9 Types of Non-Physical Acts That Are Still Cheating

[@BRIGHTSIDEOFFICIAL]

TIMESTAMPS You’re too close to your opposite-sex friend. 0:46 You flirt online and offline. 1:36 You’re having an affair with your phone. 2:28 You constantly complain about your partner to others. 3:40 You cross the line with strangers. 4:30 You have a secret friend. 5:26 You fantasize about others. 6:29 You lie about your finances. 7:37 You don’t stand up for your partner. 8:37

[@oldbricks9823]

BRIGHT SIDE /

[@specialboy7283]

What is wrong about cheating on another male or female?

[@asteroidkisses4206]

@@specialboy7283 special boy what's wrong with it is that being with someone means your promising to be faithful, and having feelings for another person and showing those feelings is everything but faithful. if the person you're dating currently isn't good enough and you want more, which you see in someone else, break up with the person you're dating instead of cheating on them. cheating never helps anything. it only hurts the on the other person

[@helloly]

Whew! Im an 👼 because I am none of these ;)

[@jeniwatkins3297]

@@specialboy7283 key word being cheating! You do it behind thier back, knowing it will hurt them. You obviously don't care about thier if you cheat. That makes it wrong

[@JuneHarriseco]

it's too hard to live with someone who keeps things from you.

[@mandyscardino4747]

True

[@johnnybegood6228]

secret kills a realtionship.

[@paulfla1561]

💯

[@NowOffYouGo]

It will rob you of your health and well-being.

[@justbargelle]

June H true. When they are so secretive and just disappearing without telling you where they are at while you are crazily thinking what are they doing during their absence without notice. Then will just talk to you in the morning with alot of excuses and allibis.

[@satyajitchattopadhyayyt]

Stay single. It's the best thing ♥️

[@placto9512]

Cheating is having a second relationship behind your partners back. You could literally never meet in person and it would still be cheating.

[@JuneHarriseco]

he never stood up for me. he hid things from me. he chose his friends over me every time.

[@yocarter9221]

Bros before hoes

[@rdhfgfhghj]

@@yocarter9221 fries before guys

[@MsPrestige2009]

Would you want your partner to behave like this? Then don't do it yourself! 😎

[@MimiVIP]

Anisha White Right?! I think it's rude and disrespectful

[@tonylama2012]

Truth. Be the partner you want

[@valerieward6202]

Happy Lady Amen gorgeous

[@Y0UM4DBR0]

im confused. if emotional cheating is considered as legit at physical cheating. then alll my exes have cheated on me several times. going through those break ups, people were always saying "its okay to do X, Y, Z." They told me i was being selfish and immature for thinking they were in the wrong. but now, all of a sudden my feelings were right?

[@hartonosenju3543]

Not a robot Yup thats true, sometime your partner maybe just dont care about it because she/he think its fine to do so

[@askmeanything2239]

yeah that's true

[@weneedmorecompassion9841]

Not a robot yes. My ex was doing all of these, and more. He even left me at home pregnant (i wanted a baby, but he really wanted one) and started hanging out with a new girl and hid her from me. I confronted him and he tried to lie his way out of it and blame it on me. So he abandoned us. Found out that the things he'd been doing, most of the things on this list, he'd done to his ex's and he cheated on them all. Even if you don't believe it's cheating to do those things, they are signs that he will or already has.

[@stfn5079]

No they where probably right.

[@unrequitedreflection7106]

I think that it is important to resolve what someone else considers cheating and to communicate to them what you consider cheating very early on so that you can both choose whether or not to continue your relationship and how to continue your relationship should you both disagree but still want to pursue your relationship. Communication is key really because different people consider different things to be cheating (obviously). Just because someone feels cheated on doesn’t mean that the other person feels that they cheated but it works both ways, really both sides are valid especially if it was not previously established the boundaries are what each consider cheating.. both sides should be open to caring about how the other person feels. It’s best to know before cheating happens how the other person feels about these different ways that could be considered cheating to know to anticipate potential scenarios in which one or both feel cheated on so as to avoid them or at least to know what to expect.

