*NEW* Transitioning from 1 to 2 kids: top 12 tips to survive going from 1 to 2 kids! 2021

[@taraisfluffy]

Super great video and advice! I have 3 kids and some things that worked for us: 1. Calling the new baby "your baby" (similar to your language) So cute now my 4 year old has 2 babies :) 2. Leaving the bassinet out for a few weeks in advance. My toddler would throw his trucks in so that gave us time to teach not to do that. 3. The last few weeks of pregnancy where you're a lot more sedentary, teach your toddler then how you're going to be taking care of your new baby. Take a stuffed animal and play games like "the baby is crying. why?" and go through all the different scenarios and show them how you fix the issue. My kids loved this game. (And try to teach them to play next you while you're sitting) 4. 100% include them in taking care of the baby without pressure. My kids love getting the diaper for me. 5. We always say goodnight to the baby who goes down first and everyone gives baby a hug and a kiss. 6. When you're out for a walk, teach your toddler to hold the stroller so you can easily watch them together. 7. Ask your toddler to check on the baby and report back to you. "Is baby ok? "Why did they make that noise" "Why are they crying" It's super helpful later when they're a bit older and you're trying to make supper. Obviously you double check, or watch discreetly, but it gives them a sense of confidence. Hope this helps someone!

[@firebird15]

This is the best video I’ve come across for practical ways to incorporate the new baby into your toddler’s life. Thanks so much!!

[@lindseykuehl6247]

We transitioned to 2 kids in January. Now that our baby is 8 months I finally feel like I have a good grasp on this two kid thing. The beginning was pure chaos and definitely had that what the heck did I do moment!

[@alisharogers2919]

I have been watching you for almost a decade and I have to say this is my favourite video of yours! Thank you for your honesty and transparency, I have loved watching your channel transform from high fashion to mum life. Most of your audience (myself included!) have grown out of the Gossip Girl/high fashion to go to the supermarket and grown into working mums who want a more realistic view of life when they click online. You’ve done a phenomenal job and I’m so excited to see these new chapters of your life. You’re an amazing woman xx

[@freetobe15]

Wow! All such amazing thoughtful ideas! Thanks for sharing ❤

[@taylorplaskowitz5763]

I loved this so much. I love watching your videos. I love that you are so open and honest with all of us.

[@CarlyCristman]

im so happy you like them!! I try to think about making content that can help others not feel alone / feel like we're in this together if that makes sense

[@christyboyle2570]

This could not have come at a better time!! My second is coming in 2 weeks!!

[@Its_jo-jo]

We are trying for 2nd baby, these tips are going to come in handy for when baby comes!

[@annamoore5049]

I'm 25 week and I feel like you really helped me with questions I was having thank you for this video.

[@tahaibrahim7157]

Really want this vacuum cleaner now

[@amalac5914]

This is the best video I’ve ever watched for the tips, thank you so much!

[@jennshields1061]

This is the most helpful video I’ve seen on this topic. Thank you!

[@juliaunaconklin6469]

Thank you so much! Expecting #2 in January and all these tips will make the transition so much easier... sent to husband and all girlfriends who are also getting ready for #2. Thank you for sharing your wisdom and giving us a big step up in finding peace in the impending chaos 😊

[@ISHARERHANNASBDAY]

We are expecting our #2 in January as well! We are super excited but have heard so many people say this is the hardest transition compared to #3. So glad we are able to view videos like this haha

[@PollyWannaCracker21]

So helpful! I have heard some say going from 0 to 1 and 1 to 2 is so different. We are hoping for one in the next year as we have a 15 month old now. So I really appreciate this!! Thanks Carly!

[@Rachel3815]

Perfect timing with this video! Baby #2 is due any day now. Thank you 😊

[@liguo57]

Thank you for the very thoughtful advices, you are a great mum Carly!

[@dansuneautrevie2713]

Great ideas! Thanks for sharing!

