8 UNATTRACTIVE But Common Habits That Women Find Repulsive (Please STOP Doing These)

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There are MANY things women hate that guys do, but no woman would ever say tell a man what they are. Watch this video to learn 8 Unattractive, but very common, habits guys do that women find repulsive. IF you are doing any of these, stop doing them NOW!!
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[@gorz859]

Bragging Disqualification of competition Over complimenting Teasing too much Asking too many questions Being too stoic and unimpressed Allowing her to interrupt Unable to hold a conversation You're welcome, fellas.

[@marcrud1250]

Thanks Gorz😎

[@robeldayzz5372]

Thanks man.

[@bishopmontel2]

💯

[@N_Loco_Parenthesis]

Thanks.

[@nipz8053]

😆 appreciate it.🍻

[@bobbarnes3287]

I've been taking better care of myself. Exercising, eating better and adding more sleep. Now my wife thinks I'm looking for another woman. Men really can't win.

[@nathan2813]

Correlation isn't causation! Lol! :oD

[@IronWarrior86]

One thing worth keeping in mind is that exercising and getting in shape is all good for your own longevity and for your own self-appreciation. Do it for yourself, not for a particular woman or women. Women don't care for mens' fitness goals just like we don't really care about theirs. Do exercise because you like the feeling it gives you.

[@nathan2813]

@@IronWarrior86 I take ibuprofen to ESCAPE the feeling it gives me! :oD

[@IronWarrior86]

@@nathan2813 Just dont get hooked on painkillers 😂

[@WargRider20]

means shes in a negative mindset. means that she subconsciously knows that that's the reason she would be doing those things if she was. toxic mindset

[@graphicmaterial5947]

I own two cats. When they approach me, I show them affection - when they don't, I just ignore them. They always show up when they can expect food or a snack. Amazingly, this works perfect with most women, too!

[@rattusnorvegicus4380]

You`re a chef?

[@graphicmaterial5947]

@@rattusnorvegicus4380 Yes.

[@terrymackenziehoy7145]

Good advice

[@rogerd4559]

it's all about them and their selfish behavior, both Felines and women

[@rogerd4559]

If you drop dead in your apartment I guarantee they will come to you and they also will find plenty of food

[@markward6076]

I'd rather be alone than go through all this impossible 🦬💩

[@user-dy2zy8rd2t]

...and 10000 more "thumbs-up"!

[@bobmarshall3700]

It's a good thing women are all so perfect that they never say anything irritating or out of place. No wonder lots of men are fed up with women and their relationships and don't bother anymore. Of course women are always thinking of themselves and what THEY want. Rarely does what a man wants concern them!

[@mattb3812]

Agreed

[@leftinlister829]

Oh no, the Incel Brigade.

[@philhenderson5113]

@@leftinlister829 Of course you think a man pointing out double standards that favor women is an incel. Simp.

[@leftinlister829]

@@philhenderson5113: You and your paranoia have a nice time together. :)

[@rino7789]

Here, here!

[@KJuniorfied]

No such thing as perfect, be yourself folks. Some relationships work, some don't. Don't try to be perfect.

[@rogerd4559]

Thanks Bro

[@KJuniorfied]

@@rogerd4559 got you!

[@robertthrailkill1368]

I am widowed now but was married for 43 years. The advice she gave works great in married life too, probably essential. Recognized all the points she made. Why my wife married me is a mystery but she was a good teacher and friend for me. For a long time.

[@jerrys.1910]

Condolences to you on the loss of your wife. I can tell you're a wise, humble man - well grounded. I wish you the best.

[@bernardedwards8461]

When I was 10 years old I was brilliant at talking about nothing, because at that age I didn't know anything else to talk about, but when I was 30 I had lost this ability, though women my own age hadn't. Most of them still didn't know anything else to talk about. While I had moved on to better things most women still preferred to talk about nothing, and rarely used a dozen words when a hundred would do. It always puzzled me how they could talk for ages without saying anything.

[@fredhughes4115]

I'm really good at the holding endless conversations with women thing, because I could go on forever about children, dogs, and the amazing salad I had for lunch yesterday ...

[@robertgumbs2240]

A lot of American men are we angry because we can't "belt a bitch" in the mouth, screw and get away with it, like in the good old days. Time Marches forward gentlemen - let's grow up and man up, an deal with it.

[@bernardedwards8461]

@@robertgumbs2240 I don't see what this has got to do with the ability to talk endlessly about nothing. Another thing is that lacking physical strength, many women weaponise their tongue and use it to give their men a good tongue lashing from time to time. The comedian Les Dawson used to say that his mother in law's tongue could take a man's arm off at twenty paces! There is, by the way, a garden flower called Mother in law's Tongue.

[@clyoul3ss819]

@@fredhughes4115 I think you mean cats. Enjoy your boxed wine and cat piss ladies!

[@rogerd4559]

@@fredhughes4115 when I tried that women would quickly get bored with me and move on

[@Geno20916]

I’m having fun in life and I don’t care what other people like or dislike.

[@leftinlister829]

So impressive.

[@thomasmuller6142]

My mayn.

[@buckthiss3457]

I know right?

[@13elad49]

If I'm unable to hold a conversation, usually means I lost interest.

[@leftinlister829]

Truly impressive.

