90 Day Fiancé: Emily’s Dad SHOCKED by Kobe Asking to Take Over His Business

[@a.m.3921]

There is literally nothing attractive about Emily. Bossy, nagging and spoiled. WTH is stopping HER from getting a job?

[@xiomaragomez6649]

Her parents babying her annoying self 🙄

[@bellarina]

or shoveling horse poo..?

[@willowwillow1748]

Don't forget heavy tongue and her parent's money is stopping her from ever getting a job.

[@MsRishaghosh]

exactly that lol

[@ikeasanders6211]

I agree with you 100% not attractive whatsoever

[@jaghond448]

"my 30 year old daughter doesn't have a clue how to move out and get from point a to point b" ... I'm not sure how to tell him that this is his own fault

[@jays45673]

FACTS!!!

[@terynb4407]

At first I gave them the benefit of the doubt now I see it

[@JP-br4mx]

yes

[@jessicajennifer9827]

These helicopter parents do their children a huge disservice by coddling them. Then in turn stunting them

[@CherrrrBear]

It’s his own damn fault point black period.

[@nicholasgarrick8855]

Let's be honest. They don't see kobe as equal. Emily talks to him crazy, and her family stands by watching, and supporting her.

[@willowwillow1748]

From the look of him they never will.

[@elinorlee1539]

Let's be real and say what it is which is! that they are racist!!

[@modelstatus0198]

They dont respect , nor see him as equal and they will never do

[@millcitychris4303]

That family looks racist as hell

[@millcitychris4303]

@S. Módica just look at the dads face. U can see that he hate that his daughter got involved with a black guy with no money.

[@rosejohnson-briggs1109]

Love how Emily’s parents are shocked and appalled that Kobe told her to shut the F up… totally enabling her disgusting borderline abusive behaviour that lead Kobe to rightly tell her to shut the F up!! She is a giant baby with no real ambition and her parents are 100% to blame for how she turned out. Good luck Kobe!!! I hope you get shared custody one day.

[@mistymitchell2842]

Amen! Can't stand Emily

[@bellarina]

Emily is not even worried that her parents would say No, she knows they'll keep enabling her, she just doesn't like the "inconvenience" of having to ask... 😝

[@jannalam6861]

Kobe said what we all wanted to say to her in that moment 🤣

[@rickyayy]

Amen!!! This needs to be pinned and sent to the parents!!

[@CherrrrBear]

Exactly … she’s disgusting 🤮

[@chrisr.426]

Emily is a grown child. Good luck to Kobe.

[@sbello361]

Emily's dad has a lot of nerve asking Kobe when he plans to work. When he's raised an unemployed, entitled 29-year-old.

[@cygnevara8400]

emily is HIS daughter....kobe is nothing to him. i dont see anything wrong with that.

[@sbello361]

@@cygnevara8400 Kobe has everything to do with them- he's the father of their grandchild. Kobe can't work, Emily can. So why put pressure on him when he can't work for 6 months? That's what's wrong.

[@sbello361]

@Mark Armstrong part-time nanny. She's not in high school. You can't raise a child/family on a part-time nanny income.

[@kadzo6614]

How is she 29? She looks 40.

[@onlythebrave4655]

At least that's his daughter 🤷🏾‍♀️....

[@kerchow2062]

Kobe can't work until he gets his work visa, Emily on the other hand has every opportunity to go out and get a job but doesn't want to, her parents spoiled that annoying brat and now she can't even work? 🙄

[@Starrrwarrrs6rbluey]

at least i have an excuse. im mentally ill.

[@imho5485]

I’m tired of the family coming down hard on kobe when Emily is quite capable of working to help support her family. Why isn’t she looking for a full-time job? Maybe they should tell Emily to shut the f up so that she’ll get her act together. Coming from a spoiled daughter, my parents taught me to be responsible and I’ve supported myself since graduating college. Her parents failed her miserably. I see next week that sue bought herself a gaudy ring for herself that I’m sure she considers a wedding expense. Her parents deserve her. Poor kobe and Coben. Manipulative Mohamed is creepy. His voice is so robotic and the tone never changes. Yve needs to send him back to Egypt. She can’t drink because it’s against his religion. I guess he forgot that premarital sex is also against his religion. He first saw her in a bikini and now she’s forbidden from wearing one. SMH. Bilal has never fought so much before because no woman has ever stood up to him. And reportedly, he’s been divorced twice already! He wants a prenup because he knows no woman can tolerate him. He needs a stepford wife.

