A Big Decision Was Made!

[@AcreHomestead]

I want to thank BetterHelp for sponsoring today's video! I have been seeing my therapist for over a month now and it has been amazing benefit in my life. You can get 10% OFF of your first month with a licensed therapist through my affiliate link: betterhelp.com/AcreHomestead

[@sharonking9862]

I’m so proud of you……BetterHelp sounds great‼️ Therapy really helped me!

[@articowl2]

@@donnanorman340 BetterHelp reaches out to a lot of KZbinrs not just homesteaders. At least the ones I’ve watched. I think it’s awesome to make therapy available to everyone.

[@robgalen4369]

This is no hate to you or your channel; simply a heads up. I get that you have to make money and sponsorships are a big part of that. However, BetterHelp has recently been in trouble by the US government for 1) Not having licensed therapists even though they advertise they are licensed, and 2) selling customers' personal information including the personal info you fill out in that questionnaire and/or tell the worker in your sessions. This court case, which they were found guilty of doing these things, is easily found with a simple Google search. I highly recommend doing some research before agreeing to work with a potential sponsor. Especially one who gets access to a people's most private info about their lives and has been found guilty of selling that info to others.

[@user-pt4zy1ub1l]

So glad that you're finally getting the professional help you need!!

[@pj5883]

Thank you for your heartfelt honesty. I know many will be helped this. ❤❤❤

[@irishlovely8867]

Better Help is a scam-please do a deep dive before investing your time in them!! In a nutshell-2 class action FTC lawsuits violating HIPPA and selling client info to ad companies and other social media platforms; questionable unprofessional, (are they)licensed therapists, not covered by insurance, expensive, many personal horror stories just here on YT. The company’s response to law suits very blasé, not really taking any responsibility or accountability. You’re better off finding someone local, and gardening and touching grass will do so much more!!

[@crazyscenehu4l]

Came here to say this as well!

[@revens-j3k]

selling client info is unforgivable

[@saracrum1487]

Better help saved my life. 🤷‍♀️ but yes their price is ridiculous and selling info is absurd!!!!!

[@jaykaytherapy]

All this!

[@Nantuella58]

Becky, I'm going to say this to you because I feel like you need to hear it: don't let anyone make feel bad about therapy. I spent 13 years in therapy off and on for a dysfunctional family issue. I hate to say this but in order for me to retain my mental balance, I had to cut parts of my family out of my life, because they were part of the problems I was having. You do what you have to do to retain your mental balance. You'll make it, you are stronger than you realize

[@rondaperron2056]

I can't wait to see the glorious array of colours your garden will be.

[@meezermom1027]

Thank you for being open about your mental health. I’ve struggled with depression and anxiety all my life and highly recommend counseling. I’ve done counseling for 15 years now. It’s a gift for yourself.

[@Alwaysherethere]

It absolutely is!

[@daisykate1915]

Definitely up-pot your tomatoes! And when you do it, bury the plant as deep as you can. The deeper you bury the plant, the more roots will grow. I like to put my tomatoes in 5" pots, and they always do great!!

[@evelynjolliff2799]

N add egg shells

[@kimmyseegmiller985]

You always work so hard. Carrying us right along with you. We appreciate you, Becky. Thanks for inviting us along.

[@katherinelara1801]

Becky, I am so glad you shared your journey with mental health. And I am so proud that you found exactly the support you needed. You are what makes this community great. It’s your courage and sharing your day-to-day struggles and successes because most of us watching you have very similar experiences.

[@pamelar5868]

❤Amen to that!

[@sighthound5449]

My grandad used to blend one colour into another starting with say 3 rows of one then a row of the next colour…2 rows and 2 then 1 row and 3, it looked really beautiful like a wave of colours from one end to the next.

