How To Deal With Toxic Relationships | Dil Ki Baat

How To Deal With Toxic Relationships | Dil Ki Baat
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[@Anamstudies]

In the last dil ki baat video i didn't agree with you but I agree with almost everything that you said in this video , I am not married but i live in a joint family, my mother had to go through hell in order to survive here and she learnt her lessons the hard way , she learnt to develop boundaries , i always teach her to not say yes to everything and prioritize herself sometimes , take care of herself better , I have learnt everything from her she might not have known how to live in such a setting from the beginning but if In my future I have to live in a joint family setting I know so much Alhamdulillah. When you develop boundaries in a joint or a toxic family life becomes very easy .

[@user-pr8rl1om4z]

you gave such valid point to have a successful relationship but sometimes we get fed up by constantly ignoring and tolerating things, what to do then?

[@mayakhan273]

Is dil ki baat py i totally agree with each and every point..💯

[@dr.syedamasira9597]

My mom is a big fan of urs…. She is use to iqra ka vlog lagaoooo 😂😂😂🥰🥰 kitni achi baate bolte hai wo aise kehte hai ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@subuhifatima9686]

This video is very relatable to the situation I was going through right now…..I was unwell from past two weeks just because of stress….Thankyou for helping me get out of this situation…..Jazak Allah khair ❤

[@SirajBaloch-gv2mf]

Api apny belkul Sahi bat kahi shadi ke shrohat mei in-laws mei both ziada close nai honi Caye.mei kud is masly sy guzar chuki hoo.mei b apni family members gal's ko yehe advice deti hoo.ap ny meri dil ki bat kehdi ❤🎉❤

[@hasinakhatri8894]

Mai aapki baaton se ittefaq rakhti hun, grey line wali baat ne bahut kuch soochne par majboor kiya. Mai Mumbai se hun. Meri Love marriage hai, joke bahut ajeeb mahool or trans chizon ki wajah se hui otherwise mai kabhi love marriage nahi karti. Meri age complete 19 bhi nahi thi jab shadi hui. Shadi sabki razamandi se hui. Lekin mere pure sasuraal walon ne koi hadd nahi chodhe. Mai bhi sabko khush karne ke liye bahut sehti rahi. Itna zulm ke kya baat ki jaaye. Husband maa baap ko kuch nhi kehte the. Maine apni puri life me itne bure log nahi dekhe. Khair kya kahani sunaaon. 27 yrs complete hone wale hain. Sabr ka meetha phal mai ne khaana shuru kar diya hai. Mere bachche itna mera care or mohabbat karte hain. Husband bhi bahut bahut badal gaye hain. Aese aese surprise dete hain jo maine kabhi nahhi soochi thi. Mai ab bahut khush hun apne inaamaat per. Lekin mera sasuraal walon se mujhe itni nafrat ho gai hai ke shayad wo kabhi kam nahi hogi. Love you Iqra❤

[@SaimaCookingHouseholdTips5678]

زندگی. میں. بہت قیمتی. اوقات. استعمال. بہت ضروری ہیں ۔ آپ. کی. گفتگو. بہت. زبردست. 💐🌹

[@user-jj7wv9hs4d]

I don't know why hr koi Asia kehta hai bs smile kren ignore kren is se sb theek hojayega, mgr real mai Asia hota hai mere sath Asia kbi nhe hua jb mai single thi to meri frnds mere relatives meri khamoshi or kindness ka faida uthate the Bht zyada. Phir Maine khud ko change kya bht zyada kindness chor di thora dimagh se kam Lena shuru kya han kyu k us waqt mai single thi mjhe zyada problems nhe huin sb acha hoga ya. Ab aajate hain in lows pe jb shadi Hui yahan mai khamosh rehti thi sb ko smjhne k lye. Sb ko smjh ek se derh saal lga mjhe ye smjhne mai k ye log is trha k hain k agr aap khamosh rahoge to ye or satate rahenge jb tk aap khamosh rahoge ye mazeed satate rahenge or JB tk sataynge JB tk aap Jawab nhe dete or JB Maine Jawab Dena shuru kya to ye log aahista aahista apni line mai rehne lage it means k hr family ek jesi nhe hoti kuch log aise hote hain k aap ki khamoshi aap k lye museebat BNA dete hain to hr kisi ko ye advice na den k smile kren khamosh rahen or sb theek hojayega. Hr kisi k sath Asia nhe hota hai.