[@sbello361]

They never hold her accountable

[@faz7531]

The thing is he can leave the U.S after marriage. If he really had a job outside the U.S, he would have insisted on getting married asap then apply for the marriage green card and leave the country till it gets processed. This just tell all of us how irresponsible and man-child this guy is.

[@SweetNSassy77]

She’s almost 30! What a overgrown spoiled brat

[@SweetNSassy77]

Kobe was absolutely fine!!! Emily’s dad asked what his goals for employment and wanting to be trained under dad and keep business in family was a wonderful goal! His intent was perfectly normal! Kobe is better than what Emily has to offer

[@Anthony.and.Bigsis]

I actually agree...i think Kobe is a really nice guy and emily sorta messes with him

[@terynb4407]

All her dad had to do was say you can job shadow me get a degree and we'll talk

[@janettechapman9681]

You're delusional if you believe Kobe was realistic in becoming an engineer and taking over the business. He wasn't even a good underwear model, but then maybe for Cameroon he was exceptional....not.

[@acestarone]

I think 🤔 he would love to do that eventually but not after being trained or doing a good job at it He prob should not have said take over.

[@acestarone]

@@terynb4407 exactly.

[@jays45673]

He should have had that conversation with both of them because what's her plan this why you don't sleep with strangers unprotected on vacation 🤦🏾‍♀️😂

[@faz7531]

Preach!

[@thembekx_]

I love Kobes ambition. Also, y’all are forgetting he said, “Maybe you can train me…” and only focussing on the last part.

[@agrant4701]

They don't even like him, why would they do that?

[@Burlykim13]

Can’t train someone to be an architect. Lol. Also way too early to ask someone that.

[@agrant4701]

Ambition needs to be tempered by intelligence and a way forward. Anybody can say, I want to be president of company X. How will you achieve that? What are your credentials? What are you doing towards that end? If you have not asked yourself such questions, your ambition comes across as clumsy and stupid, quite frankly.

[@peacemaker1502]

He only went to high school or do you mean his ambition to be in America and putting up with the moaning and constant nagging that takes something!?

[@JP-br4mx]

@@agrant4701 shut up. yall always tryna break down black people

[@KillaG3590]

Kobe gets a A for Effort but a F for execution like the audacity to ask to take over the family business with no experience 😑

[@khalilahd.]

Right 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@sbello361]

He did say maybe Emily's dad could train him...

[@KillaG3590]

@@sbello361 that’s going to take some time lol he has to go to school for that

[@farayimatibiri1724]

He said u can train me gimme a job what's wrong with that ? He's got no one in the USA to guide him they expect him to have the answers?????

[@terynb4407]

He asked if he could be taught by him so it wouldn't have been with no exprience

[@kinley.-.]

I don’t think Kobe meant anything wrong by asking to take over the business, He seems like a sweet dude and i wish Emily’s dad would try harder to have a real relationship with him

[@TWLogik]

Sorry but that 'stfu', I would have a problem w too.

[@damienabsalon]

Bilal is a control freak indeed. He comes across as a narcissist as well. Something about him is…OFF…BIG TIME

[@Anthony.and.Bigsis]

I agree!

[@hayleybarbara1589]

Hes not nearly cute, rich, or smart enough to have such a disgusting personality. He makes my skin crawl

[@NoWayJose3456]

He probably whoops her when the cameras aren’t around

[@Substanz82]

He’s the typical closeted gay man. OCD, prim, demeaning to his female mate etc. . He will be a lot happier once he comes to terms with his sexuality and stop hiding behind his religion.

[@elinorlee1539]

Well she married him anyway they got married in December so apparently she is just as shallow as he is!!! This man showed you the narcissist that he is and we could all see it but you married him anyway because you wanted to live in that big ass house so have fun sorting spoons and forks to make sure they're all in the right draw!!

[@SupremeBeing79]

Emiley is like a teenager that wants to marry and has no money.