[@leah-bn6oi]

Loved this video! #2 is due is March and I’ve been so nervous about the transition.

[@Caitlinabcdefg]

This is so cute! Very good advice!

[@rsgem1]

Such wonderful tips! Thanks for sharing

[@DaniLynn]

This is so so helpful, thank you for sharing these tips, feeling more like we can handle this coming season!

[@alexb9918]

Congrats to the happy family! I absolutely love your decor style - where is your bed/headboard from?? 💙

[@natalieseyler9948]

This was SO helpful! Subscribing. Thanks so much!

[@vanessa_elizabeth]

This was so helpful! My son will be 3 in a few weeks and we have a baby girl coming early Feb 💜

[@seymonetko1958]

Awesome tips!

[@oklahomaproud6665]

I’m pregnant with my first now but I still loved this video!!!

[@CarlyCristman]

so glad!! I have a newborn essentials video up that would really helpful before the transition to 1! They were lifesavers during the newborn stage. Congratulations mama!

[@letswatch23]

Ok these tips are gold tho!

[@Truthpursuit2015]

Watching this while 9 months pregnant with my 3rd, great reminders lol.

[@pretty_brownnn5855]

Omggg! I have a 2 year old named Kennedy toooo! Omg it was meant for me to watch this video!! Lolol 😂❤

[@aviyalevi7828]

This video is SO practical! Do you by any chance have this written down somewhere? 🙏

[@laurayoung1107]

I am actually going to only have baby number one but I have an 8 month old puppy who one is a bit scared of kids and two is our whole world so a lot of these things I'll be using for them like having being fuss over him when they come visit us etc

[@daisymorris9430]

I needed this. I have a 4 month old and a 22 month old and I am struggling.

[@ninjatut11]

Thank you ❤

[@7sevendaysara]

Carly these tips are sooooo valid. I never heard anyone giving so practice tips. Definitely keep everything in mind. Sara Nena DIY

[@letswatch23]

Hi! What shades are in this room/other rooms. It’s been so hard trying to decide and find something good thank u!

[@thecareerfashionista9132]

Glad you guys are in a good routine. I did try to use the code, but it did not take off 30%, more like 10%. Is there a different code? Thanks!

[@mrsamandalemay]

Carly, can you provide a new discount code for the vacuum?

[@RebeccaM-h9m]

Im prioitising this year for myself. Plan on baby number 2 next year. My daughter is 1 year 6months. Im scared to get pregnant again though as i struggled so bad with hg... The labour and delivery was super easy and could do that again but being pregnant definitely a big no lol 😅

[@amyann47]

My youngest is 9 months and things still feel like an absolute mess. We are getting hammered by illness from daycare and just absolutely exhausted.

[@pieceful_puzzling]

Baby #2 is coming in November and this was SUPER helpful. I love the concept of telling grandparents, aunts, uncles, etc to address the older child first and ask her if she can meet the new baby. My oldest will be 4 right before her sister comes so she probably understands and comprehends this a little more than Kennedy did, but these tips are still really useful!

[@munchkinm6929]

Thank you for this

[@ckimble25029]

I may be too pregnant for this video haha why am I crying?! Such a good video though

[@Putavy]

When we had 2nd baby six months ago, our firstborn was only 1 year 6 months old. She was at my parents place when we were in hospital for six days. My mom had bought her a baby doll, her first one, and told her several times that this is your new baby and mom will also have a new baby. When we came home, I let her show me her baby first and met her alone. After that I told her that I also have a new baby, and she was very exited since she new his name already and had seen several pictures from my mothers phone. We met the baby together while their dad was holding him. Everytime I was feeding, carrying or changing the baby, she was doing the same with her own. After few weeks she came to help me with "my baby" and then she kind of forgot it all and her little brother was a normal part of our family. I think the doll was a very good idea with our daughter.

[@hamzaabdalih5702]

Hi