[@Trendyfashion427]

Yes u r true zyada ache banogi or had sy zyada kaam krna k yai log khush ho jayngy aisa start sy nhi krna chhaiye qk aik baar adat parh gai sab ko phir wahi krna hoga so start sy limit rakhna chhaiye ..mare shadi ko 15 years hony waly hy but mujhy ab b wahi sab kuch krma hota hy ab mai change ho hi nhi sakti 😂😂 so its my opinion k kaam krna lakin limit mai baqi izzat or ahtiram must hy us mai koi kami nhi honi chaiye

[@urimannitruelovers8804]

Was ongoing through this issue in a toxic relation but finally I set my own boundary and alhumdulillah now I feeling much better

[@sitwathabib6026]

Let the negativity of toxic people stay with them and not with them.never react to toxic people.

[@user-xe3bm1ib3d]

Hi … I agree to all what u have said … our own peace of mind have to be our first priority!! I really really find ur videos helpful ….ur doing a very good job … stay blessed !

[@user-yw2bi3co2j]

Aoa sister.i appreciate ur points bt now a days people are not having patience.although they knew every thing bt it's very difficult to follow.insan Koshish karay to sab hojata hai.thanks for good advices I really feel happy to hear all Dil ki bat.jazakAllah.may Allah give you all the happiness of world.

[@cookwithshaheen9056]

Wow Masha Allah ❤️ beahtar se behtareen dil ki baat ❤ please make sure aise hi strong tips or b share kare ❤

[@user-cf3py4cz8d]

Thankyou you thought me how to arrange grocerry its been 2 year here in uk but never do any work at home now i watched your videoz and manage the work full werk especially grocerry ❤

[@hijabzahra6364]

Iqra me ny aj first time kisi b KZbin vedio py comment kr ri hu. Ic vedio ny mjy comment krny py. Mjbor kia. Bhtreeen suggestions di. Ap ki. Vedios bht relatable hn mre life sy. Allah ap k liay bht asania peda kry. I wish k bht zda log apki Vedios dekhain.

[@Arifazyab]

Jo Bhi kaha sahi kaha hai i really agree with you,never response to toxic people, people get mad on u it’s their behavior bcoz they r not happy in their life and they r trying to ruin ur peace that’s y they do i work in a psych hospital and i know all this.we should ignore and move on.

[@bluesky9561]

How can we move and ignore to our partner in his toxic behavior

[@saimaiqbal889]

Mere kuch questions hai, please i hope aap answer karengi, 1) Agar in laws wale baar baar apke parents ke baareme aapse bura bhala kahe aur aap react karein ya parents ka stand lein toh wo toh aur zyada bura bhala kehne lagte hai tab kya karein? ignore karein? ya jawab dein😢 2) Husband hi miya biwi ki beech ki saari batien apne gharwalo ko batate firein aur chugliyan karein, tab kya karein?😞 3) Husband se detach rehkar kya rishta survive hosakta hai?😔 4) Ladkiyon ko sasural me chup rehkar sari nonsense sunna aur ghar me peace maintain rakhna hi sikhate hai toh bhi inlaws iska galat fayda uthakar aur zyada kuch bhi aakar kehjaate hai, toh girls kya karein?☹️

[@syedagazala2653]

Most points are right and need to be reemphasised regularly to keep us sane but probably everyone’s situation is different and so is everyone’s tolerance.Also even keeping difference and tolerance aside being repeatedly annoyed tests you to the extent where you do explode just like someone mentioned above so may Allah give us all Sabr and hidayat is all we can pray for.Aameen🤲🏻In such situations ye saari discussions dhari ki dhari rehjaati hain

[@fareeakousar6394]

I agree with Each and every point.Best video ever 👌👏

[@IshratKhan-rm5ty]

I totally agree with 1st point even I am thinking similarly I'm not married but ye experience se keh Rahi hu aap kisi k liye bht achhe banenge to ek time k baad jb aapko return na milega to hurt aap hi honge

[@NasirAli-pf2lc]

A. O. A dear iqra sooooooo helpful vlog such ma all points r so good I agreed k khud ko khud hi ehmeeyt deni parti ha ... Khush raho dear iqra

[@nasreensyed1633]

Loved this episode. Thank u so much. I always look forward to dil ki baat n all ur vlogs

[@abdullahjan9295]