[@Inferno5150]

Yeah, and the part about putting up with a woman interrupting you when you talk, if she does it once or twice it's ok. If she keeps doing it I'm not going to "take charge", I'll just move on to the next female.

[@KenD67]

@@Inferno5150 exactly, b/c it's not gonna get any better from there on out to begin with...

[@Shungarui]

Just be yourself. You don't have to please a girl and change yourself. It's about time men were proud who they are and focused their own dreams and goals. Whether a right woman happens to be found along the way, even better. The point is, men should not exist for women but for themselves.

[@rogerd4559]

and the other way of course

[@nedhill1242]

More men need to learn a technique that is often deployed in sales. The take away. People always want what they can’t have. Often if you say hello to someone in public, a little bit of casual chatting or flirting, and then pull back. Pretend you’re only casually interested. Make them chase you a little bit. Years ago I sold timeshares. I got pretty damn good at it too! Too good actually. Started saying and doing some things that shocked even me. I stopped doing it because I didn’t like the person I was becoming. But the grizzled veterans that had been doing it for years could lie to you with a straight face in ways that would embarrass a politician. I’m talking some serious Glengarry Glen Ross shit!

[@pascalmerschaudio]

best comment

[@ankushzap]

there are some mistakes tho which us men are habitual of and these vids could give some guidance on not to do that.

[@ryanb5099]

You misunderstand the point of these videos. She’s not saying you sacrifice who you are or what you value…just giving you some techniques to assist you in better communication and interaction with the opposite sex. If you watch her other videos you’ll see that she actually advocates that men be strong in their worldview and values. Take it or leave it, but there is a clear need for men to better understand these nuisances of flirting with women. The number of men in their 20’s that receive little or no attention from women is astronomical and the majority want attention from women, they just don’t know how to receive it.

[@zengalileo]

Let's be honest, the list of deal breakers is endless and every woman has their own list. As soon as a man starts taking their woman's list seriously he establishes a precedent that will only result in endless additions to the list. It will never end. Just be yourself. Do not change for any woman and no woman should change for any man. Any changes you make as a result of some list are insincere changes and won't last anyway.

[@InfoArtistJKatTheGoodInfoCafe]

And you're the same as you've always been. No growth, no improvement. Hmmmmm

[@rogerd4559]

Exactly my opinion. changing to make any human being like you can only end up badly

[@zengalileo]

Info Artist, do I really seem like a person who has not grown or is not open to growth? You seem upset that men might not be susceptible to your needling and controlling. Would you really respect a man that was totally under your control and subservient to you? A man is a man when he stands up in all his uniqueness and offers no excuses or apologies for who and what he is. No man that asks permission from a woman to see if he is allowed to be himself can say he is a man. That type of person is a trained circus monkey or a dog. I am a man. I god king lord of my domain. It doesn't mean that if someone tells me my shoes are scuffed I will not polish them. But anything that touches on my identity is sacred unto me. I define myself. Not you. Not god. Not the president. Anyone who entertains manipulation by another person deserves no respect.

[@johngrisanti547]

And if a woman wants a guy, it don’t matter what he says what he has, or even if he’s married, that woman will take what she wants !

[@rogerd4559]

@@johngrisanti547 A woman will take what she wants and when she leaves will leave an empty husk of a man

[@mdredheadguy1979]

"do girls secretly hate you?" My dating experience has shown the answer is a resounding YES! 😢

[@marnikinrys]

:-(

[@jbougger]

Can say the same about my marriage :(

[@raygordon8968]

Wtf is that? If you think it it's true for you.

[@legendkillersshittyduffleb932]

@@godsownlunatics9650 sorry about that. Hope you find someone

[@sbamba3027]

@@marnikinrys XDDD

[@mikeviall811]

Just finding a non-depressed, non-obese woman who does not blame men for all the world’s problems is the hardest part.

[@leftinlister829]

You sound depressed and blaming women for your own problems.

[@mikeviall811]

@@leftinlister829 No, just more experienced than you.

[@leftinlister829]

@@mikeviall811: Yeah, more experienced at being insecure. Bully for you! :)

[@mikeviall811]

@@leftinlister829 Having a bad day are we?

[@leftinlister829]

@@mikeviall811: Nay, lad, nay. If my own sex wants to make a klutz of itself, it's not my business! Go ahead and act the fool if you must. You're obviously not stupid, but I don't know what you get from posturing as sexist.

[@13elad49]

In my dating life, these eight items can certainly go both ways.

[@Michael_RareZebra]

Men aren’t allowed to say that, lol.

[@25xxfrostxx]

I'd say if a woman interrupts me in the middle of a sentence, she's already broken a couple of rules.

[@alexflips393]

Additional habit: not taking care of their own health. 1: bragging 2: disqualifying competition 3: over complimenting 4: teasing too much 5: asking too many questions 6: being stoically unimpressed 7: allowing her to interrupt you easily 8: inability to hold a conversation

[@nathan2813]

Thanks for the synopsis - VERY helpful!

[@nathan2813]

I don't agree that "allowing her to interrupt you" is one. If she does that and doesn't ask you to resume, she's obviously not interested in it. Just make a note of it and move on until you find something about you she IS interested in (if anything).

[@arkparrothead]

Trying to walk this tight rope is why more and more men are choosing single life.

