A Black Man Made Another Black Man So Lost - Men's Reaction To It

[@lashawnw3870]

The latino man who said "if your mom worked all week and then came home and cooked and cleaned, if that didn't hurt you something is wrong with you!" That hit me hard.

[@chriseanrockshands2961]

Facts!!

[@tamikadurant294]

Right!

[@SunRiseEast365]

Nope men want programmable robots smh

[@SharonStar62]

YUP! Bless his heart , he definetly a real man straight from the ❤..

[@NoName-oe4gm]

Girl 🤦🏾‍♀️ That what I said….

[@illdoctrine9329]

He’s trying to channel Kevin Samuels which is his first mistake. His second mistake is pretending to be outraged.

[@DestinyUteh]

🤓🤓🤓

[@daughterofzion778]

Yes he better stop before he end up in the grave like Kevin

[@chriseanrockshands2961]

Facts! Lol

[@tamikadurant294]

Right! Trying to walk in Kevin Samuel shoes 😒

[@notaytguru8214]

Exactly! Down yo the glasses and the background 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@beasaroseco5840]

"We're a team" I like him! Need more like him.

[@DestinyUteh]

Yea we do 😊

[@talondaecckles8524]

He couldn't comprehend a real man's mindset that has been married for years. A lot of men like him are leaders now. That is why everything is soo messed up and will be for generations to come

[@jadeacampbell5206]

Facts

[@whoome1638]

@@talondaecckles8524 so true. Most of the married men I worked with was fantastic at collaborating at work. There was a huge sense of maturity

[@user-vm2hh9ts8h]

@@whoome1638 ????

[@missbstuurman]

My wife is an interior designer she can build anything....yessss💁🏽‍♀️❤💪🏾

[@DestinyUteh]

🤣🤣🤣

[@highvibrations3013]

Valid question- You watched your mom work 40+ hours a week come home and cook was worn out and now your pushing the same BS. You didn't respect and acknowledge your mother's pain????

[@KingTerry1001]

That is what he expects because he saw his mother do it so the next girl can do it.

[@gwendolynallen3218]

They never had compassion for their mother's pain. They feel she deserved the pain she went through. The majority of our men are sadistic demons who enjoy watching women suffer.

[@HaitianBlackGinger11]

@@gwendolynallen3218 I’m beginning to believe that.

[@KingTerry1001]

@@gwendolynallen3218 The question should be did his mother show pain when doing everything? Some women are strong they couldn't show pain because showing pain is a sign of weakness. My mother never shown pain when I was growing up. And how many women tell their children the truth about how hard it is being a single parent doing it on her own.

[@gwendolynallen3218]

@@HaitianBlackGinger11 Everything within the Gensis is listed is chronological order. Men were created before animals which would place them a little higher than them then women were created. At some point they have regressed below animal behavior because even wild animals don't commit kill their male peers, female partners and biological offspring like our men.

[@nnzulu7684]

They don't want partnership they want someone who is subservient to them

[@mealovesyu]

Exactly

[@user-vm2hh9ts8h]

Marriage is not a partnership with a equally split role...

[@user-vm2hh9ts8h]

@@mealovesyu are you too tired to cook and clean the house 🏡????

[@flamingosmango4704]

He got them Kevin Samuels inspired bubble machine glasses on.

[@DestinyUteh]

🤣🤣🤣

[@beasaroseco5840]

🥸 I hear you ma brotha.🤣😂🤣🤣

[@Wonderful11589]

🤣😂😂🤣

[@jaiyabyrd4177]

It's an absolute disgrace that Brother's fight BW harder than the corrupt police that are waiting to shoot them

[@sherriew36]

They fight black women more than they fight the BLACK MEN WHO ARE THE NUMBER 1 KILLER OF BLACK MEN.

[@jadeacampbell5206]

Chile. This is the truth.

[@Tatee101]

📌📌

[@beasaroseco5840]

Chiiiiiiillllle.......

[@kaygeeRandomness]

Yeah, it’s silly as hell and everyone is laughing at them.

[@kalimbaayinde25]

He was absolutely correct. We are a team. Why are you waiting for your wife to come home from work to cook for you??? If you are home before me, you wouldn’t cook for me? Lol these people are delusional, please stay single.

