Survive 1st Date With A Chinese Girl - 10 Tips: How to Date Chinese Girls | Dos & Don’ts

[@12degreesnowman11]

I was talking to a Chinese woman, maybe in her mid to late 20’s that works at a restaurant. She was actually open to talking with me and she was very open with me. I was talking about how I can understand Chinese and write but I can’t speak. I told her I’ve been learning since 2021. I’m thinking of asking for her social media next time. She is from China but in America. However, I’m a mere college student with no car.

[@nicktune901rwf5]

Don't give up hope

[@erichathaway8953]

I met her online we meet at the end of April in L.A.

[@erichathaway8953]

Thanks for the help, I'm way over my ski's on this one..

[@learnchinesewithcam3527]

Your videos are so good, it's crazy!

[@MrJAMESDAD1]

I met a very nice girl that works at a Chinese restaurant across the street from me,I asked her if I could take her to lunch.She was very shocked I asked her,If I get the chance to date her should I bring her flowers and what kind.or am I thinking to much and just treat her like a Queen,Like I would anyway,Thanks

[@izraelmirelez2168]

I wanna date one where can I meetone

[@yeyasutokugawa7775]

What do you think about the eye contact? I'm not really sure if direct eye contact stresses the girl. I feel like Chinese people generally don't really like to much eye contact

[@SukieChinese]

Yeyasu Tokugawa that’s a stereotype misconception lol no worries. Eye contact is important but don’t stare in a weird way haha

[@santinojozefmiller7721]

@@SukieChinese are Chinese girls feisty?

[@toplinenews239]

I’ve gone out on two dates with a Chinese girl and have texted for weeks. I’m getting mixed signals that she’s interested. To be honest, if she were from the West I would have moved on. How do I know if she really is interested?

[@sertacsilbastan]

If she's still texting, she's interested in you. But it's not because she's Chinese, it's because we are all humans. Who spends time with someone that they don't like at least a bit? :)

[@afrawjoshe341]

huh splitting dinner bills!! it's not even an option, so i make sure i get my phone ready to scan n' pay for other stuffs,like movies,drinks, etc~ 😂

[@alaas.m4458]

Please help me.... Everyday I saw a Chinese girl in the library . And I like her sooooo mush...Please help me how to start talking with her. Especially that I want to calibrate with her in the new year . Help help

[@SukieChinese]

oook first vocabulary time: what does calibrate mean???? and second, if you see her everyday in the library, maybe she has noticed you as well already? that's pretty common in school love stories :P but my suggestion is: just dress clean, and go and ask if the seat is taken besides her. that's a very common pickup line in the library when I was in school lol. most chinese girls like boys being brave and straightforward. and you can see her reaction, if she smiles and acts nicely to your question, you can start a small talk. you can ask a question about the assignment she's working on, you know, study-related. and you'll probably find something in common, like same professors, schoolmates you both know etc. AND DOWNLOAD WECHAT in advance and ask her WeChat. that's the app we use everyday. hope it helps. chinese girls are very easy going and nice to hang out with. good luck :)

[@dev1ator_yt]

Man who have self-respect dont want to pay unknown selfish women who dont deserve free stuff. But there are also manipulators - Gold diggers who act professionally to get what they want... And I would advise against double standards / inequality rule to pay whole the bill. And in one video I saw (and probabbly added to my playlist - Asian dating or modern feminism) women talk on podcast laughing and admiting publicly they use guys money for free dates/food.... If I knew woman I love is also genuine and never lies to me then I would pay for Our food if she doesn't objects. But I dont go in restaurants, maybe once in year, and i dont like crowds so good luck. 😅 There can be introverted women who listen more and speek less. But all depends on chemistry between two people. If they share common interests they could talk a lot like extroverts and share things. Even if introverted. Im like that. But even so introverts do need quiet time alone to recharge batteries. Extroverts dont need that and they are opposite to us they trive on communication and they cant understand us. They are so annoying... and they are one of reasons why i want to live rural life. Having a peace in cities are impossible for introverts. I shave but it grows back in few days and its annoying to shave every other day. Men have beard women dont, and lesbians dont care 😂 I also hate strong or too much parfume, i really get headaches from artificial smells, and I dont put on any, on work i only use deodorant. Home I clean myself from sweating. Im clean and tidy in short. No european woman looked me twice... since 2021 i started searching traditional equal Asian woman who respects me, listens to me (most of the time), open to compromises and loves me back. To follow this general advices is to find ordinary woman. And I seek extraordinary woman who surprises me with her character and uniqueness.. ❤ Generally speaking I like more Korean than other Asian women, but Chinese and Japanese women are also tied for the first place to win my ❤. And the free food 😅 But most women dont want to build kingdom with a man, they rather go after accomplished man but dont look his personality, thats the problem... and when those gentlemen get successful they (good men who were rejected) reject those type of women back... 🎉

[@blue1060]

请问你们是移民吗？现在居住在哪里？

[@laserlithuanian]

good video

[@SaigonBrit]

I dated Chinese women some years ago and I feel this advice although surely well intended is what Chinese women THINK they want but in reality they are put off by such simping/beta male behavior. Trust me, most of these tips will land you in the friend zone.

[@sertacsilbastan]

Imagine you're a guy who dates several Chinese women in a month and you pay for all the dinners and activities. What's the return on investment if you don't even match with them in terms of personality and/or values? You end up with a financial disaster which was wasted on strangers who might not even want to see you again. 😂 So, although I appreciate this video, I should kindly disagree that bills have to be taken care of by men. If we all are living in the western world (although we might have been raised elsewhere), we should also drop all those strict traditional dating mentalities that come with our upbringing, which don't mix well in counties like the US. If I'm to impress someone with my money, I'd rather not spend time with them lol. Instead, I'd make her a gift with my own hands, or cook for her from scratch. I'm sure Chinese or not Chinese, this would make a person happier as it requires more attention to detail and shows respect and interest. 🙂 If she's a grown and empowered woman, she can pay for her own expenses and seek my attention from another angle.

[@Livingtree32]

That’s kind of a sad way to look at it. When I find a good partner through the dating, then I won’t look back on money lost, haha.

[@sertacsilbastan]

@@Livingtree32 I hope you find your partner very soon then.

[@Livingtree32]

@@sertacsilbastan Thanks, I might actually tomorrow, lol.

[@sertacsilbastan]

@@Livingtree32 fingers crossed 🤞

[@eonthinker100yrago8]

Well you’re missing the point, Chinese and most Asian cultures date with the intention to start a family or have a long term partner. And women no matter how ‘empowered’ still look for men who can make them feel secure. So I don’t think it’s bad if a man pays. Plus if you’re dating multiple women in a month. You’re not genuine and whatever dating culture you’re referring to is toxic. And I’m saying this as a man.

[@joeryvanwaeyenberghe6902]

Why am I even watching this 😄. And no you're wrong. Although That's how you are 😀. 我是比利时人

[@ptersroy]

Hahah. Great video, but this is all bullshit. Don't get caught up with a FOB you'll regret it I did, not im screwed until my son is 18

[@jeanlavigne6900]

What is FOB?