A DAY IN MY LIFE | WORKING MUM OF THREE | WHY I'M LEAVING SOCIAL MEDIA

This is my last KZbin video as I'm leaving social media- thank you all for being amazing!
A typical day in my life as a working mum of three. It covers everything from what I get up to at work, to how I stay on the Slimming World plan, my evening routine and how I manage time across all three kids.
Follow my journey on Instagram: / ayeshahak
#adayinmylife
#workingmum
#mumofthree

[@dee_1989]

This is the first video I've seen of yours and it's your last video! I'll just have to go back and watch all the rest lol

[@samira201010]

Me too! Lol

[@husnearabegum9302]

Same

[@XNarutoNineTaleFoxX]

Same here!!! XD

[@sofinabegum446]

Same

[@aromaofzanzibar]

Me too 🤨

[@zahraali7905]

I found u when u r leaving social media but it is inspiring to see Muslim women who is not allowing Socail media to control u but instead u control it 👌🏻❤️😍 a lots of love ❤️

[@minnicute2497]

Hi I love your videos 💗😍

[@mohammedali4804]

Same here and whatever she does in life may allah bless her and her family inshallah

[@lenamokbel4499]

Ur very pretty MashAllah

[@lenamokbel4499]

Mohammed Ali Ameen pls capitalize Allah

[@phoe8765]

*As a Muslim father I would like to see your husband help you in kitchen. I am a physician & my wife an active lady like you demanded that I help at home. it made sense. Now my three sons help their wives without being asked & my wife is so proud of it!*

[@ar7684]

Pho E he does help I see on her Instagram. But when he is working late it is very hard to.

[@sanasajid4905]

I believe at the end of the video she mentions her husband helps clean the kitchen and makes a evening snack for them to enjoy together when he comes home from work.

[@TajweedQuran123]

ماشاءالله

[@tonysworld9788]

Very inspriing im raising 2 young biys by myself im w single mom and im also teaching them that they are supposed to help in the home i dont want them to grow up like those people who think evey chore is a womans job

[@jaquelinehighfield5436]

Phew I don't know how you do this everyday it wore me out just watching it, but good luck sorry you are leaving xx

[@victoriarobinson4587]

Me too and like women really do a lot wow

[@azmatshah2769]

May Allah make it easy on all mothers

[@bintacamara4221]

Ameen!

[@sewingbasics959]

Aameen

[@truthbeetoldd631]

@Gerrit Smith your a waste of oxygen with those type of views! Go educate yourself.

[@asmaa9195]

@Gerrit Smith women actually worked at the time of the prophet pbuh, not necessarily outside the home(sewing threading even trading with a representative) but some did work outside.

[@methewho7040]

@Gerrit Smith thats not true woman are allowed to go out but i agree with marrying and staying at home with kids is easier while husband is working. Thank Allah he gives this opportunity to women.

[@laurenb3793]

I don’t blame you. You’re intelligent, motivated and an insipration. Life is all about balance and you’re an example that you can have it all, obviously it’s not easy. But social media has taken over most people’s lives and good on you for seeing that family and your career are more important. I will miss your posts on Instagram and your recipe videos. I pray everything goes well with your promotion and Allah makes it all easy for you. Ameen. Wassalam x

[@AyeshaHak]

Thank you so much. I love social media but it really does take over and something has to give with me going back full time. So much as I’ll miss it, I’m also really looking forward to focusing on family and career xx

[@laurenb3793]

Good for you! You basically have 3 full time jobs, a content creator, your career and a mother and wife at home. Good on you for keeping it up for so long! All the best! X

[@cultivatingwellness4028]

@@AyeshaHak Wonderful family. But your eldest son (Erfan), seem so well-mannered, what a gem. May Allah continue to bless you all💕💕💕💕

[@TajweedQuran123]

Amiin

[@aliskitchen5389]

Looks like hard work thank allah for giving mothers to this world

[@hn1405]

Really admire how you use your day wisely and remember to remember Allah during your day!