[@roselikethewine]

What if you complain about your partner because you HAVE tried talking to them, but they always make excuses, manipulate you into thinking your probs are your fault and/or made up, or they say they'll talk about it later but later never comes.

[@cynsterrr1052]

Nea Rose Rodriguez OMFGGG YESSS

[@deealfaro-baeza8314]

Then I would leave them

[@asteroidkisses4206]

then... break up with them?

[@rnppsompier.sompie250]

Means your partner is being emotionally manipulative..

[@flyandshy00]

He doesn’t love you.

[@amycarter6337]

you cant get cheated on if you never have a relationship 😅😅😅

[@catalinaca4812]

Haha))

[@mutilatedhatred4868]

Hello darkness my old friend

[@SlawKingOG]

That's why nobody wants to get married anymore. everybody is cheating.

[@yeet-me-far]

Quick maff

[@jeanpal206]

Ill go out with you

[@SabyMp]

Its called.having mo integrity, low self asteem needing constant value you are worthy...dont have relationships with people who have no ability to self reflect..its the sickness of this modern cyber age

[@user-wt5if6rx8m]

tho i don't think this is anything new i agree with the rest

[@lt6109]

I feel yah.

[@jacquelinepedraza3302]

Yes!!!! Love this. I was always faithful in my relationship and was cheated on in every possible way. I saw a lot of red flags and should of walked away but didn’t because I didn’t want to be alone. Well now I am alone and don’t want to even look for someone I am so traumatized that my next partner has a lot of work with me

[@phantomvampyressshadowkiss4690]

When you find the right guy he wont hide things and flirt and he will not mind the work. You will be worth it. Just don't ever settle.

[@debbiemoulson9511]

Absolutely right! I told my husband this...he didn't believe me. Thank you for saying it.

[@Buckleupfacts]

debbie moulson Hi, can I ask you to give me your opinion about my channel and thank you 😄

[@mulan7015]

Astrolabe It looks cool. Nice design for the videos.

[@DobleWhiteAndStabley]

I always got into arguments over infidelity with my exes during our relationships. "You weren't there!", "You changed!", "You never do this or that!"... Too often i notice that women just LOVE to not tell you certain things so they can use it as an excuse to push you away in favor of the guy she found that is better than you in some way. Doesn't matter how much effort you put in, if she thinks she can snag him, you're pretty much done. She will even use plausable deniability to hid that fact. It's very disgusting actually.

[@mohamedjalloh8048]

Quite right with there little sneaky ways. Ohh no. N still get busted none will get away with cheating

[@thefuturechannel3336]

Hmmm i wonder if you guys can help me??

[@dennisb7930]

Your absolutely right

[@brokegirl1452]

Panic The Scholar Knight. Thats not true bro

[@brokegirl1452]

Panic The Scholar Knight. Shes saying your not being attentive to her needs, and your not emotionally available to her. This is the classic sign of woman cheat for “love.”

[@thomasferrero4532]

Well my ex did all of this - the aftermath led to our separation. During my grieving and healing, I realised that she is a covert narcissist, attention seeking and prone to affairs, physical and emotional ones. As she is a really gorgeous woman and filled her harem already during our relationship, she moved on immediately. I hope my successors will notice faster than me who she really is. She destroyed my soul and took all my money.

[@compassandradio6261]

I just define cheating as anything you wouldn't do in front of your spouse/partner (outside of gifts or special surprises obviously)

[@Tyndalic]

My exe was always chatting with women online. I caught him making dates with them. When confronted he said they were just friends. He was a serial cheater. I packed up and moved on. He still emails me, and them, telling us all, "I miss you." He also bad mouths all the exes he still flirts with!

[@yogabee2222]

Tyndalic what a POS! Glad you found out

[@mslaurenlozza]

Once a cheater, always a cheater ;)

[@f.paulineromero2548]

@@mslaurenlozza yes

[@ceetiguilamoreno2550]

I do think so. The key is actually putting in effort to talk to each other a good moment and try to stay calm because chances are you might not like what you hear from one another.

