A message to the men!

[@Dr.Elaine1]

“...You cannot lead a household, a group, a people, a city, a country if you as a man cannot lead yourself.” TG

[@ToniToni-rv4yv]

Women will follow you if you are truly a leader and following GOD. You can't follow just anybody. They'll lead you straight destruction. Not everybody can lead..

[@catemuthio8354]

Let your CHARACTER BE YOUR CURRENCY

[@Pearlferrell]

Thank you for addressing the man issue. It is time for the men to step up. Key words CHARACTER AND INTEGRITY. I an 53 years old when I was three years old and my step father married my mother with eight children he never birth together. My mother stayed home and he was the provider. We went to church together and he never complain about money, or stress, and he told her that she did not have e to work. Later the next two years my mom niece was killed by her husband and they had six children that my parents adopted and raised until they were fully grown. Now you have men who won't provide for their own children.

[@shylosymone3714]

Blessed!! 53 here as well...54 Nov 9th!! Many more levels to you Sister-Queen!!

[@chrissy1448]

They do not build men like your stepfather anymore....Heck men don't even want to have to work to provide for themselves these days... smh.... Amazing story! And I am sure he passed on that character to everyone he touched.

[@talicialee]

That is a blessing....

[@ImNinaHardy]

The things I want can't be brought or paid for! A Man of God with character, integrity, loyalty, respect and who knows his purpose or is continually seeking God for it. God moves, not man moves!! MEN OF GOD STEP INTO YOUR GOD GIVEN POWER AND PURPOSE!!!

[@cheekscheeks5840]

Character and integrity means everything 💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯

[@christineallen3003]

I will forward this to the grown boys who think they are men! Thank You Tony!!!!♏️❤️

[@christineallen3003]

Well, @Enjoy Life And Smile I received 2 responses from two grown boys: 1) I appreciate You & I love You. & 2nd) How are you & Are you married yet? 🤓interesting♏️❤️ be safe

[@Pearlferrell]

Tony keep bringing the word. Jesus is a family man.

[@Best-ThingYouNeverHad]

Character & integrity over EVERYTHING!

[@shawkiwilliams3310]

I was in twenty year old relationship. I felt as i wasnt good enough. I lost a lot. I pray that god sent me a men that lead like god says

[@sharonhumphrey3137]

Wise has a serpent harmless has a dove. Be blessed

[@sheloves3663]

“What’s your next 5 moves and is your next move your best move” 👏🏽👏🏽🔥

[@promisingrose8730]

Happy Birthday to the Queen 👑‼️‼️‼️‼️ May God continue to Bless her with many more‼️ 🎈🎊👑👑🎂

[@benjamincrooms5041]

Amen bro 👍👍

[@cindeed4422]

Black men have to learn the conquer the world instead of blaming it! Black men tend to take the problems they encounter in society home to their wives and children. They come home and shut down like a computer instead of allowing them in. Black women want so badly to be your helper and helpmeet. It takes a leader to see that. Black men need to be like a chess player. “Let your best move be your next move” as Tony said. Let your family in. They need you too.

[@jennaclark5516]

Internal audit .Yes lord he said it all .

[@janelleaskew7534]

Tony, keep letting the Lord use you to bring this wisdom to our men! ❤💯 we all should be working on becoming the best versions of ourselves. Thank you.

[@TiffanyFG]

Nothing but the TRUTH!!!

[@cheekscheeks5840]

Think little get little , think big get big if not it’s all on you . Change your mindset and your way of thinking . 💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯

[@donnehedgepeth877]

“Who are you when no one is looking?” TG POWERFUL

[@ShesGottaFastCar]

You betta preach. If you aren’t a good steward with the small things you will not be a good steward with the big things.

[@lucindahawkins7803]

Amen Mr.Tony preach it all men needs to hear this. Stop mistreating women that God aloud them to have ur children and stop disrespecting women when ur wrong .Tell God to fix u and don't b mad when u lost a good women. Psalm 23and 91

[@zeeo3546]

Charity begins at home. Who you are when nobody's watching is who you really are

[@bc1248]

Fellas, stay by yourself until you are ready to be with a nice decent woman. If you know that decent women aren’t for you then stay away from them. It’s imperative to know when you are not ready. And I realize that y’all think y’all are doing the right thing by telling a woman you only want sex. And in a way you are. But where that backfires is with women who don’t listen. You tell them that, they proceed like it’s okay, and then tries for a relationship after you hit. So telling a woman that is not enough. In fact, if you have to tell her that then there’s a clear sign right there that she’s not the kind of woman for you. So don’t depend on just telling a woman you don’t want a relationship. Learn to recognize women who have that in common with you and those who don’t.

