A Marriage Restored by Radical Forgiveness

Gregory and Aileen's marriage began with joy-filled love for one another. But as the years went by, Gregory began to invest all of his time into work and ministry at church-and Aileen chose to withdraw from her husband and to focus on her children. In 2008, Aileen attended the first True Woman conference with a group of women from their church in the Dominican Republic. Through the teaching she heard there, the Holy Spirit started a fresh work in her heart, and she brought the "Seeking Him" study home with her. Gregory also began the study. Using the truth in the pages of that book, God shined a bright light on hidden sin in Gregory and Aileen's marriage. And only by grace, their marriage has been restored and renewed by the forgiveness made possible through Christ! Watch Gregory and Aileen tell how God's mercy transformed their relationship.

[@susiewelchman8658]

The lady sharing about her husband is just filled with the love of God ! She’s a shining light! Absolutely stunning! 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@godleads1]

I heard it over and over from other couples in the same situation that God told them to forgive because they are as bad (also a sinner as much as the cheating spouse), therefore you have to forgive. But I don't see God as someone who kicks you while you are down; "Oh you better forgive because you are not any better". I think it's an excuse Christian women or men make so they would feel less stupid forgiving the cheating spouse. The God I know would want you to forgive so that you could be healed. He is a restorer. He could restore your marriage to the point that it is even better than before the cheating happened. The God I know would say "my child what he did to you was wrong. But I will walk you though it. I'm holding your hand while you are healing through forgiveness". No condamnation. Just love.

[@essiewatts]

I agree but I think its how they say it. God uses it as a tool to show us that since we have been forgiven, we should forgive but yeah sometimes people explain it as if its condemnation. The bible says there is no condemnation for those who are in Chris Jesus.

[@DivaDerin]

I totally agree.

[@davidm4566]

I don't see it as kicking them when they are down, but opening their eyes to see their spouse the way God does. The Bible also says that our good deeds are like filthy rags and we cannot receive God's forgiveness if we withhold it from others. We are no better than the one who has hurt us, because we have also hurt others...BUT that isn't the end of the story. We are also cherished, loved, and sought after by God.

[@garygoza572]

Please pray for my wife and I. She has left our marriage after 29 years. She moved away. And says she's filing for divorce. I love and miss her so much. I've been fasting and praying non stop and it feels like I'm not heard. Ugh. Please pray for me also to give it to God and trust He's in control. And for strength. I've really been struggling. Thank you and God Bless!

[@mariagoncalves1745]

I will pray for you, have faith

[@kieshagomez7002]

I will pray also.

[@margielavarias1490]

praying

[@ElegantStyleAndVlogs]

God hears! How are things now?

[@JMAGIORDANO1]

Praying

[@CharsCreativeCorner]

I have faith my marriage can be restored

[@stiffinniesaunders7373]

I thank God for your faith. Now pls add pray.

[@lisabug75]

Me too

[@umarabdullahi3613]

Thanks to DR Rorpopor spell on KZbin for helping me to get back my husband ❣️💯

[@maureen.k9527]

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[@lacledelareussitedeleducat4024]

Amen

[@mariarubinstein581]

Aileen you’re a precious, beautiful woman. Your face shines with the Holy Spirit’s presence.

[@karekorn78]

Yes! Lovely story. The Lord did this for me and my husband too. Although in some different circumstances. As he said at the end of the video, God can make it "even better," and that is so true. I am happier now than ever before, with my husband, even though I was betrayed and hurt so badly. God is so good!

[@adriandlobo]

God bless you, wish God would the same in my marriage!

[@Jojoyou628]

How? 😢

[@preetyfavor2222]

If God did it for you then he can do it to me too

[@gospelandsecularnovelties5155]

I Hope the same... God Said it'll bê better than ever, but, sometimes It feels it's a mistake, or maybe my mind is tricking me

[@timothyboles6457]

My wife of 22 years left me 10 years ago. Then later divorced me and married someone I introduced her to.. they have been married for 5 years now. I don't know what God's plan is! I have asked him. Alot. But I have no clue or answers. I need prayers

[@ghhm2705]

Timothy, there is hope

[@deniselove2003]

Glory to God. Another marriage saved and honoring God. What a wonderful testimony. This brings me encouragement Father!

