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@AB-bc9tf2 жыл бұрын
Did you know you have an imposter commenting on posts from your subscriber base? They have the same image and profile name as you do but they clearly aren’t you.
It just happened to me with two different numbers.
@AB-bc9tf2 жыл бұрын
@@sscales70 yeah it’s the same account name and picture you can only tell because when you click the account they only have 1 subscriber. But they were giving fake generic prophesies.
@beefaye182 жыл бұрын
Yes....when a man is interested and wants to commit....he will almost get on your nerves with time n attention...calls n text 😂😂....he will want to take you OFF the market 💯
@motorbreath222 жыл бұрын
Sometimes.. smart men know to take their time while still moving forward.. your milage might vary
@Kmochixp Жыл бұрын
Sounds like my type of guy lol
@jenninemorel7693 Жыл бұрын
@AliSand Time; take everything slow
@Layla-hg4ux Жыл бұрын
@AliSand follow your gut, when u remove emotion, u see him logically, wait for a few months (6-12 months)
@royaleAnew Жыл бұрын
I finally can claim and approve this message I almost missed out due to my healing He makes me soft feel safe my input matters my feelings My breakup was 7/26/22 I 🙏🏾 I cried I dated but he was persistent for months He not my type but neither was the EX I AM HAPPY
@pamelabrown20282 жыл бұрын
I think when a man wants to commit to you his actions will show it!!
@valeriehayes930619 күн бұрын
Absolutely
@ladyindigo16492 жыл бұрын
A true man would not allow you to be in a position to have to ask him, 'What are we?' Therefore showing you that he recognizes your worth and value.❤️
@cherikacraver87882 жыл бұрын
🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
@AmbivalentAlexthymic2 жыл бұрын
Yes. I never understood why she kept asking me that but now I understand. She sensed my hesitancy no matter how good I tried to pretend it wasn't there. I am trying to become the true man.
@iamthereginatetteh3 Жыл бұрын
You know right!!!😅😅... What are we??😂😂
@gletsayaaasantewaa2793 Жыл бұрын
Exactly right!❤
@ronieg8526 Жыл бұрын
💯
@amandablakely2 жыл бұрын
I just pray a great man comes in my life who wants something real.
@amandablakely2 жыл бұрын
I know I'm a loyal, honest and trustworthy woman. I want the same characteristics in a man.
@redraider1658 Жыл бұрын
Amen
@kashmeersavanidivinehighpriest Жыл бұрын
Me toooo!!
@sally3024-h4c Жыл бұрын
Me too
@angelsonia63105 ай бұрын
Exactly.
@SugarHue8 ай бұрын
We broke it off yesterday. Had a fantastic, wonderful weekend together, I brought it up for the third time (after almost a year of talking and meeting 2 other times in person, we were LDR 4 hours ish) and he said along the lines of "lets keep moving forward, see where it goes" kind of thing. And I couldnt do it anymore. We broke it off back in August, and he came back because he missed me(same reasons, he was unsure/uneasy) and this was the third time he hesitated and I had to finally say no. I miss him terribly, but youre right. My husband would want to date me. This man had too many health issues/self esteem issues to commit.
@CrystalPhoenix19792 жыл бұрын
He is definitely willing to say he is your man. I know a lot a adults think titles are high school, but a man who wants to be with you is willing to be a boyfriend, fiancé, or husband. There is no confusion in my experience.
@iamgoddessoflove2 жыл бұрын
If someone truly wants you, they will show it through actions, how effective their communication is, their vibe, body language and how they treat you. If you have to constantly ask yourself if someone is into you or not, they act hot and cold towards you, then most likely, they're not! 💙KZbinr That Helps People Overcome Toxic Relationships
@raquelhaddi692 жыл бұрын
A man who wants to commit will if he is ready or not because if you’re not ready, you make yourself ready otherwise he’s allowing for another man to have a chance with you
@missbrandylicious2 жыл бұрын
This is right on time. I’ve been “dating” (and I use thy term very loosely) a man since February and it’s been nothing but confusion, chaos, hurt feelings, etc. I’m always asking, “what are we” and telling him how to treat me. I finally decided to walk away because I realized that he wasn’t serious about me, he just wanted to keep me for himself without any commitment. Over these wish washy men and can’t wait to find the one who’s willing to commit.