[@bc1248]

EnJoy Life And Smile True. And their problem is unreadiness. Which is what women have yet to learn and understand. So we can’t depend on men to control themselves. You see... The problem with guys who just want sex, is that it’s like any pyramid or Ponzi scheme that’s dependent on and runs out of new members. So eventually the supply of new playmates runs out. And then too, the women tend to let themselves go after awhile. Can’t help it really, bcuz everyone ages, and the daily drinking and stuff wears youth away faster. So now, these guys want to keep it impressionable looking. They want woman who looks well kept, not like an alcoholic, got a nice house, and is able to be responsible so he can have somebody to run to with his dilemmas. Which he can’t get from the women like him. A good time is it. They can’t depend on those women for anything other than that. So that’s when they start looking at decent women for keeps. Which they don’t deserve bcuz they still wild, immature, and unfit for decency. They still don’t want a relationship. So they are predators out to make an ass of decent women minding their own business. And where by the law of karma, it rightfully has to reflect back on them. He don’t want a relationship, just sex... And she don’t want any trouble and to be used. A man can understand his own needs but he can’t understand another’s needs. A decent woman’s need to live a clean, decent, and trouble free life, and want a man who is really with her and not there to use her. He can’t understand that.

[@bc1248]

EnJoy Life And Smile Well said... But the thing is, the 70 year old is still not a man and karma is still gonna catch up with him. Like with my great grandfather. He was in his 70’s I think when it caught up with him. In his old age, he married a younger woman and she jacked him up. Beat him up everyday. I seen him once when I was five years old. He came by the house wailing to my mom and showing her bruises his wife put on him. As if he actually expected her to do something about it. He forgot about my mom when she a kid, walked away and never looked back. But remembered that he has a daughter when he’s old and in trouble. It’s a wonder how he even knew where she was. The grown boy never grows up. LOL! I said great grandfather but I meant my grandfather.

[@durbansaladyinaccra2173]

@@bc1248 That is so sad.

[@bc1248]

Sharhonda Smith I don’t think so. It’s not sad but simply what is. Guys out there who are not ready for a relationship. That’s simply what is and why good decent women are having problems with them in simple things like trying to get to know a man and develop a connection. They are unwilling to go there and want to get together and smash upon nothing bcuz they’re not ready for it. I was just watching a video today from a lady in Nigeria explaining how Nigerian men are. How impossible they are to have a real relationship with. Which is how it is all over the world. Unreadiness is the cause.

[@fayewest2463]

Tony those are Generational curses and excuses don't break the cycles !!

[@patwilson1257]

AWESOME message Sir.

[@pg3185]

The quietest person in the room is the smartest 💯 thanks Tony, great message

[@fayewest2463]

Preach Tony, Material don't make a man so glade u went there!!

[@JustDoRight]

EXACTLY!! HALLELUJAH 🙌🏽🎯🎯🎯

[@MsEvonU]

Amen! Amen! Amen! Thank you Tony! God bless you!🙏❤🦋

[@fayewest2463]

Preach Preach Preach!!!

[@sylviasalcedo8569]

Character: "who you are speak so loudly, that I cannot hear what you say", Ralph Waldo Emerson

[@certifiedlifecoachdedras5916]

Hello Mr. Gaskins! The entire video is 🔥 with some “REAL & POWERFUL” nuggets! Tks.!

[@loveablej2474]

Tell'em Tony!

[@cheekscheeks5840]

Speaking truth as always 💯💯💯💯💯💯

[@debrajohnson4774]

Tony, Tony, Tony speaking well for all of US. Thx so much for ur wisdom...U r truly blessed from God.

[@thedisabledanddiscarded]

JESUSSSSSS Position And Prepared❗ Speak Brother Tony 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

[@FutureAttyInTheMaking]

Confirmation, Confirmation, Confirmation!!🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

[@quicamp715]

Thank you for this message. I am a woman but I needed to hear this. Perfect timing!

