A Chatty Q&A: Why I Left Gleam? More Kids? Best M&S Snacks 🍩 Lily Pebbles

[@kate-from-studio-huske]

The last question was so well handled Lily. We've all been there and it's so tough but it's unfortunately a natural progression in different life stages. Glad to hear you're feeling better about it now

[@Petitkaramela]

Do you think?! Still didn’t say anything

[@sallyannc3176]

@@Petitkaramela well of course she didn't - that's not for us to know. Don't be so selfish - it's not our business to know the details. She wanted to deal with it respectfully, for Anna's sake too, and I think she achieved that.

[@lydiacarels7912]

Just a big virtual hug to you for your last answer. I "know" and love you both and was quite emotional about the "tremble" in your voice ❤. But part of growing is to talk about things, no matter how hard it might be, so well done and thank you 😘

[@lilypebbles]

Forever grateful to have such a supportive and kind community here, you've all managed to create a safe space for not just me but each other too. I read all your comments and just want to say thanks ♥

[@sylvialuisa]

It's you that has created that space, Lily. Thank YOU. 🩷

[@OctopiesForTana]

Ugh, the way it sounded like your voice was wavering a little but in the last question kills me because even though there are so many videos of you and Ana it is still YOUR relationship that ended and YOU that had to mourn that. To then have to explain it to people that don’t understand the intricacy of that relationship but feel that they do must be so fucking hard. I am glad you are in a good place. So glad you are healing.

[@gemmastone2202]

Not quite sure how to say this but, well done. You just seem to have grown in confidence a lot, you’re really self aware and have a great sense of fun. I’ve watched you for maybe 12 years? And this is the best & most engaging your stuff has ever been. Just happy for you I think! X

[@Abbi-qg1tc]

Huge respect for finally acknowledging the relationship breakdown directly, I can't imagine how hard it must be to lose such a close friendship while also being in the public eye. Everyone thinks they're owed the details and it's truly a testament to what a decent human you are that you haven't indulged that, but have remained respectful while also being honest about the struggle. Seeing you go through this journey and come out stronger has been really inspiring and helps me feel less ashamed of my own relationship losses over the years. Xxx

[@belindajames3966]

Closure. Well done. And we all move onwards. That's life x

[@ginaprasad7695]

I normally don't comment. But I just want to say lily you did so well acknowledging the elephant in the room. Friendships are hard. I stopped being friends with my BFF who was my bridesmaid. I always knew it wasn't a healthy friendship. But it was so hard to end the friendship. I would say worst than a boyfriend break-up. I still think about her now and than.... but I also know that it was a healthy decision to make for both of us. I had to go to therapy and talk it through. Your podcast with Anna really helped me through that friendship ending. I felt like you both were friends in my ears. So you are so brave ❤talking about a friendship break-up in a public forum. Sending you the largest hugs xx

[@katiesmith3242]

Maybe they will make up one day. I fell out with my best friend for 2 years, we are friends again now but not as close as we used to be but it’s nice to be able to hang out together again especially are we are in relationships with a pair of brothers we can all be together ❤

[@andreabarrcoaching]

Here here! That is exactly what I wanted to say and I too never comment! Huge hugs!

[@katjushah9424]

Felt emotional at the end. I didnt want to ask any question because I always thought if you dont aknowledge it there must be a reason or maybe it is too painful to and I respect that. The situation is sad, buy hey we all go through that with friends and even family members sometimes. Sometimes it gets better and sometimes it doesnt and that's ok too. Lots of love. Been following for more than a decade. We're the same age, married around the same time and are so similar in so many ways xx

[@umbrarella]

Thanks for addressing the last question, Lily, it must've been really hard for you and we appreciate it. Hopefully people will stop asking about it. It's really unfair that you've been burdened with explaining the whole thing, I didn't see anyone questioning the other person about it at all. Take care xx

[@raejae5565]

I think she deletes any comments that reference it tbh. Her videos rarely have any comments at all, so I think she's very selective about what comments she chooses to show

[@KarlaMendez28]

Yeah, she definitely deletes everything. I appreciate Lily being open and transparent with us!

