99% Of Men Are Turned On When You Act Like THIS | How To Stand Out From Other Women

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This video is all about how to stand out from other women. It's a very simple concept and 99% of men get turned on when you act like this. When everyone is going up, you go down. When everyone is high energy, you're low energy.
When you like someone, you have a certain way of behaving and when you don't, you also have a certain way of behaving. Women have a certain way of acting and a lot of women think they're different. Even though they are different, they're not that different. Why? It's because when you like someone, there's a certain similar way of acting--you act similar to everyone.
When you're not in love with somebody, you're yourself, you're unique and so you stand out. When you like someone, your uniqueness fades away and you act like every other girl. In fact, to him, he says to himself, "here goes another one".--but to you, you're like "here comes special me". The reason why you don't see what he sees is that you think you're being yourself.
When you see a whole bunch of people moving and there's one person that's not moving, who are you gonna focus on? On the person who's not moving. It's kind of like, even though everyone's moving trying to get attention, the fact that you're standing still, people will focus on and zero in on you. It's the same thing when a woman likes a guy, a guy sees that same girl every day. When a woman likes a guy, it's pretty much almost like the same woman but with a different face. She acts the same way, talks the same way and reacts the same way. You think you're different but in reality, you're looking like every other woman.
It's not about you being different. You got to realize that when it comes to this, you're not really changing who you are. You're just changing the intensity or the dose. Like only giving one hit of weed and not giving the whole blunt. The way to do that is to literally reduce what you communicate. If the intensity of your communication is at a midnight blue, tone it down to a baby blue. Control yourself and give him space. Realize how you behave when you're in love and go against that current.
When you're with a guy you really like, what you got to do is give him enough distance. Give him more space than necessary. You got to get him to the point where he's asking himself why you're so distant--not that you're emotionally distant but physically distant. Give him space, respect his time, encourage him to be on his own and do his thing--this will make him think if you're losing interest and inadvertently pushes him towards you.
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[@stylz2438]

Mindful Attraction 2.0 how to withdraw/walk away properly?

[@Mindsetolympics]

Alex, can you PLEAAASE do a video on the set up of your art on the wall?!?!?!?!?!?

[@madamsophia1503]

Mindful Attraction 2.0: You’re amazing! Thanks for the vid.

[@eeriseDx]

you’re funny, thanks for the simplicity of your advice!

[@sheilacarter2444]

I think that it's sad u gotta play all these fucked up childish games if someone likes u then they do and if not move the fuck on peace wit dis shit😎✌👋

[@Judah.7.7.7]

So true. Literally when I went to see Prince at his concert on front row I didn’t dance while everyone around me went crazy. He came all the way down to stand in front of me on stage and jokingly stuck his tongue out at me and kept checking me. I’ll never forget it.

[@ShakiraLasha]

jen a omg what else did he do lol?

[@loversgarden8441]

Jen A this is the coolest comment ever 😂 i love prince!

[@lovelymanna469]

Jen A Prince was a bitchy actor /puppet and is THE PERFECT example for these points. People constantly gush over him and he gave absolutely no f**ks about ppl.

[@purevenus6359]

Omg you got to see Prince?!? That’s amazing!

[@kirsten1007]

Damn!!! Good one. You the one that was not all thirsty for him. Wow

[@dawns.3726]

Totally agree with Alex on this! You first have to choose a smart, masculine man who knows how to pursue a woman. Then I begin "wooing" them with my femininity, looking pretty, smelling great, having soft skin, sharing my joy, being strong yet feminine. Then once they are "hooked" I pull back in all ways. I dont look at it as a game. I let the man see my worth, then I allow them to be the man and pursue me. Also, I dont sleep with a man until there is a total commitment. May sound strange but it works! Women, we must value ourselves! Our feminity is powerful and magical!

[@nanalightbright]

Dawn S. I like this 🙌🏼

[@simonariviera1677]

This is some stupid advice if I ever read any

[@dawns.3726]

@@nanalightbright thank you!

[@dawns.3726]

@Max Power I watch this channel because I like to hear other people's intelligent opinions. A man will wait for a woman if he respects her. You seem to understand little about that, sad. I can tell the way you talk you are very likely single, I'm not. Used up middle aged woman, lol. Im beautiful, healthy and joyful, I get too much attention and I live in L.A. You used the word "fuckboy" which hasnt been used for like 5 years..you must be a super sexy guy. Im a feminist and also submissive, we exist. I am a great friend to my guy, a domestic chef and keep a beautiful home. You probably smell, rarely smile and live in your mom's basement. Get a life and some anger management classes, LOSER.

