If you are in an interracial relationship...

[@starvibes5575]

I used to think one's background is not important but up until last month have I come to appreciate the importance.

[@NovaScotia-Can]

I am in an interracial marriage. There are challenges in marriages, but interracial have their special challenges. You just have to pray you meet a good person. Hapo kwa settling is so true.

[@RuthWambugu]

I agree with you Tess Learning about the person you want to spend your life with is very important 👌. The shoes look amazing 👏 enjoy.

[@mariaseidi4023]

Same wise old woman told me :there is 3 types of white men 1- They always liked black women thats what they like and thats what they go for ,no matter what family ,friend and even loosing is" white previlege " in society( because inspite of all progress for a white man to step up white a black women in same circles it still not easy). 2- For same white men its all a sexual fetish, they want to be with black men because they have big Dicks( the famouse BBC) or because they think black womem are very hot in bed( i hear all this before). 3-Same white people want to be with a Black person to feel superior because they know that as a white person they have a elevated social status automaticly and they mistreat and abouse their black partners in a almost narcissistic way.

[@barbaramangiri6704]

I totally agree with your suggestions about online dating. It takes time to meet the right person and interracial relationships are more complicated.

[@debbydiaries4698]

Mine is the small things that you will do ,I don't care about money but just small acts of kindness ❤

[@Softie-oz2we]

Preference is not bad but to specifically be on the look out for white men can be problematic. It's probably better to be open minded about dating outside your culture but most people specifically looking for just a white man get easily blinded to what marriage is really about. Marriage is work. For Christians always pray that God leads you so that the work in that marriage can yield good fruit because if both are on the same page it definitely gets better. Otherwise it's about character. Family dynamics. Religious beliefs. World view. Definitely do a background check because a terrible man is a terrible man no matter the race. A lot of the people I know that married a white man just because of his race are all now divorced because they went in with questionable intentions. Also do not marry someone upon meeting. Take your time to know them.

[@mariaseidi4023]

Exacly for many african women marrying a white man is about improving their financial situation,having mixed Race children getting a European passport and same just think white is better no matter how old ,abousive and racist the man is ...Thiago bothfor men and women .

[@rosemakena8267]

You're always a breath of fresh air❤❤❤❤

[@thecalvincefamily]

Loving your Vlog channel lately weigh more🎉

[@hyasinthantuyeko1440]

By listening to you; I have realized your primary love language is act of service and your secondary is word of affirmation. Nice Vlog Tess

[@tessogambaupclose]

Wow, thank you

[@vivianatieno9854]

Of course you look so good and gorgeous 🤩🥰🥰🥰, much love darling 💖💖💖. Thanks for the tips dear ❤️❤️😊, stay safe and take care 🙏🏻😘😘.

[@josephinekilungya1889]

Well noted

[@sharone855]

Girl is glowing❤❤

[@mosslegae2807]

Thanks so much dear

[@Crystal-t6g]

You can be with someone who is very kind and become whatever it is you want, but once they secure your love. They can then remove their mask and show their true self. Please read up on a narcissist, you are very vulnerable to them you sound like an empathetic person. 🇬🇧🇯🇲

[@Tiana_Fits]

Tess hapo kwa number three umetucheza😅. Anyway great lessons.

[@rahabpulanemakwala4447]

Thanks Tess for sharing this, so sometime we just rush to say yes especially to white guys 🙏👏

[@brightername8801]

Ohh Tessa shoes look goodo ohh

[@tabijuma3854]

Thanks for your content and speaking your mind. Winter imeisha ??

[@gugumagadla1837]

I just don’t know why this is an interracial relationship topic. This is the basics in general when dating, regardless of race. Also looking for interracial partners in just a weird concept! You should just look for love, it may come to you in any race.

[@lindisangantweni7455]

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