A Survival Guide for Sensitive People

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Simple Happy Zen

Simple Happy Zen

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@SimpleHappyZen
@SimpleHappyZen 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching! 🤗 Would you say that, on average, you’re more sensitive than most others, less sensitive, or the same? 👇👇 Let me know 😊
@Robert-qm1ld
@Robert-qm1ld 3 жыл бұрын
More than most, less than many HSP’s but I had to work at changing that, creating a semi-permeable bubble.😕
@annafoster6526
@annafoster6526 3 жыл бұрын
I’m not sensitive but I don’t like having to defend my opinion when others insist I must agree with them.
@anueerola9242
@anueerola9242 3 жыл бұрын
Much more. I use many of techniques you talked about in this video, too. I have also learned to block out other’s energies. I’m such an oasis, and all these other energies, thoughts and moods started really exhaust me, especially negative ones. So I had to learn to shut them out. It wasn’t and isn’t easy. Still struggling sometimes!
@faeriesmak
@faeriesmak 3 жыл бұрын
@@anueerola9242 I need to work on doing that as well. Do you have any tips?
@StamperWendy
@StamperWendy 3 жыл бұрын
More sensitive! My 6 siblings are all very aggressive, abusive and cold. If I do meet someone who is sensitive, I tend to befriend that person. Thankfully, I like crowds! =)
@suziqginger
@suziqginger Жыл бұрын
I am EXTREMELY highly sensitive. If someone snaps at me, says something the wrong way, looks at me wrong, I WILL tear up and shut down, and it can ruin my whole day. I avoid confrontation at all costs and even feel anxious if I feel I overshared something I wanted to keep to myself. It’s tough.
@شذىهيثم-ط8ط
@شذىهيثم-ط8ط 10 ай бұрын
That's exactly me
@najmussaherOT7
@najmussaherOT7 8 ай бұрын
can you tell me the solution. I feel like I really need some solution. plz someone help me but don't tell me to open up to family, they made me uncomfortable to share just anything and friends there's no one ready to listen and also if there's anyone I'm just not able to share a single word, idk how to do this
@oleksandrap1567
@oleksandrap1567 7 ай бұрын
@@najmussaherOT7 you can try talking to chat gpt first, to train your ability to share smth. Once you're confident, you can use anonymous chats with real ppl, and then maybe friends (if you want to)
@Yasyyyyyyyyyy
@Yasyyyyyyyyyy 6 ай бұрын
Omg… Literally me.
@Yasyyyyyyyyyy
@Yasyyyyyyyyyy 6 ай бұрын
@@najmussaherOT7Sou assim. O que eu fiz foi aprender comigo mesma e me aceitar a cada dia, mês, e ano que passa. Ir atrás de coisas que me fazem bem me deixaram mais familiarizada comigo mesma… e acabo buscando ajuda em minha própria companhia. Não é fácil, mas um dia conseguimos. Logo, aprendemos que depender de nós mesmos e desfrutar da beleza da vida que pessoas sensíveis como nós vê, é um remédio.
@jennierollins8789
@jennierollins8789 3 жыл бұрын
I am highly sensitive and I have lots of empathy. People can be draining. I am not comfortable around loud noises and prefer to be in nature . Thank you Vera! ☮️
@SimpleHappyZen
@SimpleHappyZen 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing Jennie, I can relate 🤗🌿🍃
@stevethomas74
@stevethomas74 3 жыл бұрын
Ditto! I'm an INFP so I think y'all would relate to me and vice versa :)
@shyaaammeneen63
@shyaaammeneen63 3 жыл бұрын
@@stevethomas74 Do a few public speaking courses. Join group activities even if you feel uneasy. Dont compare yourself with others. Practice assertiveness. Never say"YES" when you want to say "NO'. Develop your mental muscles. Reduce negative thoughts with a simple practice. Your breath and mind [brain] are closely related causing stress-anxiety. For a better life sit on a chair, neck straight, eyes closed and observe the sensations of your incoming--outgoing breath at the entrance of the nostrils for 5-10-15 minutes or more. Don’t fight your thoughts. Slowly the mind will relax. No deep breathing needed. Do the practice without any expectations. Change happens from within by itself. Day or night, when taking a walk, sitting in a park, when reading, before sleep etc sit or lie down and observe your breath. Like me, make this a lifetime daily habit to have a good life. Avoid constipation as it affects the mind instantly. Best wishes Shyaaam Sir. -Counsellor.