[@meikerieger2899]

Ok but thats a exhausting game

[@chicagogyrl4846]

In a nutshell... “Absence Makes The Heart Grow Fonder.”

[@mizzkaykay93]

Yes honestly tho!

[@egogeo]

Yea. We write books from it. Shakespeare and other said it centuries ago in poetic language

[@brittneymarshall2278]

Unless he doesn’t want you lol

[@maxinesmith4873]

Basically make them feel like an unimportant trash that you don't have the time to take out.

[@Q8footballFan]

Why shouldn't guys be able to treat women the same

[@lillyL444]

Superstar Lula 😂😂

[@entitled7665]

Superstar Lula Lol 😂 so true

[@goddesspluto2627]

😂 “unimportant trash” lmfaoo perfect, will do

[@crystalanamericaninsicily]

Well that a bit too much. But don't let them think there more important than you!

[@zarabird3185]

This is actually 100% on point. I've always natrually been like this with guys and it makes them crazy LOL. Stop devoting so much of your time and energy on a guy and just live your life normally like you would if you weren't with them.

[@kristinalipkova8503]

Nicely said Zara! Sometimes hard to do. But we must do that...

[@maerose5053]

Natural behavior between men and women: reward him for good behavior and ignore him for bad behavior...stop rewarding men for their bad behavior. Never show everything you feel and keep your mysteries as a woman. Simple yet often not done.

[@marilynharper5854]

Your right if you went to a party everyone is talking partying acting silly but the one who is quiet sitting in the corner is the one that captures your attention

[@DonnahhughesHughes]

Give your own self a little more space.

[@incogb6696]

This is true even in social media. Paradoxically, when I'm not posting or online, people come looking. It always surprises me for some reason lol

[@marysol7346]

How do you know they come see you?

[@Dulcemirage]

True!

[@miledytrujillo2298]

Mar Y Sol dms lol

[@bwrrock8951]

So true. Facebook is a prime example, I told my ex once here come all your groupie girlfriends. The moment he posted a picture. You so fine, your so handsome, then here's all the heart emojis etc. ❤💋❤💋😘😘😍😍😍. Groupies!

[@Tatianarain]

@@bwrrock8951 and those girls never get paid attention by the guy. Sad but true. Lol poor tinks

[@endlessly8719]

I am very much aware of all those strategies, but at the same time I wish that I am gonna meet a guy with who I can share a loving relationship without making use of those strategies.

[@altheahenry9257]

Exactly cant we just both like each and want to spend as much time together.

[@user-we1on9uq7t]

i don't consider this a strategy, i think it's normal to have time boundaries and physical boundaries, you just have to work on it with consciousness

[@endlessly8719]

But why should we manipulate to stand out from other women? If I am in a healthy relationship then I guess I am special to my partner. in that case I don't see the point of using tactics. Of couse If I don't like something, I will react appropiately, but that's no strategic game.

[@bfisherful]

EXACTLY. This is teaching how to play the game of a childish, manipulative boy. Real men with vision and purpose, tell you what that want and need and if they want it with you.

[@elenap2215]

Y’all want to play the easy game and wonder why its gone easy lol play the game right and conquer!

[@tuffhugs]

If I notice I'm acting crazy in love I pull back until he chases and then I rinse and repeat.

[@hunny585]

Aah interesting..so u keep showing much love n pulling back all of a sudden..sounds grt gonna try :)

[@Lotna]

Exactly my narcissist’s Mother strategy towards guys. She seemed SO available and then turned ice cold - drive men crazy.

[@emp9413]

@@Lotna that's totally different. Toxic extreme. like he said you act like yourself give love when you're with them. This is more remembering to have a life not lose yourself, rest follows

[@Vanillaaxo]

This only work when the guy really like you

[@bellakim9404]

Yes.... Or doesn't want to Lose You..

[@Sunny-lw1yl]

All of these things only work when a guy really likes you. Can’t make someone who dislikes someone become obsessed

[@abeautifulcountry9353]

Agree

[@nlewis4196]

Agree

[@divinegodesslife8816]

Give him a little more space than necessary 👌🏽

[@tuffhugs]

It really does help alot, even in a long term relationship. I don't like chasing, I know my worth.

[@divinegodesslife8816]

tuffhugs right exactly and women need to wake up and realize that men don’t like being Chased! They don’t

[@privatelifejust_4me]

Traci Love No they don’t, I’ll ignore two days of text and reply as if nothing happened...😂 they do the same and want more. Ladies 🗣 being a pickmisha is not the 🌊, lol.