@rachellecohen41882 жыл бұрын
Good for you. Gives me inspiration
@missbrandylicious2 жыл бұрын
@@rachellecohen4188 stay strong. It’s hard. I went back and he treated me even worse. The day we broke up, and old flame reached out to me and has treated me like a princess ever since. YOU deserve the best and it’s out there!! I promise ❤️
@dimplesp4046 Жыл бұрын
I was in same situation. Thank God for Stephens vid and prayer and me doing the shadow work. I refuse to bring that toxic energy into 2023. Good luck ❤
@moonfish8229 Жыл бұрын
I was looking into at another dating coach ‘s video and it looks like in America only 20 % of heterosexual men are interested in long term commitment and /or marriage .The rest are basically wishy-washy types .😮
@missbrandylicious Жыл бұрын
@@moonfish8229 that’s very unsettling!
@corinadanielle872 жыл бұрын
I’ve been listening to you for a while Stephan while I was in an old toxic relationship, then single, and eventually met my other half who I am with now. He was serious from the get go and did every single thing you mentioned here. He gave us a title after the second date and said he wanted to only focus on us. And let’s get to know each other and grow etc. and that’s just what we did. There was no question if I was his girlfriend or not. He had no problem throwing a title on anything and I was mind blown because it was so rare to come across it! I was like is he for real? Lol but I trusted and was so happy I did! There really are men out there even in their 30’s that want to just live a peaceful life with a great partner. I’ve been blessed to the fullest and boy am I glad I got out of my own way while I was single and even when I was dating again in the sense that I really pushed myself to work on my flaws and change any bad habits I might’ve had. Hell it isn’t easy, but that along with POSITIVITY, is very attractive to a man looking to find a partner to build with. Loved this video Stephan! It was straight to the point and solid facts!
@missbrandylicious2 жыл бұрын
So beautiful ❤ hoping to find this one day
@LILIMAYLA2 жыл бұрын
Congrats!!!
@beatricebrighton86682 жыл бұрын
Love that for you 😻
@wendiparker9831 Жыл бұрын
Hi , you make a valid point , "am I glad I got out of my own way"...wise words...I have know doubt , my boyfriend gave us a title and 16mths later it keeps growing...!!....✌️🌟...
@bpheobus23 Жыл бұрын
I met a guy finally who seems very serious ! It’s a little scary but it feels right .
@flourishfullkreations22934 ай бұрын
VERY SCARY! I hope you get good & healthy vibes!! Trust the process & be comfortable with whatever the outcome is! You got this!!
@tatiannatierra3 ай бұрын
Right! A too good to be true type of feeling.
@EciMajic2 жыл бұрын
My guy was nervous about committing too soon because he had a previous marriage that was really chaotic and toxic. But he did ask to be exclusive, he did cut off all other women, he did delete his dating app within about a month. And then he made it official. He was just trying to make sure that he could trust his own judgment but he did make it known that he was serious about me before he committed. I did let him know that I was OK with us dating and deciding what we’re doing but I have a deadline on how long I’ll let something be in limbo. Basically if we are still just seeing each other and there’s no label after about six months, I will leave no matter how good it is. He made things official in about two but he pretty much considers us in a relationship from the day we met.
