How To Deal With Toxic Relationships | Dil Ki Baat

[@Anamstudies]

In the last dil ki baat video i didn't agree with you but I agree with almost everything that you said in this video , I am not married but i live in a joint family, my mother had to go through hell in order to survive here and she learnt her lessons the hard way , she learnt to develop boundaries , i always teach her to not say yes to everything and prioritize herself sometimes , take care of herself better , I have learnt everything from her she might not have known how to live in such a setting from the beginning but if In my future I have to live in a joint family setting I know so much Alhamdulillah. When you develop boundaries in a joint or a toxic family life becomes very easy .

[@Bosslady1_]

You said you are not married, so apki family jab joint family hoti hai wo alag bat hai , they're your siblings, mother and father , yani k sab blood relationships! And believe me you don't have any idea about in law's, okay im not saying that in every case they're the worst but unki natural kafi change hoti hai apki family se aur ap ko har step soch samjh kar rakhna hota hai , khushi main, dukh mai .. kabhi kabhi apko lagye ga k ap unko janti ho , lkn aik second mn apko realise karen gye k ap abhi tak unhen nahi janti , so in law's ka rishta toxic kam aur complicated ziada hota hai✅

[@SyedaIfra-o2i]

you gave such valid point to have a successful relationship but sometimes we get fed up by constantly ignoring and tolerating things, what to do then?

[@Discover-your-imaan]

Deal with toxic in -laws✨✨ • Be real don't pretend • Create your boundaries (How much we survive with a nasty words. Don't share your little -little personal information accept your husband and respect to others Boundaries) •Pick your battles (Stand for yourself, don't disrespect yourself to other one) • Don't loose emotions standerd • Keep smiling face.

[@mayakhan273]

Is dil ki baat py i totally agree with each and every point..💯

[@dr.syedamasira9597]

My mom is a big fan of urs…. She is use to iqra ka vlog lagaoooo 😂😂😂🥰🥰 kitni achi baate bolte hai wo aise kehte hai ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@SirajBaloch-gv2mf]

Api apny belkul Sahi bat kahi shadi ke shrohat mei in-laws mei both ziada close nai honi Caye.mei kud is masly sy guzar chuki hoo.mei b apni family members gal's ko yehe advice deti hoo.ap ny meri dil ki bat kehdi ❤🎉❤

[@subuhifatima9686]

This video is very relatable to the situation I was going through right now…..I was unwell from past two weeks just because of stress….Thankyou for helping me get out of this situation…..Jazak Allah khair ❤

[@Trendyfashion427]

Yes u r true zyada ache banogi or had sy zyada kaam krna k yai log khush ho jayngy aisa start sy nhi krna chhaiye qk aik baar adat parh gai sab ko phir wahi krna hoga so start sy limit rakhna chhaiye ..mare shadi ko 15 years hony waly hy but mujhy ab b wahi sab kuch krma hota hy ab mai change ho hi nhi sakti 😂😂 so its my opinion k kaam krna lakin limit mai baqi izzat or ahtiram must hy us mai koi kami nhi honi chaiye

[@SidraBabar-v4b]

Thankyou you thought me how to arrange grocerry its been 2 year here in uk but never do any work at home now i watched your videoz and manage the work full werk especially grocerry ❤

[@FarahAli-w9h]

Hi … I agree to all what u have said … our own peace of mind have to be our first priority!! I really really find ur videos helpful ….ur doing a very good job … stay blessed !

[@fareeakousar6394]

I agree with Each and every point.Best video ever 👌👏

[@urimannitruelovers8804]

Was ongoing through this issue in a toxic relation but finally I set my own boundary and alhumdulillah now I feeling much better

[@SaimaCookingHouseholdTips5678]

زندگی. میں. بہت قیمتی. اوقات. استعمال. بہت ضروری ہیں ۔ آپ. کی. گفتگو. بہت. زبردست. 💐🌹

[@cookwithshaheen9056]

Wow Masha Allah ❤️ beahtar se behtareen dil ki baat ❤ please make sure aise hi strong tips or b share kare ❤

[@sitwathabib6026]

Let the negativity of toxic people stay with them and not with them.never react to toxic people.