[@privatelifejust_4me]

tuffhugs 💯 I will never chase again in my life. If they want it, they better speak up... if not it’s their loss.

[@teanna4569]

yes because most men no alot of women are clingy and needy

[@SG-fd1pp]

Guess this is why I've been with the same dude for 10 years and married 6 lol. I'm a natural loner and enjoy me time. This has been working in my favor with men since high school.

[@therealone8628]

It's sad that stupid humans play games

[@mweusimrembo890]

🤣 I think so too

[@Bri-vd9do]

therealone right

[@gretchengeorge5302]

It’s sad when someone doesn’t understand the game yet wants to win 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@lydiaharp3393]

Tianna Barber Big facts

[@sayetazonen6607]

it’s just how things work lol. it’s so true though. i would love for things that i really really die hard want to come to me easily and instantly, and fall into my lap, but i wouldn’t appreciate it as much as being patient.

[@spinnerchic5772]

works even in 25 yrs of marriage

[@luxuryqueen42]

spinnerchic yes you gotta keep your husband chasing u

[@angelaalvarez3491]

YASSS, NOW THATZ WAT I NEEDED TO KNO...THANK YOU& GOD BLESS YOU😉

[@Badabingbadaaaabom]

Lmao y’all dealing w some trash ass men

[@Bri-vd9do]

Boss Lady either I’m meant to be single or you are right

[@gijen84]

Then why are you on this page listening to this topic? Unless... you being unfaithful 😂

[@baeeerock9836]

When you are open minded about this, it’s not about playing games. It’s about prioritizing your own independence over someone else. The opposite result of not being independent is co-dependency, and that is not healthy . I would rather be okay in my own bubble than be dependent on someone else to feel whole. Especially in a relationship you shouldn’t need to be all over somebody that shits annoying . “Absence makes the heart grow fonder”

[@saraxortega]

Yeah this is hella true. I even get annoyed when guys are needy. It’s like you try to get away from them when they are.

[@Krismkm]

I ask guys are they married or are they seeing someone when they ask me out. I noticed that if you show respect for other women, men actually respect you more. That’s not why I started doing it, but it goes a long way. (I realized I had issues with women because of my mother so I consciously started being more aware in my interactions with women. It carried over into my interactions with men.) I also went out with this guy once who tried to score points with me by saying the women in this city weren’t as pretty as he expected them to be, alluding to the idea that I was prettier. I just sat there with a straight face and he looked dumb and changed the subject because I didn’t take the bait. I think the more we as women stick together even when we’re not around one another makes men have to respect us more if we don’t give in to underhanding one another to “feel” superior.

[@身赤-w3w]

Facts sis ❤️

[@elaineflores4465]

Great advice! My husband and I have been married for 23yrs and I have always created space. I think it's essential for having a happy healthy relationship.

[@musaoluwatoyin8068]

Hello I know of a man who can help you get back your ex without delaying he was the one who helped me bring back my ex husband after separation..

[@musaoluwatoyin8068]

What'sapp him💬💯

[@glambaby1373]

This video is gold. My boyfriends don’t understand why I never reach out first. Yes, I said boyfriends I did not say husband. Anyways, my life is to be lived let me know when you are taking me out on our next date baby. Thank youuuu😘

[@Cwenjae]

I felt this 😂👏🏾

[@ejhdbegbeidishdj9358]

“Anyways, my life is to be lived let me know when you are taking me out on our next date” that partttt, yes ma’am

[@vchild]

I'm going to be as emotionless as I can. Great advice

[@rayray672]

Yes, i feel like men innately chase after women who don't make them feel special! They probably detest it when woman are cringingly in love with them. Apparently men are completely different to women. Who knew?!

[@nicksmith-cx1fx]

Tasha Key so your going to be icy like Rambo

[@luxuryqueen42]

Tashea Key being emotionless works 👍

[@Aja.S]

me too !

[@shawnavaughan6664]

Tashea Key me too

[@evettematthews4083]

I LOVE HOW HE GETS RIGHT TO THE TOPIC!

[@LilyOfTheTower]

I am naturally aloof, 1. because im a bit more on the shy side and 2. At the root of it all Im insecure around people. I like myself and im funny and a genuine good person but people can make me act weird or throw me off. Guys think im intriguing and mysterious when really im just keeping to myself studying the room. My friend's that are desperate for attention get way too loud and way to embarrassing. They get pissed when the guys show me the attention. And because i want validation from my friends, i ignore the guys but the guys just show more interest in "me". Its not so much who i am, its more the chase and conquest. Im aware of the whole game and what no part other than social validation.