[@d.jeanfreeman8583]

Being to withdrawn is as bad as loud arguments. Sometimes worst..Hidden stuff is a big mistake. Emotional affairs are harder to get over, than physical ones...

[@jasonhill9946]

She’s cheated twice with ex boyfriends and then tells me she wants a divorce. She did everyone of the things on this list. Anyone else Having a hard time trusting again?

[@Chiara_Elena]

Kind of scary. I guess I'm going to stop complaining about my partner in front of my friends then and just stay unhappy in silence. Better than being a cheater or actually tell him the same things over and over again without change, onyl leading to fights.

[@bishalchetri4381]

i hope someday my ex watches this video and realize that what i use to complain was actually a matter of concern that has been mentioned in this video. Its a viscous world of lies and the Internet, hence relationships appear to be more of a gambling these days and i would think 1000 times perhaps before falling for anyone again in the future again

[@charlawebb4595]

Bishal Chetri I think you might want to check out videos on Narcassists. It may answer some questions you still have and teach you red flags to look for when dating.

[@bishalchetri4381]

Charla Webb, sure if that helps to clear my thoughts, i will have a look..thanks ..😊😊

[@whatthehell8163]

Emotional infidelity is indeed considered cheating that leads to physical infidelity when there's a chance. its like planning to buy an not-so-important stuff later but you dont have a chance, then you kept on your mind that you have some other time. Until you unprioritize those much-important stuff. And that's kind of example makes emotional infidelity works.

[@cherylwade4365]

When I was with a guy I constantly complained about it was because we could not communicate. We could work together but he always wanted to dominant my every move. I am not a possession. I am friendly, helpful , motivated and curious about the world around me. You are right you can't expect your partner to fulfill every need in your life. That's why I enjoy family,friends and talking with strangers. Water balloon fights,video games cooking etc different activities with different people in my life. If that's cheating then I will always be a cheater.

[@jessicaporong9429]

Usually, I question the BrightSide when it comes their accuracy but this video was spot on ... Everything on this list is true!

[@demnawf7214]

Emotional cheating should never be a question of cheating

[@namevale8835]

This is why communication is so very important in a relationship. No all people view things the same, like what "cheating" is. You need to sit down and talk about how you feel about what you as a individual feel is cheating. Right from the start of a new relationship. Boundaries must be laid out in full view, from both individuals. That is a part of good communication. Also both need to respect each others boundaries, which will give a mutual understanding.

[@deliadelgado3364]

I’m so happy the cheating with your phone is one of them lol now I can tell my husband he’s cheating on me!!! 😂 I do believe emotional cheating is a type of cheating that could lead to physical cheating. We need to fight against it as much as we can. God bless everyone!!!

[@mohammadkhajasirajuddin2358]

Delia Delgado Zuniga, congrats u got one more add on topic to argue with your husband, 😆 Take it on a lighter note.

[@MimiVIP]

Delia Delgado Zuniga yes and it's not a LOL matter!!

[@MimiVIP]

Delia Delgado Zuniga God bless!!

[@Alcheer]

Jesus say if even if you think it in your heart, though not done outwardly, you have committed adultary.

[@stephanieduncan9023]

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[@debbiemoulson9511]

I think your channel is very informative....thank you for this. And yes I think it's cheating. 🤔I think people should be more conscious of their behavior and the other persons feelings. I see this behavior quite often.👍

[@SOLARA_CHASE1111]

My boyfriend texted a Customer of his saying that "she has the most amazing charm. " What does that tell me?? I saw the text on his phone and confronted him about it. He said it's not what I think. Ok so my question is What should I think??