[@cheekscheeks5840]

It’s time out first excuses it’s time to grow and get some knowledge in this 19. This is the year for waking up in this 19 . GOD is able to do it in all our lives yes he can and will if we just call on him ...💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯

[@Joycelang2495]

Tell it brother God bless you 🙏 men and women better get ur soul right with God 🙏 bless you

[@SonicandTail]

Besides God, my savior, this is the realist man in the flesh I ever met. Tony Gaskins for President for REAL change for generations, black men, black women and the black family. God bless you, Tony and God Bless your family 🙏🏽

[@kristymays5014]

Thank You God for This Message🙏🙏💯💐🏁

[@magneticfavor9500]

Sending this to my Significant Other ,Holy Spirit have your way while he's listening 🙏🏾🦅💪🏼

[@christineporter9914]

Bro Tony this was an inspiring message to the men , and I like what you said who are you when know one is looking .

[@chrissy1448]

In this day and age, people only act right when the cameras are rolling. They want the best shot for the gram or facebook...smh

[@archeradventure]

🏅 Mr. Gaskins, I am impressed and humbled by your character. Please do consider how superior it would be, if you made a message customised for teenage boys. Reach those lost boys. It is crucial as it is easier to fix broken children, than fixing broken adults. Thank you, sir. Live long, prosper and may Jesus' light shine over you. Always.

[@belindascott2694]

Preach Mr G.

[@katrinawilliams5928]

Preach to the people Tony!

[@GoodGrief101]

Thank you for sharing your gift. You truly are a blessing.

[@jasonsanchez6595]

Your amazing , thanks man

[@mihaelag.2011]

Thank you and congratulations for all good truthful and helpful informations, everybody should hear you, you are the best

[@belindascott2694]

Be blessed .

[@vanessachambers697]

Be Blessed 😊

[@Faboulas5]

Amen!!! You teaching!!!!

[@SuperTamtam82]

Straight Truth 💯

[@LisaAmani02]

BE BLESSED!

[@CH-ib3jw]

God bless you Tony and thank you...🙏

[@cheekscheeks5840]

Moving in silence in this 19 💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯

[@paigeelise5704]

Amen I love this

[@sharonhumphrey3137]

Still waters run deep... The quite one is the one to watch.

[@deborahrobinson3070]

Truth

[@carlajackson9566]

Characte and conduct create HIGH VALUE PEOPLE. Galatians 5:22-23

[@NiNi-fp8zc]

Tony please give us appropriate date ideas for the upcoming fall/winter to avoid chilling in the crib 😭😭

[@katrynlittle165]

A lot of these men are damaged , Tony I hope you talk about that one day, many men have left their rightful place and some of these men are in the churches, oops did I say that , yes, a lot of them want women to care for them

[@dimediamond]

Thats the new normal. The men want 2 be treated like a princess while the woman be the hunter and gatherer. A man wont get a dime from me.

[@daughteroftheking721]

Thats Great practical teaching!👍 Oh but its deep though!!

[@tinajones1932]

Listening

[@raheltesfaye7411]

💯% TRUTH

[@kokoluv21]

PREACH!!!

[@Ash2beauty]

This is wat men ARE NOT flocking to!

[@durbansaladyinaccra2173]

Wow...this video is so good and has no likes 🤔

[@NAJErEa91]

AMEN! TONY THE WILDERNESS IS NOT ALWAYS A "BAD THING" FOR THE SPIRIT LED JESUS INTO THE WILDERNESS. THE SPIRIT!!! NOT satan, TO SEE WHAT HE WAS MADE OF :D

[@NAJErEa91]

@5:11 LMBO LAWD JESUS FIX IT LMBO

[@NAJErEa91]

CHESS IS A GAME I DESIRE TO LEARN HOW TO PLAY. I KNOW HOW TO. PLAY CHECKERS AND CONNECT FOUR LOL BUT I GOTTA LEARN CHESS LOL ITS A PERSONAL GOAL OF MINE :)

[@NAJErEa91]

YUP!!!! @13:37 !!!! YESSSIIIRRRR!!! THAT WAS SOOOO POWERFUL! THAT SCENE STILL GIVES ME CHILLS AND HOLY GHOST FEELS!

[@fayewest2463]

This is what the adversary is doing using women in positions to destroy men in every way possible Men better wake up like Asap !!!!