A Successful Woman Is Unhappy If She Doesn’t Have A Man

[@dorianneutral1787]

I never heard a man tell another man that the most important thing he could ever have is a wife. ESPECIALLY on these podcasts

[@Jujubean9795]

This is the problem right here. They are creating (or trying to create) another generation of women that are wholeheartedly seeking men that are not interested in being husbands. It’s a vicious cycle that these losers are trying to propagate.

[@LoveAndSnapple]

That’s what I will never understand. One gender can’t be the one who is cuckoo for commitment and children while the other one could care less and could go without. How the hell is that supposed to work???

[@sharmindecruz9757]

@@LoveAndSnapple they want women to fight and compete with other women for them.

[@SakuraMoonflower]

Even though it's actually true. A man never gets taken seriously politically or in business unless he's married to a woman. 😂😅❤🎉

[@biblethumper8088]

It's contradiction.

[@samanthalake5011]

Taraji also deals with mental illness. That causes major depression. These men are so delusional. It is NOT ALWAYS ABOUT YOU!!!!

[@lakeeshadavis1583]

He is abusing his 13 year old daughter. What he is doing is called verbal abuse.

[@bruhmoment2578]

Exactly!!

[@thespot2035]

Wouldn't be surprised if he's the kind to laugh about sexual abuse and grape ..or the kind to commit it ... he's YUCKY and she's in for a ride ..it's pitiful

[@dontme4132]

He’s projecting. Those are HIS thoughts and fears. He’s codependent

[@bruhmoment2578]

Agreed, it seems his worst fear is just being alone. So to shield others from noticing this fear, he projects it

[@YankeeGirl226]

Right. He fears dying alone and he's trying to project that onto women.

[@manifest2203]

Exactly. Some fathers are not worth having and this man definitely is one of them. The delusion is unreal. What will these men do when they realise that the idea that men and women marry and become a “family” is in fact a very artificial thing? It does work to varying levels of success, but for the most part women are independent entities. Women and men had varying levels of individual privilege in the world. Most societies worked with fewer men and larger women. WW2 (which happened pre Feminism) k*illed 45 million men. Women always survived and thrived without men. A lot of problems women face today will be gone if women decentered men and allowed only the worthy men in their lives. All men shouldn’t even be having a wife and kids. In all mammals (which humans are also) only the best males are meant to reproduce. In the entire history of humanity less than 40% men have reproduced and passed on genes whereas 80-90% women have. It is delusional for men to act like they wanting to play games and then making it seem like any woman has to go above and beyond to keep him is going to serve men. Men aren’t important for women at all. Only kids are, if that women wants them. Catching and keeping a man is never the goal for women. A good life is.

[@SassyS2442]

Exactly… he’s codependent and the thought of it all triggered him..

[@divamarvalousoneal2454]

The same dudes who will leave when your daughter is down or for another woman. Shell grow up and realize you were the first man who taught her this

[@notyet2345]

exactly. they are telling men to treat women like crap while telling women to marry a good man.....that will never work. They cancel each other out.

[@gloriabyas8088]

This guy has got to be the most emotionally and intellectually immature man breathing on this earth! I really feel bad for his 13 yr. old daughter!!! Ugh

[@bruhmoment2578]

I can’t believe people like him aren’t charged for abuse, call me crazy, but I strongly feel what he is saying falls under abuse

[@dajewel1982]

His daughter don’t stand a chance wow

[@gloriabyas8088]

@@bruhmoment2578 I agree! Unfortunately, the courts would probably say that he is within his rights, unless it's perceived by the child as negative. I hope that his daughter's friends and their parents see this video before she is further brainwashed/manipulated.😌😔🤔Imagine her in a few years, waving goodbye to her friends as the go off to college or travel and see the world, while she's saddled up with babies and washed up hopes and dreams! This really makes me sad. There are some mothers with this mindset too, just to be fair. 🤨

[@bruhmoment2578]

@@gloriabyas8088 I love how you put it, I can literally imagine them waving goodbye to experience life as it should be. While, she is huddled up in her small apartment, a single mother, with multiple children, and impoverished. No hate to single mothers tho!!

