A PERFECT DAY RUINED JUST LIKE THAT

[@tessogambaupclose]

Hey peeps, Happy New Year once again. Please watch the vlog to the end to understand the title. Thank you for being here, it means a lot. Please like 👍the video, share, and subscribe ❤ PS: I will not put a link to that video here as I don't intend to give them the clout they are looking for. I decided to address this because I cannot let people like that continue making it hard for other people to leave difficult situations. It is very wrong.

[@annmariecrump2556]

Hello Tess. I’m watching you from the Caribbean. First let me tell you that I think you are very brave. I stumbled upon your video where you shared your harrowing experience with us and let’s just say I was happy you were able to get out of that situation. Now I am inspired by how you are rebuilding your life in a new country and taking us along with you. I know I’m not the only one who is rooting for you and who share the joy of each accomplishment… from finding your cute apartment to assembling your wardrobe 😂. As it pertains to the “pet peeve posse” (that’s what we’re referring to them as) they obviously have no content of their own and so they had to use your content to stay relevant. Tearing down someone else requires no creativity, hard work and imagination. People usually do that to feel better about themselves and their life. Ignore them. They wish they could go where God is taking you. Keep winning at life. Your only direction is up. Happy 2024 🎉

[@bettyndeleki3532]

Love you, love you Tess. Victorious young woman. God bless you so that your story will save lives near, far and beyond❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@jerrytarus]

Tess, I am glad you have responded to the video and faced it head on. I came across it like 2 days after it was released and was curious to hear what they have to say. I remember holding my peace because I would not contain the reasoning. Given that their mixed race relationship has worked does not guarantee same experience for another. As you have mentioned, we are not used to coming across the videos you uploaded, people want to know it was serious when the situation has gotten out of hands. You are strong Tess, you did the right thing. You are an intelligent lady, you also don't need people's validation to describe your situation, you know the things you experienced and can relate to them exceptionally well. No one in their right senses can just dismiss you off, even claiming you were not ready for marriage. That's so outrageous and unbecoming behavior. Everyone is ranting mental health while they don't even have a clue of what mental health entails, which situations take toll on someone. Go on girl, we will root for you. Nothing is wrong with you. Wee uko sawa. Hebu watu wakaskie vibaya na huko, aaaiii

[@khomotso87]

I saw the video as well and I just felt sorry for them

[@tessogambaupclose]

It's so distasteful, to say the least. I actually made this video after watching like 30 seconds of their video. When I finally watched the whole of it, I lost it because not only did they attack my character, but also my work. I know social media is free and all; I know it's made of different types of people but that is gonna need some getting used to. Anyway, thank you for your words of encouragement, I appreciate it a lot 🧡

[@jerrytarus]

@@tessogambaupclose These are noises, irrelevant, unnecessary and the only way to move forward is to ignore them. You know your story. We have been with you since you started this KZbin journey and the growth has been immense. The milestones you have achieved are incomparable to nothing. You have gone through a lot also that has shaped who you are today. You don't need anyone's validation to know with utmost truth within you that you are doing the right thing. Worst of all, a random person throwing aimless jabs at you. You are on the right track. Go forth, go win, don't be discouraged by anyone. Watu wakwende huko bana.

[@estherinyang4779]

Sorry about that dear. But you are clearly stronger than the bullies. You are going higher, don't let them get to you.@@tessogambaupclose

[@RuthWambugu]

You being you is so refreshing.Thanks for speaking out your mind.We need more of this.Learning ✨️ .Happy 2024 gal, and keep glowing and growing.

[@tessogambaupclose]

Thank you so much, dear 🧡

[@lencerlenny674]

As your day one and fellow youtuber on a social media hiatus you are healing me in a way that words can't explain. Keep the vlogs coming.

[@tessogambaupclose]

Oh there you are, you're definitely my day one. I remember you asking for a house tour before I left KE. Thank you for being here and I'm so glad you still find my content helpful. ❤️

[@margaretchiyoka6569]

Amen I receive Amen

[@linetmwangi2740]

In the UK, forget using an umbrella just by the rain coat and hoodies. That's the only way to survive UK weather. It's unpredictable

[@PrimroseFundai-j1n]

Happy New year Tess. I love you a lot from Zimbabwe 🇿🇼. Your life journey help me heal after a break up from my 9 year relationship. Now l have another perspective of life. ❤❤❤❤

[@carolynerimui5188]

Looking bright gal❤ Remember we can only throw stones to a tree that has fruit Our gem 💯👌

[@Binti-wakinyakyusa]

Tess!! I just feel so happy that you are happy!! You enjoying the walk, the wind and the umbrella is really refreshing!!! I hope you have a great new year🎉❤

[@tessogambaupclose]

Aaaaw, thank you 🧡

[@globalchef-u8b]

Yo Tess! I've been an avid viewer of your videos, and today's message hit home. There's a profound distinction between merely existing as human beings and truly embodying our humanity. Your words resonated deeply as you shared experiences of how others treat you. Remember, living your life with positivity is key. Embrace your uniqueness, and let kindness be your guide. Your authenticity shines through, making a difference in this world. Keep inspiring and spreading love. Cheers to a life filled with positivity and genuine connections!

