A PHENOMENAL STORYTIME FROM YOUTUBER RONKE RAJI, TALKS ABOUT HER DIVORCE & HOW SHE BOUNCED BACK!

[@LawChatsWithMadeline]

Hi aunty Fumi 🙋🏽‍♀️ I am one of those who requested this video and thank you so much for hearing us and being in touch with us your audience.

[@lyricst.germaine1153]

How this lady breaks out in a laugh brings me joy. Outta nowhere, here it comes! I wish I could be in Fumi's presence one day. God bless YOU, Ms. Fumi.

[@margareta.6506]

Auntie Fumi, you are truly a woman’s woman…a sister’s sister! I love and follow Ronke already but I love that you support her, especially as she touches on personal topics that are considered taboo in the African community! Let’s continue the dialogue because we need it!

[@dearmarteka]

that chart gave me life! loved it so much thanks

[@charitoortega1000]

That chart gave me no hope 😂

[@BrendaD4041]

​@@charitoortega1000me too 😂❤

[@waawcoumba52]

@@charitoortega1000😂

[@neliswanoah7663]

The how couples meet chart, wow I'm shocked, thanks for keeping us updated and sharing your knowledge

[@Letstalkaboutit07]

As a single 27 yr old lady, i love her advice so much and it has helped me reemphasise what i have been learning about life and myself in general. These are the kind of content we need. Personally, i have drifted away from the "acting" contents (how to be this and that...clean girl aesthetic, boss lady aesthetic, kept girl and etc). It feels like everyone want to be, look and dress the same(no sense of personalities anymore). I love that she also mention the need to know yourself before anything else. This will help select the kind of people you would consider giving your energy and time to. Thank you for sharing Aunt Fumi and Ronke. God bless you all.

[@euniceizevbigie7975]

Thank you sis. Fumi for giving Ronke her flowers. I love it when people are giving their flowers while they can smell it💕🌹💐

[@hisdncr]

I’m a semi newish subscriber. I really have one words but I do want to say that your laughter and your advice brings me the tears. There is healing in your words and I thank God first and then I thank you! Thank you Fumi for being real always!

[@euniceizevbigie7975]

Ronke is so amazing, I have been following her for almost a decade now, I love, love her so much, she is talented, very eloquent and articulate💖🌹🌹

[@rbraxton00]

Love the chart! Very nice!

[@KadiKintehJulla]

Thank you so much for your wise words Aunty Fumi. I'm going to share this to my friend who has recently been divorced. She's so down and low at the moment and can't seem to see the light at the end of the tunnel. This message is perfect.

[@Letstalkaboutit07]

please do, thats lovely of you! sister's keeper.

[@NoRainNoFlowersz]

❤I always wanted a Mother Like You Fumi❤

[@tiffanyblount7560]

I've been following Ronke for years. She's a lovely person.

[@maame6224]

That's beautiful! You are truly your sister's keeper Fumi!🙌🙌🥰🥰 Girl power!✊️✊️

[@PrivyChairLady]

See, Sister Fumi this is how you are so very blessed, because you truly wanted others also to be blessed. 🥰

[@winsomeleith2896]

👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 Speak it Ronke!! There are MANY who can benefit from you.

[@NomalngaDlamini]

The chart was amazing but I love how aunty Fumi gives flowers to Fumination and to Ronke.Community that is real and evident.

[@jacquelineg9112]

Lockdown exposes on whether couples are really compatible. Months looking at each other every day, that will definitely test the strength of the relationship.

[@isebi7592]

Spot on

[@lulu-xt5gs]

Thank you Fumi ❤!Love your perception.

[@giselanthony2711]

Wow! Aunty fumi this video is powerful 💪🏿💪🏿💪🏿.

[@lipsofcolorj4963]

I am #11 locing up this moment by the beach at 4:20pm in the Bahamas listening to Fumi in the streets ❤❤❤ u!!

[@sade_8637]

🩵💛🖤

[@tinaburnette4170]

Hello Fumi! Thanks for sharing ❤

[@maryoladipupo2777]

Thanks for the chart, love it! It was how online couples stole the show @ 60% in 2024, and Church @ 2% - wow! Food for thought.

[@NeneBlessing]

She is absolutely gorgeous

[@gummybear347]

Hi aunty Fumi! Your camera quality is phenomenal

[@prettypeyalimon6097]

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤Loved this vlog sooooo much!!!!! Funmi 🎉God bless you for who you are ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤😢Intook so much from your advice on this podcast!!!!

[@blessingsbestOtedola]

I thought Aunty Fumi had spoken for an hour! I was looking forward to the long episode. Not knowing she uploaded Ronke’s video lol!

[@OTF-nv1bw]

Ronke made my cry! ‘Go back to the beginning’

[@julietoneill1268]

Thank you Ms Fimi! And well done to the young lady, keep going girl 👏❤

[@iopakayalo3459]

May our God Jehovah bless you, big sister Fumi. Thank you for sharing your experiences with us. You continue to inspire and motivate us. Jah bless all who are healing from trauma. Sending much love and light💚🫂.