Zbrdas dear sam asi baten hain jo sun kr buht heart hoi ke har dur se guzr gae ab tu lekin ane wale bachon keliye ye baten buhttt khas hain thanks for allh or thanks for iqra dear tumhari baten darect dil ko lagty hain ...or tumhari mazeda kahne b ma sha allah khush raho Ameen ❤

[@chandniparveen4837]

Thank you so much apki baton se advice se meri kafi tnsn realise ho gyi overthing krna bi kafi kam ho gya h😊

[@Nzee2002]

at the beginning everyone is so much in love thats why nothing made them upset and angry

[@muslimah98762]

Kuch nhi bht kuch helpful tha mai ek aise hi toxic jethani k saath rehti hun jiske harsh words seedha dil par lgte hai bcz unke bachhe hai or mere liye toh unke hisab se mai koi kam ni krti har cheez mai mujhe copy krna or phir mujhe ye dikhana ki unke aagey mai kuch nhi or bhi bht kuch lkn apki baatein bht motivate krti hai mai practice krungi ki inn points ko apni life mai adabt krlu or aise insaan se distance maintain krlo…

[@AnsharahArtWorld]

Wow iqra zaberdast ❤boht accha laga aap ki tips sun kr God bless you 😊

[@mariyahsajid]

Great 👍.. har point helpful tha.. Jazak Allah 😊

[@inoxent4]

Im 21 years old And Mri Shadi jab be hoge but mjy Yeah sab BatYn bht Achi laGi❤

[@user-dg4xq4ht1r]

Dear Iqra very useful suggestions Allah apko khush rakhe Ameen

[@user-vu6gy8un9d]

AP ki advise bohat achi hay plz Dil ki BAAT continue rakhain lots of love ❤

[@misbahasghar7272]

Very well spoken iqra Baji jazak Allah Khair stay blessed ❤❤

[@zunairabukharii6855]

Soo much help full apii I'm getting marriage soon inshallah and this vlog is very helpful.. love from Pakistan.. hmeadha kush rhain auur acy hi mjhy acchi battain btati rhain tysm, 💞

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[@IqRafatima225]

Bohot achi batian api Hamesha ki tarha or Han in baton pr Amal karne ke bad hy zindagi me sakoon hota hai 👍🏻❤️

[@munazajabeen9845]

Also that she sincerely helps you at your time n kids ko n involve her in some small stitching Buisness where she will be buzy n feel her self positive n productive

[@LivingwithAsra]

Beautifully explained Iqra! I love the way you talk ❤️ Stay blessed 😀

[@bushrashafi403]

Very inform vedio

[@faizakhan849]

Very nice full video is very helpful thanks for new information about life very good sister Allah aap ko khush rakhain Abad rakhain bohat intezar rehta hai aap k vlog ka

[@asiyakhanum9084]

Thanks a lot for such beautiful advice. May Allah bless you. Be happy. Keep sharing your knowledge this will be a sadqa a jariya

[@mehwishkhalil5073]

Zabardast vlog ❤❤❤ I have learned a lot from your "Dil ki baat" series JAZAK ALLAH KHER ❤❤❤

[@user-gr5ni3wr4f]

Too good❤

[@sadafrafiq5006]

I agree with you .. cmpletely... Kyuki aesa ni h ki sasural bura he ota h.. har sasural kisi ka mayeka ota h.. har bahu kisi ki nand oti h.. agar aap dil me bilkul dushmani bhar he jaoge sasural ke khilaf to poori zindagi sirf jung ban jayegi...

[@ishfaqshinwari9755]

Mashallah aapkey vlogs sey sakoon milta hai bilkul sahi bhatey ki meyrey Saath boaht eysa Huwa hai but aab aapkey vlogs sey kafi aacha seekney ko milta hai bohat khosh rahey Allah bohat jhald aapki guod abaad karry aamin

[@user-co9vw3tn3f]

Thank you Aapi ye video banane ke liye ❤ese videos aur banao please ❤❤

[@Munizaanwer]

Jitni b boundry set krlo kch logun ko farq nae prta wo tease krty hi krty hain

[@noumanasarwat8678]

Kuch log aap ki life mai aate hi isi mind set ke sath hai ke wo aap ki boundaries cross kar ke aap ko trigger kare aur jub insan react kare tu victim card play kare khud ke lie.