[@KPazzz]

“I’m worried about moneyyyy…” Then go get a job Emily! 🙄 She has her priorities messed up - go to the courthouse, get married, then get your own place to live with your husband & child. Her dad just keeps putting it on Kobe to “provide for” Emily when he’s not even able to work yet and Emily is more than capable to start earning money to support her own family 🙄🤮

[@thulipule4754]

Exactly my thought,thank you...Kobe is not yet eligible to work there,how is he supposed to provide now... Emily's parents are sooo scared of her

[@zeroregrets5901]

she should of known that from the beginning, she wants what she wants, he cant work, its ALL on her but she wont. these women are something else.

[@Anthony.and.Bigsis]

She should know he cant work rn....like idk why shes such a bitch sometimes. Kobe is a sweet and good guy. If they cant afford a wedding they shouldn't be getting married. I mean the father is supposed to pay for the wedding its sorta a american thing..i would know im an American gal! But my sis got married and her husband paid for some stuff and so did his parents and my dad too. Soooo it can be different. But these ppp are adults. They need to grow up.

[@faz7531]

He might be traditional and there is nothing wrong in that.

[@KPazzz]

@@faz7531 Well, if *that’s* the case, his daughter had a child out of wedlock to a random foreign guy she had only known for 2 months, soooooo I think “traditional” has left the building and they need to start living in the reality of their situation in 2022.

[@ilovebuns9502]

Emily’s parents show how a real Karen is born and raised

[@flblackbutterfly1]

😂😂😂Hilarious!

[@danahughes2239]

💯

[@lynnkesh254]

LMO

[@fabianaguerra3813]

I can't believe Emily ask her dad to paid for her wedding just go to court house 🙄

[@aliciabarron2771]

I would hv said, HELL NO!! Go get a job n and ur own place to live!!!! But then he agrees to pay for it!!😡

[@polarmac5734]

getting really tired of melicia antagonizing the foreign partners and always being on the americans' side. Kobe was not implying in any way that he was going to take over the company right now, he meant when emily's dad retired, and EVEN THEN he only asked for training. Ya'll are acting like he was trying to steal this man's job.

[@caleenswack4825]

I agree 100% melicia is very Hypocritical because she’s making it sounds like theses guys are the victims when the truth is that they are treating the immigrants like trash especially Emily and Bilal 😏😏

[@polarmac5734]

@@caleenswack4825 I KNOW it made me so upset when melicia sided with bilal over the ‘house prank’ that was totally his fault and shaeeda had every right to react that way 😫😫

[@caleenswack4825]

@@polarmac5734 I know they act like because you’re from another country you’re not use to anything good 😏 Especially for a woman of colour she’s degrading her own kind the most 😏 some of these people when they come to our country and they married you and brought you back to their country they make you feel like it’s a slave trade 😡 and that they own you so it’s always whatever they say goes 😏

[@terrencempengesi4200]

Exactly, it's amazing how ignorant most Americans are, anything black or from Africa is something to look down at, it just shows how brain washed they are, go our and see the world ppl, b4 u judge other ppl, u yourselves are not special, its your media propaganda that makes u think u are, plz grow up.

[@sellyjon2751]

How can she be changed its very exhausting listening to her

[@rawmo7336]

How do they allow people to bring their lovers over while they don’t have a job or their own place???

[@victorias5272]

They don’t. You have to make enough to cover both people financially since they can’t work. Since Emily doesn’t work, her parents probably co-sponsored the visa.

[@rawmo7336]

@@victorias5272 Thanks for explanation.

[@seygra20]

The dad should have told Emily go to the court house and get married it is cheaper

[@tea_rex303]

Why is all this pressure on Kobe to get a job right this second? Emily and her family knew he can't work until he gets his permit. He's new to the US & it takes time to build a resume or find a job that pays enough to support a family of 3. She should've had a job for herself to at least pay for their own food and son's expenses. Her parents are going to STAY in their business as long as they're paying for everything.

[@faz7531]

The thing is he can leave the U.S after marriage. If he really had a job outside the U.S, he would have insisted on getting married asap then apply for the marriage green card and leave the country till it gets processed. This just tell all of us how irresponsible and man-child this guy is.