@shyaaammeneen63
@shyaaammeneen63 3 жыл бұрын
Jennie, Do a few public speaking courses. Join group activities even if you feel uneasy. Dont compare yourself with others. Practice assertiveness. Never say"YES" when you want to say "NO'. Develop your mental muscles. Reduce negative thoughts with a simple practice. Your breath and mind [brain] are closely related causing stress-anxiety. For a better life sit on a chair, neck straight, eyes closed and observe the sensations of your incoming--outgoing breath at the entrance of the nostrils for 5-10-15 minutes or more. Don’t fight your thoughts. Slowly the mind will relax. No deep breathing needed. Do the practice without any expectations. Change happens from within by itself. Day or night, when taking a walk, sitting in a park, when reading, before sleep etc sit or lie down and observe your breath. Like me, make this a lifetime daily habit to have a good life. Avoid constipation as it affects the mind instantly. Best wishes Shyaaam Sir. -Counsellor.
@stevethomas74
@stevethomas74 3 жыл бұрын
@@shyaaammeneen63 I try to do a few of those things (especially the group activities as I love walking so I'm in a few Meetup walking groups). Thanks for your input :)
@VincentNoot
@VincentNoot 3 жыл бұрын
Sensitivity is good for many things: Creativity, music, art, intelligence, analytical skills, empathy, caring, listening skills, lie detection, atmosphere creation, calming things down, choosing your words carefully, bonding, friendship... the list goes on.
@SimpleHappyZen
@SimpleHappyZen 3 жыл бұрын
YES!! 💖
@shipwrecker37
@shipwrecker37 3 жыл бұрын
I was venting about being sensitive with a friend, and they said something very wise, "Because you're sensitive you'll be able to bridge gaps that have never been crossed and see things that are invisible to others."
@soph8164
@soph8164 3 жыл бұрын
@@shipwrecker37 I agree however sometimes those bridge gaps can be challenging for those of us highly sensitive
@shipwrecker37
@shipwrecker37 2 жыл бұрын
@@soph8164 It's like you're referencing the same research I was thinking about. I think the finding was that sensitive people are better at bridging the gaps, but they're susceptible to burn out when doing so. They may even report that they're bad at it despite being much better than the average.
@machinedreamtv
@machinedreamtv 2 жыл бұрын
@@shipwrecker37 🌸🌸
@intigniadickey2224
@intigniadickey2224 3 жыл бұрын
I am 68 years old, and this is the first time I have heard positive things about being highly sensitive. All my life it has been, "You're too sensitive. Buck up" etc. Thank you for the tips. I feel certain they are going to help me. Big smile.
@SimpleHappyZen
@SimpleHappyZen 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts! I'm so happy you enjoyed the video and found the tips helpful 🤗🌷 Actually, I have an entire playlist about being highly sensitive, with lots of positivity 😊 The videos are quite old but I still like them myself and I think they could be helpful as well. So if you're interested, feel free to check it out: kzbin.info/aero/PLpDAC25h6PC8v5bhadp2pKQrK_0e4sd55
@chickennuggets1990
@chickennuggets1990 3 жыл бұрын
happy birthday
@benniestanton2576
@benniestanton2576 Жыл бұрын
Thanks for bringing this out in the open for others who have no idea that this is just one way that people are different. Some humans just cannot fathom what it is like to be different.
@jl3646
@jl3646 Жыл бұрын
I get told to thicken up. Or" you too sensitive. "
@mikemetague7973
@mikemetague7973 Жыл бұрын
@@SimpleHappyZen Re. @intigniadickey2224: Thank you so much; this is so much me! I'm even older (75), and most of my life has been making excuses for my 'me' time, and excuses for being overwhelmed, and needing my sleep regularity, etc. ...Very helpful!
@garykuovideos
@garykuovideos Жыл бұрын
We musicians are profoundly grateful for sensitive people. Without your ears and hearts, what we do would be far less meaningful. Thank you!
@guzaltalipova3846
@guzaltalipova3846 Жыл бұрын
I am a musician 😊 And I am a sensitive person 😂 Most of the time, musicians are the most sensitive people in the world, I know a lot of such people!
@Hernameis...
@Hernameis... 9 ай бұрын
Such a nice insight!!! And true 🙏🏾
@chugelen
@chugelen 4 ай бұрын
Music is my safe place... I have been able to do live music pretty well, I feel the connection to the crowd energetically. It is getting a little more difficult , I am picking and choosing more carefully.