@sunkissed3352 жыл бұрын
🙌🏾💯♥️
@psofia1642 жыл бұрын
Same story here :)
@claritywellnesscoaching7682 жыл бұрын
So sweet. Sounds like a standup guy who is honest with himself and other people. 👍
@EciMajic2 жыл бұрын
@@claritywellnesscoaching768 he really is. I’m pretty confident this relationship is going to lead to marriage
@claritywellnesscoaching7682 жыл бұрын
@@EciMajic Wow. That is so awesome! But, it may be best to keep that under wraps as guys will be guys when it comes to these things. I always remember that episode of friends where Monica makes that wedding reservation like a year in advance and Chandler happens to hear the message on the answering machine when the lady calls! 😂 but, I am really happy for you and your guy :-)
@TheAttractionTriggers10 ай бұрын
*If you love someone, set them free. If they come back they're yours; if they don't they never were.*
@geministwin60745 ай бұрын
What if they come back only to have to let them go again....broken...hurt men are the worst.....
@julz77534 ай бұрын
if they come back to you, it means no one else wanted them!!1🤣
@Ashtarot773 ай бұрын
@@julz7753 🤣
@lifewithaja9112 ай бұрын
@@julz7753that’s not true you know how many people there are in this world? Please.
@GodHelpMe3695 ай бұрын
If a man makes you feel confused, he is wasting your time and eroding your self esteem! It's VERY simple: always judge a person by their ACTIONS, and you will never EVER be fooled by their words... 1. Know your value!!! (Do NOT doubt yourself.) 2. Take yourself and your worth seriously. You need to BE A QUEEN to be treated like one. 3. Don’t give easy access. Access to your energy should be expensive. 4. Do NOT only EXPRESS your boundaries. YOU MUST show them. 5. Always be ready to walk away. 6. Show that you are focused on actions not on words. 7. Have a healthy degree of skepticism. 8. You must be willing to say NO and you must be willing to lose the man, if needed. 9. Never EVER chase a man! A truly worthy woman, does not EVER chase a man. Giving the same energy that you're getting is key and if you don't like that energy then move on! NOW! It can be hard but that's when you need to choose yourself over the damn illusion/fantasy. A man who loves a woman will not ignore her, ever, period. So... If he ignores me I will step back and he will lose me. Simple. Simple. Non-dramatic and uncomplicated. I don’t, under any circumstance: play these childish-abusive-controlling mind games. I will only be with a man who values and appreciates me, and treats me as the Queen, I AM. (Daughter of the Most Hight; King of kings!) Because I am a beautiful and kind and divine and sexy and wise and intelligent and magical woman: who knows my worth. Period. Also, We create each moment. This moment contains, through my focus, both positive and negative... I can put my attention on what I lack, what I don't have, what traumas I do have etc... And, I can put my attention on the calm moment that I am in, NOW, the food I just ate, and the fact that my body is satisfied, the shelter I do have... (You get my idea!) Both are here... And now. For the sake of fairness, I will allow myself to cry my pains, in the moment if/when they come/arise, AND also acknowledge the beauty I still have in my life NOW. Pain? Yes. Suffering? Indeed. And, also: wonderous magical divine beauty. Blessings to you!
@sunkissed3352 жыл бұрын
Usually when you meet someone that person is a frequency match with your own... So if you're in the energy of uncertainty doubt and confusion for example... that person that you meet is going to mirror the same traits because you're a frequency match so it helps to make sure that you are the person you desire as your counterpart aside from all the other obvious aspects...
@Michelledianee2 жыл бұрын
I love that you understand this 🏆
@sunkissed3352 жыл бұрын
@@Michelledianee ♥️💯♥️
@aqua155052 жыл бұрын
That makes sense
@victoriacaropreso15062 жыл бұрын
You’re a Good example that good men do still exist!🙌
@lisalambert818652 жыл бұрын
I haven’t found one in 57 years now, all the men I run across want hook ups and friends with benefits. I’m a relationship type of women.
