A lazy Girls Guide to Finding the Perfect Aesthetic to Match Your Essence (Pretty Privilege/ kibbe)

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Below are the Pintrest Board for each essence
The Gamine (1:09)
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The Dramatic (2:36)
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The Natural (5:25)
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The Classic (6:56)
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The Romantic (8:34)
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The Igungue (10:10)
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The Ethereal (12:35)
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[@Tatianaclicks]

Hey Guys thanks for your overwhelming support. Just to let you know I do have a speech impediment and it’s something I work on daily. Love your Support and Dont forget to comment your mix in the comment section

[@sherry7347]

I didn't even notice your speech impediment. This was fantastic material and has inspired me to get more into my personal style and challenge myself to show it through the summer. thank you :)

[@SanaaJadeCruz]

I love the way you speak you remind me of my daughter she has a speech impediment and she works so hard too. Your eloquence and ability to spark inspiration in others is remarkable ❤ you have a unique gift 💝

[@Tatianaclicks]

@@sherry7347 awee thank you 🩷

[@Tatianaclicks]

@@SanaaJadeCruz girl that is so sweet

[@sherry7347]

@@Tatianaclicks I also have a speech impediment and this is so cool to me because it is such an amazing example of not limiting yourself. I have been wanting to do certain things but shy away because of speech . So, amazing job! You doing you on this platform is healing and inspiring 💖. Ty !

[@unbotheredsis1934]

my comeback is very critical. i’m the main character of my life, so I gotta dress like the main character. period

[@OfJournalandJourney]

I felt that ❤

[@amasinterlude]

Daily affirmations

[@lillian5550]

Essences : 1:10 "The GAMINE" 2:35 "The DRAMATIC" 5:35 "The NATURAL" 6:56 " The CLASSIC" 8:34 "The ROMANTIC" 10:10 "The INGENUE" 12:34 "The ETHEREAL + INGENUE"

[@Nwakaego_]

Thank you!

[@taz_tacky3410]

🙏🏽

[@ReviewByVTech]

Nice

[@n.n8991]

It's nice to find an essence video specifically for black girls and natural hair! I would also suggest the mob wife and office siren aesthetic for the romantic essence.

[@sedie94]

Thanks for this comment! I really identify with the Romantic essence and want to explore more style options~❤

[@Infojunkie-lj1up]

Yesss

[@OfJournalandJourney]

Yes!

[@intergalacticbnb]

I love that your content is geared towards naturals. And not just hair but that it incorporates personality, style, etc. Informative, humorous, and relatable. Please keep it up!

[@rubyreduxx]

FINALLY an essence video geared towards Black Womens

[@sampledarchives]

Utilizing the feminine archetypes in this way was absolutely genius. Begging for more content around this.

[@gorlunion]

BEGGINGGGGGGGGGG

[@Tatianaclicks]

I plan to make some this month

[@lavellans]

The centering of natural hair is everything ❤ please never stop

[@makeithomewithsade4176]

A classic everyday, a dramatic on a girl’s night, a romantic on a date night

[@MegaJasmine87]

I love this - diff looks for diff occasions 👌🏿

[@Loaf0fBread]

I’m an Asian girl here, and I wanna say thank you for providing a different perspective, it helped me to better understand the principle behind the essences bc of the variety of examples you provided. I feel like I watched other videos on the same topic but it barely made a dent in my understanding of fashion. Thank you for this!

[@Tatianaclicks]

I’m glad I could help!! I barely understood myself when I first learned about them!! So I just wanted to break it down

[@zahrascrown]

It’s so nice to see a guide that truly embraces diverse beauty and encourages us to find our unique aesthetic through our feminine essence.

[@Tatianaclicks]

Glad I could help!

[@vv0011]

Respectfully❤ Sade (Sha-Day) Zoe Kravitz (Zo-E Kra-Vitz) ballet (ba-lay, it’s a French word drop the t in pronunciation and pronounce the ‘e’ as an ‘a’ like the last e in Beyonce) coquette (Ko-Khet) ethereal (E-thear-real) Amazing video, not being rude just informative ❤

[@MimiNwabuokuMD]

❤ Thank you dearly for being kind! We need kindness out here in these interwebs.

[@Justonevideoplease]

Is English her second language? This is my first video

[@SpiciestBee]

She has a speech impediment and it’s posted in her top comment 👍🏾

[@TheKonnoisseur11]

I like her channel but “ballet” and “ethereal” really bothered me

[@maliahjoy2959]

It was her saying woman instead of women for me​@@TheKonnoisseur11

[@janea8093]

I’m definitely the natural. I’m chill. I don’t want to be the loudest in the room but I want to be presentable

[@sssaaaiii21]

My best friend and I were messaging each other about this last night😭 about finding an aesthetic that suits us and then this video comes on my recommended👁️👄👁️

[@Tatianaclicks]

Glad I could help!

