A LOVE TRIANGLE GONE WRONG: The Case of Cari Farver

[@maria-ih4vx]

this is definaly not Cari , it wasn't her bipolar disorder or her going off her meds , this is someone else pretending to be her and my guess is Liz . Such a crazy case

[@Ddalgiichigo]

Would explain how she always got his number again and also how she could always see him… it also lines up with the texts to her mother and not showing up at the wedding too…

[@amyd4444]

Agreed! Not seen part two yet but i am guessing same thing.

[@ridinwithjake]

I think it is Cari. She is bipolar, this would explain her behavior especially if she stopped taking her meds.

[@mariannaarakelyan]

I think the same

[@michalaleitch]

this

[@sanaalrashidi1742]

That message from Cari’s son Maxwell asking questions only she would know the answers to was heartbreaking.

[@LUVBUG24K]

😢😢😢

[@tarajh]

Yeah.. he knew something was up :(

[@hannahgarcia777]

I saw this video 2 years ago and as soon as Netflix uploaded "Lover Stalker Killer" I knew I'd heard the story before. Congrats to Bella for being ahead of the game

[@Tryp-j9d]

Cuz it was on Dateline SEVERAL YEARS AGO!!!!

[@jordanblankjordanblank4603]

This entire video I was waiting for, "and then Cari's body was found."

[@kayray7598]

omg sameee

[@gracieharrower6111]

same like maybe it’s liz the whole time because she always knows it’s new numbers and what he’s doing and bc “she’s being harassed” too no one would expect it

[@nemofish3504]

Liz killed Cari. She was the one sending all those messages.

[@susanburke5275]

Ohhh my god I’m the same

[@sharky2538]

sameee!

[@TheScarletAlchemist]

Wait, the cops thaught she was in a manic episode and they still didn't try to find her?!? That should have made then want to look for her more just to make sure she didn't harm herself or anyone else, if that's the story they wanted to go with.

[@georgiaf2987]

that’s exactly what i thought

[@haleytruslow7200]

Exactly!

[@hungergames_1989]

They did try looking for her, but they couldn't find any sign of her besides the texts and emails. No one had seen her at the scene during the fire, or when she would say things that he was doing.

[@MeriweatherDesigns]

EXACTLY! LITERALLY ANY EXCUSE NOT TO DO THEIR FRICKIN JOBS THE TAX PAYERS PAY THEM TO DO

[@astrowolvez]

Sounds about right.

[@chopemalone6182]

My husband is one of Cari's first cousins and we started dating around the time she went missing. Its so odd seeing true crimers posting videos about her case lately. RIP Cari.

[@Lissa11638]

Sorry for your family's loss💗🙏 sending love, light, & prayers

[@BeingBrittanny]

I’m am so sorry this happened to your family. ❤️

[@CJLOVE23]

Sorry for your loss but did you family really think Cari was just going through a bipolar episode? Or did anyone *know* this wasn’t her?

[@chopemalone6182]

@@CJLOVE23 We didn't have all the details in the beginning but her Mom definitely knew it was not her. She knew something was wrong.

[@chopemalone6182]

@@CJLOVE23 Also, the fact that she didn't show up to her Father's funeral or her brother's wedding...we knew something wasn't right.

[@shantelperez4935]

There’s no way some lady stalked this guy for two years over a two week relationship. It has to be Liz.

[@anibal624]

Liz pretends to be shocked 😳.,, especially the garage part and the car being at the house 16:15. And flaking at 19:45. And 20:50 refusal to simply reply facebook messages the fire she set on her own home 22:35. How can no one else suspects liz. Her motivation was to keep Dave thinking Tex were from Cari , to scare other girls from the relationship and this bonded them (Dave liz). Liz knew that driving them closer which is what liz protected by stalking

[@dbacher3717]

I’m going out limb to say it’s Liz doing it. I feel sorry for Cari’s family, especially her son, for not knowing what’s going on with her.

[@mariedfwy8255]

I think the same thing! Maybe she got jealous when liz walked past them and did something bad to cari and pretended to be her while doing all these crazy things

[@samanthapage5086]

U crazy Liz is a victim

[@samih5916]

@@samanthapage5086 idiot you didn't watch the video and you're the one who's crazy, not DBacher so don't call her that.