@WinntersReaVenge2 жыл бұрын
Pray’n & Manifesting…Had to get my life together & at 47 I’m ready….5:45 was so me: I’ve missed out on some possible relationships b/c of it…Now making better & wiser decisions thank God…Breaking generational curses & teachings…
@margaret_yumi14492 жыл бұрын
Someone asked a guy the question “what are we?!” He’s response was “we are the world,we are the children” 😂😂 the Michael Jackson song
@bambi274 Жыл бұрын
😅
@racheltama9722 Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@ashton1952 Жыл бұрын
Classic 😂
@joyricherson4570 Жыл бұрын
😅😅😅
@beautifulqueen3887 Жыл бұрын
😂😂
@AkosuaFire2 жыл бұрын
I totally agree. There are MANY men that want committed relationships/marriage… ive had a couple express this to me but im on the fence… been married twice already.. 😩
@karinaz.91822 жыл бұрын
Yes I agree, I’ve met plenty of men who are commitment ready and vocalize iy
@motorbreath222 жыл бұрын
Sounds like you need help choosing men, should stay single til you understand yourself and what you need.
@Camiboo2 жыл бұрын
Can you PLEASE do a video on what an appropriate timeline is to go from dating to a relationship?
@KLAUD3 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for solidifying his behavior. I thought it was real for him. He constantly text me, call me. And wants to talk to me everyday, says its important to him. What a letdown that was.
@Dlachel492 жыл бұрын
Thanks!
@fosterjanine51122 жыл бұрын
You deserve a King, not a Scrub.
@beefaye182 жыл бұрын
Lol 😂 🎶" a scrub is a guy that cant get no love from me...hanging out the passenger side of his best friend ride....trying to holla at me" 🎶
@sunkissed3352 жыл бұрын
Absolutely... ONLY if she holds the stature of a Queen though 😏... she might be a scrub feeling entitled to a King 😆 Lol
@sunkissed3352 жыл бұрын
@@beefaye18 a scrub is a guy who thinks he's fly and also known as a busta 😂💯
@beefaye182 жыл бұрын
@@sunkissed335 lol 😂😂😂😂😭😭
@immaculate7845 Жыл бұрын
I am a single woman from the Caribbean. I am prayerful for an amazing man who is intentional for a committed relationship
@childofgodtv3903 Жыл бұрын
I’m Caribbean as well and God will answer your prayers!
@jessim4154 Жыл бұрын
My man told me very soon “one day I’m gonna be your boyfriend” he was so excited to have that title!
@tishaadams23662 жыл бұрын
I'm not there on dating yet. But I have noticed the different approach I get now. More mature, wanting to know me, and since of humor. I didn't at first cause of negative things I saw but now I'm believing someone is out there for me. Just being patient and humble 💯🙏. I continue to listen and take in every video I watch keeps me grounded. Thank you
@tishaadams23662 жыл бұрын
Awww. Well thank you you are very busy man and I see that. But I thank you for your guidance I've come a long way and I pray that you keep doing what you do and be blessed with that woman God has for you cuz you are a blessing to everyone ❤️
@nataliatorkhova87932 жыл бұрын
Stephan, this color is so beautiful. Looks fresh.
@RhondaR42 жыл бұрын
This is really good!🔥 I’ll know if he’s the right one! There will be a spiritual connection!🌟THANK YOU LORD IN ADVANCE!🙌🏽 Thank you, Stephan for being the light in the darkness! You’re very much appreciated, respected, and loved more than you know! GOD BLESS YOUR HEART!🙏🏽❤️
@katewieliczko952 жыл бұрын
I love you Stephan for spreading the knowledge. Awareness is the 🗝️ to a healthy relationship. Men are learning Amen. Women are learning Amen. We are growing because of your work. Thank you God for Stephan's teachings.
@jajoseph232 жыл бұрын
Clarity and Peace.... Thanks for this information 🙏🏽
@sakatherinejohnson2 жыл бұрын
Casual/fwb/friend zoned is not an option for me any more....a title is what I want and I don't want to wait for him to figure it out. He could be holding me up from the one that does and is ready and okay with a title.....Is this topic on the level where I can initiate asking him "can we make us officially romantically in a relationship? "
@glendasparkman1211 Жыл бұрын
I totally agree people's believe Social Media put too much inferences on Negative thought's. Materialism plays a factor as well .They often look certain couple's assume they having going on. Want to be them. Peoples never tell all ❤
@nicolemaxey58012 жыл бұрын
I gave up on men a long time ago. I’m very happy. Being single I get to date myself. Lol
@sadiefrazier9314 Жыл бұрын
I just started back dating....and when I sta it's scary cause I wonder how we're going to end but at the same time I'm not worried about because at the end of the day I love me and I great being along if God has that plan for me
@nicolemaxey5801 Жыл бұрын
@@sadiefrazier9314 Hallelujah
@judyperri9496 Жыл бұрын
@AliSand 😂😂It’s better
@livefromtheground7274 Жыл бұрын
Why are you here? Just curious
@nicolemaxey5801 Жыл бұрын
@@livefromtheground7274 Hey I put lol. It’s a joke.
