95% of your behavior is primate behavior | Frans de Waal

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Frans de Waal has studied the behavior of primates for five decades. Some of his many important observations center around the evolution of morality and just how much we have in common with the animal kingdom.
The idea that animals are always in conflict with one another and competing for resources is “totally wrong,” de Waal says.
Other primates, specifically chimpanzees and bonobos, have demonstrated a range of traits and tendencies typically regarded as human, including empathy, friendship, reconciliation, altruism, and even adoption.
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@feebleterrance
@feebleterrance Жыл бұрын
I’ve found people who insist that nature is only cruel and unforgiving are those who are trying to justify their own unforgiving cruelty. Don’t let someone put artificial barriers of fear between you and others.
@feebleterrance
@feebleterrance Жыл бұрын
@God Yeah bruh shit is wild. Animals are capable of some truly fucked up things, the human animal included. We're also capable of caring for each other, our children and infants, the sick and elderly with compassion, healing each other mind and body with a depth and nuance of awareness, creativity, and analysis given to us at birth by millions of years of evolved responses that have enhanced our ability to survive. In as much as we can kill and destroy with unrivaled brutality, we can build and nurture to the point of discovering the deepest secrets of the universe of which we are an emergent, changing, growing property. The point is not that we aren't cruel, the point is we, by virtue of our ability to perceive and self analyze, have a choice in which impulses we pursue.
@1970joedub
@1970joedub Жыл бұрын
Uh… have you observed nature? Something must die in order for the other to eat and live.
@shaggyterrell8460
@shaggyterrell8460 Жыл бұрын
It is cruel and unforgiving but it is also full of love and compassion as well. Without one there wouldn’t be the other.
@bachirimrani5254
@bachirimrani5254 Жыл бұрын
@God yes, you can watch a "BBC Wildlife : Violent chimpanzee attack " group of chimp hunting and savagely killing a small monkeys as prey
@feebleterrance
@feebleterrance Жыл бұрын
@@1970joedub You gonna ask that when it sounds like you have literally never heard of the concept of agriculture?
@JanxakaJX
@JanxakaJX Жыл бұрын
If de Waal reads this, just wanted to say thank you for your research.
@noblebrown6077
@noblebrown6077 Жыл бұрын
Morality evolved as a trait to improve group/social cohesion. All social vertebrates have a sense of morality, or rather a sense of right and wrong. The degree to which it is developed in any given species is dependent on other environmental and biological factors but the point is that morality is evolutionary
@chrisgraham2904
@chrisgraham2904 Жыл бұрын
Absolutely! Morality is evolutionary and certainly not dictated by a God. Morality, as a sense of Good vs. Evil, or Right vs. Wrong stems from the basis of Pain vs. Pleasure. Anything that causes any level of physical or mental pain or anguish is "Good" or "Right". Anything causing pain or discomfort is 'Evil" or "Wrong". A multitude of animals, outside of humans and primates will take actions to avoid pain and proactively seek experiences that are pleasurable. Early humans soon realized that they were smarter, stronger, more efficient and more likely to survive if they could rely upon others by building a community or tribe. As with all communities, they found that rules concerning the conduct of individuals could avoid many of the conflicts that arise in a community environment. The rules resulted in rewards for good behavior an punishment for bad behavior.
@rogerogrant
@rogerogrant Жыл бұрын
Exactly. In highly social species (us, whales, wolves, etc) individual survival and reproductive fitness are highly dependent on other group members. Most of what is deemed “morality” is concerned with reinforcing the social rules of the given group. To suggest that it’s wrong to say that everything in nature involves competition and maximizing self-interest “because morality” is to fail to understand the basic operation of selection.
@yaksauce
@yaksauce Жыл бұрын
Monkey Mind was first described in Hindu and Buddhist philosophies many millennia ago. Various primates are common throughout Asian and made easy subjects for studying comparative primatology. In contrast, the Big 3, Abrahamic religions were synthesised in barren regions where primates were rare curiosities and therefore missed entirely the opportunity to provide answers of our true nature. Instead, a convenient mythology of evil was fabricated to justify ignorant behaviors or destructive actions. And as Gerta wrote, “hell is other people.” According to Buddhist teachings, the 3 characteristics of Monkey Mind are: 1) Limitless Greed - nothing is ever enough, especially if it is pleasurable to the senses. The idea that bigger is better, more is good (“greed is good”), and extra is best. 2) Tireless Fear - nothing in life is certain except uncertainty. Uncertainty is certain. Uncertainty develops anxiety, worry, and unrest. Many people fear leaving their house from fear of ‘something bad is gonna happened’. 3) Impassive Dominance - Monkey Mind seeks highest place on the tree, especially when threatened. Similarly, people grasp for and cling to higher positions of power, of status, and rank to dominate over others. If there was a singular cause for ALL the problems in the world, it is Monkey Mind. It is the default program of our species and it operates in the background of every person on this Planet of the Apes. Many civilisations in antiquity made attempts to elevate culture beyond our feces-flinging ancestors, but had limited success. My guess is that of the current 8 billion people on this planet, 7 billion are as ignorant and primitive as were our ancient ancestors.
