A Special Unboxing from Fear Not Tarantulas!

[@Rossm29]

We love you Alex! Take as much time as you need to take care of your family. Your KZbin community will be patient and grateful for every time we get to see you.

[@TarantulaHaven]

Thank you so much. I truly appreciate your kind words. 😊

[@TarantulaHaven]

@@theseus900 still alive. Just really busy. 😂 Thanks for asking though. Pretty much on hiatus until I finish some stuff up. I’ll get back to posting.

[@gnomadicfishkeeper3298]

​@TarantulaHaven I hope things are leveling out for you and your family. I recently saw you in I think in one of Kats videos at a con, and was happy to see you out there. Anyway, know you're still in our thoughts. Keep on keeping on brother.

[@mattjohnson7369]

This is one of the most beautiful videos, thank you. What a wonderful species too.

[@jeffmason6900]

Oh wow. Not only is it so great to see you back Alex, but with such an incredible video too! You saw a need and filled it, with no expectations of recompense. Your reaction to the slings was absolutely heartwarming! Please don't ever apologize for showing your emotions, the world is desperate for more men to be authentic and vulnerable. 😍

[@TarantulaHaven]

Thank you so much. I truly appreciate your kindness. I get embarrassed because I have always been an emotional person but in our society it’s frowned upon.

[@darcystcorner2580]

I absolutely love when kindness is returned with kindness ❤

[@TarantulaHaven]

Thank you Darcy. It was overwhelming. 😊

[@darcystcorner2580]

@@TarantulaHaven I’ve known you for a bit Alex and one thing I can say is you are a kind soul. You deserve kindness in return. You’ve been missed but your absence is understandable 💜

[@liltink8869]

Alex, I can't imagine having to grieve while my loved one is still here which I know you and your wife are. We will continue to wait as long as needed until you get to a point you can post. Sending you strength and love

[@KaylaCorreia-q7k]

Welcome back! I work with the elderly and memory care patients every day. My heart goes out to you and your family! Thank you for making this video!

[@amysweb4815]

Family comes first. We can wait for videos Alex and we will always watch them when they come out no matter how long we have to wait❤😊

[@TarantulaHaven]

Thank you so much. I appreciate your kindness. I always feel terrible when I can’t create. It gives me comfort to hear that people don’t think any less of me. 😊

[@emayayche]

Welcome back!! Sending positive vibes your way! btw - My home town! I was at Fear Not today! Love them...great folks in person. I took home a Trinidad Olive Tarantula today.

[@TarantulaHaven]

Thank you! Awesome! One day, I’d like to make a trip to Fear Not. They are one of my favorite vendors and they always do a fantastic job. Congrats on your new T. I have one myself and it’s pretty cool.

[@emayayche]

😎@@TarantulaHaven

[@myowlhasantlers]

Not me getting teary eyed right there with ya 💜 Please don't ever feel guilty for not putting out videos. All of us have been there trying to balance life's curve balls and what we feel like we ought to be doing. Hang in there, we'll still be here when ya get back

[@tarantularamblings3149]

Wow you got juveniles 😊Over here in the UK we have just been able to get them again but they are 0.5 cm . Hope things pick up for you and your family .

[@sandywalter9728]

I missed you... but family comes first! I've been there! ❤

[@TarantulaHaven]

Thank you! I’ve missed interacting with y’all. Yes, family does come first but this gloom can’t last forever. I’ll be back to posting frequently soon enough. 😊

[@Gravityembracegary]

I'm so sorry you've been having a hard time.. no need at all to apologise. Always family first. It's great to see you, we'll see you whenever you have time. Beautiful T's 😍

[@TarantulaHaven]

Thank you so much. It nags at me when I can’t put out a video. It adds to my stress because I feel like I have to be putting out content. It’s good to know that people are understanding and appreciate what I do put out. 😊

[@moggyexotics]

I am sorry that you and your wife are going through such a hard thing, I work in care with dementia patients ans it's hard for the family and friends. It's so sweet that you made the roll holder I think it's so kind and thoughtful gift. Sending loads of love your way for you and your family. ❤