[@pelomk9022]

I gravitate towards natural, classic and romantic essence.

[@tesseworld]

I dress according to how i feel, and I wear all of these styles

[@alexatkins9515]

Same!!!

[@SaadetOZTRK]

I don't know my essence but I liked this video a lot

[@Tatianaclicks]

Thank you!!

[@Nwakaego_]

Same here.

[@lawsome2068]

Whatever makes you feel the most comfortable to the point that your self confidence shines through. There's not really a set essence it's just people's preferences and what makes them feel their best and most confident.

[@AnisaLeah]

Loving you by Minnie Riperton was actually for her daughter, Maya Rudolph. She even sings her name at the end of the song. Cool video overall

[@ooops4064]

I literally feel so lost about myself as far as styles and what looks good on me hair wise, clothing wise, etc. this is so helpful

[@Tatianaclicks]

Np Glad I could help. I will be posting more connect. Also learning my body type helped me a lot in my clothing selection

[@isabellatatulli8507]

found myself dressing up more dramatic since 2 years and my life literally changed. I have never felt so sexy and so me!

[@-Marshy-725]

Not trying to be weird, but the way you speak is so cute 😭❤

[@Tatianaclicks]

Awwe thank you!!

[@commentpoliceofficer7991]

I was waiting for someone to break down why everyone is attracted to Tyla and her naturally allure on one of these femininity channels lol 😂 👏

[@Tatianaclicks]

Glad I could help lol!

[@autumnof1992]

I love the earthy black girl aesthetic.

[@GoddessCreation]

Definitely have a mix of Ingenue essence (majority) with a tad bit of that dramatic “glam” side. I also love all things heels, furs, and glitter sometimes!

[@msylvini]

I LOVE your channel especially it's focus on aesthetics! I'm a writer and try to incorporate a variety of black women. These essences have given me another layer beyond our hair and politics! ♥️

[@Tatianaclicks]

Yess! Love to hear it!

[@Singer_and_Songwriter]

👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿

[@AbianahBarbie]

This channel is so unique and a gift to your viewers thank you💖

[@Tatianaclicks]

Thanks for your support!

[@DayeDayeX]

Thank you for centering this around black women 🙏🏾💛

[@tiaaa7108]

Awh great video. Thanks for including women of all sizes ❤

[@Tatianaclicks]

Of course!! Thank you!!

[@sakura-rc3ed]

your videos are so thoughtful and fun to watch especially since our hair is centered. i really appreciate what you do

[@Tatianaclicks]

Thank you!

[@channelearth5672]

I'm definitely The Natural and The Classic. I just vibe so well with those looks. I like to keep it simple.

[@goddess214]

I love this channel! Thank you so much for posting all these gems 🤍

[@iceprincess13]

cracking up at the "I'm gonna cut you" comment about dramatics because it's so true! loved the video 💗

[@Tatianaclicks]

Glad you enjoyed

[@StrawberryPeach707]

Im shook with how helpful this video was. THANK YOU!

[@FairyPrincess281]

I thought i was ingenue, but I'm really natural 😊❤

[@MoreOfSiren]

I love thissss! I’m into essences so this video is perfect for meeeee! I’m definitely romantic but i think there’s a touch of ingenue in there too!

[@samanthaslife5190]

Absolutely love and appreciate this video!!! Felt so understood when you got to the essence i resonate with❤

[@Renaye83]

Sis! This is the BEST video I have seen in a long time! Very visually appealing, clear, concise, great examples! I learned that I'm a natural and will definitely be using this as a guide so i can start intentionally styling myself. Thank you for this information ❤👸🏾

[@EmL-kg5gn]

Thank you for explaining this with a lot of modern examples!! It really helps me understand these more

[@kev8006]

I'm a natural wanting to be a classic lol😂 Thank you for the information!

[@Tatianaclicks]

Don’t worry you can mix essences

[@kev8006]

@@Tatianaclicks Thank you 😊 I'll keep that in mind.

[@kemuntomaranga9576]

Oh this is going to go platinum in the black girl circles

[@sakura-rc3ed]

some criticism to help your video include looking up how to properly say and spell certain words. the first essence is GAMINE, for example.

[@Tatianaclicks]

Thank you!!