@zamolxezamolxe8131
@zamolxezamolxe8131 Жыл бұрын
the 3 are surviving instincts. without that, us and other monkeys wouldnt have survived. depending which ancestors u mean, they were far from ignorant. as a matter of fact, we reached the peak of our intelligence around 10 000 years ago. since then, we dumbed down apparently.
@theplayerformerlyknownasmo3711
@theplayerformerlyknownasmo3711 Жыл бұрын
Hey man. We are trying
@adarsh915
@adarsh915 Жыл бұрын
Can you suggest where to know more about the impassive dominance?
@tracesprite6078
@tracesprite6078 Жыл бұрын
I think animals in the wild eat when they are hungry but stop when they've had enough. Humans do this too but if we are stressed enough, we lose the ability to judge our appetite and we consume compulsively.
@tracesprite6078
@tracesprite6078 Жыл бұрын
Regarding endless fear, we humans have a combination of fear to warn us about danger but we also are adventurous and are motivated to explore. Other animals also show a balance of caution and curiosity and courage. Individuals who are mistreated may lose their courage.
@lewismcnicholas2631
@lewismcnicholas2631 Жыл бұрын
We have to remember that altruism/caring/being nice only evolves if there is a survival benefit so these traits aren’t about being good/moral it’s the environment putting pressure on animals about how best to work within that environment given the constraints that exist.
@orion8835
@orion8835 Жыл бұрын
Absolutely. People become very hostile when they are not surviving anymore. Even worse there is an irrational reaction to care niceness/support in some humans who are so dysfunctional that they bite the hand that feeds. This in turn can threaten the nice human who is inevitably dependent on the other. We see this in marriages, roommates, crime organizations targeting people and all sorts of “friendships”. Even colleagues sabotage positive people.
@2ezee2011
@2ezee2011 2 ай бұрын
Altruism though has been observed between different species that have no correlation to survival, or at least any we are aware of. Ducks feeding fish is the latest one I have observed. A couple of ducks were pulling berries off a bush and feeding them to the fish. Maybe there is some symbiotic drive there, who knows, but it was interesting.
@selvingreen3585
@selvingreen3585 Жыл бұрын
de Waal's experience reassures me indirectly that nature is also benevolent, and that humanity isn't doomed yet. Humans then; being a top product of nature, must have a greater capacity to be selfless, sharing and caring; if animals are capable of these qualities in their own ways. Thank you for the research and this valuable message
@ThePunter209
@ThePunter209 Жыл бұрын
The issue at hand is trying to destroy the notion that nature is hostile and anti human that has been peddled by industry leaders, out of touch anthropopologists (Hobbes with his "nasty, brutish and short life", Dawkins with his Selfish Gene) and politicians to push the agenda of survival of the fittest and creating mistrust and resentment amongst the masses.
@millenialmusings8451
@millenialmusings8451 Жыл бұрын
Nature isn't benovelent or cruel. Those are human projections. The only thing that can be said with certainty is the existence of suffering in each and every life
@asbeautifulasasunset
@asbeautifulasasunset Жыл бұрын
Have you read "Neither Wolf nor Dog" by Kent Nerburn? If not, you will find human beings who lived in the world with a different set of values and beliefs before it was overrun by land-hungry Europeans. For example, four virtues of the Lakota people were bravery, generosity, respect and wisdom. Far different than greed is good, money and/or status is the measure of your worth, etc
@wideawake5630
@wideawake5630 Жыл бұрын
Preach! I think anyone who has had intimate relationships with other animals or even ample opportunity to observe them will agree with you.
