7 Biggest Signs He's READY to Commit (and 3 Signs He's WASTING Your Time) I Dating Advice Mat Boggs

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[@chrischris9718]

1. Consistency 2. Open about finances 3. Raises his game 4. Does the work to make it work 5. Talks about future together 6. Introduces you to family and friends 7. More open and vulnerable

[@celeste6445]

Thank you 😊

[@laurenezayzay5988]

What if he has everything and going in trip together..and more.. but when he introduced me to his friends he introduced me as "his friend" not girlfriend... ??

[@joylalalove7069]

@@laurenezayzay5988 Sorry to say say but that's a red flag, so sus. It's better to talk to him about why he didn't introduced you as his girlfriend.

[@lindziep6319]

Woow 😮 all check about my bf he travels 20hrs just to visit me, he pays off his debt, his consistent, he already talk to his mom and bro about me and introduce to me, his planning a lot of things for our future 😊

[@lindziep6319]

​@@laurenezayzay5988thats one thing you should clear to him why are introduced as only a friend and not a girlfriend 😦

[@fionakarbel258]

Be aware ladies. Love bombers/Future Fakers/Narcissists do all of this too.

[@mommaddie4316]

So true. I got that one. Thankfully, I'm leaving him soon!

[@maceyr.6583]

True!!

[@rayveti]

True!

[@if7363]

Log doesn't burn on its own, i.e. one got to look within self first. If you attract toxicity, look within yourself for what's to heal there.

[@neetusinghalsureka7738]

@@if7363it’s really true, Byron Katy says the same. I gone through with inner child healing and womb healing by psychotherapy to heal myself First…. Not to attract Narcissistic Personalities. Narcissistic Personalities are wounded inner child came with bullying at childhood, rejections and ignorance or not handling well by their parents. Narcissists are spiritually innocent they need healing instead of hatred or more rejections. You can heal Narcissist so easily within no time almost. But one needs to heal themselves first. ❤Only love is Real ❤

[@AndiRuby-vd1vr]

I've been seeing this guy for about a month and initially wasn't 100% sure how he felt about starting something up with me. But he loves to travel and is constantly talking about places he wants to take me: the beach, parks, his favorite hiking places, etc. And hearing him talk like that just makes me feel all gooey inside 😊

[@mayohsetsuna]

We’re both divorcee’s who went through same major love bombing/manipulation in our past, so we try to take it slow even though we are both so passionate about each other. All of the things listed in this video are all happening at varying degrees, seven months into the relationship. He even Freudian slips sometimes that we’re married or that I’m his wife, and I can see the embarrassment in his face when he catches it. I think thats a telltale sign he’s fully committed to me in his heart of hearts. 🥰

[@josephsierra2760]

Alhamdulillah. Almost the checklist he was did and keep on track. I pray and hope, we are fated to be together. Ameen 🥰 Thanks Matt 🙏

[@engineerh.alnabulsi4863]

Signs rthere so lets see

[@janronk6360]

I noticed he starts taking my friends into consideration and wants to know when they’re going to be here and wants to know how close I am to them. I’m not talking about old lovers, etc. I’m talking about friends girlfriends you know couples. Also, he will say, why are you dealing with that person? You know that person upset youit’s kind of a protective thing that he does between me and other people. That’s what I know this man is ready to commit and I start asking myself am I.

[@Cha-q8r]

Hi Sir can I ask a question ,my man say to me why I am Not serious our relationship.what does it means?

[@kendrickjibson222]

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[@kendrickjibson222]

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[@celebratey]

Watching this I think I found the one🥰

[@lauraabad1007]

What if he makes future plans, he is open to do fun things, but his not willing to share the little things in daily life. He is not open emotionally

[@footyfan101ful]

Definitely not ready to blend bank accounts with a guy. I have student loans that I haven't paid yet (in Australia we can't pay it off until we work and the annual wage has to be a certain amount to start paying it off and it changes every year). I haven't started paying it off because I haven't been working and on social security payment. There goes my relationship with a guy.