[@tracyroy9289]

Thanks for opening up Becky...I also visit a therapist (via phone call) for depression and anxiety. I also wouldn't go into an office so this works really well. Most people honestly would benefit from talking with someone 😊 love watching you garden.. also helps me 😊

[@debichats8634]

You have SO much energy! I know I’m in my 70’s but what I’d give to be your age again, knowing what I know now! I’d give anything to have a helper with your energy and knowledge to help me! It makes me sad to know I can’t do what I used to be able to, but didn’t know to do it…..I’d have more veggies and herbs going…..Keep going! You’re such an inspiration!!!! ❤❤❤

[@smollineaux7600]

Bravo to you for being transparent about mental health. That was super brave and your example probably encourages someone else to seek help. Thank you for taking that leap❤

[@sarahtrew9331]

I think uncovering your beds for the growing season and covering them in the winter is an excellent idea 😊

[@belindaalderson9341]

Good to hear you reached out. From your home is a good way.

[@beadwright]

Becky, i just bought a collapsible wagon with very wide tires. It would go great on sand, dirt, or your gravel paths. I love how versatile it is from going to the beach with all the chairs coolers and stuff to helping me bring in all my groceries in one load. It saves my back! It would work great in the garden too.

[@Agenda21Truth1]

She has a Gaiter but doesn't use it❗️

[@judybisbee5457]

A Irish blessing upon you and yours May your thumb be ever green and may your heart be ever light.

[@tamsenallana1777]

I am inlove with your garden beds...what a dream! Can't wait to see all your hard work come to full bloom ! Great job!

[@CottageontheCorner]

Here’s a thought, instead of just staking the landscape fabric down when you’re getting it ready for winter, why don’t you add some long two by fours over top of the edges this way the wind won’t be able to get underneath it at all

[@beverlybolden3401]

Your garden is going to be so beautiful. I can't wait to see it all in bloom! Your hard work doesn't only add to the joy in your life--you share your joy! God bless!

[@JanisKamplain]

i have been watching you for about a month and have enjoyed your posts very much from meal prep to canning and preserving, flower and garden preparations to harvest. You are a very creative and hard-working person. Thank you for sharing this with all of us watching.

[@rubydelack7993]

Becky , your plants look way better than anything I’ve seen in a Nursery ! Great job 👏 ! I can’t wait to see the finished results 😘

[@MJ-fb2zq]

I wish I had that much space for flowers. Can't wait to see all of it bloom. Thank you Becky. ❤

[@jenniferstafford1514]

I had a wonderful experience with them!! You go girl! I am super proud of you for speaking out and up!!

[@JAYNEmM1962]

Isn't that the truth. I just started therapy myself in the last month. It's amazing having someone to bounce your thought on.mine are on zoom as well. Becky is a pioneer!!

[@amberclemons-lopez7220]

Speaking to a therapist is a wonderful form of self care. They help us learn new ways to navigate our way in the world. I talk to my kids about my struggles with life so as they age, if they experience the same feelings, they will know it’s not unusual. Thank you for bringing it up!

[@Kim-cx9il]

Therapy is a gift to yourself! Be blessed Becky and family.

[@marysampson3551]

Pouring boiling water on your soil may have killed any bugs but it also kills the good nutrients. Might be why your starts aren't as good as last year.

[@julindahiggins1582]

My thought as well... Prepared soil mixtures come with nutrients necessary for growth and boiling water certainly eliminates a lot of them

[@Amanda-cn3pk]

100%

[@sharoncoon5439]

I agree. All the other garden videos I watch they use tap water and makes sure it’s not drenched. Just wet.

[@horseloverms]

@sakamoto5195use a very diluted liquid fertilizer to start adding feed back into the soil, i cant remember the exact ratio, theres a ton of good videos on youtube on feeding seedlings.

[@melaniecalderon8973]

​@@julindahiggins1582she doesn't use prepared seed starting mix or potting soil. She used pure compost.

[@MariaCosta-oy7cf]

Hello Becky. Love watching your videos. I'm always looking out for your new uploads. Thank you for letting us join you on your day to day journeys. Outside in your gardens and in your kitchen you are always a inspiration to try something new. Thanks. From Portugal.

[@AcreHomestead]

Thank you so much!

[@Niamh07421]

love the potatoes.on your window sill- I did this in the early 60's my kids did this in the 90's and my grands did this when they were in nursery school- all were planted over the years and we had many potatoes from them-

[@angelamayrose8931]

FYI you should open the BBQ lid before turning on the gas and pushing the ignition it can get a buildup of gas and blow the lid off completely speaking from experience .