@apartahotelsmadrid375
@apartahotelsmadrid375 Жыл бұрын
I hope you are vegan then....if you discovered that and you still eat animal you are just evil
@naimacherqi5144
@naimacherqi5144 Жыл бұрын
their biology make them act that way because its the best way for them to survive and dont get left behind , the good behavior that you have is not for caring about strangers its for caring about people who r close to u that ur survival depend on them ...
@beach182
@beach182 Жыл бұрын
This was fascinating, thank you
@tracesprite6078
@tracesprite6078 Жыл бұрын
I think mammals use a complex weave of cooperation and competition. We see it in humans. People cooperate around the rules of tennis or football but within those rules they compete intensely. Supermarkets compete against one another but cooperate with the rules about food safety and labelling. People compete to get jobs and also cooperate within the workplace to get tasks done. Siblings sometimes squabble but also show kindness and protectiveness to one another. The road system is a miracle of cooperation. We seldom see police officers but people stop at red lights and give way at give way signs. In some countries, people totally ignore the traffic lights but still cooperate in some complex way that strangers can't understand.
@tehreemazmat2929
@tehreemazmat2929 Жыл бұрын
That's the point. Richard Dawkins actually explained it better. We cooperate in certain areas and compete in others. Because survival of species is subject to a trade off -a balancing act, between service of self and community service. We will collaborate in areas, even be altruistic, which we understand are necessary for survival of the whole clan. These traits are evolved under selective pressure. Why else would a young soldier lay his life for his country? It comes from the same mindset. The book "selfish gene" by Dawkins explains how all our altruism, cruelty, love etc are ultimately about the survival of the selfish genes that use humans as vessels, make us act in ways that would ensure their survival, outlive us and then "control" our next generation. Our offspring will undergo the same life cycle and the gene will outlive them too.
@suryastiwari6233
@suryastiwari6233 Жыл бұрын
Well done *The Well* I could appreciate these videos for my entire life 👍👍👍👍👍
@1HadChilling
@1HadChilling Жыл бұрын
i have seen fish help each other when they get stuck in something and not leave their side until they get unstuck or die.
@The-Well
@The-Well Жыл бұрын
Touching. Well, the first half at least.
@brigittahoffmann9283
@brigittahoffmann9283 Жыл бұрын
I believe that the number is too high so i disagree with that point, but it is great to see such a beautiful video and the topic is very interesting. I just think that the balance between what makes us human is not computed accordingly, yet, in this video. 😊☺
@blaiseronstadt6306
@blaiseronstadt6306 Жыл бұрын
Facinating. , My Friend, When you spend Time in my Nature you See things, make Observations , that can be Missed. I Love it, I have spent Alot of Time around Canines, and Equines, Incredible
@nighttimesea5745
@nighttimesea5745 Жыл бұрын
Wow. Knowing this is really wonderful. It's like enlightenment to overall human morality issues. Probably the other 5% is the ability to seek knowledge (which is the responsibility to understand languages) to attain a good moral character. An excellent manners of behavior in communication and individual integrity. To have bigger reason than just ourselves. So that we can embrace all kinds and creatures through universal reasoning, right judgement and understanding.
@devanshrathi8600
@devanshrathi8600 Жыл бұрын
This was so easily explained. 🙌🏻
@TheWayofFairness
@TheWayofFairness Жыл бұрын
Thanks deeply for this
@The-Well
@The-Well Жыл бұрын
Our pleasure, glad you liked it!
@Paj1v
@Paj1v Жыл бұрын
Right now I'm reading "Mama's Last Hug". Amazing and beautiful.
@The-Well
@The-Well Жыл бұрын
That's awesome! Wonder if the algorithm suggested it because of that.
@philliplanos
@philliplanos Жыл бұрын
This is the first time I learn about the difference between bonobos and chimpanzees
@N0Xa880iUL
@N0Xa880iUL Жыл бұрын
Same
@The-Well
@The-Well Жыл бұрын
Better here than in the wild 🙂
@TheSkystrider
@TheSkystrider Жыл бұрын
I'm very fascinated by the Lives of the animal kingdom. I want to know more about how animal social, reasoning, planning, teaching function!
@erickpalacios8904
@erickpalacios8904 Жыл бұрын
You should take a read of his book, Our Inner Ape. Highly compelling and interesting to hear about some of the experiments that have been done with these primates.
@tracesprite6078
@tracesprite6078 Жыл бұрын
David Attenborough's documentaries are marvellous, too.