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[@MelanieCollinsCC]

I'm in a similar situation. We are still moving forward, but keeping finances separate until my student debt is paid off.

[@LingtheAries]

Hmmm... no wonder he keep ask me what am i working as... but he doesnt really give me time(im not sure is him really that busy)

[@lb4lov]

I think you need to get your wife on here to help ladies set what their wants and limits they want in a relationship. She sounds awesome!

[@paulinepotts9976]

Thanks for the great video. Just ended a 6 month relationship with a guy. First time since I lost my husband six years ago. I jumped in and after a few months opened my heart. In the end I ended it. I had a long conversation with him about us. He told me he cared about me , but never could say I love you. He also even after dating this man for six months, never told his parents about me. I am a Christian and believe that people come into your life for a reason. I know he was brought into my life for me to realize that I can love again. Losing my husband was the hardest thing for me to go through. We were married 30 years. But I know there is someone out there for me, and I will find him. Love watching your videos. Thanks for all the guidance.

[@arnoldleeflang968]

If somone woold say the love me i do noting whit it only if the show it true actions

[@rezotydnic]

I have no idea! Thanks for info. 7 signs he's ready to commit. 1. Consistency. -Texting.✔ Talking on phone.✔ Time spent with you. Test. Look at what is he prioritizing? 2. Open about finances. ✔Ask you about yours. ✔ 3. Raises his game. To be with you. ✔ 4. Does the work to make it work.✔ 5. Talks about future together. ✔ 6. Introduce you to his family and friends. ✔ 7. More open and vulnerable. ✔

[@von-marieoliva4827]

I have such mad respect for Mat’s wife! She sounds like a secure woman who knows what she wants and really helped raise him to the level of a loving marriage. That’s how I want to be.

[@HeatherNBell]

Thanks Mat, great video. The time sign was the clear indicator he wasn’t interested. His time and actions didn’t align with his texting and calls. I knew he wasn’t on the same page when he was unwilling to be inconvenienced in order to spend time with me. If there wasn’t sufficient time according to his schedule and expectation to spend time with me then it wasn’t worth the effort. So he wasn’t willing to do the work. I’m grateful he showed this very early, as it saved both of us lots of time. 🙏

[@beautylife310]

All makes sense. I know someone can be open about his past and emotions, cares about me, and enjoys time with me, but he is just not a type of man would commit, (due to fear perhaps). I moved on and we stay as close friends. I've learned, people connect at different levels, if it's not meant to be a relationship, it is ok. Enjoy whatever life offers and keep moving forward with my own life...

[@memj89]

Number 6: is so my brother. It doesn't matter if I already know the person he is seeing. He will not bring her around me until he is getting serious about her. The funniest part about it is everyone in our small town knows it. So people will ask me if I have met the girl my brother, is recently seeing, I said no. An they will just chuckle and go on about their business.

[@a1stbornunicorn]

I've been watching your videos for the past few years and have genuinely appreciated your advice. You really helped me navigate the dating scene through Covid after having a lot of time alone to reflect on my life and past relationships. I've been in a wonderful relationship with an amazing man for the past year and we moved into a rental house together last month. I'm still watching your videos and I can't describe the happiness of knowing my man checks all these boxes. I finally found him and I thank you for the help along the way!

[@secretshaman189]

Hi Mat: Love your channel. I think that a man's desire not be vulnerable or show weakness is not just taught, but there is an innate understanding in the world of men (a highly competitive world) that when you show weakness (to other men) a stronger male comes in to take your place, and gain the rewards of that replacement (i.e. the hunting group). Women generally will respond differently of course, but the trust levels need to be developed, as you say. Although most women I know prefer a strong male, even if they say otherwise. Most women need/crave security--again another evolutionary thing as they are quite vulnerable when pregnant.