[@crystalb4178]

@Samantha Page If you knew the outcome of this case before writing your comment...how is Liz a victim?

[@emlouuuu4638]

@@samanthapage5086 don’t be a detective 😩

[@OfficialPrettyLittleLiars]

Okay so my guess has to be that it’s Liz, but I’m confused as to how she could do some of the stuff with both of them being together so often. This is some Pretty Little Liars type of shit-I love it

[@mrd931]

YESSSS it’s giving Mona

[@ann-brittalm8900]

I think the same as u

[@FluffishPuppy]

I feel the same way! But if it was true and she burned down her own house with her assets and pets in it she's gotta be the biggest psycho 💀 I'm guessing if she'd done it she probably thought she'd move in together with Dave but that didn't happen so it kinda threw me off

[@bricktastic2602]

You can put an app on a phone that allows you to send prewritten texts to contacts at a certain time and date. I’m assuming that’s what happened here?

[@MariaSantos-cu4jj]

I'm thinking it's Liz too, she has access to his house constantly and can put in cameras without him knowing.

[@briantigre6657]

My guess is that when Liz passed by cari in the hall she got jealous and is a lunatic and eventually got to her maybe killed her and then used her as a coverup to haunt Dave because she was or is obsessed with him.

[@briantigre6657]

Or maybe it’s just cari but the pt2 made me think maybe it wasn’t cari. Also because she never called her family which is weird since at some point she could have just been like oh let me talk to my son or something, but she didn’t…. Maybe it’s cause she got killed.?

[@annetendam]

Exactly my thoughts hahahah

[@astridprevost8191]

I’m sure it’s Liz from the beginning! She killed Carrie, got her phone with her passwords registered in it (email, Facebook...) and stalked and harrassed Dave this whole time in order to look like this adorable, supportive girlfriend. She’s the only one who could have access to so many informations about Dave and about herself.

[@__ntombi__7976]

Correct

[@anibal624]

Liz pretends to be shocked 😳.,, especially the garage part and the car being at the house 16:15.And flaking at 19:45.

[@lovemelissa2540]

I’m currently being harassed by someone I dated for 3 months and now I keep coming across these kind of cases and it’s giving me more reason to take it serious to protect myself because right now it’s just him threatening me but I will not be taking no more chances this stuff is serious never take it lightly ever no matter how big or small

[@Noneofurbiznsjsbaauabaaahhsbss]

Please be safe!!!!

[@sabinabasnet7963]

Now whats going on?

[@amsou4846]

Story time

[@ebru6731]

hope you’re okay!!

[@spkmff414]

Me knowing the story already, thinking there’s no way Bella can finish this in the remaining two minutes. I’m ready to be shook in part 2.

[@marinavor]

Same thought. Too many details to mention

[@BeingBrittanny]

Totally but I got lost in time. Was not watching the timeline. But did notice it was a short video. So when she said “that’s part 1” .. I screamed 😆

[@kayayyvee25]

if you know the story why would you be shook

[@gypsydonovan]

Me too. Even when it started I thought “that’s not enough time “. It’s such a crazy case.

[@mazzmarymaria]

Ikr😂

[@bunchofbrunners8473]

Can we talk about how good Bella’s hair looks at this length I’m obsessed

[@anibal624]

no but her bedroom style creates an ambient iloove

[@queenjoss4417]

After you got to the part about cari supposedly missing and the stalking began, I just knew that Liz is the one behind all horrible things happening. Waiting for part two, but gut says it's Liz.

[@Thankgot]

It is

[@kennedyr1399]

i am obsessed with your hair rn the shape the length the volume the colour its gorgeous on you!!

[@sahar926]

It's Liz being the horrible stalker pretending that it's happening to her too. I'm fairly certain she killed Cari two years ago in Daves apartment.

[@kjkalways8470]

Yesss!!! I agree!!

[@2300VirgoAvenue]

INSIDE THE APARTMENT?! How would that even be possible?

[@Zzlinc]

@@2300VirgoAvenue When he went to work and he left Cari alone in the apartment. Right before she started texting him that they should move in together

[@witchcraftandlizardry]

Ok but she killed her own animals??????????????