@WithoutFear804
@WithoutFear804 3 жыл бұрын
Never change because people call you sensitive as an insult. Never be ashamed of caring.
@SimpleHappyZen
@SimpleHappyZen 3 жыл бұрын
I agree! :)
@Fern_Thaddeus
@Fern_Thaddeus Жыл бұрын
Boom, yup!
@mangot589
@mangot589 9 ай бұрын
I don’t know. My best girlfriend had real sympathy for me when she said aw, you’re just too sensitive. She wasn’t like me, , she was caring, but she felt bad for me.
@NarutoUzumakiofficial
@NarutoUzumakiofficial 8 ай бұрын
Ik this comment is two years old. but i need to thank you for this
@small_dropin_the_big_ocean995
@small_dropin_the_big_ocean995 Жыл бұрын
I am indeed sensitive, empath, an introvert and also an INFJ. How did I manage to stay alive (I do have anxiety issues) is nothing less than a wonder in my eyes.
@aria-5867
@aria-5867 7 ай бұрын
I’m also what you’ve described.currently not okay but i hope we find a cure some day
@JacobStein1960
@JacobStein1960 Жыл бұрын
I’m 62. When I was 22 I would say that I was very sensitive. Now it’s more like “Just bug off. I really don’t care if you don’t like me.”
@lutriula
@lutriula 3 жыл бұрын
I'm a tough person, thus it's hard for me to understand my sensitive friends. Their reactions are often unintuitive for me. I came here to learn and understand the topic better. ^^'
@dudj438
@dudj438 Жыл бұрын
Just the fact that you are taking the time to understand your sensitive friends better tells me you are a better friend than any of the people I have surrounded myself with in the past 7 years. Thank you for being a good person, I hope I meet someone like you one day.
@madeleine1138
@madeleine1138 8 ай бұрын
Glad you did that for your friends. Wish my family would.
@passacookie
@passacookie 3 жыл бұрын
I’m an empath with an anxiety disorder. I’ve been trying to learn how to keep myself grounded for years. My son is 6 and he’s exhibiting the same “overly" sensitive and anxious traits I did growing up. I’m hard on him sometimes because i don’t want him to be an anxious mess like me, but this video really helps change my perspective - that being sensitive isn’t a personal flaw. I think I need to sit down with him and talk about real coping mechanisms instead of getting upset when he’s being my mirror.
@SimpleHappyZen
@SimpleHappyZen 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your experiences! I think what you said about talking and discussing coping mechanisms sounds great. Also, Elaine Aron also has a book called The highly sensitive child. I haven't read it myself, but it might be helpful for you. Take care!
@zeta0951
@zeta0951 3 жыл бұрын
I suggest that you fix your relationship with him first then you start teaching him about what can help him , you can't be punishing someone for something you do it yourself especially that he's a child of yours because children tend to to learn more from their parents and the environment they grow up in . Being anxious is already a load itself being hard on him WILL just ADD to his anxiety which is something you must know it yourself . also being hard on someone no matter what problem they might have is not a solution unless they decide it for their selves and that's a fact you cant deny if you're wondering why I'm speaking , I'm already suffering from anxiety and and a high sensitivity person with a condition called hyperhidrosis , my mother is a nervous person who can get mad on anything .i think that's enough for me to talk about this . and I really hope you fix what's between the two of you.
@jennifermanzano2400
@jennifermanzano2400 3 жыл бұрын
Dear Passa Cookie…you are not alone! I am also a highly sensitive anxious mom raising a little boy who is my carbon copy! I am hard on him too sometimes. I know exactly how feel about not wanting him to be an anxious mess. I have taught him about being highly sensitive and how it’s not a flaw. I also try to balance out times when I may be too hard or critical with being extra kind and snuggly with him. He is a big time snuggler and getting lots of hugs or laying down next to him at bedtime seems to cancel out the times I’ve been too tough. And apologizing when you’ve hurt his feelings is a good thing too!
@NinjaOutfitInTheWash
@NinjaOutfitInTheWash 3 жыл бұрын
I mean I'm sorry but how the fuck can you be an empath and be hard on your son for showing signs of anxiety? I mean wouldn't a supposed empath understand that treating a child with anxiety harshly because of their anxious traits isn't a very empathetic or helpful way to go about it? How did it ever help you for example?