[@brookelopez114]

You are so kind and humble a wonderful father and husband and tarantula keeper God bless you I will keep your mother in law in my prayers and your family ❤You are right when you are humble and enjoy giving of yourself for the joy of it God blesses you 100 times that amount ❤

The videos are not important Alex spending time with your wife and mother in law is all that matters at present. It's lovely to see you have something that obviously means so much to you. You obviously deserve that kindness. I'm sure all your subscribers and viewers wish for happier times ahead for you. ❤

[@RavenAttwoode]

I'm so sorry to hear about your mother-in-law. 💜 I lost my grandpa to Alzheimer's and that is really tough on the family. My heart is with your family and you will be in my thoughts!

[@simeon.g]

I'm sorry to hear about your mother in law. Your video brought a ray of light into my life also. I've bought from Fear Not Tarantulas in the past, and they're definitely good people. Take care!

[@TarantulaHaven]

Thank you. Tanya and the crew have always been great and supportive. I’m glad my video made you happy. I didn’t want it to be depressing. It was truly a happy moment for me. I’m glad it was for you as well. 😊

[@josheoXD]

This was a great video man, it’s okay to be emotional ❤

[@naomijones3731]

Yay Alex, long time Sir! Glad to see you are okay. You are sorely missed on the Channel ❤ Take as much time as you need Alex, we will all be here when you return. Prayers all around for your mum in law, your beautiful family and yourself ❤

[@TarantulaHaven]

Thank you so much! I’m doing well overall. Lots of stress and taking things as they come but we will see our way through it. 🤓👍🏼

[@naomijones3731]

@@TarantulaHaven I got my own little H.chilensis this week as well. They are very rare, so I knew I had to get one for myself. Here in the UK prices are £60/$77, and that is for teny tiny babies. I've been pretty lucky with the rare ones this past month. I also managed to get my hands on Eupalaestrus Campestratus & Grammostola Rosea (Rcf). So, I have parted with a heap of money on rare and expensive T's this month. Two weeks ago I also lost my Mum in law to Dementia 😢 So I do know how you are feeling, and what you and your family are going through. Here with you every step of the way Alex. God Bless you all x

[@TarantulaHaven]

@@naomijones3731 congrats on your new babies. Those are some good finds. Sorry to hear about your mother-in-law. It is a terrible thing. She’s been having really good days lately but there are times when she gets confused and talks about people whom have passed as if they were still around. Sometimes it can be humorous. One time we were all sitting at her house and enjoying each others company and I guess she was getting tired so she announced, “Ok, I’m ready to go home now.” We had a good laugh considering she was home. 😂

[@nifferscritters]

My gramma had dementia and I completely understand how deeply and uniquely painful it is to face losing someone that way. There’s so much bittersweetness in the time leading up to the inevitable progression of the disease. My heart goes out to you and your wife and her mom, sending hugs and prayers your way. 🧡

[@khallfour]

You’ve got me in tears now!

[@naomijones3731]

I was the same...balling my eyes out 😢

[@TarantulaHaven]

I’m sorry! I wasn’t trying to bring anyone down. They were happy tears. In spite of my family’s struggles an act of kindness brightened my day. Caring for these two babies will serve as a reminder and cheer me up when things are tough.

[@pythonparis]

Congrats on the Chilean Flame T’s. 🔥 Our first was probably the size of a hydei fruit fly and we fed it melanogaster fruit flies and prekilled mini meal worms forEVER!! The day your little sling molts and shows its adult coloring is such a wonderful surprise and makes all of the time and attention you put into raising it so rewarding. Enjoy your new little friends! 🕷️ 🕷️

[@TarantulaHaven]

Thank you. My first ones were tiny as well. I had to do the same thing. I think it took almost 3 years before they displayed adult coloration. I will cherish every moment. They have such sweet dispositions it’s worth the wait. Hopefully I’ll get my female yet. 🤓🙏

[@scorpiothoughtsny]

❤❤I'm so happy that you are happy 😊. Beautiful Ts and Fear Not Tarantulas are awesome people. I received some babies today too 🕷 🕸 ❤! Smile You are and AWESOME keeper and person.