[@2300VirgoAvenue]

@@Zzlinc Ahh, okay…but you’d expect SOME form of DNA at the scene, like how they found key evidence inside Cari’s car..because it was a messy attack.

[@bambaolina]

once you mentioned liz and cari seeing each other in the stairwell, i thought this was definitely liz’s doing. clearly it’s not cari, so it seems like liz is the only clear suspect. i feel so bad for cari’s family :(

[@ryleefog3307]

Not sure if anyone will see this but I just came back to this video because Netflix just released a documentary on this case and I knew I’d watched it before, it’s a hard one to forget!! The documentary is really good so highly recommend having a watch 🥰

[@NevadaLamb]

Thanks for mentioning!! This video popped up on my feed and somehow I hadn’t watched it before (I guess it was an earlier video before the case was solved). I know the case super well and it’s a fascinating one, so I’m off to watch the Netflix documentary!

[@MeriweatherDesigns]

I will never understand why the police think that just because someone may have run away or are OFF THEIR MEDS means not to look for them like WHAT?

[@anibal624]

lazy

[@sheluvvbarbie]

“they ran away🤷‍♀️” THEN GO FIND THEM LOL

[@MeriweatherDesigns]

@@sheluvvbarbie but right?

[@cp2342]

Yeah trust me my aunt has bipolar and over the years she’s sent so many threats to family members mind me they’re idiotic for downplaying it as an excuse for her behaviour as they still deal with her on a day to day basis all due to wanting to spend time with her children. I had multiple altercations with her in my teenage years the cops never took it seriously can say I’m an adult now and have nothing to do with her however see my cousins when my Nan gets access. I highly believe one day she’s snapping so bad someone gets hurt and I hope it’s not the case.

[@samanthastanton5440]

Nothing better than Sundays mystery Monday 🤣 gotta love time zones! Thanks for putting out new cases every week for us!

[@gikkaferreira15]

Still Sunday in Australia, but u know, she can do wherever she wants, I will watch straight after 😂

[@shrutiupadhyay613]

@@gikkaferreira15 when it is going to monday😫 i can't wait

[@Z0mbiesAteMyNeighbor]

I think it has to be Liz. Seeing Cari leaving after the hook up was just too bizarre and perfect timing. Liz must of been watching Dave prior. I just don't know how she could murder her own pets ☹

[@smudge8230]

This is such a fascinating case and I’m glad you’re covering it - and with more detail than other videos I’ve seen before. The truth is so wild. Great coverage so far!

[@brr2569]

I love watching/listening to these videos while I shower and i’ve been laying in bed looking for a video WHEN BELLA UPLOADS literally perfect timing 🤍

[@prettypink18s]

me too in the shower !!!!

[@gram5963]

Showering, cleaning, laundry, driving to work… The videos just make mundane things more interesting.

[@s1mone477]

I don't know about in the shower, I'd get paranoid. But other than that I'll listen to this anytime.

[@nybsbfan18]

Don't leave us hanging, Bella... I would be checking for a hidden camera in his apt.

[@maggie2631]

nothing better than Bella on a Saturday evening with true crime ❤❤

[@kayabojmic]

You're my favorite creator on YT. Your energy is just so chill and refreshing. I love it!

[@flowervang5429]

I’ve listened to this episode several times now and I’m still in shock!!

[@nikkydasilva1785]

Yes Bella!!! I’m in the middle of a freakin blizzard in the states right now 😩 and I am so happy you uploaded 💕 hot chocolate and this I’m set 😘

[@lilmssimsalot]

same!

[@pinks0ph]

same!! 😭

[@Ilovevintage77]

Same!!!!

[@meganmorgan8597]

Samesies!!!! Where yall at?!? Im in Delaware

[@nelita8625]

massachusetts here freakin loco i went to work walked and got picked by a cop who gave me a ride. thank you to him blessings to him

[@Renee529]

Love the way you cover cases and the insight you provide Bella!

[@fionaguox]

WOW this case is crazyyyyyyyyy. I literally cannot believe the amount of stalking that has happened to poor Dave and I can't wait to hear what happens in part 2!

[@roses.6600]

I've been catching up on old episodes and didn't realize this was the newest one until I couldn't find part two!!! It's going to be a long night of waiting!! Like a kid at Christmas

[@ketchupjones]

i don’t know what it is, but bella’s voice is so soothing, idk if it’s the accent or the way she talks but it’s comforting if that makes sense??