[@robinvarnadoe8429]

Becky seeing your landscape fabric staples in your wheelbarrow, I was thinking if you had an old plastic coffee can you could store them in that. That way they would all be together and not loose, easier to carry when you need them.

[@AcreHomestead]

great idea

[@pisceslady3633]

I am so excited about your flower beds this year. I have rosrs in my garden and a teeny flower garden. Zinnias and dahlias are in my teeny garden as well as hollyhocks. I am so looking forward to yours growing! May I suggest you use straw mulch around your flowers. I have found it really helps with weeds as well as returning goodness to the soil and keeping the soil moist in our hot summers (I am in Australia and we have anything up to 45° celcius (113° F) where I live in Summer). I watch all of your videos and it inspires me, both in my cooking and my gardening. 😊

[@ShereeSchattenmann]

Bravo for getting the therapy. And for encouraging others to do the same. ❤ I’m glad you saved your plants. It’s always hard losing plants you start from seed and especially ones that take a while to grow! That snapdragon bed is going to be gorgeous! Happy Growing!

[@MJM8715]

I can’t wait to see how your flower garden turns out!!😊

[@edwinalawrence5518]

Can’t wait to see the glorious colour when all those plants flower. You’re amazing I’m so in awe of your ability to tackle such huge projects whether in the garden or cooking for family and friends or painting. Blessings from New Zealand ❤

[@momod7837]

Luv u Becky! Your comments about your sponsor were truly heartfelt. I wish more people would do the same. Hugs to you. And bc of you I’m trying my first raised garden bed! I’m super excited. Thank you for being YOU!

[@sheilalovesgreg3489]

Bless your heart, Becky! Getting help is the best thing you could do!

[@lisaconroy8689]

Thank you so very much for sharing about therapy for mental health. It is truly and encouragement and a support.

[@kristinbray6453]

Hey sweet friend, thank you for sharing your wonderful recipes and gardening adventures with us. I'm so happy that you found help and I'll be able to get help for my daughter who suffers from depression. Thank you Becky for sharing with us. Sending blessings to you and your beautiful family.

[@sherrikarlstedt6442]

Oh i am so excited for you! Everything is going to look so beautiful. God is good.

[@maureenhu]

OPEN THE LID WHEN LIGHTING THE GRILL IT IS DANGEROUS LIGHTING IT WHILE CLOSED.

[@laureemarshall3924]

Good morning! I love your snapdragon beds. They were my nanas favourite flower and she always had them cut on the table. She grew flowers and my grandfather grew the veg. Thank you for inviting us into your gardening adventures! God bless. 🇨🇦

[@Cathyluvsart]

I am so excited to watch your beautiful garden bloom and blossom this year.

[@therewillbecatswithgwenhwyfar]

32:52 I am so looking forward to seeing how these beds come out with all the flowers in them! I think next year I'm gonna take your inspiration and make at least one of my beds purely for the pollinators (and cut flowers!)

[@melindarains3130]

I absolutely love watching your garden coming along.

[@samsgardenproject]

Becky could you do a pre garden season pantry tour? We saw what your pantry looked like at the end of the growing season, would love to see what you have left before you start harvesting from the garden again and if it was enough for your family.

[@Cherokee1017]

Your garden is going to be gorgeous this year!!!! Can’t wait to see it all in bloom!!!!

[@TuckedAwayHomestead]

You are my inspiration to start posting again! Just recorded a video, and let me tell you I am so excited! Thank you Becky, you are genuinely, the sweetest human! 🫶🌞

[@roxananunez4238]

You will have a beautiful garden again this year ❤

[@brittarottel9999]

Hi Becky I'm already looking forward to the beautyful flowers you've planted 🌺🏵️🌸

[@bmarie73]

Good to see spring gardening happening. We got most of ours planted with exception to a few flowers. I enjoy watching you very much.

[@lisacornett9364]

Miss Becky, You are so right! You have had so much success with starting your own seeds that buying tomato starts if you have to is definitely not the end of the world. Your efforts have resulted in so many beautiful plants! You definitely have a green thumb. I also want to say that you are such a beautiful soul. Really...I mean it. Every time I watch one of your videos it brings me such peace and joy. Thank you for being you and sharing your life with us.