[@ana-nim]

​@@dajewel1982 actually it's maybe opposite. My dad was like that and the only thing it did to me is taught me to work hard to never ever be dependent on such a man.

[@pink1237480]

Just because someone is unhappy doesn't mean that it's because of them being single. It sounds like he is projecting my money and my degree mean everything to me. There are people in relationships and marriages and they are not happy for whatever reason.

[@brittanyr6197]

I was raised by a single father my dad never once told me to rely on a man

[@JaiK64]

Exactly! No real father is telling their kids to rely on anyone.

[@PettyIsMyMiddleName]

Exactly. Mine told me to get my degree and career because a man will love you on Friday and leave you by Monday. Don’t trust a man !

[@notyet2345]

Given the horrendous leadership most men have display, I personally would not trust my well being in the hands of anyone 100%. I need to be involved in every decision regarding my life. l will never blindly trust that someone else can make better decisions for my life than me. I have a healthy mistrust of most people. It protects me from other people's mistakes or misdeeds.

[@hardcandy71287]

ALL OF THIS!!! i truly don’t understand women who say things like, “i don’t like thinking. i want him to do it all for me” and then have the nerve to be pikachu faced when he screws them over. EVERYONE is supposed to be making decisions for themselves. some women have truly lost their sense of self and have completely aligned with males.

[@bruhmoment2578]

Very well said

[@lhurdle87]

That's where I'm at in life currently.

[@mizzmolly7649]

I had to put on my eyeglasses to see who wrote this comment because I thought it was me. ❤

[@coolbreeze5683]

Completely agree. Women see the full picture while men only see small pieces at a time. Women should never dim down their superpowers to cater to dumbos. I worked in an office of almost all women except for 2 men. Our meetings have a lot of talking but they're fast moving and hit on many approaches and topics. The guys usually have issues catching up because they can only hear one thing at a time. They can't read between the lines, understand what's implied, think about how other people might be affected by decisions, distribution of responsibilities, scheduling, etc. They don't understand how we predict outcomes. Having high empathy, which is what many women have, can make you appear psychic and able to predict the future but it's really just attentiveness, which many men lack.

[@thespot2035]

That man's aggression speaks for itself.He is the type that follows a woman who's rejected him and abuse her verbally,the kind to stalk a woman and force himself on her ,the nightmare kind that your mother warned you about 😢

[@clapwithonehand9304]

A good man can change but a degree Will be with you forever and won't change.

[@YankeeGirl226]

And can open doors that a dusty will never be able to. I don't know what they want from women. First, we're called gold diggers and now we're too independent.

[@manifest2203]

@@YankeeGirl226 they can’t seem to make up their minds.

[@clapwithonehand9304]

@@manifest2203 Exactly. They want to confuse us. 😂😂😂

[@LadyMarigoldWithers]

Men can make you feel lonelier than ever in my experience.

[@Childfree334]

I disagree wholeheartedly. Successful women are not sad because they don't have a man. They are sad because of the societal pressure and backlash they are getting for not having a man. If being single were not so demonized, these women would be just fine. Guaranteed!!!

[@garymoore3384]

Women don't get demonized for being single, they get demonized for being hoes and oversexualizing themselves for the world to see. A single woman that respects herself and doesn't sleep around with multiple men or date multiple men at the same time and carry themselves with some type of class are usually very well respected people of the community, at least the community I live in

[@Childfree334]

@@garymoore3384 As usual, a post from a male full of hypocrisy and double standards. Nothing you wrote has anything to do with what I said. You are WAY OFF topic. Run along. 🖐🏾

[@pink1237480]

@@garymoore3384 who are you to say single women can't date at all? And who said anything about having sex? Where did that come from? You're just projecting your insecurities like every other bitter single man who is an incel.

[@alyssawoodman]

​@@garymoore3384Your comment is anecdotal. Just because something is happening in your life doesn't mean it's the reflection of the world. People are rude to single women. Millions of women online speak on this. Also she doesn't have to sleep around. If she's single there are still people that assume she is regardless of how she behaves because "she doesn't have a man."