[@margabrita]

Hearing that the police didn’t even try after hearing that it could potentially be a manic episode isn’t surprising, but I still feel a second of disbelief when I hear stories like this about police. Not that police are capable of handling people with mental health diagnoses without using violence lmao but like not even trying to search? Anyways I definitely think Liz is behind all of this. I think she killed Cari after finding out she was staying at Dave’s apartment and assumed her identity. Liz wasn’t a huge part of Dave’s life so I don’t realistically see a stalker focusing on Liz so much.

[@cassandrapowers8627]

This case is from my hometown of Omaha. Thank you for covering this case in a tasteful way! It is so tragic and we still feel it here to this day…

[@tylerB9919]

When I was in HS my dads first gf after he separated with my mom did something crazy like this 😅 she got upset with him one day started texting him claiming to be her adult daughter that lived out of state & started to harass myself, my minor siblings, my dads coworkers from dozens of different numbers for days on end. I decided to find this adult daughter on FB & turns out it was not her but her mother doing this the whole time & apparently has a history of impersonating & harassment. I decided to pay for a background check on her & she had like 8 different assault charges & multiple restraining orders 😅

[@hannahheartsbooks6]

Why do I feel like it’s actually Liz portraying herself as Cari?

[@Thankgot]

Yep it is have seen this case before

[@julier4140]

So glad someone finally did this case! I zaw the TV version you are posting clips of. I have suggested this case to so many KZbinrs! It is one of the craziest cases I've heard about. Thank you and it definitely warrants a 2 parter!

[@justmagdalenadownhere]

Honestly I spend hours researching cases Bella brings up because they're all so interesting. I could drone on for hours about this stuff.

[@jeannenora6113]

Thanks for the warning about the animals. Truly grateful. Thanks too for the story. Greetings from Switzerland from my cats too

[@julissataveras5091]

Whattttt? How can you do such an amazing job setting up the story to then leave such a massive cliffhanger? Lol 😆 can't wait for part 2 tomorrow

[@Zoeylite]

Love watching and listening while working, thank you so much for all the digging and in-depth story telling. You have the perfect personality for this and I am so glad I found your channel on here. Plus I love your accent. 🙂

[@ginger7344]

I don’t think I’ve ever seen a love triangle that went right.

[@samih5916]

Man I was not expecting to hear any of this and especially the fact that it's part 1 of a two part video. Also, I have a feeling that it's not Cari who is sending Dave and Liz those text messages but I can't wait to find out what it is.

[@sueyoder6707]

Me too. Could it be Liz? 🤷‍♀️

[@samih5916]

@@sueyoder6707 I'm not sure to be honest, maybe it could be her, maybe it couldn't be her.

[@Maroska2000]

Im 100% sure it is Liz, could bet my life on it 😂

[@TheQueenOfSheba]

When I realized the time and where the story was I realized there’s a part two coming lol

[@samih5916]

@@ariawashburn6043 hey don't spoil it for us.

[@samdelarosa6688]

Thank you thank you thank you for the warning about bad things happening to an animal. Idk why but I cannot even watch movies or shows if an animal is limping or sick or growing old for that matter, I become an emotional wreck so thank you again for the PSA. I love Mystery Mondays and you!!

[@ellaturkiewicz333]

Agreed! It’s the one thing I can’t handle either. Anything to do with animals upsets me so much.

[@amypreston6037]

Before I watch part 2 I think I have an idea on how this is going the end. The way that Dave always goes to Liz after everything that happens makes me think it’s Liz that’s behind this. Like she’s is creating this situation to keep herself close to him. I doubt Cari is even still alive at this point.❤️

[@fathemafarjana2343]

Couldn’t stop myself from reading the story online but still can’t wait to watch it !

[@kesharaa2355]

The minute you said there was a switch up in the texts I knew it was Liz 😖. I feel so badly for Cari’s dad - I hope he didn’t die thinking his daughter abandoned him & the family 😔

[@rebeckaross3783]

When i heard how she went from chill to crazy like “flipped a switch “ i was like yup thats the bipolar. It sucks but i also havnt finished watching the video yet so lets seeee

[@swagkeke1]

You’re going to be very surprised when part 2 comes up!!🤣

[@agxoxo12]

You’re going to be VERRRRY surprised by pt. 2…

[@ginagolden7212]

upload days are the best days ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ ty bella!!