[@deloreschism9171]

Great Advice to follow some men are ready to commit they will put you first make plans to be together and make a lifetime commitment with you a real man will not hide his feelings that is my Advice

[@Joisu121]

If a man has not introduced to family and friends, but told them about me, what does that mean? I feel like all the other signs are there. Would you recommend waiting for the man to suggest meeting family and friends? Regarding my family and friends, should I wait for him to ask to meet them? I do not want to seem like I am pushing the relationship forward. Thank you

[@yasamanshekofteh4599]

Mat, should I ask him when we’re gonna be exclusive? Or when to be committed? If so, when is it the time? It’s a simple thing but also complicated

[@annaokunkova8492]

My notice: 1) he is more open; 2) he is more writing first/ calling first; 3) he does unusual things for him

[@UrsaBella]

We live on different continents. Number one and number two are great. He spends money and we spend a lot of money on vacation once a year. We are getting ready to go on ur second vacation. The issue is unless we get married we can’t be together. It is impossible due to legal issues. We talk about any subject and I don’t mind to do a prenup. But I don’t know how to bring this subject up where it doesn’t scare him. He doesn’t mind to come here to live but it is not possible due to citizenship issues. He talks about our future all the time. We just don’t talk about marriage

[@robynedward125]

Great video in my case long story about it wasn't happy in something had been going on yrs no commication made myself unavailable for the guy and thought I met someone else and he wasn't what he seemed the one that was afraid to commit stepped up his game thought we were in something exclusive I explained I wanted a real relationship and I wasn't afraid to walk away and was tired of the way things were I think he realized he would loose me it seems much better we talk now sends sweet gifts on online. I can't take anymore games if you're sincere I'll give it my all if not I'll eventually move forward I don't know if I'll find someone on the level that we have? In a billion yrs when the emotional is there u either have it or don't it's rare to find I'm 43 so yeah I know about life and love. Great vid

[@quicknotesmedia9540]

My boyfriend gave me a Tiffany and Co T bracelet for my birthday and a Tiffany and Co matching TT diamond 18k white gold ring for Christmas. Does it mean he sees a future together? He says we’re in a serious relationship. He put the ring on my ring finger, but didn’t say what it symbolizes. Just curious. He loves me and he’s open and vulnerable. It took him 10 months to get to this point. He’s very masculine but is romantic and attentive to my emotional needs.

[@melissasmuse]

Hmmm I have had these things happen with someone who was a love bomber and had no long game. But he checked off a lot on this list. Almost every single one.

[@dashiajames1882]

-He extremely caring -His word align with his actions -He totally pushed out things to be with me -Not afraid to tell me how he feels about me & why - Not afraid to express his own emotions that aren't about me Loved your video. Now I definitely know what to look for when a man wants to commit. Keep the videos coming..!! Thanks alot

[@jeanl582]

I noticed any man who express emotional topics and being emotional very early stage of the relationship is most likely players

[@claudiapinheiro8457]

He did all these but I don’t know what to do bc I don’t like him like he do. 😫😫😫😫

[@DarlitaStephens]

I agree with all that you said regarding the signs that a man is ready to commit because I saw it 2 of the 11 men that I have been involved with. I especially like the analogy about the silent movie test. That really said a mouthful.

[@DavidJackson-r5c]

You nailed it Matt.. all this is in play right now..

[@carolinew9964]

Mat this interesting my check list matched this but we had a hurdle ie arguement or a need for discussion that caused us to sit and go back to a friendship. He wasn't willing to disuss

[@natalya9821]

Thank you. Subscribed. Hello from Moscow!

[@paulinendeti9143]

Hey Mat How can you know if he's ready to commit in a long-distance relationship?