@photina782 жыл бұрын
When you say, "You deserve..." let's please keep in mind that there are quite a few bad women these days, who don't deserve a good man. Such women need to focus on improving themselves morally, emotionally, spiritually, & intellectually so they can be worthy of a good man. A great book is "Being A Woman: Fulfilling Your Femininity and Finding Love" by Dr Toni Grant.
@godsgirl72012 жыл бұрын
True
@nofybn77942 жыл бұрын
No, there is not quite a few bad women. There are very few any bad women.
@nofybn77942 жыл бұрын
@@godsgirl7201 NOT TRUE.
@sonyaellis2059 Жыл бұрын
AMEN 👍 I Totally Agree With You On That Advice. 💯🙏❤️🌞🌈🌹
@redefinedliving5974 Жыл бұрын
Nuances are so lacking in this influencer culture
@lucybraun8969 Жыл бұрын
It's not so much about whether they say they commit, but whether they keep their commitment. Most don't.
@IM-uh5tk2 жыл бұрын
Video starts from 1:58
@mn9120 Жыл бұрын
0:13 Steve, you are a blessing for the womanhood of this world.
@claritywellnesscoaching7682 жыл бұрын
This guy is just so good. If I ever want a dating coach, I am definitely going to seek him out! Not sure if it was in this video or another one, but too funny when he was like a lot of women have been contaminated by this advice to find a man who loves them more than they love him. So true, and I always thought that was the weirdest advice!
@joyricherson4570 Жыл бұрын
Uh?
@loripeloso66783 ай бұрын
Your advice has saved me from a situation that was bad fie me. A man who didn't communicate. I prayed to God for a sign if he was right for me....the next day he texted me and cancelled in me ,,no explanation othe that I'll call you tomorrow. I was done, went to a picnic and net thw most wonderful man in sooooo many ways. I believe he was truly heaven sent
@cynthia596652 жыл бұрын
Yesssss so don’t walk on eggshells listen ask questions blessings to you MOG!🙏❤️
@raquelhaddi692 жыл бұрын
Don’t reply. He’s a fake
@PRINCE8-v8g Жыл бұрын
Listen up. ABSOLUTELY FACTS. I will say it loudly & be extremely joyful to do so. Real talk.
@dereckwallace1428 Жыл бұрын
I've watched almost every one of your videos. Excellent.
@fashionlifewilliams2 ай бұрын
He told me 2 days ago, that he’s content with me and happy with what we have going on. We both agreed to if we get into a relationship, then it happens. It’s an agreement between the both of us on what we want. No rush. I have to get to know you, ppl put on mask everyday just to get what they want from a woman
@luna_moonserene2 жыл бұрын
Please make a video regarding long distance relationship 🥺❤️
@princess2772 Жыл бұрын
Gosh I would be so interested. Because am in one right now
@Verdeoxid Жыл бұрын
Thanks for your clarity ✨
@conniewesley4296 Жыл бұрын
Just ran across this video ❤. So thankful for having a secure and loving man. Relationships are never perfect, however communication and compromise makes awesome sense without having to take from your own individuality. No title can make you happy 🎉
@deborahandrews26742 жыл бұрын
Where are they? Stephan you should do a mingle & meet where th the men when want us!