[@keithbriangarnes77]

More and more men choosing single life? Only because they're not mature enough to see that it takes work to live life. No matter what you want to accomplish in life you have to work at it to keep it and maintain it. All relationships require diligent hard work to keep them in good shape and that's every relationship you have from family and friends to a special someone in your life. If you don't want to do the work it takes that Marni recommends then you're definitely not a real man. You're a boy playing in a man's body thinking he can act however he chooses towards whoever is in his world. Nothing good ever came easy or ever will. You got to work your behind off to get it and then work even harder to keep it. But once you learned the habits and processes needed to make a great relationship the work needed is maintenance only with brush up skill work here and there. And it's worth it! Try it and you might discover something about yourself you never knew.

[@rebent1016]

Let's all go to the Philippines . And you don't have to do any of this BS. LOL

[@franklinj1038]

Amen!

[@johnb8275]

@@rebent1016 Did you get the feeling this was an infomercial for vitamins which led into one of those droning nasal whine sessions from your thrice divorced aunt? Wow. I never want to work THAT hard at something that doesn't award me a PhD.

[@tyyneviljakainen5108]

@@keithbriangarnes77 Exactly Keith!!! You are a smart man!

[@alistaircorstorphine7469]

I’ve been single since I was 18 ( in that time I went to uni and studied quantum mechanics and engineering) and I kid you not it’s a million times easier than trying to date, as a lot of women wouldn’t have a clue about the stuff I like talking about

[@ICU1337]

If the only thing you can do is talk about work, then thats a personal issue. I work in a highly technical field. Never dated anyone in that field. Rarely ever talk about my job. Its ok to talk about your field of expertise but if thats all you got in your back pocket, then you need to add a few more layers.

[@alistaircorstorphine7469]

@@ICU1337 the other things I like to do is Gaming and Fossil hunting along with shooting,

[@wilsonlee6819]

Education is the key....I agree with you 💯,

[@user-dy2zy8rd2t]

The only one who might--is an Asian girl.They are pretty smart.

[@michaelcaruso4055]

Men haven't changed thru the generations. We're now dealing with the 3rd wave of feminism and it has DEE-STROYED dating. Women need to understand that they are following US. Guys, get your fitness and finances right and just be you. WE are the prize. We built this world that they live in.

[@mojomanmurph1925]

Prenups especially if you are financially doing well before you met them. Talk to divorce attorneys for an hour to listen to the horror stories. Worth the hour fee.

[@tskaesha2540]

The three stages of Feminism: Equality We Can Be Men We Are Men

[@hugovelasco1586]

I believe the advice given here is truly valuable. We as men can always learn to be better with women.

[@jasoncaine2600]

🤦🏼

[@stinkwd]

I feel truly sorry for this woman’s husband.

[@keithgraham9547]

Why? He picked her. If he doesn't like it, it's his own fault. If about 40% of men getting married seriously considered that question before proposing, there would be less divorces. If you don't chose wisely, it's your own fault.

[@hippiekarl7]

@@keithgraham9547 What 'question' are you referring to here? He didn't even ask one; he opined on how he felt toward her husband. The only question in the thread is *yours* (about why he feels sorry for her husband), and that's certainly not something "about 40% of men getting married need to consider seriously", is it?! You should provide the Question that you brought up, if you think that 40% of suitors need ask it of themselves. I'd infer it's more likely something about their own intended wives (but you appear to have left your very Topic out of your post)....who knows?!

[@keithgraham9547]

@@hippiekarl7 My, my, somebody must have peed on your homegrown weed stash. If you bothered to read the thread, it's obvious I was replying to the initial post that stated to the effect of "...I feel sorry for her husband..." Why would you? He selected her, so he either likes the way she acts, or ignored all the red flags that had to be showing. That's the obvious question, do you like the way the other person acts enough to get married? In first marriages, about 44% end in divorce. Plus a number of second d and third marriages. Some of those are probably just inevitable because things change. But most are because one or both mates chose...poorly. Then they turn to dust.

[@hippiekarl7]

@@keithgraham9547 Like I said, the initial post in our thread (to which you responded) contained ~no~ 'question', either implied or specific...and the one ~you~ asked next (the thread's SOLE question) wasn't even about "40% of suitors"; it was about the OP's empathy for the uploader's husband. That's what I just pointed out: you failed to mention the question you attempted to claim was vital to 40% of suitors' potential happiness. If you re-read your post, you'll finally see that. You are the only one who had an alleged question people should answer pre-marraige, but you FAILED TO MENTION IT. You also, for someone who forgot to include your Question in your discussion ~about~ your supposed question, got unnecessarily snarky when asked to finish your post (ie include it's 'topic question' for us). That which you think, but don't type, is NOT 'implicit'; it's poor internet communication....as is your desire to make information you leave out of your post (a non-existent 'question', in this case) *others' fault* . I'd recommend that, next time you suggest people answer a question that no one even asked, that you supply the question in question. Public school, amirite?!

[@hippiekarl7]

@@keithgraham9547 I see that, in the spirit of Personal Damage Control, you've since gone back to your first post and edited in the question you left out originally, and that I responded to....looks like ~you~ are the one who got their 'stash peed in', now. Nice.

[@MikeWhiskyTango]

I will be doing all these things, thanks. Its the perfect checklist to keep them away.