[@katiesmith3242]

Yes she deffo deletes comments cuz I’m sure I’ve asked her before in the past! X

[@sophiewilson6213]

She deletes them. Such an odd thing to do, unlike lily who’s open honest and relatable

[@Heydrayheyhey]

She has a function where any mention of certain words like Lily, work wife etc gets automatically deleted without ever going public, it’s very strange behavior indeed

[@Stitchcraftandcook]

I loved this Q&A Lily. The last question was obviously a hard one to answer but you dealt with it perfectly. I’ve been through a friendship breakup in the last few years and it was 100% worse than any relationship breakup I’ve had so I understand why it’s still a sensitive subject. Especially as you feel you need to acknowledge it publicly. I’m loving your recent content more than ever, and I’m an OG follower, you seem so content with life and who you are. Have a lovely Sunday ❤

[@louiseM14]

I have to say Lily I’ve been watching you for probably around 10/11 years now and your content recently has just really grabbed my attention and pulled me in more than any other year! You seem much happier within yourself and more confident in what you want to post which is so fun to watch! You seem a lot more chatty and easy going (not that you weren’t before but extra now) which makes all your content so enjoyable! I didn’t realise how long I’ve been watching you till you said how many years your anniversary is! I still to this day can’t hear “hey Jude” without thinking of your wedding video!😂

[@_Claire_88]

I really felt that last question. Life just goes in different directions but sadly for the two of you, you also have to contend with viewers being part of the equation. I can see that it hurts, but I can see you have also grown. Big love 💛

[@clilylilyrose87]

I think the breakdown of adult female friendships is a really interesting/difficult topic; good on you for exploring it in such a sensitive and mature way. My friendship with my best friend at university ended and honestly it felt worse than a relationship break up (though it needed to happen; the relationship wasn't healthy and also we just drifted apart). I don't watch your vlogs often but dip in every now and again and you really seem in a great place in your life. It is really lovely to see!

[@nyrhtak03]

Bravo Lily. You’ve done a hard thing ❤️

[@mariedavtyan371]

OMG i've been crying at the end (also because it's the first day of my period) but also because how you explained it. I've been thinking about it for such a long time recently because I've been watching you two from the beginning but neither of you addressed it. So glad you answered and how respectfully! xx loved this Q&A, thanks for sharing such personal stories.

[@buzzi2k]

Lily, gosh you're doing so well. It's incredible how you were able to answer and how you answered the last question. You can see the hurt, and the healing, whatever it was that happened. Your level of self understanding, maturity and care is amazing. I really admire it.

[@johnarchibald3]

You answered the last question so respectfully. Loved the whole video & loving the content you have created in the past 2 years. Really grown into yourself & it’s amazing to watch 💐

[@melissaarauz4830]

Loved this Q&A so much. Your integrity as a content creator is unmatched. I’m in LA and always look forward to watching your videos before going to bed on Saturday nights 😊

[@gwenhunter8454]

Friendships change and evolve and they become sometimes less than they were, it’s hard…. You handled that question wonderfully ♥️

[@TheLeaveTaking]

Oh, you put that so well... It's so hard when they become less. But no one really talks about it.

[@16demolka]

I was devastated a month ago when I found out I was pregnant again with my third (two older are 6-8). No one talks about unplanned pregnancy later in life! You would thought that YT has loads of videos about it but no - unplanned pregnancy is associated with teens. Now I accepted my situation to some extent but I’m still terrified and sad more that excited. I understand no one talks about it because they don’t want their future child to find out they were not planned but it feels so isolating and wrong to not be happy and grateful. So if anyone is in a similar situation to mine - you’re not alone :)

[@td7363]

I have 2. They're much older (just into her 20s & 6th form age) and I had them young. The idea of a third now when I'm "approaching 40" scares the absolute 💩 out of me.