[@beey.7278]

But when he shows very much interest in the beginning by messaging all the time and after a couple of weeks he thinks he has you or something and doesn’t show the same effort? Just accep that? No I just dumped the loser because of this.

[@iamwhatiam187]

You dumped him cuz he stopped giving you his attention obviously; sounds like somebody who's insecure to me...

[@beey.7278]

Artem Ben Hafa sounds like you will accept breadcrumbs.. now that looks insecure to me

[@athenasavah6037]

I agree my ex was like this pure trash 🤮🗑 very toxic 🙅🏻‍♀️

[@teanna4569]

your relationship was probably past the honeymoon stage, iam not saying chase a man but men wanna no a woman is interested as well if you except the man to do everything you gotta long way to go, this 2020 men are just as scared as us women, so if he's pulling away 9 times out of 10 he probably wants to see if you really like him...relationship is a 2 way street, you can show interest without chasing a man, leave your heart outside the relationship, and keep your distance you will always win I promise you...goodluck

[@gmatinky3965]

Same here 🏃✔💯💪✌👉

[@taffetajackson3770]

Honestly, i believe this is true. I realized that i was growing too attached to a guy i really liked and i could see that my actions were pushing him away. So i literally thought to myself - how was i acting when we first met - bc he acted as if he was very interested in me. The answer was, I acted as if I wasn't even interested in him (b.c. i really wasnt at the time) we were straight up cool the moment we met. I think i did a pretty great job at pulling away...i read over our text msgs from when we first met and they were short, cool, easy and I resorted back to those kind of texts. I keep them short and don't attempt to keep the conversation going even when he's encouraging it. I find a way to end it. Lately he's been sending me msgs that make me go 🤔 and whenever we hang out he seems enamored, always smiling hard af and trying to hold my hand and touch me, and inviting me out with him and his family and/or friends. I could be wrong tho...🤷🏾‍♀️

[@incogb6696]

why are guys so basic though -.-

[@Mz.travelfoodie]

Taffeta Jackson omg same here girl. Now he’s all over me! He did a 180 in two weeks! When I’m with him I lay the shit down heavy, be my authentic self and enjoy the moment. We have an amazing time. But when we apart I do my own thing, especially since I know he watches my every move on social media to see what I’m up to. I even posted memes to make it seem someone else was in the picture when he was bread-crumbing me. He would like them all, yet I knew he was wondering if I moved on. Never chase, let him chase u!

[@Stories.with_Nana]

Damn

[@DallasJayCook]

Dahaha! So I met this guy from a gaming app. I’d say I’m a bad texter because I don’t reply right away and there were times that even in the middle of the convo, I’ll fell asleep or will completely forgot to reply for days and it’s all unintentional on my part. He told me, “I don’t think I’ll get used to your absence and I can’t always wait for your reply.” He mad af 😂🤣 He constantly demand for my time and attention and ion like that 🥴 I went hiatus for a couple of months thinking he’ll leave me alone but still his ass kept on chasing me, dude still quick to notice whenever I get online he’ll slide in my inbox askin how am I doing sayin he miss me and wanna see me and all that bs. I ditched this guy long ago I don’t like drama kings.😌

[@goddesspluto2627]

I’m seeing so many comments saying that this video is untrue, that there’s no need for love to be strategic blah blah. All he simply said was that women overreacting, acting overly emotional, and overly clingy, could push a potential partner away and instead women should value their own time more and give that person more space than they would expect. I literally see nothing wrong with this and I 100% know that it works. I always pull back once I know a guy likes me, it’s mysterious to them & it leaves room to wonder, also shows them you got other important things to do. Yeah maybe some men do like women who are all over them & it satisfies them to see reactive/ emotional responses, but something about that just seems dysfunctional to me. Maybe me being a Scorpio and an INFJ helps me when it comes to this, but no matter how much I like you, I’m gonna give you space *i want that space too*

[@AlohaAmie]

You have a point but I feel like you can't create intimacy with someone if you are distant with them like that. I think intimacy is a very important part of a relationship if you want to have it for a long time

[@elsie132]

You create intimacy when you are physically with them and be distant when you are away ...that's what's working for me now

[@starchildgoddess_3335]

Lmmmmaaaoooo “ bye niggaaaa” close the door. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@KCoopp9]

This is interesting the two best relationships I had we didn't play games we both wanted each other and we both pursued each other. I hate that those relationships didn't work out because of careers because these new games you have to play are so tiring. UGH