[@keithbarnhart6952]

#7 is just flat out wrong. If a woman interrupts me, all that says to me is she's covertly testing me, or she's rude and doesn't have manners, or she's arrogant.(or possibly a combination) Judging my momentary acquiescence as a sign of weakness is 100% wrong, and it will only serve to make me not contact that person anymore. If the person is rude or testing me up-front, before things have begun, they will only get worse from there.

[@scottsevits9408]

as a man i enjoy the videos that tell men what they are doing righ or wrong. However it just seems as though there are so many things that turn women off or make them reject men that it's almost impossible to please them. it seems women want perfection from men, looks job personality etc. even though most women themselves are far from perfect. its discouraging and depressing. men should just focus in themselves and forget about dating etc.

[@longhair-dontcare9983]

I'm on it, Scott. I'm already halfway there. I'm at peace most of the time, no drama, eat good, happy. I think most men would choose this over an obnoxious woman any day!

[@johnmininger7472]

@@longhair-dontcare9983 - Why would you date obnoxious women?

[@longhair-dontcare9983]

@@johnmininger7472 Exactly!

[@EfficientRVer]

I'm OK with either of us doing most of the talking on a first date, I'm OK (but not thrilled) with being interviewed/grilled, or just in general meeting her needs/wishes about what makes her comfortable getting to know me however she wants. What I'm not OK with, is when she is inept at guiding the conversation/process, gives no cues, and then gets PO'd if by default I use my own style/process, and again fails to give cues that she wants something else.....and then explodes either at the end of the date, or in contact after the date that I talked too much, too little, asked too few questions, my answers to her questions were too brief or too long, etc. I'm flexible, skilled, and able to spot even subtle cues, but I'm not a mind reader. Far too many women assume that their own preferred process is the only way, or the way all women like a date to go. Plenty have a very bizarre view of communication in general, and are clueless about how abnormal their own assumptions are. It's like they assume there are only a few kinds of women, they are the best type, and I should know their preferences. I once went on 200 first dates in 18 months to see if I could categorize women and come up with an ideal way to approach any woman. I found 200 categories of women, needing 200 different approaches. The ones who didn't hide what they wanted, and who actually engaged in thought and conversation with me, were much more attractive to me, and much happier with me, than ones who expected me to already inherently understand them. Because I felt a need to learn all this, I actually declined a great number of opportunities for relationships that were mine for the asking. In hindsight, 4 of the 200 women were potential lifelong keepers. But I don't regret the experience or any particular decision not to proceed. I needed answers about how to understand women, more than I needed any particular woman at that moment. Knowledge lasts longer than almost any relationship does. So does the confidence gained from learning how to deal with a multitude of individuals, personality types, conversational types, situations, backgrounds, professions, expectations, etc.

[@Geno20916]

I think you are over thinking. Women are easy. Maybe you should watch AMS and get a better understanding on how to be a high value male. Focus on you and the women will too.

[@joshuhlman2559]

Brother i'm all for critiquing modern women, but if you go on 200 dates and don't really connect with any of them, then the common denominator - is you.

[@EfficientRVer]

@@joshuhlman2559 Thinking I didn't connect with any of them is very incorrect. There were probably 30 of the 200 with plenty of mutual attraction/chemistry, and maybe half of those with few enough red flags that we'd both have normally been happy to have at least a fling. There were even 4 where after 3-4 dates, we both thought an LTR or marriage would likely happen and last, if we chose to give it a try. I simply decided not to give it a try yet, and also to not just use anyone with serious intentions, when I wasn't ready to become serious. Maybe if I'd met someone different, I'd have been ready to give her a try sooner than how things played out in reality with those I did meet. But it wasn't for lack of meeting great women, or lack of connecting, that I declined to get involved. In hindsight, it was a mistake passing on the best ones, yet it was necessary at the time. In the same sense that it would have been a mistake not quitting college when Bill Gates did, to become his business partner. Hindsight is 20/20, but usually finishing college is the smarter move career-wise, just as meeting a lot of women before picking one is a smart move dating-wise, if you feel unsure of who/what you really want. I just wasn't looking to seduce anyone, have a fling, or start a relationship at the time. I was looking to meet a lot of women and figure out what sort of woman I wanted the most, while having fun dates and honing my dating skills. Which I did accomplish. Then when I decided I was ready to get involved with someone, I had 5 little flings in a year and then began an LTR which lasted 14 years, the same length as my marriage had been. Just because it's tempting to start any relationship where you "connect", doesn't mean that you have to do so. It's OK to say "Nice meeting you, I'm sorry that I've decided against pursuing a relationship, despite having good vibes that it could work", to keep looking and keep learning about women, without jumping into bed. For me, jumping into bed even on a whim normally (as in, anytime but that year after the 200-date learning experience) means 5-18 months spent with a woman, because I'm not in a hurry to dump anyone when the woman is nice and the sex is great. I've only been dumped twice in my life, and only once if I don't count my divorce after 14 years when my wife decided "mission accomplished, I have everything I want now and don't need a guy anymore."