[@hijabzahra6364]

Iqra me ny aj first time kisi b KZbin vedio py comment kr ri hu. Ic vedio ny mjy comment krny py. Mjbor kia. Bhtreeen suggestions di. Ap ki. Vedios bht relatable hn mre life sy. Allah ap k liay bht asania peda kry. I wish k bht zda log apki Vedios dekhain.

[@Arifazyab]

Jo Bhi kaha sahi kaha hai i really agree with you,never response to toxic people, people get mad on u it’s their behavior bcoz they r not happy in their life and they r trying to ruin ur peace that’s y they do i work in a psych hospital and i know all this.we should ignore and move on.

[@bluesky9561]

How can we move and ignore to our partner in his toxic behavior

[@HamnaAsim-m6w]

Aoa sister.i appreciate ur points bt now a days people are not having patience.although they knew every thing bt it's very difficult to follow.insan Koshish karay to sab hojata hai.thanks for good advices I really feel happy to hear all Dil ki bat.jazakAllah.may Allah give you all the happiness of world.

[@hasinakhatri8894]

Mai aapki baaton se ittefaq rakhti hun, grey line wali baat ne bahut kuch soochne par majboor kiya. Mai Mumbai se hun. Meri Love marriage hai, joke bahut ajeeb mahool or trans chizon ki wajah se hui otherwise mai kabhi love marriage nahi karti. Meri age complete 19 bhi nahi thi jab shadi hui. Shadi sabki razamandi se hui. Lekin mere pure sasuraal walon ne koi hadd nahi chodhe. Mai bhi sabko khush karne ke liye bahut sehti rahi. Itna zulm ke kya baat ki jaaye. Husband maa baap ko kuch nhi kehte the. Maine apni puri life me itne bure log nahi dekhe. Khair kya kahani sunaaon. 27 yrs complete hone wale hain. Sabr ka meetha phal mai ne khaana shuru kar diya hai. Mere bachche itna mera care or mohabbat karte hain. Husband bhi bahut bahut badal gaye hain. Aese aese surprise dete hain jo maine kabhi nahhi soochi thi. Mai ab bahut khush hun apne inaamaat per. Lekin mera sasuraal walon se mujhe itni nafrat ho gai hai ke shayad wo kabhi kam nahi hogi. Love you Iqra❤

[@shortsvideos1635]

Aap ke sabar ka fal mila apko but jawani ke wo khubsurat pal barbad keye apke husband ne ....

[@mariyahsajid]

Great 👍.. har point helpful tha.. Jazak Allah 😊

[@NimraHamza-y2k]

Too good❤

[@abdullahjan9295]

Zbrdas dear sam asi baten hain jo sun kr buht heart hoi ke har dur se guzr gae ab tu lekin ane wale bachon keliye ye baten buhttt khas hain thanks for allh or thanks for iqra dear tumhari baten darect dil ko lagty hain ...or tumhari mazeda kahne b ma sha allah khush raho Ameen ❤

[@IshratKhan-rm5ty]

I totally agree with 1st point even I am thinking similarly I'm not married but ye experience se keh Rahi hu aap kisi k liye bht achhe banenge to ek time k baad jb aapko return na milega to hurt aap hi honge

[@bushrashafi403]

Very inform vedio

[@chandniparveen4837]

Thank you so much apki baton se advice se meri kafi tnsn realise ho gyi overthing krna bi kafi kam ho gya h😊

[@syedagazala2653]

Most points are right and need to be reemphasised regularly to keep us sane but probably everyone’s situation is different and so is everyone’s tolerance.Also even keeping difference and tolerance aside being repeatedly annoyed tests you to the extent where you do explode just like someone mentioned above so may Allah give us all Sabr and hidayat is all we can pray for.Aameen🤲🏻In such situations ye saari discussions dhari ki dhari rehjaati hain

