A married man is using her for sex & has her stuck in a hotel. He said she doesnt look pretty enough

[@jasminebaby3375]

All she has is her youth. And she is wasting it on a married man who is not even spoiling her. I hope she will dump him and focus on herself.

[@Janet-rg4di]

Agree! She'll regret it later on.

[@jayo3074]

No such thing as dumping a married man smh they were never together

[@carenasmith7]

Incorrect her youth is not all she has. She is more than her damn youth. She need to level up and know her worth. But I agree with you she shouldn’t be wasting her prime years on a marry man.

[@Dawgyjoe]

@@jayo3074 😂

[@2021noname]

@@jayo3074she might have to change her number

[@ashleyldalton]

And you all did exactly what I expected. Although I don't support Lisa's actions, this tale is as old as time. I purposefully shared the post about the young man involved with a married woman right after this clip, yet there was little to no commentary on HIS actions. But when it involves a woman, suddenly she's labeled as the issue. It's a clear double standard at play. Don't forget to like and subscribe!

[@GothicGodess]

Sadly the woman gets all the heat and the man does not, it's always like that 🙄. But I'm glad Lisa left that man alone especially with that comment he made🙄.

[@joanecajuste9800]

AGREED. I don’t agree with her but it’s clear women don’t like each other🤷🏾‍♀️

[@iriemo721]

Maybe people didn’t watch his section. I didn’t. The chick was exhausting. Some people don’t watch these clips straight through.

[@eikichionizuka2206]

304

[@piscespisces6]

People are really out here seeking advice on whether to entertain married men and women. Cold world.

[@PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp]

they have no choice. these birds realize they are done and being a side piece is the best they can get. either a side piece or no piece and buy a cat.

[@ricostyles7775]

🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️

[@ebonyeverything2751]

Are u new in life?

[@NeeceeDior]

Not him saying Lisa can never be on his wife’s level yet he stepped out his marriage to deal with Lisa. It makes no sense. But glad Lisa is moving on, once she found out. Married men are a big NO!

[@jacqueline8566]

😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮 so wild

[@iriemo721]

I believe it. The men know full well who these women are to them. It’s the women who are closing their eyes and walking into traffic and acting like they don’t know their position. The man in essence said you’re a bird. You’re just recreation for me. You can’t touch my queen. Know your role 🐦. I bet he said it after she mouthed off and said something like: Well you’re here so obviously she not doing something right. And he humbled her quick fast and in a hurry, as she deserved.

[@lk2207-sq6lu]

She has such a good personality and cute face. Girl hit the gym a little and leave this dude alone. He's using you! You have too much life in you to be dragged down by a cheater with all those kids🤦🏽‍♀️ And Ashley is right!!

[@IfUdntknwMebynow]

She's getting what she worked, schemed, manipulated, disregarded for. Jezebel spirit reaping the rewards as such

[@jayo3074]

Extremely embarrassing smh

[@yanou4u]

I hope people take note on how to listen to someone without judging. Ashley is doing an excellent job. You want your friend to be able to share everything with you without judgement. If not, then ask yourself why are you keeping that friendship?

[@GegeP1804]

Glad she woke up. Being young, mistake will be made and I’m glad she snapped out of it. Time to move on!

[@SmilingDesperado]

Where's the personal accountability? He doesn't have her as a hostage. On what planet would it be normal for a man you barely know to put you up in a hotel for 3 weeks? It doesn't make any sense. He's going to put you in an apartment, pay your bills....for what? Who does that? Always have to call cap on women like this. You saw the signs, but you didn't care because you saw financial benefit. The idea that I could date a woman who had a full on husband and kids and I wouldn't find out is crazy. It'd come up in some form. Ain't no man going to offer up to prop you up like this for free.

[@BeauTCravez]

She already knew the answer. Sometimes we do need to learn the hard way, if that man told you the things he did married or single his add would be history. Him saying that tells me all her bills aren’t paid esp if she’s moving in with her dad. Baby you have an advantage you have a loving Father. Use that for validation not a dusty married man.

[@kennedysimone2049]

HE TOLD HER WHAT!!!????

[@7Tiffany]

Get home safely Lisa! Happy holidays guys 🎉

[@teneshalowe9299]

He is a narcissistic. I don't think she knew he was married. I would get more money before I left. She is beautiful and has a good personality.

