A Man With No Friends or a Very Small Circle is Very Secure

[@SCGSHOW]

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[@RICHY8791]

I have no friends and I have no problem with that, I love being alone 99.9%. Cooking myself a nice turkey for xmas. Happy Chrismas to me 🤣

[@ModelJames13]

No friends = no problem. What I really need is a good woman........... 😎

[@seventhkeyomegasghost8233]

Good news is you can eat on that turkey for a month.

[@mohammedakram4529]

​@@ModelJames13 Right said Fred

[@7s29]

I deleted many friends, and downgraded the rest to acquaintances. Life has been very peaceful in the last 6 years.

[@brandonperkins176]

I'm reverting back to have a small circle of friends. Weeding out the bad ones and keeping the good ones are essential.

[@davidsedano1609]

Quit friendship for good last year. Feel much better inside.

[@a_very_tired_gamedev2725]

I had social anxiety among other things. My bro kept saying I needed to be more social. I told him, friends just waste time that could be spent doing my creative sh*t. Eventually, I got more social to show him I was trying to beat life. For some reason, people attach to me and try to zap my time, almost like they're distraction demons. I swear this is true. MORAL OF THE STORY: If you're a loner, don't try to appease anyone. Just be you!

[@kobki66]

my friends were fake as f. recently, my whole family died, and I have no one. but I'm trying to be strong. I stand alone

[@brianwilson247]

I’m 62…my parents died 4 years ago and all my other family along time ago..ex RAF who had a lot of company at one time …now I’m alone ,no family no friends and I’m quite content …Travelled all over the world on my own…Doesn’t really bother me not having anyone..Nice house,car took early retirement..That’s the way to be ..I’m not bothering anyone 👍

[@MODERNRELATIONSHIPS-u7k]

I'm sorry to hear that. God bless you 🙏. I'm praying for you right now as I write this

[@HonestUAWElectrician]

Sorry for your loss brother. You have this space. Never feel you're alone. Keep that head up and keep pushing forward.

[@Mgtowaussie]

I had a very close relative die and not one of these supposed friends asked how I'm doing, didn't randomly turn up to sit in silence and drink etc.i have me now and couldn't be happier.

[@kobki66]

@@HonestUAWElectrician thank you all folks

[@Shipbottom1966]

I'm the owner of a 2003 Honda Accord with 250,000 mi on it. car runs great. Ask me if I care about fitting in.

[@ericwilson8848]

@@Shipbottom1966 .id love to have a honda.great on gas.

[@manz_5128]

sometimes loneliness hits hard but its necessary

[@bluesrocker91]

I got off Facebook a year ago. Of the 500 or so "friends" I had on there, the tiny handful who have been in touch since are all people I first met face-to-face in real life, entirely separate from Facebook... Of those few, only two keep in regular contact and are what I would actually call genuine friends. Not a single person I actually met on or via Facebook has bothered to reach out once in 12 months. Not that I'm complaining, it feels good to be off there and away from all that bullshit. One or two real friends who actually give a damn is infinitely better than 500 fake ones.

[@lifeisabadjoke5750]

This how I feel but with family on social media.

[@LivingSensible]

It takes a very long time to reach this level , but once you get there, you are selective by default , you see people for who they really are and yes , stay away from all sorts of drama and conflict ....

[@DiegoB0525]

I've gone to watch both Dune movies on my own. I've also gone to restaurants alone. It's nice to do things at your own pace.

[@rod7177]

Spent Christmas day on my own. Enjoyed my own company, as I did last year. With both parents now deceased, I feel under no obligation to attend the family Christmas lunch. Attended church in the morning, and just a quiet, peaceful day thereafter.

[@berardfedele3486]

As you get older ,(61), you learn that most are fake af, using you, or jealous

[@johnsonkayone155]

I like being myself and having peace with your self

[@nickf2170]

A man with no friends, is a man who thinks alot.

[@polonium13]

I always find your videos helpful. Thank you.

[@sirmiles5493]

Quality male friendships are just as dead as dating and marriage at the moment…

[@seventhkeyomegasghost8233]

For men we only make those in our childhood or at the latest maybe late- high-school or early college, after that if you never had close friends you never will.