@geraintwd
@geraintwd Жыл бұрын
"...don't fit any evolutionary scenario" Except, actually, they do. Evolution isn't just a fight to the top, as some people like to characterise it - it's about survival. Of course the survival of a social species depends on social co-operation, altruism and actions that benefit the group, as opposed to the individual. As the narrator said, the baby chimp can't survive on its own and, since that child represents the next generation, its survival is important to the group as a whole. None of this is a mystery and none of it is incompatible with evolution.
@The-Well
@The-Well Жыл бұрын
It's an important point. He may (or may not) have been attempting to express that it seemed incompatible with the simplistic view of evolution that emphasizes competition and survival of the fittest rather than discredit evolution as a concept. It's also important to note that evolution doesn't necessarily select for complete actions (e.g. adopting a baby chimp) but may simply select for emotional responses that drive behavior. So the instinct to care for young, for example, could be selected for because it dramatically increases the likelihood of the chimp's children surviving and simply also be triggered in the rarer scenario that an unrelated chimp baby is in need. Or it could be that chimps who care for unrelated chimps instinctively belong to groups that disproportionately succeed and prosper. It can be challenging to say definitively and precisely without an overall history of how such behaviors emerged.
@grk6573
@grk6573 Жыл бұрын
Fascinating observations. The animal kingdom is wonderful. I am sure even they are thinking the same.about human kingdom as well. 😊
@elle7739
@elle7739 Жыл бұрын
I highly doubt that considering humans are responsible for their habitat depleting, being poached and generally their survival being made difficult.
@grk6573
@grk6573 Жыл бұрын
@@elle7739Animals are thinking: "Humans are self-destructive, they chop off their trees and pop vitamin pills made in their labs that work hard to create substances that dont even come close to mimicking nature's bountiful fruits, they damage everything in their environment and struggle to live within the rubble they've created......well who does that....fascinating humans indeed."
@waseemmohmand9905
@waseemmohmand9905 Жыл бұрын
the fundamental idea is survival. Dog is dog is survival and co operation is also survival,
@mikaela3399
@mikaela3399 4 күн бұрын
RIP Frans de Waal 🫶 He was such an important figure in primatology and ethology. So sad I will never get to meet such a legend.
@jkasaunder228
@jkasaunder228 Ай бұрын
I honestly can't wait for 10-20 years time when the studies come out about us as humans, and especially how we have reacted to a "global" lockdown. We basically became the animals trapped in a cage with a cell mate. I have noticed since the lockdown, Families and friends seem closer, I've noticed people are more welcoming, But i've also noticed people have set up more hard-line barriers of entry to friend/family circles. I've also noticed with delivery drivers of all kinds (food, Amazon etc) often now do the job with their partners (I mean, seen it before, but since the lockdown, it seems every other delivery is a family affair.)
@brigittahoffmann9283
@brigittahoffmann9283 Жыл бұрын
But of course these behaviours, the conflictual tendency and our programmed self defence mechanism in the memorial level is indeed obstructing us from being more analytical and take very good decisions, or better decisions. Our memory is also, I would think, in a need to develop towards a higher complexity, ☺🤗
@tannukashyap8311
@tannukashyap8311 Жыл бұрын
so fascinating ❤️ wish we could save our distant cousins from impending extinctions and horrific acts of humans.
@boblordylordyhowie
@boblordylordyhowie 7 ай бұрын
I don't buy into the belief that we are superior because we have a complex language, I feel sometimes our language is too complicated and that it where our problems come from. Animals have simple ways of communications (in relation to our complex language) and all individuals learn that language and they don't need to expand on it as it does what they need. When I was a child in the 50s a slap around the head was expressive and understood immediately, much as a scream from a chimp would be but we banned that so had to find another way of doing it, making it more complicated and less understood and now we have the most recent generation that are more problem than they are worth.
@2ezee2011
@2ezee2011 2 ай бұрын
The more I learn about animals and primates in particular it becomes extremely obvious that we humans only justify our "exceptionalism" because of hubris and ignorance. From my dogs, to squirrels in the yard, to ants, all have a "morality and ethics" that are based on survival and adaptability. We are no different.
@rickrobitaille8809
@rickrobitaille8809 Жыл бұрын
We are simply all🌐
@cherilynnfisher5658
@cherilynnfisher5658 Жыл бұрын
BSC/PHDS/8&3
@TennesseeJed
@TennesseeJed Жыл бұрын
They don't have (apparently) have a concept of the deeper future or past.