[@Pky1888]

Masha Allah, found you in youtube recommendation and I am glad I did. It is not easy to be active when we are busy with our own tiny world. Gradually I feel into depression and when I realised I had to shut down too. See your vlog today reminded of myself few months back. Terrible days... not easy with 3 young kids. It shows that we need to take control of social media & don't let social media control you. Insha Allah will see you back soon as I have added you. Take care

[@wassilasworld3577]

so sad you're leaving only discovered your channel today!! I am sure you're doing this for good reasons God bless you and your family 🤗

[@rsstpc6141]

I pray Allah blesses you and your family. You're inspiring, and as I've mentioned before your kids are too cute Allahumma barek. Insha'Allah we'll see you when the time is right. Take care sis xxx

[@AyeshaHak]

Thank you for the beautiful message ❤️

[@TrudiBeanie]

I am always in awe of how much you accomplish every day so can appreciate that a promotion and going back full time means something has to give 💕 but I’m genuinely going to miss you and the family x

[@AyeshaHak]

Ah Trudi- have loved getting to know you and wish we had the chance to meet. Much love xx

[@TrudiBeanie]

AyeshaHak that would have been lovely, perhaps one day our paths will still cross 💕Thank you for taking the time to share your life, thank you for po-gate and for the day we were all guessing the random lunch Iman had! And grown up adventures with Irfan my two are older so it’s been nice to see time with teens.

[@Hassan_ali_games]

Everyone has their capacity... I'm so down these days just because I also want to do something but just can't do it...watching you doing such a brilliant job has actually motivated me.

[@rayyanazmi1217]

Alhamdulillah.

[@mohammedali4804]

Inshallah allah gives you the strength to accomplish your goals in life ameen

[@mujahidoffuture]

Beautiful mommy and beautiful kids...masha allah u are very hard working sis... all the best for the future

[@AyeshaHak]

Thank you so much xx

[@sidramalik2497]

Beautiful ..praying on time,working, cooking, being amazing to you family.. So inspiring..stay blessed.

[@tahiatahia8060]

I never came across your channel until now. You were in my recommended. Ironically, it’s your last video! Anyways, all the best ❤️

[@tamik3118]

Got a little emotional watching! May Allah grant you your heart’s desires & protect your beautiful family! Lots of love!! Xxx

[@mrakhan9516]

Tami K desires are bad you donkey

[@harpreet8177]

What a busy yet fulfilling schedule! Congrats on the new role at work. I’ll miss the videos but totally get it 👍🏼 See you at group x

[@AyeshaHak]

Thank you! I’m SO back on SW - see you on Sat xx

[@aong8348]

Lol 😂 why did I found you When you’re leaving 🙄😥

[@HumiAhmed]

So sad your disconnecting. Really felt you were one influencer who I could really connect with and relate to. Wishing you all the best in your new role x

[@mjama9503]

So the algorithm works just when you're Leaving KZbin

[@soumayam7200]

Salam my sister! Oh I'm so sad...I've been following you on KZbin for a few days, I was so glad to finally find vlogs from a working mom like me...but I totally understand your decision. I wish you and your family the best, may God protect you 😘 Your sister from Belgium ❤

[@khanx8328]

Oh wow! Ma'sha'Allah. You make me appreciate how much easier my life is lol. I am a newish mum. Daughter just turned one and I am a primary school teacher. Life is a big juggle at the moment but insha'Allah will all pay off. Ameen. Jzk for the video x

[@uf6447]

It will inshaaAllah💕

[@samyayazi]

9:14 Totaly cute .. U have to hear this🤗🎀

[@patriciag571]

Congratulations on your promotion. I hope you keep us up to date occasionally! Your channel is one of my favorites.

[@AyeshaHak]

Aww once I secure a house upgrade I’ll be back- hopefully in a year or so xx

[@saragoody6195]

I hope you can finish that year soon. I pray that you can be a mum working from home because my heart aches knowing that you are missing out on the children's lives. Before we know it the kids are all grown up and on their own, involved in their own lives. Best luck

[@SalmaANM]

I’m gonna miss you and your videos.. wishing you all the best insha allah ❤️

[@AyeshaHak]

Thank you so much Salma- stay in touch xx

[@pseller4052]

Sweet mom and sweet children. May Allah make it easier on you ❤️

[@seylaadam7605]

Please continue making this type of videos it's so inspiring ❤️

[@marymurphy3669]

At 1.32 it's so so adorable. Beautiful, affectionate children and hardworking parents.