@passacookie
@passacookie 3 жыл бұрын
​@@NinjaOutfitInTheWash Your comment is why I don't usually comment on videos. I'm an overwhelmed parent with two kids on the spectrum doing my best and recognizing that I can do better / actively working on doing better. Instead of acknowledging that or sounding concerned or offering advice, you jump down my throat for a situation you don't know anything about except for my overly simplified description. By "being hard on him" I mean constant nagging (not screaming or hurting my child). When he's exhibiting anxious tendencies, they don't always come across as "being anxious," so it's hard to identify. Lift people up instead of putting them down.
@user-nm6dr4uy3d
@user-nm6dr4uy3d Жыл бұрын
I've learned to hide how I feel. Growing up, I was always treated as a drama queen for being so sensitive. Nowadays, however bad I feel, I look calm and composed on the outside. I don't even care to show how I feel anymore. Why talk in a world where no-one listens? I can't wait to have kids of my own. I will shower them with all the love and kindness that I can give. At least someone will benefit from my sensitivity.
@juniettareidhead8310
@juniettareidhead8310 6 ай бұрын
Good for you…..When my sons were born I finally had someone to love who would take me as I am and not make me feel put down all the time. I did everything I could to raise them the opposite of what I went through as a child. Both of my sons have done very well in their adult lives. What a blessing they have been to me.
@LovinDebsFit50s
@LovinDebsFit50s 2 жыл бұрын
I’m 58 years old and I hear “you are too sensitive” I recently respond “God made me this way.” Loud noises gets under my skin and I can’t even think. I love being in nature. The news, sad, violent movies effects me for days and sometimes weeks. Subbed. Thank you for sharing.
@Fern_Thaddeus
@Fern_Thaddeus Жыл бұрын
Same! ❤
@cherylc.7905
@cherylc.7905 Жыл бұрын
Everything you said I can relate to. I have seen something on the news and went to bed and woke up the next day with tears in my eyes. I’ve read other stories and went to my son crying about a story I just read about an animal. I love nature as well. It’s so calming. I have recently been thinking something is wrong with me. Sometimes I cry so easy and I hate that. But Vera is such a help to explain all this. It really helps. Good luck to you. Thanks for sharing your story.
@juniettareidhead8310
@juniettareidhead8310 6 ай бұрын
I still remember how upset I was when I saw my first violent movie many years ago….Pork Chop Hill…at age 12. I always wondered why it upset me so much. Through the years I have learned to avoid all such things. Can’t do it!
@liltunturi1251
@liltunturi1251 3 жыл бұрын
Wow, growing up as a sensitive man in slavic country was very confusing, I would always think that there is something unacceptable about me when around people. Something that I need to change for good. Then I realized, that I just need to take different approach to life than most people.
@ninak1976
@ninak1976 11 ай бұрын
I know, man. Living in slavic country is brutal, unless you are macho,macho man, or a conventionally beautifull woman
@SacredCrone
@SacredCrone Жыл бұрын
My husband would often tell me to get out of my comfort zone. Usually it meant doing things that overwhelmed me. I asked one day why it was always me that had to do this, and not him. Now I know where to set boundaries
@jeraldbaxter3532
@jeraldbaxter3532 Жыл бұрын
One of the things that i have learned, over many decades, is that people who too readily accuse others of being "too sensitive" are very often bullies. Their pronouncements are their cowardly attempt to deflect responsibility for their cruelty.
@AliWade1971
@AliWade1971 Жыл бұрын
I am definitely Highly Sensitive. I have the complications of Fibromyalgia, Chronic Fatigue Syndrome, Psoriasis and Menopause too! In the past few months I have started to really prioritise rest, sleep, alone time and setting boundaries.
@miriamkatze
@miriamkatze 2 ай бұрын
I believe you can recover from the chronic conditions (other than menopause) - look into the books and programs of Alan Gordon, Howard Schubiner, Jenn Man/Somia International. I recovered from 8 years of chronic pain and there thousands of people who have recovered from chronic fatigue using their approaches. You can heal
@AliWade1971
@AliWade1971 2 ай бұрын
@@miriamkatze Thank you. I started in the ANS Rewire program in January, and recovered around 70%. I have now joined the Gupta Program community (I wanted to focus on meditation more) and working towards 100% recovery. I no longer identify as living with Fibromyalgia and ME/CFS.