[@icantwiththis]

They obviously have money anyway. The dad has an architect company and they have horses! They just don't like this whole Kobe living at their house situation and they (the parents) are assholes.

[@jannalam6861]

@@faz7531 why would he want to leave the country? He's been away from his son long enough. Emily should have been working and saving money for the past year.

[@faz7531]

@@jannalam6861 we are talking about job and being a provider. If he had income, he surely wouldn't have difficulty arranging yravel for both Emily and his son to the country where he is working at ( if he is working)

[@LimoLiza]

@@faz7531 He is from Cameroon. I don't know about Cameroon, but I know about Ghana. The average salary is waaaay less than those in the US. Even if he had a good living in Cameroon, it might not even be enough to pay rent for an apartment in the United States. Different currency, different economy. It's not that easy.

[@hannahbartlett5336]

Bilals daughter is wiser and more mature than most adults 😂

[@ThePimmy11]

Credit to her mother I'm sure.

[@sbello361]

To Emily, Africa is not one big country. I feel bad for her son as he will never get to know his culture. She's ignorant.

[@Anthony.and.Bigsis]

For real

[@obimalope8154]

Most Americans think like that. Europeans are more exposed and informed.

[@joanalexander1942]

Does anyone think Emily's dad had no knowledge about Kobe's STFU comment. Mom stalks Kobe and it probably took her about 5 minutes to tell daddy.

[@klaird_h4727]

Whose fault is it that she doesn't know how to get from point a to point b ?!...who raised her.?!!!.😒🤔...and clearly enabled her her entire life this far...they need to let her figure it out for real. And I am sure her dad has said worse to her mom at some point in the heat of an argument..it doesn'tmake it right but-...he needs to address his daughters issues also..to be fair🤷🏾‍♀️

[@kristelngami4816]

Why isn’t Emily getting a job?

[@laylacakes333]

I think Kobe’s execution was poor. I don’t feel like he wanted to straight on take over the family business, but rather work in the business and work his way up to maybe own it “one day”

[@AHatake]

Trinidadian here..born, raised, still live here.. I HAVE NEVER HEARD THE WORD UMI IN MY LIFE.

[@Mswildfower]

😂

[@CJohnson19121]

He should've just asked him for a job.

[@michaelbishop3439]

He did.

[@sparklesp9304]

He may not have known the structure of American companies They may do apprenticeships in his country for family businesses.

[@254Hooligan]

This whole season needs to be rebooted. Chaos at it’s best.

[@linaevolved8468]

If Kobe is willing to put in the work, the family can help him find a degree or trade program to enroll in. Emily's dad could also hire Kobe in a basic entry level job when he is able to legally work. He doesn't have to take over the company but the sooner he has a stable job...the sooner the parents can stop being financially responsible for everything if Emily doesn't want to play the "provider" role.

[@tennilledenson5168]

She doesn't want to be the provider but wants to be in control.

[@monas]

he is a man, he should help himself 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@denyss3476]

I totally agree with you on this one!

[@denyss3476]

@@monas How can he get a job to 'help' himself? How do you suppose he do that?

[@monas]

@@denyss3476 That's not for me to know but for him to know. Why did he go there when he has no job or anything lined up. He went there just thinking that he is gonna live off the woman and her family? He should have stayed where he was.

[@ThePimmy11]

What I find completely stunning about this is old dude sits down to find out if Kobe has a plan for how to be a responsible parent and partner and then, without any self awareness at all, admits he raised his own kid to not have a clue about how to meet this standard! Why did you do that, Sir? Why did you raise your own child to be completely inept at being an adult and making sound choices as a partner and parent?

[@saribi638]

Kobe should come back to Africa and get himself an African wife. These people are too judgmental of him. They're neither understanding nor accomodative of him given it's a new country and he need to start over from scratch. It's not like he's lazy or something..

[@djregina6897]

I kindly disagree. He's asking that man to foot the bill and to take over his architecture business with zero experience whatsoever. He is the new Andrei

[@amalmoallin]

@@djregina6897 what bill did he ask him to foot ?