@G.Skrebutenaite2 жыл бұрын
Where are these men? After two toxic relationships, I don't know anymore if it exists 🙏🤔😐
@JeannieB3332 жыл бұрын
Hey, thank you for this! How about when dating someone for five months and you have "the talk" and he's like, we're going to have you move in together within a year now and then get married... And I'm like, whoa, I just want a boyfriend. And a good one at that. LoL. I just think he was emotionally clueless when it came to dating. That's what I get for dating a divorcee who was pulled through the ringer by his ex. I still scratch my head at this, though. He acted so interested for a commitment phobe. I finally let him go. Bye Felicia!
@sylvievachon1020 Жыл бұрын
Were exclusive. Been 3 months and I'm okay with no labels. We're getting to know each other. Taking it slow but our commitment is to each other and see where it goes .
@sandramichaud80332 ай бұрын
Love your presentations. So true.
@mijezuta88862 жыл бұрын
Thank you for a good and a short video, but with enough information!👍🏽
@achieveandglow Жыл бұрын
Thanks for this valuable information!
@lyndacreeley95362 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your Insight, Stephan 💯👍🏽👏🏽
@tianiemitchell5692 Жыл бұрын
Yes men don't need to tell other people what they're doing, especially other men. Because they're raised to look masculine they have to look masculine regardless of how sensitive they are or they'll be afraid that others will look at them as less masculine or manly
@lilane24002 жыл бұрын
What about a long distance relationship? We can't see each other very often but will meet from a far distance but it's hard to say what will happen because the distance makes it difficult to be committed to know the future because it would require a move across the world on his part but he talks like he really would like it to work and gives me a lot of attention, is going to visit me as often as he can, and says he loves me. But due to the distance and not actually being together in person he doesn't say officially that I'm his girlfriend. Also he's in college so he has to finish before he can make any longterm plans but hints at the future. Or is it still the same thing as mentioned in the video, regardless of the distance?? Please answer I would appreciate it!!
@joyricherson4570 Жыл бұрын
I'm in one now AFTER I SWORE I WOULD NEVER AGAIN 😅😅.I will say that even though it's long distance, everything is still the same. I was informed of his intent the first conversation. He made it clear that he was looking for a wife and anything we do or discuss will be for that purpose. He asks sooooo many questions about me and I love every bit of it. He told me it's VERY important to meet his pastors. I was like great because you have to meet mine too. When I say meet I mean online. We decided to keep us private for now which means we only told our pastors our parents and a few close ppl. They have agreed to pray and cover us. Then as time gets closer we will announce our engagement.
@jerseygirl615 Жыл бұрын
Back in the day we didn't have bo question or discuss titles. It just happened.
@jessicablanks17502 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the reassurance IM ST MY END WITH SACRAMENTO MEN BUT AFTER WATCHING THIS IK THERES A MAN OUT HERE IN AMERICA WHO IS WORTH MY TIME❤
@SocialwithRocki Жыл бұрын
I think it’s about your individual situation… we don’t specifically have a title but we are absolutely committed and planning our future all the signs are there the words aren’t there… for example how do you looking going from marriage to a “boyfriend” we committed and loyal and not dating others and that’s that … Great segment
@SocialwithRocki Жыл бұрын
Edit: you can have a title and no commitment Pay attention to actions and clarity
@tiffanyl.sanders14732 жыл бұрын
I’m not afraid to ask those questions..❤
@stephanSpeakss2 жыл бұрын
Thanks For Watching ) Be Part of My Success Today.For Questions Guidance's, Ideas & Support Anytime, msg me 👆👆.😅🎉❤
@giggles27722 жыл бұрын
Thank you Stephon. I really needed to hear this.
@C2Different Жыл бұрын
A girlfriend of mine just asked her boyfriend that? I kept quiet 🤐 because I know he was not serious 🧐 because she had to ask🤓
@mistysutton4635 Жыл бұрын
What is the acceptable amount of time a woman should expect a guy to put a title on the relationship?