[@funnywunnymonkey]

Love how respectful you are in all your cases and the way you cover them!💗💗💗💞💓

[@levaeBri]

I have a theory So it’s LIS Lis killed Cari and took her phone and belongings That’s how Cari have Lis phone number and how Cari keeps on getting his number Every-time he changes it. He keeps in contact with lis and lis has Cari phone number . Some phones have timed messaging which means that u can set the phone to send messages at a certain time. Which would explain the messages when they’re together. Or maybe someone else is also involved. Lis did all the vandalism and everything… Especially since him and Lis got closer He probably opened up to her more which means she knew when to strike Lis had Cari car too and parked it in his drive way. If no finger prints were found- she used gloves. That’s my theory…

[@bjjjb3056]

You're spot on lol

[@AsemaB]

Your hair looks so good, so full and bouncy 💗💗💗

[@mamajewelful]

Don’t agree to be friends with benefits if you can’t handle it, LIZ. Walk away from a man who doesn’t want the same thing you do. It’s only going to hurt you. Shoot, even if you do agree- might catch feelings. My advice: don’t even get involved.

[@yeseniaarguelles8099]

AHHH! I've seen this video being covered before and it was mind blowing. cant wait to see part 2!

[@angelicacarel5504]

Miss ur videos 😭😭 i was so busy with school works for I didn't get to watch you, missed your videos so much, it gets me through much❤️❤️❤️

[@BottledBlueOnYouTube]

I mean…. it’s gotta be Liz right edit: if it is Liz and she BURNT HER OWN HOUSE DOWN AND KILLED ALL HER PETS….. that is another level of twisted and evil 😳

[@aynekmartinez8654]

Bella your truly a True Crime story telling queen but I miss seeing just you in your everyday life vlog 😭

[@alicepoppy904]

side note but Bella you are GLOWING you look amazing

[@chloeb1208]

i know this case already so defs knew there was gonna be another part. great job as usual bella ✨

[@jodeemapoe9032]

I have heard this case before and it really is CRAZY.

[@xrdtfyni5029]

I felt so sorry for Cari at the beginning:( as someone with similar illness I know some struggles .

[@ava-mu9cm]

hi bella! love your videos so much, you always do such a great job. i’ve been watching since i was in the 7th grade and i’m in college now lol ❤️

[@deez2569]

Good luck at college! That's refreshing to hear. 🙂

[@tamyrisdourado7572]

ive been so lost on weekdays bc of the pandemic but whenever u post i know FOR SURE that its not monday

[@bellafiori]

hahahah it’s a two parter, so part two is going live tomorrow on monday! i’m on top of it this year so far, but let’s see how long that lasts 👀

[@fatamy8597]

i’m a new subscriber and this is my first mystery monday vid, you did not disappoint!! can’t wait for part 2

[@shenoyrichards3640]

Its weird how ppl can get a text from there love one all of a sudden getting a job and moving and they just accept it. Like my family would never believe that at all.

[@kgomotsophooko8084]

My fam too, the fact that te person u used to talking to on the phone daily just suddenly switches and not answer calls but texts. Major red flag

[@dannigro8794]

Well it’s a snow day where I am right now so what better time than to watch another true crime video from Bella.

[@binchicken1974]

Thanks for allowing to jump past the animal details. I can listen to a lot - but as soon as something about an animal comes up I automatically jump or just click out of videos. So cheers for the warning 👍

[@AbsyntheAndTears]

That's how I am with children.

[@calimomof20824]

Omg! What a cliffhanger!!! I freaking love your channel and I can not wait for part 2. Awesome job storytelling.

[@maddywatkins3945]

Love the video but oh my god I am in love with how your hair is looking at the moment!! 🤍

[@Gabbieverse]

Thank you for another awesome video, Bella! 💕

[@Cairoxify]

The detectives involved started a scholarship in Cari's name. They didn't want her murder to be the only thing that shows when her name is searched. If you guys could boost the Cari Farver Memorial Scholarship at Iowa Western Community College, it would be so appreciated!