[@tonileolion9702]

Idk y this is hard! I have a busy life anyway and gravitate to men who are just as busy as myself. Don’t put all ur eggs 🥚 in one basket 🧺 Ever . Guy told me one time I never get into anyone or anything I can’t walk away from and that always stuck with me . Life goes on and when u love urself so much u will be like ok we had fun I loved u but Bye 👋 Charles just pulled up

[@SableTalks]

I just went through this. He kept pursuing me after me barely replying for over a month. As soon as I starting pursuing back, he pulled back. I hate that I have to do this, it feels mean. I hate games or chemistry built like this but I know it works and it works on me too. Plus less chance of toxic people.

[@babygurlll968]

Its something to do with our human nature..human beings just can help themselves.i always thought this too until i found out that the person who cares the least always wins

[@rmb9210]

Y'all be toxic

[@buiquynh7568]

Yes!!! Definitely

[@dhaakira]

Did you just call yourself dusty? #BucketHatWearingMF 😂

[@randilatislaw4420]

This dude is preaching truth ladies and gentlemen. I've always carried myself this way and men have always chased me and the only time I ever lose a man is when I'm done with him already because he's on some BS.

[@geneveweil2938]

So you’re happily married for decades now with children and you’re prospering as a family?

[@jenbodhi1133]

Another whining sulking man

[@lunaava9201]

This works, I drive my bf bananas and he always tells me he misses me even if its only been a day or 2 since we spent time together

[@privatelifejust_4me]

Zahara Love sheraseven1... and keep researching others.

[@VriendaGanguly]

I finally got to this point now, after a bad relationship with a narc. Hard to get my emotions out of control

[@snowqtee]

Be carful girls,because all guys aren’t the same some guys love it when you’re all over them and some men need attention just know your man and do accordingly 🤗

[@gcwalisilekunene4987]

Not so much attention right at the beginning

[@sarahjustice526]

You are right

[@SR77736]

No if you give him too much it's not good.

[@saraswatiebitna1916]

This is so true!

[@leeslyrose]

If you’re the masculine one in the relationship and he’s the feminine man, then I get if this word work but tbh no

[@MC-eq7fl]

Typical male mentality title. We don't need to stand out from each other, compete with each other, much less for men. We need to support each other and stand together.

[@enadine6405]

YES!

[@gretchengeorge5302]

You didn’t even watch the video. You just clicked and bitched. Lol.

[@avawilliams5827]

Tianna Barber LMFAOOOOOOOOOOO

[@BeccaSmith124]

Do not tell a guy this unless you really mean it. I did this and do this well but most times guys take advantage of the space and chillness I give. I find make sure you can walk away and say good bye (don't ghost) and mean it when he dont step it up & show up.

[@laurenlocd3180]

This works like a charm every single damn time !

[@staceykersting705]

How did I seem to know all this intuitively? Is it cuz I'm a Scorpio wit my Chinese birth year being year of the dragon? I think more likely, I picked up on it a lot in childhood from watching the women in movies...they always held their own. Also saw how the charming ladies (and men) gave such warm attention, then a bit of cold shoulder. U cdn't hold their intention indefinitely.

[@rollinsjp1]

When it happens, take a picture, coz nobody will believe it 🤣😂🤣 I just love your sense of wit!

[@83ttaylor]

In teaching it’s called “Warm Strict”...thank you so much...this is so true!!! Help us!

[@anonymousnation5235]

I've been doing this my entire life without even knowing it. And now when I act normal, people are shocked. Especially my family can't digest the normal me acting like everyone 😂

[@Audacious82Baby]

I'm an INFJ so getting ghost on a guy comes pretty easily to me. I've mastered the art of "not giving a s**t" even tho inside I'm ALL over dude'😜😜 lol....It's hard at first ladies but once you gain the mastery over your poker face-you're in there! Ignoring a guy really gets'em going and they'll chase you harder (provided they actually like you🤷)

[@goodenoughgirl8102]

naturallyacutie Lol. So true. I had to learn the hard way. But I learned. It seems to work like magic.

[@Audacious82Baby]

@@goodenoughgirl8102 *huge hug* This is 2019 Stephanie, no more getting played🙏

[@truvy_5544]

I'm a infj too & it's hard sometimes 😭I guess because I need a hobby.

[@thevixenxiii]

naturallyacutie I am also an INFJ and always thought it was weird that It’s so easy to ghost ppl 😬

[@endlessly8719]

Why must love be like a strategic game?