[@edithart5753]

​@@garymoore3384😂😂😂😂 that's not true stfu

[@DivineReports]

Only someone who doesn’t care about there daughter would say that

[@jayjellobean]

Riiiiiight... Thank you, Sir, for absolutely the worst possible advice EVER! He said, himself, that women are just dating memes, so his 13 year old daughter shouldn't aspire to invest in her education and her own security and independence. You're not making sense, brah. As a single, dual Masters degree holder, that's what keeps me warm at night. Maria! I love you, Sis! Thank you so much for your content.

[@heneverforesakesme4038]

they are lying...you KNOW, they tell their daughters the exact opposite. They are just hyping up their audience.

[@sciencenerd777]

@@heneverforesakesme4038 PERFEECCCTTTTT!!... OBVIOUSLY THEY WOULD NEVER WANT THEIR GIRLS TO END UP WITH MEN LIKE THEM

[@yvonnekilla3971]

My dad gave me the man to man talk at 14 and i fully understood the assignment. I told my bf to have the same talk with his daughter and she cried. She couldn't understand why boys/men would act like that. I told him he needed to keep preparing her cause this is a harsh world for women/girls. My bf thought it was her mom's job to tell her that. I told him its his job too and it means more coming from a man she can trust

[@sharris3480]

I wouldn’t let these men lead me on! Let alone lead me through life.

[@YankeeGirl226]

Right. Leading off a damn cliff.

[@y0g_s0th0th]

My dad has never told me to rely on a man. Relying on men is a dead-end. I will never say that to my daughter.

[@blueravenchick]

I have a husband of 17 years and I'm unhappy..... just sayin'.

[@ethioluv1dalluS]

I saw a comment from a woman who is married with kids says she regrets doing both. All that glitters is not gold.

[@weaveandwelfaretookblackme]

Same got married at 18 twins at 20 . Literally the worst thing I've ever done . Older men cheat the same as younger ones and being a single parent while married is absolutely real and hard . Don't marry broke men they'll treat you like crap after they drain your life

[@levelupgoddess9289]

Girl divorce him. What are u waiting on?🤨🤨

[@jubileej1629]

​@@levelupgoddess9289RIGHT

[@biblethumper8088]

I really hope things get better for you. I know from experience how hard it is to leave in a marriage.

[@missinterpretation4984]

Woooww the hemotions are strong w that one.

[@celinasjourney]

Poor daughter lol. Many adults have tried to tell me what is best for my life and they don't even know I disagree, because I just smile and nod. At the end of the day I'm just doing what I want with MY life.

[@TamTam9-15]

I got married at 20 my dad was against it. He straight up told me finish school and get my degree first 🤷🏾‍♀️. My dad is very traditional too. I’m taking dad gets the big piece of chicken what dad says goes traditional. And that’s the advice he told me! My husband and I tell our daughters go to school! If you find a man great but get your education find yourself first!

[@misslola007]

I hope that daughter has a mother with a backbone. My friend's mother stayed with her for a bit and realized how she is a married single mother. She told her to never give him anymore kids. He doesnt deserve the ones he already has. He doesn"t have any authority when it comes to his kids. When he screams, the kids are like "oh daddy is screaming again". Never listen to males.

[@susannehuber3996]

I don’t think so… she is still married to this complete idi§€

[@munix9351]

You just said something very important. Most of these fathers did not deserve to be fathers or even live with their own child. Basic input for a worthy title.

[@RenCen78]

Ita the projection for me. He knows that these sassy MENZ are miserable and they are trying to convince women to be with them using fear tactics.

[@ms.pirate]

I feel bad for the daughter. I hope she rebels and gets the highest education possible, and works at whatever she wants too

[@truettadevil]

He sounded very hemotional 💅🏽 You can tell your daughter to find a "good man" to settle down with, but Black American culture doesn't produce "good men". Minds well go get your MBA and let the chips fall where they may...

[@sheenalee7602]

Happiness comes from within. Just because a person is successful and single doesn't mean that they unhappy. You can't depend on a person for your happiness and if you are, you'll be disappointed because only you know what truly makes you. Btw, I love your outfit. It is beautiful 😍❤️

[@CoachDeBora]

If that's what he's really teaching his daughter not only is he an ABSOLUTE failure as a father, but that's also child abuse. A parent's job is to PREPARE their children to take care of THEMSELVES one day. Then and only then can a person be INTERDEPENDENT...which is the highest form of relating.