[@emeraldblacc8741]

Either Cari had a psychotic break or someone offed her and took over her life as "Cari"

[@taylordudley6592]

its liz lol

[@Marjoonak]

Netflix just released a documentary of this case! You do such a great job of describing the events that within 5 minutes, I knew it’s about this case! It’s exactly how I would’ve imagined it.. I’m at the part where they’re passing each other by the stairs!

[@resaneal9538]

Yes. I love a two or more part. Can't wait thank for the hard work 🖤🤎👍🏾👍🏾

[@lesleylwilson9404]

The moment you said liz & cari passed in hallway I was like oooop. I bet Liz not cari is gonna be crazy and here I am wait for part 2

[@susan5301]

So strange to hear such a horrible story about the city I was born and raised in!! Can't wait to hear part 2!!

[@nikkiej.5875]

I've heard of this case and it's truly insane who the stalker and person responsible for Cari's disappearance turns out to be.

[@camiiii31]

i love this 2 part format!! its SO FUNN!! so much anticipation for the next episode haha 🥰

[@cynthiaecheverria4963]

haven’t even seen the video yet but an automatic thumbs up bc ur the best

[@jackmeldrum5329]

I keep checking out different story tellers and so far I can only find two I like. Bella is one of em. The other guy actually has a very similar style

[@Anne-cm5rm]

U should check out mile higher podcast!

[@k.rigsby9475]

MrBallen is 🙌🏼

[@jackmeldrum5329]

@@k.rigsby9475 MrBallen is the other guy haha. He's awsome. I found him first and a lil while Later I found Bella. Love listening to both of em

[@jackmeldrum5329]

@@Anne-cm5rm will do

[@amberlouu]

That chapter is also really good you should check him out

[@minini5571]

I’ve seen this case covered on a few other channels. One of the craziest, for sure!

[@caseyj1144]

Why do I actually watch the whole ad, every time? Your personality 💯

[@jessiexhenry876]

I need to know what you put on your lips for this video!!! It looks so good

[@vivi2038]

I love how detailed your cases are how much work you put into them!! and you are GORGEOUS!! love your channel so so much

[@Quella16]

I’ve heard of this story and let me just say that I love the way you have told it… let me go over to part 2, even though I know what happens lol.

[@naomisimmons5072]

Omgoodness I can’t wait until tomorrows video comes out. Thanks Bella for being entertaining as always!! 🥰

[@rileyra2009]

The moment she said that’s where I’ll be ending part 1…. I’m blown!

[@aspen1713]

I know there's an episode 2 and I'm sure more will be revealed, but I'm just at 23 mins now and so baffled that they met and hooked up for literally two weeks and that lead to a YEAR+ of stalking. I know you can't rationally explain irrational behavior like that, but it's so hard to wrap your head around.

[@naomih1073]

So Ive heard this before but still wanted to hear your take - that cliffhanger was genius - even though I know the outcome I am so anxious to her the rest!!!!

[@KatMerriam75]

Miss Bella always good to see your smiling face. I hope you are doing good I have heard crazy stories about Australia lately.

[@carinagoodnight2774]

I can NOT believe you left us hanging like this 😭😭😭😭😭😭

[@roses.6600]

I know right?! I'm dying to hear the rest!!

[@emilygarciasaravia]

Girl I literally love you to the moon and back

[@alejandrasolis-perez438]

I can’t believe this is a two parter!!!!😭 On my way to part 2 🏃‍♀️

[@danielcostello4041]

NOT FAIR! Where is part 2? OM Gosh. Now I have to wait? Auuugh!

[@leslief9891]

Bella! You left me hanging 😭 I’m excited

[@milagrossantos5849]

Girl you left me on such a cliff hanger

[@Maroska2000]

Right??? Pretty sure it is Liz tho, gettin some psycho vibes

[@XLessThanZ]

What is this with the Part 2. That was pretty sneaky. And then you end it with "Enjoy the rest of your day". Awwww. That's the kind of skills that make for a good Director. You know how to keep an audience coming back for more. Good job on this episode. 👍👍

[@alondratran-class6512]

Omg this case is based in my home town!! Whaaaaatt!! I love that you did this case❤️❤️

[@ladidah08]

"Don't stress" whattttttttt?! girl why you making us wait?!?! Lol