90 Day Fiancé: Kim’s Son REACTS to Her PROPOSING to Usman!

[@beebeebraswell1739]

The look on Jamal's face says it all. His heart goes out to his mom, and it also says "mom how blind can you be?"

[@MM-nn4vz]

Oh my goodness her son is so good looking I wish I was young but I would never do that some people that you can think I’m 62 and I’m sorry I know what my mind is and I would never go after a young man no way now if he’s 60 it’s OK for me

[@cindyjohnson5573]

I wish she would listen to her son. It would be so hard to let your man go meet another woman. Can she really handle the day he marries another and that night they have sex. I hope she comes to her senses

[@judethaddeus9856]

You mean « mom, how STUPID can you be? »

[@beebeebraswell1739]

@@judethaddeus9856 no I said what tf I said

[@kennedyfknalexa]

Ik that’s his mom but He needs to just live his life atp and let Jesus take the wheel. It’s hard to tell a grown person what they should and should not do no matter how foolish it may be. 🤷🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️

[@christianerramos2250]

I am embarrassed for Kimberly and sad for Jamal her son😢

[@thestudentat101]

I feel embarrassed for Kimberly and her son Jamal. Smh...

[@ilovegoodsax]

With a mother like Kim, no doubt Jamal has had to grow up fast. It would come as no surprise he spend most of his childhood having the burden of propping up his mom and taking care of her emotionally.

[@jackiejackson7588]

Again whats love gotta do with it. Its ridiculous. Mom had the last WORD

[@viewedbyjoss4857]

Melicia seriously needs to host the reunions!

[@cbbrown75]

Yes!!!!

[@suliyamazou9058]

Agreed

[@moniquebish]

Agreed cuz the host they have sucks she never has good follow questions she sucks

[@ickslynga21]

AGREED!!!!!!!!🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏❤

[@sonyathomas4781]

Yes please.

[@skylaradele8090]

Jamals face broke my heart. He is seriously trying to save his mom from that mess.

[@LadyGreyAgeingDisGracefully]

Family that go through this with them are the ones that have to pick up the broken pieces at the end too!

[@sophiewalker9893]

Fe I am so

[@sophiewalker9893]

B gn I am so happy to be a good time with us hbjj xxxxxxx

[@tea7030]

It is mindboggling that Kimberly cannot figure out how this dynamic will play out. It’s unraveling right in her face!

[@jasg771]

When she didn't heal from her past trauma, she's desperately praying for a miracle that she as an older barren woman can "overwrite" stereotype of being scammed by younger man and having a younger man being loyal to her. It's like life has always been bad to her and she's hoping this time around it'll be different.

[@lifewithceecee9035]

@@jasg771 that's just sad

[@K70sflowerchile]

If Kim acknowledges the obvious, she will not longer have a storyline 🤫...MILK IT KIM😬🙄

[@Mari14Bella]

Her son is extremely sensible and seems like a great guy. Such a shame she lacks self esteem

[@jasg771]

She might have been a wonderful mom to Jamal and in turn he respects her despite her foolishness.

[@brianawhittaker8152]

I don't think she's understanding how much this is gonna hurt her. And the other girl isn't ugly either and that's one of Kim's fears too. It's like she's watching him with his soul mate and she wishes that was her. But if she doesn't leave him she's gonna be in pain all the time it doesn't seem like it's worth it and she puts so much into someone who wouldn't even do half of the things she does for him.

[@withlovestephaniedenise7024]

She lacks it because she's always compared to younger and pretty woman. She needs to love herself first.

[@alishab5202]

Kim may not be everyone’s favor. But she is someone’s facts. Kims spirit outshine many other women. She is a beautiful woman inside and out.

[@notjulianne87]

She’s almost predatory

[@nicoledenise32]

That poor woman the Usman is meeting. She does not deserve to be brought into this mess.

[@barbararipani1331]

Best comment of the entire series.

[@stephaniemccord6100]

She would be brought in at family gatherings because she's his first cousin and I'm hearing banjo music 🪕

[@cindyjohnson5573]

She’s really beautiful.

[@darkmatter5940]

@@stephaniemccord6100 first cousin?!! Oh gosh😳😳😳.

[@omadjourney]

They are married already .

[@gwenjones667]

My heart goes out to her son, he's a polite young man

[@lumaba9409]

Ed è merito di Kim se suo figlio è così

[@heyalexiajanee]

Yes, he truly honors and respects his mother

[@colleenporter9312]

He's also handsome!😉

[@sandymorel5410]

He knows she messed up big time. It's called desperation.