[@lasandrawright]

Your message speaks to my soul. ❤❤❤❤

[@Aeriyana123]

I passed on to my kids that are between the ages 26 a 41 that what is important to you in a mate is different every year as you grow. So what is important at 22 will not be important to you at 25 and what is important to you at 25 won’t be important to you at 28. Take your time and enjoy life while finding out what really is your must haves in a mate. I know as I have been married almost 40 years to my best friend. We don’t always agree or like each other but the love and respect never have changed.

[@montaigneplace7321]

Thank you for this

[@PrettyGirl-m1e]

Hi Fumi thank you very much I love this video god bless to you I hope you have a wonderful Christmas 🎄🙏🥰

[@kimpossible5939]

Love the chart! Online going to 0% for me 😊

[@aeiou0123]

😅😅

[@simplyyyfab_u_lous_3266]

Awwwwwh!! Thank you so much Aunty Funmi for this raw unapologetic experience you've appreciated and shared with us all God bless you both....i live and love you both.❤❤❤💖❤💖🌺🌷💐💐💐💐🌺🌷💖❤💖❤

[@glokolkay]

To know thyself is the beginning of wisdom. So true. 🙏🏾

[@lovp1]

Aunty fumi please share your earings collection and skincare routine.

[@ZakiyaAbdullahi]

This was such a good statistic you shared regarding how people are communing when it comes to dating, as the times are changing. I always appreciate your insights sister Fumi, it comes from wisdom and understanding as you stated. Interesting how online has overtaken the lead EXPONENTIALLY when it comes to how people are finding each other on a partnership level. Online exposure and networks definitely extends the reach and increases reach and overall opportunity. I'm learning to have an expansive mindset through understanding that traditional approaches in finding a good candidate pool for dating will only continue to change with the advent of social technological advancements. I'm not an online person, but I think you sharing that statistic is going to motivate me to be open to new approaches, while being strategic and discerning along the way. The times we are in are not the same times our parents were in. Time to let go of the discomfort and be open to new ways. Bless you sister/mother/aunty Fumi ALWAYS

[@kimmoyo8220]

Auntie Fumi- Nuggets of truth(powerful). You are such a deserving human being! May God CONTINUE to bless you! In the mighty name of Jesus!🙏

[@patoi3642]

Hi Fumi how are u doing hope ur well lovely chart is that chart at the introduction a true reflection of how people meet each other these dayz? No wonder it's so difficult to meet genuine authentic ppl it's very challenging

[@JackieTravels_]

As I was watching I thought "you both should do a podcast together", and boom, you called her to do a podcast.

[@joancommonwealther4968]

She is beautiful

[@favored5892]

Those words were piercing through hearts you learn from your mistake or mis hap life teaches you lessons

[@MsStefy01]

She has a very mature mindset

[@debramitchell2824]

Fumi I need those earrings!

[@ppinnock4725]

You said it Mrs Fumi. 100%❤❤

[@lindabrown7086]

I don’t follow you but have watched a lots of your videos, but amazing words of wisdom for us especially single parents. We have to be who we want to be. Single parents are being judged a lot as a choice but thanks for letting the world now society has no power on women or men. Be who you want to be strong and resilient

[@MargaretOladimeji-u7k]

Hello Fumi, I think you just found the daughter you never had in Ronke. Isn’t she just too wise beyond her years? Loads of love my darling.

[@jayko4732]

Omg I so love ronkeraji ❤😊

[@exploretheword]

Do not lose your self while finding others word.

[@cathyecooper4376]

"We don't grow from our Comfort Zone".... I L O V E that... Wisdom in a nugget right there🤔

[@kemmyoluwo4732]

This is why at 37, my approach to marriage is this. I'm focusing on God an myself. If I guy comes great. If he doesn't God is still good. I'm not going to be waiting around all day or speak to a due everyday. Plus, God can still use you even when single. There's nothing wrong with you, as Jesus stated in one of his sermons when addressed about the issue of marriage - he compared to the eunuch. Our culture has idolised marriage so much that people have done it to please other people other than to please God. I even had to stress this to one dude right now that I'm not going to be speaking him all the time. Wisdom in this ladies, cos this is a very crucial decision. Our parents will not understand everything cos they certain things that they tolerate took that us now, WILL NOT AND NEVER TOLERATE. Men need to have mental stability, IN THEMSELVES. NO baby or woman will do that for them. Only themselves and God can. And if they don't want to, then leave them be. It's not our job as women to change or fix them.

[@ogunremi10]

Thank you ❤

[@AshleyJ-g7i]

Her video at the end is good. But as someone with misophonia; I hated the part where she ate AND talk. Great video though, beautiful smart intelligent lady with great advice. I ll definitely subscribe.

[@colettemccullough1586]

❤ U Auntie Fumi.

[@LS-gy9bq]

Don't people learn at a very young age, NOT TO TALK WITH FOOD IN THEIR MOUTHS ⁉️🚫😬🤢. I START WATCHING RONKE AND THEN ALL OF A SUDDEN, UGGGHHH🤢 SMACKING AND EATING WITH FOOD IN HER MOUTH STILL TALKING TALKING TALKING!!

