" and this made me push aways all the good nice men and attract the assholes who caused me pain, But now I understand that I should TAKE in love, I should be feminine and RECEIVE love kindness help kisses and all good things because I am worthy.

[@candiceoneida]

Hello Maya Gamal. I’m so glad this was helpful! ❤️ Have faith dear one. Turn toward the Divine and ask for healing around this. There are wonderful, caring, protective, tactile men out there to love and adore you.

[@fines158]

Me too...modern world is so harsh for feminine women 😢 so many women tear each other down and push it harshly

[@Iguanchik]

I've been practicing saying 'Thank You' when receiving a compliment of any kind...just to smile and thank the person...my life has changed for the better!

[@candiceoneida]

Hello Iguanchik. I’m so glad this was helpful! ❤️

[@mtolla05]

Oh my God, I love this women

[@candiceoneida]

Hello mtolla05. My pleasure dear!

[@addishode1541]

Me too

[@TV-bq1yy]

i'm 19 years old ... and you are my inspiration. .. i love u so much. .. thank u ❤ ❤

[@candiceoneida]

Hello +yasmine enimsay. Absolutley my pleasure dear.

[@DeliciaTrini]

That takes a smart and strong young woman to be working on herself so young! Good for you! I only began reading inspirational books and meditation when I was in my mid-twenties. Keep doing what you're doing! Working on yourself is a life-long process, it's an everyday challenge, but a good challenge. It's rewarding and eye-opening. Don't stop doing what you're doing!

[@MegJ326]

One way I began to receive (even before watching any videos on femininity) was to let my boyfriend drive my car. I love to drive, but I do it all the time. One day I was picking him up from work and just transferred myself to the passenger's seat. I remember it now even.... I was so much more relaxed than if I had been the one driving again. I felt more pleasant instead of bitching about the day. The best part is he was probably a lot happier too for the change. Win win :) What I realized as I was typing that... is that right now my goals for "being open" and "receiving" are actually set way too high. No wonder I've been so disappointed! Lol. My goal for myself has been to be loving and open as much as possible. Not only is this a super vague goal, but I have barely mastered taking a compliment myself and am now expecting to be an open loving person all the time?? Yeah, ok. Well that was a useful revelation.

[@candiceoneida]

Hi +MegJ326 ! Thanks for your comments dear. Great catch with letting him drive. You could basically "let go" of the day and not have to continue to be in control....and yes, be gentle with yourself and seek community and support around receiving and your goals...gentle, human opening.

[@plejaren1]

receiving praise...receive help...receive touch...sink into it- by allowing their presence inside you a bit more...receive gifts. Take a breath- thank you so much...and take it IN. receive inspiration- receiving from the divine from your intuition- create space to receive & download it. Receive time- quality time. Serving is a form of receiving. Receive Beauty inner & outer- "I'm receiving my beauty- your children your tribe - nature...look through the lens of beauty... receiving Love- be open more to the love around us. be more receptive to the love the care the friendship...

[@candiceoneida]

Hello plejaren1. My pleasure dear! ❤️

[@annemariebonfontain6086]

Thank you so much Candace. I love how you express yourself. I have been receiving so much lately by being soft. People just get soft when I am soft. It becomes a love flow both ways. Thank you for being such a Feminine Bright Light :)

[@candiceoneida]

Hello Anne Marie Bonfontain. My pleasure dear! ❤️

[@SimplyBeautiful516]

Throughout my life I always received the most praise from men when I behaved more like a man. So I brought this masculine energy into my marriage and unknowingly became my own worst enemy. In just a few weeks of beginning to be more feminine, my husband is responding in ways I never thought possible. We are no longer competing for the same roles and that’s changing EVERYTHING. Tears of gratitude for your desperately needed message and encouragement. Thank you!!!

[@gladyspapiso1115]

Thank you so much Candice. This has made a great difference in my life. Im a hard worker, always busy, I have no time to be. I understand now what people have saying to me all these years. Im liked by people but this area. I need to BE more. Thanks!!

[@candiceoneida]

I’m so glad that resonated with you Gladys Papiso! 💕

[@patriciabrown8660]

Good morning Candace! I have truly enjoyed your message. I can feel your warmth and beauty radiating towards me. I would love to hear from you every day. AND I THANK YOU SO VERY MUCH for your time and service. I am truly a better feminine lady through hearing you.