[@saribi638]

@@djregina6897 he's asking them to teach him how to do it.. That's where the experience comes in. Besides, maybe the man is just trying to figure out where he could started. If they don't want that, they can give him more suggestions and support him in his settling journey...

[@l-kin3480]

No he needs to take care of his child over there. An African woman doesn't need his drama

[@saribi638]

@@l-kin3480 which drama? The kindest, nicest man so far..

[@jb-ze1yh]

Bilal is lying. He has Been divorced. He doesn’t want an equal partnership, he wants a subservient woman who doesn’t stand up for herself. Typical narcissistic toxic man.

[@aliciabarron2771]

Yessssss!!!!!

[@Benny-ye7ro]

Melicia your videos are the BEST!! Thank you!

[@kopo7466]

I love how it's being framed as "Kobe FELT Emily was being disrespectful by telling him what to do while shoveling horse sh*t",no, it WAS disrespectful. Instead of being helpful, she's standing there micromanaging and he asked CALMLY, several times to stop trying to boss him around. I don't condone telling someone to STFU, but if you've exhausted the peaceful option and it's getting you nowhere, it's pretty much warranted.

[@melissadiamond8029]

Y'ALL in the comments sure know how to forget that Y'all have been supporting Kobe until he asked the dad if he could one day take over the business. He did ask to be trained & work on what he will need to do the job

[@sesayida]

That’s Americans for ya . He is asking to be trained

[@swamp-nymph]

Right? And in his view he was probably trying to take some off the dad's shoulders it just didn't come across right.

[@melissadiamond8029]

@@sesayida how else will he learn and where will he get a job If he's from a different country? Emily & her people are annoying.

[@melissadiamond8029]

@@swamp-nymph I understand the way he said it might have been delivered the wrong way. The dad could've been more understanding & asked if Kobe wants to learn the ins&outs & give him a job to earn his position

[@GG-qy2wy]

@Melissa Diamond. You are so right!! Yes, he did ask to be trained. He was nervous during that talk, and should have maybe left out the part about "one day running the company." He should be given at chance, something entry level, and not cleaning out disgusting horse crap. Peace.

[@khalilahd.]

This show is so chaotic I can’t 😭

[@CJohnson19121]

Kobe is 34+, he knows what he's doing.

[@rethabiler]

Exactly

[@toocutepuppies6535]

I felt so bad for Kobe because you could tell he really thought he was doing a good thing, and he really was. He just didn't realize that it wasn't enough. Why, why, why do they NEVER look into the country they're headed for??? 🤔

[@jannalam6861]

same. I felt sad when he mentioned he had saved $4000, and thought it would be enough.

[@toocutepuppies6535]

@@jannalam6861 If Emily ruins this I'll be SO mad at her!

[@tashatash8812]

I think he knew it was not enough and that is why he did not want to tell her from the beginning.

[@acestarone]

He is trying to be close to his father in law

[@toocutepuppies6535]

@@tashatash8812 I disagree. He looked genuinely proud of what he had, it felt pretty genuine to me.

[@bp1980]

Damn Kobe isn't trying to take over, He's trying to find his place in the family...The whole family seems to have control issues..

[@celebvillage]

The audacity. Mans probably had stomach aches that lasted longer, and asked for less

[@xiomaragomez6649]

😆😆😆😆

[@JulieDeuxFois]

I think most of the misunderstandings with Kobe comes down to language. Even though he doesn't have a thick accent, he is clearly somewhat limited with his vocabulary. I find his choice of words to be perfectly fitting in french conversations but it doesn't work in american english! Like his 'shut the f up' wasn't said with a matching tone... in french he would have said it in a less offensive way!

[@wizzysloungetitaure]

@Mark Armstrong bit still h 8i s English is quite limited l can also see that.

[@mamashabana1732]

He has superior English skills in contrast to many US born-natives.

[@mamashabana1732]

Appreciate the sarcasm but it apparently got lost in translation to some

[@jb-ze1yh]

Kobe seemed like he was coming from a genuine place, not a jerk like that other guy. Why would it be so odd that a son in law would ask of that from his father in law. Emily’s family are dysfunctional and don’t see Kobe as one of their own, clearly. Ps Kobe said what we all have been saying lol

[@sparklesp9304]

I completely agree. They don't really see Kobe as part of their family, even though he is marrying into it.

