8 Traits Chinese Girls FIND Irresistible in Men - I ASKED 10 Girls #10 Shocked Me

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@nestorinchina Ай бұрын

What do you think about the girls' responses on what they like in men? Comment below! Also, check out another popular video I made about my COVID experience in China, and don’t forget to subscribe for more content! Check out my experience during COVID in China: kzbin.info/www/bejne/ZnfUh6SYlK-Seq8

@gprufino 9 ай бұрын

I need to spend more time at libraries, bookstores, and cafes.😄

@nestorinchina 9 ай бұрын

lol. yes, me too!

@gprufino 9 ай бұрын

@@nestorinchina😆

@itsmichaelelton 9 ай бұрын

AWESOME VID MAN! Using these tips to the max!

@nestorinchina 9 ай бұрын

thanks! tips right from the source, they should work! let me know if works for you one day.

@WhiteJadeTiger98 9 күн бұрын

Girl number 4 actually has a brain in her head. Seek character, integrity, someone who will genuinely love you and care about you who will literally do anything for you, even die for you... Don't seek a man of wealth who CAN do literally anything for you, but will NEVER do quite literally, anything... For you... (Because he doesn't give a shit about you)...

@nestorinchina 9 күн бұрын

Thanks for sharing your thoughts! Yeah, there are also good women here.

@Esltenme 9 ай бұрын

Good video! Happy this got recommended, you made a great vid man!

@nestorinchina 9 ай бұрын

I am really happy you liked it. Thank you!

@krezeladvincula2532 9 ай бұрын

Nice content ❤ can we see about Chinese men like? Thanks

@nestorinchina 9 ай бұрын

Yeah, why not. That could be interesting! I'll try have it in the next weeks. Subscribe so you will be notified when is online :D

@RageStudios 9 ай бұрын

Well done Nestor!

@nestorinchina 9 ай бұрын

I had a great camerman! :D thank you Gaby!

@andrewkim7700 9 ай бұрын

Girl #4 😍

@nestorinchina 9 ай бұрын

I will let her know! lol

@rodneysingh1373 Ай бұрын

That’s one of the reasons they are single. Handsome but not ugly BF. It’s the status they are looking for. They wonder what happened to the good guys. They moved on. Good content

@allanfahrenhorst-jones6118 3 ай бұрын

Excellent beginning, got me. Subscribed. 👍😇❤️

@nestorinchina 3 ай бұрын

Awesome! Thank you!

@davidcadman4468 4 ай бұрын

Thank you... I have just subscribed. This was very interesting. I have seen a lot of street walks videoing the night life in various cities, and it always puzzled me the number of beautiful Chinese women. While on the other hand I hear that the Bride Price and the girls requirements are very high causing a lot of girls/ladies being Left Over Women. BTW I'm very shy also... well done Nestor...

@nestorinchina 4 ай бұрын

Thank you for your sub! David. Yeah, the number of beautiful girls that are single here in China is amazing. I did this to find answers honestly, and that is my conclusion: they are single not because of the bride price but because they pursue a career first, which keeps them always busy, and then realize they run out of time to get married. One good news is that the Bride Price is less and less popular, in my city, Xiamen, families are now more modern, and girls don't ask for it (nor do their families push for it). I am shy to approach strangers in public with a micro! but I am ok to talk to girls in a better social environment like bars or coffee shops. lol. I've slowed down on this channel due to trying to develop some new business, but I am planning a new video about the true story of COVID in China, all that I personally experienced and now it is. Thanks again for your sub.

@SahilJainQCD 9 ай бұрын

Can’t wait 😛 🎉

@nestorinchina 9 ай бұрын

It will worth the wait, bro

@gemox3225 3 ай бұрын

I lived in China. There are a lot of very attractive ladies there.

@nestorinchina 3 ай бұрын

Yes! everywhere :D

@Murph_. 3 ай бұрын

0 for 2 in the beautiful girl department Nestor. I would like to see these same questions to leftover women. I think their answers will be MUCH different. Finally, how do you find so many Chinese that are able to speak English. I used to have many women come to speak English to me when I was there... but if I talked to 20 women, MAYBE 1 would speak English.

@nestorinchina 3 ай бұрын

Hey Murph! Asking the same questions to the left over women... do you want me killed? lol! Actually I have some friends in that situation, at that point they only look for a "good man"... which means he still can "provide", no necessary rich but with a good job at least, as they still look for security. Having an apartment (bought, not rented) is always a good plus for any men here, but that is a story for another video :D. Finding pretty girls that speak English... it depends on the city I think. I live in the city of Xiamen, is a modern city, lot of young people speaks good English. I made this interview close to an area where there is a University, and also at my restaurant which is western food, so maybe that is why got several that speak English. And... what is "0 for 2?"

@Elephant_King_Gj 3 ай бұрын

@@nestorinchina2 tries, but zero success

@nestorinchina 3 ай бұрын

@@Elephant_King_Gj ah ok! thanks for helping with my poor English, lol.

@abu-bakr9604 3 ай бұрын

great video

@nestorinchina 3 ай бұрын

Thank you.

@hopefromtokyo3783 3 ай бұрын

Handsome men get money in future. Also get many girls in future too. 😂😂😂

@casab654 3 ай бұрын

As expatriate in China it is a must to get a long hair dictionary than translator

@nestorinchina 3 ай бұрын

Short hair also works. lol. What city are you at? I am in Xiamen

@p.j.9099 Ай бұрын

I need to go to China, 👌✈️⌚️🇩🇪🙃😀 hello from Germany

@nestorinchina Ай бұрын

Hello from China! Yeah, why not? Come and try! Lol

@iainbrown4945 9 ай бұрын

what city are you interviewing in ?