@karengates9252 жыл бұрын
Stephan thank you for being a beautiful human being
@narviaflournoy38692 жыл бұрын
Wow this is pretty good, thankYou🍯🗨🙏
@PitikniAngga Жыл бұрын
This is a lot of learning. Great👌
@starseed484 Жыл бұрын
Another great video 🌟 Thank you!
@lynettenorwood2864 Жыл бұрын
Absolutely rite thank you 🙏🙏😊
@lucybraun8969 Жыл бұрын
I don't know a single woman who is a fan of serial dating. They (we) all want a committed relationship, and don't want to play the game of how other men are interested in us in order to keep our man focused on us. It's more like "you and me, exclusively."
@tonewilhelmsen2425 Жыл бұрын
Oh, I know a woman that has a harem of men.
@maryannroach64002 жыл бұрын
Well 7yrs is too long
@renoaczhary12327 ай бұрын
Thank you for this❤
@FearfullyandWonderfullyMade1392 жыл бұрын
Thank you Stephan for bringing me hope!!!
@sylviap.4917 Жыл бұрын
Great video & great advice!👍
@jajoseph232 жыл бұрын
Being vague or "why do we have to have this conversation again" 😏
@mekaelaknodt11232 жыл бұрын
If a man really cares about a woman, then his actions will show it. Example: If it were reversed and I was a man who was interested in a woman and I knew that she doesn't prefer to meet me online, whether it be a dating app or a channel such as yours, I would be willing to find another method to contact her. Obviously in this case we would already have met and seen each other, so we would know where each one lives and enough about our lives. If need be and I cared about and really loved her, I would be patient and wait for her to move to my town and state when she would be able to do so. That is if I were a man. Even though I am not I would respect his wishes on not wanting to communicate online and would be patient enough for him to come to me if need be. If we truly are meant to be together, then it will happen somehow someway, not because of someone else trying to make it happen
@justkeepingitreal10072 жыл бұрын
Eye opener! Great tips!
@jayc57562 жыл бұрын
EXACTLY!!!! We are not you ladies...if we're genuinely interested in you...you won't run us off or turn us off if you show us interest or whatever. We will only run off if we see something negative in you that we don't like. Simple as that.
@Womenswell0222 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much
@Michellemybell7392 жыл бұрын
So Jay I have a question for you. What do you think is going on with a man who is in a committed relationship with a woman long distance-started out seeing her once a month, buying groceries or food for her when he’s there, paid a few of her bills, gave her money for recreation with one of her friends, paid to get her lawn cut, took her to several family events, bought her a $300 bracelet for Christmas BUT did not spend Valentines with her because he said he’d texted n called and he didn’t hear from her. Also took her on a 3 day vacation with him and his family in May, came and spent Fourth of July with her and her family even surprised her with a new bbq grill and gave her $200. Her birthday and his birthday rolls around in August he did not call or text her nor give her a gift for her birthday. She had to text him he talks to her for almost an hour repeating the same song as after Valentines that he’d called and texted and she didn’t respond. To make a king story short there have been some phone issues between them possibly due to the 1 1/2 distance between them and he doesn’t work a typical 9-5 job he gets paid under table for doing odd jobs he has told her before that he didn’t like being around when he can’t do for those he lives and that he didn’t feel good enough and that he can’t be broke around her. All the while he’s talked of marriage with her asking her to set a date for them. She hasn’t seen him since the Fourth of July and got tired and frustrated and felt it was more to the birthday no show and the fact he keeps talking marriage but is not showing up to see her in two months. I know this is rather long but from a male POV what do you think? Oh yea she broke it off with him a week ago due to all this.
@mariposaswallowtail4410 Жыл бұрын
Because ur perfect
@jayc5756 Жыл бұрын
@@Michellemybell739 WOW!!! Sorry to be sooo late in my reply. I didn't see this message until now. It was a lot...but my guess was that he probably likes her...but may be entertaining other women...or another woman at the time. That's my guess. But idk. Lmk tye update on their relationship now...if they are still nor together or what. Thanks! Ttyl
@jayc5756 Жыл бұрын
@@mariposaswallowtail4410 I was gonna respond to you...but I now realize that you're just trolling. SMH
@queenbfamilyempire2152 жыл бұрын
Great Word!!!