[@guyhiggins6606]

Experience has taught me that there is no commitment or loyalty these days and if/when the opportunity arises that the grass looks greener they will cheat defo,then deny or blame you for making it happen,no morals anymore in modern society,best steer clear of it all if you don't want to be hurt, because 100 percent you will be

[@vaeto4tryhard691]

*never cheats on gf* *cheats on test* Gf:did u cheat on me Me:no but a test Gf:good boy

[@anthonydimichele837]

Emotional cheating is playing with fire... it has caused the loss of faith in me... my 'companion' is always flirting for emotional needs. I saw her put a long lover-type hug on a co-worker in a parkinglot... then I realized why she had been staying late at work, as this guy's schedule was different. This was admitted piecemeal. But every guy she slyly gets emotionally involved with she swears is platonic and respectful. blah blah blah... so its perfectly okay and I am just insecure. I see all this takes place because we are mismatched... but keep trying to be a couple. I will change this and move on in 2020.

[@shaneculkin7124]

OF COURSE emotional infidelity counts as cheating!! I mean, in actual fact, it can hurt even more since they are giving a piece of their heart away. You are supposed to love eachother with ALL OF YOUR HEART. Very easily, this can hurt most of all because you are no longer their one and only. .. Instead of just doinking another him or her because there is a great chance that it truly meant nothing at all. When real feelings are involved,-- I will say, wholeheartedly, that THAT is desperately hard to recover from and extremely difficult for the crumby cheater to get out of. Thank you for reading

[@annky1001]

Fulfilling emotional need is a basic need,care&responsibility of a partner.Don’t try to blame other when a partner does not fulfill the basic need!You deserve it!

[@roytracyandal3075]

If you are reading this You'll be loved❤

[@jxvi166]

By who?

[@targetedtruthergirl6726]

My marriage is over, my husband constantly talks horrible about me and I believe he is seeing the neighbor. I've tried to talk to him and work things out but he has rejected me for the past 7 yrs. It's horrible. I can't just leave as I'm sick and disabled.

[@shyaneparks5388]

When I know when my man is not texting me back I now know that he cheating on me

[@unrequitedreflection7106]

More than anything it’s important to communicate the boundaries of what each person considers cheating very early in a relationship. Obviously not everyone has the same feelings about what they consider cheating and it should be resolved early so that both can decide how to proceed in a relationship should they decide to proceed. In this way both will know what to expect and know what they expect of the other person.

[@chauquanshengnamchoom7654]

Thanks bright side for bringing light to an issue which is rarely talked about!

[@DobleWhiteAndStabley]

The only thing i disagree with is women not engaging in cyber cheating as much as men. A LOT of cheating happens online and then happens physically.

[@newcastlepolicestationnewc1921]

i personally just blocked and delleted for good this time 2 close female friends that i felt now , i was definitely 2 close too, i can clearly see now, how wrong i was , all my attention should be & would now be directed to my beloved wife & mother of my kid(s)

[@phantomvampyressshadowkiss4690]

Glad you woke up.

[@RonanAquilius]

2:32 "we check our phones when we wake up before we even say good morning to the person laying next to us" let me guess, you think real life is like a movie and waking up at the same time as your partner is a common thing to happen lol

[@connieboyd4079]

Yes there is such a thing emotional infidelity. Your wife girlfriend a person you are dating is to be your friend your lover your best friend and the one that you can count on when you have something to talk about you speak to to that individual. And it is true if you hide it it's definitely emotional infidelity. Hairdressers going to the gym going to a particular store on a regular basis you as an individual starts a relationship with these people the recognize you as a regular customer or at least see you alone but not the significant other yes it is emotional infidelity

[@alvernjourneyinamerica2339]

Don’t cheat, because it’s good to love and be loved. If you’re a cheater and you can’t handle , stay single

[@videakias3000]

i don't think that complaing about your partner all the time is cheating. i agree that this is not a healthy thing to do,but this is not cheating.

[@jonarangel]

My living girlfriend of 8 years don't admit that she cheated. I caught her with her co worker having an emotional affair. She just started working at a grocery store after years of me supporting her so that She could stay home with my now 6 year old daughter & her daughter who I've been raising as my own since she was 4. My guess is that she was bored of her boring mom life. Living on a fantasy life on Instagram seeing how people take trips but doesn't want to work for any of it. It was way easier to talk to this guy and open up, that work on our relationship. She threw our family away. This happened last Monday and I'm devastated.