[@funwithrolly]

My friend had an unplaced pregnancy and ended up having twins! She was doing YT at the time and did openly speak about it being unplanned multiple times which is something I haven’t seen on here before. Sorry you’ve had to navigate it without hearing how others in your situation also felt 😢

[@andreapoulieva6717]

Lily, you asked a question that touched a nerve with me, and I'll respond as honestly as I can. I'm a mom to two beautiful girls (6.5 and 3.5 yo). They have a beautiful relationship, and we are very lucky to have them. But I've always wanted to have three. I'm an only child, I come from a broken home and my mission in life was to create a happy, loving family. We did, and my partner is very content with two. Still, I ached for a third. Finally, I got him on board and we started trying. I got pregnant right away, which felt like a positive sign. We were happy, at first. But then, around the 6 week mark, I started panicking. Our house is too small to confortably raise 3 children and we would have to sell ours and buy a bigger one (doable), we both work an hour away from were we live and the commutes make for long school days, with a third we would have even less time (the weeks would be go go go without much quality time), we have exactly one family member that helps us and I know she wouldn't look forward to us adding a baby to her 'load', I also consider the ages and suddenly I feel like the age gap is too big (our daughters will be 7 and 4 if I give birth). My partner is super scared all of that means less quality time for our daughters, less quality time for us as a couple, less financial means and more pressure, which he fears could jeopardize our equilibrium. And it's not like we hadn't considered all that prior to getting pregnant but suddenly, it feels so real. We aren't excited anymore, but consumed by fear. So in all honesty, I don't know whether we are going to keep it (and I say that with the heaviest of hearts). I feel like if you have a lot of family support, if you have financial means that can take on an extra person, if your home is big enough, if you have flexible work hours...all that will make having a third easier. Also, do you really, deeply ache for a third or is it because somehow you grew up with that idea and struggle to let go ? I wanted to share because we women don't openly talk about these things, I find. I appreciate your honesty and I'm sure you and Rich will make the right choice for your family ❤

[@philippawood5047]

This was a very vulnerable comment and I know it will be helpful to so many - thank you for your honesty and I wish you support in whatever decision you make. I only hope you are somewhere that allows you to make it safely.❤

[@andreapoulieva6717]

@@philippawood5047 Thank you Philippa (beautiful name!). I feel I'm at a point in my life where I need to cut to the chase, cut all the bullshit (the one I often tell myself 😅). Fortunately, yes, I'm in a place with excellent social safety net and healthcare. I do hope this comment helps at least one person ❤️ Have a lovely Sunday

[@Courtneyburns90]

Thank you for sharing and being so honest. It must be hard to even admit it to yourself. Just know that whatever decision youse make is the best for you both and your family. Sending lots of love.

[@andreapoulieva6717]

@@Courtneyburns90 Thank you ❤️ As I mentionned, I'm past the point of lying to myself. Though this truly is the hardest decision I've ever had to make, and I'm still undecided. I cling on the notion that either way, there is love and support in the family we've created with my partner and that in time, all will be well. It's just mayhem for now 😅

[@bnabound]

I just want to give you a hug, I can't imagine how difficult all this must be. The fact that you are so considerate about what it all entails means that whatever your decision will be, it will be the right one for you and your family. 🤗🤗🤗

[@TheStarterM]

God, I’ve been following you since you’ve lived with your parents! Then the flat, then the wedding, now the house… when you said your wedding was EIGHT YEARS ago, I almost dropped my plate (I was washing the dishes while watching 😃). In the meantime, I’ve stopped following you, then started again recently. I must say, I really enjoy your videos again, I guess I can relate better, you and Estee are only two KZbinrs that I can’t wait to watch. So, I guess, I just wanted to say that I really enjoyed this q&a, it’s really great to see you happy and in a good place, it really shows. Also, when you were talking about Rich, it’s like you were describing my boyfriend and it reminded me how grateful and happy I am to have him in my life. Anyhow, all the best 🤍

[@lisaantonia_1992]

Dear Lily, that last part of the video made me tear up. I have been following you for 12+ years and even went to the meet up you and Anna did in Berlin in 2012. Over the last months I sometimes wondered what happened to your and Anna's friendship. Thank you for addressing the topic. I really enjoy your channel and I can see how much you have evolved. All the best! ❤

[@rachel9199]

Truly cannot imagine having to deal with friendships online. Hats off to you Lily! Big supporter of you and Anna for over a decade now and continue to be, whether you’re friends or not! Xx

[@louise1elly558]

Ive recently lost my best friend of 20 years. Ive been given no reason why, just radio silence. It hurts but i have to pick myself and move on and be grateful for all i have in life.