[@brambletbrats3184]

What a wonderful story. And praise God for a wife who listens to the Holy Spirit. We all need forgiveness...

[@susannabonke8552]

Eileen is incredibly beautiful in serving the Lord. She truly found the secret of being happy as mother and wife.

[@dibn1308]

As long as Christ is in between a bond it is forever..nothing can break it ...

[@carolinaperez35]

God can make all the things new! 🙌Thanks for sharing!

[@Shieldmaiden600]

Some struggle in marriage,and some have to struggle alone,but both have to seek God to carry us through the difficult times. "When my heart is overwhelmed, lead me to the rock,that is higher,than I" Psalm 61:2

[@Taongap]

Amen, God does indeed make all things new and better.

[@user-2911]

I have faith and Hope. I believe God can do the impossible. Please pray for my husband salvation and my marriage for resurrection and reconciliation emergency prayers please thank you in the mighty name of Jesus Christ

[@jimena1909]

How are you doing Gigi

[@user-2911]

@@jimena1909 Trusting God plan

[@andreivansonlemeshko6476]

Really happy for this couple 💑 Praise be to Jesus Christ !!! Please pray for me, there are a lot of issues in our marriage & our family because of me, a lot issues I can see I'm in deep hole but can't get out, I've allowed the devil to do a lot of damage in my family it hurts bad God please help 🙏 I have sinned greatly against You

[@JodiRaeRandaCastleRockRealtor]

Eileen you're an absolutely beautiful helpmeet.. I love that your husband was your only boyfriend the way that it's supposed to be. I love that you forgave him and the other woman in realized your own sin and the process. May God continue to bless your family abundantly thank you both for sharing and for your obedience 🙏🤗

[@gussalcedo7047]

Great couple ! Blessing to see how God showed them a new side to there faith. They both refocused on God and through serving the Lord forgave eachother and grew closer together.

[@preston6618]

There will be a special place in heaven for this gracious woman. What a tragic story. Her poor heart. I am thankful that God’s grace, mercy and forgiveness restored them though. I hope he has truly changed.

[@VanessaSimon26]

I have hope after this story. I can forgive my husband for not making me a priority. For not giving me the gift of physical love and sex. He is finally on testosterone shots. And today is my first day that I have asked God to help me forgive my husband to help love him again as I once did. Sexless marriages are not easy and as women we feel neglected, rejected and our self esteem suffers.

[@annyflores73]

VanessaSimon26, P0rn and the addicting self-gratification is what causes ED, even on young man in their 20’s, 30’s, 40’s regardless of age or perfect health.

[@VanessaSimon26]

Anny Flores I know for sure no PORN. Maybe self gratification? But still I just don’t understand.

[@happiness7808]

I hope things got better since treatment! Sexless marriages are so heartbreaking, but Christ understands you and your heart, and will help you as you reach out to Him Praying for you!!

[@kevinjohnson7418]

Read or listen to " healing from hidden abuse" by Shannon Thomas. Not saying it's your story , but often partners withhold to make you feel those feelings. You will know if you read this if it is your story

[@rebeccaoprea9917]

I don’t think her anger was the same as his sin but I think God was showing her that she was sinful too even though she didn’t commit the same sin. Our righteousness is as filthy rags .

[@queenbee1992]

Rebecca Oprea sin is sin before the eyes of the Lord . No sin is bigger than the other before Him

[@ghhm2705]

@@queenbee1992 thank you, you two, for this reminder. I’ve really struggled with this in our marriage.

[@hlobisilenhlapho4800]

amen! God can make all things new and even better. powerful thank you for the testimony

[@jonathannatalmusicministry3231]

Thank you for this inspiration word,I believe this is what taken place in my marriage. Thank you so much.

[@mabelrodriguez012]

What a powerful testimony.

[@SadeWatkins]

They are so beautiful. May God continue to cover and Bless them in the Mighty name of Jesus

[@carrie2258]

What a Mighty God we serve! Wonderful Lord, Beautiful Saviour!..