[@mac9683]

Love your content. I feel like I’m between romantic and dramatic with a hint of classic

[@lianadotjpeg]

Thank you for making this video. 😍 I really appreciate the focus on natural hair.

[@julyelexis]

This was AMAZING! It was helped me a lot with finding my style. I’ve realized I am a classic and every style you named I’ve made a Pinterest board about. THANK YOU!

[@withloveandchills7674]

You just read my entire life, I'm a natural for sure and now I know some outfits and accessories to go for. Loved the detail of this video and all of the pictures, very wide range of women - love the representation

[@Heynaninani3069]

I LOVE THIS VIDEO!!! I’ve been trying to find my essence and aesthetic for a while but couldn’t find any catered to people who look like me. Thank you Thank you!!

[@ThalvePereira]

omg i loved this video *-* all these black references you´re on a spot! they aren´t very common on sm when talking ´bout aesthetics so good job girl u fvckin ruled well i´m Brazilian so i´m into different kinds of aesthetics but i got the point of the essences which made very much sense thank youuu

[@prettycyber8332]

You’re so lovely 🥰 I’m glad I have a name for my essences. Romantic-classic

[@Tatianaclicks]

Thank you! Love the Name

[@strudelh]

Thank you for making this ! I already kinda know which one I am but I’m glad it to see it more in depth !

[@Tatianaclicks]

Np!!

[@Thekenyatta]

1. Thank you 🙏🏾 this breakdown is so helpful as I’m building my music career and unneeded to describe my style. I’m definitely a little bit of everything, but an even mix between romantic and classic. 2. You can sing 🎶 it’s a muscle and your tone is cute 🥰 3. Love this channel! Love your voice and content ❤️

[@Tatianaclicks]

Awwe thank you! Wish you the best of luck on your music career

[@rreyyahh]

this is my first time seeing a video where the examples look and apply to me wow keep doing what youre doing 💗💗

[@platinumcloset4448]

It’s so crazy because I vouch from dramatic to ingenue all the time and the essence are so so different

[@LittleMissSunshine721]

I feel like I’m a mix of these essences! Great video, and thank you for featuring women of different shapes, shades and sizes! 🥰

[@Awesome00012]

I love this! Definitely inspiration. Thank you so much!

[@Hush-puppy]

New subscriber I really enjoyed this! Thank you for taking to time to put this together ❤

[@girlrey2000]

Love this essence breakdown!

[@SimplisticallyDigital]

Great guide! I fit multiple. ✨

[@silviasoares2302]

I loved it so much!!! ❤ this was so informative and I love that you are including natural hair in it, thanks for the content!

[@Tatianaclicks]

Glad I could help!

[@lisalisa3223]

This is such a nice break down bc I feel I embody 3 of these essences. For work: Classic going out/leisure: Romantic / Natural (I’ll bounce between both)

[@remichantelleb]

Thank you for making this. I have found my essence: the natural and classic. I can work on improving it. ❤️

[@MisfitJetta-du8rg]

Thank you so much. I’ve felt so lost with my hair and clothes. I appreciate it so much.

[@morob1981]

Thanks for this video. I have seen similar content like this, but not showcasing the melinates beauties. Seeing them helped me see myself more in these essences.❤

[@miamagination]

This video is stellar!!! I love the examples and hairstyles you chose for each type. It made it so clear to figure out which ones resonate with me best (I’m a mix of dramatic + gamine + natural). I’m looking forward to more content like this - keep going, wishing you the very best ✨

[@Tatianaclicks]

Thank you so much!!

[@127kawaii]

This was such an interesting video concept! I really enjoyed all the photo examples ~

[@marrieabba3607]

I recently found my essence, which is the natural essence. I found myself gravitating towards this essence. I love how low maintenance yet chic it is. I also recently got locs too. I haven’t been able to update my wardrobe but I really can’t wait to explore more into this

[@amaniiexxchnge]

I love this video so much. There’s so many diff types of women and that’s why I love them so much and love seeing diff types of styles. I hate when ppl especially women tell eachother what not to wear and how to present themselves because not everyone is the same we all have so much beauty I think we just need to enjoy that instead of tryna mold everyone into the same thing thank you for having natural hair on here. I didn’t kno what my style was until I saw the romantic genre u shared it’s me to the last detail.

[@Tatianaclicks]

Awe glad I can help!!