[@sirmiles5493]

@ spot on …

[@nikolakolev3939]

were they ever quality to begin with

[@sirmiles5493]

@@nikolakolev3939 possibly not if no more in your life …

[@Bat_Boy]

​@@seventhkeyomegasghost8233 - Wow, thanks for the insight. As a young adult, I had many "friends", now that I'm much older, I just don't want them. The "newness" and good vibes have all gone away. I'm happy by myself.

[@stuford]

Very good message here. Thanks!

[@K7NGDAV7D]

That’s me for sure, respect to you for speaking the truth 🗡️🔥 we don’t need validation from social media or 100’s of fake friends to be happy. Hard to find likeminded people who are on the straight and narrow but sometimes you gotta go it alone. Isolation season is God’s way of bringing you into alignment with the right people 🙏🏻❤️

[@Bat_Boy]

Judge not, least ye be judged. "I don't hate people, I just feel better when they are not around" - Charles Bukowski

[@Hauntcast]

All I need is a good dog!

[@ModelJames13]

That's easy, nearly all dogs are good. 😎

[@Hauntcast]

@@ModelJames13 Correction: All I need is a dog!

[@The-You-Doober]

Thats me. Quality not quantity.

[@DetectiveAgent_DarkNut]

Just subbed - im 48,UK, Essex boy. Gave up on socialising 2004 when I started a family. What happened in that time....i wrote 2 books. Learnt to play the guitar. Produce music. Make animations. Found i could sing, could rap. Read Ulysses, War and Peace, Don Quixote, Complete Works of Shakespeare. Xmas do was last week ... "cmon! Itll be great!" It wont. I didnt go. I like the cut of your jib sir!

[@ericwilson8848]

5 good friends.2parrots2dogs n a cat!

[@paulthomas3841]

I have got Cats,

[@quantumpotential7639]

Life is a 1 seater ride. It's always been a 1 seater ride. Some see it as a 1 seater sports car, like the Mach 5. Some see it as a 1 man space ship. Once you try and squeeze another passenger into the driver's seat along side you, you can no longer reach the controls, your vision is obscured, and it's hard to manuever without crashing into a tree or worse, going off a cliff. Remember, you must be this high to ride alone. 💪

[@mikeshirleyforever]

I really appreciate your words. 🔥

[@misunderstood781981]

A man with more than 5 friends, has too much

[@ScottDrummond-xg8no]

G'day Mate, I have two friends and one dog, and I've never been happier. Wish you all the best!🇦🇺👍🤠

[@thomaslund6013]

See! Thank you my Brother

[@eliasharding3376]

Great quality

[@Chris-y1v1n]

Thanks 🌠 words of wisdom ✝️🏄

[@jeremy1350]

In my twenties, I was like you as well. What a waste of time looking back. When I got sober, years later, (circa 2001) I spent 18 years "in the rooms" thinking, with people I called my friends. Then the pandemic hit Montreal. And everybody sheltered in place, because everything shut down. I called a few of my "friends" and was told, "Don't bother calling them again." It was quite disturbing to realize, I really had no friends. To This Day, my phone has Not Rung Once !! I left that "group" on my twentieth anniversary, two years later. I don't have any friends, by choice now. The best decision I made for myself. I quit all my social media, because at the end of the day, I began hating myself. So I no longer need that crap. Do you know what the "Death knell" of a friendship is ?? 4 Words .. "I'll Call You Back !!!"

[@jamespearson8949]

but what is there to do alone?? only so much..

[@jeremy1350]

@@jamespearson8949 Well, I'd rather be alone, than have to be around people who don't want to be around me. That's what happens when you grow older. We become invisible and unwanted !!! I love being me ...

[@jamespearson8949]

@@jeremy1350 but what am i going to do lol... we need at least some connection...

[@jeremy1350]

@@jamespearson8949 Well, if you are alone, then you find things to do. take yourself out to dinner. Go see a movie, hit up a coffee shop. Do things with and for yourself. You don't need someone to hold your hand, No ?? I meditate, nap when I want, I follow my spiritual path, and I don't need "connection," connection is SO overrated. I had connection for twenty years, what did it get me ? heartache and regret. It was more Dis-Connect, rather than Connect !! You will find ways to occupy your time beyond work and the gym. When your cup is filled and your soul is brightest, you will attract what you need to have, and not before then.