[@1975rozita]

Thank you so much for sharing this amazing story of restoration. We serve a Mighty God!!

[@myriamtuttle]

Deeply wounded, he not only destroyed our family but after 5 years almost our kids just out of hatred. I had forgiven merely as an act of obedience. Finally today I have to let go of my girls (ages 15 and 11) because the dysfunction was bigger and me just keeping to strive to being there was fixing nothing. Praise the Lord the girls new counselor us devout Christian seared also through loss and pain. Although the pain is HUGE our Lord is stronger and I look forward to the brand NEW and BETTER that He will work in our lives, starting by the overhaul of my heart with His grace. Thanks for sharing your story, at the dawn of Christmas eve/18 it brought me hope.

[@mariesavannah2369]

That the blessing of trials its a blessing in disguise

[@vermillian1000]

Hmm there is actually a righteous anger. I think it is normal to be mad if your spouse cheated on you.

[@adisciple9485]

Awww......Him cheating and you getting angry about the betrayal is not the same. It’s not a sin to get angry. Jesus got angry at injustices. Anyway, I’m glad that God healed the marriage. A great testimony.

[@streetofdreams4538]

Yes, I think she meant bitterness rather than the justifiable anger.

[@harriet3194]

Chris S. I doubt. That’s how women tend to respond. They feel guilty for others’ sins...

[@megadancefan]

Agreed. the Bible says to be angry and sin not. It's not a sin to be angry, Jesus was when He flipped over the tables in the temple. It's possible to be angry and not sin, just like it's possible to be sad and not sin. Anger is not a sin.

[@2bethankful48]

All things are possible with Jesus Christ. I belive !❤🙏❤🙏❤

[@Taongap]

Thank you for your sharing your story dear Aileen. It's very inspiring. God is such a good and loving Father. May he continue to bless your heart and your marriage. Blessings.

[@susannabonke8552]

Truth through brokenness is more attractive than a perfect facade

[@marcuscompton5436]

Please pray for me and my wife Ann not to go through with divorcing me as she has filed divorce. I do not want a divorce. Protection for my children Jolie and Marcus Jr. Beauty from ashes

[@jasminjohnson7780]

It's funny, (not really) but just about every video on marriage restoration, I see your story. I pray that your situation has worked out, or being worked out. I pray that God restores your marriage, and makes it better than it was before. I feel your hurt, and I am going through the same thing and praying that God softens my husband's heart and restores it. Be blessed

[@ashleywalker5654]

Amen, please pray for me, too. My husband took my four precious children away from me.😥

[@jasminjohnson7780]

Marcus Compton praise God. I always wondered If Your marriage had been restored. Glory be to God!!

[@atrax1234]

Congratulations Marcus!! Happy to hear the good news! God bless your family and stay committed as ONE w the Lord in all you do together!!

[@maxsinnapah5754]

God bless you and your Family, God is good all the time and all the time God is good, Hallelujah Amen.

[@digittydog]

I cannot see this happening in my life. Beautiful story.

[@adimartinez6353]

This story is amazing god put you to the test and you passed ,hope one day I can have the same story god is good

[@andrewrush2842]

I know god can restore my marriage

[@stepone6159]

What a lovely redemptive story.

[@danielletirpkoff8191]

A happy ending to this story!! Amen to that!!🕆

[@df3713]

Pray my 23 yrs of marriage be restored amen separated since 2 years

[@ngobijerry4607]

Let your marriage be restored in the mighty name of Jesus

[@faithgina8169]

D F Do you need helped?

[@tnj4ever]

Amen! Just what I needed!

[@Dubblesteel]

Praise God

[@anniealphonsa9601]

God can make all things new and even better .. wonderful

[@mnp870]

Trust is a huge factor that needs to be rebuilt when the marriage vow is broken. It’s not I’m sorry I got caught but a repentant heart.

[@jadec3453]

I wish God would restore and heal my husband, marriage and thus family, but my husband seems to Lost

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[@cfaith59]

Amazing!!! 🕆

[@bestesstelophen6751]

Wow Glory to Jesus.