[@NasirAli-pf2lc]

A. O. A dear iqra sooooooo helpful vlog such ma all points r so good I agreed k khud ko khud hi ehmeeyt deni parti ha ... Khush raho dear iqra

[@nasreensyed1633]

Loved this episode. Thank u so much. I always look forward to dil ki baat n all ur vlogs

[@muslimah98762]

Kuch nhi bht kuch helpful tha mai ek aise hi toxic jethani k saath rehti hun jiske harsh words seedha dil par lgte hai bcz unke bachhe hai or mere liye toh unke hisab se mai koi kam ni krti har cheez mai mujhe copy krna or phir mujhe ye dikhana ki unke aagey mai kuch nhi or bhi bht kuch lkn apki baatein bht motivate krti hai mai practice krungi ki inn points ko apni life mai adabt krlu or aise insaan se distance maintain krlo…

[@ShakilHashmi-d2k]

AP ki advise bohat achi hay plz Dil ki BAAT continue rakhain lots of love ❤

[@saimaiqbal889]

Mere kuch questions hai, please i hope aap answer karengi, 1) Agar in laws wale baar baar apke parents ke baareme aapse bura bhala kahe aur aap react karein ya parents ka stand lein toh wo toh aur zyada bura bhala kehne lagte hai tab kya karein? ignore karein? ya jawab dein😢 2) Husband hi miya biwi ki beech ki saari batien apne gharwalo ko batate firein aur chugliyan karein, tab kya karein?😞 3) Husband se detach rehkar kya rishta survive hosakta hai?😔 4) Ladkiyon ko sasural me chup rehkar sari nonsense sunna aur ghar me peace maintain rakhna hi sikhate hai toh bhi inlaws iska galat fayda uthakar aur zyada kuch bhi aakar kehjaate hai, toh girls kya karein?☹️

[@IqRafatima225]

Bohot achi batian api Hamesha ki tarha or Han in baton pr Amal karne ke bad hy zindagi me sakoon hota hai 👍🏻❤️

[@Nzee2002]

at the beginning everyone is so much in love thats why nothing made them upset and angry

[@ROUNAQUEFIRDAUSE]

Dear Iqra very useful suggestions Allah apko khush rakhe Ameen

[@zunairabukharii6855]

Soo much help full apii I'm getting marriage soon inshallah and this vlog is very helpful.. love from Pakistan.. hmeadha kush rhain auur acy hi mjhy acchi battain btati rhain tysm, 💞

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[@AnsharahArtWorld]

Wow iqra zaberdast ❤boht accha laga aap ki tips sun kr God bless you 😊

[@sanatabassum4385]

Main ye sab kar chuke hoon 😢 but Alhamdulillah ab sare toxic logon se door hun ❤

[@SabainDelhi]

Best vlog.....👏👏

[@sanajaved7917]

Very nice and helpful log. ,,by the way MashaAllah apke hath boht pyare he❤

[@IqrainLondon]

Haha really. Thanks ❤️

[@misbahasghar7272]

Very well spoken iqra Baji jazak Allah Khair stay blessed ❤❤

[@NainTara-lt8gc]

Nice words ❤❤❤❤

[@syedaparas3781]

beautiful explaination❤

[@tahaseenbanu703]

Superb Advice mam

[@ShahinaChhipa-u7h]

Veri nice 🎉🎉🎉

[@faizakhan849]

Very nice full video is very helpful thanks for new information about life very good sister Allah aap ko khush rakhain Abad rakhain bohat intezar rehta hai aap k vlog ka

[@saistamalik4811]

Bhut piyari bate batai h

[@moaaviach3575]

Nice Dil ki batain ki hn AP n

[@qudsiawaqar9151]

Precious video

[@ReenaYadav-11]

Your channel is growing day by day

[@saminakousar8659]

Superb points

[@sadafrafiq5006]

I agree with you .. cmpletely... Kyuki aesa ni h ki sasural bura he ota h.. har sasural kisi ka mayeka ota h.. har bahu kisi ki nand oti h.. agar aap dil me bilkul dushmani bhar he jaoge sasural ke khilaf to poori zindagi sirf jung ban jayegi...