[@ahmadghosheh3104]

I can see the point on financials, seems whether if you make $40K or $140K it's gone but that's when good and clear understanding of the couples goals and finance need to be set early in the relationship. If you aren't on the same page with your financial and life goals from the dating days you will not be on the same book let alone page 10 years later.

[@phantomvampyressshadowkiss4690]

Flirting is terrible it makes the person your with feel inadequate. That always leads to more . Flirting is crossing all Kinds of emotional lines. Especially when you compliment others more than who you are with . I've been cheated on a few times. It always was female friends and also flirting .

[@debrawhite6008]

Yes I agree that emotional infidelity is cheating

[@Bluepalmshere]

I wonder if other people looked this up to validate their reason on why they broke up with their ex when you told them it was cheating but they thought you were crazy for saying that.

[@Aluze]

Doesn;t what's okay and not okay have to be something that is determined by your partner? Isn;t what's not okay something that needs to be established by communication?

[@billylong9699]

If a woman hangs out with nothing but guys that is a bad indicator of predictive validity. Yes it may not be but it’s a good starting point.

[@QueenJuliana89]

If you feel the need to emotionally cheat and hide things from them because being with them is huge hassle, then leave, honestly. A relationship is a challenge but invest your time in someone who doesn’t make things harder than they need to be.

[@schmalzilla1985]

If you would have a problem with a certain behavior, and/or feel the need to hide it (most importantly). You are in the wrong.

[@athonynesbitt7956]

Humans rely to much on feelings, do what makes you happy in life and dont worry about who dont want to be with you, never change who you are

[@carolynlamell6483]

Yes emotional affair is cheating. You shouldn't talk to someone else about the things you only talk to your spouse about.

[@avauh3819]

I'm breaking up with my boyfriend when I see him Tuesday. I can't take it anymore

[@exploreexostanexoandsuperj8096]

Avauh is he cheating?

[@rdhfgfhghj]

yes,if you love someone you let them go

[@derrickstreets6159]

I find that women do not understand this in terms of standing up for their significant others. They picked their families over Their spouses. Weather there family is worthy and have something in common with their spouses. They want to create the myth of the one and all happy family. I don't deny my wife the opportunities are going to act with her family however it is something she asked for but then I got penalized because I wasn't willing to accept they're less than just ingenuous criminal Behavior and disrespecting my home. We are on the road to divorce and she does not understand I do not feel the same as she does about her family.

[@lei3730]

Derrick Streets All I have to say is try to like her family but she needs to also stand up for u if its something serious that could maybe ruin your marriage. If she doesn't fight to keep u or u don't do the same.... Maybe it's for the best..

[@annapurna8530]

Derrick Streets I feel sorry for you let happiness come to you soon

[@CryStealHeart]

Men do that to women too... His family always came first even when I really needed him. Everything always was first including himself. That's one of major reasons why we broke up. He never stuck up for me. I was the odd one out in their village. Glad that's over with

[@derrickstreets6159]

Anna Purna. Thank you! I appreciate your warm words. However if happiness is alone without the encumbrances of people that are less than or have no moral compass is in their lives then maybe I need to be alone. Because I do not want to compromise my values or who I am to accommodate those that are wanting to impose their values and morals into my life. If I give up my principles I am less than a man that has stood for many good things and been a outstanding provider throughout my life. My provisions of providing have been without bounds and most definitely affectionate and close in a loving caring Manor. If their lives consist of the inclusion of their families then may God bless them and they find a Greener pasture for their expression. However one has to realize that it is only you and the person that you have chosen. And the most important thing you have to give is yourself not your finances not your family but the love and the one thing without any encumbrances is you.

[@derrickstreets6159]

Anna Purna I bought them a home I bought them the car out of their desires I place them in environments where they had never been before and attempted to treat them very well. One of the most hurting things that I ever heard from them is are you trying to buy me. No I gave of what I felt in my desire to achieve and bring about a better life for both of us.