[@GoddessANAT]

Your videos just get better and better! I’m finally learning how to control my emotions.

[@kimchairez3640]

That bubble at the beginning of this video quite reminds me of the Cheshire cat in allice in wander land.

[@meepaleep]

I did this and now the communication is 0

[@nezbethmoore]

I need this reminders especially these days...can't believed I had forgotten myself !thanks!

[@OnyxxRose]

Never accept disrespect from anyone

[@sade9425]

I agree that it’s important to temper your emotions and feelings towards another person but having a “chilling” / indifferent type attitude and not showing affection to someone when intimate is covert manipulation and somewhat traumatizing. Being intimate with someone is one of the most vulnerable situations to be in and because “playing the game” one doesn’t show affection is very hurtful. Just a suggestion, don’t advice guys/anyone to do this causes a lot of inner pain and resentment.

[@MindfulAttraction2.0]

Sure no prob. I'll make sure to do that

[@sadied4508]

I agree terrible advice...very childish

[@SR77736]

Ya. I was with someone who was always indifferent and created a lot of distance. Silent treatment and demands. It was a very painful experience.

[@SR77736]

I felt they played games. Then when they wanted to be open to a relationship I was always traumatized by it. They disappeared for a week after making plans with me. The day of I trxted them and got a message blocking is active message. Even if phone in off you can still contact me In another form.

[@cynthiab8377]

@@MindfulAttraction2.0 how to implement this on an ex who’s dating someone he told you he has no feelings for while he was with you?

[@bc1248]

LOL! A turned on person is a turn off. There’s no need to worry about standing out, just relax and be yourself. You can’t be relaxed if you need to stand out.

[@karinkok6856]

I think the only reason love flows is to be totally yourself. And in every situation it s different. It s a really sensitive thing to be in love. It cannot be controled. By control or doing things another s advice its not you who acts but the advisor. Just act exactly like u. That will attract the person who want s to be with u❤

[@tinacooper7880]

One hit, not a whole blunt. Love it!!

[@curtistinemiller4646]

Be Mysterious,and hard to figure out..

[@lovegoddess29]

When I like a guy, I go from being a Gemini to being a Scorpio...I show no signs and say squat diddly lol

[@cdale211989]

Scorpio's are so annoying in that way my husband is a Scorpio. When I ignore him it's like he loves it. He gets giddy and touchy with me. I'm a pisces ♓ so I'm very affectionate. But he doesn't to much care for affection. He comes to me when I leave him alone and don't push things then I can't get him to leave me alone. But he always does it at the wrong times like when I'm studying or on the phone with my friend or at a store or friends house z then he bothers me a lot like where was all this attention when we were together .

[@BadBoy-bk8mz]

@@cdale211989 i had taurus like that. It is so annoying. When i ignore and turn into "not interested" he gets all hyped up and want my attention badly. When i am nice to him hes like "whatever, i am not in a mood". I decided "f dat" and left dat ass.

[@bric2292]

I think this is an easy way to capture a man's attention in the short term, but I have tried this in serious relationships and it produced trouble and insecurities. The man was very serious about us, and I thought I was smothering him. Next thing I know, he's entirely questioning how serious I am and accusing me of wasting his time. This is not the sort of communication required for longterm, adult, monogmous connections. People our age already play head games and this method can be toxic and destructive.

[@Bakerygo]

I think you didn't apply correctly this method. It's difficult to estimate how much to hold back. For example you can love your man but also go on a trip far away with your friends.

[@LadyTee751]

You didn't do it right

[@namewithheldnamewithheld2725]

I love the paintings in the background on the wall.......who painted those?👀

[@starchildgoddess_3335]

Lol you make me laugh man you don’t even know!! 🤣🤣 you have valid points and I’m digging the hat! 💪🏾😅

[@luxuryqueen42]

Starchild goddess_’333 the hat’s his trademark lol 😂

[@starchildgoddess_3335]

Cool Chicka Vlogs yesss!! Lol 😂😂

[@tanyapineda7212]

Fkn brilliant. "Rare as bigfoot" yep. Thank you.

[@christinabuelna3707]

Sooo true when I stopped caring for my ex & started ignoring him because he Treated me like trash I got my respect 💪🏼 Left him never look back

[@shapeach]

I love this, you are sharp sir.. The minute we start trying to adjust our actions we are playing the game.....