[@candiceoneida]

Hello Patricia Brown. I’m so glad this was helpful! ❤️

[@edytaf4404]

I am learning to let go of control and having to have all the answers and receive advice and guidance from others

[@candiceoneida]

Hello Edy. I’m so glad this was helpful! ❤️

[@arezoumoayedi5197]

Dear Candice,thanksssss🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻after 10 years,again i can receive money,love,compliments,gifts........You Are Miracle 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@candiceoneida]

Hello Arezou Moayedi. My pleasure dear!

[@gratitude5740]

I used ro say „ I’ve got this “ , “ oh no, I look messy “ after a praise . Time is my love language. “5 love languages “ by Gerry Chapman !

[@candiceoneida]

Hi Gratitude! Thanks for your comment. 💕

[@lisafoster3494]

Wow you jusr blew my mind!!! Love your content. I have lived my life in masculine lone wolf mode... and have just recenly come to the realization that we are all connected and I have been my own worst enemy to myself....I never thought about the reality that when people compliment that they are giving you a gift and by being the lone wolf and saying no I am denying them a moment of beauty... Thanks for sharing!!!!

[@candiceoneida]

Hello Lisa Foster. My pleasure dear! ❤️

[@jessicarodda4639]

I love how the information we need in the moment, has the perfect way of finding us. Oh.... The language of receiving your beauty vs my everyday feelings upon greeting myself in the mirror. This is certainly an area of myself that will receiving some much needed care, attention, love and compassion after listening to your beautiful wisdom. Truly Candice. Thank you.

[@candiceoneida]

Hey +Jessica Rodda! Thank you for your comments. Yep...remembering that it's our inner beauty and inner feminine power that matters..that shines through us at any time.

[@sechale]

So good, thank you! In the past, thought receiving was selfish. Now can see that receiving can be very gracious, as you say. Can see gracious receiving as something different from demanding that someone else meets your needs--in this way, you are letting someone else feel the pleasure of giving. So cool :)

[@candiceoneida]

Hey Miss +sechale! Thanks for your comment. Receiving is about opening, feeling gratitude, recognizing the warmth of another. I was taught to give give, but somehow the way I was taught to do this was totally self serving and kept me closed. It wasn't until I learned how to receive and ask for help that I started to open again.

[@maisybee2091]

im 17 and love your videos! have helped me navigate relationships so well, but also just people in general

[@candiceoneida]

Hello Snax ForPandas. I’m so glad this was helpful! ❤️

[@PlatinumPlatz]

A gentleman wanted to pay for my groceries at the checkout, I got caught off guard and refused, now that I know how to receive I would have graciously accepted the gesture

[@candiceoneida]

Hello Serpil C. I’m so glad this was helpful! ❤️

[@dreamyx01]

Someone told me years ago to always accept whatever someone wants to give you. Not only are you blessed by receiving it but that person is being blessed when they give.

[@TanyaKatherine]

I absolutely loved this! Not receiving is one of my biggest energy flaws...Also do you notice how many people judge unfairly sometimes...mentioning "All you do is take?" I feel like receiving is looked down upon in society, but should be celebrated! 😊 I had an amazing manifestation come true recently and ruined it by telling the universe I didn't deserve it and I did not know how receive it! I am glad I learned that this was why I was stuck. P.S. you always have the best taste in fashion and lippy!!! Love the pops of pink 💋

[@candiceoneida]

Hello Little Witch! Thanks for your comments.

[@sakshic5890]

Thank you for precious tips🌹

[@candiceoneida]

My pleasure 😊

[@adultcoloringworld6850]

Receiving is hard for me but I am now willing to turn it around

[@candiceoneida]

Hello +Shami Awake Joy! Thanks for your comment. Receiving is the MOST difficult thing to learn how to do...you are not alone in that...and yet, it is seriously the most powerful.

[@morganalexis6147]

Hello. Thank you so much for your tips. I have just come across tour channel and I'm really grateful for the tips. Some of the 8 that you listed, are good ways for me to look at what areas in my feminine identity do I have struggles with. It makes it much clearer for me where I need to examine when I'm reflecting on myself inside

[@candiceoneida]

Hi Morgan Alexis! Thanks for your comment. 💕

[@mooonberries]

Thank you. I felt nice to remind myself to relax and receive.