[@PrettyNpaid8]

I hope y’all leave that word on 2024 … who isn’t a narcissist 🤦‍♀️

[@Dawgyjoe]

Or she can work a job for that money

[@MoiraPraline]

That’s a dangerous game.

[@MiguelinaAriasMIA]

We need to stop messing with married people y'all. Proud of her though

[@PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp]

women will never stop. the women that do KNOW they are done. They KINOW they can never get a man for themselves and being a side piece is the best they can be.

[@lifewithangelina92]

She didn’t know and she’s leaving the situation… hopefully

[@softersideofc.c.5655]

That part an married ppl men an women need to get out of the singles lane, an take they @$$ home

[@kimberlyb6522]

Married folk gotta remember that THEY’RE married! Let’s start there.

[@Tionaintown876]

I’m in this same exact situation right now. I’ve been with this man for 4 years and he told me he’s not married, come to find out a few days ago that he is. SMH But I’ve stated at his house before, not for long since we are long distance he comes to my island. He’s separated and not willing to get divorced apparently. Crazy world we live in. I have this man my years from 22 to 26im about to be 27

[@apraise]

Smh this happened to me in 2019. I was 25 dating a 40 year old man. I asked him twice if he was married, he said hes never been married before. Fast forward i found out he was married in 2021.. smh

[@mamat1213]

You still young honey! Cut your losses, thank God you know and it’s a decision he made for you both. Don’t let 27 turn into 32! 37! Trust me 😢

[@kissj674]

Lisa has so much potential!!! Love this for her. But married and 6 kids…. Chile ☕️ let me continue watching

[@lk2207-sq6lu]

Yes lots of potential. 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@lastdragonx]

She a 304. Stop it

[@PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp]

she needs to get in the gym

[@PrettyNpaid8]

Men have it MADE ! They can be married , can have several kids , can be a deadbeat …. And STILL have their way with women.

[@ChantaBrite]

There's so much going on here that I don't understand. Why would she ever get face tattoos? Why would a man with that size family blow money like this? I really hope his kids are taken care of and not lacking anything.

[@soniablount2135]

I think it’s about control. He can spend some money on the front in and then her used to it then use that to his advantage.

[@MoiraPraline]

The reason why we don’t understand is because it doesn’t make sense. If it doesn’t make sense, somebody is lying.

[@tasharenee4835]

Man take care of woman all the time. I just had one to pay my rent for 6 months🫶🏾.

[@iriemo721]

Love how Ashley kept it real! Ain’t no way!!!!

[@ninastar5285]

As a married woman who does not cheat, that woman is laying a trap. He needs to cut all ties and find a woman who is in his age group.

[@sade9425]

I sincerely appreciate Ashley’s judgementalness lol. She’s classy and playful about it. We need more shame and judge mental these days

[@Misspinkbeauu]

He’s gonna get his heartbroken 😢

[@CookinwitKC]

I know right! He needs it girl 😅 a married man creeping on his wife and 6 kids, needs to feel the heartache he has put on his wife and kids… when they find out cause I know his wife will find out or already might know.

[@ishaw9894]

Lisa you are gorgeous!!!! Focus on your self care, education, skills, career, business, life goals, bucket list, wardrobe, and travel. A man will always be there! Pray to God for ways to make money to afford that easy life you want. You are worthy, priceless and valuable. If they can’t see it, on to the NEXT 💅🏾

[@alisamathis4781]

That is a dangerous game to play. Hopefully she leaves safely and he won't harm her

[@iriemo721]

You’re not in a tough position maam. You don’t need to ask anyone. Any man who is willing to cheat on his wife who he has six kids with and doesn’t show any remorse is a trash individual. There’s nothing else for you to do. You didn’t know but you know now, and you’re still sitting up in the hotel room instead of already back home. You don’t need to talk to anyone. We know what you’re gonna do. You’re gonna stay, gonna keep cheating with this man, gonna justify that his wife deserves to be betrayed and will tell yourself that you’re better than she and he won’t do the same thing to you.

[@jayc5756]

I was 25 dating older women too. 1 at 40 years old, so I get it. But I didnt use them for their money or anything. I NEVER was that type. And as far as dating married women...I did, but not intentionally.

[@sgriffiths0280]

The superficial advice is sending like…WHAT?????? Telling her about her wig, clothing, makeup etc should be laid is irrelevant. Her intervening into someone married is the problem at hand 🤦🏾‍♀️😞

[@Heyitschy03]

Mhm.