[@somethingcool9555]

I do that shit, I really like a guy and I try to stay away so the feelings will go away

[@maryawodele264]

Tbh I get this however I see now that things are changing in our society and in our new generation. I see a lot more guys wanting the needy type or want their ass kissed and naturally find that more attractive than women who play hot and cold Bc we no longer have time to waste. And I feel it’s because our generation is starting to see the value in honesty, marriage, and a family life. A lot more men pay more attention to women who show they like them rather than those who don’t. Granted you can’t be needy all the time and it gets boring to always be a yes woman, but they also like the aggressiveness, they also like being chased a little bit, and when women shoot their shot instead (if they find You attractive) I think pulling away is critical when a man then starts to take advantage to show then that you can walk away as you’re right that it is more attractive when they know you can walk away. So ladies be yourself, be bubbly, be affectionate, don’t be up his ass 24/7, have your own life, and know when to walk away ! But men like their ego being stroked. And there are just men tbh that will not pursue any woman and like being pursued Nd are still alpha males. Some men just don’t give a shit.

[@MenchieExtrakt]

If a man thinks that chasing that girl is waste of time, she’s just a booty call to him. Because the want to chase her and to know her should come naturally when he likes her

[@queennibaby9752]

JimmytheFUR I agree. It’s the same shit. He wants you until he has you then he becomes numb to your energy

[@maryawodele264]

JimmytheFUR eh I feel like for some men you grow on them. Especially the ones that are used to being chased. You most likely won’t stand out just Bc you’re the one girl not chasing him. And if he does chase. It’s for the thrill and when he finally has you. He’s gonna be bored.

[@maryawodele264]

JimmytheFUR I’m just saying in my age group. 21-30, men and women don’t have time for people who play hot and cold and hard to get specially men of quality.

[@LimitedReachEnt]

@@maryawodele264 We discussed this topic In my class for Psychology. Men are natural hunters therefore resulting in the chase. The more they invest in chasing the woman the more they value her, because of what they worked for. That's why the easier the woman makes it for the man, he may value you less because he feels he didnt really have to work to get you(And In his head he sees it as any other man can get you just as easy) And you may find sometimes when they guy finally gets the woman, he stops chasing? Generally That's because she 100% gave In, and let him know he has an 100% hold on her (In the palm of his hands) to where he no longer has any room to pursue, chase, and no fear of losing you= familiarity and therefore causing that boredom you speak of. Its because The woman loses her edge. The woman must keep her edge, her own individuality, own goals/passions/life and keep the essence that she is fine with or without the man, that he is NOT her end all be all, and he can lose her at anytime(which is what got his attention the first place right?)..in return the man constantly pursues her, because he knows he could lose her at any moment. This satisfies the man nature of loving the chase. But then again love is not Black & white and there are so many different things that could come into play(Like you said the Generations are changing) But this Is just general psychology with dating between men and women.

[@daughterofyisrael1143]

I love your mindset!

[@luxuryqueen42]

Alex, can you please close your closet so we can focus more on your nice looking hat 🧢? Lol 😂

[@lesleyhanly1337]

Cool Chicka Vlogs lol 😂

[@Strumandsurf]

😂😂😂

[@khetiletijana109]

I didn't even notice the open close til I read this

[@Mamacita_indulges]

It's nice to see that trampoline though! I'm always happy when people know of the benefits of something so simple.

[@healingisthechildrensbread96]

😂😂😂

[@akiraelai8053]

I’m sorry- but this man is so fine y’all

[@khetiletijana109]

Ikrrrrr

[@dashy8652]

I am actually resonating with this. I think I'm actually going to take your advice, this actually makes sense.

[@creativelash2439]

You’re growing and maturing , even thru the games, ya era tiempo

[@dg-qn5mi]

Haven't watched your videos in a while and I could see my mindset slipping 😭🤦🏻‍♀️ watching now to recharge the brain

[@kendramonique9630]

Video is perfect for my current situation!! Thank you for sharing! 🤗

[@mrussick22]

"I'm not gonna get in the way of that." ...lol you crack me up.

[@emp9413]

Lol I'm listening! Well as with everything in life, I'm Mr. Magoo-ing my way to success!

[@PerrySkyePhoenix]

This makes perfect sense. Never heard it put this way before.

[@jennymkhol]

J.S. Phoenix he does make it very simple to understand

[@aboutthatlife1418]

Whoa... this one was deep and hit home.

[@elsie132]

Just here to say Alex's advice is finally working for me...my guy is becoming so good🤣

[@E_MZ_]

This actually goes both ways. Good advice.

[@margiebanosong]

Being single I am interested to learn more about the relationship

[@martinastaal]

that makes a lot of sense! Behaving differently than %99 of women. Thanks for that. Is that a Bellicon Trampoline in your closet?