[@candiceoneida]

Hello Moonberries Rainandstars. I’m so glad this was helpful! ❤️

[@ItsKells]

Wow, thank you for answering my question! It's been over a year and I'm just stumbling across this response. How serendipitous! I was searching for a refresher on femininity just this evening before I stepped out on my date and I needed to hear this.

[@candiceoneida]

Hello It's Kells. My pleasure dear!

[@Nappygurl8021]

Yes yes yes. Thank you so much for this video. Receiving for women seems to be a big block. It's taken some practice but I have gotten so much better at allowing the people around me to help and take care of me. I've been saying yes a lot more and listening to my soul when I need something. Before I would push it down and tell myself I'll figure it out. So masculine of me haha.

[@candiceoneida]

Hi gem! Thanks for your comment.

[@christinaheesakacowden-wut3809]

Two women have rejected my gift in a short period of time which made me wonder. Both times I had given a scarf/stole I had made in my studio. I had carefully selected the pieces and took into consideration the persons likes and tastes and lifestyles. That`s why I didn`t understand them. Both of them gave back the items saying that they didn`t like it, that they didn`t like the material or the colours. Very strange. I had to meditate a lot over this and not let my ego be hurt. But I think I am still hurt a bit. Where I come from (my mothers side anyway) it is rude to give back a gift. It is almost like a rejection of the person itself. That`s why I liked what you said in your video. People have to learn how to receive again if they want things to keep flowing into their lives. There is a strange trend going on with this minimalism. I think it is even dangerous! Well, I think we have to keep a balance between incoming and outgoing.

[@candiceoneida]

Hello Christina Hees! Thanks for your comments. sorry that you weren't received dear.

[@ninaa8218]

By joining a community of Love such as the one you made now, all we need is love and love is real. May the creator bless you more and more, you are making the world a better place

[@candiceoneida]

Hello dear Nina A! Thanks for your awesome comments. ❤️

[@ChristyShar]

We have the same lamp !

[@candiceoneida]

It's a beauty isn't it! ; )

[@missnatalieOK]

You, Candice, are too awesome and I thank you Keep up the great work💖

[@candiceoneida]

I’m so glad that resonated with you missnatalieOK! 💕

[@SaraAB98]

these tips gave me alot of great energy!thank you for being you and so awsome!love you 💞🌸

[@candiceoneida]

Hello +Sara Abdollahi! My pleasure dear.

[@errol7045]

I want to receive more gifts and quality time from loved ones

[@candiceoneida]

Hi JE Gaming! Thanks for your comment. 💕

[@user-yv2ss9fq6t]

Thank you

[@candiceoneida]

You're welcome

[@nax444]

Wow! Just what I needed today. Thank you 😁

[@candiceoneida]

Hi Yvonne Osborne! Thanks for your comment.

[@virnam6028]

Lovely, thank you so much for sharing this Candice. I'm learning to ask for help. This is hard. I just checked few of your videos, thank you again for sharing your experiences.

[@savitasharma8831]

one of the best video I had ever seen

[@candiceoneida]

Hello dear Savita Sharma! Thanks for your awesome comments. ❤️

[@RaquellMenezes]

I loved it! Much love from your brazilian fan

[@candiceoneida]

Hello Raquell Menezes. My pleasure dear!

[@lenawhite2815]

Thank you!!

[@candiceoneida]

You're welcome!

[@0judi0bartel74]

Your colours are extraordinary with your blue eyes today

[@candiceoneida]

Hi 0Judi0 Bartel! Thanks for your comment. 💕

[@evnomiaiw2244]

what a beautiful video!

[@angelsrosena]

My 5 love languages are: physical touch and quality time 🤓🤓🤓🤓

[@candiceoneida]

Hello Rosangela Sena. I’m so glad this was helpful! ❤️

[@sanjanakhare5860]

Thank you, lots of love 😍

[@candiceoneida]

Hi Sanjana Khare! Thanks for your comment.