[@angierose222]

God gives us grace, so we are to give grace to others. Thank you Jesus for restoring our hearts and our marriages.

[@-RitzEnjoli]

Thanks!

[@tamaratarere]

"God can make all things new, and even better" 🙌🏾 🙏🏾

[@maunder01]

anger as bad as he confessed?! lt is part of the grieving process. ANGER is NOT SIN!! Rage is. we are told in scripture we can be angry but are not to sin in our anger...

[@streetofdreams4538]

Yes, I think she meant bitterness rather than the justifiable anger.

[@miraclesfollowme]

True. These type of feelings that are within us are not sin, its what you do with them. And asking God to help us get rid of them is what’s important

[@anthonycatanzaro8775]

Hey maunder i agree anger is often the first thing the flesh feels but as children of god we are led by the Spirit of god and the spirit tells us in the word James 1:20, ESV: "for the anger of man does not produce the righteousness of God." The lord also said we are to forgive 70 x 7 times if a brother asks so im yeilding to the spirit and gonna let anger go and choose mercy over sacrifice -ive been angry at times and the lord has showed me its a sin as we deserve his anger for our wrongs but he does not treat us as we deserve so im a slave to the lord because of his mercy so i can and only want to do the same in obedience to the father

[@JessiPerez1234]

Praise God.

[@ashleywalker5654]

Hallelujah!!!

[@dalmaingrant2470]

Beautiful story if I had committed a sin of such kind I would have done the same such a relief when one come clean because you no longer have to try and cover up plus you slso made peace with God

[@octaviakf]

So while this is pretty that they got their marriage back together I’m really getting sick and tired of the same stories where the husband stays cheating on their wives and the wife constantly taking the cheater back and having to forgive him and just deal with it smh like I want to hear stories about marriages with zero infidelity’s

[@philarevolutionarywarriorp8295]

Wives cheat too, the stories just don't end up on KZbin as much

[@kimrisnear3866]

He was too busy for his family but not to busy to have an affair...and she feels sinful for being angry about it?!

[@dteimuno]

Beautiful

[@hypersports4796]

Your story got me so emotional that I was tearing up . Thank you for sharing your story! God is great !

[@user-2911]

Me too! I believe God can restore and create beauty from ashes

[@ghhm2705]

@@user-2911 yes He can!

[@user-2911]

@@ghhm2705 I’m still waiting for the transformation even when I see nothing in the natural

[@costablancarealty]

Wow!!

[@Betcaligarcia]

Que lindo testimonio

[@anonymous8562]

Amen!

[@christabellelysander4392]

Thank you so much for sharing your story. God bless you from India.

[@caseymyslive7632]

This is awesome I have dreams of this for you and I my wife. Micque I love and you are my life.💞

[@anthonyromagno2297]

Inspiration

[@La-bq6jj]

It’s not a sin to be angry.The Bible says to be angry but not to sin Ephesians 4:26.However maybe she meant she felt unforgiveness which is a sin

[@mariacalvete3570]

Amen

[@georgettecross4149]

No marriage is Perfect but I and my True Husband we have to work threw things to get our own satifation I can not live with out him it hurts my heart and my spirit to much I need him .And care to much for him lets work things out and I can find forgiveness if he can find His Love for me again To finally be together again never to let each other go no matter who stands in our way.

[@rosamunoz4625]

There are a few things for making improvements in your marriage Try to talk more Cooperate with each other more Try to give and take more (I discovered these and why they work on Pavs partner pundit site )

[@patriciasalcedo6150]

Wow

[@niralismokes4229]

I need a breakthrough for my marriage!! My husband and I are at that point that divorce is on the table.. we’ve been together for 18years, married for 9 years come June this year. I don’t want to let it go however we can’t go on the way we currently are!! I pray and fasted for God to intervene, I’m trusting God to restore our marriage!!! This testimonies give me hope and I pray I can have my our testimony one day🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽 God bless those marriages he has restored

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[@zachhunter5136]

Please pray for me, wife left me 7 months ago now I find out she's in another relationship

[@jaketryban8772]

Zach Hunter praying for you... I just committed adultery and I'm about to tell my wife literally in 10 min when she gets home from work. Please pray for me too

[@mariarubinstein581]

Said a prayer for you.

