99% Of Tinder Profiles Suck (Here’s How You Can Become The 1%)

[@PlayingWithFireChannel]

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[@cougsjohnson1]

Alex - What happened to your last Hamza Stream ❓ You No-Showed !

[@krushingrip]

LOL i can’t believe that dude literally posted the same exact pic back to back and just flipped it

[@BalazsFingszEgyikFingja]

At first I thought the video was bugging:D

[@PlayingWithFireChannel]

Yea, I did a double take. It was funny.

[@ArcticWolfisALoserHaha]

Holy

[@DramaMC]

Alex’s brutal honesty is hilarious

[@PlayingWithFireChannel]

haha thx

[@mississippitornado6842]

I think the common theme here : 0 self awareness

[@PlayingWithFireChannel]

Yes. But more importantly, 0 social awareness.

[@curiousconsultant7922]

Also, every profile is “half-assed”. And not caring about your public image reflects on your personality, which kills your prospects.

[@gatesroyale]

You mean, absolutely no sense of class

[@hablabamosa]

Tinder itself sucks. In my opinion, it's better to socialize as much as you can (university, gym, voluntary work, gatherings etc). It's hard to be socially active and never meet a woman you vibe with

[@PlayingWithFireChannel]

Well, I partially agree. Interacting with people in real life is important. However, dating apps, when done right, are much more efficient. The ideal appraoch is to do both

[@hhkk6155]

The problem is that average guys don't get matches from their look equivalents. Most of chicks I've seen on Tinder have even worse photos than those guys, and lots of them are overweight 😅😂

[@PlayingWithFireChannel]

You're comparing apples and bowling balls. Yea, a sloppy fat chick can get plenty of matches but as a guy you have a lot more competition which means all your shit has to be on point

[@FreedomForMaryland]

​@@PlayingWithFireChannelso... become a fat chick? Duly noted!

[@Rim00909E]

1:55 "these dudes look like they are fresh of the boat from india"

[@PlayingWithFireChannel]

lol

[@MUN4G0GG3L1]

Getting professional photos might not be good idea as everyone thinks, at worst it can only give you false hope, but the end result will be the same. I have no trouble getting decent matches with my looksmatches by using semi-professional photos, but virtually all of my dates have either flaked, ghosted or rejected me after the first date (and it's not because of my social skills). This same thing has happened to me 5 times in less than 1.5 months. And the funniest thing is that I'm barely even chadfishing in my photos. These guys need to focus more on hard looksmaxxing and not just relying on good photos. Your smv has to be at least the same in real life (or even better) as it's in your photos, otherwise your date will be disappointed when they see the real you.

[@PlayingWithFireChannel]

If girls are ghosting on you after the first date, it is most certainly your social skills. It sounds like you're probably not hooking up with them, which is one again-- a game issue. It's easy to blame everything on dating apps, but it's not gonna help you one bit. In the meantime there'll be another guy who actually bothers to get really good photos, learn game, and he'll be smashing the girl that you wanted.

[@MUN4G0GG3L1]

@@PlayingWithFireChannel As for the game, I actually have tried to utilize all different kinds of tactics, including the ones which have been advertised on this channel. During tinder/whatsapp-conversations these tactics do work, but in a real life they don't, unless the girl's own smv is at least 1-2 points lower than mine or if she's from a foreign country. I am not questioning the importance of game, but I still think the biggest factor here is the smv. You can't fake your sex appeal irl if you don't have it, but you can easily fake it online by using professional photos taken from right angles. These are my personal experiences, and that is why I'm currently focusing on hard looksmaxxing.

[@iMogggYouuu]

Just thugmaxx more bro, and become _scary_ 👻

[@spicer6666]

@@PlayingWithFireChannel also what does he do for work ? Walmart ?

[@scottverge938]

@@iMogggYouuu Thugmaxx, Damn that's hilarious LOL

[@kulik03]

This is just part of the problem, I have no selfie, no weird smile, removed my glasses, edited my pics a little with faceapp... and still get very few likes let alone matches

[@gerylagrande]

That first dude in a refrigerator truck wearing sunglasses. Mhhh what could be bad about that foto🤔🤣🤣🤣

[@gsdgjfjsk]

These videos are always highly entertaining but also valuable. I can’t believe these guys are actually serious with these pictures. Honestly motivating to see how bad the competition is

[@agustinstartari]

Great video even if I do not completely agree with the full content... . The manosphere can be a place where one can learn a lot and understand certain realities that no one had told us before. As a man, I appreciate any content related to men, and I even believe that all content related to men in some way belongs to the manosphere.

[@SirJoelsuf1]

I have practically ZERO expectations using ANY online dating these days. Fake profiles outnumber real ones more than ever. The real profiles aren' t too attractive and aren't looking for anything meaningful. Don't think it would matter if you had a good profile or a bad one. Cuz the fake ones are everywhere now. Cold approaching and especially (loose) social circle is makin a comeback. I'm just glad I'm experiencing this at 42 after most of what I want in dating is out of my system and don't really care about it.