[@moaaviach3575]

Nice Dil ki batain ki hn AP n

[@ReenaYadav-11]

Your channel is growing day by day

[@NainTara-lt8gc]

Nice words ❤❤❤❤

[@saistamalik4811]

Bhut piyari bate batai h

[@ghazalaakhter7853]

Very true reality is important and tarbiyat

[@asfiyamudassirp8938]

Mashaallah I love your vlogs really love ur vlogs am very happy aapka vlogs Dekker mere dil khush hojata hai

[@user-co9vw3tn3f]

You are my inspiration ❤❤ love you Aapi ❤hamesha sukoon me rahi🤲

[@snowydurrani3094]

Thank u for this video I really needed to hear those points

[@qudsiawaqar9151]

Precious video

[@LUXEcarsx]

Assalamualaikum wa rehmatullahi wabarkatuhu Allah har aurat ko sabar seh nawaze ameen.......

[@user-mj9ct4hi1f]

Kia bat hai je app ki

[@sanakhan-db1pt]

Very nice !!completely agreed 👍...❤❤

[@marymanovlogs]

Asslam u alikum everyone ❤🦋

[@sanji546]

I m dealing with extrmeely toxic relatives

[@syedaparas3781]

beautiful explaination❤

[@tahaseenbanu703]

Superb Advice mam

[@saminakousar8659]

Superb points

[@realzernab]

Ya baatiya khud samj aa jati ha lakin tab tak time nikal jata ha or phir humare hath ma kuch nhi hota😢

[@arsalansaba2696]

Beautifully explain ❤

[@EmanEman-ii5ih]

Kabab ki recipe baray mazy ki lagh ri

[@roominakhan5399]

Excellent and beautiful video

[@nidavaqar]

Bhut behtreen baat kahi aapne❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@saimmaakhtar]

Salaam Iqra, as always amazing video. I wanted to suggest a book for you to read "Reclaim your heart" By Yasmin Mogahed. I think you'll enjoy reading this book unless you have already?

[@user-qs8nj3rr1q]

Greatttttt

[@SabainDelhi]

Best vlog.....👏👏

[@user-cy3nl9mg7b]

Veri nice 🎉🎉🎉

[@HomemakerMehak]

Very useful😊 zaberdast 👌

[@shabanasayyad4741]

Just do everything for sake of Allah n forgive for sake of Allah.... Love n hate for sake of Allah.... Give best for the relationship n if required quit the relationship also for sake of Allah.... Many women i have seen just because of society pressure they live with physco partner too... So divorce when it is must shd take divorce instead of ending the life with depression..... In some cases divorce is also ibaadat.... Plz hear nafisa pearl video... Best counselor in relationship from all aspect....

[@ikraarizwan9276]

Waaah !!!! ❤❤❤❤❤ Kitni khubsurti se Samjaya hai Aap ne Allah apko khush rakhey Aameen aur Apki har jaiz khuaish puri ho Aameen Suma Aameen 😘

[@ArshiyaSabaARSHIYASABA-ui8wf]

MashaAllah very well explaned❤

[@AyazBepari-vj6so]

Super vlog Iqra mind fresh ho gaya

[@Velvetskies_s]

Meri life me toh mere husband hi toxic hai... Kitna bhi Karo expectations Katham hi nahi Hoti. Pareshan hogai Hun samajh nahi aaya kya karu Please mujhe bataye agar me galat hu toh? Hum Daly Jo kaam Kar rahe hai agar 1 din nahi Kiya toh hum bure hojate hai... Jab tak Kar rahe hai sab thik se jab tak acche hai. 1 din wo kaam nahi Kiya toh hame certificate mil jata hai

[@izzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz]

allah reham kry

[@farhakaleem4233]

Sahi baat hai

[@misbahasghar7272]

Asalam o alaikum i hope you're doing great sis u know you're in pain or boht takleef deti hain y jali kati batein krna jb samne wala banda apke ghr ko or khandan ko sbko leky chale barabar hoty h is tarah k logs or even hammary partners bh y batein krjaty hain Ap inki video ka first point or last point p focused rahein yaken mane apko benefits hongy is chez s In Sha Allah O Tala Kehne ka maksav y nh k husband ko ya unke kisi commands ko ignore krein no ap apbi trfse 100 and 10percent dein sbko but don't be hard on yourself koi kuch bh karry wo unka apna reflection hai hame har bt ki tension leny ki zarurt nh hai tbh Anyways I'll pray for you and for everyone who are going through this phase of their live Allah Pak hmsbk naseeb boht achy kry or hame understanding, supportive and loyal partner de Ameen Sumameen ❤

[@shortsvideos1635]

Jb bhi tana mare ekdm bedrest kro full Aram ... 2 din me akal thikne aajygii ....