[@bbbproductions7059]

I have had the exact same situation and it is so hard! 😞

[@hannahcagneylace8022]

Me three, clearly it’s more common than I realised. Hope you’re all doing ok ladies. As cliched as it sounds time is a healer, this happened to me a couple of years ago and I’ve come to terms with it all now ❤

[@natatatt]

Same. It was hard at first, needed to grieve it like a break up, but fine with it now. I put my heart and energy with the dear friends I do have instead.

[@louise1elly558]

​@bbbproductions7059 I think it's quite cruel to do to someone. Makes you really question the whole relationship and if you've been a good enough friend.

[@franug]

​@louise1elly558 I also went through this, and I agree with your sentiment: Am I such a horrible person to deserve being treated with such cruelty? I can't figure out what I did for that reaction to be proportionate...either way, it shows the friendship was/is not worth it, if that's any consolation

[@madslynch]

The loss of a friendship is so heartbreaking. I still struggle with the loss years and years later. I appreciate your honesty so much, thank you for being so graceful and handling such a difficult thing with such integrity.

[@SustainableSanoobar]

It has taken me 3 days to watch this video while battling my toddler and back to school bugs. I just wanted to say thank you Lily for addressing the Anna question. I came out to see you guys way back when at your Space NK meet up. I still watch both your content for different reason. I just wanted to say that I've lost friends over the years especially post covid and post baby but it's all for the best. Some friends are only meant to be short term travellers on our journey and that's okay. I got really emotional listening to you and honestly I'm so freaking proud of you. I've grown with you and we all love you. Keep doing what you're doing! ❤

[@zoecarpenter298]

Love this Q&A Lily - it’s so rare I manage to watch a whole 40 min video haha but love hearing your thoughts on all these topics. Echoing other comments but it’s so nice to see how much you’ve grown and what a great place you’re in at the moment. I’m in my late 20s so a little bit younger but have always watched your channel and it’s made me excited for the next steps ahead in life (marriage, kids, career & friends in your 30s). Also thankyou for so eloquently and thoughtfully handling the last q - honestly just so sorry that you’ve lost a friend & hope you’re ok! X

[@lauracopeland9377]

Loved this video, and your honesty. You talked so eloquently and was so good to hear your thoughts. I’m a follower of over 10 years and loved seeing you on this ‘journey’ ❤

[@adriana7144]

Oh Lily, I just wanted to give you a big hug at the end. It’s just how life goes sometimes but that doesn’t make it any easier. Thank you for addressing it. I hope you continue to feel better about it all x

[@alicia.cj.94]

I’ve been watching you for around 12 years now and I can say I love your content now more than ever. Thank you for your honesty and respect, and for talking openly about such a personal thing.

[@ladadidah]

Lily, I've been following you for years! I love your content- how it and you have grown and evolved over the years but you've still managed to remain so authentic, open and genuine. Hearing you answer the last question made me emotional because I also lost a close friendship that I thought would last forever. It is so hard, but it's of some comfort that it's a part of life. While I don't know the details, I can relate to you because you seem fiercely loyal in your friendships so I know how much it can hurt to have a friendship break-up. Thank you for sharing x

[@ptriiez]

You handled that last question so well Lily! I never comment but I just wanted to say that I really love your content (you really have been thriving lately). Dealing with topics like friendships ending (I broke up with an entire friendgroup this year and it was so hard) is difficult in life, but feeling like you have to acknowledge it in your work must be incredibly hard. Thank you for your openness and showing how to handle things like this as a respectful human being.

[@amydvm]

have watched your youtube since 2012 and honestly just appreciate you so much in growing up, next phases of life and finding yourself and settling in. i don’t have kids so can’t always relate, but the way you have pivoted in youtube life etc really resonates- we still have the same struggles with finding ourselves as we age and change. friendship losses have been harder than breakups, feeling for you and knew something had gone on and can only imagine how uncomfortable the questions and comments have been. so glad to still be here. ♥️

[@anniwo-rb1np]

Thank you for being so open and vulnerable, Lily! And not just about the last question, but in all of your videos - I just enjoy all of your content and your openness and authenticity so much. So much love for you!