[@Jubee12]

I’ve never been someone who was comfortable with giving nor receiving complements, especially receiving them

[@jraybay]

Lol same

[@nathan2813]

Haha, I don't KNOW how I feel about receiving compliments. I don't think I've ever received one! :oD

[@markpayne9698]

Great video & tips 👍 Thank you Marni

[@spirit-moorecontententerta4283]

Oh my gosh Marni now I’m gonna have to write this down and have it be laminated in a folder and everything else you’ve covered in other videos as well so everything I knew wasn’t correct and I can fix them because now I’m so invested that I want to watch more videos than ever now thanks again you’re a huge help.

[@myroadtours6147]

1) I really try to avoid this one being a car collector and self employed business owner. 2) No one likes negativity, I roll with things and try to be positive. 3) Always use compliments sparingly. 4) teasing is great if done right...its like an art form, you really have to know when and where. 5) a balanced conversation is key for sure. This is a moment where you guys can get to know each other a little. 6) emotions are where its at! Let loose a little, talk, have fun. Women are emotional creatures and they need to know you're human and not some gruff person they should avoid. 7) interruptions happen, just depends on how you handle them or how frequent they happen. 8) Some people freeze when it comes to conversing with strangers, especially women. Their okay out of the gate but peter out quick. This was never an issue for me, doesn't matter, guy, girl, super model, I can carry a conversation with nearly anyone.

[@KenD67]

@@Jackgritty28 I'm 54 and no Casanova but never married, and I went to college, so I've seen my share. Others might have other ideas but what I've always found works for me is 1) make them laugh for real and 2) when my animals show me affection, it tells the woman a lot. One in particular (who happened to have the largest natural breasts I've ever seen - she was 19 I was like 22 at the time) said she was amazed about the 2 cats.. "They ADORE him!" she later told me she told a girl friend. Her friend had told her, "see how his 2 cats treat him and it should tell you a lot about him." I thought that was kinda clever, actually, of her friend to observe. Such a shame, tho...19 yrs old and already talking about breast reduction surgery...at any rate, laughter and animals works.

[@paulsanjurjo4390]

Any type of insecurity, weakness, neediness, emotional immaturity or any type of toxicity (drama) is a deal breaker in a relationship with me personally. These are the things that are what I look out for in a relationship with a woman. I recently lost my wife of 20 years and she had none of the aforementioned flaws that make it a deal breaker. Recently, there was someone else who was somewhat in my life and the drama was following her like a magnet. Needless to say, she is in the friend zone because of that.

[@robieknapp2502]

Women always want something they can have water

[@esau93631]

damn you keep her that close?

[@jerrys.1910]

By "lost" your wife I'm assuming she passed away. If so, very sorry to hear. Sincere condolences. The "drama" thing is my biggest deal breaker...life's too short. And a close second is being "interviewed" with a hundred personal questions.

[@harryaxe5167]

Marni's comments are good general statements. A balanced conversation can easily lead to friendship's. From friendship to much more.

[@thomasprobert7065]

Great vid.

[@Stixenterprise]

Marni, I say adios politely when a woman constantly interrupts my conversation. This is an unattractive habit that turns off men. This is her personality and she does this when we are suppose to be on our best behavior during courtship..no thanks.

[@leftinlister829]

I agree with that. Having to raise your voice to stop anyone interrupting sucks. I'd rather go for a nice walk in the country than talk to shouty people. The polite adios is excellent.

[@mabe2551]

I'd say: Stop interrupting me. If she continues, then adios.

[@user-nd5ut4zo2p]

Handsome and extroverted: fun guy, life and soul of the party Ugly and extroverted: annoying, try hard, obnoxious Handsome and introverted: deep, mysterious, highly intelligent Ugly and introverted: boring, weird, 'eww he's such a creep!' For many of us it never even began.

[@macmann915]

Thanks marni, tips that are helpful, just what I needed!!

[@kthx1138]

This is good stuff--thank you!

[@josephmessina3587]

Thank GOD, I am 70 yrs old widower who doesn't have to worry about stupid meaningless antics to meet a women anymore. In the end it's all in vain.

[@gabriellebudd1166]

This is so ridiculous it's like going for a job interview and you can't be who you really are... you like the person or you don't... the bottom line finding fault being critical and expecting perfection from the man it's better she looks at herself first before she judges another...

[@markdavid4897]

They will never do that.

[@mrprimenumbers6448]

Thank you, insightfully helpful.

[@mikegardiner335]

Number #7 & #8 were good suggestions, the others were somewhat common sense. Thank you.

[@Oldclimber1]

She's talking about another guy in positive terms ... "Well, if he's that great, why aren't you with him ?" while on your way out the door in refusing to play those games.

[@cecilwhiting125]

Q: Have You ever said anything positive about or looked at another woman in the presence of a woman YOU were dealing with?

[@cecilwhiting125]

What I do, if she complements another guy, I get 2, 3 maybe 4 woman to pay ME complements! It really works well, try it and see what your results are.

[@Oldclimber1]

@@cecilwhiting125 I guess you don't realize that your "compliment" thing is playing games from YOUR side. They are as superior at playing those kind of games as you are at walking away or punching them out. The latter of yours is outlawed, and the the other keeps getting eaten away with "palimony", "cohabitation marriage", common law marriage etc.. And remember, theirs is lauded by other women and a lot of simps.