@DarkMatter1919
@DarkMatter1919 Жыл бұрын
Altruism does fit the evolutionary scenario. At @3:55 you said it doesn't and you're wrong.
@atomariola6410
@atomariola6410 Жыл бұрын
Dr. De Waal is an intellectual's intellectual and his contributions should be more appreciated and foregrounded, particularly his recent book Different, which excavates gender through the eyes of an ethologist/primatologist.
@The-Well
@The-Well Жыл бұрын
Glad you like him, thank you for the recommendation!
@rickrobitaille8809
@rickrobitaille8809 Жыл бұрын
Every species are us😃🌐
@davidcockayne3381
@davidcockayne3381 Жыл бұрын
No sensible person today denies our animal origins, nor the roots of moral sensibility and behaviour in the biological altruism displayed particularly by primates. Nevertheless, I see no evidence that non-human animals are able to consciously reflect on their behaviour and thereby generate sets of ethical rules which over time are generally agreed and put into effect by communities in the form of positive law and exalted constitutions. Further, we reflect on our reflections, come up with categories of ethical theories such as deontology and consequentialism, and entertain ourselves debating their respective merits. I realise we live in a depressingly pessimistic and misanthropic age, but the truth is that humans have progressed morally beyond our animal forebears precisely because of our ability to reflect and act beyond biology.
@tracesprite6078
@tracesprite6078 Жыл бұрын
I think that we humans have achieved magnificent results in science, in human cooperation, in ethics and politics and other areas. One of our achievements is to also respect the animal world. We sadly often exploit animals but, at our best, we respect and value the natural world The creation of huge national parks is a magnificent idea which will help us to fight climate change and thus enable the survival of ourselves and the natural world.
@Kattelyn21
@Kattelyn21 Жыл бұрын
We are 95% ape, 4.5% bee / hive and a .5% genius variable that is found by watching adhd children raised with a third variable to help guide them to the correct answers as far as they are known with current information. As they learn how to find the correct answers, then progress is made. Very small change repeated with a small variable for support answers a lot of questions.
@davidcockayne3381
@davidcockayne3381 Жыл бұрын
@@Kattelyn21 Fascinating. Have you thought of submitting a paper to the Journal of Human Evolution?
@The-Well
@The-Well Жыл бұрын
You're not alone. Even some researchers who have worked with gorillas taught sign language have been skeptical. “I do not believe that there has ever been an example anywhere of a nonhuman expressing an opinion, or asking a question. Not ever.” Another: “It would be wonderful if animals could say things about the world, as opposed to just signaling a direct emotional state or need. But they just don’t.” bigthink.com/life/ape-sign-language/ It may be that pleasant, cooperative instincts are just that--instincts--rather than something analyzed or reflected on in the way that we consider the root of our thought process.
@davidcockayne3381
@davidcockayne3381 Жыл бұрын
@@The-Well I have always been puzzled by the tendency to irrational anthropomorphism demonstrated by otherwise intelligent people. I'm not sure whether this is due to soppy sentimentalism, misinterpreted sympathy (sym-pathos) or a desire to create a basis for claims of animal rights. A mixture of all three, perhaps. As to the latter, it seems to me that human duty, practically expressed, is a far sounder basis for the humane treatment of animals than abstract notions of animal rights.
@suryastiwari6233
@suryastiwari6233 Жыл бұрын
Great video 👍👍👍 That's why sometimes i behave like a monkey 😂
@The-Well
@The-Well Жыл бұрын
Some of us are probably above 95% 😉
@existantf21
@existantf21 Жыл бұрын
Why living things want to live
@rickrobitaille8809
@rickrobitaille8809 Жыл бұрын
Ultruism is omnipresent maybe🌐
@inaythankyou761
@inaythankyou761 Жыл бұрын
"It's all about competition...winning vs. losing"... I wouldn't completely dismiss this statement though. because WHY do animals have morals if not to ensure their collective survival/success/"victory"? Even in interspecific altruism one can argue that in the case of whales building a relationship with humans..this can also ensure the whales' survival (because humans might rather keep them alive than eat them or whatever) I could be wrong of course, I don't "speak whale" after all hahahaha.
@tracesprite6078
@tracesprite6078 Жыл бұрын
I think we humans combine cooperation and competition in a complex weave of behaviour.