[@jasg771]

I suppose Kim has been a wonderful mom to him, so much that he respects her despite her foolishness.

[@lainechange1765]

Melecia hit the nail on the head when she said "the things we do to avoid rejection". She has great insight

[@amberlawson7867]

the fact she is scared he might like the girl and he might leave says ALOT ..like how u wanna marry someone like that

[@saltysunflower]

Right? As if he will have no emotional connection to any other wife and just have children with her with no bond at all.

[@tordlarsson5950]

Her woman's intuition is telling her something so she had to talk to someone who's well aware of her actions. Jamal was her sound of reasoning. It'll be even worse when the younger woman has a baby, he won't deny his baby.

[@jasg771]

Kim is foolish. Her incessant whining of not wanting to be 2nd wife, but Here she is, waiting to be the 1st wife. That alone she is being sidelined.

[@02loud]

Jamal said "what's the point of being a first wife?" 😂😂 exactly! Kim really thinks just because she's first she'll be the most loved loll!!

[@speedmeisterkym6120]

She is delusional. Lives in her own reality. That's really sad

[@niax782]

He barely even likes her. She can be wife #1-2 or 200. He’s not into her.

[@lauren4078]

Yeah... it NEVER works. The first wife always gets tossed aside as soon as the man upgrades.

[@tordlarsson5950]

It's been said over n over n over again that Lisa will always be 1st wife. She wasn't even attractive either. Their old enough to be his mother and American citizens. Kim said she would set him up with production companies for his career So what does that tell u? His free ticket to the US and she's extremely delusional. I don't think delusional is the right word but it's sad to watch everything play out as it has thus far.

[@geripridgen7180]

True. The one who gives him children, who is most favored by his mother is the one who will be loved most.

[@lc4494]

Everyday I grow more and more grateful for my sane mother

[@nicoledenise32]

Give that woman her flowers cause this is insane

[@xxarianahiltonxx5116]

Right. My mother is a gem.

[@heyalexiajanee]

I thank God for my mother, she is a national treasure ❤️❤️❤️

[@Tchika]

wish I could say the same... 😅

[@calenajackson8772]

😂😂😭

[@berenic90]

Her son's reaction was literally all of us!!!!!

[@destiny6373]

"Rejection is a form of protection." 👏👏 preach Melicia!

[@nicholasgarrick8855]

Kim is living proof, and a reminder to us all that healing is crucial in our life. Our traumas. Loneliness ,and sheer desperation will have us making a fool out of ourselves, and being blind to red flags, like she clearly is ,if we don't heal. At her age she should Have wisdom, and self respect, but unfortunately she lives ,and behaves like an immature teenager because her healing hasn't been a priority.

[@wayasaunooke3424]

This is my exact comment, word for word, on another video 🤣 I'm not mad, I just know you have your own opinions and thoughts and it is ok to voice them in your own words ♡

[@K70sflowerchile]

Say it again!!

[@K70sflowerchile]

I don't know why Kim keeps trying to buy his affections -doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different result=insanity! KIM, I'm sure you have other qualities to "KEEP" Men...cuz "buying them clearly isn't working🛑

[@sweetonyxakararegem692]

Which she made herself the best and easiest prey!

[@TreebeardsHome]

@@wayasaunooke3424 - You wrote a beautiful comment. “Imitation is the sincerity form of flattery.” Same thing happened to me a while back. Not sure why. Have a great day. Blessed be.

[@samanthagordon2347]

Her son is such a beautiful and caring soul I feel for him

[@toshrizzle]

The smirk on his face says it all..

[@sweetonyxakararegem692]

This is why I divorced my african husband. You get no privacy in your marriage the family controls it. They never grow up as men and the women are at fault for everything while the man gets away with everything. When you see how immature he is towards Kimberly..smirking .and using her....thats how the majority of men are in Africa. They will provide what they can but theres a huge cost! Kimberly needs to realize that its not worth it and it will get worse the family will get worse towards her and no matter what he does they will look at her as the bad guy. African women support this behavior because most of them are oppressed and unhappy in their own marriages so they criticize and help destroy their sons marriages. The family can be rotten. You see when she bought that cow for his family they didnt want to accept it because they dont like her. In a African marriage its expected for you to give the maximum and they give the minimum. You cook that rice and chicken wrong the whole family will talk about you.