[@jadeallen1289]

Its sarcasm! She is saying if you want to play these dangerous games then you better make sure secured and look the part! At the end of the day, she made up her mind to deal with a married man

[@lifewithangelina92]

She said she didn’t condone it but if you gone play that game and go down that road you shouldn’t be looking anyway…. allowing that married man to use you, but you’re getting nothing in return but sin, also The girl is grown.

[@zira413]

💯

[@samanthalatrucka]

​@@lifewithangelina92 Let's see if the mistress is grown when it comes down to your man cornball

[@mariejane1567]

She has no shame.....

[@Dawgyjoe]

😂

[@yomeamo3886]

I was in a relationship for a year. An entire year. Went on vacation with my sisters and the day I came back someone shared pictures of him getting married and saying congratulations!!!! I had no idea. Then, the following week a woman came to my door, she was very pregnant. It wasn’t the wife. It was another woman that live two blocks from me coming to asking if I am seeing her baby father. Honeeeeeeeey I was in my early 20s, great career and had a lot going for myself. There is no way I would do that voluntarily!!!! Lisa you deserve better sweetheart. He isn’t leaving that woman and if he’s caught he and his wife will blame you. Move on babes

[@TheLadyCheriNoir]

Thank you for sharing your story and seeking out advice. You not knowing gives you grace capital. If you stay, you loose any understanding grace capital that you have earned.

[@sincerelysandi]

I didn't understand the guy at all! Rambling with no sense, and wanted to be on the live. Jittery!!

[@zhane3947]

He is basically saying he is going to see the woman and he knows that she is going to try to initiate intimacy. He wants to refrain from that since she is actively involved with her husband. However he doesn’t want her to feel disrespected that he doesn’t want to sleep with her because his game plan is to continue the relationship to gain financial support from her. (Knowing that typically woman would feel a way if a man doesn’t want to sleep with them) so he wants to know how he should go about it so they both leave the stay feeling good.

[@sumigarcia1059]

Some of yall are harsh on her she wasnt in on all that information and wasnt prepared now she needs to plan. She needs to get everything she needs in a short time and dip.

[@mariesimone1304]

She said her bags were packed… didn’t she also say they were going to get her an apartment tomorrow? Of course her bags were packed. Is she actually gonna leave? Cause being stuck in a hotel room for WEEKS should have been the first red flag!

[@_belloty1394]

Needing advice for this is crazy

[@saharaloveland]

Very 😂

[@Abigal107]

Lmaoooo ain’t no way 😂😂😂😂

[@hellothere8347]

This situation irritates me because why

[@sandraa.7794]

This is so sad.

[@Richard-Reloaded]

🤦🏾‍♂️

[@joyceg7859]

0:15 the fact that you’re saying all this out loud ….. wtf is you doing ??! 😳

[@Briyourself__]

My observation is that the guy had a timid demeanor and was being vague. I almost forgot what he was talking about while he was telling the story. Maybe that’s why people didn’t criticize him as much. But he’s more wrong than Lisa is 😅😭 he knows she’s married and is still going to let her fly him out like sir no

[@AbnormalJustice]

❤️Ladies don’t judge me… My boyfriend is married and he spoils me /pays my rent. We met at work and we love each other. I’m 29 (no kids) and realized I need to leave him alone 😢We been together for a year. I make over a 100K and have my own career but I’ve come to realize I need to run. Currently on a spiritual journey to cleanse my life of him but it’s so difficult. I would never tell anyone about this situation but it’s more common than you think. I never expected to be in this type of relationship but he’s help me to grow so much, he’s 40. I hope this lady escapes ASAP, not worth the pain! 🚩

[@jacqueline8566]

RUN AS FAST AS YOU CANNNNNNNNNN AWAY FROM THAT MAN, MY DEAR. GOD WILL GIVE YOU THE GRACE LIKE “THE WOMAN AT THE WELL.”

[@KP-uw7bp]

You calling a married man your boyfriend is where you should’ve stopped at 😢29 no kids. Life ahead of you. Don’t let him use you for another year.

[@naedafinest-q9l]

Calling another woman husband your bf is crazy work you have alot going on for you leave him alone and start your own life your about to be 30 he's probably spoiling someone else as we speak

[@username97112]

I would encourage you to think about the wive’s (and children’s) pain, not only yours and this young lady’s. Lots of me/my/I in your comment😢

[@---nc3zc]

Shame on you. Do better

[@ummmkayy]

Idk it might hit a nerve 😂😂😂