@The-Well
@The-Well Жыл бұрын
It's an important point. Also worth noting that evolution doesn't necessarily select for complete actions (e.g. whales thanking humans) but may simply select for emotional responses that drive behavior. So the instinct to thank anyone who assists it could evolve because it's helpful for building cohesiveness in the pod of whales it's around 99% of the time, and it simply also gets triggered in the rare case whatever assists it is not a whale.
@Rnankn
@Rnankn Жыл бұрын
I was taught that of the Great Apes (Gorillas, Orangoutangs, Chimpanzees, Bonobos, and Hominids) they all have violence (infanticide, genocide, rape, war, etc). Except one species has no violence, Bonobos. And the difference with their social organization and interpersonal behaviour is that unlike the other Great Apes, they are matriarchal and polygamous.
@mandyshanks2327
@mandyshanks2327 Жыл бұрын
Frans doesn’t discuss love and kindness and compassion
@LindaC616
@LindaC616 Жыл бұрын
He does in his book "Mama's Last Hug". If you look back a few years, I'm sure he did some press interviews for it
@philsophkenny
@philsophkenny Жыл бұрын
@rickrobitaille8809
@rickrobitaille8809 Жыл бұрын
The race for our encoding..2001..🎯💥🇨🇦🇺🇸🌐
@Remo860
@Remo860 Жыл бұрын
Some sharks eat their siblings inside the womb.
@mandyshanks2327
@mandyshanks2327 Жыл бұрын
Ape mothers nurture their young. Males care for young too. Is the mother child link the key to empathy and love.
@zahariachirica5466
@zahariachirica5466 Жыл бұрын
Behavioural Biology sadly cannot be very popular because of the strong opposition from religion.
@cabbytabby
@cabbytabby Жыл бұрын
Ahh the physicalist selfish-gene doctrine
@rickrobitaille8809
@rickrobitaille8809 Жыл бұрын
🎯🌐🥊
@radheksabintangakbar2085
@radheksabintangakbar2085 Жыл бұрын
So we've already returned to monke?
@PetroBeherha
@PetroBeherha Жыл бұрын
We never really left.
@NeoHomoSapien
@NeoHomoSapien Жыл бұрын
👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼
@lukewilliams4572
@lukewilliams4572 Жыл бұрын
Monkey is the route of all people
@yohandekerrohan1575
@yohandekerrohan1575 Жыл бұрын
✌️🌱
@billbrenne5475
@billbrenne5475 Жыл бұрын
ALL of our behavior is based on predator-prey relations. We call this behavior, "emotions".
@woodygilson3465
@woodygilson3465 9 ай бұрын
You cry during a movie because of predatory drives? Family and children are the cause of a wide array of emotions... because you see them as prey? Something about your math doesn't add up.
@billbrenne5475
@billbrenne5475 9 ай бұрын
@@woodygilson3465 A long time ago, working at McDonald's as a janitor, a guy came in with the express purpose of asking the manager of the store I was working in for his brother's job back as manager of the downtown store. He quickly started bawling about that, which is something you dobt forget. That day I tied a major piece of the puzzle of emotions together. The guy was Sad AND pleading and begging. The two had to be inextricably linked together. Why does the woman who gets a giant check from Publisher's Clearinghouse Sweepstakes start crying? The PC thing to say us that these are "tears of joy". But tears and joy are like apples and oranges. Rigidly using scientific methodology, it MUST be that the emotions are a SET of phenomena, each for a specific purpose and the whole set interrelated. In the case of the winner of the Clearinghouse Sweepstakes Prize, isnt it more to the point that one of the FIRST things that's going to go through her mind is, who is going to want, ask for, and get money from her? In the simplest analysis, she imagines being caught in a catch-22--namely, if she relinquishes money to others, then the money goes. If she keeps it, she will likely face the threat of being socially ostracized. So--in her imagination--she begs and pleads for whoever she's refusing to give money to, to not abandon her. Put simply, what she's doing is defending herself against attack, even if only in her imagination. This is what they guy was doing when he cried to the manager to give his brother his job back. Conversely, if one feels like he or she is stuck in a crying jag, isnt it true at the bottom-line that it somehow has to do with the need to defend oneself against attack, against being socially ostracized, for example (that's a big one, I think)? If one asks oneself soberly whether there is a realistic chance of this happening, and realizes that there isnt, then the crying stops on a dime. When my dad died, I had been living a matter of sone ten miles from him. I had never driven a car, but i rode a bike, and when i was down in the dumps about his death, i saw that it was because i felt that i hadnt been there nearly enough for him, and that kind of sin i could easily imagine being something which could motivate others to socially ostracize me. See how that works? By the way, there is chasing (destabilizing and weakening)--Happy (as opposed to content), attacking (anger, obviously), Indifference (running away and hiding (in a world that affords little opportunity to do this literally, we put on an expressionless face and remain as neutral as we can, even in our actions). Abd I just told you what being Sad is--defending oneself against attack. Chasing (destabilizing and weakening others), and attacking are clearly predatory behavior. Running away & hiding, and defending oneself against attack are, together, prey behavior. And look at this: There is chasing and running away, and there is attacking and defending against attack. See how that works? The structure is absolutely beautiful. That doesnt mean that I had an easy time if working it out. I kept trying to shoehorn in concepts of human dignity into the equation, but realized that I was spinning my wheels, and later found myself embracing myself as a natural, physical creature, as opposed to the thing of intellect that i had been cherishing. On top of that, I resolved that we are all here to be real in our words and actions, and that, with so much on our plates this way, there's no time to even think about another life. Did I leave anything out? 🙂
@woodygilson3465
@woodygilson3465 8 ай бұрын
@@billbrenne5475 The "rigid science" part. You left that part out.