[@jadeacampbell5206]

Facts

[@user-vm2hh9ts8h]

Don't women generally cook more than men???

[@quirkyt_T]

My husband saw the previous video. He laughed and said the interviewer isn't married and that's why he didn't get what the guy he was interviewing was saying. The sticker thing went over his head. My husband said this dude doesn't have kids. When parents build toys like bikes, cars ect the final part is putting those darn stickes on them like bike stickers ect. This dude thought he was talking about basic stickers. BTW my husband and I do the same as that man being interviewed and his wife do. We both work. He has cook days, I have cook days and my teens have cook days. I don't shop because I hate it with a passion. He does all of that. If my preschooler needs a bath and I'm tired he does it. We do what needs to be done. I'm better at hair so I do it. He deals with the schools and teachers and I take care of implementing the school work at home. We split taking kids to the doctors. That Interviewer is a clueless 🤡 with an agenda acting in poor faith which is why he hung up on that guy. We laughed hard.

[@jeffyusuf328]

I wish your husband can speak out for those black folks.✊🏿😘😍🥰

[@marianhrodgers9245]

The gentleman in the corner picture talking about his marriage not having roles is exactly how my marriage of 22+ years has operated. His marriage is very or even identical to how my husband and I conduct our marriage. Still in love and still my best friend! Black love all day long!

[@jeffyusuf328]

@@marianhrodgers9245 Yap and as a black man I exactly view things the same way. How man or masculine I am it's not define by my competition to dominate women or how many of them I may sleep with. And again real man do not have to prouve it or scream about all over the world and the internet.

[@margaretgyapong1933]

This is the first time I have heard marriage like this!! Thank you!!

[@laurencameron3150]

He’s trying to be the next Kevin Samuels but Kevin died on top of a woman he met the night before!

[@shylapollard5165]

He couldn't even comprehend what this man was explaining. This is why I don't do that 50/50 ish. They STILL expect wife duties out of a roommate tbh. Especially when women are doing usually most the work.

[@jones2277]

then don't marry them.

[@Gem-n-life]

Exactly! I can’t even calculate that ratio. If I ever hear that from a man, it’s a straight BLOCK

[@purple7970]

He hung up because the logic the husband provided went right over his empty head.

[@lillybilly9954]

Married 13 years and still learning, but one thing I can share is 50/50 transactional mindset will end your marriage in a straight divorce. Because everyone thinks they are contributing most.

[@Morgan24_7]

I'm at work by 6am. It would be nice to have a man cook for me sometimes. You can vacuum a floor, wash dishes and clothes sometimes too. My parents met in the 4th grade, dated through high school, survived his Stent in Vietnam and guess what? They BOTH cooked, cleaned, paid bills and raised us kids.

[@user-vm2hh9ts8h]

Are you saying that women are too tired to cook and clean their own home 🏠???

[@chriseanrockshands2961]

Preach!

[@EBURINTHA]

The foolish one said he hasn’t got time for foolishness 😂😂😂😂😂😂. I’m glad there still some sensible men on this planet!

[@kathyborthwick6738LakotaEmoji]

A man’s work is 8-12 hrs daily but a woman’s work is often 24/7!

[@kathyborthwick6738LakotaEmoji]

Thank You👵🏽👋🏾🍃💚🍃

[@hisojaper4600]

👏👏👏👏👏👏41 years happily married with my beautiful wife relationship is 100% no roles but both of you giving it your all ,I am a happy husband dad and poppop with a happy wife mother and nana so chose wisely guys if you Don't want to die unhappy miserable and alone

[@yourroyallioness6607]

Say it, SAY IT!!! ❤️ ♥️ 💜

[@darknergy1722]

Say it for the cheating men in the back!!!

[@user-vm2hh9ts8h]

I don't believe you 🥺 saying that you have no roles in the house 🏘️.....

[@Autumn-zd9nq]

Another loud and arrogant self-proclaimed “dating coach”

[@virgochild4216]

Remedial and redundant talking DUSTY points are so dumb.

[@AntonsClass]

The host of that show isn't used to being challenged. The guest had valid points he couldn't even dismantle. Successful relationships of any kind - friendship, marriage, etc - require teamwork. Unfortunately, many men want a servant, not a relationship.