[@bethbleas8378]

Becky...an old guy on e told me to have a gentle fan running on tomato plants..strengthens them. Also bottom water!

[@pjam6142]

Thank you Becky. You made me feel like I’m not alone. Love your channel. I make your bread using my Dutch oven, I have been gifted many of the same utensils you use from my fabulous husband and I now garden in grow bags. I love growing food (although small quantities). So thank you. Still waiting for planting season here in Canada 🇨🇦

[@sandyfitchcorbett1782]

I keep visioning Clemitus vining up your arches. Perennial. After a couple of years it would look amazing. My folks had one vining up the side of the garage and it was a beautiful purple.

[@stevejodifaber5509]

I’m so excited to see how your garden looks as it grows and see the beautiful blooms!

[@jwyatt8609]

Hi Becky, just so you know. Just ordered 3 sets of strawberries from MI Gardener and tried to use your ACRE code for 10% off. Code would not be accepted at clout, so I called them. Man said they quit using that code and no longer honor it. Booooo! Figured you were not aware of this, so advising you. I hope my strawberries do well too. Hugs to you sweet lady.

[@TheSchnoodlemom]

I have to admit I have a little garden envy. Here in the Midwest we're still having frost at night. Usually in Mid-May I can start to plant. I started my tomatoes inside and went to put them outside the other day when it hit 70 and my pup decided she likes micro greens!!! Oh well, life happens. Looking forward to seeing your flowers in bloom!! Have a good day.

[@AcreHomestead]

oh no! I am so sorry about your little plants becoming snacks

[@SeasonedCitizen]

Cats like green snacks, too! 🌿🌿🐈🌱🌱🌱 While I was trying to save my flats of seedlings from a hail storm, my Meow Cow leveled 2 flats. Miss my Big Bad Boy every day in spite of his appetite.

[@Romans828girl]

Oh, no!

[@katehopkinsbrent5573]

I’m in southeast New Brunswick and our last frost date is mid May BUT never fails- the new moon in June gives us one last frost blast. EVERY YEAR and they call it a fluke 😄. I still plant out in May but time it so that they’re not like too big to cover easily in June. This year, I’m ground planting some things in my greenhouse , airflow with the windows and the doors should help regulate heat in there, a friend of mine said put your brassicas in it. 😯 Mist brassicas hate heat so I’ll stick to netting to keep the cabbage moths off.

[@freeinghumanitynow]

It's still freezing here in central IL but it's supposed to warm up next week. I can't wait!! I'm so ready for the warmer weather as is my Anemia.

[@juliespencer1164]

Wow the flowers will look amazing. Therapy certainly helps. xxx

[@darlenesgardenandhome]

Growing the snapdragon without the weed fabric is good, because the snapdragon can reseed and come back on its own next year. At least they do for me. I've never had to re-plant them.

[@marianbrinley4389]

I am so excited to see those flowers blooming! It will be a beautiful site!!❤❤❤

[@Beverley-s8i]

Thank you thank you Becky for talking about mental health. My daughter has struggled for years with her mental health. She watches your channel and has now decided to seek professional help. You are a star ⭐️❤

[@pamelar5868]

❤❤❤

[@gothicwilderness]

That is wonderful x

[@mosthighlyguided9089]

I’m sure up potting your tomatoes will help them.. they are quite hungry plants and after a while they use all the nutrients in the soil and that’s when they change colour.. you can also plant them a little deeper and they will grow more roots from the stem that will take in more nutrients and moisture.. I did this with mine after they was a little leggy and they look amazing now 😊 some good nourishment will have them bouncing back in no time 🙌🏽hope this helps ☺️

[@wandakelly2173]

You have grown so much Becky. I’m so proud of you and it makes me happy to watch you still.

[@laurawood4476]

Just got the last veggies , flowers and seeds in the ground this week .The irrigation system is ready to go . Moved 2 roses and planted a new one . Cut back all the dead twigs etc. from the shrubs berries . Always a bit frantic to get to that point .

[@tinaslouisianakitchen8963]

Becky, after your staples start rusting don’t throw them away. They work better to stay in the ground and hold your weed barrier down. They don’t slide out like new ones will do. 😊

[@dorisspecial3619]

I am amazed your nails look so great given you work with all the gardening & tools! ❤

[@AcreHomestead]

Thank you! 😊

[@bvvv.v.gdfffc2403]

Man I'm jelaous. I wish big long healthy blooms for your garden.