[@forgotten.]

OMG you’re married with 3 kids !! That’s so cool I thought you’re 23 - 24 yo like me when did you do all that😂😂❤️ you look so beautiful mshaAllah 🙈

[@lallaamani4121]

What a busy bee ! You definitely need the time off of social media. I wish you all the best for the future. Will miss your videos💜

[@Halimahhappiness]

Where is your husband? He doesn't help you at all with the children in the daily routine? Very strange.

[@leiladin4331]

She does the morning routine, feeds them, clothes them, feed them breakfast, prepare lunch for them, take them to school.. Especially since she works outside the home as well, than comes home and cooks diner! Read them a book, do the nightroutine .. pfff its a productive day, but to do this everyday you can get a burn out long term!

[@ayanrasheed4794]

Like many others I just found you too! Wish I found you earlier.

[@smileitsasunnah8872]

Soooooo going to miss you your such a genuine person may your journey be successful in shaa Allah....

[@LydiaIsaacTv]

Oh I truly appreciate and love every bit of this video. Why did KZbin just recommend this to me now

[@a.z.s6679]

Well that sucks cuz I just saw my very first video which happens to be ur last. Come back super fast. Loads of love and duaas

[@mairookhan5253]

You were in my recommended videos today and I enjoyed it a lot. I love the way how you multitask ماشاالله with family, home, work and looking after your own health by eating super healthy and running during your break at work. Wish you weren’t leaving but I guess everybody knows their own priorities according to their own lives. Wish you all the best sis Love your beautiful kids and the fact that you’re giving them good tarbiyah ( Irfan serving you hot chocolate ). Always good to involve the children in little jobs around the house. I can go on but need to pray Maghreb. Tc. 💕 From Pakistan

[@shirsu8079]

Good luck with everything xxx we will surely miss you 🥺 I truly enjoyed all of your content but can see how super busy you already are and will be with the onset of full time hours x please don't forget us and come and say 'hi' if you ever get some time. All the best x x x

[@hebaahmad5150]

Great video! But I must say, combining Asr and magrib isn't right. According to the fatwas I read, you're only allowed to combine Thuhur and Asr together, Magrib and Isha together. In addition, Fajir cant be combined 💜. I wanted to advise you nothing more, God bless you and your family, sending lots of hugs from a fellow sister 💜💜💜💜💜

[@jfkfashion8378]

Much love from India phenomenally you are role model of every working women

[@soniakhan3592]

Dude I can so relate I’m a working mum of three my boys are 7&8 and my daughter is 3.! I do have lotsa help from my wonderful husband but trust me the struggle is real.! You go girl.!

[@aldisasinanovic5908]

I just found you..and you're going.Salaam from Bosnia.You're beautiful soul.❤

[@AyeshaHak]

Oh sis- from Bosnia, so beautiful MashaAllah! Love and duas x

[@justahumebeing3017]

Hope my son is well mannered like your son.. Mashallah

[@einas1995]

Wow I really enjoyed watching your video! You're inspiring! And mashallah what a lovely family... All the best, waiting for the next video!

[@MyLittleDomesticChurch]

I loved this video so much!! I’m a mama of 6 and watching your routine and family time and work...everything was just so special!! Thanks so much for making this!

[@KASA-cr4ij]

Good luck for the future! Going to miss you on social media. Takecare sis

[@AyeshaHak]

Thank you so much c

[@Newswithfatima]

Tuff life really .lot of time spend outside than work at home.kids.Allah bless you

[@yummyhealthy5126]

You’re amazing dear 😘wish you best for 2020😘😘

[@Rajmin1984]

Congratulations on your new promotions Ayesha would defo miss your videos so much all the best for future and in sha allah all goes well

[@robynd3632]

Awww I will really miss your videos and seeing your adorable little ones. I wish you all the best with your new journey. You're so busy so I completely get that you need to focus on priorities. Hopefully we get to see you all again in the future. Much love and best wishes 💕

[@AyeshaHak]

Thank you so much! It means a lot that people understand and can relate xx

[@basantispeaking334]