[@LM-he7eb]

LMAO

[@cygnevara8400]

taraji recently lost her son.....that is something that is difficult process. its hard to lose your parents, but your only son. give her time to heal. having dick have nothing ot do with her grieving the loss of her son.

[@marissa._]

I think you might be confusing Taraji P. Henson with Regina King. Regina King lost her son back in January 2022. Taraji P. Henson's son's father was murdered but her son is still alive.

[@gravityclarity]

Love the lady at 8:10. She was spot on and beautiful. Most men are not good people. They've shown me that most of them are garbage. That actually makes me sad. That it's this hard to find a worthy man is sad. But being single isn't sad. I do whatever makes me feel happy.

[@valery5900]

CPS needs to check on the wellbeing of his daughter RIGHT NOW!!! I don't know what her mother is telling her but if her dad is leading her astray, someone needs to come get her‼️

[@y0g_s0th0th]

I love seeing so many african women talking about relationships to many American black women. It's refreshing. And the beautiful smile and grace you have. Definitely a great message

[@PettyIsMyMiddleName]

This is for all women not just American blacks . There’s a whole movement in Japan right now , it is a male XY chromosome degenerative condition that ALL men suffer from , some greater than others.

[@y0g_s0th0th]

@PettyIsMyMiddleName I didn't say it was for anyone. just glad to see African women and black women getting along and starting to see we have a lot in common

[@HaleyJo1992]

I fear for his daughter. Let's say she DID find a good man and stayed home with the kids. What if that good man dies? Or becomes disabled and unable to work? How will she look after her family then? In this sort of discussion they forget that life just HAPPENS a lot of the time and you have to be prepared. And you don't even need college for that, just have skills and job experience you can use in case the worst should happen. A father should want that security for his child.

[@destroyraiden]

He's just setting his daughter up for classic tradional dependency that leaves women destitute & clueless how to provide for themselves that's what enslaves women.

[@Zethyzingerrooo]

Thats the scary part, these dudes never think that’s something that will happen to THEM. None of them ever think about what would happen if tomorrow they had an accident that left them COMPLETELY vulnerable and unable to take care of themselves, never mind their family. An uneducated woman wont be financially literate. She wont be able to keep up the standard of living they are used to. So now they’re financially vulnerable, reliant on whatever income she has, and shes playing caretaker to him and whatever children they have. (Provided she doesn’t leave him!) Nobody ever thinks they could ever be permanently disabled until it happens to them. It is a blessing we all take for granted. This isnt even getting into the other horrible fact that it is inherently easier to trap a woman in a relationship if theres an imbalance of IQ/income. If shes too financially dependent on him she cannot afford to divorce him. And thats an easy way for an abusive man to trap a woman in and get away with abusing her. Your money, your money. His money, his money. Esp if you make more then him. Its all fun and games telling women not to get educated until reality slaps back. Any father spouting that nonsense secretly hates their daughters, but thats the culture these men are fostering. “That which makes cattle of women, makes monsters of men”

[@LatiWins]

A good / responsible man would a Life insurance policy for this purpose.

[@amazinggrace313]

I know plenty of rich, good looking, famous men who are unhappy 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@churchsbiscuits]

He’s the only person that actually believes that he’s telling his daughter to prioritize marriage over being self sufficient.

[@theteleisewilliamsexperience]

That dude is insane alimony became a thing because men will leave u stuck like a fool. I'm a Virgo a true introvert by nature I have a blast with myself. Sitting in my pajamas watching Monsters Inside Me or 600 lb Life is my perfect day add in some good food my dogs quit and my cats purring chefs kiss.

[@lilywong9672]

Testerical mantrums tbh.