[@user-vm2hh9ts8h]

The guest was not valid at all 🙄

[@Ladybugseason]

I want to know what that man can build and fix in the household since he’s so focused on roles. Many modern BM can’t even change a tire!

[@DestinyUteh]

🤣🤣🤣

[@SonjaElizabethTeal]

...or move a couch...

[@user-vm2hh9ts8h]

@@SonjaElizabethTeal what kind of men are you dealing with????

[@user-vm2hh9ts8h]

Are women in general doing the physical jobs in the house 🏡???

[@Mushimushi25]

S.I.G.N. Language at its best. Most Men can change a tire, because it's a required skill, period. Most modern women can't function in a relationship, period.

[@princesswilliamsmommyof5]

And that's is why I rather stay single. This guy has lost it

[@user-vm2hh9ts8h]

You are staying single because of what exactly?

[@goodwill374]

I ain’t got time for this foolishness AKA I DONT LIKE HES MAKING ME SOUND DUMB! He hung up quick once he realized the married man wasn’t gone play into his agenda

[@user-vm2hh9ts8h]

The married man is talking absolute nonsense....

[@FindYourFree]

The interviewer is a joke. These guys are lost

[@Goddess_Infinity]

Who is this wanna be Kitten Heels ?

[@DestinyUteh]

😲🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@dusset.v3447]

Exactly looking dumb and suspect🤨

[@ven-venvybz8775]

The fact that the boss man got a wife but he called him gone says and speaks volumes. These dudes are delusional 🙄

[@ibabechanel]

A wife for TWENTY YEARS.

[@87883]

He called to answer the question lol 😂

[@cindywebb9786]

Misery loves company. The interviewer is miserable because he expects his woman to cook and clean even when she is tired, while the interviewee is happy as hell and helps his wife with the daily chores around the house. Mr. Miserable is actually angry that Mr. Happy has no complaints and is living his best 20 year married life. 🤣 Willing to bet that Mr. Miserables' woman is paying half the rent too.

[@FattyTae]

Lets analyze your logic for a sec Quick question, do y’all expect a man to be willing to die for his girl & go to work and bust his tale to provide even if he is “tired “? Since a woman tired means you don’t have to cook or clean so when he is “Tired” of working long hours he should be able to say I don’t want to today I’m to tired . Right ? Nope because a man role is obviously to protect and provide first but women y’all roles are changeable , one day u want to live like a independent boss bih the next it’s oh Where did all the men go.

[@wendywatkins7366]

@@FattyTae I think you are missing the point. If Both sexes are working Full time, chores must shared, cooking , cleaning etc…Any DIY work can be out sourced if need be

[@FattyTae]

@@wendywatkins7366 but we know most women don’t want to be or prefer for her and her man to have to work full time , hence why divorce rates are high , and why women stay single on and off they don’t want those men who cant provide at least 75% of the bills if not 100% . Women always feel they can do better even when they are older . So to sum this up , if her and her man work full time jobs she probably going to leave at some point

[@CCthemagi]

exactly. you’re bitter and he’s living proof of your fallacies & outdated beliefs.

[@CCthemagi]

@@FattyTae what is this based on? lmaoo you gather data from twitter & tiktok debates?

[@kbb649]

Something wrong with that man. That man ain't right in the head

[@MegaTamarra]

Exactly! He’s missing chromosomes or something

[@churchsbiscuits]

Little bus energy

[@NoName-nj4mw]

A man married for 20 years, arguing with an unmarried single man about marital roles lol. Then got triggered because he had no real argument. He sounds like such a baby. He wants a mommy, not a wife

[@user-vm2hh9ts8h]

The man who called the show is talking absolute nonsense about women are too tired to cook and clean their own home 🏠 🙄

[@23andme77]

I loved the part where the man with the burger king shirt stated "My wife told me, your not doing it for me your doing it to maintain the house". So refreshing. Had a man who bought a stove FOR HIS OWN house and he told me he bought it for me🥴 It angered me so bad. Like this is YOUR house. (We didn't live together, we split time...some time at my house some at his) He acted as if the stove was a gift to me. I was sooooo confused. I didn't ask for a damn stove

[@angeleyes3386]

He can’t likely build anything while he’s questioning this married man of 20 years.