[@TarantulaHaven]

Thank you! I truly am happy. Yes, Fear Not is great. I’ve always gotten quality T’s and support from them. Congrats on your new babies! You are an awesome person as well. Thank you for taking the time to wish me well. 😊

[@spydermama9513]

My thoughts are with you and your family it's never easy family comes first

[@iamkyleclimer]

You are so kind hearted and loving bro! you deserve it

[@candyscott489]

Congrat !! Your a New PaPa 🔥🔥 I’m sorry to hear about your wife’s mom. Music is a wonderful thing, give her something she will always be able to enjoy. 🙏🏻

[@TarantulaHaven]

Thank you! Our presence seems to make things better for her. My daughter and son go with us and she gets so happy just having us around. She always loved house plants so we bring a plant with us to decorate our home. We maintain them for her since she’s unable to care for them so she enjoys them without the need for having to water and maintain them. 😊🪴

[@mathilde9904]

Alex, never commented before but i’ve been watching from the beginning, mainly because i love your personality. It’s the kindness, unselfishness and genuinity that you radiate that makes every video wholesome and worth to watch. That wont run out over time. Take whatever time you need, we’ll wait. Greetings from the Netherlands🇳🇱

[@GTVGregsTarantulaVids]

They are amazing people and you are amazing people. Prayers and blessings for your family and for your new little Ts.

[@TarantulaHaven]

They are great. Always have been. And thank you for your prayers. We’ll deal and see our way through. 🤓👍🏼

[@leiam7964]

I will keep you in my prayers! I really do enjoy your videos. Your smile and laugh can really light up a room.

[@TarantulaHaven]

Aw, thanks. Smiling’s my favorite! 😂 Thank you so much for the well wishes. 😊

[@Rossm29]

This video made me happy 😊 thanks for sharing all of this with us.

[@TarantulaHaven]

I’m glad it made you happy. Thank you for your kind words. 😊

[@chrisfrench1856]

It's great to see you back Alex, I'm so sorry to hear your sad news and want you to know that my Grandma has just been brought home to us to live out her last few months as she has been diagnosed with dementia also😔 so I know exactly what you are going through, be strong buddy and know that all of us appreciate all that you do and that you are not alone, the little guys are amazing and it was such a lovely story 😊 thank you again and my heart and my thoughts go out to you and your family at this difficult time, please just know your videos bring a lot of joy to us spider lovers and it helps us so much to take our minds off things that we don't really want to face up to even if just for a while, thank you so much once more and best wishes to you guys ❤️

[@TarantulaHaven]

Thank you so much for your kind words. Your perspective is enlightening to me. I feel the same way when I watch my fellow KZbinrs content. We’re all staying strong and being there for ”grandma” and giving her as good a send off as we possibly can. 😊

[@sammedhouse3376]

Sending you and the family lots of love, I no all to well about loved ones having dementia, it sucks, just remember you have all your followers and friends to help if you need it. Xxxx❤

[@hb8ts985]

I´m so happy for you, Alex!

[@Kaiyo_no_Ookami]

So sorry things are so difficult right now. Wishing you and your family comfort as you all go through that. And my gosh you’re such a sweet person! This also brought me a little sunshine today. The tarantula community really seems to be one of THE kindest communities around. Gorgeous little spiderlings too. Seems like they came at just the right time. 💛

[@TarantulaHaven]

Aw, thank you. I’m glad it brought you some happiness. It completely caught me off guard. I have to agree with you that the tarantula community has some very kind people in it. We’re such a small niche I guess we kinda have to be. Thank you for your comforting words. 😊

[@lauriefulk3812]

Good Luck with little Ts. Caregiving isn't easy but you will get through it, one day at a time. Sending prayers your way, God is good all the time. Take care we will be here when you are ready.