[@lostandfond2163]

It’s like these men don’t understand the word “depression.” Lol mental health struggles are real and effect everyone regardless of social status or if you’re married, single, etc. I feel bad for his daughter, any time she has a struggle I GUARANTEE he is gonna brush it off and if she does get a man to marry her, GODFORBID she still has a struggle he’s going to say it’s HER FAULT for picking a bad man or that it’s no longer his responsibility to take on that it’s her husbands Problem now 😬 statistically it’s actually safer to NOT have a male partner but I digress

[@erobinson5942]

I know alot of married miserable women. That shit is WAY worse trust

[@sue487]

I stop dating completely at 27 years old , about 9 years ago and if this sense of peace , freedom, and the way I have fallen in love with myself is loneliness and unhappiness then I want to stay lonely and unhappy 😂😂😂

[@IntellectuallyKurious]

"the MOST important thing she can get in her life is a good man"!!!! That's the advice he'll give his daughter?? He really thinks his daughter will be exempt from dating men like him. She's 13 by the time she's of dating age things/men would be worse than they are now. He is a damn blasted liar. He's just ashamed to admit he would really advise her to pursue education great career and be self sufficient to take care of herself in case a "good man" never comes. Either that or he hates his daughter.

[@sh5n15]

they want women to be dogs so bad

[@Aniexo_]

My mom told me that 😂 but I’m too smart I focused on my career instead. Men ain’t shit to keep.

[@DWPersianExcursion]

😂😂love and support from Texas ❤

[@sassysid100]

He’s lying through his teeth 😂. He’s just triggered by successful women. Men lie so much. They move the goalpost by the second. Ladies do the self improvements and be successful on your own! Just yesterday a lady stopped by my shop to tell me she’s now taking care of her mother because her old as father has ran off with some woman after over 30yrs

[@TOFFEETASTICC]

I tuned him out after “Taraji P Henderson”. Smh loud and emotionally unhinged. 😕

[@truffaut650truffaut6]

My dad always told me that a good education and a good school is most important to everybody.❤ Rip Papa

[@traceylennon1204]

I aint paying that fool no mind at that podcast.. Like at all!!

[@turquesa_8056]

That dude became so unhinged and was yelling over the mere thought of a woman being happy alone lol. There are numerous studies showing single women are happier than single men. 😂😂😂

[@PettyIsMyMiddleName]

I know this guy who is single . I’m not interested at all , he’s my neighbor. So , I’ve been over a few times because I sold something to him and I brought the contract to his apartment . Every single time I’ve been over there he has his tv on in the living room AND bedroom (door is open). He has his music very loud , the lights are on in every room etc. The very first time I visited I just noticed and was smh about it. The next time SAME thing , still said nothing. The third time I said something because it’s no longer a coincidence lol. I was like “why do you have so much going on in here”? And I said “you must hate living alone “ he didn’t respond but I know that’s correct . Because every single weekend he had to do something to not stay at home . And one time he had s few drinks in his system and it said “he would stay home if he had a woman because he’s tired of always being away. These men are MISERABLE

[@Princetonian4eva]

Something tells me that in this era his words will go in one of his daughter’s ears and out the other A lot of younger women I’m seeing now just nod and smile before going on and doing their own thing without a care of who is out here giving trash advice Also, happy to say I’m both successful and married. And my father told me to focus on studies and progression and it was by doing that that I attracted my husband who was focused on a quality life partner to build multi generational wealth with and be up for challenging one another to improve. Paid off massively for both of us and my father couldn’t be happier

[@erobinson5942]

Sir, what good grown men have you produced ? Lmao 😂

[@truffaut650truffaut6]

The guy is just screaming here. I could not stand that noise😂😂😂

[@videofan1010]

What I need for people to realize having a man and having a GOOD man are 2 different things... Also I feel like the way a lot of men would describe being a good man, is different than what a lot of women would say a good man is.

[@idreadFell365]

Doesn’t matter if a man is potentially good, women today don’t need to find being with a man a necessity. If she ain’t interested in being in a relationship, than that’s totally valid.

[@destroyraiden]

Yep men and woman have very different words they say. It's an easy game to play ask him to say a word then think real hard about what do you as a woman say you'll find you use words like cool, cute, to mean several different concepts & guys use words like lit, banging, ect to express multiple versions degrees of words & if you use lit and banging they don't like it cuz that's their words it really shows off how different each speak then you can branch into what is good man to a male vs what is good man to a female, what is loyalty for a male vs female, what is respect to a male vs a female, you'll find his stuff ain't matching if you take it at face value w/o adding in your own things to it & he finds your ideas of it equally unviable. Just like males are trained to expect unhappiness & women are trained to expect happily ever after once they wed see how these two things aren't matching up?