[@widadzoubaidy4912]

I LOVE YOU CANDICE

[@candiceoneida]

Hi Widad Zoubaidy! Thanks for your comment. 💕

[@revatishinde_]

Thank u

[@candiceoneida]

Hello +Revati Shinde! Thanks for the comment. Absolutely. I teach how to learn to ask for help in my Powerfully Feminine Intensive...as you pointed out because this is so alien to us, until we learn how. It's so beautiful to ask others for help in a way that is open, gracious and receptive. People want to help you...you just need to know how.

[@katiemace1293]

Thank you. A very clear doable list to get going with. Can you sometime instruct simply on how to begin to receive a man!

[@candiceoneida]

Sure thing!

[@avallen9198]

Great information

[@candiceoneida]

Hello Alana V. Allen. I’m so glad this was helpful! ❤️

[@rachanacitc]

Thanks a lot Candice 💕 for those lovely tips. 💓 You look beautiful ❤️🤗

[@candiceoneida]

Hello Rachana Gianchandani Motwani. My pleasure dear!

[@gratitude5740]

I used to send gifts to my Long distance relationship boo... I was very happy to do that! It made me happy . But , I have noticed that he didn’t. I didn’t care what he would send as long as he did make that gesture, even if it was a hand written letter or a card. I have stopping sending. What would you do ?

[@candiceoneida]

Hello Gratitude. Thanks for your question dear. 💕 Only you can answer this really. Did you allow him space to lead, to take care of you, to provide, to give you gifts...really?

[@gratitude5740]

Candice Oneida , yes I did . No gifts no letters nothing physical.

[@youknowwhatflav9916]

I dont belive in chakra but i love this video

[@candiceoneida]

Hi youknowwhatflav! Thanks for your comment.

[@esraayassin7642]

Thanks 💚🌹

[@candiceoneida]

Hello Esraa Yassin. My pleasure dear! ❤️

[@kikizinwa1076]

You're my favorite!

[@candiceoneida]

Hello ekky vincent. I’m so glad this was helpful! ❤️

[@vivveene]

Awesome videos

[@candiceoneida]

Hi Viv -! Thanks for your comment.

[@gangmeigangmeilan3642]

Really really love U 😘😘 u make me smile and so refreshing Ahhhhhh....💖

[@candiceoneida]

Hello Gangmei Gangmeilan. I’m so glad this was helpful! ❤️

[@liquidbutta18]

Thank you so much for these videos. I am learning and unlearning simultaneously. Ive been focusing on self care, both internally and externally, and it feels amazing to pour so much love into myself. I do have one question: I received oral pleasure for the first time in a long while. In response, I gave pleasure to my lover as well. Can you still be in your Feminine (receiving) if your giving from a place of reciprocity? Thank you for all you do to empower women. 💕🙏🏾

[@candiceoneida]

Hello liquidbutta18. Thanks for your question dear. 💕 It's not about reciprocity. What I'd say here is, does it bring YOU pleasure to pleasure your man? Find the pleasure in giving him head.

[@liquidbutta18]

Candice Oneida Thank you for your reply. Yes, it truly does make me happy to give pleasure to my man. ☺️

[@candiceoneida]

Hi liquidbutta18! Thanks for your comment. 💕 Me too!

[@peace-po1hy]

This is so impossible for me to do. Sadly :'(

[@candiceoneida]

Hello Peace! You can though....you're just out of practice! 💕

[@niceandkind3385]

I have a question. When a couple goes out to eat, who is supposed to pay the bill?

[@CatherineCarey1313]

At the beach this weekend a boy brought me a blow-up alligator. I felt his devotion.

[@candiceoneida]

Hi Catherine Carey! Thanks for your comment....very sweet!

[@nandinidash5915]

Hi, Thanks for your enthusiastic videos. It is sure you want to help people . Your contents are good yet I have a concern, is it not ripe time to leave the title of feminine and masculine? I think you can address all human beings. The reason is it boosts morale of many men and women who use these 'masculine/feminist' terms to not only creating instability in society but also committing crime.

[@candiceoneida]

Hi nandini nk! Thanks for your comment. Masculine and feminine are forces of consciousness that are inside all human beings.

[@chakraboosters]

Thank you! ♥️

[@candiceoneida]

Hello chakraboosters. My pleasure dear!