[@anastasiasdream9741]

Thank you for that compelling advice I am almost positive that if a person has suspicions that they're S. O. Is cheating on them this video will help them.. Thank you! Subscribed!!!!

[@AngelfromGenX]

Yes emotional infidelity is more devastating Than Physical infidelity. Because your partner is emotionally involved with this other person and if they have not been in physical contact with them or only talk to them online then the relationship they have with that person is a fantasy. Your partner knows you in reality, warts and all, but in their fantasy relationship it's all perfection, and you cannot compete against their fantasy.

[@tamicagle1729]

Yes I do !! Trust is key !

[@AmisCooking]

Great info will be careful 😊

[@DavidSaintloth]

The sad thing about this list? That it has to be in any way explained to human beings what the proper way to engage oneself in a monogomous (the rules are obviously different for relationship variants that are "open" ) relationship is, flipping the perspective on each item is the best way to reveal where hypocrisy potentially exists.

[@anushkajoshi.1631]

Ya these things can count as cheating

[@askmeanything2239]

that's true

[@tinawilliams919]

I agreed with everything that was shared gives me alot to think about ,and how we see others and ourselves.

[@alexip4775]

Omg I’ve been cheating this whole time

[@albechumaceiro5123]

My brother the age of the internet has brought evrrything to light, its no fixing it. Infrdelity is the menu of the day.

[@lawanabdullahiusman9875]

An instructive one indeed. You did very well. It's truly part of cheating.

[@samara1271]

Keeping pictures of ex's on your phone in half nakedness

[@dawnnicolas7617]

I totally agree, so glad for this video. Thank you! ☺

[@geannina5717]

*I am a faithful woman* ♥️

[@Cube8]

What's your phone number?

[@equalizertime5350]

YOUR A DYING BREED LOL ,WHERE ARE YOU FROM

[@josecunsako31]

That’s what they all say

[@marcovelasco3665]

I'm a faithful man. 😂 Lol no offensive no such thing as being faithful anymore :/...

[@timhunt4954]

Say's you !!!!!

[@coryd1992]

I do believe it is. Even my boyfriend now is doing it and I’m feeling lost on it

[@lunawolfheart336]

Charles Dunn talk to him about it

[@yogabee2222]

He needs to stop or you need to leave

[@lockedoutofaccount371]

This is why my gf broke it off with her husband and invited me to the 2nd honey moon he was caught cheating so he's out

[@uncleMors]

Thanks for this video👍 now i realise most of this type directly on me, so i took the blame and she is deserve better person than me 😔

[@bryanmccallum4614]

Makes perfect sense! Great video!

[@esquared12]

Yes. Its not as bad as cheating physically but its really freakin close.

[@DrumhellerParanormal]

Wrong, man and women can never just be friends because one always feels more. FACT!

[@thefuturechannel3336]

So does it mean should i doubt my girlfriend or her male friends?? 😨😨😨

[@DrumhellerParanormal]

Alone yes

[@cj1557]

Not true. I knew a few "homegirls" who just weren't interested in me nor were they my type. And yes, they were gorgeous, But we never did anything. Mature beings can be friends girl or boy. And if either of us did have any feelings we could get alone and have serious long talk because we felt that our friendship, deserved that much. And thereby rectify the issue.

[@DrumhellerParanormal]

@@cj1557 no, I bet one was interested in you but never said a word. Sorry I still stand by what I say.

[@Mzbrownbeauty27]

True

[@alvernjourneyinamerica2339]

Don’t cheat, because it’s good to love and be loved. If you’re cheater stay single

[@taylormorti1106]

You said we should spend more time with loved ones instead of being on our phones then immediately to told us to hit the like button😂

[@brianfrance1131]

So here we have a video providing people with advice . However part of the advice givin in this video is saying I shouldn't be sitting here with my phone watching this video ?

[@annky1001]

Chris Slate exactly!It’s been told here like looking your phone as soon as u wake up is a crime!Grow up people!