[@KA-jo8vn]

I’m so happy I read you comment. Good bless 🫶🏻

[@fluffytail6355]

@@sweetonyxakararegem692 yep! I dated African men for a time (a Nigerian, a man from Zimbabwe, and man from Somolia) and quickly picked up what they were about. Was NOT interested in marrying ANY of them for all the reasons you stated.

[@IslanderloverBKK]

@@sweetonyxakararegem692 Won't work for us BOSS babes 😁.

[@Zwelethu202]

@@sweetonyxakararegem692 As an African woman I unfortunately have to agree😒African men want to us to be both their wives and mothers.

[@Sh52068]

I know Kim says it hurts when people online call her delusional and desperate, but her expectations honestly do border delusion.. she really believes that she can control Usman’s feelings for another woman and that her being a first wife means she will be the favorite. The fact that she’s okay with this other woman being used to make babies and receiving no love or attention says a lot about Kim. We aren’t responsible for your self worth, Kim. YOU ARE.

[@yvettebrown-johnson1264]

You took the words right out of my mouth! Well said!!

[@jazzyj6640]

She's human and humans do stupid things all the time.

[@ijjalsparadise7350]

As much as I'm embarassed for Jamal, my heart goes out to Kim

[@charlottebreton6796]

Jamal is the person we all need. He's upfront and keeps it real.

[@madiutpio]

she doesn’t deserve to be called ugly and have all of that disgusting hate but obviously she has no self worth and she is desperate it’s sad. she’s changed her whole entire personality for Usman and he doesn’t GAF! and she is desperate she is the one who had to propose 😐

[@Iletyoulive]

And she's not even ugly

[@GG-qy2wy]

I see that Kim's hair is different. It looks very nice. I read over the weekend that she treated herself to a "new do." I'm glad that she is doing something nice for herself.

[@westoftherockies]

@@Iletyouliveshe looks lke herman munster, she's not attractive and you saying she is doens't change it, like you think every guy is hot.....get real, you think everyone on earth is good looking? i doubt you think that, kim is not feminine, she has a bad temper, loses it and gets violent, thinks african women are nothing but baby making machines, she says she is ok with him having a wife to have kids with but expects useman to have nothing to do with his future kids and other wives, she's brought this all on herself..usman is not in love with her and he never was, she had to beg just to get some sex, no lovemaking i guarantee you that, she is too blind to see anything, she thinks you can buy love and you can't, she could make up for her looks if she had good qualities but she's got a bad temper, very dominieering and constantly mad, its gonna be a long road for her.

[@tyson6819]

@@IletyouliveShe's not exactly a stunning beauty either. Her looks don't bother me but her ability to think of another human being as just a baby making factory kind of shows her true ugliness. It's on the inside seeping out IMO.

[@LadyPLM]

She’s ‘ACTING’ desperate….and that’s not attractive…..she didn’t have to cross oceans for such a clown 🤡

[@angelaonly7983]

First, 2nd, 3rd wife, it doesn’t matter…if you’re in a POLYGAMOUS/POLYAMOROUS RELATIONSHIP there’s no place for who’s 1st, 2nd, or 3rd. If Kimberly wants to be in a relationship where she’s FIRST OR MOST IMPORTANT, POLYAMORY IS NOT FOR HER

[@kennyroberson6216]

She needs to watch sister wives and see how that is turning out

[@1_star_reviews]

First wife, second wife does have a place in African polygamous relationships. Let’s not gauge how polygamy should be in Africa based on your Western ideas of it.

[@jasg771]

Poly relationship always benefits the men, not the women. Kim can never win this battle, the only winner is Usman cos he will get children and still get the green card

[@angelaonly7983]

@@1_star_reviews ABEG. I’m in no way gauging how polygamy SHOULD BE in Africa based on my western ideas😁…re-read what I wrote, then tell me specifically how I’m making a declarative statement defining how ALL of Africa SHOULD do polygamy;)…I would never. I WOULD however say that WORD-wise, NON-MONOGAMY has more room for deciding one will have a primary partner, designating others as secondary, while POLYGAMY is arguably requires more inclusive thinking, and one has to be more or less ok sharing the love of one’s partner. THAT is what I’m saying;)

[@1_star_reviews]

@@angelaonly7983 Yeah, sharing love is okay but the first wife is the legal wife, *the Haseiki (English translation, something special, that without it would make all other things incomplete* ). The second wife is appreciated and loved and treated fairly but in all actuality, she’s the helper. Her word is not law and she’s taken less seriously by the family.