[@greg33770]

Whats wrong with starting Kobe out with a lower job in the company and if he does well, he can work himself up the ladder......

[@caroleparker5271]

I thought there was nothing wrong with what he was asking maybe the way he asked was a bit off but asking her dad to mentor him in the family business was a actually good move !!

[@greg33770]

thats what I thought, start off with a lower position and learn the ropes, and if he does well....he moves up.....

[@kinley.-.]

I thought so too, Kobe seemed to have the right intentions with that. I thought it was really sweet when he asked Emily’s dad to mentor him and teach him how to take over the business. I think the cultural/language barrier could be why it seems like Kobe thinks it will be really easy

[@ladycanuck66]

Doing what? How/when is he going to get a degree in architecture? who’s paying for it? He has no plan and neither does Emily…they just sit around living off her parents.

[@caroleparker5271]

@@ladycanuck66 i think thats right about emily but i think kobe wants to work i see absolutley nothing wrong with learning from her dad thats how family business operates

[@ladycanuck66]

@@caroleparker5271 You’d still need a degree to be an architect and run her Dad’s business lol that’s my whole point.

[@jackyavaa3459]

Kobe and Emily wanting to marry with NO house or a job of their own 😂 and with a baby, what in the world?? These folks think very backwards 😅

[@faz7531]

I know

[@petittall557]

Green Card

[@Jibril_Abdulkadir]

If Emily father paid for her other siblings weddings like chuck did for his other kids and complains about her that’s wrong but if he didn’t pay for his other children weddings they will have resentment towards him because he favoured Emily

[@MaraMelanin808]

Emily is annoyingly spoiled, Kobe could've worded that better, but at least he's trying to learn something rather than just sitting around. Emily and her family will eventually run him away and then he'll be labeled as a bad guy!

[@Sandra.-.]

The must be nice interjection 🤣🤣🤣🤣. You kill me

[@kathleenweinberg6442]

Kobe has a lot of nerve and a lot to learn

[@khalilahd.]

Couldn’t agree more. He’s a mess

[@caroleparker5271]

I can almost bet his boo told him he could work with her dad i dont see anything wrong with him asking to be mentored by him i think his words just messed him up

[@kathleenweinberg6442]

Okay

[@rethabiler]

Poor guy saw an opportunity 😂... Short cut to success - take over your in-law's business 💀

[@noonie2560]

The edits make me laugh so much 😂😂 Emily’s dads face I can’t breathe hahahah

[@Anthony.and.Bigsis]

For real same 😂💀

[@avonjames2352]

SHAEEDA NEEDS TO JUST GO BACK TO TRINIDAD. CUZ THIS RELATIONSHIP AINT GONNA WORK OUT

[@paulathompson7345]

Emily's father David Bieberly took over the architect business from his father after obtaining training and perhaps some education. Why couldn't his son in law do the same? Does David prefer to sell it and have stranger take over? I don't think his daughter's will carry it on. Most likely Koban won't stick around rink dinky Salina, KS because youth go where the jobs are and where life is.

[@marioncobretti3253]

she doesn't like how he talks to her but its ok the way she talks to him??

[@Night_Skinned]

I don't even watch these shows but I love Malicia'a coverage of them. She is so funny and needs her own show. I'd watch!

[@berniceseima6083]

Kobe please go home while you're still in 1 piece

[@Ami-xf6ry]

I am convinced that these people are trained actors.No way as a black man you would utter that out of your mouth wanting to take over their family business. I am sorry money or no money I would never have TLC portray me in this light….I am getting 2nd embarrassment for Kobe…Where is your pride and dignity?

[@cathyincolorado1432]

I think Emily told him he could take over his business. I can hear her voice saying "just ask him, he'll love the idea"!

[@sesimakoya]

😂 I’m dying 😭😭😭😂😂😂 he’s gonna take over that company mark Kobe’s words 😂😂😂😂

[@moniquebish]

I need Kobe to get away from Emily she talk to him like property someone needed to tell her to stfu if I was treating someone the way she's treating him my mother woulda been said something to me

[@TheStewieGriffinShow]

I'll tell you what being shocked is! It's how much Emily looks like her homely dad. She's lucky to have found anyone who would want to spend time with her.