[@PlayingWithFireChannel]

It absolutely does matter. Having a great profile will mean the difference between getting no results (like the guys in the vid) and getting plenty of results. On Tinder, and most apps, they allow you to verify your profile, which a bot wouldn't be able to do. So that's how you stand out. Plus also, getting one or two good selfies.

[@DavidBoca]

No sex appeal in any of these photos

[@krushingrip]

i agree. none of these dudes photos got me hard at all. not even a semi!

[@eddieliusa]

don't think it's the photos' fault

[@SirJoelsuf1]

Even less real profiles to swipe right on so it doesn't matter.

[@OedonTheGreat]

5:14 It nevER began

[@iMogggYouuu]

“You said you are lndian right? Say no more. Say no fuggen more”

[@connorcon9637]

He didn't show any examples of good profiles...so, nothing to compare to!

[@PlayingWithFireChannel]

LOL, I have about a million videos where I show what a good profile is. Try using the search function.

[@FreedomForMaryland]

​@@PlayingWithFireChannelthe search function is not easily available on the KZbin app

[@hhkk6155]

Also the big problem that "real life having fun" photos aren't getting attention because they are not the pro photoshoot, and entitled W won't swipe

[@playtimefun3789]

You should do individual consultation or something similar like charge a small fee to give advice on someones profile. You know what you are talking about and have good advice.

[@PlayingWithFireChannel]

Yea Man I already do :)

[@aboriginalalex]

Awesome work, alex!

[@TheUpTownFan]

Tbh sure these photos aren’t fantastic but the bigger problem is these guys need to get in shape and change up their style.

[@juanarocha8629]

4:44 the cat has more game than Oliver 😂

[@DanTuber]

i'm amazed people still use tinder

[@tutikas1]

This video reminds me of a movie called "A million ways to die in the west". 1882 Arizona, but people already knew smiling in photos is weird.

[@damlurker]

How you you fix facial expression? I feel that these guys are just smiling naturally and that's how they look when they smile. I can relate because when I smile naturally I don't show my teeth and that's just the way I've been all my life.

[@ImLehwz]

How to improve facial expressions, be less awkward? Do I practice in the mirror?

[@thisguyrools2807]

A lot of engineers, it sounds like a prestigious job title but a lot of these guys look nerdy. They need to break that stereotype by hitting the gym and getting an edgy style. I knew a drug dealer who was just a good looking white dude with tattoos and he was killing it on tinder. He was a muscular version of Pete Davidson. A cool good looking bum can out game guys who make 6 figures easily is the harsh reality.

[@dzllz]

well said. putting software engineer in your job title in the apps is probably a bad idea unless you counterbalance it with some badass photos

[@sapnupuas6950]

Coping with fire

[@ArcticWolfisALoserHaha]

Coping with water

[@BalazsFingszEgyikFingja]

@@sapnupuas6950 Giga Greglite Gregory Lurik mogs you

[@curiousconsultant7922]

Coping with wind

[@iMogggYouuu]

Coping with earth

[@oscarziyo]

Reminder that only women get away with how this dudes posted their pics on Tinder, men have to be self aware, never get up.

[@jakub.kubicek]

Exactly

[@jakub.kubicek]

Always self-aware is the new always be vigilant

[@davidmoogala]

please do another r/tinder review!!!

[@80sNewWaveGeek]

14:09 seems like a pretty solid photo if not for the girl on his arm.

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[@shiManchu303]

what in the 7 hells is David Swift doing in the thumbnail?

[@dzllz]

"looks like david swift" LMAO

[@vevlindoesfitness2271]

I wonder if Alex will ever do a debate with Rehab Room

[@OedonTheGreat]

Rehab Room said in one of his videos that he'll nevER debate PUAs. He said it would just be filled with gaslighting and "just bro advice.". Watch FaceAndLMS debate with PUAs and you'll see what I'm talking about. Just a waste of time. BTW based pfp.

[@porkerpete7722]

Rehab Room is very one sided. He says the same thing over and over. He wouldn't admit anything that doesnt promote his BP narrative.