[@shabanasayyad4741]

Just do everything for sake of Allah n forgive for sake of Allah.... Love n hate for sake of Allah.... Give best for the relationship n if required quit the relationship also for sake of Allah.... Many women i have seen just because of society pressure they live with physco partner too... So divorce when it is must shd take divorce instead of ending the life with depression..... In some cases divorce is also ibaadat.... Plz hear nafisa pearl video... Best counselor in relationship from all aspect....

[@inoxent4]

Im 21 years old And Mri Shadi jab be hoge but mjy Yeah sab BatYn bht Achi laGi❤

[@ZonaMahi]

I don't know why hr koi Asia kehta hai bs smile kren ignore kren is se sb theek hojayega, mgr real mai Asia hota hai mere sath Asia kbi nhe hua jb mai single thi to meri frnds mere relatives meri khamoshi or kindness ka faida uthate the Bht zyada. Phir Maine khud ko change kya bht zyada kindness chor di thora dimagh se kam Lena shuru kya han kyu k us waqt mai single thi mjhe zyada problems nhe huin sb acha hoga ya. Ab aajate hain in lows pe jb shadi Hui yahan mai khamosh rehti thi sb ko smjhne k lye. Sb ko smjh ek se derh saal lga mjhe ye smjhne mai k ye log is trha k hain k agr aap khamosh rahoge to ye or satate rahenge jb tk aap khamosh rahoge ye mazeed satate rahenge or JB tk sataynge JB tk aap Jawab nhe dete or JB Maine Jawab Dena shuru kya to ye log aahista aahista apni line mai rehne lage it means k hr family ek jesi nhe hoti kuch log aise hote hain k aap ki khamoshi aap k lye museebat BNA dete hain to hr kisi ko ye advice na den k smile kren khamosh rahen or sb theek hojayega. Hr kisi k sath Asia nhe hota hai.

[@Bosslady1_]

Smile to mam iqra ti last mn bola hai use phely kiya bola? Phely 4 point apne skip kar diye,? Wo yahi to keh rahi hai k starting se hi ap real ho jayen! Aur apni limit's sab ko btaen? Ap ko ye acha nahi lagta , is chiz ko mn ne bardasht nahi karna? Apki hi ghalti hai! Beshak ap specs mn rehti lkn har bat pe chup ho jana? Ye apki hi ghalti hai😊

[@ghazalaakhter7853]

Very true reality is important and tarbiyat

[@fizashazadi-u6t]

amazing🥰🥰🥰

[@LivingwithAsra]

Beautifully explained Iqra! I love the way you talk ❤️ Stay blessed 😀

[@roominakhan5399]

Excellent and beautiful video

[@EmanEman-ii5ih]

Kabab ki recipe baray mazy ki lagh ri

[@asiyakhanum9084]

Thanks a lot for such beautiful advice. May Allah bless you. Be happy. Keep sharing your knowledge this will be a sadqa a jariya

[@RafikGhanta]

You are my inspiration ❤❤ love you Aapi ❤hamesha sukoon me rahi🤲

[@munazajabeen9845]

Also that she sincerely helps you at your time n kids ko n involve her in some small stitching Buisness where she will be buzy n feel her self positive n productive

[@arsalansaba2696]

Beautifully explain ❤

[@sanakhan-db1pt]

Very nice !!completely agreed 👍...❤❤

[@NadeemAnsari-iv7kl]

Vere good ❤❤❤

[@mehwishkhalil5073]

Zabardast vlog ❤❤❤ I have learned a lot from your "Dil ki baat" series JAZAK ALLAH KHER ❤❤❤

[@ShahidaRafi-b9p]

Kia bat hai je app ki

[@asfiyamudassirp8938]

Mashaallah I love your vlogs really love ur vlogs am very happy aapka vlogs Dekker mere dil khush hojata hai

[@snowydurrani3094]