[@sharigrant1319]

The second hand embarrassment i felt for her made me so sad smh. You don't have to convince someone to love you, ever. "We accept the love that we think we deserve" WORD!

[@SuperValaVala]

Melica is so nice, and respectful but speaks the truth at the same time ❤ love her !!!! Great host

[@beotch8736]

He doesn’t want her. Period. He doesn’t want her for her he wants her for what she has and the moment she doesn’t have what she’s got, then he’s gonna dip. He sees her as week and mendable there’s zero respect on his end.

[@jennywinter3025]

She is so desperate smh

[@speedmeisterkym6120]

Well said 👏🏼

[@sweetonyxakararegem692]

@A len Her purchasing a TOY will be a whole lot better than that yam yam which a young attractive woman will be probably riding it and leaving none for her.😆

[@Kepi_Kei]

@@Kitnmitns Caesar.

[@onemediatv2170]

@@Kitnmitns Don't forget Yve and Mohammed haha

[@angelanderson9515]

“What’s the point of being a first wife?” 😂 Kim’s son is hilarious…. With that being said. Kim you are beautiful and NOT UGLY.!!! You deserve the world and someone will treat you how you deserve. !!!!

[@bellladonna2071]

I agree 💯. She is not ugly.

[@niax782]

Beautiful ? Come on now, some of you are just LYING 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@Kre8iviT27]

She thinks the first wife can boss the other wives around.

[@oceancoral557]

@@niax782 at some points I can see where she looks kinda pretty, other clips she looks pretty bad but when she cleans up she's pretty alright looking. She's definitely desperate and it's sad, but she doesn't deserve to be called an animal (someone on a clip of her wrote: "Usman had sex with THAT? that's beastiality 🤮" ) Nobody deserves that. It's okay to not think she's attractive but to say someone looks so ugly they're an animal is fucked up for sure. I didn't like how she kept begging for sex and I saw she wanted it because she wanted validation that he was into her in some way. But there were so many hints he wasn't at all from the beginning, it's just sad, she's very sad.. delusional

[@sandrajintoorkar3181]

Kim is old and homely. Usman needs to cut that off and let her move on to someone more her speed, right here in the US. She is making such a fool of herself. My heart goes out to her son.

[@tracimyers9660]

People saying she’s ugly in her social media are just horrible. It’s one thing to criticize her behavior and her actions but to talk down on her appearance is disgusting. That doesn’t reflect on her it reflects on them as human beings.

[@MsMakuda]

As the woman who basically said that the Nigerian women were just "Breeders", and that he 'd have to bleach his dick after being with them. HA !!!

[@sabir1208]

I agree. That has nothing to do with the situation at hand. I think Kim is not a bad person but she does lack self love even at her age. I hope she can see she deserves better even if that means being alone.

[@carlyraewhittenberg5126]

🙌🙌🙌💯❤️

[@GG-qy2wy]

I totally agree with you @Traci Myers. People can be very cruel. She's a human being.

[@GG-qy2wy]

@@sabir1208 well said. 👏👏👏

[@brianavasquez7632]

I love this host !!!! I’m like did u get a psychology degree. I’m getting educated and entertained 🤣🤣

[@aura_lume]

I just want to say I cherish Melicia for her calm, yet sassy ways in all this mess😆 Good match!

[@magicdaisies5242]

It's crazy how the mum's on this show have great kids. Jamal reminds me of Darcey's daughters with his maturity.

[@jubernardi23]

it is sad for them

[@Amazing.Grace37]

Because they had to raise their mothers.. help heal their hearts when they are running off being stupid for these ‘ boys’. They need to love themselves more.

[@joanneclarke952]

@@Amazing.Grace37 my thoughts exactly!!

[@lanobear3362]

I think it’s very much a case of, BECAUSE of who their parents are, they had to grow up faster, and had to take a bigger role in supporting their parents. They’ve seen how their parents are, what they go through because of how they are, and decide, I don’t want that for me… 🤷‍♀️

[@DanThaMan22]

Except for Ed’s daughter

[@CcC864_20]

“Jamal is all of us” = Facts.

[@noonie2560]

Her son is very intelligent , respectful, and aware. He makes some very good points and clearly cares very deeply about his mother.

[@cremebrulee4759]

You are right. Kim will be miserable in a polygamous marriage. Also, because of her insecurities, she will end up pushing him away. As you said, she has no control over who he loves the most. She proposed to try to manipulate him. That's the wrong reason to propose. Usman accepted her proposal, but that didn't guarantee her being first wife. His mother will never allow him to marry Kim first. Period. I loved that movie clip, "We accept the love we think we deserve.". Speaking from experience, that is the truth.