@nestorinchina 9 ай бұрын

Xiamen, in Fujian province

@betserv.1187 5 ай бұрын

@@nestorinchina A majority of Taiwanese and Singaporean have their ancestors from the Fujian region.

@nestorinchina 5 ай бұрын

@@betserv.1187 yes, that's true.

@stevet9652 4 ай бұрын

ATM MACHINE that is no. 1 on their list

@nestorinchina 3 ай бұрын

Lol. I guess it depends of what you are looking for. As when you are looking for a car, the more beautiful the more expensive... but there are always options. Thanks for your feedback.

@worldtravelingtv1828 9 ай бұрын

Most of the girls you interviewed don't have a boyfriend because most young guys don't have good jobs to pay for the bills. Restaurant, movies, gifts, traveling, vacation, wedding ceremony, home, appliances,. mortgage, auto insurance, health insurance, dental insurance, burials package bills. If you want more bills, have children. Most young people see how their parents go through these episode in life and they don't want to end up divorce and paying child alimony. I am just joking. Don't be afraid, get marry and find the girl you like and love. Love and peace. 💖💖😍😍

@nestorinchina 9 ай бұрын

Hahaha... man! I was believing everything you were saying... luckily I read until the end, haha. You are humorous! You would not have a problem finding a Chinese girlfriend here in China, as they love humorous guys. Cheers!

@worldtravelingtv1828 9 ай бұрын

@@nestorinchina I subscribe to your channel to find a girl friend. Hey, keep up making videos. You have a new friend. Cheers. 👍👍

@Ghosted760 2 ай бұрын

No, I don't think you are just joking. The things you mention are the day-to-day realities of life.

@ltribley 3 ай бұрын

Very stereotypical of what we hear from many Chinese women of this generation. They're not connected to the reality of relationships which in some part contributes to the growling divorce rate. I wish they were asked some deep relationship and equality of marriage questions. Also wish we knew about their educational backgrounds and whether they were raised in the city or countryside. Bottom line. Program is similar to many others like it.

@nestorinchina 3 ай бұрын

I think the girls I talked to in this video represent a fair sample of the whole spectrum. Although many comments here mention that these girls just want money, none of the girls in this video asked for money, which surprised me. So, I think the answers in this video represent a good sample. There are other extremes: the traditional ones, who just ask for a good man, not caring about money or looks but wanting to have a family and work together for income. This usually happens in smaller cities. Then there are the pretty ones who know the value of their beauty. These women are directly looking to marry a rich man and don't want to work. I saw many of this type in big cities.

@cryptowhale1615 2 ай бұрын

@@nestorinchina no one will admit that they want money in front of the camera. as a chinese man myself , practically 95% of women are looking for 高富帅 tall rich handsome. everybody knows it in china.

@deyanzd 9 ай бұрын

1.Money, 2.White guys, 3.More Money, 4. More white guys, 5,6,7,8,9 and 10 probably Money

@nestorinchina 9 ай бұрын

Haha, I see you have your priorities straight! But don't worry, my videos are for everyone, regardless of their love for money or white guys. lol

@Dee-pv8lb 3 ай бұрын

There is a saying in China. " it is better to cry in a Mercedes than be happy on the back of a bike".

@nestorinchina 3 ай бұрын

Well, I guess I'll take my chances with happiness on a bike and maybe upgrade to a Mercedes later. lol

@savagekulung1276 9 ай бұрын

I need a woman who can teach me mandarin.

@nestorinchina 9 ай бұрын

In China, more than one will offer you to help on that. Chinese girls here are very kind.

@chonwai 2 ай бұрын

Simple: Money😊

@nestorinchina 2 ай бұрын

haha. Sure, money always helps. lol.

@Ghosted760 2 ай бұрын

Hmmm... let me see, without even viewing the video.... 1. Tall 2. Light/white skin 3. Rich 4. Handsome/actor type face. Yep, that should cover it.

@nestorinchina 2 ай бұрын

Wow! You got 3 out of 4 right, which is amazing. Surprisingly, 9 of the Chinese girls didn't see being rich as an important trait, with only one open to it. Most of them said "treat me well" was what really mattered. From my experience, that means making them feel good, being there when they need you, and so on-not necessarily being wealthy. Of course, there are some who are only after money, but maybe those aren't the ones willing to talk on camera, haha. Thanks for your comment!

@Ghosted760 2 ай бұрын

@@nestorinchina Maybe do another video.. explaining the difference in thought process for marriage, between western thinking and Chinese thinking. Some guys might be surprised to find out that the **majority** of marriages are thought of like a business merger between two families. Historically speaking, the "marriage for love" is only a couple hundred years old, whereas the more traditional "arranged" marriage has been around for thousands of years.

@nestorinchina 2 ай бұрын

@@Ghosted760 Haha, that sounds like an interesting idea. I’d say there are three types nowadays. With more Chinese becoming super wealthy, there's a new group of girls who are only after money, not love. Then there are the most common ones, caught in the pressure to marry because of their age and their parents’ expectations. Finally, there are the lucky ones who find love in what we Westerners would consider "normal."

@Ghosted760 2 ай бұрын

@@nestorinchina Totally agree with your thoughts on the "three types"... particularly for today's Chinese women (and some other SE Asia countries too). Funny thing about the ones that are after money (by marriage). That group seems to be growing in China, at least in the larger cities. The other crazy observation about this same group, is that girls that are a "6" or below, somehow think that they deserve or can get a man of means/wealth. This mis-guided belief is largely due to the influence of social media (even in restricted China), and Chinese tv series featuring "Cinderella" themed stories (poor regular girl marries rich handsome man). Funny thing is, it almost NEVER happens that way. Rich and handsome guys in China have their pick of women who are 8s, 9s, and 10s... and EVERYBODY knows it.