[@lakeeshadavis1583]

@@destroyraiden How many women have you been in a romantic relationship with?

[@vrichards4363]

1:30 lol he is setting his daughter up for failure 😂😂😂😂😂

[@Lets_Talk_About_it_Luv]

Some men should NOT be blessed with daughters. What he said, was absolutely ridiculous.🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️

[@Acehigh-Jenkins]

My dad just wanted me to be happy and safe. He taught me tonnes of things and how to make good choices . My mum let me watch the Goldie Hawn film ‘Private Benjamin’ when I was probably a little too young. That film taught me so much about men and relationships and how you have no one else but yourself to rely on. If you have girls show them that movie I learned from that the fricking massive importance of self reliance and resilience!

[@empressoflife5954]

I THINK THIS IS ACTUALLY GROSSLY INAPPROPRIATE GROOMING OF HIS OWN DAUGHTER!

[@triggered577]

S/N, What is he going to do if his daughter turns out to be gay? 😂😅💀

[@takinajowens101]

He lost long before he said "Taraji P. Henderson" I just went on and died there 😭😂😂🤣☠️ not only are you rude, offensive,and ignorant towards your daughter but every other woman. What am i missing and when did Taraji become miserable 👀 this is too much for my scalp and I have better things to do and remember😂

[@truffaut650truffaut6]

I am sure he decides what is a good man. Poor girl.

[@jessicatsao92]

Chances are 100% that he will choose a playing cheater, especially someone who is 55+ years old when she is 16. Then he married her off to that old man before she can graduate high school to make sure that she doesn't get "ruined" with education.

[@bambijones]

sometimes, i wonder .. do people not think before they speak...

[@catcat9582]

Does the Dad not realize a good man is RARE?

[@LUX_8]

They CONVENIENTLY ignore that fact!

[@terryclingmon1715]

I bet this man will not help his daughter financially until she gets a man since you don’t wanna Teacher her being a financially, mentally stable adult is the most important thing. What is it gonna do for her until she finds the man that he’s referring to is going to take care of her forever until that man comes along what is he gonna do if that man comes along break the heart leave her down and out is he gonna help her rebuild herself

[@noraa.616]

*Celebrity women being miserable? All women basically have C-PTSD, from the past traumas they’ve been through, and the fact that they can’t walk down the street without someone harassing them; anyone can be miserable from this, including celebrity women. A male usually makes the misery even worse for the majority of women, since in addition to the CPTSD and street harassment from males or paparazzi, women deal with a male that’s likely immature and doesn’t clean up after himself. This is why single mothers (including white single mothers) talk about how much better life has been like after they divorced their ex husband, because a male, generally, makes things worse for the woman. So that male is such a delusional, pred@tory creep, for telling his 13 year old child that “keeping a male” is what matters. “Keeping a male” is statistically bad for the health and quality of life of the woman, so a good father, that isn’t a pervert, would encourage his daughter to reject males until she is older than 25 (because the brain fully develops around the age of 25), and only if she really found someone whom she likes, whom she wants to be with.*

[@prettymuchanything9338]

Okay so anyways… where is your next vacation to ladies?

[@midheaven_mimi]

😂😂

[@IamSunRae]

Girl, my bday is coming, and I’m thinking my first solo trip is in order. I’m not sure where, though, maybe a cruise ❤

[@prettymuchanything9338]

@@IamSunRae aww happy early birthday 🎉 and a cruise sounds lovely 🥰

[@levelupgoddess9289]

Nothing planned yet. But after I’m done with my degree year after next I would love to do a cruise to Greece.

[@IamSunRae]

@@prettymuchanything9338 Thank you 😊

[@Carameldamour]

That's why he is paying child support and doesn't have custody of his children😂😂😂😂😂

[@violettbijoux1219]

The lady with a red star shirt had a smart dad !