[@hc____]

Melicia you are absolutely the best thing that ET has to offer! You are incredible- love your commentary

[@ShawnLivingLife]

Lawd, Kim need to get some self esteem. Girl find an age appropriate man here in America. Also can we fire Angela now? I think we're all over the nasty abusive nature of Angela.

[@patriciajudkins8961]

Get rid of Angela, please, please!

[@GG-qy2wy]

I cannot stand one second more of that racist, abusive, trashy Angela!! She's just the worst!

[@lauren4078]

Angela is out of control on camera. It's actually scary how aggressive and unstable she is! Michael can evac any time... but he probably is suffering from the sunk cost fallacy.

[@cmh9932]

She is nasty inside and out👎🏼

[@fluffytail6355]

My question is why Mahkul hasn’t “fired” Angela yet!!

[@carmenpunkrock]

Melicia your 90-day replay videos are always so good.

[@theresaricci5619]

Melicia: you are da bomb ! It’s wonderful how you size some of these “ losers” up!

[@prettyprie5114]

Angela saying do you see my pain or whatever 😂made me think of that part in the movie the Waterboy when coach was talking shit to Bobby calling him stupid 😂😂😂it’s her voice is all 😂😂freaking hilarious 🤣

[@meallmex9703]

I love this lady!!! I need her to do more shows! I don’t even watch tv but her 😂😂

[@millicentadams9332]

Usman’s face lit up so bright like the sun when he meets his first wife

[@pattykochenower4222]

Agree!! He’s like ..” Kimbaly who?” 😂

[@latonyacham1519]

@@pattykochenower4222 😩😭😭😭😭

[@PanoramicView-o5p]

@@pattykochenower4222 right 😂😂

[@Ami-rb2hu]

Well she’s absolutely stunning and glowing, and then there’s Kim with her over sized t shirts and extreme eye bags 🤭

[@FateZeroth]

@@Ami-rb2hu aight but why do you feel the need to mock her appearance ? 🤨

[@nicholasgarrick8855]

I feel bad for Jamal. This poor guy has to live through his mother making a foolish pathetic display of herself week in ,and week out I couldn't believe she pulled that stunt ,and brought two rings Also, does Kimberly think that being " first wife " gives her some sort of authority over any other wife? I keep getting that impression every time she insisted on being the first wife 🤦🏽‍♂️.

[@Cat-hz7yd]

She does. I remember her saying that the first wife has more authority and is loved and cared for more in another episode. Don't know where she learned that, I'm pretty sure the "first wife gets more" thing happened more in the past than it does now.

[@marymotherofgod4861]

Right her son is a sweet heart did u know Kim dated a killer that was in jail look this up I was flabbergasted 😮

[@bostonlatina]

@@marymotherofgod4861 She married this man when her son was 2

[@faustopacheco120]

I wonder what Jamal's dad thinks

[@Centh23653]

@@bostonlatina I don't believe that is a correct statement if she was married to his father for 20 years. I think she married the murderer for 2 years than it was annulled.

[@kaykay3458]

When Kim sees the way Usman was looking at that woman she'll know that he's never looked at her like that.

[@repentjesusiscomingsoon1529]

So sad...and so true!!!

[@margaritaisabelcabrera6491]

I thought the same thing...I dont understand why Kim expose herself un to this Situation, it is so embarrasing

[@aleaiacetaest9132]

Well Kim said she doesn’t want him to love another woman like he love her so Usman ma bowy thought and kept his promise and loved the other woman more 😂

[@repentjesusiscomingsoon1529]

@@aleaiacetaest9132 lol!

[@queenvee7139]

Nah, she'll still be blind.

[@alexisfavor4681]

I literally keep up with this show now through these clips and honestly I just love Melicia! She is just so beautiful , down to earth and literally has my exact same sense of humor so to me she is hilarious! Also she is very spot on with these people and with the reactions that I know MOST of us are having about some of these situations we are watching unfold here lol 🤣💛💛

[@briannaje5419]

Melicia came to Kim like a straight up friend and told her she could wait for someone to treat her right.

[@CookieOkie]

My heart goes to her son. Must be so hard watch your mother to this to herself so publicly...

[@Real-housewives-Wakanda]

To be that age and be that desperate for a man, Usman to be specific. 🤯 😢

[@niax782]

Chhhilllleee 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@tiegz9770]

At the age of 17 I learned not to beg a guy to stay with me.... Kim is how old?

