9 Skill Sets Every Man Must Master

[@manuelcalderon5863]

1. Education 2. Money 3. Style 4. Leadership 5. Physical training 6. Martial art 7. Communication 8. Mental fortitude 9. A good networker (adding value to other people lives). Greetings from Mexico order of man

[@shawnferrie6990]

My spirit is always built up whenever I read or listen to your talks. I don't put anyone on a pedestal but I do acknowledge when someone stands out in the crowd. I am so grateful I came across the group Order of Man. Be blessed

[@Orderofman]

Thank you brother. Glad you're here.

[@yehudasam]

I just found the OoM by chance a few weeks ago, and im totally hooked! I love the podcast and the beautyful feeling of joining this wonderful order, of men, who just want to become better versions of ourselvs.

[@afry214]

I would have to say that number 10 would be learn a musical instrument. Helps with coordination and thinking outside the box.

[@antoinebeauchemin8054]

Its like meditation

[@fdoceballos]

Great summary! I would definitely put "effective communication" as one of the top skills for anyone to master.

[@SiimLand]

Resourcefulness - turning shit into gold and coming up with novel solutions to complex problems in whatever circumstances

[@Orderofman]

Agreed.

[@Raphael-bg9qy]

Absol-fucking-lutely!!

[@MiguelElAguila1]

I CAN TELL YOU THAT EVERY POINT YOU STATED IS ON POINT. I HAVE ALWAYS PAID ATTENTION TO EVERY DETAIL ABOUT MYSELF AND HOW IM PERCIEVED BY OTHERS.

[@ralfgroh5967]

As usual, concrete advice that I use practically to become a better man. Thx.

[@oreokarail]

Thank you! You have inspired me, sir.

[@streetstunt73]

Dude thankyou! You are a valued gem! Thank you for your wisdom,motivation,kicking us in the ass, And your advancement of men! You rock!

[@andersondossantos3503]

Thank you!!! Respect from Brazil.

[@jefersonrhoden8184]

Boa!

[@gangstaparadise2680]

Pqp mano vou falar denovo, tem BR em td lugar nn eh possível

[@leonardgoffe7159]

You should do another video about money management, instant gratification vs. long-term growth.

[@mrgruffy4499]

ABSOLUTELY! The reason many are in dire financial straits is that they were never trained in managing money. "You can have it NOW! with easy monthly, or weekly, payments." Get cash NOW from your local loan shark, and pay 200% interest. Why aren't these skills taught in school? East to answer. The banks and the big corporations control the schools (erroneously called "education")

[@Dean90125]

Great idea

[@richisamanoffocus9394]

Brilliant Ideas. Another great video 🤘

[@Justin-baxe]

Great skills that every man should have! Thank you for educating other men.

[@crypto2274]

Great video Ryan. Thank you for your continued steadfastness in pouring into the lives of men. Keep being you.

[@Orderofman]

You bet, thank you!

[@leecorleone]

just stumbled on this channel. AWESOME.

[@Berryservices]

All good points - thanks!

[@37south47]

How bout changing a tire? Making repairs around the house? Teaching and raising kids? Protecting and honoring your wife? Vehicle maintenance? Being the leader of your household? Being a man of your word? I could go on and on with this subject!

[@Orderofman]

Yep, all of those things are important.

[@jbdesignandconstruction]

Currently on vacation but couldn’t pass up on your video. Great upload 👍🏻 . Cheers from SD,CA 🍻

[@Orderofman]

Right on, thanks for tuning in!

[@walterquevedo4661]

Good talk

[@NTEDOG561]

Style is always important

[@rodrigofernandes3834]

Well spoken, man! Thanks

[@Orderofman]

Rodrigo Fernandes thank you!

[@markvirgo9833]

I can really appreciate all of your points on what a man needs to become better In many areas. But it's a sad sad time in our society that we as a people,white men,Black men.,Asian men and Latino men who forget how important it is to realize that there really is a God our heavenly father who knows all of our needs.God must be first and there is strength and knowledge in the word of God. There is nothing like investing In God.The wisdom that is in the word of God goes beyond all of the points you describe and does so much more to make us real men. This is problem in America because we turn our back on God and the word in the holy scriptures. God makes men goes beyond who they are not our own understanding. Let's check ourselves.

[@basilistsakalos9643]

Thank you for that.