[@Lunar123424]

I was watching and Waiting….the you said Boho Classic Natural ! That’s me 💚

[@allaboutliv7402]

Omg we need a pt 2! Cuz I feel like I lean more towards edgy/alt but I also love color, heels, pink and things of that nature. So please help me 😭💕

[@Kiki-lo6wp]

Sometimes dramatic, but classic and romantic are My thing

[@cheryljohnston8687]

You surprised me. I didn't expect to be on the list. But I have Natural Essance. Comfortable and Simple leaning towards Streetwear. When i was a loose natural i always loved braids and twists, so much so that i left a set in and now have locs. I've always been perceived as chill and a fly on the wall, so it shows in the way I dress. Although as a wife I have an undeniable desire to lean more into Ingenue specifically Soft Girl, so i dress this way while at home. good video

[@meeunice]

This was interesting! Thank you for sharing ❤ I shaved my Afro a few months ago. I'm trying to find my style again. It's quite intimidating.

[@jercoryiac1537]

Thank you SO MUCH for this! I’ve seriously been trying to figure out what my “style” is, and I’ve been so confused lol. This finally put words how I dress. Realized I’m a natural essence✨but I pull from the others depending on my mood. So helpful❤

[@ravennr97]

This was so helpful. I now know I'm a natural with a touch of ingenue.

[@tatsbykiara]

I really love how the examples are all of women of color! I needed this!❤

[@lexglowup977]

I identify with Ingenue the most but also Natural. Loved this breakdown!

[@herpderpy9445]

You helped me put a vocabulary to what I already knew. I'm probably 80% natural/20% classic, which makes sense since there is a bit of overlap in parts.

[@khadijahmuhammad4539]

Sis this video is amazing love it!✊🏾✊🏾

[@JustMeg29]

Another great and beautiful video! I am totally a natural but I really believe that I may be a little mix of everything except wearing sports clothes when I am not working out. It makes me feel ugly lol.

[@laylakeating8135]

Love seeing so many different looks 💓

[@merriem24]

I’ve always love the hiking, outdoorsy essence.

[@rewbi2196]

Nice video with amazing visuals, thank you. By the way, coquette is pronounced like this: "KO-ket"

[@Tatianaclicks]

Oh thank you!

[@bilqis_abu]

I love your videos.

[@Tatianaclicks]

Awwe thank you 🩷

[@Vhusi]

Thank you so much for this amazing video ❤❤

[@ImaniHospedale]

I feel like I’m a classic/romantic /natural lol. I like to be my earthy self, but when I step out, it’s fur coats, patterns and prints☺️☺️ At work I tone it down because of my curves👀🫠

[@missfabidia]

80 % Ethereal + 20 % Classic

[@daniela5748]

Oh snap. I’m the “Natural” w/ a touch of “Romantic.” Thank you for this ❤❤

[@pinkmoonmeadow]

found out i’m an ingenue! just need to start being more confident in wearing it more. tyy for a guide for black girls !

[@creedynamics3647]

Didn’t think i could gravitate towards one mostly but you’ve made it quite simple. 😊

[@missfabidia]

Thank youuuu ❤❤❤

[@jessicabw]

Thank you for this breakdown! I think I want to aim for the classic and romantic.

[@xshesyourqorqeousxx3]

My essence is definitely romantic. My confirmation is that I have a good chunk of the pics that you used saved on IG, I follow some of those ladies, and pics like those make up majority of my explorer page. I love Queen Pokoo’s page. She’s definitely my top beauty inspo.

[@emilyvbr1878]

I have struggled to understand essences until this video. Thank you!

[@ijeomawakama7200]

well done girl! this was enjoyable to watch! you did really great at organising and categorising everything neatly and easily to understand 😊

[@Tatianaclicks]

thank you

[@knomesarecooliguess5928]

This is so helpful! I think I’m a mix between classic and Ingenue

[@Sunny49599]

Girrrrllllll you ate with this video!!!!!

[@UMMH2000]

I love this ❤❤❤

[@alana.indigo]

I absolutely loved this video! I’ve been natural hair since my sophomore year in college and have been having a difficult time relating to the femininity videos on YT because of the lack of representation of women who prefer not to wear wigs/weaves. I’ve tried but they itch! I can’t take it! 😅 GREAT VIDEO!

[@munchingmogul]

Omg , i loved when you sang Minnie Riperton💖✨

[@gabrielleh6087]

Love the video, and honestly felt like I pulled from several of these aesthetics in my own fashion. One thing I’d like to note is that Mini Riperton’s song was written for her daughter, Maya Rudolph, as a way to distract her while her and her husband “hung out” 😗. So not exactly about sex, but in the ballpark.

[@carpediem8855]

Love love love this video! Keep it up!