[@georginat6051]

Oh Lily, you made me cry. The loss of a good friend is so sad and unfortunately happens a lot as we get older. I think it’s much worst than a break up with a partner. Thanks for talking about it x x

[@emilybirchall3166]

Well done Lily, you ended a lovely video with such a brave and honest answer, people can learn so much from that. Have watched you for years and years but you are better than ever right now xxx

[@meganwilliams5462]

I LOVED the variety of questions!! The last one took a lot we can all see that but you were respectful and dignified and now can heal in your own way and time ❤

[@melaniemurphyofficial]

Relate so hard on the question of a 3rd...it's all I think about! I'm also one of three/Thomas is one of three, I don't want to go into it spontaneously either...my lists are like, the same length (pros/cons) arghhhhhhHHHHHHHHHHH. I'm LOVING having a bit of my life back, feeling more healthy, having better sleep. But the thought of getting to 50 and regretting not having another baby kills me. *Editing to add, having a friendship end (or simply for two people to drift apart which happens so often after kids etc etc) is hard enough but when there are strangers invested in it it can make it that much more difficult to navigate. The grief is different because it's like...you're grieving but you're also trying to act fine...this job is WILD. So much love to you

[@hnnhxxx8387]

Lily, I barely comment even though I’ve watching your videos for a long time. This time I cannot keep quiet though but I have to compliment you on how well you have answered the questions. You are so respectful, down to earth and I appreciate you being honest without oversharing. Very well done! Thank you! 😊

[@gk181072]

I was finished at 30 with 3 girls but was never really done ,i had a boy at 38 and omg the absolute joy he has brought us is immense…you have tome but you will never regret it!!!!🎉

[@annamarkley4758]

Lily thank you for being so open and honest with us (through out the whole q and a, not just the last question). It’s like speaking with a big sister, which is something I really appreciate ❤ I have never asked what happened between you and Anna because it was none of my business, but I really hope this puts the issue to bed for you. I have loved watching your content for the last 11 years, and will continue to do so. Sending you lots of love 💕 xxx

[@MaisieLemur]

Lily, my heart broke for you when you answered the last question. You handled it with grace, honestly and respect. I’m a long time follower and love seeing how happy and content you are. Much love ❤

[@SophHogg]

Yes Lily! You are great for answering that last question, LOVE your honesty. You are the only follower I have watched pre kids, through Covid and now as a mum of two

[@ShhhhhhImsleeping]

Friendship issues and breakups deserve their space and respect. I'm so glad you decided to answer that question and finally felt safe in doing so and I hope it was healing and you're receiving only supportive answers and reactions from all of us. It's hard to do, it's hard to feel, and so many of us relate to you. Love from Spain! Xxx

[@stephaniex8776]

love this! i love how positive you are about the future with kids and getting older! so inspiring!

[@ismettopalovic4479]

I hope that people can lay the last topic now to rest. You did that very gracefully and grown up. And now there is at least the feeling of dreading it gone🤷🏼‍♂️😉💐💐💐

[@suzyheartsbeauty]

Loved this Lily ❤️ It’s always good getting to know you more and it’s been amazing to see your confidence come back in the last few years! I haven’t had kids but I’ve felt a bit stuck/lost with myself so it’s inspiring to see someone finding their new way forward and feeling better ❤️ I felt emotional on the last question for you and you can tell how tough it’s been for you, so I hope people will give you a break on that now ❤️

[@hillary898]

Lily, I’ve followed you since the beginning and just wanted to say how much I’ve been enjoying your recent content. Some things I really appreciate and enjoy about what you put out there is your sincerity, creativity, and integrity. While life events evolve, you remain true to yourself and I’m here for it ❤ Big love x

[@kcmorris4875]

Beautifully handled, I so loved following you before but now you have shot up even higher in my respect. xxx

[@saramathews1069]

Well done Lily. If you haven’t then Elizabeth Day’s Friendaholic is a great read. You showed such decency and courage. You’re a great woman to watch xxx

[@caitlindavies1672]

Thanks for sharing Lily, another lovely cosy Sunday video! I’ve been here for many years (remember you getting married!) but I was telling my boyfriend recently how much I have enjoyed your content recently. You seem so much more confident and happy holding your own. I adore how down to earth you seem and your content is always a breath of fresh air. Sending hugs! ❤

[@ReclaimingSensitivity]

I never usually comment on videos, but feel compelled to with this one. I lost the friendship of someone I've known since school last year, and it was very out of the blue and hard to not fall into people pleasing tendencies and actually be true to myself and honour my own needs. It seems to me that you have been in a really difficult place, not being able to be the authentic, honest person you are on here. I'm glad you got to speak about it now and feel in a place to do so, but I also feel so sorry that you feel the need to because you are being constantly reminded of this painful experience by people who consume your content. I wish you continued healing and happiness. As an aside I think what you said about not working with Rich is such a heathy and realistic take, and as someone who is worried about fertility the way you handled the baby no 3 question was done in the perfect way.