[@johnc1014]

Growing up, I was always more of a saver. I didn't like spending money and would rather put it away and save it (often to an extreme). Now, at 24, that has served me very well. I've always been opposed to debt, so I never got into trouble with that. And, I learned about Dave Ramsey and have modified his Baby Steps to fit my life. Compared to many of my peers, who spend plenty of time and money on video games, entertainment, and other time/money wasters, I recently bought my first home and am saving for a future marriage/family. I purposely got a 2 forms of debt, earlier, to build a credit score for the mortgage. But, I always paid the credit card off before the end of every month and a $250 personal loan I took out was paid regularly each month, as well. So, the only interest I've ever paid has been on the mortgage itself. Also, the credit card was a cash rewards card, so I actually earned a bit of money with a credit card. I have an emergency fund that's right where I want it. I automatically invest through my work. I was investing on the side, as well, but I've given up on that for now to focus on other things, like paying off my mortgage early. I always live on a budget, spend less than I make, and have a few things that I'm saving for: marriage/family and mission trips. Honestly, this seems so basic. Yet, most people lack even basic common sense when it comes to money and finances. It's really sad. I'm exceptional in this area, but I really shouldn't be. I haven't really done anything difficult. I just used common sense and a small about of planning and critical thinking.

[@johnc1014]

@benjamin ramsey Thank you for your comment. I actually don't mind reading longer ones (mine are usually too long). As far as movies, games, anime, etc, there's nothing wrong with those. Just realize that many people overdue it and spend far too much time with those sorts of entertainment. A little in moderation is perfectly fine. The key is simply balance. I once spent an entire summer doing almost nothing but playing online games and watching Star Trek. That was a waste of time and I got to the point of literally feeling like I was wasting my life away. But, there's nothing wrong with a little bit of video games or watching some TV and movies. Just don't go overboard, like I did. As far as marriage and children, I'd encourage you to think on that a bit more. At the end of the day, what are you really living for? What really maters in life? For me, I say #1 is my relationship with God. That strengthens my core, develops my character, and gives me ultimate purpose extending beyond this life. #2 is family. That means helping my parents back home and ensuring they are doing alright. That also means looking forward to a family of my own and ensuring I am ready for that responsibility. #3 is my responsibility to those around me (church, community, nation, and world). That includes everything from serving at church, helping others in need in my community, voting and civil participation, and keeping my little part of this world well-kept. When you're old and on your death bed, what is it that you have left behind? What impact have you left on others? Have you made a difference in anyone's life? The greatest impact you make is on those closest to you, namely your wife and children.

[@johnc1014]

@benjamin ramsey That's fair. You're still reasonably young. Though, none of us really knows how long we have. When you're young, you think you have all this time. When you're older, you realize how short life actually is. Time doesn't really determine anything. The person you become is a result of the choices you make, not time. I encourage you to figure out who you want to become and make choices in pursuit of that, whatever it is. I can't tell you how to live your life or what to value most. I only say to live life intentionally.

[@johnc1014]

@benjamin ramsey Good talking to you too.

[@great9800]

I agree with this.

[@ArcanumLab]

I was searching for answers. I don't know if you believe in a higher power or guardian angels. Somehow my search led me to your this video, through Bjørn Andreas Bull Hansen, through your comment. I thank you. God bless you.

[@adityaronaldo100]

What are you doing with your beard and how long did it take to grow?

[@franklynstanislaus2243]

Keep it up ...... I appreciate your content ...... I hv to start martial arts though

[@Orderofman]

Franklyn Stanislaus right on, when?

[@franklynstanislaus2243]

Where I live there aren't adult classes but hopefully when I move in august I'd like to start

[@eRockBrowser]

This some good stuff

[@holyroller2445]

Thanks

[@Orderofman]

holy roller you bet!

[@holyroller2445]

Order of Man your videos are very encouraging it's not easy to be a man

[@TT-eo5xj]

What to do if your 13 yr old doesn't want to wrestle or box or do jits???

[@thenavegante1988]

Greetings from the Czech Republic ✋

[@RyanMichler]

Glad you're here.

[@dailypayoutsystem]

Good Stuff! What type of physical fitness caused you to lose 50 lbs?

[@andrewwatson465]

Great video! Question, on explaining what a man is and masculinity overall. What is your take on the new commercial by Bonobos? It's about masculinity. Interested in knowing your thoughts.

[@Orderofman]

Andrew Watson that video has nothing to do with masculinity. It’s about a bunch of “men” (at least one of which is not a man) who want to hijack the term ‘masculine’ and make it something that it isn’t because they don’t fit the definition. Look, if a dude wants to be effeminate, fine, but you don’t get to take a word, and just make it mean whatever the hell you want. Tune into this week’s Friday Field Notes as I’m breaking it down a bit more.