[@flawlesscae]

I'm sure you can ignore the food in her mouth. Listen to what she's saying instead.

[@MTOTM.]

please save your eating etiquettes...People are talking about better and sensible things..here you are talking about food in the mouth...

[@NadCl4]

She had alot on her mind, she was hungry, and she had alot to say. She can be forgiven for this...plus i don't blame her...those Chick-fil-A fries are delicious while they are still hot 😅😂😂 even though i do not eat fast food anymore.

[@Elle_Jay52]

Well we do eat and talk with friends and family at lunch etc all the time, however, there is a time and place and I actually agree this occasion was not appropriate as it became distracting, however, please see beyond that as the message itself is what's most important and she articulates it extremely well!😊 No one is perfect that's life... so just love!❤❤❤

[@annenwjc7184]

I love the message but the smacking was🤢🤢😖🙆‍♀️

[@maryoladipupo2777]

She is a beauty 😊

[@bellahleyka4459]

Hey I’m second here ❤

[@josephinelamien5283]

I lov your hair

[@FumiDesaluVold]

Thank you sunshine ☀️

[@deborahaidoo3187]

Looking great

[@melissaizuagbe5689]

The visual at the start of the video was great !!!

[@patoi3642]

Finding someone online is a big red flag for me not doing it

[@lkofie6670]

Well... I'm not going to pretend I know what she's getting at really per her experience or situation because I find it a bit vague and theoretical or idealistic... IDK. But I suppose the bottom line is, go with and trust your own interest and agenda as it applies to YOUR life versus doing what you think others expect you to do.

[@maureenonoriobe9575]

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ Awesome 👌

[@sophiawalters7947]

True sister true

[@MariaMuir-v2k]

Goog luck to all the people who are going to a divorce

[@TheAmazingmayowa]

❤❤

[@LazarusStr]

Auntie Fumi! Thank you for introducing me to this young lady. I say young lady because I am 43 young 😉 ❤ Ronke is an example of why I don't follow others on bashing Gen Z or Alpha. I've seen plenty of examples of individuals in these respective generations being wiser, more mature, and more innovative than folks within my generation and the one behind it. 😂😂 Ronke proved that it is about each individual voice, not the entire audience. ❤ I give her flowers 🌹🌹🌹 and will check her out 😊🎉 I respect you as always, Auntie Fumi. Your class, poise, joy, and spirit are characteristics to edit oneself after. Appreciate your insight and food for thought ALWAYS! 🍎 The chart was absolutely intriging 😂 The shift in behavior over the year's was so interesting to watch 😮 😍

[@eunjoycekwon138]

Online was sleeping for decades now itit rise up its number 1 soo sad

[@losworldkrazyjohnson1135]

Can we get back to fashion please and thank u

[@DelightfulCharlene]

Funny that you stay with someone with 7 years and still confused.

[@lkofie6670]

Admittedly, this is why I was genuinely trying to understand where she was coming from, but still couldn't quite gather what the actual issue was. Perhaps the light bulb moment in what she mentioned regarding being with someone for 7 years was the fact that since she'd spent all that time and her most youthful years with that one person, she wasn't about to start all over again looking for someone else. So contrary to whatever he was or wasn't, the end result must be marriage as far as she was concerned.So, she put all of her focus on the wrong thing. Maybe that's it (?).

[@MsNairobi]

Funmi, is the evil eye superstition?

[@SaloneDutchess]

Aunty Fumi can you please accept my dm?

[@missjenn6861]

I wish she had done the video without all the eating & chewing. 😌

[@beaconcrystals323]

YOU DON'T GROW FROM COMFORT ZONE

[@elMARABIYOCHO1989]

A husband/wife should never be a random stranger. Marrying a stranger was her first mistake. You need to know who you are getting married to.

[@shirleyvanarsdalecrabtree2880]

Not so much these days. People travel and also work internationally, nationally etc., and you can’t help who you fall in love with. This world is absolutely HUGE and is full of strangers, plus, you yourself are a stranger to someone else. Why limit yourself to just the people in your little village, especially when you’ve never had that much in common with anyone there enough to even consider marriage.

[@babyjells]

He wasn’t a stranger though- they dated for 7 years before marriage. But people can be in long term relationships and still not truly know the person that they’re with because folks are good and masking and pretending to be someone they’re not

[@lkofie6670]

​@babyjells Perhaps... except that's a mighty long time to be intimately involved with a person wearing a mask and not notice even a little something off (?). Could it be as she'd touched on, that she was not willing to let all that time be spent in vain, so really, she kept on going along, thinking what she DID recognize/those certain traits about him would change versus cutting her loses perhaps after even year 3 tops (?). I mean, in her case, maybe it can be chalked up to age and not really being fully in tuned with herself which in turn, caused her to continue settling for what she later realized in her older age that she actually wasn't able or willing to tolerate. She also came to realize that the traits are part of the person and won't change no matter what you bring forth so either you find a way to live with it and accept the person for who she/he is, or... understanding what is known now, let it go.