Thank u for this video I really needed to hear those points

[@AyazBepari-vj6so]

Super vlog Iqra mind fresh ho gaya

[@ishfaqshinwari9755]

Mashallah aapkey vlogs sey sakoon milta hai bilkul sahi bhatey ki meyrey Saath boaht eysa Huwa hai but aab aapkey vlogs sey kafi aacha seekney ko milta hai bohat khosh rahey Allah bohat jhald aapki guod abaad karry aamin

[@HomemakerMehak]

Very useful😊 zaberdast 👌

[@sitwathabib6026]

Iqra ap b muskurati rahain

[@nidavaqar]

Bhut behtreen baat kahi aapne❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@rafiaafzaal503]

Well done ❤

[@RafikGhanta]

Thank you Aapi ye video banane ke liye ❤ese videos aur banao please ❤❤

[@sanji546]

I m dealing with extrmeely toxic relatives

[@syedayazuddin9939]

Found everything useful ❤

[@ghazalaakhter7853]

Enjoyed your vlogs always

[@WarpPortal-j9s]

Very good information Iqra didi

[@ArshiyaSabaARSHIYASABA-ui8wf]

MashaAllah very well explaned❤

[@syedamaryam320]

Best video iqra loved it ❤

[@LUXEcarsx]

Assalamualaikum wa rehmatullahi wabarkatuhu Allah har aurat ko sabar seh nawaze ameen.......

[@Noor.e.mustafaNoor.e.murtaza]

Greatttttt

[@izzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz]

welldone

[@husnaqureshi6390]

Love your vlogs ❤

[@silentnature2744]

Very nice iqra ❤

[@Munizaanwer]

Jitni b boundry set krlo kch logun ko farq nae prta wo tease krty hi krty hain

[@noumanasarwat8678]

Kuch log aap ki life mai aate hi isi mind set ke sath hai ke wo aap ki boundaries cross kar ke aap ko trigger kare aur jub insan react kare tu victim card play kare khud ke lie.

[@marymanovlogs]

Asslam u alikum everyone ❤🦋

[@ikraarizwan9276]

Waaah !!!! ❤❤❤❤❤ Kitni khubsurti se Samjaya hai Aap ne Allah apko khush rakhey Aameen aur Apki har jaiz khuaish puri ho Aameen Suma Aameen 😘

[@NaziaMughal-pu9yf]

💯 right

[@muskanmusharrat9634]

MashaAllah😍

[@TarannumParveen-g1t]

Nice 👍

[@rainforest1983]

Toxic ppl exist and in families relationships colleagues work everywhere. Simple stay away n add boundaries. Space is so impt. No1 can cross ur space. Back home.culture has ntg abt space n here we see the ppl do care abt space n place boundaries . Joint cultures r not healthy not even islamic ie for married couples. But end of the day these r struggles and we r tested so we can make dua. U r right best version, destroys self personality altogether sadly. Its the fact. Once u come out out of toxic life or marriage then u will see u lost urself!! And sadly doing good is good but ppl take advantage of ur goodness and only reward is from Allah. Even if it is not pretending..ppl dont care how much u do for anyone!!

[@farheen831]

Happy 52k❤

[@bluesky9561]

Love your vlogs ....

[@Justthisway20]

I really like the 4th and 5th point 😃

[@SyedaAffu-m8c]

Ye vedio sirf married life ke liye nai hai iqra di haar ladki ko use hote haar conditions me..best best vedio banai ap ne ..aur vedios ke liye wait kar rahi hun aur na di ap audio aur vedio dono b ache hai kis pe dhyan dena samaj nai aaata..isliye mai haar vedio two times dekhti hun.. 😅 ye read karke hasna maat di ap

[@deenkibaatein1277]

🎉🎉🎉

[@saimmaakhtar]

Salaam Iqra, as always amazing video. I wanted to suggest a book for you to read "Reclaim your heart" By Yasmin Mogahed. I think you'll enjoy reading this book unless you have already?

[@ZuniIbiVlogs1]

Exactly😊