[@pepperlee2313]

Great video. I'm so happy your happy.

[@TarantulaHaven]

Thank you! They were happy tears. I’m just a very emotional person especially when things are difficult. But overall we’re ok. These little guys have already burrowed and made a home in their little enclosures. 😊

[@letrosezburn1495]

I love any content you make Alex. I'm sorry to hear about your mother in law. Family always comes first. I hope things go well for you all. Thank you for sharing. Hope to see you again at Animalcon. Brian's legend will live on!

[@raerae0320]

My thoughts are with you and your family ❤️. Take all the time you need, however it's good to see you back! Missed that beautiful blue background lol.

[@katiecrull77]

Oh, Alex ❤ It was really good seeing you and I'm so sorry you're having to deal with so much all at once. Sending lots of love to you and your family.

[@the1richard991]

Sorry to hear that. God bless. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

[@bonniemullennax6181]

So glad to see you!!!! Love you!!!! I miss Brian too😢

[@brazenhussy3016]

Beautiful video ❤ hope all is well with you and your Familia

[@kriswTmom]

Wonderful video, brought a tear to my eye. Prayers your way to weather life's storms. It's can be so hard. Love your channel and your love for little creatures ❤️

[@EmilyRose-fm4qt]

Oh Alex you so deserve it! I hope you and your wife have many more beautiful moments with your mother in law ❤ Thank you, Tanya, and everyone at fear not for being so kind and generous, it is absolutely the positivity we need as a community right now ❤

[@dananewsom4972]

Family comes first. We love you and absolutely understand. We'll be here waiting whenever you're able to be there. Thanks for the new video and I'll look forward to seeing you next time

[@user-pb3sb3un7n]

I cry over my tarantulas, too. I grieved deeply when my scorpion died, also.

[@calliew311]

Hey Alex! I'm so sorry for what you and your wife and your Mil are going through. I've had a lot of problems with my mom's health recently too, including a physical therapy rehabilitation center. My mom has been home 4 days now. I agree that you and your family need to spend as much time with MIL as possible with the time you have left. Please don't feel pressured to put out videos. I also got my obsession with H chilense from Tom Moran. He really endeared them to me. I also just love dwarf Ts. I am still relatively new to keeping Ts, its only been a year and a half, and as you said, they are small as slings, and after buying the sling, paying taxes, and shipping those little guys are almost or just over 200 (150 for the sling). I was too afraid I would mess up and kill the sling. However, the H chilense was the first day of Fear Not's 12 Days of Christmas sale. It was only 50 bucks! I was so excited, and went for it. I'm so happy I did. I think ours may be sac mates! I'm so happy you got those and I teared up along with you. It couldn't be a nicer gift, for a nicer person who needed some kindness in his life at the moment.

[@nathannewton6737]

I’m so happy for you Alex!!!! Keep your head up we will be here waiting for your return when your ready!!!

[@gatherformagic]

I'm so sorry to hear what your family has been going through. I hope things get brighter for you all, like the way you brighten our days. those are some gorgeous little slings we all know they're in good hands

[@thisisntarcy]

Please take the time you need, Alex. While I enjoy your videos, the internet will always be here for when you’re ready. Great to see you!

[@Fuzzypetrock]

So happy to see again! Been missing your content. Glad to hear that you have your priorities straight, take care of you and the family first❤

[@TarantulaHaven]

Thank you. It pains me to not make content but your kind words help set my mind at ease. Making content has become such a part of my life that I feel like I’m missing something when I can’t create. 🤓🕷️

[@kevindonohue2912]

I am so sorry. My father died from dementia 7 years ago, and my mother, 92, now has dementia and is getting visibly worse all the time. It is horrible to go through this. Being there is a comfort to people with dementia - long after my father no longer knew who I was, he knew he could trust me, on some level he knew this. My younger sister and I spent his last night sleeping in his room at his nursing home - he had one final lucid moment and thanked her for being there. Don't think it doesn't matter; it does.