[@user-vm2hh9ts8h]

The married man is sounding like a simp.....

[@Kayla4217]

mann when my momma would go out and buy our Christmas gifts, wrap them late into the night, and then help me assemble my Christmas toys after watching us open them???and then go make breakfast?!?!? she was the GOAT in my eyes she could build ANYTHING 💪🏽 ♥️

[@virgochild4216]

Talk about Mommy❤️💯

[@faith6575]

She sounds AMAZING, but where was your dad? Or was she a single mom?

[@Kayla4217]

@@faith6575 no we had a two parent household growing up. my dad just wasn't as awesome at this so I'm celebrating my mom. is there an issue with that???

[@warrenhalter9293]

Where was your daddy

[@Kayla4217]

@@warrenhalter9293 aw why do you need to borrow mine? I know alot of ya'll ain't been right since KS died lol but maybe you should look for your own dad? pro tip, start at the corner store he said he was going to when he never came back

[@frombehindtheveil7295]

OMG, the fact that common sense shit like this has to be explained just proves the fact that some men need to be left alone all together.

[@sheilakosoff5806]

Roles? What a limited mindset that dude had. I have been with my partner for 35 years and we are a team. We each have things that we are good at and take turns hyping each other when needed. Limiting the relationship to roles is not giving 100 percent to a committed relationship. A role is like a job. Can you imagine asking your partner to pick up the kids or do the dishes because you can’t and they say, “that is not my job”

[@DestinyUteh]

I agree 💯

[@bunchielove6893]

LIMITED. it's the word I keep using when talking to people. People have allowed society to tell them what their relationship should look like.

[@yakzivz1104]

Those so called roles was exactly how marriage used to work in the old days and that was why men love marriage so much. Marriage in the old days enabled men to have their own little house slave as a wife.

[@user-vm2hh9ts8h]

@@yakzivz1104 the fact that you are calling women who cooked and clean their own home 🏠....slaves.... tells me that you are not talking sense at all.... offensive and super silly....

[@ramoon9241]

How you fold under the pressure of duty and responsibility IS NOT conducive that everyone folds under the same pressure. You aren't the most solid individual and your partner knows that. Mind YOUR relationship; stop telling other people how they should live. Its the lack of roles that is white supremacy. The male is an owner who doesnt work. The wife is a woman who depends on the help to cook , clean , raise the children and tend the owner as the wife does not work or care; its all about brunch. Meanwhile, the help, has ignored her actual family. Familiar?

[@octoberflower6943]

Women are not maids.

[@nim3408]

I agree.....roles don't apply these days. EVERYBODY works! We have to help each other. EXAMPLE.....I'm a better cook than my wife and, my wife is better at keeping up with our bills.

[@user-vm2hh9ts8h]

Roles don't apply?.... really???...

[@jadeacampbell5206]

Womennnn y’all see how many men came behind that one guy to defend us? LETS STOP GIVING FN THE LOVE THESE REAL MEN DESERVE.

[@kourtney101]

Yes!!!! the brother at the lower part of the screen is the Champion. Bless him, Lord! 🙏🏿🙏🏿

[@noviwhitfield3261]

He must be on that New Sh*t! He's lonely as hell. I'm a disabled Carpenter and any man i'm with works in the trades and we work together on anything. I catch his slack and vice verse! I heard Grown Men responding to a Male!

[@TashasBeautyCafe]

The interviewer is so lost! 😞

[@DestinyUteh]

🤣🤣🤣

[@j.m.8545]

He is trying to imitate Kitten Heels. These B guys today are so weird.

[@GGCanLove409]

Lol it's crazy that there are men who still subscribe to gender roles. Just last night I was installing vinyl flooring after I cooked dinner, but my husband cut the grass and cleaned all the bathrooms. I do a lot of the power tooling in my house because I enjoy that stuff.

[@DestinyUteh]

Am here. But some men wouldn't understand.

[@user-vm2hh9ts8h]

Allot of people have gender roles in the house 🏡....

[@NurseNessey]

Lol, dude who hung up on the other one was confused as hell. He trying too hard to be like Kevin Samuel 😂😂😂

[@Cfemimoore712]

“TEAM WORK MAKES THE DREAM WORK! “ Said the Realistic BlackMAN! Married for Over 20yrs!