[@andrewwatson465]

Order of Man Thank you for the quick response. I agree with you, and it was put in front of a video about mens style. I thought it was a slap in the face to what a true man is, as you explained in another video. I'm looking forward to seeing the field notes this week. Again thanks for all you do.

[@ryanumagat101]

Hey everyone, I've been following Ryan and the Order of Man podcast, youtube channel, IG, and recently got added to the FB Page. His values and beliefs are things that align closely with mine and I identify with often. If you're interested in seeing what it's like to see his podcast and actually live it out, I try to do that on my youtube channel. If you're on the FB Page, (if you're not, you should be!) you may have seen my post regarding hobbies, and a lot of your suggestions (BJJ/MMA/Muay Thai, Scuba Diving, Shooting, Hunting, Archery, Surfing, and plenty more!) are things I'm really considering getting involved in, and you can bet that I'll be uploading the footage of me learning those new skills to the channel. In a nutshell, if you want to see a 22 year old, recent college grad, working in engineering, learning and applying what we discuss here on the Order Of Man, subscribe to my channel! My goal is to make it to one of Ryan's podcasts one day. Thank you, men. - Ryan Umagat

[@ryanumagat101]

And not just hobbies, but the mindsets/mentality and skillsets discussed in the video will be a big part of my channel. As a 22 year old, how I handle my money now (investing, saving, getting out of debt, etc.) is extremely important so I'd be willing to learn a lot from you and also share what I learn, I'm basically just starting off in life and in my career, and that itself is already an exciting and interesting journey, so if you're even considering about following me along, please consider subscribing here and over on my channel!

[@mrgruffy4499]

"It's FRIDAY. I just got paid. It's PARTY TIME. I'm buying.

[@hoss5299]

I'm on board except 3 and 5. Style and Martial arts. IMHO.

[@Orderofman]

Hoss both are critical.

[@hoss5299]

This is a bad format for this discussion. But to each his own. Adapt, Improvise and Overcome.

[@shadiahmad9986]

@@hoss5299 you're going to have style, one way or the other. Either on purpose, or on accident.

[@martastefikova-hodur1267]

this should teach boys in school from elementary to progress to high school. So when they come to adulthood they are ready for every challenge.

[@timothyheadley7299]

Can anyone get one of them hats you got they look awesome, love the channel btw

[@Orderofman]

Timothy Headley you bet. Store.orderofman.com Thanks for the support!

[@livewiretennis]

Do you have a website for your financial consulting?

[@Orderofman]

I sold my practice about a month ago so I could focus all my attention on Order of Man.

[@rgsmith71]

The ability to properly curve the bill of a ball cap.

[@mikebanger819]

Totally Agree 💯 But With All Do Respect, We Must Also Focus On Being Educated On Dealing With Women And Understanding There Nature. Every Man Must Take The Redpill...

[@mescnick]

I like playing basketball

[@alexcantlow2920]

10 creativity I do calligraffi and graffiti. I ride so that's a sport and creativity tbd anything that opens your mind can be classed as being creative. What's everyone else's opinion on being creative.

[@Flaphand]

Ryan, love your content. Are these skills in any particular order? Like is there a hiarchy?

[@LordPaxr0312]

Flaphand I think they aren't, i think all the 9 skills got the same importance to build a Great Man, idk just saying

[@only20bucksx21]

Women blame us for not knowing what it is because no matter what circumstances we should already know but that's wrong. We are all brout to this Earth to figure things out some of us that grew up with out a father or good father in our lives and that's the cause it is not our fault this has to stop

[@Nenad-ICXC-Shuput-GFAMMA]

Beeaaavvveeerrr

[@ICraKzZ-dj8tj]

I'm blind as fuck i think i cant do Martial Arts

[@Betcaligarcia]

How about spirituality ?

[@Orderofman]

I believe that's important as well.

[@vinneyboombotz727]

Kinda a posure in my opinion, real men that are true to themselves dont worry about style thats so immature..you may have lost your 50 lbs,but chances are you will get it back when your older...RULE NUMBER 10..DONT BE A FOLLOWER AND BEING A HIPSTER...GET A NEW LOOK..BE YOUR SELF..LIVE YOUR LIFE IGNORE THE HEROS AND FUCK THE SYSTEM...

[@tim3tRav3l3RR60]

#10 mongolian throat singing

[@yonatantesfaye1565]

Use mic man !

[@graememorrison1380]

Skill 10. Grow a beard like Ryan

[@Orderofman]

Absolutely.

[@keithtomczyk4730]

I thought it was 8

[@Orderofman]

Keith Tomczyk it was but I too learn new things and gain new insights. I removed a few and added a few.