[@rosannecole4992]

Kobe dosent have the advantages that Emily has 2 parents who support her at home !

[@taniat5204]

I don’t think it’s only about Kobe not having experience. He wants to take over a family business of a family that isn’t his… When they break up, how would that affect the “family” business if he did take over?

[@jannalam6861]

He said eventually lol. Not like he's asking for it now

[@terrencempengesi4200]

Why are u thinking abt a break up?I just think his approach was not appropriate bt he ddnt mean it in a bad way and he ddnt think abt a breakup at some stage either.

[@taniat5204]

@@jannalam6861 right. Which I understood. I’m just surprised that he’s bringing that to his gfs fathers attention when they aren’t necessarily family. Blood or marriage. They’re still getting to know him.

[@Rachelief]

Yay!! I’ve been waiting for this recap! I saw only the thumbnail of the TLC clip talking about Kobe trying to take over the business and I was cringing lol.

[@kristelngami4816]

2:31 Bilal is done…Ever 😅😂🤣

[@vanessadowe5515]

I don't see emily moving period.

[@garylogan4566]

Calling her Aunty I think that's ok, pushing that mom thing it's going to be uncomfortable.

[@francismarie8912]

Can we appreciate how beautiful malicia looks! That hairstyle compliments her so well😍

[@YaLittleFriend]

Emily looks just like her father and not in a good way.

[@lindaallieri8536]

You go Dad!!! That being said part of the problem may be the parents indulging Emily so she is not used to doing it on her own? Has no idea.

[@Drando1989]

Kobe got the Karen he chose.

[@stephk1970]

Off topic, but Melicia is amazing, and her makeup looks great too!

[@berniceseima6083]

Kobe you can't marry someone if you can't afford to provide for them or yourself and clearly you are in too deep. Go sort your own life first.

[@nikbarker3640]

Emily- I’m MAD he told me to “STFU” But I’m allowed to tell him “this is not going to FKEN work” 🙄🙄🙄 so one sided!

[@shawnlove4502]

That's not the same at all lol

[@cathyincolorado1432]

I noticed that too. I would have told her to STFU too. She's a horrible nag.

[@CherrrrBear]

Bilal is a CONTROL freak. But she should respect the kids not wanting to call her Umi yet. They’re just now starting a new relationship with the kids!,

[@nicholasgarrick8855]

Feels like Bilal is on a mission to make himself the most unlikely character for this season of 90 days.

[@janettechapman9681]

The word is unlikable, he's already a character on the show....

[@keepitreal007]

The Dad should have had this (Real Talk) conversation with Emily BEFORE Kobe came to U.S. Actually, refuse to support her 'booty call' boyfriend, (who Emily 'hooked up' in the men's bathroom, at the club where she followed him - first night she met him !!). She proudly admitted this 'clip' when first introduced on the show. I think the family hopes that they can hustle TLC for money to minimize the financial damage as this trainwreck speeds up. Kobe is getting a taste of a awful future

[@susanventura3910]

Emily's mom is so beautiful.

[@Demilawz]

Thanks for the re-cap!! Love it!!

[@lovemusik39]

I always say choose wisely...& never put yourself in a situation that you have to live to be dependent on people you don't know .....

[@123jamiez]

Hahahaha!!! Space ship man “trying” to break up the fight!!! Dead!! 🤣🤣🤣

[@cathyincolorado1432]

Without saying a word!

[@YsaBelisario]

I had fun watching Melicia roast em all. She’s hilarious 🤣

[@kimwilliams1402]

He is not letting no black man run his company ,he is a FOOL

[@Fourlittlefurpeople]

Shaeeda is crazy as well.

[@liverpoollass9915]

She is and there's nothing shy about her

[@kimberlylewis2185]

Exactly! They have a Mom, and she's too pushy. Why doesn't she approach this subject with their real Mom? Everyone is finding fault with Bilal, and some I agree with, but she's something else too.

[@ками88]

Kobe 😂 I know he has good intentions but it’s hilarious 😆

[@silvanasalazar1918]

I have a question, is it really worth giving up your individual freedom to get together with a mommy’s boy who just wants his breakfast done?