[@Samahsings]

I truly believe he understood what he was saying. Now he has gone viral so everyone is talking about his show.

[@DestinyUteh]

Maybe 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@carrington2949]

I think he is genuinely an idiot. Going viral was just serendipity.

[@Blah87221]

Def felt like it this was staged

[@DestinyUteh]

Really 😲

[@CA-zn9bq]

The 2nd guy with the blk polish was spot on (others as well). I think it's mostly these younger boys out here acting like that.

[@Nlb2316]

Don’t take advice from people that don’t live that life. I never got why people looked to Kevin Samuals for relationship advice when he couldn’t stay married multiple times. This man has been married over 20 yrs we should be listening to him not these guys that can’t even get a meaningful relationship let alone marriage. Anyone been married a long time will tell you whatever works for you works for you.

[@user-vm2hh9ts8h]

Black women have no problems with listening to Oprah Winfrey who has not been married....

[@coursecorrection4105]

Love that these men get it. It’s a partnership where everyone contributes and supports one another. Do what you can to help the whole thrive in a way that supports everyone’s well being.

[@attitudeproblem6462]

That dude is so confused. And he _thinks_ he’s smart. Probably never been married a day in his life, but talking down to a man who’s been married for 20 yrs.

[@donnagreen5186]

I have always made more money then my ex husband because he couldn’t handle the fact that I was being myself and applying for jobs that I was qualified for and we went to the bank together one day. And the teller said Mrs Green do you want 20,50 or hundreds. He turned around and said how much is your paycheck! I ignored him and that was a fight the rest of the night because I wouldn’t tell him how much I made. Be cautious ladies men can’t handle a woman that can really do it all. 2 1/2 years No Contact!!! Peace finally

[@dranchd6571]

Growing up, the children did the cooking, cleaning and shopping. Our parents both worked, and they did housework occasionally. They trained us well, and we didn't even realise it.

[@JustBeYouTy]

Dudes been married 20 years. He know something.

[@Itsallaboutlove52]

First time visiting this channel. Love this young lady personality. Wish you all the success.

[@DestinyUteh]

Thank you so much I appreciate you 🤗

[@cindycarroll6463]

He's been married for 21yrs he doing something right

[@ayannads9613]

And that's why dude ain't married. He just doesn't get it at all

[@jones2277]

he's disappointed by what a functional marriage entails. lol

[@jayajaya788]

Baby my mom worked and put herself to school and raised six kids by herself!!! She also had food on the stove when we came home from school and in my eyes is a hell of a woman...we didn't grow up in public housing we grew up in a house...my mom taught us about structure...going to work on time...punctuality and still till this day all of my brothers and sisters are always on time...never late on their jobs and she did it by herself!!!

[@jeffwilliams346]

There is a big difference from chores and gender roles.

[@ivybee347]

My grandmother and my grandfather both worked and he wouldn't dare fix his mouth to tell my grandmother to go cook dinner every night after she came from work. They all pitched in, my mom, aunt and uncle and sometimes my grandfather cooked and this was back in the 50's and 60's. We're afro-latino and I know my family isn't the only one. He needs to have a stadium full of seats ans listen to someone else besides who he's listening to telling him about roles in the marriage.

[@user-vm2hh9ts8h]

Who did the majority of the cooking and cleaning in the house 🏡?

[@dsmrn5759]

I've always told my Sons "Never Allow your woman to work as hard I did!" Not his Wife, Baby Mama, Sig Other, Girlfriend I don't care what her title is, just don't!

[@angeleyes3386]

“Everyone do what they have to do” Duh

[@thomassmith9932]

Yeah I am done with this bs. You women and men enjoy your 🧬 lives I will stick with my old ways

[@faithkwaku]

I love this guy. I agree, no roles, do it together

[@brookealicia92]

I want the delicious man that was hurt seeing his mom work so hard.

[@DestinyUteh]

🤣🥰🥰

[@virgochild4216]

😍

[@Genevieve8002]

Excellent showcase of reactions!!!!

[@middlesys9180]

This very conversation is one of the things that ended my marriage. He wasn't willing to budge on these pre-conceived "roles". HELP ME! DO HALF! YOU SWEEP, ILL MOP. BUT ALLLLLLL IT!!??? WHILE IM PULLING DOWN 50+ PLUS HOURS A WEEK???!!!