[@kerryfrancisco4788]

Please Kim, come home. Respect yourself. 🙏

[@lilyyybethhh]

This show is so much better with your commentary!!!

[@TheNikki295]

the new women is STUNNING and the look on USMAN'S FACE SAYS IT ALL......WHIPPED OUT THE PHONE SO FAST TO GET HER NUMBER!

[@kaitlynleeanna425]

Her poor son is just mortified for her

[@KPazzz]

Sooo Kim is upset that internet strangers are saying mean things about her looks but had no problem proposing after Usman said she looks “hard”?! Smh

[@krislatoya7556]

👀

[@GG-qy2wy]

Usman is no prize......just sayin'.. he's in no position to comment on her looks. While he "sings", and scams, she works, and is a caregiver to her Mother. I said what I said!

[@jessaslam5027]

So true

[@doramilaje9750]

@@jessaslam5027 how doesUsman scams??? Kim does these things on her own terms. Allllll by herself.

[@GG-qy2wy]

@@doramilaje9750 I think you should direct that to me. The person that you named agreed. I used the word scam. Userman pretended that he loved Baby Lisa. When she found out what he was about, she got out. Kimberly, on the other hand, isn't as abrupt as Lisa. As long as Kim is giving gifts, ps5, big laptop, sojaboy necklace, etc., he likes her. Oh......didn't you see how when he handed her money to the man for the cow to count it, Usman put the money back in his pocket!! So, yes, I said it.....he's a scammer who thinks he's going to make it big in the US! HA! He really can't sing! Bye

[@yohalibahena7798]

Damn, I love how Jamal is mature, respect, intelligent and cares about his mom. And he's handsome too 👀❤️

[@Ugots2go]

The look on Usman's face when he got that young ladies number is telling. At no point in time has he ever looked at Kimberly that way! The fact that he doesn't light up and want to embrace her after being apart for so long, should be all that Kimberly needs to see to part ways.

[@wizzysloungetitaure]

Usman said yes to the proposal because he didn't want to embarrass Kimberly. Some people do say yes when they get a proposal in public just to save the other person. Everyone deserves love and respect and Kim will get that someday when she learns to prioritize herself. All in good time.

[@jaylenehawaii]

He’s not wearing the ring on his visit to his potential first wife.. I was told if both sides of the families come together for this first meeting it can become an engagement.

[@amybharadwaj3573]

Melissia looks more fabulous everyday - love her style!

[@sarak5562]

It’s so sad to see her saying its ok to be her hubbys side piece.

[@c.for0125]

Deep inhale, speechless and hiding his face behind his hands. Jamal's glitching. Kim's nonsense momentarily broke his brain 🤯

[@ritaluna1453]

I've heard him say how much he loves stuff she buys him but not very often does he tell her he loves her. That's a perfect red flag there.

[@naomi5978]

The look on Usman's face is saying how happy the lady makes him for she's up his alley. No, Usman will keep using Kim as long as Kim let's him!!!!

[@theroguewriter66]

When I married my husband, I KNEW exactly who he was, what he believed, and his love for me. There a peace and comfort and safety in that knowledge that surpasses anything Kim is trying to finagle out of Usman.

[@beebeebraswell1739]

Kim said she doesn't want to become second but she landed herself that spot. Again.

[@kennedyfknalexa]

Angela really wants someone to feel sorry for her 🙄😩😂 and I love how Melecia idk if I spelled her name right but.. I love how she isn’t biased. She gives her opinion without tearing anyone down. I want her to be the tell all host!

[@anarchist_parable]

An opinion is by definition biased, it doesn't have to be cruel to be a bias. She straight up says when she agrees or disagrees with something.

[@kennedyfknalexa]

@@anarchist_parable I really don’t like people like you. Bias is prejudice in favor of or against one thing, person, or group compared with another, usually in a way considered to be unfair.

[@carlahicks5653]

My heart truly goes out to her son Jamal. It's obvious, it hurt's him to see his Mom, completely loose herself over this Man. He can't get through to her, and I know he is very embarrassed for her. She has done "waaaayyyy too much. It's as if she's reached, the point of no return. After this, "hopefully she will seek therapy, to help her build some self esteem., because she's going to definitely need it. This is just too 😔 sad.