[@dannareusser4291]

You are the reason I started gardening. Ty Becky

[@teriharman566]

Your garden is going to be amazing. The flowers will be absolutely beautiful in there. I might use the landscape fabric this year like you do. Your garden is so productive, and I sure hope mine is this year. Thank you so much for sharing

[@belieftransformation]

Thanks for sharing your gardening, cooking & everything you talk about. That’s going to be a beautiful garden! Blessings to all 🤗🇨🇦

[@tonyaberes8957]

I had to start my tomatoes 3 times this year. But now they are big and beautiful. The first time was over watering the second I honestly have no idea what I did wrong. But the 3rd time I got the Burpee seed starters and I absolutely love them you just put water in the bottom and it waters the plants I also continued doing that when I up potted them last weekend with the cheaper trays from Walmart. I left a cell empty and just fill the bottom from that cell . It is working amazing. You are doing so great Becky thank you for showing us how you do things and if something doesn't work out, because it honestly helps to know other people have issues also and to keep trying. And you are so right we can definitely learn from our mistakes and not to give up. So thank you so much for all you are teaching me. I hope your tomatoes pull through. But if not you have grown over 300 snap dragons and a ton of peppers and all kind of other things you are doing amazing. Thank you again for everything you are teaching me.

[@hannahwhitehome]

Watching you is part of my therapy! I am unwell and can’t get out in the garden so I love to see you do it x

[@melissagammon9420]

Saving my visit with Becky until after dinner and dishes are done...going to be a great night :)

[@AcreHomestead]

Hope you enjoy!

[@Kristina-rs3pf]

You need to get a life 😅

[@jeanrichards8042]

​@@Kristina-rs3pfDoing what brings us joy IS a life, and a good one at that.

[@cherylehubicsak3070]

I'm watching as I'm tucked into bed for the night😴❤

[@sparklyjewlz]

I waited until my kids are asleep so I can give my full attention to Becky!

[@Shasta1]

I’m so excited to see all these flowers in the yard! I love flowers ❤

[@1114gg]

YAY for therapy! I'm happy for you, Becky. Self-care is the best care. ❤

[@carenal]

I use Vermont compost and do light fertilization with diluted agro thrive liquid fertilizer on my seedlings and they always are lush and super healthy when I plant them out.

[@julesgitu8287]

I have used better-help before. I am on maintenance therapy now just when I need it. It took 3 matches to finally get my fit therapist. I am so thankful to God for saving my life.

[@janetjones935]

Bless your heart Becky. You’re an inspiration to many people, and to share your story will undoubtedly help others. I always look forward to your videos, saving them for my evening time. Please know I’m praying for you, and thank you for sharing your life with us.

[@pamelar5868]

❤❤❤❤

[@Morse-t5z]

I love that orange wonder and the burgundy snapdragon colours. Beautiful! Re your tomato plants, maybe move them to the middle rack of starters under that other window. I think they would be warmer there away from the door being opened and closed and also get more light.

[@mamawise813]

I can SO relate to your hesitancy to go see a therapist. It seems like a daunting task to find the right fit. I am 3 weeks from my 60th birthday. Recently diagnosed with ADHD. I'm suffering terribly with grief of what could have been if someone had picked up on it many years ago. Women in general, especially in my age group are the lost generation with that diagnosis and treatment. I also suffer with GAD and C-PTSD. I've literally lived most of my life (since age 6) in survival mode or masked to feel "normal". Until recently... didn't even know those were a thing. Thank you for sharing, Becky. The method of therapy has had me in the rabbit hole for a while now. You have encouraged me to finally pull the trigger and check it out. I can't tell you how proud I am of you to share such private struggles. You and your videos are already therapy for many of us 😉, it can only get better now. ❤

[@michellesanchez741]

It’s like you are writing my story! I too will be looking for a therapist through this place as I’ve been down the rabbit hole too. Best wishes to you 🙏🏼👍🙂

[@stephanyandres5968]

"OH there's a sprout" as the camera can't quit pick out the tiny tiny green....the excitement is wonderful!