[@k.alvarado6237]

If both partners work and pay bills there are no traditional roles. If one person is the total breadwinner then there are traditional roles

[@jones2277]

not in African culture. both work and the woman still has traditional roles.

[@DestinyUteh]

Not all African home now. Am from Nigeria and I have been married for 9 years. I can tell you not all homes

[@k.alvarado6237]

@@jones2277 - then african woman are getting played. No way im cooking and cleaning and still working 40 hours a week

[@user-vm2hh9ts8h]

This is not true at all 😂

[@user-vm2hh9ts8h]

@@k.alvarado6237 African women are being played? What a arrogant and ignorant thing to say about the hundreds of millions of African women....

[@reginayfavors]

We got a harvest of Kevin Samuels wannabes. That was his goal. He didn't care to learn anything from the guy. Not at all.

[@priscillablount6862]

That man at the top probably isn’t married. He is catering to a certain type of weak man . X

[@traceylennon1204]

The gay guy and the guy after him,those are my dudes!!!

[@kayelleaich]

He took that flight seriously.

[@DestinyUteh]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@characterchange6793]

I love these responses.

[@getreal4real169]

I think that man who doesn’t understand is slow and single. He’s the type to want his woman to pay bills 50/50, cook, clean, do laundry, take care of the kids, take care of him while he just works and calls repair people when something breaks.

[@tamikadurant294]

My mom had to work hard every day may her rest in peace 🙏🏽. But she never came home to a dirty house. And we made sure we fed ourselves.

[@Heykay34]

That one about the moms working and coming home and doing everything , and that not hurting them 😧 like seriously your moms was tired as hell.

[@malikj0517]

He should have asked him about his marital status and are those roles working out for him. I bet you he would have started glitching.

[@DestinyUteh]

🤣🤣🤣

[@EliteYouthSoccerTV]

My mom worked all week and still cooked and clean for her family that she loves and appreciate my dad was still the leader in the home because that is his role....

[@coursecorrection4105]

Every adult should contribute to the well-being and running of the household. Everybody cooks, cleans, cares for the young, engages in school activities, participates in the community, bills. Someone may be better at finances and may do that but the other should participate. Life is hard and the purpose of a partnership is partnership

[@g.t.7550]

I’ve seen so many of these responses to the plethora of guys with podcast videos in the last few months and my initial response to the men responding appropriately was- oh, they are jumping on the next lucrative bandwagon bc women responded with “we don’t need you” and mean it. I’m also thinking that the men who are worth a grain of salt are getting sick of being lumped in with the dusties and immediately disregarded by women bc we are at a point where men as a whole are a turn off and alone with disposable income and a dog will always be better.

[@ashaduplessis2772]

That man cleared Malcolm X. He clearly doesn't understand the power of a team. Hell I'm a woman and I put together bookshelves,beds and everything in between. It's called a basic life skill which is why I don't understand why some men are so pressed about cooking and cleaning up. Are you hungry and dirty until you get married or in a relationship?

[@DestinyUteh]

I agree with you 💯

[@candeejordan5250]

A kevin Samuel's wanna be so sad. Rolls in a marriage is team work.

[@OneTwo-yw4ij]

I loved the smooth brain equation 😂....Gyri (grooves and ridges in the brain) increases surface area allowing the brain to process more information. His dumbfounded look made the smooth brain comment hilarious 😆....Still dkw single, ignorant males with no successful relationships feel qualified to argue down men that have been married for 20yrs. However, keeping foolish men single is a win for society. Those bloodlines shouldn't be passed on.

[@tyeash7822]

Who ain't tired its called being a grownup.

[@dee3489]

The first guy who responded to the video he didn't even understand the question he didn't even answer what the rolls are

[@full-lifesoil1549]

I'm Soo confused....when people WORK, they don't COOK OR CLEAN AT THEIR HOUSE????? This is a question???? I'M CONFUSED

[@freegame1k]

I approve of this ! 👑💜

[@DestinyUteh]

Me too 🤠

[@kimberlydill8059]

He's talking about roles, but he didn't say anything about the woman should not be working.