[@porkerpete7722]

Think before you sleep did a video on Rehab Room

You black pill bros are as cringe as PUAs like this Alex guy. What course do you guys sell? Course on how to lookmax? "Bro, I'm not getting the v@gina because I'm not the brad Pitt type, bro. It's over" blablablabla. Black pill, red pill, dating gurus, PUAs are all a package of cringe 🤡

[@iMogggYouuu]

tbys made a 👎 coping video about rehab room. You can tell he only recently delved into the rabbithole solely because rehab took shots at him. He’II come around eventually if he’s a person who cares about looking for the truth. The bIackpiII ALWAYS coIIects

[@ElSrJuancho]

Sir I have failed the mission, I surrender on dating 😔. Specially since I am 5´7

[@2kmaster68]

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[@BalazsFingszEgyikFingja]

It never ceases to amaze me how big pile of dogshit much of that reddit advice is, its insane. Alex U're a G for giving out all this free massive value tho🔥

[@PlayingWithFireChannel]

Lol yea. I’m actually not well liked on there. Go figure

[@BalazsFingszEgyikFingja]

​@@PlayingWithFireChannel haha yea im kind of an og viewer and I remember them being mad at U back in the day. But keep doing your stuff, otherwise those Redditors probably only gonna make ppl miserable with their incompetent ass advice

[@tarandhesi3450]

Alex is ruthless in his views, love it though.... definitely an alpha male!

[@Cowboy-zj5gj]

You know what it can be a lot worse.

[@thelonercoder5816]

These dudes are all in their 20s so they grew up on the internet yet take photos like 50 yos lmao

[@JD2jr.]

I think the biggest thing that loses you credibility (you have plenty but it takes away a bit) is that you always give advice that you would give yourself, even if it doesn't apply as well. For instance, I think the first big guy shouldn't listen to anything but the most general advice you gave, and should double down on the "country" vibe. There are some big dudes who absolutely crush, and while "just lose weight" is always a good idea, it's hardly the **best** advice for that guy who's "functionally overweight" (just making up a term here, hopefully it makes sense). Same with the "is he out shitting on a tree?" guy. He needs to lean into the hiker/crunchy vibe instead of being cookie-cutter pro photo guy. I get that you can only really give advice that you have experienced yourself, but sometimes you might want to take a step back and pick out the examples that will most benefit from your particular brand, because one-size-fits-all isn't always the best solution.

[@PlayingWithFireChannel]

Well, that would just mean Im not a hypocrite. And the fat guy would definitely benefit from losing weight so I'm a bit confused as to which piece of my advice is incorrect

[@JD2jr.]

@@PlayingWithFireChannel It's the "this picture is gay, get pictures exactly like mine" bit. A lot of photos you dismiss are bad, but you encourage them to do the same 3 things instead of improving the ones they have. The guys I mentioned have photos that likely serve them better than if they tried to follow your advice but with the same photography skill. Hopefully what I'm attempting to say is coming across because I'm not trying to discredit you or anything

[@Xero259]

If i show u my profile, you'll be absolutely shocked i get 0 matches, and yes its alot better than all these

[@curiousconsultant7922]

You probably have one photo out of all of them that includes some kind of dealbreaker or “ick”. It's how it goes, Tinder profiles are “all or nothing” you can't have one good photo cancel a bad one.

[@dzllz]

good to see what redditors look like, good reminder not to take it seriously

[@sapnupuas6950]

11:21 lmao

[@sergio_ra]

Brutal!

[@johnsurabian2010]

Should you get Professional photos ? I mean guys can't wear make like girls ...

[@PlayingWithFireChannel]

It doesn't matter. A good photographer will make you look better through lighting and angles.

[@flaviumircea4012]

Alex is brutal. Lol.

[@wilborghini4462]

we need it

[@BalazsFingszEgyikFingja]

Tbh bunch of what he is saying should be common sense. E.g. those Redditors saying "its a pretty good profile" to a dude who uploads down angle double chin selfies of himself to a dating app is close to insanity imho...

[@yyysamuel3215]

But what he said is truth tbh

[@josephpolicastro3149]

Is there any real difference between the guys that look like school shooters and the ones that look like serial killers? Lol

[@porkerpete7722]

Yeah, some girls make fantasize about serial killers like Dahmer. But no girl fantasizing about school shooters 😂. Its wierd but you see romanticization sone times.

[@leoniduvarov6565]

Make a video with good profiles to show the difference?

[@PlayingWithFireChannel]

I have many many times. Just scroll down

[@fabianbussinger2291]

Maybe nate really did some meth? You skipped his bio lol

[@STUNNAG-bj8hf]

do more for Instagram, ive been getting girls but my instagram looks basic

[@arun_kumar0]

2:00 "these dudes look like they are fresh off the boat from India"... "your friends should look cool"?? were you being racist? i am following you for more than a year and I have never seen you being racist or I might be completely wrong and I am wrongly misinterpreting it... can you clarify? FYI - I am an Indian...

[@vanbeet5105]

LOL it was just a joke my man

[@sapnupuas6950]

Alex was just being based for once

[@dzllz]

indian ego I see

[@arun_kumar0]

@@dzllz oh you being an western rac!st a-hole... i can clearly see

[@arun_kumar0]

@@dzllz oh you being an western bully a--h0le... i can clearly see...

[@Llando]

judging by the content of this video : most guys know nothing about building a good profile. They heard that women love dogs and cats and that became their focus. Super nerdy, bad pics, bad grooming, bad sense of style, looking beta, bad quality. Damn, as if they were not even trying.