[@great-grandmakirk8828]

I’m so happy to see you, I’ve missed ur videos 🥰❤️ I’m so sorry about ur problems at home. Take as much time as you need.😍 lastly all I have left to say is that YOU ARE A SWEETHEART and I love you . I am 79 yrs old and understand the problem’s with aging 😂🤣Thank you for coming back to share everything with us🥰❤️

[@tinichiatowner1241]

They are so beautiful.

[@TarantulaHaven]

They are. I was overwhelmed with them. Definitely a species I want to always have in my menagerie. 🤓👍🏼

[@arachnidgirl_ally]

I know they're probably not making up for your terrible year so far, but it's nice to see your kindness was rewarded

[@MOONOVERMIAMI]

Hello great video unboxing and rehousing welcome back 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏Alex

[@TarantulaHaven]

Thank you! Glad to be back. 😊

[@aundriachaboya-bc5es]

So happy to see you back, Alex! I'll keep you in prayer because I know you're going through a tough time. We all go through ups and downs in life, but it helps when you have people in your corner. Just to be there with a word of encourage is sometimes all it takes to get you through that day. Be blessed, Alex! With much respect, love, and good thoughts from California, your home state.

[@allenmills9449]

God bless you and yours Alex

[@edgufler1122]

Hey Alex, I thoroughly loved the video and nice to see you back.

[@AB-zm4mj]

Hi! Im new to Tarantula and just found your channel. I got my first T last month. Its a Brachypelma Boehmei. I just subscribed to your channel. Something different than the other ones Im following You made me tear up. Im so happy for you and your new friends. ❤ Also. Thank you for being so kind and to remind me to be. Work is tough and I sometimes lose myself in anger... Again, so happy for you that you got 2 of those babies!!!

[@chrisobt]

Wish you all the best! Thx for the video and I also like Hommeoma chilensis and orellanai very much, they are awesome little spiders! Greetings Chris

[@austinvickymoore3656]

Sorry to hear about your mother in law. I know how that goes. My father in law has been going through it to... been 2 years since he's last remembered us. Doesn't get any easier in sorry for your family having to go through it if you would like to talk im available ❤

[@karenlee3198]

Sounds like a lot has happened this year. Please look after yourself and glad you had a lovely little pick up this week. Thanks for sharing this with us.

[@503menagerie3]

So glad to see you putting out content-and so very sorry about your MIL-dementia is so so hard. I’m glad you’re prioritizing time with her. And congratulations on your new babies-this is on my short list of species I want as well! ❤❤❤

[@TarantulaHaven]

Thank you. It is difficult and very depressing to see a loved one change from the person they once were. It is literally a race against time. I’ll continue to put out as much as I can. As for the H. chilense, if you can get one you should. They are a such a great species with their sweet disposition. 🤓🕷️

[@leesreptilesandaquatics6368]

I've gotten a few of my tarantulas from fear not tarantulas very beautiful and healthy spiders they got

[@tonylott8167]

Your reaction was priceless, brought a little tear to my eye watching ❤ Hoping you get the female you want

[@TarantulaHaven]

Thank you! It completely caught me off guard. I thought about reshooting it because I felt embarrassed about getting emotional but I felt like I needed to show my genuine reaction. Making this video after going so long without making one was emotional to me to begin with. I miss doing it and it pains me every week to not put one out. Having this surprise during the unboxing just brought everything I’ve been going through to the forefront and it just exploded out of me. I hope at least one is a female but even if it’s not, the joy of caring for these little guys is enough for me. 😊

[@4my4blessings]

A blessing for a blessing of a person. You deserve all the good you get, Alex. That's so amazing, I have been looking for those as well. I'll be keeping you and your family in my thoughts and prayers. ❤

[@jeffmickle4745]

I feel you and your family i going through the same with my mom and its so tough to deal with prays for your family

[@mrlambchop05]

No need to apologize for life man. You have to take care of your stuff first.