@jayc57562 жыл бұрын
I haven't seen much impact in most of the women I meet yet bro. But we will see.
@luvingmerevivedandblessed8520 Жыл бұрын
? Jay. I see you chiming in here do wanted to get your thoughts on this...Boyfriend is 2hrs away and I felt the need to ask him what are we..he said Im his girlfriend but I hardly see him now and he seems to be stingy. I have never brrn a matrrialistic person but I asked him to cash app me just to see if he cared to do it but instead I got sent a song. Smh Lol..am I wrong for thinking he isn't that into me? Btw been together 2yrs all together after 2 break up
@deanj88702 жыл бұрын
It's tight but it's right 👑 📖 🙏🏾
@melaniehubbard3646 Жыл бұрын
Thank 😊 you Stephen ❤️.
@sugerlipsxjamiewright4170 Жыл бұрын
If someone wants you know ! you don't Need a sign . For its made clear but it must have balance both must be reading from the same page . I feel if you are first happy with in then I believe it naturally follows in retrospect you don't Need to try nor convince if they want to be around you .
@paulajohnson4202 жыл бұрын
Love it!!!❤️❤️
@AmgEnt1352 жыл бұрын
💯🎯 once again Sir.👑🔥🔥🔥
@christinefoster91772 жыл бұрын
That’s amazing!
@renettagordon1717 Жыл бұрын
Good afternoon Mr. Speak ❤
@raquelgarcia9000 Жыл бұрын
Not jaded but I’ve been love-bombed before. It’s difficult to discern at times who’s showing genuine interest and thus keeps pursuing me (calling/text) vs who’s love-bombing you for his narcissistic desires only
@cavgrey8 Жыл бұрын
Agree. How do you tell the difference?
@tarajane9783 Жыл бұрын
I have been in a narcissistic relationship and now seeing someone who is genuinely pouring in his energy. Love bombing is one sided they control the contact and texts they are only allowed to initiate contact don't dare disturb them. The relationship will flow at their pace not yours. Someone who is genuine will match your energy not control it
@wendyhlongwane81432 жыл бұрын
Dont you see.... 😄I fell for that
@ladygeeglobal2 жыл бұрын
This is really good but I've never had anyone I like ever show interest in even being friends. The ones I meet are already unavailable or committed. Or maybe I'm not meeting enough people?? I'm giving up 😭😭
@IevaKambarovaite2 жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry about this. I actually was in a situation where for years I got into a pattern of only attracting unavailable guys. I know it's not the same as men not showing interest towards you at all or just wanting to friend you.. But when I addressed certain things within myself, it made all the difference. I talk about some of it on my channel.
@joyricherson4570 Жыл бұрын
That was happening to me. I was told I was in the wrong kind of pond. That's where knowing you and knowing what God has purposes for you to do comes in. Knowing your purpose will help you to understand the kind of ppl to be around.
@kourtney101 Жыл бұрын
Good to know. 😊
@mariposaswallowtail4410 Жыл бұрын
He says he wants it but his actions don't match his words
@jeankoch43752 жыл бұрын
so true you are so smart thank you
@cashemaam3sh866 Жыл бұрын
I understand but everyone can't always be calm some things require noise because people be playing....AND I'M NOT THE ONE! ijs ❤️
@JanetMae-nr8yc2 ай бұрын
It not me
@ASMRechill2 жыл бұрын
What should be the steps once he tells me to keep on knowing each other to create a better bound and not to have a failure of relationship in a future because he’s not ready to have a relationship?
@danmeck59784 ай бұрын
What is boyfriend/girlfriend behaviour exactly?
@ramonaphillipsteach32842 жыл бұрын
Amen!! My kind of man. 🥰
@kathrynna112 жыл бұрын
You don't find them, you make them serious about you. If you show them you truly care and you show them you are poor and galant at the same time then you know they are for better or for worse.