[@greenabby]

Enjoyed listening to this whilst I cleaned my kitchen 😂 kudos to you for addressing the last question so gracefully. Onwards we go! Xx

[@Bohemiandancer]

Hi ! Just wanted to add my two cents on the third baby debate. My kids are almost the same age as yours, I thought I was happy with two, my husband certainly was 😅 but something just sparked and I knew I wanted a third baby. Got pregnant quite fast and sadly lost the baby. Tried again as soon as I had the green light and we were blessed with a healthy lovely baby girl. She is the easiest, chillest baby. She has so much love around her, her brother and sister are her biggest fans, it’s the most heart filling thing to see. I also am not huge on the first months, and had postpartum depression and anxiety in the past so I had apprehension. But the experience helps, you know you’ve got to put yourself first sometimes and you just take it easier I guess. I feel like if it’s meant for you, the baby spark will ignite and you will go for it ! I now feel like my family is complete and life is more hectic but also more filled with love than before. Lots of boom boom in our hearts for sure 💖💖💖 Also, happy anniversary 💕

[@IzzyButler94]

I really like the sit down/q&a videos!! 😊so nice listening to you feels like I’m listening to a friend!

[@abigailhall7359]

I’ve never commented on a KZbin video before but just had to say I’ve followed you for over 10 years, we’re a similar age and I’m also married with two kids. I went through a breakup with my best friend a few years ago. It was the hardest thing I’ve ever been through and still really hard now at times when you thought that person would be a part of your future. You’ve addressed it with such grace and maturity and I feel less alone knowing so many others in the comments have been through something similar. Thank you. ❤ I’d drifted away from KZbin over the last few years but your content lately has brought me back. Keep being you, you’re amazing 😊 xx

[@tessac775]

Such a lovely video - one of my favourites of yours, maybe ever! I’m in a rough patch of life right now, and I find it so inspiring to hear the way you think about things. I recognise a lot of myself in you… but I feel like you’re the evolved version lol. I have always looked forward to aging and figuring myself out more with each passing year, and I feel SO reaffirmed whenever you talk about the joys of growing older. Right now you seem radiant, confident and able to handle things with grace. Very cool. ❤

[@msaramaa]

Such a classy and kind (also to yourself!) answer to the last question. x

[@cherylverber7672]

I've only been following your for a few months. I'm in my early 50's and find you interesting to follow, our lives are poles apart, however I enjoy your content and look forward to the next vlog.

[@MISSLEONAJB]

Hey Lily 🤗 loved this so much. I have watched you for years and years and years (and Anna), and I always love your content. Keep being you and doing what you are doing. I appreciate you answering the last question, it’s obvious to see that wasn’t easy for you so thank you. Sending lots of love ♥️ xxx

[@jillianmcgill6]

Hi Lily. Another long term viewer who doesn’t normally comment but felt the urge to. I just watched this video while making some buttered leeks and it felt like a wee dose of therapy. Well done for so graciously handling the last question. I can’t imagine how difficult it would be to be going through heart break and having your audience, but strangers nonetheless, constantly remind you of it. You didn’t owe anyone an explanation, but I truly hope it helps in your healing. It has been so interesting reading all the comments and realising how universal an experience friendship break ups/dwindling is, and it feels a bit like an invisible kind of grief. Anyway, thanks again for keeping me occupied 👐

[@lydiaaranarevenga3921]

Your skin looks amazing!! Need a video of this makeup ❤

[@km8827]

This was such a beautiful Q&A. Its so nice seeing you grow Lily! Really love your content. Thankyou for answering, even the difficult Q, with such respect & kindness.❤

[@carolyngibson7723]

Sending you ❤ Lily. Talking about hard stuff is, well, hard! You’re in a good place! Love your content.

