9 THINGS IM DOING DIFFERENTLY WITH BABY #2 + Postpartum Depression

Second baby: 9 things I’m doing differently and postpartum depression. Do I have it this time? How am I doing? #ad Google Health postpartum depression self-assessment screener: goo.gle/3mpzgYG
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Second baby: 9 things I’m doing differently and postpartum depression. Do I have it this time? How am I doing?

[@samanthaanne348]

Our tips was to do things as simply as possible: lots of snacks during the day, water bottles to remind me to drink, disposable dishes for the first 6 weeks so there were less dishes to clean, and we hired house cleaners during the new born phase.

[@alexandracoffey1534]

Carly, I know this is completely unrelated but that color is FOR YOU

[@rosaabbed4076]

100%

[@oksanakarpov6536]

Knowing the wake window was definitely my biggest tip with my second child! That and teaching the baby fall asleep without help makes a world of a difference.

[@naila.a.88]

What is wake window? For a newborn would it be like 2hr window for being awake then they should sleep?

[@oksanakarpov6536]

It’s the amount of awake time babies need between naps. For a newborn they’re only supposed to be up for 45 min to an hour and that includes the feeding. Sometimes babies don’t show you that they are tired until way later and it gets harder to get them to sleep because they are so cranky.

[@naila.a.88]

@@oksanakarpov6536 thank you for sharing that info! I had no idea it was only 45 mins to an hour for newborns.

[@lindafrazier7295]

I have never seen you look more beautiful...it's like you have a glow about you. I've followed you for years and as an older (77) viewer I have always admired your life choices and maturity.

[@LizBy021]

Thank you for sharing this! Social media was a trigger for me in those early months too. Good for you for noticing that!

[@SamA-vy6lq]

This is amazing! Would you be able to do a mommy morning routine? I feel like you will bring a productive, real morning routine 🙏🏽

[@annap1340]

As a mom until your kids are older there is no such thing as a productive set routine. Yes I have a list of things I try to do in the same order every morning but some days it’s takes me two hours and other days it takes me four, depending on my child’s mood, behavior and needs.

[@karenJRV]

This is my favorite Carly video ever. Thank you

[@judithwallace2091]

So great to see you are still posting videos.

[@headkandywhore]

HUGE CONGRATULATIONS AND RESPECT FOR YOU! You are a wonderful mother. I love that you got help when you needed it and despite all the difficulties you experienced with your daughter you love her to pieces and do not take your personal frustrations out on her 🧡❤️

[@mysonruns]

Asking for help is crucial after giving birth! My niece stayed with me the first few weeks. Not only are you caring for a newborn but, youre recovering yourself. Great video Carly!

[@loveyourgrief8223]

This is amazing!! I’ve been watching you for years. Best video you have ever made. Love you!

[@sabrinac3735]

Thank you for being so real!! You are amazing and your kids are so lucky to have you as their mom. Love you!!

[@JessicaRay4]

Love that you shared this and makes me feels so much more normal/less alone, and hopeful for having a second! Thank you! You are glowing 💕

[@justynafletcher864]

I would HIGHLY encourage every mom to take the postpartum depression test. Even if you don’t think you have it and especially if it’s your first baby. Looking back, I totally had postpartum depression and most likely postpartum anxiety but I had no clue because I just assumed it was a normal part of having a newborn. Take the test and get help. I wish someone had told me about it as I could have gotten help and had a way better experience than I did.

[@13yorkdukes]

I'm single as a pringle but I love that Google is doing that! It's going to help so many women!

[@SarahLee8888]

Great work Carly! New parents need to know this stuff. When my daughter was little I found that it was really helpful not to say “I’m tired” out loud. If I started saying it, I felt 1000% more tired. Best wishes to all the new Mamas out there. You’re never alone - just ask for help and people will be there 💞

[@debbiebrown5909]

Well i don't have any tips... I just found out at 37 i will be a Mom for the first time!!! I've watched your videos since the beginning and I like how you've grown as a person. Thank you for sharing your tips about Motherhood i appreciate all the help.

[@summerblinson6349]

I was 1 of 9. Thank you for speaking out! Therapy has been life changing.

[@lorrainegatzke1048]

Being a mother is a mammoth task. Thank you for these recommendations, I am sure this information will help a lot of parents out there. 💖

[@Emma-xd7nw]

Great to hear you know how to be more graceful to yourself this time! Kennedy’s baby stage seemed very challenging so no wonder you experienced postpartum depression. With my second baby i’ve been so much more relaxed, I hope you will be able to enjoy this period in different way too!

[@renadonald]

Proud of you Carly! 🥰

[@lindseyross7298]

I appreciate your honesty in this video! You look amazing, glad to see you taking cafe of you ❤️

[@kujbuszsofia8824]

At nights when I feeding my baby boy (14 weeks old) I don't even use my phone at all and it is just so nice! Also do my to do list after I put my kids down to bed and I can fully relax for the evening and allow myself to watch some positive KZbin videos to just chill for the evening. 🥰

[@zng3111]

FTM mom here, DD July 2021. Thank you for taking the time to create this content. I needed to hear it and to evaluate my expectations for post partum. I also enjoyed your ideas for practical ways I can make preparations for my mental health in the newborn season. 🤍

[@msmintygreen]

Sending you lots of love!! ❤️❤️

[@hajiraanjum5416]

Loved it Carly! And Love you as always. ❤

[@amandalh60]

Thank you for sharing. I hope new mothers also realise you can have a wonderful birth experience and have support but still have post partum depression. Does not discriminate. That was me.