[@marcelazimna1022]

This comes naturally when we mature.

[@blakeknapp1633]

You really are absolutely adorable! I love your videos. Truth with delightful entertainment. Thanks, I appreciate you 🥰

[@spacexghost888]

So you preach the same thing shera does, but she’s the villain lmao.

[@dianasadiku6440]

Right sis😂🙈

[@b.b.3761]

Oop 😂

[@s8145458]

Wait they’ve run across each other?

[@sayetazonen6607]

shera teaches gold digging

[@avawilliams5827]

I think they collaborated. He respects Shera’s tactics he just wouldn’t let a girl pull them on him, which is fair. Who wants to be knowingly subject to manipulation?

[@faezahjumahat4196]

Hi Good Morning From Singapore! Yes You Are Totally True & Agrees! When A Woman Stops Caring,A Guy Just Went Nuts After A Woman Walked-Away! Never Bargain In A Relationship Or The Guy Wants An Easy Way Out, It Is Better To Leave If One PartNer Did Not Shows Up! When You Sees The Red-Flag ,You Needs To Walked Away & Be Content To Know Who Is Loving You Right When The Relationship Is Not There Only Just An Illussions Or Manupulations? Douche-Bag Or ScumBag Which One? Listen To Inner Voice & Hears The Authentic Truth Hurts So Much That You Are Stronger Than What You Think! Be The Real You & Potrays What Inside!

[@aqueen4006]

I claim all this energy

[@shybairnsgetnowt]

Can't we just agree upon the fact that neither too much clingyness nor too much distance is reasonable behaviour? I want to show my affection to a guy without having to wonder if that was "too much" and therefore go radio silent for a week in order to get him to "chase" me.

[@kierananthony25]

Women: *Criticises men, talks about her past, complains.* Everyone: Yeah honey, mmhhmmm, you don't need a little boy like that! Men: *Does the exact same thing* Everyone: You're just a bitter man! Who broke your heart, aww LOL.

[@noraalajmy4199]

But how long do I keep going with these games

[@rayray672]

Forever, until it becomes natural!

[@ninam.6781]

Read "Why Men Marry Bitches"

[@entitled7665]

Nora Alajmy Lol it’s not a game! It’s reality to dating and having a significant other! You have to always remain neutral’ otherwise! They will sense your need of desperation and treat you like you don’t matter because most woman chase and don’t really have a life of their own 🤦🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️🧐🤔🥴

[@melissafranklin8480]

Ok. Will TRY

[@alessandramalfitano1902]

How do you do this when you are in a long distance relationship??

[@sagharzahedi7414]

Ale Malfitano u get out of it

[@starchildgoddess_3335]

Elika lmaooo

[@shieldoffaith7099]

You can spice it up with peak previews. A little glimpse here and there. Nothing too saucy as you need to protect yourself! 💯Then don't contact him. In fact everytime it goes well (either over the phone or in person) give space. That way he mainly remembers the Boss stuff about you. Good luck hon

[@katiekelman3703]

You give me confidence that I forget I have..

[@minidocstv3339]

Yes please make the end in mind video. Love your advice 💖🙏🏽 thank you for coming back on and elaborating

[@melissafranklin8480]

Oh man!!! I didn't think of it this way!

[@Aquariusly_QNatti]

Real ish 💯💯 this is alot of what my dad taught me lol so I naturally do it

[@parneetkaur2579]

So what about when you're broken off, but you want to retract them back? Then how do I act

[@IdAlly]

My current situation.

[@wendyavalos8775]

Great advice Alex, I needed to hear that 😉👍.

[@aqueen4006]

Thank you!! Stuff is so good

[@shino7435]

I heard that people be saying im "unique", in a relationship im also consider "unique" even outside of the relationship. I dont know if is a good thing or a bad thing 🤔

[@khakimay1505]

Am so glad l found your website... Very informative & good tips... Will surely apply them 👍👍😊

[@IMarie-xs5dg]

WoW! You explained this so well, Thank you so much! Keep the vids coming ✌🏽💕

[@cladiavital3769]

Is very sad the human being like toxic relations because noone know how to love themselves and worst to love others. But what you said is the reality of this humanity and thank you to tell us how work the dark side of us ..at least in my case to avoid to be in toxic and painful situation....me I prefer be alone that to make all tired games. But I see your videos because you are the only one that give the advice whit the dark side of us..and help me a lot to protect my heart to avoid be involved in situation toxic...thank you and bless

[@nadouuuu4256]

I never get disappointed watching his videos. never