[@violacadbury8343]

So are we going to talk about how this male is basically gaslighting his daughter into settling for the bare minimum?

[@subconsciousclarity1702]

He gonna be the type of parent that gets his daughter to no contact him, and then he is gonna have the same audacity to wonder why she is treating him so coldly.

[@sharris3480]

Your reaction is priceless!!!!

[@lewid019]

Also wondering if he's even married to the mother of his daughter

[@sharris3480]

These men are 1 fingertip from falling off the cliff

[@YankeeGirl226]

Should probably help them with that so that they leave us alone.

[@LoveAndSnapple]

7:13 The reason why it doesn’t make sense is because they don’t want the pretty, desirable women they want to be focused on their education and advancement, but the women that they don’t give a damn about, it’s OK if they bury themselves in their books and climb the corporate ladder. Those are the same undesirable women whom they’re gonna shack up with when they’re down bad. The same women whose houses they’re going to slither into, whose snacks they’re going to eat, whose cars they want to drive, and whose lives they want to ruin. But they’re not asking the women they want to be with not to work hard not because they care about her but because they want her pretty and trapped.

[@PrettyEyesz]

No one told me or prepared me, but because I was the type of child always quiet listening and observing relationships with other people, along with the songs and movies we grew up and with and I caught on quick learning that most men ain't worth shit, and though the reality I learned about men hurt because it sucked. I can at least say Ive been smart. I've kept my legs closed, never fell for any of the bullcrap from men. I always paid attention to red flags. And I grew comfortable with being by myself, and I know fairy tales aren't real. So now that I'm 35 I'm focusing on myself. I have nothing but time to get my life to where I ultimately want it and since I don’t have any kids, I don't have anything to stop me from getting the life I want. I'm also learning how to incorporate boundaries and say NO and also I'm all for putting my self first and doing what makes me happy and comfortable no matter if people disagree, don't like it, or feel uncomfortable, because the only person I'm living for to make happy is myself. This is my life and I only have one. So I refuse to waste it living in fear of disappointing others, while neglecting my own happiness in the process. Ultimately, I believe I made the right choice. If people disagree again I don't care because it's my life which means I can live it however I want and choose to.

[@spiritualbaepodcast]

😵‍💫With that logic his daughter will be calling him in the middle of the night because a man went upside her head. Thank the Devine my Dad did not teach my sister & I this patriarchal misogynistic b.s.. What these bandits don’t realize is temporary unhappiness from not having a partner does not mean she lacks joy & fulfillment.

[@lexa_power]

Maria! My beautiful sister queen 👑 blue is definitely your color! 💕👯‍♀️ Another interesting video as always! I look forward to watching these at the end of a long day and am always glad to hear your perspective because we think alike. Your channel feels like someone is saying everything i was thinking about men and the patriarchy! I’m glad someone brings the best of Tik Tok to us old heads on KZbin lol

[@MariaDavids]

Much Love Sis ❤️

[@alienunicorn4178]

A man is not the only reason a person is unhappy. Depression, mental health etc

[@superodalisque]

He told his daughter to be a mammy

[@breezluize3282]

Your blue outfit is beautiful.

[@MariaDavids]

Thank You

[@bamababii5989]

Why was he screaming?😂😂😂😂 he scared to be alone and projects that off on to women and his daughter.

[@toscadonna]

If he feels that way, then it’s actually HIS job to find a good man for his daughter. A young woman should be protected from bad men and introduced to a suitable mate by her parents who’ve thoroughly vetted him and his family prior to him even meeting her. He’s got this patriarchal attitude with no idea of the responsibilities HE has towards his daughter to protect her from bad men, since he’s set on her not being able to fend for herself.

[@PettyIsMyMiddleName]

🙄 I doubt that his remedial “a2s” can actually spell patriarchy.

[@beeautifuldreamer2211]

😂😂😂😂😂these men big mad why was he yelling is my question

[@kaybrown7733]

i feel sorry for his daughter. We don't need a man to be happy. when his daughter gets trapped by a mini him, he'll pretend like it's ok to save face. Sad!