[@philarevolutionarywarriorp8295]

Praying for you Zach...

[@jcmministries3389]

Live #2 - 05.04.21 We lose peaceful humility, forgiveess, righteous inheritance (Proverbs 13:22) (Texans)

[@kegwayhuntep256]

God is the only way

[@malenacastro6855]

Do you have this testimony in Spanish?

[@dibn1308]

All is well in Christ...

[@ewura3397]

Please what advice will you give to prayer for marriage

[@lordjubei9829]

Ewura Four pray a hedge of Thorns around your husband . That prayer is found in Hosea 2:6-7

[@Michelle-pn9xt]

Why are the people in different places instead of the same room.? If they are together why aren't they "together"?

[@lynettep7015]

Is there anything too hard for God❓

[@philarevolutionarywarriorp8295]

Nope! Luke 1:37. Btw, please pray for me. I've been divorced by a wife not Following the Lord. She's living in the world but I'm still praying for restoration. It's been 5 months now. Heartbreaking

[@brendaveselka6011]

Did Eileen sin in her anger? Anger is not a sin it's how you deal with it.

[@V_N_Zadok]

She probably wanted to hurt him or something in that anger

[@verywellsaid9791]

Use scriptures over your marriage Christ has redeemed me and my husband from the curse of the Law by becoming a curse for us so that in Jesus Christ the blessings of Abraham might come upon us.gal 3:13 The spirit of the Lord is upon me and my wife my God himself has annoited us filled us with love peace knowledge and wisdom so he n i are one flesh God has joined us together. The scriptures will release the bonds of destruction and bring u into the light . It is the word of God which will not return until it fullfill s the purpose. Repeat the scriptures till u see ur manifestation over n over

[@Meepsavage]

Very well said please please pray for me! My husband of 6 years and 3 children filed divorce . He has not been a good husband to me but I still love him . His heart has been so hardened towards me and I ask that God do a heart transplant on him . I feel at times I am being punished and although I am not questioning the Lord , I just don’t understand why this is happening to us again . We’ve separated before but this time she got his own place and filed divorce

[@jcmministries3389]

Live #3 - 05.04.21 On earth, God-fearing families first. Results: A strong nation. (Texans)

[@crazygeechee]

Her anger was just as bad as his sin? Lost me there

[@pinklady4772]

I would love to have a husband so involved in God's kingdom.

[@patriciasalcedo6150]

"And even better"

[@lizziesanders7743]

her anger was as bad as his cheating? HA!

[@thesaintmustwalkalone708]

Lizzie Sanders In the eyes of a holy God? Yes!

[@lizziesanders7743]

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[@nicinacnoo]

Lizzie Sanders going through a rough time myself. Grieving 23 years marriage.. would be 24 if husband was home... anger is one of the 5 stages of grief... when you are feeling so much pain you go through waves of emotions that you struggle with and wake up with..and go to bed with. I believe God understands as he is a good God. Yet daily I pray he helps me control these emotions as anger is a fire breathing emotion that is destructive. And I pray for God's healing daily and try so hard to behave in God's grace.. hope this makes sense..

[@Hiiiii866]

YES!!!! IT IS!

[@MMAGUY13]

she has a good heart but God was angry at him to!!! God wrath sends more people to hell then his loves saves. but God forgives the repented and expects us to forgive to

[@priscillavermiglio1255]

Omg this is insane😡

[@umarabdullahi3613]

Thanks to DR Rorpopor spell on KZbin for helping me to get back my husband ❣️💯

[@jcmministries3389]

Live #1 - 05.04.21- William and Melinda, and all other Reconcilers: We bind the spirit of : Pride, Pron, , fornication, and Isolation. (Texans)

[@sallybucket6924]

Her anger is just as bad as his sin? Sorry I'm not buying it.

[@graceorsomething]

Yeah. Not a good take