[@MrKihika]

The answer is "Yes" if you are in it for sexy time, aka jiggy-jiggy! Mommy's boy is way more mature than this 40+ and her teen circle. I'm not necessarily a fan of Mo, but he knows what he wants and has articulated it since day 1. It remains to understand what SHE wants from him other than sexy time and, maybe, a babysitter for her child. She went to Egypt and saw their mode of life. Did she just hope/assume he would give up his Egyptian culture and beliefs once in the US?

[@magaritaavila8535]

Emily has the nerve to ask 😤 🙄 😒 for a wedding??? Both Emily and Kobe are old enough to take care of themselves. But Emily can start working anywhere while Kobe waits for the green card.

[@agrant4701]

Kobe is delusional. How could he have NO plan? Or think he could takeover a business with his African high school education. Come on, NEVER.

[@kerchow2062]

i like how everyone including Emily keeps saying "Africa" like Africa's one big ass country😂😂

[@agrant4701]

@@kerchow2062 it has many nation's in it, but how the f---- do you think it is regarded?

[@hildagranados5623]

You said African high school education blindly!!! 🥴 Africa (continent) has some of the best education.

[@kay_red1156]

@@hildagranados5623 girl where? Name that high school.

[@agrant4701]

@@hildagranados5623 it's not enough to run a company. No high school education is going to be enough for that, OK? So you don't think im picking on places. I would never stick my chest out, if I merely obtained a high school education.

[@krenakrneki7636]

Kobe should get custody for his child (and I mean Koban, not Emily) and run. Shaida should pack and go home, but first make some mess in Bilal's house, stick a hundred pins all over and mix the cutlery....than he would complain and lecture for weeks before even notice she is gone. Jibri should marry David. And so sorry but I cannot help my self imagining Binyam jump/kick whining Ari instead of that guy in the ring.

[@Mswildfower]

😂😂😂

[@Besafe782]

I was shock too 😂😂😂😂 like who are you to take over my business sir not everything will be handed to you.

[@lisaloki5337]

Love your segment Melicia!! 🔥🔥🔥

[@Burlykim13]

It may be a cultural thing for Shaeeda, but the ADULT also needs to understand it’s a cultural thing for the CHILD not to call a stranger mom. Stop rushing it. Let her do it in her own time. Seriously messed up to push any child to do that let alone a teenager. Also, Emily was being a micro managing, arrogant, disrespectful nag who said she hasn’t helped put with anything in a long time yet her parents support her. She’s beyond controlling and I think she manipulates them all with her Kobin. Her and mom conveniently left out all her build up that led to the STFU. I’m exasperated watching a few minutes of clips with her…couldn’t stand dealing with her.

[@allisonaguillera5510]

Its definitely not a culture thing in Trinidad most of us called our step parents by their first names it doesn't matter the religion. Shaeeda needs to STOP saying its a culture thing , she means it her thing🙄 She's is an embarrassment to us Trinidadian women , she's very materialistic and puts up with his insults just because he has a nice house and car 🤣🤣 what a 🤡

[@kimwilliams1402]

He is honest and straight to the point

[@josephineamara855]

He's crazy, what's really going on on these guy's heads to want to take over their father-in-laws business 🤔 😳 🙄

[@marlenemunoz7905]

I would have told her to shut up too

[@Benny-ye7ro]

Yve, leave that relationship! It’s not worth giving up who you are just to please him!

[@jannalam6861]

I think she decieved him too lol. It doesnt sound like he has a problem with going back to his country

[@algraham9003]

This kid is too controlling, she will hate him if they get married

[@luqmannassor8434]

When the bell went and biniyam jump with a flying kick i lost it😭

[@7846885]

Thank you Meliciaaaa , you look gorgeous as always! ✨

[@donaDsejdiu793]

Emily treats Cobe like shit and badmothing him to his parents.

[@eurekamackey2873]

This video only shows a glimpse of how Emily and her parents behave! These people are rude and judgemental. Her parents already knows that he can't work because he doesn't have a green card so how would you expect him to work!! They treat Kobe badly and he needs to go back to his country!

[@Nachoza]

Jibris friend daveed is so phony lmao 😂