[@loriwagner2766]

So appreciated this Q&A and your honesty throughout ❤ Thank you for being so real Lily!

[@ronibt]

One of the qualities I have always admired about you is your authenticity, about all aspects of your life. It's what has kept me watching your content as your life (and mine) have changed over the past 10+ years. I can't imagine how difficult that last question was to address, and you did it so well. ❤

[@mcmafalda]

And that is why you wrote a book about friendships. You care about them, you know how to describe them and you really understand friendships. The way you addressed the subject was so smart, so beautiful and so emotional at the same time. Thank you for that. You need closure and this subject needed this exact same closure. Good to know that you are well and moving on. ❤️

[@sarahbee27]

Loved the Q&A, admire you for speaking about the friendship, I lost a friendship 5 years ago, I don’t know why but it happened so I know it’s difficult, but for it to happen online and be constantly reminded must be very difficult. I hope your audience can move on now and put it to bed xxx

[@MScolourMEbeautiful]

Thank you for being so honest xx

[@LaylaAbraham]

Ive been watching you and Ana for over 10 years and I don't remember if I've ever commented but that last question really made me emotional because I could feel how hard it was for you and I think it's a reflection of who you are as a person❤ On a side note I think it might be a good investment to buy a house now in the good high school area and rent it out then when the kids are grown you can move in and sell this place or rent it out, because you know the prices are just going to keep going up and up

[@patriciad.7309]

I've been away on holiday and so just starting to catch up on videos. I agree with the comments below on the way that you handled the last question, and I hope that now draws a line under the situation going forward. I've thought and commented this often in the last little while - you have really come into your own Lily! Creatively, with Georgia, and just generally in your videos; I really enjoy watching more than ever now (have been following you since your Chanel video). And I do think that you have built a very nice community here. Congratulations!

[@kirstenrubberducky]

Oh LIly. My heart goes out to you over that last question. It has been so lovely to see you find this place of comfort and happiness in your life and I wish you all the very best for the future.

[@susanreynard1871]

So many interesting topics, all handled so thoughtfully. Thank you for sharing your life and views with us, and for making content with us in mind. Your explanation of what drives numbers, views, and growth was really interesting and definitely sheds light on why some content creators I’ve followed and loved for so long have started to fall off my regular viewing list - they’ve moved too far away from what initially attracted me to them. Like with friendships that drift apart, it’s important to handle these changes respectfully rather than feel let down. Hope you're having a great Sunday. xxxx

[@Frick_79]

Lily what a great Q&A, it’s clear you are so content and thriving at the moment and we see it in your constant evolving creativity. The last question you handled brilliantly and respectfully. People don’t often talk about the breakdown of adult friendships but it happens to us all and it’s a really sad experience to go through. I’m glad you’re in a better place and healing from that and felt brave enough to address it. It must be hard when people speculate online but it’s between the two of you. Much love ❤️

[@julialee2285]

Like others, I felt I had to respond and say thank you and well done. You’re one of the only people who I watch regularly on KZbin and I have really come to admire and respect you as a person over the past five years. What you said was eloquent and beautiful and emotional…and real. You don’t see that on social media very often. And no one talks about friendship breakups on social media. So thank you for breaking down that wall.

[@nadinr.5265]

All I wanted to do was give you a hug at the end of the video when you addressed the last question. I truly hope that time will (and obviously has already)heal the wound over a close friendship that has ended 💙

[@huntswomen1]

I was recently relistening to the At Home With podcast and hearing you guys giggle! Thanks for the transparency. I feel like I got closure. All my love to you ❤

[@lisamills6745]

Thank you for being vulnerable and sharing the honest truth that friendships do end. Sending you love from the states!