@ChristysChannelYall
@ChristysChannelYall 3 жыл бұрын
Yep, this is me. Can’t stand people, social situations, noise, having to rush, too many tasks to do, even clutter or extra stuff lying around. I am a nurse and had to switch to working nights with one patient in home care to get away from all the chaos. I was constantly anxious and having difficulty remembering things. We are all different. Some thrive on fast paced activities and constant busyness and some of us just can’t handle all that.
@bthoma35
@bthoma35 Жыл бұрын
I am an engineer and I love using car analogies to describe things in life. Son just like we value the sensitive sensors in a car, as they are important for the machine overall, so we must value highly sensitive people, we are an important part of the world
@Lena-by1xp
@Lena-by1xp Жыл бұрын
My boyfriend is always telling me I need to be more tough and that the world is not as shiny and beautiful as I think… I have to say I believed him and I started watching loud movies with war scenes in it. I’ve been getting more tough but I’m also feeling more and more depressive because of all the stimulie around me I have to handle.
@mph1ish
@mph1ish 8 ай бұрын
Maybe reconsider this relationship. Watching "loud movies with war scenes" will never make you a better person, but it will only upset and desensitize you. Why would a good boyfriend want to do that to you?
@itzjusme
@itzjusme 7 ай бұрын
If everyone is tough and made for war, who will be there to clean up after the war?
@creilly3728
@creilly3728 3 жыл бұрын
I’m happy to see more being said these days about highly sensitive people because I am one. All my life I’ve been led to believe it’s a character flaw and that there is something wrong with me. When people told me I was too sensitive, I was hurt and angry at the same time. I wondered what was wrong with me because I couldn’t be as outgoing and relaxed as others around me. I wish it had been better understood and accepted years ago so I wouldn’t have felt so awkward and out of step. I was surprised when you mentioned exercise and how it affected you because that’s the way it affects me but no one seems to understand, they say it’s laziness. Thank you for sharing these techniques for coping. ❤️
@SimpleHappyZen
@SimpleHappyZen 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts Carolyn, it's things like what you mentioned that make me think it's so important to talk about this more. :) Take care and have a lovely day!
@Leto85
@Leto85 3 жыл бұрын
To me your comment makes a whole lot of sense. I am not highly sensitive at all, but it's only obvious that excersizing can drain you mentally; there is a lot of movement going on in the gym plus there is music, and people talking. One might drop a dumbell or whatever which only adds to the overall sound overdose. I do workout regularily, and all these things I've described above don't bother me at all, but it's only logical that it does this to you, and that is no laziness at all. It can only be said as laziness by people who want to tease you, who only see the negative, or who simply don't understand you, which often happens if these people are way different than you are. If you ask me, there's nothing wrong with being sensitive or highly sensitive. But because it is an extreme trait (hence the word 'highly') it is only obvious that these things affects you equally extreme. No wonder you're hurt by what these people say to you. On the other hand I can only imagine the benefits of being highly sensitive: I bet you can love much deeper and feel those positive emotions way more than people who are not as sensitive as you are. And that is something I hope you treasure in yourself. :) And even people who are not highly sensitive - such as myself - can still understand you by at least taking you serious. I hope this message helps you somehow.
@MdeMaja
@MdeMaja 3 жыл бұрын
🤍
@creilly3728
@creilly3728 3 жыл бұрын
@@Leto85 Thank you so much for your comment. It does help.