[@Angelaj.allday]

That clip really had me dying 😂

[@DestinyUteh]

🤣🤣

[@melissajames2631]

There is nothing wrong when people work as a “team”. Every since, women entered the working world, traditional men expect them to be able to work and take care of the home. Because, of feminism, women are working tirelessly to prove that they can do it all and sometimes the can’t. Just do want works for your relationship and leave people who don’t understand the dynamics of your relationship in the Stone Age where they belong.

[@anebasammy]

They want a "traditional" woman who also holds down a 9-5. Incompatible. Disconnect. If you want a housewife and homemaker, that's fine but you need to make enough to provide. It doesn't work if only one person is "traditional." Both need to operate within the gendered roles in that construct.

[@user-vm2hh9ts8h]

Are you saying that the traditional wife is not going to be able to do a job????

[@anebasammy]

@@user-vm2hh9ts8h Yes. The 'traditional' household had the husband working and bringing home bacon (taking care of the outdoors, protecting family and whatnot) and the wife stayed at home and fried it up (cooked, cleaned, took care of kids). Have they redefined 'traditional?' What are the men supposed to be doing now in this traditional model?

[@anebasammy]

And to be clear, this was a traditional white household. That has never been the case for Black people. From what I read, the white family is the fantasy being pursued. But I could be wrong

[@user-vm2hh9ts8h]

@@anebasammy the idea that the women are too tired to cook and clean their own home 🏠 is garbage 🗑️.... the man in the video is sounding ridiculous 🙄...

[@anebasammy]

@@user-vm2hh9ts8h So what are the men doing? Also, he didn't mean women are tired all the time. He is saying modern relationships require everyone chip in (work AND taking care of the home, kids, etc) so when the woman is tired (bc she had also been working hard), then he steps up and vice versa. Also, in modern relationships people can outsource chores. We can get a meal service, hire a house cleaner, take the car to be serviced, etc. We are all tired and n ed respite

[@conniq1585]

Ask an older lady. They used to say "Once a man, twice a boy." The initial interviewer is giving those vibes. Women today have gotten to the point where we not settling for that anymore. 🤷🏾‍♀

[@DestinyUteh]

Some men don't know that

[@FNFIHOCTW]

Is this a wifeless man trying to teach a man in a 20+ yr marriage how to be in a relationship🤔 Oh, I get it, this a comedy🤣

[@SharonStar62]

100/ 100 is the only way i will be as a team yup the man on the top want his servant papers.. He acted like a Azz!!

[@DestinyUteh]

🤣🤣🤣

[@illyannadeshields9835]

My brother broke it down if your mother bust her ass raising you working hard whether single mother or not that makes you want to get all you can to pamper mom so she can relax you hate seeing mom stress or over worked.What type of women raised these thoughtless males.

[@leahhayes8256]

ROLES 🤣🤣… dude wanted him to say she work, cook, take care of the kids, and clean and I work and want to come home to a clean house and meal 🙄… Team work Dude it’s NOT 1950🙄 times have changed !! Most women work they don’t stay home anymore…

[@HaitianBlackGinger11]

1950’s Men we’re the primarily the providers. Most Women didn’t work, like women today.

[@mermaidmonroe1947]

He thought he ate lmbooooo

[@DestinyUteh]

🤣🤣

[@shank3524]

Ooooo he looked soooooo baffled like this dude is going to be one of the long term lonely single men 😂😂 respect to the other brother " team work makes the dream work🙌🏾

[@teasusual]

The Latino man 😇💙💜

[@inezbanks1311]

I enjoyed every bit of this Loss he took.

[@DestinyUteh]

🤣🤣🤣

[@full-lifesoil1549]

He answered "perfectly"??? Is placing stickers considered, "building"?? If you do something more than the other person, it's your ROLE!!!! EVERYBODY CANT BE THE QUARTERBACK, ITS ONE PERSONS ROLE!! EVERYONE CANT BE (BEYONCE) THE LEAD SINGER, SIT BACK KNOW YOUR ROLE AND PLAY IT TO THE BEST YOUR ABILITIES! The audacity of emotions and entitlement be crazy.....So, when they break in to colonize AGAIN we EQUALS right????

[@bibi6978]

The interviewer was horrible… the person calling was absolutely right!!! There’s no roles in a relationship… A relationship is 💯 from both parties