[@LauraBeutler]

This was such a good Q&A. I have been loving your content lately-it seems like you’re enjoying yourself experimenting with color and taking us round all the big grocery stores with you! Sending all the love. ❤❤❤

[@rubydutchxo]

Loved this chatty video! Thank you for being so vulnerable with us❤️x

[@PolPocketC2018]

What a lovely q&a Lily. Thanks for taking the time to sit and answer the questions! You are always so thoughtful 🥰 hope uou have a beautiful week x

[@PascallePointing]

Loved this vlog! Love seeing how you have changed and grown over the years! Really want to go to M&S now and buy all the snacks especially those dark chocolate cherries! Yummmmm

[@ivanavujicic1705]

Thank you for addressing the last question Lily. It must’ve been really hard to do so, so thank you for doing it for all of us. Honestly, it made me cry since it reminded me of a friendship of mine that’s no longer there. As you said, time helps. Thank you for being open and honest about it ❤

[@siobhan7798]

I cried too. She handled it so well.

[@aphraell]

Me too, as soon as her voice trembled a little, I started to cry. It was so close to the heart.

[@SandieUK]

Thank you for being so honest, genuine and such a lovely person. Really enjoy all your content and YTs :)

[@malumalu244]

Lily, this video made me strangely emotional. Thank you so much for your honesty. I really loved your answers regarding pregnancy and how many childern is the right number of children. I watched your first trimester video more than once and it was so helpful to see that pregnancy is hard and not all sunshine and rainbows. Also loved that it’s not all about numbers but growing a community and reading these comments I think you can be really really proud of what you created here. Sending lots of love. Thank you for so many Sunday morning videos I can watch with my breakfast ❤️

[@MadameEster]

Lily I am incredibly impressed and always admired you on how you handle yourself and your relationships, you are an incredible lovely decent human being ❤

[@marcang4403]

Omg! I just realized that I’ve followed you for more than 8 years (followed you before your wedding) Thank you for the honest video. Luv the part on giving your partner space, hence not working together. Find that very sensible, mature and realistic. Also luv and thank you for your honesty on the last question. Really.. appreciate it. Not joking, I did have a dream of you going to Anna’s house for Foggy Morning (before today’s vid) i send my luv as it seemed like such a difficult question to answer. Very very beefy and good vid! Thank you

[@shabnambafarassat513]

Lily, thanks for answering the last question. It takes a lot to acknowledge and answer. Well done!

[@maryn9167]

Awww lily, i could see the pain in your voice. We all understand. You are doing amazing, and i love foggy morning's, cant wait for next episode.

[@lucymott4165]

Friendships ending or changing is so hard, big hugs and thanks for sharing with us ❤

[@sunshinegalkw9675]

I was my mom’s 3rd and unplanned. My mom’s not very warm and fuzzy, but she always has my back and lets me know she loves me. I love being a 3rd, and my brother and sister are both over 10 yrs older than me. They have always been a great source of love and support for me. I’m also lucky to have to be close in age to my nieces and nephews! My mom said she didn’t expect me, but I was the best gift!

[@carolinavieira5947]

I loved the honesty and grace you had answering all the questions, including the last one of course. I’ve been here for many years (since waaaay before you had kids 🫣) and of course noticed a change in the relationship but at the same time…who am I/we to question it? I’m glad you feel in a good enough place to mention the topic and grateful for your effort to say something about it. It’s in these things anyone can see you really like your audience, and I hope you feel that we really like you back, very much so 🥰

[@effie5238]

Loved the q&a, such really good questions & answers of course! Really glad you touched on your relationship with Anna. Saw a comment a while back and hoped that like many things on the internet, it was just fake news. I'm really sorry you're no longer friends. Losing a friend is never easy, but it's also sometimes just a part of life. Wishing you both well moving forward.

[@Buckhurst4]

Lily, you are a beautiful person and brave soul! Always enjoy your videos, keep up the good work!

[@angeladenys2155]

Hi Lilly, sending hugs to the most genuine content creators that I follow. You are real. You talk openly about quite difficult situations. You are going from strength to strength. Go girl. ♥️

[@archanakarania]

Wowowow the way u handled the last part ....Ao good to see u come this far and handling it in a very dignified manner ....

[@RL-po3my]

Love the actual real honesty in this q&a! So relatable! Thank you

[@jeniferfedun1400]

You answered the last questions so well. So respectful and mature.

[@gillianaitken87]

I had my third when my two boys were 7 and 5. Best decision ever having a fairly big age gap. I’m loving having a 1 year old and am so so happy we decided to go for the 3rd. I now know 100% that I’m done. Zero regrets.