[@gva4741]

When you said about the phone I just did that before I said good morning.

[@marcovelasco3665]

Well this video is very educational I love it you earned a sub!

[@susanwilliams4953]

Thank you, Bright Side..

[@alphyzqrw7222]

I lost interest in relationships

[@akhandraj1189]

Yeah the emotional infidelity is a type of cheating but why to cheat ur significant partner? And u can go and tell him directly the truth and his reaction will show his love towards you. In this way u can find the best partner for yourself.

[@annky1001]

AKHAND RAJ Absolutely right

[@paytongaming04]

Love the video! And every second or so, give or take a few, you gain a subscriber.

[@jenniferrevay2378]

My boyfriend needed a ride to the hospital but I didn’t have the gas to take. He texted to say he got there. Than next day sent a lot of rude texted about how I wasn’t there for him. The next day I had gas n went to see him n stayed the night there with him. I noticed I didn’t see his truck in the parking lot n I asked him about it. It wasn’t until the next day when he was released that he told me it was at his ex girlfriends house because she is the one to drive him to the hospital because I didn’t care about him n it was none of my business. He wanted me to drop him off there to get his truck but I wouldn’t I drove home n told him he was on his own to get his truck. He says it means nothing n I told him it means something to me I was n still am very hurt

[@graciarosario5796]

Ohhh so true,every single one of those 9 signs.

[@La-Toya0488]

Emotional Infidelity hurts just as much as the physical kins . . . crazy part is I've had the same male Bestie for almost 13 years now.

[@crystalaguilar549]

Is talking to someone who liked you cheating like u guys are only friends but you both don’t flirt and are cool while being in a relationship cheating?

[@munestones6949]

The reasoning of me watching this video is for curiosity and humour.

[@13thmistral]

seriously, if my guy later would merely be looking at other people and fantasizing about them i would care less.

[@DonaldStrother24]

# 8 couples miss the most. They take care of all the other things mentioned in this video, then fail to consider how serious financial dishonesty is and then wait until it’s too late to take measures to prevent or stop the problem before it escalates. By then their marriage is destroyed. I’ve seen it happen. I won’t name the people in the relationships I’ve seen, but the issue of finances seems deceptively minor compared to cheating. The truth is finances are very serious matter on the same level as infidelity.

[@Vman9484]

I'm going say, if you're partner is talking with someone behind your back, and considering them as a better option. Even if they try to "break up with you" before they "act" on anything. Especially if they meet up for a coffee or something to just meet and "get to know they other person" while they were still with you. yeah that's cheating

[@Dondon-wp1ys]

Why hide or being secretive with your partner if there is nothing going against both with u and your so called friend? Don't hide anything to your partner.

[@4exquisiteservice680]

I gave my ex the boot last week. A female friend of his called him while we were together. I told him to return her call in front of me. He refused saying they were just friends like sister and brother and she meant nothing. I said if that's true call her back in front of me. Still he refused. I put him out. He didn't call me for 6 days. Then was calling texting for two-three days trying to tell me how wrong I was. I told him he is a liar and a cheating hoe. I'm moving on end of story.

[@MimiVIP]

don manluyao you don't get the point. It's because it IS secretive and s/he Will never tell the spouse

[@sarahweitzel6605]

Amazing how true this is. My girl told a 14yr old boy I'm a stalker out of the blue because I saw what they were writing about which pops up directly on all synced devices so really what did I do wrong except knowing how to read.

[@sepboi999]

thank you for this video.

[@AllyEverly]

Emotional infidelity can lead to physical acts of cheating so don’t do it

[@shadrack2602]

I had gone through that my partner even came a time would even tell me i cant be more than her friend of opposite it affected me i don't even know if i will recover i still have the void still open.she would even leave me if we were having a walk if he meet him and stop so they can talk.when i told her she would tell me am insecure.I once found the guy telling her he love her but she was still trying to tell me is just a friend. just know is not men cheat even women cheat.we were even planning for marriage.

[@wanderergrim]

the dreaming one is ridiculous because you may be able to control that