[@cheylingarber5886]

Becky I just want to commend you on opening up about therapy, it truly shows what a strong young woman you are and I am sure you helped others to not be afraid to seek help. many blessings to you my virtual friend ❤

[@emp71191]

I don’t grow vegetables. I do love to flower garden and getting my hands in the dirt. It IS therapeutic . I find your videos totally enjoyable. You are a delight to watch and so natural and honest. Thank you for your channel.

[@bambiroo918]

ITS PO-TOE-MACK BECKY 😂! Potomac.....Pontimack is creative though❤

[@tcapella70]

Hi! I really enjoy your channel i rarely if ever comment. Just a thought as i watch you plant in your garden. You have such beautiful garden beds. My thought is have you considered numbering your garden beds and keep track of whats in your beds that way? Just a thought. Happy Gardening 😊

[@AcreHomestead]

That's a great idea!

[@katherinelara1801]

With no intent to be snarky, I think Laura from Garden answer calls the snapdragons Madame (pronounced “Mad-damn” like the French) butterfly. However, I think will all plant names pronunciation can be regional or individual Keep up the fabulous work!!!

[@shawnmandrones5379]

So interesting! My tomato starts look like yours and I am not sure why??? I started them the same as I always have. I up potted them and put them in my greenhouse. There is evidence of some healthier growth starting. Hoping and praying from Ridgefield, Washington!

[@DonnaMSchmid]

I love your excitement when you see new sprouts! (I'm almost 70 years old, but still act just like you when I see the seed sprouts!!!) BTW, "Potomac" relates to an area near Washington DC and is pronounced "Pah-TOE-mick" (Just FYI!)

[@Christmasbaby51]

yes, an there were MADAM butterfly, not maiden. It just helps to be able to find a variety correctly...

[@shelliparker6528]

I purchased a green stock. When the special was running through you and the company. I’m loving it. Thanks for the discount. 😊

[@Bobbi517]

I also used the compost plus and my tomatoes didn’t do well either. The peppers, tomatillos and sunflowers did very well but the tomatoes looked puny. I finally planted them outside and they all look much much better.

[@lisakallunki5042]

I actually signed myself up for some local therapy this week. My therapist likes gardening and reading like I do!

[@AcreHomestead]

I hope it is helpful for you!

[@divav7]

I'm so happy that you're getting sponsorships now. You are my comfort channel and I'm so glad that you get to support your life and family by doing what you do. Thank you so much

[@HillbillyAcresSoapery]

Becky, can you give us an up close “tour” of your garden planner? I love your month to month layout. Have you thought about creating a PDF & selling it on your website? I’d definitely buy it!!

[@patlovato4073]

I have been with better help for about a yr. Very helpful. I do in in home also. I do it over phone call. Not cheap but worth it if u can and need it. So happy for u Becky thank u for being honest with all ur friends. ❤️🙏

[@Simplyinspried]

I have a flatbed wagon for my garden needs. You can get lot plants on it to carry to and from. Plus it is very useful to carry all your harvest up to house. With lot less strain on your body. Happy growing season Becky.

[@AcreHomestead]

That's a great idea!

[@pj5883]

Those wagons that fold up would be quite useful. Storage easy in grow room maybe❤

[@AB-ol5uz]

Gorillas garden carts are a huge workhorse. My 70+ year old mother loves using hers for all kinds of projects

[@MomoBar91]

@@AB-ol5uz I love them too. I gave my mom one with the quick-release dumping system and it´s so much easier for her than a wheel barrel.

[@lauriesylvia985]

I use my kids Little Tyke wagon, lol! My youngest is 33 years old…yes, I hold onto to stuff! 😂

[@bunnobear]

I just love watching you garden. Those petunias are looking lovely and healthy.

[@tmcook6161]

I can’t wait to see everything blooming!!🥰

[@jackiehorsley9263]

sounds awesome that you were able to get your flower starts out in your garden I was able to do the same I hope to see them when there bloomed out

[@emmyholmes780]

My busy evening, now that I'm home from work, is to fill up my grow bags with my soil, so I can transplant this weekend. Hope you're well Becky!

[@baileyyfaith]

I cannot wait to see the flowers bloom!!! 😍😍