[@tessogambaupclose]

Thank you so much Chrispin

[@joylenetum1250]

Love love how authentic you are. Regardless of what anyone says, you being you is a blessing to the world. Proud of you for choosing you and wishing you the very best😇

[@tessogambaupclose]

Thank you so much

[@thomasduke4402]

Yes Tess, correct ensure you take plenty of Vitamin D regularly due to the winter season lack of sun light, also possibly ensure you take Zinc and B complex supplements becoz the food in the west is mostly frozen GMO's .. Good luck!

[@tessogambaupclose]

Thank you, this is useful

[@Paviececile]

them haters are gonna hate. They don't hold a candle to you. No one can quantify you experience but you. Happy new year, and your going to keep winning even this year.

[@girlsonmission1]

Thank you for sharing Tess, I appreciate it and you being yourself❤

[@tessogambaupclose]

You are so welcome

[@PhallenJongbloet]

Hi Tess. Am loving your independence and confidence. Bravo sis. Warm greetings from Pretoria south Africa ❤❤❤

[@candygirl1990]

Hi tess. I had an abnormal smear test last year, and had to go to hospital for further test. Lucky I'm ok, and I had to go their all alone too. It was scary but I'm ok thank goodness. You will be ok, and as always you are so inspiring and amazing ❤❤❤❤

[@rosalindnyaga3653]

Happy New Year Tess! Don't let negativity get to you; concentrate on your important goals, and keep in mind that those who criticize usually have their own problems and insecurities. Your strength is truly amazing.

[@tessogambaupclose]

So true!

[@katiedalton7549]

Keep your head high, Chin up, haters will always be there. God Loves you so much some people only project who they are on others.

[@tessogambaupclose]

That is true. Thank you

[@susanmuraguri8564]

Happy New Year to you too, dear.....and may I just say how brave you are to get Paps, wuuueehh!....myself, I'm too afraid, hata kama it's not that bad.....love your hairdo, too.....glad to see you up and about, given that you're our fellow homebody....😅....so it's true what people say- that the UK is pretty much cold most of the year?....and about that couple, usijali - like I said last time, some people just look for something to make their lives look better and more okay than others.....usishangae their channel is all for show and that in real life wako na mashida mob kuliko ngurue.....do what you did - switch off and ignore!.....focus and keep moving forward because umebarikiwa....thanks for sharing, dear.....

[@katiedalton7549]

What goes around comes around. But, forgive, bless and release let God fight your battles 🥰🥰.

[@tessogambaupclose]

💯 Let God!

[@TushKE]

Girl I pray you make it big in this life ❤🎉

[@modesterkay6825]

The good thing is that it's a past and it cant define you..keep winning sister ..tunakupenda

[@tessogambaupclose]

That's true. Thank you

[@oyceetimothy7703]

Like most of your contents. I click wid you cause am also an Introvert. Social Anxiety is so me and I do Enjoy.... my company so much. Happy New n also believing to settle in Wales UK soonest IJMN

[@tessogambaupclose]

Yay! I hope Wales treats you well, thank you.

[@keisharoach185]

Girl jesus loves you keep doing you my dear happy new year 🎊 continue to grow

[@Artina-w6k]

Happy New Year's Tess you look so beautiful and your skin is pretty.

[@tessogambaupclose]

Thank you 😊

[@vivianatieno9854]

Happy new year beautiful ❤️❤️❤️, much love 😘.

[@tessogambaupclose]

Happy new year!!

[@0tismadaline]

Yea people are people 😅happy new year sweetheart ❤

[@tessogambaupclose]

Happy new year, girlie 🧡

[@YoutubeCurious]

#100 Nobody knows what will happen the next minute or day indeed. Understanding is such an essential part of humanity. I need your confidence...taking it in 💞 ♥♥♥ Happy new year Tess

[@a.a.6762]

I think what people assumed is you said 100% of what happened. I could tell you probably gave us at max 10% of what you went through. By the time the police believed there was cause to take action, i was shocked to even see a whole therapist say it was just growing pains of marriage, surely. I felt pain for her clients. The holier than thou really didn't read in between the lines.

[@elaumoren7823]

Happy New Year Tess for Grace to Grace and more growth in Jesus Name

[@tessogambaupclose]

Amen! Happy New Year

[@paulineburke5702]

Happy New Year baby girl

[@tessogambaupclose]

Happy new year!!

[@elizabethmaingi54]

Do you know what they say the people who speak bad of you they actually make your future successful without them realizeing that.Great this are now coming your way girl be😁😁😁

[@lavinamiroya940]

Have stayed with my coil forever am scared of going to remove it can it cause harm in anyway?

[@tessogambaupclose]

Honestly, I'm not sure. Please don't keep it in for more than you should.

[@euniceembiti4553]

You so real❤👏🏻👏🏻

[@wanjikukabata]

Congratulations on 10k 🎉

[@tessogambaupclose]

Thank you so much, love ❤️

[@ritawanjohi5621]

Admiring your confidence everyday....keep going gal.