[@gauravgaji]

​@@jamespearson8949you just need to get creative dont let boredom become an excuse to slip into toxic relationships or friendship's.wait for good friends to come along the way which will take time

[@ItsAGoodChannel]

Gentlemen, when the insidious pain of loneliness builds up, stay away from dating apps like the plague: Your situation will likely get exponentially worse.

[@williamconrad6561]

Let my GF of 2 years go for cheating 2 months ago. Been on a dating app. It just aggravates me, and has made my morale worse. It is like I am a dog chasing its tail. It has also been eating away at my self-confidence. I know these negative things are coming from being on the dating site. I agree, the dating sites are bad, especially if you have loneliness, ended a relationship, or are going through anything that has affected your morale in a negative way.

[@ItsAGoodChannel]

@williamconrad6561 I appreciate you sharing that. It makes me feel like I'm not the only one having a less than satisfactory experience. Apparently, this is prevalent. This one woman in particular liked me first, but when I replied, she only said "hi" and stopped responding. It's pointless.

[@Karrpilot]

My friends have either died off or moved away. And I'm in my 60's. At this point in my life, i couldn't care less. I have a girlfriend, and we go out together, hang out alone, or with some relatives. I'm good either way. And if i stay home alone, that's even better.

[@Alex19831]

❗ 5:24 *Energy*

[@ModelJames13]

Well if that's true I must be the most secure man in the world! 💪 A fellow once told me that I am the most isolated person he's ever known, and he made sure to explain that his statement wasn't a compliment. 😎

[@Mgtowaussie]

I would take that as a badge of honour and wear it proudly.

[@ModelJames13]

@@Mgtowaussie 🎖

[@samirbhalerao5579]

Our thoughts match.

[@patrickdube1702]

Is true in yours words wow

[@Barney5400]

I've very little people in my life yes it's lonely but better having backstabbers around you talking behind your back and treating you badly I like to do my own thing due to my mental health condition I like to be alone but it is my choice and I'm fine with that

[@mihaelhorvat1426]

I have one friend.

[@g.l8046]

Since you will end up dying alone, training to adapt loneliness and being strong is an essential skill.

[@HoosierCallin]

My 3 dogs are my friends/family

[@HonestUAWElectrician]

My closest friend of 10 years passed in 2010. We were like brothers. When he passed, part of me went with him. I still have a few that I talk with once in a while, but all are in different states these days. We may not have friends in person, but we do have this fellas. The red pill/mgtow space has some of the realest MFers I have ever interacted with. Going through some BS??? Come here and you'll find brothers who will give you that place to vent. Screwing up somewhere in your life??? The fellas here will give you that tough love we all need once in a while. Remember fellas it's your life and you only get 1 ticket for the ride, so enjoy it while it lasts. Don't let anyone make you feel you can't go do something alone. I find it weird people think they have to be with someone to go to a restaurant and grab a bite, or go to ball game. If you want to date, go for it, but tread lightly and keep your guard up with these harpies these days. Cheers boys. Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!!!

[@dark_nightwing_xl2797]

Art keeps me going I have just 1 friend all convos are deleted

[@beatsyndrom]

joe dispenza has a video about solitude and its neuro scientific benefits of it.

[@unsinnkim3690]

Fun fact: people that hold dozens of friendships around themselves don't have any friends neither

[@makiskallias6754]

💪💪💪💪💪

[@nathanforrest3483]

Not to brag but I have ran many marathons. And I wouldn't have traded those miles for the false love of people. Running is a lonely man's sport.

[@mikegleed5842]

💯👍👟👟

[@beatsyndrom]

its dangerous and should be illegal how much this message fn resonates with me, the older I get.

[@fraterseeker]

Really? I don't feel very secure, confident, or assertive...

[@jameswillard-brown6697]

What about a woman?

[@ModelJames13]

I need one real bad! 😎

[@unsinnkim3690]

​@@ModelJames13you may want one, but don't need one.

[@lalaland2797]

Jesus is God

[@RedEyeification]

Jesus Christ was alone on the cross when he agonised.Even his father ,the God himself abandoned him. Don't trust your family..they will sell you.

[@sntmdsa3628]

He wasn’t abandoned. He was sent her to take that mission. His Father was with him the whole time.

[@Saturntabbytype2]

Friends are nobodies like you , so why do it , never seen friends in space without judgement , go it alone , all the way back to the stars .it was only the system benefits from your doing of nothing , be the nothing you always have been look up at the stars and know as above should be below .