[@samuelt.kisaame7787]

Reason for No.8 - different tastes in life. It's very rare to click with a woman except if there's a topic of mutual interest e.g gossip which is usually started by the woman. I've since learnt that women have plenty to talk about when gossiping and expect men to listen attentively whilst occasionally feeding into the gossip.

[@BrentTaylor56]

Thank you Marni. Good advice!

[@danieldowling5327]

Thanks for your advice

[@srenteddylarsen892]

About #8: One of the biggest differences between men and women is the ability to blabber non stop. Us men, we talk with the purpose of either giving or recieving information. We don't blabber away, just for the sake of blabbering. We can say the same thing as women, but while women use, say, 10 minutes - we are using maybe only 30 sec. In other words (to you women): GET TO THE FRIGGIN' POINT!!! And by the way: Why is it us men who has to change ourselves to get the womens attention? What about the other way around? Women are not some unicorns which men has to sell their souls to win over. Women are not enigma's - they are at least just as insecure as men. But women think that a bit of makeup and a show of titties can make any men interested, and they totally forget that, to get what they (generally) want most of all: A long term relationship - they also have to show that they have something to offer, besides beauty and tits. That's why bimbo's get used and thrown away - and then they can't understand what went wrong.

[@chatteyj]

Here here. About time that some women learnt that a short skirt isn't a major turn on either, it screams harlot and cheapness.

[@machinemaker2248]

I want to add that complimenting even a little bit more than normal, even if sincere, comes across as an acknowledgement that she is too good for him and she could do better.

[@johnstafford2627]

Thank you for sharing

[@jonathanfactor6688]

Great video thanks hun

[@mooseymoo1328]

I like the, Sleep with you again part right at the beginning. I wouldn't sleep with 99% of the ones I have, again! Once was bad enough! I've never been married, but have had a lot of wives!

[@PREPFORIT]

I have done NONE of these things.

[@b374mxg]

I really love these tips. Thank you!

[@alessandromuscinelli8896]

I enjoy listening to you. Compliments for the communication and presentation skills!!

[@MrGriff305]

The internet's constant talk of winning a woman as the ultimate goal and the thousands of things men need to do to improve their status and change their personality has made me not give a shit about dating a woman anymore. This new focus on perfect socializing and perfect male behavior has just ruined the scene now. In several ways, the internet has destroyed romance and deeper meaning in relationships.

[@davidrussell6821]

Thanks Marni! I watch your videos not to attract women, but instead help me continue to strengthen my relationship with my wife. I want to be a better man for her.

[@marnikinrys]

That is the best thing I’ve heard today :-)

[@djbrizzletrill]

@@marnikinrys you're amazing, Marni i love you❤️ive been watching your videos, listening to your ads, and receiving your automated emails for years, and I always appreciated the advice you gave out to men who need to hear these things, we all appreciate you, but i do a little more 🙂

[@teabagassasin]

Same for me!

[@machinemaker2248]

So your wife checks your history? Lol Teasin' ya.

[@okaunis]

@@djbrizzletrill Screwball. :)

[@arshie26]

One aspect of this video I really like is that there are a few places where you can tell Marni stumbles...just a bit. Super relatable!

[@MikeFromDownUnder]

Thanks for sharing this❗👍🤙

[@the1337fleet]

Disqualifying competition (tip 2) is my fav one here because yes in the moment I don't like it when she talks about other guys, but I decided not to be a jealous person and just went along with the conversation. Maybe that unknowingly showed confidence in myself!

[@the1337fleet]

@Alex Vera that's great! I agree. We are allowed to be attracted to others. My date talks about men in her past, like cute guys who tried to hit on her, exes, etc. But I don't own their past. I freely talk about my experiences, and she's open to hearing and is curious about them. Idk if that makes us more like friends, hopefully not.

[@paulshallbetter1080]

I've always handled this situation by asking one or two insightful questions. i.e. she says, "He's hot..." after which I might ask, "What about him do you think is hot?" If she says, "I love the way he speaks," I might ask "Yes, he expresses himself well, but I don't really agree with his opinions." This manner of question opens dialogue and helps you avoid pitfal #8 without looking like a DB lacking in confidence.

[@the1337fleet]

@@paulshallbetter1080 nice one!

[@steveworley2997]

“I want a hot girlfriend” vs “I love having free time to do whatever I want whenever I want without drama”. Hmm 🤔 choices…..,

[@SuperMaosy]

I have been watching your advise videos off and on for a month or so. It is very informative. I like how you keep it real and no sugar coat any subject. I am impress by the man that has or had won your heart. Because you will and shall see through all the BS and one liners. Thanks!!!

[@shanemcmillion159]

Thank you for your information

[@dbloyd2]

I think I'll use this list to reject women that do these things to me. Let them sweat for a change.

[@jeffreyjann1263]

That’ll show ‘em, Bloyd.

[@marnikinrys]

:-)

[@Kris_P._Bey_Ken]

Sure davey, she's gotta be attracted to you and very interested in you first. Not the other way around.

[@dbloyd2]

@@Kris_P._Bey_Ken It has to be a two way street. Not like how it is today where woman call all the shots and men just grab anything that moves. I won't waste time with a woman that isn't interested in me.

[@michaelgoltz117]

Putting down other women also is a complete turn off for a guy. I once had a woman do this about an ex-gf and my relationship with her and it was a complete turn off for me.