Choosing ur career is a wise decision over social media..im glad u got courage to do that however people on social media can do anything to get the views and sub.. You re a great women.. MashaAllah I also just started my channel on youtube just because i want to do something and i cant go out for jobs leaving my kids at home .. Wish me good luck dear

[@stefaniejules6494]

Your such a great mom you make sure your kids are safe well clothed and happy if only my parents were like you

[@norfathinmk4582]

You are amazing and and inspiring. I am single and a working woman, wishing to have a work & life balance like you too. I will try to improve better. Plus, performing prayer 5 times a day in your busy days. May Allah bless you sister. :)

[@safaamari1438]

Asalaam Alaikum sis. I'm not gonna lie but this made me emotional, just recently subscribed too 😭. Indeed I am going to miss your videos 😭, they are just so relatable and a pleasure to watch, Mash'Allah 😌🤗. Btw Mash'Allah Congratulations on your promotion, you sure deserve it 😘🤗. May Allah always keep you happy and wishing you all the best Insha'Allah, Ameen 🤲💝. Peace and blessings oXo ✌️🙏💖.

[@simasoumi5551]

I just got this by chance it was suggested but just as ur title says.. As a mother myself I don't understand how people can dedicate time for social media although they might be helping others but maaaan family comes first hugs and kisses family quality time is sooooo important... U can go back to it when they r all grown up if u are all alive and in good health and u have enough time. Take care

[@Ocean40197]

You are leaving but I just found you. Glad to have found you !

[@dianagamez76]

The kids are so adorable! 😁

[@mishkatyousif7061]

I'm in tears this is so beautiful ❤️❤️God bless your family!

[@desirelabelle2199]

What place do you work?

[@spiritualgiftsireland3012]

Best wishes in your new position. I've loved all your videos 💖

[@karamel820]

Salam just found your channel sad to hear you will not be making anymore videos u seem like a great role model

[@ATAHID1]

This is really inspirational plus it demonstrates how hard it could be for being a mum

[@samk2283]

Oh such a shame if only just found your channel!

[@hibomohamed2505]

Best vlog ever i watched calm and beautiful😍😍

[@amaankhan7726]

...from Mrs Kashmir.. Happy for u..please..hire home Help..or get take away on tired days...u will enjoy the kids more.. Duas for all

[@francestrainor4758]

I've loved your videos and will still use your amazing recipes. Well done on the promotion and all the very best to you and your lovely family x

[@ninasa8100]

I can’t imagine being a mom and do full time job at the same time 🤯

[@ilhamberberlady7417]

Yeah exactly!!!

[@meeresblau2332]

👍Allahumma Barek

[@saimakhan7579]

Of course good ol' KZbin recommends you to me as you're leaving! 😑 Well at least I can go back and watch all your old videos! Stay strong and kudos to you for looking out for your family first! 👍🏻❤ Love from the states!

[@carleneboulden4386]

I've just found you now you aren't on KZbin anymore! You are inspiring!😊

[@ajx_z1713]

Wish you all the best sis for a bright future ahead for you and your fam x

[@larson511]

Thank you for showing real life with toddlers. American youtubers will honestly say they dont want to show the tantrums-so all their videos look like perfect little families. It makes me feel less alone knowing you go through the combing struggles too and early morning routines.

[@كمالالعابدي-ر6ط]

Machalah my sister take care and god blessed your kids🤲

[@samyamfarrej3337]

Best of luck. Allah bless you and your family

[@hogotusaal]

Isn't it funny she got the most views on her 'last video'?Masha Allah, beautiful family. Hopefully she gets more subscribers.

[@searchknowledge7081]

Allah bless you sister .. I respect your way of video everything is tidy arranged you look so caring about kids family .. 💚💗💐wish you all the best from 🇰🇼

[@ummeetaa_x]

This is the first video of yours that I'm seeing but its your last.. Best of luck with work and I'm still subscribing.

[@arnelabih1845]

MashaaAllah beautiful kids sister. Now your motivating me to return to work with one for full time. I've started doing my prayers too Alhamdullilah.