[@bluesky9561]

​@@shortsvideos1635is terhan partner or hyper hoty hen n zydaa bolty hn

[@syedayazuddin9939]

Found everything useful ❤

[@sitwathabib6026]

Iqra ap b muskurati rahain

[@MagicaPortal3255_0]

Hello iqra aapki baten bht achhi hoti hain..Mera problem ye hai ki main pichhle Sal Shadeed depression se gujri hoon..ab alhamdullillah bht thik hoon but mere ander complex or insecurities bht aa gayi hain Main apne bacho ka dusre bacho k sath comparison krne lgti hoon or overthinking buri Tarah mujhe pareshan krta hai or dusre bacho se mujhe jealousy v hone lgta hai Plz bataye main isse Bahar kaise niklu..Agar kisi bacha ka no achha Aya ya fr kuch achieve Kiya to mujhe bilkul khushi nhi hota hai jbki wo mere relative hi hain

[@syedamaryam320]

Best video iqra loved it ❤

[@ghazalaakhter7853]

Enjoyed your vlogs always

[@rainforest1983]

The greatest test of good character is how a person of best character deals with the person of the lowest of character. The prophet s.a.w was once insulted by a man while the prophet s.a.w. was sitting with Abu Bakr. Abu Bakr witnessed those insults and when the prophet s.a.w responded with patience, Abu Bakr responded. The instant he did so the prophet s.a.w. leaves. Abu Bakr worried the prophet s.a.w. was upset with him. The prophet s.a.w. replied that when the man was insulting the prophet s.a.w. Allah sent down an angel to respond to those the insults. As soon as Abu Bakr jumped in and responded, the angel left and a shayateen came down and sat in the place of the angel, thus egging on the discord. The prophet s.a.w. did not want to be in the presence of the devil. The prophet s.a.w said that strength is not in how you overcome another person. Rather strength is in how you overcome yourself - i.e. the one who owns himself in times of rage, unlike others who spew words in fits of anger. What is our beloved prophet s.a.w. teaching us here?

[@silentnature2744]

Very nice iqra ❤

[@rafiaafzaal503]

Well done ❤

[@siyanpro777]

Very good information Iqra didi

[@NadeemAnsari-iv7kl]

Vere good ❤❤❤

[@muskanmusharrat9634]

MashaAllah😍

[@izzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz]

welldone

[@shaguftasidiq8314]

Asalamualikum iqra de i m frm kashmir i luv your vlogs

[@mohdsalmanali2667]

Hello! I wanted to share some exciting news with you. My wife has started a new cooking channel called "HB Tasty Recipes," which will soon be updated to "Hyderabadi Tasty Recipes." She is a huge fan of your work and draws a lot of inspiration from the way you maintain cleanliness and the heartfelt way you share your thoughts. She often mentions how much she admires your positive approach. It would mean the world to her if you could watch her cooking videos and maybe even leave a comment. Your encouragement would make her incredibly happy and motivated. Thank you so much for being a source of inspiration!

[@husnaqureshi6390]

Love your vlogs ❤

[@NaziaMughal-pu9yf]

💯 right

[@rainforest1983]

Toxic ppl exist and in families relationships colleagues work everywhere. Simple stay away n add boundaries. Space is so impt. No1 can cross ur space. Back home.culture has ntg abt space n here we see the ppl do care abt space n place boundaries . Joint cultures r not healthy not even islamic ie for married couples. But end of the day these r struggles and we r tested so we can make dua. U r right best version, destroys self personality altogether sadly. Its the fact. Once u come out out of toxic life or marriage then u will see u lost urself!! And sadly doing good is good but ppl take advantage of ur goodness and only reward is from Allah. Even if it is not pretending..ppl dont care how much u do for anyone!!

[@lifestylewithhassanabdullah]

How was the taste of palak chicken?

[@g.rartstudio4890]

Aoa Sister I love to hear you it always gives me positive vibes. And today's topic is very close to our daily life. I have a one request would you like to suggest me some good books to stay positive and strong?.

[@rainforest1983]

When u keep quiet..then Allah replies on your behalf. This is for those hurt you and you kept quiet. Let Allah do justice.

[@AminaSaeed22121]

Yeah Allah did it in story❤

[@AminaSaeed22121]

Just because i listen every word and remains silent and tolerate

[@user-bj4dt3ke1w]

Nice 👍