[@michaelbrinks8089]

Double standards as usual....I was on a date with a 34 yr old and she started making fun of the 19 yr old waiter because he was overweight and had acne. Said she was grossed out by the fact that he might touch her food. I'm sure she would of been turned off with me if I had made fun of a waitress for having acne & being overweight.

[@richarddavisiii9910]

Thank U for the Pointers...by the way ur hair looked amazing in this video...hope u have an awesome day

[@markward6076]

I'm doing a rematch right now and she is totally right. I've been feeling low for the past few years in every way, so that keeps me negative towards my abilities.

[@BassboatRadio]

You put some serious thought into that first sponsor segway👌🏽

[@marnikinrys]

Haha.

[@toorpat1410]

Segue

[@hartshacks6445]

If they don’t like what they see then MoveOn you don’t need them they want to change you and they don’t love you

[@allenu5152]

She's so right! You just touched on just a few things that women like and or Don't like! Conversation is so important. Listening is also a must! Great video Marni!

[@jeffwhitney3369]

Listening is a must but who the fuck wants too!

[@stupiderthanjupiter4987]

she's honest and real, and I respect and am encouraged.

[@nyterpfan]

LMAO!! I swear--trying to keep up with all the "do's and don't's" in these dating advice videos is like trying to memorize every word in the Chinese dictionary!! Be happy, be free, be confident and proud of who you are and your values--somebody will notice and will be attracted to you! If you aren't being yourself you'll never be free. Shakespeare nailed it: "This above all, to thine own self be true."

[@einarreriksson4598]

For me it has depended on how confident I felt at that time. When I was working out or running, I felt good and knew that I didn't have to push too hard with Birds (British slang for girls). Then there were times I didn't feel confident and I pushed too hard... Crash and burn.

[@johnaverick7468]

Boy, I havn't heard Bird used like chicks for quite a while. btw Some of the Jewish girls here in the states used to call your johnson your bird if ya know what I mean. lol

[@einarreriksson4598]

@@johnaverick7468 I was stationed in the UK back in the 90s when I was in the Air Force. I picked up British words which often appear in my vocabulary. Don’t tell a girl that your going to hit her on the Fanny.

[@bigofano1794]

Yammering on and on, the message from this lady that I receive. RUN, RUN FAST, NOW BROTHER.

[@halfluckhalffate571]

Oh Marni….I love that you get all dolled up for me in these videos. Don’t deny it. You know it’s true. 😊 and I love your sense of style. Shows a slight edge to you.

[@ianhinson2829]

Good tips. Even for a guy that would normally tick all those boxes, it's handy just to have this list so a guy can keep himself in check. Thanks.

[@johnaverick7468]

True, I have trouble with the bragging part I believe. Thank God it hasn't derailed me to often with the women.

[@datroof2262]

If you are finding yourself needing to keep yourself in check, you are pretending.

[@fabioschroeder6681]

After watching several videos by Marni. I was really amazed by her advice on do's and don'ts she's very helpful and all it takes is to practice practice practice and believe in yourself. You'll be amazed by your own accomplishments.

[@grumblesa10]

Understood, but allow me to relate my experiences with Marni's stuff. SOME of it's really useful especially for just getting out there and talking to women. However, a lot of it is based on frankly standard "seduction industry" memes-specifically the "Use this ONE/TWO word(s) to get the girl" type stuff. If you think about that no WAY is that even close to accurate. At least one of her "success stories", mine, is not quite what I submitted-overall correct but missing a couple details. Also read those testimonials carefully and see how many are REALLY about getting/developing a relationship; assuming that's you're looking for. Is she a rip-off, ABSOLUTELY NOT. Better than most- Absolutely-just be skeptically friendly :)

[@dennismccolley1380]

I'm not gonna try to remember a routine I'm just gonna be myself being yourself works or it doesn't work . But there's no dues and don't to remember being yourself

[@datroof2262]

Or you cannot worry about practicing lists and just be yourself.

[@davidgarcia4657]

Fabio, you'd be nothing more than her puppet.

[@johnsimpson4715]

Congratulations! Whether from self-discipline or creative editing, your hair flipping is down from over two per minute to less than one per minute. Very much less distracting. It is nice to see an advice coach who can take advice as well as give it. I'm impressed. I'll even subscribe!

[@sajanthomasind2505]

Hi Marni.. I feel this video was exclusively made for me. Appreciate your efforts and it helped me in a big way. Thanks Love from India

[@noelnewlon]

Excessively running one's hands through one's hair while in discourse indicates a bit of self-centeredness, usually producing in those observing this a faint desire to avoid said compulsive hair handler.

[@robertdevoy3119]

It's a common thing with female posters. Constantly screwing around with their hair.

[@frankch1959]

It stood out with me also. She sure does flick and toss her hair quite a bit

[@kevinswinyer3176]

When a woman plays with her own hair in the presence of a Man whom she does not know, it can be a sign that she is attracted to, and interested in getting to know that Man in a more personal way.

[@jcdahippie]

#8 Long conversations have to do with common interests. The less in common, the shorter the conversation and pulling away happens on both sides. I wouldn't say that is something that's bad. Just one of life's lessons.