[@JDA4]

I love Jamal. What a gorgeous man- inside and out. My heart breaks for Kim. She will never be able to tolerate the pain and insecurity of having her husband sleep with another woman and share the deep bond of parenthood with someone else. No way. She’s headed for real suffering and it’s hard to watch.

[@tatti722]

"Rejection is a form of protection" I love this😭

[@repentjesusiscomingsoon1529]

Or, the original way of saying it, "Rejection is GOD'S protection!"

[@joannenasri4266]

Kim has got to stop chasing him and being the one who is going after usman. If she stops, then she can see what happens next in their relationship!! 👀 👀

[@want2thinkfree]

Quotes to live by for sure

[@repentjesusiscomingsoon1529]

@@joannenasri4266 Amen! I don't care what people say -- a man does NOT like to be chased! THEY like to do the chasing! Period!

[@tigresstricia01]

Yes that's a keeper Melicia

[@je.suis.prisci]

I feel bad for Jamal and the rest of their family. Super cringe!

[@K70sflowerchile]

Did you peep when Usman said, "I'm ready to marry you"? He was shaking his head "NO" while he was saying it!🙄🙄This is so sad🥺😢😭

[@lauren4078]

Good catch. His body language is telling!

[@Tachouz]

I wouldn't call that "shaking his head "NO"".

[@tordlarsson5950]

Right!

[@sabrinamerrick1271]

I don't like to see when ppl are desperate. It's not a good trait

[@yukisakura9582]

Mannn that’s crazyyy

[@sabx345]

He was thinking ‘ how much is that ring worth’ ?

[@biannca.7]

“And he said yes” wowww she was so proud 😂 exactly like a child

[@shardenee]

I give Melicia (sp?) props on all of her 90 day fiancée videos. Totally on point and we literally could have been friends in high school and college lol 😆

[@blondesense1708]

I really like her too. Usually reporters affiliated with shows aren’t genuine, but she is fair while also being kind and funny.

[@shardenee]

@@blondesense1708 yes - love it.

[@kingayy9267]

1:42 That lip color looked really nice on Kim. Love the host's hair, too. It's fun!

[@Christinamindingmine]

He’s not in love with her he’s flattered by all her gifts and affection.

[@teriewilliams8614]

🤔 he does NOT have ANY FEELINGS for you!! Why can’t you SEE that? This is really SAD 😢!!

[@tumbles8715]

I want Melicia as my friend. Supportive and honest

[@sandraurban7204]

Kimberly has too many issues, she constantly praises herself as if she's insignificant and must be validated. I feel for her Son, no child should bare the embarrasssment of their parent in this way. Definitely love is blind, lies and disrespect has been the center of this relationship. It won't last.

[@preyn49]

Food for thought. If Kim marries Usman, it doesn't matter if he marries her first because it's still two wives. Also I'm not proposing to a man, It's been my experience if a man is truly ready to commit and marry nothing will get in his way or stop him. I don't believe Usman loves Kim she is merely stroking his ego. Kim needs to listen to her son. He loves his mom and has her best interest at heart. Final thought, Angela needs therapy for her abusive behavior and violent outburst. She is clearly demonstrating classic abusive behaviors so 90 day needs to remove her from the show. It's disturbing to watch and I find myself leaving the room until the next couple is featured. Her behavior is triggering many of us who dealt with an abusive partner. Thank you for the content Melicia 💜💜💜💜

[@mariannecheung9680]

Kim thinks if she is first she get all the love, the second wife is just for the babies, this marriage never gonna works, its gonna be a nightmare for Kim

[@adelascotland]

I have no words for this. Whatever happens next is soley Kim’s fault. Usman has been honest this entire time, he was shown Kim her true colours, his reaction to her proposal wasn’t I’ll marry you because I love you. It was I’ll marry you because you show me love and you’re loyal. Like girl, whatever happens really really is your fault. I don’t feel sorry for you. Next time Usman reminds you of all his ‘beautiful young rich fans’ you better not shed a tear

[@vickieadams6648]

Agreed 💯

[@theresaricci5619]

Do you guys recall at the very beginning of Kim’s venture, she was obsessed with Michael Jackson. Rip.

[@rubyflipper]

I DOUBT Kim will read this: IS THE LOOK on Jamal's face worth all this? A woman's children are all she'll ever have!!

[@missrobinusa1]

Usman is not the catch that he thinks he is. Take away this show and he'd fade off into oblivion. I'm Kim's age and am just embarrassed for her to be honest. My son is 23 years old and the look on his face with disappointment, if I were in a situation like Kimberly, would be unbearable. It's called "self-worth" and she has none of it, unfortunately.