[@brookemurray]

Accepting help is the biggest game changer during the newborn phase. That old saying “it takes a village to raise a child” is so true! Good on you for recognizing these things and making your mental health a priority ❤️

[@dansuneautrevie2713]

Such great advice about social media!

[@Brodborunda303]

My daughter will born in the next few weeks and I really appreciate your tips! My baby girl is my second child and it has been nearly 9 years since my son was born so I found your video to be so helpful and grounding. I plan to ask for help when needed and take care of my basic needs too. ☺️ Thanks again and kudos to you for being so intentional about the changes you made this time around! 👏🏽👏🏽☺️💕

[@yariortiz8375]

Wow, thank you so much for this video and your tips! So helpful!

[@kwc2785]

thank you for this. really

[@Svargasc3]

Yes, yes, and yes! This video was amazing. I’ll be doing the same things. Thank you for all of this information.

[@as0205_]

Your kids are so lucky to have such a wonderful mother 🥰🤩 love your channel I've been watching since the glitter days 😅

[@velvetstonebraker9874]

This is so amazing.

[@eveliang3973]

Just want to tell you, you are doing a great job. What can be more important job than bringing up two little people. Watch you video bring me back to 12 years ago . But now I have two happy boy. And the most happiest part is my older son call me the cool mom. Keep up the good work. You can do it and much much more.

[@pollydolly9723]

Good job Carly!

[@portigoza]

I applaud this 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 / the first baby is always so stressful because we want to do everything perfect.

[@SamNicDur]

About to have baby number two! Great tips :)

[@nathhen7779]

Beautiful video ! Loved it

[@DaniOchannel]

Parenthood is a marathon, not a sprint. The more help I accept, the further I will go. This includes personal and professional help. Great cause to partner up with Google for. Xx

[@PrincessFiona7777]

Love this! Xx

[@Rayaelle]

Yeah for realness with us and honesty with yourself :)

[@naila.a.88]

I'm currently pregnant with my second child, and I relate to this video so much! Once I found out I was pregnant again it was like an alarm went off, like okay, I HAVE to start prioritizing taking care of myself if I'm going to be able to do this. My daughter is 2.5 and since she was born I had gotten to a point where I was only showering twice a week (so embarrassing to admit 😩) , no exercise, no hobbies. I was so incredibly depressed and just exhausted. I'm in the second trimester now and happy to report that I'm showering regularly, going on walks as often as possible and accepting all the help that's offered. It's still a learning process but I'm really hoping things will be different this time around when my second baby is born. Thanks for all your insight!

[@vanessadelmuro2862]

You’re a beautiful mommy ❤️

[@missmeowz]

Thank you for this video! I was wondering if you could link the helper stand that Kennedy uses. Thanks!

[@meghanbarchet4969]

jeeezzzzz you look amazing! that lip color and top color are amazing!!! what lip combo are you wearing?? also thank you for speaking so openly about PPD and self care. currently pregnant and this seems like great advice!

[@hopelee5412]

This made me feel less scared of having kids one day, thank you!! :)

[@alicesoundso7243]

Couldnt agree more. This time with number 2 I dont use the milk pump or pre milk, so the amount is allways exact what the baby needs. Also I dont try to take the stroller in winter, I use the carrier. I have an approximately plan for the day and thats it. With lockdown it is hard enough this time. I cant get so much help and the big child is allways at home.

[@MaryScarpati]

Thank you so much for being so open about postpartum depression. I have so many friends that had it and didn’t realize that’s what it was for a while. I don’t have children yet but I’m planning on it. This information is so helpful.

[@shirleyjay6992]

I love your new hair colour😀

[@MrAnnfrid]

Love the video wish O could send you extra energy. x Have all the possible snacks you can have. Drink water everytime you breastfeed.

[@instaupdate9266]

Wow I am watching you on TLC

[@SamA-vy6lq]

Would you be able to do a morning routine video as a mom? 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@llhughes1803]

Fantastic Carly! We need to normalize mental health struggles. Just about everyone has their times where they need help. Breastfeeding 🙌🏼!

[@jamie7002]

I didn’t suffer from PPD after my first, but these things are still SO important to keep in mind for any new mom. I am about to give birth to my second, so I will have 2 babies under 2!!! And I know that I will need to remind myself to eat. My armpits and others will remind me to shower tho lol🤷‍♀️ I seriously prioritize the shower over eating because you also get like 10 min of alone time in there so it’s a double-duty self-care thing

[@lalame5623]

Hey Carly :) I had a baby 10 years ago... and i had PPD after. it was hel offcourse :) and i have been super scared of having a 2th baby.. But this makes me feel better :D Thank you

[@7sevendaysara]

I think you are doing pretty good looking fab, recording videos and having 2 kids. You rock Carlyy Sara Nena DIY

[@shabnames7712]

What’s your idea about red respberee tea did you drink ?

[@siya2668]

I am in first trimester I feel my PPD is getting back from now. having Anxiety All day long

[@Lilykn3]

❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@patrickgabrielmendy9337]

Nice

[@C60PurplePower]

You could have used C60.

[@melmelmel20]

I also kept all the weight on until I stopped breastfeeding

[@ssd1453]

You had another baby??

[@danasofiagarcia8203]

Vine aquí solo por que me encontré con ella en :Vestidos de novia en el discobrery