[@Reilly_CC]

Well said! 👏 👏👏

[@domingodeanda233]

That was pretty damn good, thanks

[@hittheground2329]

Marni is having the answer of my questions all she just said was what I needed in my life♥️♥️💯🇿🇦

[@pascalmerschaudio]

dont over complementing mate

[@hewittzhotwheelz]

"I won't sleep with "guys" that do this" Dang, already planning multiples. I won't mess with girls that plan to ride CC's, if I know about it that is, just can't trust them these days, it's all about the BBD, Bigger, Better, Deal, and yes sometimes the other BBD as well. So glad I grew up before all this slu**ing around, still had them back then, but they weren't the majority like it is now. Man I feel for the younger men these days.

[@angelramos-ortiz9696]

Inability to Hold a Conversation : It is not that most of us can or can't keep the conversation going , again the iphone/Android gets in the way , You start talking and IMMEDIATELY they start texting and watching if someone has given her a like I had a date in which the woman I was dating told a friend of her to call her every 20 to 30 minutes to make sure that she was alright so in the case that she was bored or something she can make an excuse of having an Emergency that she had to go. By the third call I asked her if something was wrong and if she needed to leave because of all the calls and that we could re-schedule the date SHE GOT MAD !!!! and of course never called , during the date in which I was behaving like a TRUE GENTLEMAN I felt like she thought that I was some kind of Creep that she had to be saved from every 20 to 30 minutes.

[@paulshallbetter1080]

Hey, don't feel bad. I once was having sex with a lady in the puppy position. I thought everything was going great...until I heard tones from her phone and realized that she was checking her Twitter and FB in the midst of the sex act. Very sad.

[@thomashelget4369]

Thanks for the videos Marni. It is a wonder men and women make it together at all.

[@andrewtremblay262]

Marni , as always great content . Keeping in shape and taking care of oneself should be a given but sadly many don’t . You age given me through these videos a glance into what a woman thinks . Don’t get me wrong I don’t pretend to understand everything but I know in my sales career you have to think what the customer is thinking.. same thing just understand her and be your best

[@charlesritter6640]

I disagree that women want you to talk 90% of the time when you first meet them. Women want someone to listen to them more than they want someone to talk to them.

[@travisjenson1730]

Thank you 🙏 I feel way better after this , turns out I had already figured out all but one of these through my own trial n failure 😅 so glad I stumbled upon this 👍

[@C5Ron7]

Thank You 🙏🏼

[@mikeviall811]

I know Marni is trying to help but Bill Burr’s advice is way healthier

[@ben16red]

Okay the real question here is which side should Marni keep her hair? I prefer the left. I think it's adorable how she just keeps moving it back and forth in conversation; I don't even think she realizes it.

[@ironknuckle143]

Her left? Or yours?

[@rusosure7]

You honestly don't think she realizes it? Yup

[@charlesrhoden9987]

Right on Marni

[@wordforlife1585]

8 Excellent suggestions. I'm impressed that you, as a woman, would warn men (7) not to let women interrupt. You are fair and I like that. If a woman, or anybody, starts to interrupt me during my speaking, I simply say, "excuse me, may I finish, may I finish please?" It works everytime because they will acknowledge that they are being rude. Good job Marni. Number 8 is 50/50. Holding a conversation and not having much to say about the conversation are 2 different things. If you hold the conversation just for the sake of holding a conversation, it could come off as meaningless because women are very keen. If you don't say things about things you don't know about, the woman could find him interesting so the "conversation" thing is a 50/50%. Great video Marni. I encourage men and women alike to love honor cherish and respect the person that they want to be with no matter what comes against you in A-day. Maintain integrity, don't tolerate nonsense, dont negotiate with bullies and you can't go wrong. I have subscribed.

[@goatmoonwarmaster4641]

Holding a conversation: many women has nothing to talk about

[@registraforum]

lol these kind of women.. just give them money to let them go

[@leftinlister829]

"many women has..." is badly-written English. "Many women have..." is better. Either way, what a dumb generalization. Most of the comments on here are unhealthy, some downright creepy.

[@kc270352]

"She's not yours, it's just your turn" 🙂 😏 😉

[@mt-nv4jd]

Exactly.

[@rino7789]

True words!

[@esau93631]

if you are lucky you might be one of the first 5000 people to ride in the rental car

[@neilbeech4093]

This is a good video!

[@donquihote6023]

I listened to this so I could add them to my game plan. Sometimes picking your nose doesn't drive the away.

[@zibbezabba2491]

So the advice of "Just be yourself" is a fallacy then. Having watched about half a dozen of these types of videos in the last couple of days (dating advice, what to do, what not to do) I've come to the conclusion that you have to change yourself into 007 to even get a girl to speak to you.

[@jwise5204]

I've always been myself. From 13- 45 I didn't give a crap,girls were on me over and over. I'm not a great talker but I got all the other bases covered. Now I meet young gals that seem interested but I feel creepy to be near 60 and they are 20. I think I'll just work on my toys 😅

[@shaunsteele8244]

that advice only works if you're like 20-25

[@lucid_delirium976]

Rule #1. Never take advice from women on how to date women. Why you ask? Because they are clueless and If you are alpha enough, she will like anything you do. Period.

[@paradelights]

Solid commonsense advice sister...I just to be very authentic. The truth is all ways is best.

[@tskaesha2540]

Just look for the insecurities and show solutions in the caring way...you're a hero.