[@TarantulaHaven]

Thank you! I appreciate your kindness. It pains me not to put out content so I always feel like I need to apologize. 😊

[@stevem8131]

Love your new Ts, and will continue to follow your awesome vids. Wish you and your family the best!

[@AshNasen]

I’m so happy for you, I’m new to your channel and your story touched my heart. Hoping all the best for you and your family 🌸

[@ProfessorOakYouTube]

Man you made my day, such a sweet video. I actually got my first fear not shipment this week and both babies are wonderful, cannot wait to order from them again 💛

[@justme2845]

Sorry to hear about your mother in law and your father. Hope you know that we enjoy your channel. I have learned a lot about tarantulas thanks to you. Look forward to learning more!

[@TarantulaHaven]

Thank you so much. I truly appreciate your feedback. It’s comments like this that stick with me and let me know that I’m doing a good job. I’ll definitely be making more content. 😊

[@r1verman]

Had been sad that I hadn't seen a video for awhile. I'm so sorry you've been dealing with personal issues. Always take however much time you need. We, your fans will always have you in our thoughts and be here whenever you get to upload. 💛

[@TarantulaHaven]

Thank you so much. It’s nice to know that people care. We’re struggling right now but it won’t be forever. I love my T’s and enjoy making content. When things get better I’ll put more content out more frequently. 😊

[@nathenbennett3734]

Just recently subed, I love your channel! My wife and I just got into tarantulas. She convinced me, and within 2 months, we have 7 now. I hope all is well, and I'll be here when you return. Sending lots of love from Idaho

[@LadyGeckoFoot]

You take care of your family first. Memories and time are things you can't get back.

[@humphreybiggins8295]

youre such a touching YT channel, ik youre on a break but ive subscribed to see your future content :) (and catch up on older stuff!)

[@MrDdeded]

Alex I’m sorry for calling you tarantula collective at the expo yesterday in Orlando 😂😭😂. It was super cool seeing you tho.

[@somebody6170]

Hey Alex, so glad to see a video. Im so glad you experienced this kindness. Im sorry you're family is going thru this. I sent you an email whenever you have a moment to respond. I was interested in buying the file for your new clip design.

[@mitch201211]

Hi Alex so sorry to hear about your mother inlaw,

[@Queen5footer]

Sending you and your family all the luv! We are going through that too in our family and dementia is awful.

[@TarantulaHaven]

Thank you. Sending some back to you. Dementia is a horrible thing. I wouldn’t wish it on anyone. 😔

[@tonyb1092]

Hang in there brother

[@TarantulaHaven]

Thank you. I’m doing my best. Hearing from everyone has really brightened my life a little. I truly appreciate your sympathies and well wishes.

[@bioender]

I’m excited to see what you’ve done with the 3d printing. I run a printer shop and I’ve been thinking of ways to print things for my tarantula

[@clnfreakone8486]

Glad to see a video from you … take care of your family glad to see you again I got a printer for Christmas and got it to make enclosures for tarantulas lol 😂

[@TarantulaHaven]

Thank you. I appreciate you taking the time to wish me well. That’s awesome you got a printer. They’re awesome and it’s so cool to be able to print stuff for your tarantulas!

[@sunshinecarnivores1919]

I feel your pain. I work in healthcare around dementia patients, and I know what happens.

[@halefarson]

Hey Alex, brand new viewer here and absolutely love the genuine content you make! Thank you for sharing your story with us and I wish and your family the best. I was curious, what species of T is in the left-center enclosure moving around throughout the video? Looks enormous!!

[@ChantalsCritters]

Great video

[@wayneunderwood3886]

Hiya Alex what sort off lights do you use on the metal rack ? Thanks

[@ReneZiga94]

❤

[@NotAKoala64]

If you get a large female for the size option (of any species) like 4-5’’ will it be a young recently adult one or could it be really old?

[@MakinEmAtNight26]

You good bud? Missin ya

[@chicofromph33nix64]

Look into virgin coconut oil to help with those symptoms

[@deanne7125]

❤