[@carolkline5843]

It's hard being a working mum I worked fulltime when I had my first child .Shes now 44 lol.Things where different years ago and I had no car .X

[@khufekhuda2689]

Sister I liked ur videos because u very well managed times for prayers... Being working women... Mother.. Wife u didn't forget ur Allah.. That's best.. Keep it up... 🙂

[@amnamalik1221]

its my first time watching you you are really beautiful, i really appreciate women like you as i am also a working mom and love to see hardworking pure Muslim women like you. i feel myself in you

[@_NayomieMcLeod]

This is so inspiring 😍! I can’t wait to move back to the UK and start my career. Well done you’re doing a great job !

[@oumsy6326]

Maa Shaallah you are a Power Mum 😍😍🤗😘❤Allah Helps you 🤗

[@maryannoor6730]

Mashallah habiiti ❤️

[@annak3380]

You made me sad. 😔 All the best. Will miss your channel. X

[@haruspex1-50]

I’m not a Muslim but I kind of felt bad when you said how uneasy it is to run with a hijab. You shouldn’t have to just ‘get used to it’. I hope someday soon a form of hijab or veil will be created for women like yourself who both want to do exercise and show personal devotion to their faith. Fascinating vlog btw. Keep up the great work

[@sabrinanasir1202]

Today first time came across your KZbin to see u r leaving but I guess it’s in shaa allah for something better and I am sure u will continue making everyone proud and also u can post time to time some updates and also how u r doing and we all would love to hear from you am sure those that follows you for a long time! Your kids are beautiful masha’allah and so are you and all the very best xx

[@shomems465]

she said no !

[@arabiansister3865]

Even me I feel so shy to film front of people. Allahuma barek laki Beautiful family

[@Ms.Francis]

I have thoroughly enjoyed this video. What a pity you shan't be carrying on.

[@hahazim34]

Mashallah your kids are so cute, inshallah they will be so successful in the future

[@hadiyaqaderi5570]

Iam student I cant even mange my self.mashallha you are so organised with 3 kids and job

[@beyourbest27]

I love your video's and I really respect mothers especially when they also work. Being a mom is hard and a fulltime job. Super tiring. I wonder how to make such video s

[@iwanttowatchyoutubenow]

Sis i work part time i dont know you do it working full time. Of course im sure you have a wonderful supportive husband. Allah bless you and your family on your journey of life.

[@abniali9594]

Masha Allah 💕💕💕

[@Inaibahsbeauty]

This is my first time watching your video and I'm actually sad that it's your last video 😔 I hope at some point you'll be back in shaa Allah xx

[@samirahhz6250]

We will miss u alot sis and ur lovely kids. Wich you all best xx

[@umuhannah2023]

Mashaallah tabaraaallah may Allah bless sister. Sister don't think it is allowed to combine asr and maqrib.u can only combine duhr and asr. Maqrib and isha when u r travelling. Thanks

[@NazkitchenfunHD]

Mashallah what a amazing Mom May Allah give you the strength and good health!!! 💖💖💖💖💖💖🙏🙏

[@Alkanadiya]

Why don't you quit your job for your kids and stay with them more? Social media you can do when you are with your kids but work you are leaving them.

[@caitkern6486]

Mashallah your family is so beautiful. My mom had three children and she used to work full time, when we were growing up all three of us used to have long curly hair and we hated having to get it brushed. Some tricks my mom did helped a lot though. She would normally sit behind us on our couch with her legs on either side so if we tried to run she could kind of trap us. She would also try to give us something to distract us with like a book or a toy. Then she would spray our hair down with a children's knot-free spray and brush like you do with your own hair, from the bottom up. But would put her hand on the hair or the scalp just above where she was brushing so it would pull on the hair and not the scalp. Braids were a must because as kids we hated anything tight or pulling on our hair, she would brush it, braid it, then throw in a clip or head band for any baby hairs that were coming out. Anyway I hope that helps. keep doing what you are doing you are awesome!

[@mysecretsketchbook865]

Asalaam wa alaykum your video is one of the best. Congratulations on your Promotion Well Done sister. God Bless You, your families and Children that are Mashallah SOOOO cute. Kiss them each day as from experience they grow up super quick. LOVE LIGHT AND PEACE. I am in England too.