[@danceswithcats97]

I hope someone finds his daughters mother and send him that video. He’s such a loser and not a good father. Just a bitter man

[@morethenyousee8351]

What's he going to tell her when she comes back at 18 or slightly older pregnant🤨

[@obakgwadi7672]

Taraji said she is unhappy because she had mental disorder and had family members going through the same thing 😮😂!!!

[@shawnayjamison8788]

I hate this so much and feel so bad for his daughter… He’s actively setting her up for failure. Sis is going to go into the world one day & fall in love but because of her dad’s rhetoric (and our parents influence us greatly) she’ll be preyed on. Most relationships don’t start off bad!!! So she’ll think she has a good man but he might do a 180 when circumstances change (it’s a tale as old as time). He’s telling her that her life can’t go places without a man so why would she have a degree/career/her own assets when a “good man” will provide all those things for her? Until that man decides not to anymore and she’s left with NOTHING. Even if she stashed money, the odds of her struggling emotionally & financially are great because her mindset is wrapped around men/being in a relationship. And the really sad part about this is that he’ll blame his daughter… “why didn’t you choose better?”

[@truffaut650truffaut6]

This is ancient. I can't believe it.😮

[@coffeepandacat]

That daughter of that man is going to go NO CONTACT in 15 yrs. Willing to feed his daughter narcissistic delusions instead of thinking of her well being. A real father would say she needs to protect herself by getting a career

[@bunnybeetle1304]

Sure, I am unhappy sometimes, but I was unhappier and more frequently in a relationship…

[@nataliesparks4829]

Ladies, please choose your struggles, don't let your struggles choose you

[@Heykay34]

I grew up my whole life hearing my dad with 5 daughters,” go pick up a book” ,”get your education” my dad and mom are school dropouts but always said that was the way, stand on your own. Wasn’t a mention of men just independence. My dads was shy he’s not talking to us about boys but he said education enough for me to understand I only got me out here 😂 my mom was a house wife most of my childhood they were together until he passed and had a loving relationship overall so….. I’ve seen how to have a good marriage through their mistakes and efforts. I’m still gonna have my back though. So nice to be able to walk away and have your own shit at the end of the day. Don’t let these boys tell you different!

[@toiab5709]

This guy said "how much degrees you got." 😳 Did he not attend English class?

[@anikasmith8361]

So basically he is sacrificing his daughter's future happiness in order to stay in step with red pill rhetoric. On the other side of this poor baby's future therapist bills is going to be a dad sitting in a nursing home wondering why his daughter has gone no contact.

[@mscece1900]

I have told so many males this in the past, treat women how you would want a another man to treat your daughter. These dudes in for a rude awakening, they're not examples on how to treat women. I tell them however you do women, is gonna be the same way men do your daughter's, so prepare yourself. And that's for the ones who's actually involved in their daughter's lives, most aren't

[@ballerina3483]

I am sad because i lost my community of women to patriarchy. I know and they tell me they feel isolated they feel exhausted but there is no way out. We women feel lonely because of lack of community of women to share our thought with to enjoy our get-togethers to share our feelings. The arrogance here is laughable.

[@isthisreallystillathing5060]

Lol, dude looks like he defines “good man” as follows: “He has A job and takes care of the children he left with another woman he procreated with, doesn’t beat you, and tells the truth about him cheating”. I tell ya, these dudes out here are so gone they define “good” so they fit in the parameters of the definition 😂

[@Richgurlz]

Those men don't care about what happens to their daughters 😂🤣 predators don't care, as long as they get to prey...some even prey on their own daughters, why you think they would care what happens to her🤷🏿‍♀️🙆🏿‍♀️

[@Richgurlz]

My dad definitely hates me and would say these exact words...he doesn't like his daughter and I wouldn't trust him around her...he will do something

[@no.6377]

Taraji is (was?) unhappy and was part of the "Black men we love you!" brigade. So...nah. I'd say it's more about dealing with ain't ish men that drags them down. And also a lack of therapy to unpack whatever trauma they suffered...(statistically) likely at the hands of men/boys.

[@ChildOfYAHUUH]

Heaven knows his daughter has a fool for a father, and who chose him to procreate with?? Eww. She's going to be highly disappointed with him and his advice when she's old enough to know better.