@billbrenne5475
@billbrenne5475 7 ай бұрын
@@woodygilson3465 No, I left it out as a future protracted conversation. Also, everyone subconsciously knows these things anyway. The romantic explanations are simply hard for people to wake up from. Why does a woman who wins the Publisher's Clearinghouse Sweepstakes Prize start crying when she's presented with the giant check on TV? The romantic, PC explanation is that this is "tears of joy". It's just hard for people to accept that it ISN'T about being happy or "joyful". Instead, right away, it's clear enough to anyone who looks objectively at being happy and sad is that these are very, very different things. Taken scientifically, Happy, Sad, Indifferent, and Angry fit in their own exclusive boxes as members of the set of emotions. So the REAL question is, what makes the woman SAD when she gets the check(?). Obviously, one of the very first things that she will think about when presented with the check, is, "Who is going to want some or all of the money?". This, in turn, precipitates the playing out of scenarios in her head, which boil down to two options, simplistically speaking: Either she will give money to those who ask (or demand) from her, or she won't. If she gives the money, that's one thing, but she's naturally going to want much, most, or all of it, naturally. If she refuses to give money, then she risks being socially ostracized, and is forced back on herself to plead and beg with these people that they not ostracize her. This pleading and begging is universally recognized as being expressed in terms of being Sad. Hence the crying--all from her imagining what happens between her and others in her social life because of the money. When we plead and beg we are effectively defending ourselves against attack, the opposite if what an angry person does, which is to attack, even if not physically. Indifference requires little explanation. We simply cannot run away and hide from others much of the time in the world of people. In lieu of that limitation, we express ourselves (if that's the right word), by NOT expressing ourselves, distancing ourselves from others and maintaining a neutral facial expression. And there us an associated near-robotic self-expression as well, in order to keep ourselves as neutral as we can to others. This is running away and hiding in human form. The hardest to wrap your brain around may be what we call, "Happy". Not contentment, but bouncing off the walls, great big grin and laughing (sense of humor). I'm here to tell you that being happy in this way is neither innocent nor harmless. What does a comedian do for a living? What are they doing on stage (or with others), when they are playing their trade? There IS a purpose, believe it or not. Using the example of the comedian, we can say that he or she is effectively weakening or destabilizing a target, making them easier to attack. In the animal world, a predator does not chase an animal merely to catch and kill it (though this is the obvious objective), butvery much also to wear the target down to make it easier to attack prey. And the audience enjoys and vicariously participates in this dynamic. Still dont believe me?
@billbrenne5475
@billbrenne5475 7 ай бұрын
@@woodygilson3465 I should have added that, more generally a happy person (as I described the form of self-expression in question) is basically harassing others.
@isaacmartin7538
@isaacmartin7538 Жыл бұрын
95% of their behavior is human behavior. Lol
@darrenphan7680
@darrenphan7680 Жыл бұрын
Of course that's what we see out on the streets
@zaidsada6841
@zaidsada6841 Жыл бұрын
95% of our behavior may be primate but it's the other 5% that makes us special, which has the speck of 'divinity'.
@zaidsada6841
@zaidsada6841 Жыл бұрын
@Michael Morgan haha I was expecting this. I think too much rationality is bad for humankind. Humans ARE irrational, and it's fine for all of us skeptics to be a little irrational too. Adds a little color to the world.