[@sabrinamerrick1271]

I'd rather just be alone.

[@rishankahsay1602]

Kim, son, is the most educated, honest, respectful, very smart soooo good looking young man,

[@simplegirlslifestyle261]

And SHE raised him, it says a lot about her

[@angelinaakakpo5970]

I couldn't agree with you more

[@IslanderloverBKK]

@@kemzyacco5629 I agree with this👍That happened to me with my parents, I had no choice but to mature early or else my siblings and I would suffer.

[@faustopacheco120]

simp

[@missestela786]

Hell yea he handsome

[@VHEmpress]

She lives in San Diego and last time I checked there were plenty of eligible bachelors. Love those California boys!! Kim, if you're reading, listen to the things he says. You're not his priority and he's sneaky and bit of a spin doctor. I'm being nice. You come across as desperate. I understand compromising for love but not your self-respect and self-worth.

[@ilovegoodsax]

It's more than obvious Kim clearly has a fetish, errr...I mean "preference" for black men, of which there are more than enough decent, responsible and respectable ones out here on CA that would treat her like a queen. However, Kim appears to be attracted to men who are emotionally unavailable.💯

[@VHEmpress]

@@ilovegoodsax Agree with you 1000%. I'm not a psychiatrist but I have to wonder about her relationship with her father. If she were to give herself some self-love and self-respect, she'd be cheered in the comments.

[@ilovegoodsax]

@@VHEmpress Exactly!💯

[@je.suis.prisci]

@@ilovegoodsax And there's Black men around her age all over California at that. The preferences exist. Usman isn't a catch 😅🤦🏾‍♀️

[@GG-qy2wy]

@@ilovegoodsax 💯. I too have wondered how her relationship with her Father was. I don't recall if she ever mentioned him? Just a guess.....maybe he wasn't around, or treated her unkindly? It's sad to me. Just sayin'.

[@NaadiraSsali]

Kim is something else

[@thatomofolo452]

🤭

[@relighg]

LOL. The look on his face. You can tell he was embarrassed with that proposal

[@theozzy4717]

The date girl's reaction to Usman 🤣. With the one comment she looked like she had enough of him already🤣

[@annieoakley8949]

She needs to be much more concerned about what Usman does and says than strangers making comments

[@hanhdoan9101]

Jamal was a lot more calm than I would have been

[@ruthgilles6711]

Oh Kim 😂 this pain can be all avoidable

[@sweetonyxakararegem692]

It gonna get worse! Once shes married to him she will be the slave and have to take alot of shyt. She is seeing RED FLAGS and is ignoring them. After he gets into the U.S.A hes gonna forget about her and theres nothing she can do about it. NOTHING! and immigration is gonna tell her that she married him and they have to worry about bigger issues.

[@lockedin6699]

Down Badism

[@mariastancheva755]

Oh my god, the moment she started proposing, I couldn't even watch it, I was paralysed fromm the cringe. Thank you, Melicia, you are the best 💜

[@jillianpantano6461]

From what I hear, in their culture, when a man shows up at a woman's house and it's been set up, that's an automatic engagement. So basically usman showing up at the other woman's house would technically be seen as a purposal

[@mpsc8109]

Melicia, you are the reason why this whole thing is very entertaining!!! I love you!!!

[@malinp7689]

Usman doesn't love her, he's in love with how she treats him. The gifts, the praise, she also enables and feeds his delusions about being an international superstar.

[@chava4809]

I appreciate your compassion/understanding for Kim, it’s much needed to balance out all the hate she gets. I can completely understand people’s problems with her actions on the show, I just feel like she receives more negativity than she deserves. Just IMO, no one’s perfect.

[@DreamyFl]

Such sound advice. Thank you.

[@JustBeYouTy]

No one told her to put her business on tv….I don’t feel sorry for her

[@StorieswithT]

It makes me so sad for her son😢 He is the parent in their relationship and no son needs that.

[@ambercarter5005]

Rejection is a form of protection! Let them know Melicia 😭

[@immealldayeveryday9425]

The way she said Jamal is all of us 😂 cause seriously that was definitely all of our reactions

[@amarieoflothlorien]

I am surprised she actually raised such a kind and smart son.

[@ilovenikk_2650]

I swear I watch these coz I absolutely love the host. Great job sis🤍

[@patgriego6293]

I just love your commentary. You're exactly right about Kim learning to work on herself and loving herself. She's wasting her time with this player.