[@theonegrateful-leper]

You are an awesome woman Tess. Don't mind them..

[@tessogambaupclose]

😊 thank you

[@focusvisualstudio]

Lv yu girl! Keep duin you❤

[@tessogambaupclose]

Thank you

[@bellabk420]

Hey dear Tess. Always a pleasure to spend sometime with you in your vlogs.

[@katiedalton7549]

Happy New Year Gal and May this year of Divine Surprises In Jesus Name 🥰🥰❤️🙏.

[@tessogambaupclose]

Amen! Happy new year

[@winniemunene6560]

Happy new year Tess

[@tessogambaupclose]

Happy new year 🥳

[@theonegrateful-leper]

I did a perpsmear test last year and yoh it was uncomfortable weeeee.

[@paulineburke5702]

When you scream just now you sound just like my daughter she's afraid of everything LOL

[@tessogambaupclose]

😂😂 I hate crawling things

[@nyenjierica]

HPV vaccine is so expensive here in Hungary. My gp told me it's about 91,000kshs

[@tessogambaupclose]

What?😳😳That's crazy. It's best to get it in Kenya then

[@dikolizaskk5847]

Don't listen to hater's! U will loose focus on what u are doing

[@tessogambaupclose]

Thank you

[@sonianhantave9258]

I admire you very strong

[@nakitabroderick8430]

Happy new year 🎉

[@faithnyaga4665]

You mean hpv is recommended for adults?my daughter had her shots n finished her doze n gotten a cert.ITS FREE OF ChArge .but in kenya they recommend 9_12 yrs gals

[@tessogambaupclose]

I'm honestly not sure about the age limit, my gynaecologist told me it 9-26 years. I remember I saw somewhere that even a 45 year old can get it.

[@Artina-w6k]

​@@tessogambaupclose9 -45 in United States. They say once you get an adult age t h e vaccines a little different than what they give children's 12 to 14.

[@tessogambaupclose]

@@Artina-w6k Oh, that makes sense, thank you

[@dikolizaskk5847]

Put the link here, your subscriber's who has the best intrest at heart for u, would want to go and tell them 1 or 2 things

[@evelyndover1722]

My dear, Don't let those types of bloggers diminish your enthusiasm, for they are the types that jumps on other's content to try and aquire 'likes '. They are leaches. They have limited imagination so they do their best to feed off of others.

[@elizabethmaingi54]

Tess am sorry for coming to this channel 😂😂😂to talk about this but I wish this year to work online which I have never done before,am in Kenya recommend me something please 🙏🙏🙏

[@faithnyaga4665]

cervical cancer test too isnt painful its only uncomfortable.its important to have these test.good infor there tess

[@tessogambaupclose]

Yes, it is very important. 🧡

[@shikokariuki212]

Hey Tess....imagine don't mind this know it all's. Oh, but what do they know...? trying to get likes and relevance through someone's pain....!@@$^?? But chill. Don't get to their level. Let them call them Pet whatever's. There Human beings out here who can't differentiate between the Sun and the Moon, if you know you Know. You move Gal, power to Self Love and Positive Energy. Keep picking you..🤸‍♀🤸‍♀🤸‍♀. Happy New Year.

[@lilyroberts5093]

Happy New Year - there are some things in life that some people should sit down and look at themselves before criticizing others. You are strong, beautiful and intelligent. Wishing you the best this year ❤️

[@harrietbosibori]

The hair looks good,sure it makes you feel good.

[@creativespacex3842]

Love from Uganda

[@kadzo6614]

Take vit D3; also what lip care do you use in that cold weather? Try carmex ❤

[@tessogambaupclose]

I use Neutrogena, my lips have a knack for looking dry even when they are not. I will try Carmex, thanks.

[@SARAFINAIVY]

Hey tess ni ivy mambo hope your good

[@tessogambaupclose]

Hello 😊

[@SARAFINAIVY]

Hope unanikumbuka I enjoy your videos

[@winfredmugure3457]

❤❤❤❤

[@nicoleakinyi1938]

Great content

[@nyla734]

First !!! Yay!! Happy new year girl!!

[@tessogambaupclose]

Hey, happy new year

[@graceagili6995]

Why the “Title - SHAME ON YOU”?

[@tessogambaupclose]

I'm addressing some very hateful people but I've changed it

[@linetmwangi2740]

From the age of 25 years you have to smear a test,then you test every 5 years but it depends on your results after first smear test

[@lifeinitscolours4206]

Oh Tess, I saw the video, thought it was offensive couldn't even go past a minute of it

[@petkal2053]

Just ignore, they normally do that to try and get some of your viewers so you should try not mentioning them in your videos because you would be giving them publicity from your viewers.

[@lifeinitscolours4206]

That thing is a speculum Tess, and yeah it looks like a....

[@nahyialetomia9284]

Some meat or some flesh?

[@tessogambaupclose]

English disappeared 🤣🤣🤣