@jayabee
@jayabee Жыл бұрын
I think "divinity" is a great word but why reserve for humans? Aren't whales divine? And lions and housecats and dogs and dung beetles?
@FirstnameLastname-ty1qd
@FirstnameLastname-ty1qd Жыл бұрын
@@zaidsada6841 We are not more divine than animals
@zaidsada6841
@zaidsada6841 Жыл бұрын
@@jayabee we have a higher consciousness, a self awareness. We are concerned about morality, about good and bad deeds. We are philosophers and artists. We are special.
@jonnylumberjack6223
@jonnylumberjack6223 Жыл бұрын
@@zaidsada6841 No, we simply have more complex brains. We are the dominant species on earth. If we were special, we would take proper responsibility for the world and all her inhabitants. Instead we cause immense suffering and we exploit everything for our own selfish needs. We're not special, we're lethal.
@richardferguson9836
@richardferguson9836 12 күн бұрын
I like your video, but stop saying "humans and animals. ' Humans are animals. Perhaps refer to "animals" as "non-human animals".
@Vishnujanadasa108
@Vishnujanadasa108 Жыл бұрын
Anytime someone talks of evolutionary relationships to mechanisms in nature, they aren’t actually explaining how evolution would be responsible for the said mechanism; rather, they are just substituting the word evolution for God. There is exactly zero explanatory value to any references to evolution as a cause. No one has ever demonstrated how a series of gradual mutations would lead to new complex structures like a lung. When atheists do attempt to make such explanations, they are vague and full of gaps, ie “evolution of the gaps.” When they can’t explain how something could gradually arise by evolution, they wave their hand and just say, it evolved because it was the most efficient for survival. Well, am engineer can also do that. The difference is we have examples of intelligent conscious engineers building something from scratch. We have literally zero evidence of any evolution. All the evidence evolutionists can offer are fossils-which actually work against the theory when one looks into it, or they give simple examples like the color patterns on butterfly wings, or the changing beak sizes of finches etc. both are built-in adaptations-designs in other words, implying an intelligent conscious designer. When asked to explain the origin of the multi-socketed joints of the butterfly or it’s intricate, sophisticated eye lenses, they haven’t a clue. Just more vague speculations and post-dated checks. Or they will offer an ad hominem: “You don’t understand science.” Indeed ironic. Evolution is the cover for their lame atheist religion, meant to give it intellectual/philosophical dignity. Atheism is just another sentimental religion like the Abrahamic faiths.
@davidoconnor393
@davidoconnor393 Жыл бұрын
I often wonder how these outrageous thoughts are even allowable and print or media... There's no way in hell human being is related to those monkey beast animal whatsoever.
@pickupmidland3523
@pickupmidland3523 Жыл бұрын
Luckily I'm not black
@missmiami7027
@missmiami7027 Жыл бұрын
That’s a damn lie we are born in the image of God & he’s no primate or animal. Humans are evil because we were born into sin and evil. But thank God for Jesus who became sin who knew no sin and came and became a sacrifice for us to save us. Repent believe in Jesus Christ & be saved.
@felix-he3wo
@felix-he3wo Жыл бұрын
greed is human nature - brainwashed pro-capitalism andy
@hach1koko
@hach1koko Жыл бұрын
Actually, afaik we have not been able to reliably observe a sense of fairness in animals. Animals can definitely cooperate but nothing indicates that this cooperation comes from a sense of fairness. For example, there is a famous de Waals study with two monkeys that were given different rewards for the same task (one was given cucumbers, the other raisins which is better) The monkey that was given cucumbers was visibly annoyed, but it cannot be concluded that he was annoyed because of a "sense of fairness" related to the other monkey, he could have just been unhappy because there were raisins available and he did not get them. The other monkey had no problem getting all the raisins even if it was unfair, which actually suggests he had no "sense of fairness". Here is a video on the matter kzbin.info/www/bejne/oZfIZqB5fcqjpZo I know it's in french, but all the scientific papers are linked in the description.
@chrisgraham2904
@chrisgraham2904 Жыл бұрын
LOL Which proves that primates, just like humans, can also be selfish.
@blaiseronstadt6306
@blaiseronstadt6306 Жыл бұрын
Facinating. , My Friend, When you spend Time in my Nature you See things, make Observations , that can be Missed. I Love it, I have spent Alot of Time around Canines, and Equines, Incredible
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