[@lhynbornilla]

Been wanting to ask this question too

[@blackbutterfly7107]

Following

[@vickysharp202]

1. He will be consistent in calling and texting you 2. He will pirotise you 3. He will always carry you along in all his day to day activities. 4. He will get to know everyone in your family, including your close associates e.g request for sibling's pictures. 5. He will make plans to come and visit you or he invites you over. 6.He will be vulnerable by telling you his deep secrets. 7. He will invest in you financially, emotionally, mentally. 8. He will ask you deep questions about your personal life. I can go on and on but am tired of typing 😆

[@TheYansc]

@@vickysharp202 thanks. Can you add more...I wonder

[@oluwadamilolaoriade5426]

Your video always useful for me

[@SilvX610]

Meanwhile my ex didn't even consider to move 60km away from his hometown to the nearby city i live in after 8 years of relationship

[@christinapauquay5603]

What if a guy talks about the future with his potential "girlfriend" just to manipulate her? Ti control her? How to distinguish both authentic and controlling men? Thank you so much for your videos and advice 😊🙏🏻

[@Dw3nG6K]

yes many men do that just to lure the woman in their bed, build trust, then basta.

[@EduardoOliveira-zx9ju]

@@Dw3nG6K In the words of Kevin Samuels: "Women MUST cater to high value men"

[@kimmyfitness_]

You’re my favorite relationship advisor Mat. Ive been watching and supporting you for as long as I can remember when your vids arent this high resolution yet 🙈 I have finally found the love of my life and we just celebrated our 2nd Year anniversary this year. He ticked all the boxes in your checklist. I visited Italy and His family came to visit us too here in Dubai. This year he wants to visit and meet my family. We started up a business too and I’m helping him a lot. He’s very open with his finances and investments and also asks about my opinion and Point of view. He even decided the names for our 2 children 😅 Such a sweet loving man. We have business goals to smash together before anything else tho. Thank you so much for all the lessons you taught me. My mindset changed since I met you and I value myself very high too. A lot of men are trying to still speak to me but nothing matters but him. I know he’s the one. 🙏🏽 Hope you’ll continue helping hopeful women like me before. All the best! Take care and your beautiful family ❤

[@pyromaniacist]

How to make him forgive me... And forget about my past... Begging you for reply...

[@whoami3021]

Any advice for women who don't want any relationship yet, but likes to allure handsome masculine men all around her?

[@Ptt1992]

The more i watch your videos the more i think men dont deserve the love from a woman. Why do we have to deal with those who live for their own pleasure and wishising for no commitment at all (80% of men)

[@ninaphommavongsy5016]

Thank you so much for your advice coach

[@ninaphommavongsy5016]

Ok thank you so much

[@kaylavanzant]

Can you share how you paid off your debt that fast?

[@Dw3nG6K]

Your wife should write a book ! :D

[@rietta1166]

Thanx Matt, u always answer my questions .

[@kathrynbrown1572]

Love this one! So helpful!

[@vixenlove6915]

I really need your help

[@panda_chocolat]

Love this video!

[@lamlight2579]

Thank you Mat............I adore the fact that you share all these important signs for relationship compatibility and stability...........thank you so much. I grew up in a very broken family dynamic but had a lot of loving people who filled in the blanks, but I have had many failed attempts at a successful marriage and need some tools as you share to see how these things work. In my defence my first love really betrayed my beliefs, the second was a cheater, my first husband was a cheater after 11 yrs and the second just didn't want to be married, but was a great guy and we are still friends, married 10 yrs divorced 19 now. I really am not afraid of being hurt now at all cause I have been on all sides, but don't always know the signs of men and commitment. I have 6 sons and raised my brother, I know about men but not in marriage I guess. Four sons have been married once a long time, one divorced, brother married twice but in a stable marriage now. I am not positive but think marriage as we know it is on it's way out. I am a minister and officiated many weddings in 20+yrs.........nearly half of those are divorced. I myself do not feel the need of marriage anymore. Just saying. Things have changed and thoughts and ideas about relationships have changed. But I am thankful for your thoughts and insights from the past beliefs.