@hyggegirlstefx988
@hyggegirlstefx988 3 жыл бұрын
@@Leto85 What a kind, empathetic comment! Even though your comment wasn't directed toward me, I appreciate your kindness. There are such lovely people in the world such as yourself!💚
@wt4451
@wt4451 3 жыл бұрын
I'm a hsp as well, and what drives me crazy is loud noises, fast and intense talkers, fast paced lifestyle that is surrounding me in a City, modern mainstream garbage music, traffic, strong smells, bad news, violent movies, when people rush me, and the list goes on... What helps me though, is trying to live a simple and minimal life, sleeping at least 8 hours a night, going on walks regularly in nature to recharge, where "few" people go. Trying to eat more healthy, even though that can be super challenging since the bad stuff is comforting and tastes yummy, lol... I try to be organized, prepared and tidy, but i'm still working on that and have a long way to go... I take earplugs with me everywhere I go, so if it gets too noisy I put them in, especially when I'm shopping. Even though I try to go shopping during less busy times, like evenings when most people start getting ready for bed, lol... I even put ear plugs in sometimes when my loud and intense speaking neighbours babble or when my family get together... They make joking remarks and give me the look, like I'm not ok upstairs, lol... I find oldies, classic, soft jazz & spa music soothing... Being around positive, soft spoken and down-to- earth people is a plus for me when I am around people... But the majority of people don't understand me, and I find it difficult to make deep friendships, because I just don't click with most people, and Vice Versa. I can tell that according to them there's something wrong with me, but at least now I'm learning to accept myself as I am. And a few deep friendships that I can count on one hand is more than enough for me anyway...We hsp do have many positives too, so it's not all bad! 😊🌿
@SimpleHappyZen
@SimpleHappyZen 3 жыл бұрын
Absolutely love what you shared, thanks for sharing your experiences!! :) Have a lovely day
@wt4451
@wt4451 3 жыл бұрын
@@SimpleHappyZen Thank you so much Vera!😊💚
@vendula4791
@vendula4791 Жыл бұрын
Hello, can I ask for my research, are you vegan?
@asosisos659
@asosisos659 Жыл бұрын
I swear, something small just happened and I got very upset, then I got angry at myself for getting upset, I made a big deal out of it and started crying asking why am I like this? Two minutes later, I came across this video.
@d18zephyr
@d18zephyr Жыл бұрын
I have grown to avoid and sometimes detest people who speak down on me for being sensitive. It goes beyond lack of understanding. They can be hurtful, which only makes me more sensitive.
@ronda176
@ronda176 3 жыл бұрын
I have struggled with low self esteem most of my life, and I believe much of it stemmed from feeling out of place and different. I’ve been told to toughen up since I was a kid. Only recently have I begun to understand who I am and more importantly be ok with it. Thank you so much for videos like this! They are little confidence boosters.
@SimpleHappyZen
@SimpleHappyZen 3 жыл бұрын
🤗💕🌷
@candyhr4152
@candyhr4152 Жыл бұрын
Highly sensitive. But we make good mom's. I avoid too many people. I've been heart hurt by random strangers many times. I try to help my kids be emotionally stronger than I am.
@marypiano3346
@marypiano3346 Жыл бұрын
It feels like you're reading my mind... It's like wow I'm actually not the only person that takes water, a chapstick and noise cancelling headphones whenever going out. Thank you so much!
@merlejune
@merlejune Жыл бұрын
Noise cancelling headphones are a real lifesaver 💌
@rhobot75
@rhobot75 3 жыл бұрын
Hello! I'm the gal who tackled her 30 years-basement of life by removing 1 grocery bag of stuff a week. I'm way more sensitive than most people, on the inside too. I get motion sick, car and boat sick, I can't look down and then up sometimes without serious dizziness; I can get hives; I have senstivity to light, and also get migraines; smells can get to me, solutions and hand santizers and surface wipes makes me feel like the Marianne Moore character in the movie SAFE (like I have Environmental Illness). Yah, so all this and loving the tips. Release our fear and pack that tote bag!
@unionunicorn6776
@unionunicorn6776 Жыл бұрын
As someone who has had my own mother in law tell me I’m “too sensitive,” I really needed to hear this. Thank you.
@barbaracarr17
@barbaracarr17 3 жыл бұрын
I agree that arriving early and traveling the less hectic route are so helpful. I have always known this works better for me. I hate being rushed. I love meeting with one or two people but not a large, noisy group. I've always felt I build strong friendships because I am fully present with the people close to me. Your video is validating that there are pluses to having these characteristics. Thank you!
@SimpleHappyZen
@SimpleHappyZen 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much for sharing your thoughts Barbara! I'm happy to hear you enjoyed the video :) Take care!
@daphne2549
@daphne2549 Жыл бұрын
Infj here, we tend to take small things very seriously, but won’t tell you. Instead we keep to ourself 😞
@brindha52
@brindha52 3 жыл бұрын
Boundaries are often underestimated, but I've come to realise that they're a real boon to up your confidence and self respect in situations that make you uncomfortable.
@SimpleHappyZen
@SimpleHappyZen 3 жыл бұрын
Yes! :)
@mikioni
@mikioni Жыл бұрын
Since I reduced my contacts with people to only basic things, my life has taken an upward trajectory.
@Leto85
@Leto85 3 жыл бұрын
And to add to this guide: the best thing we less sensitive people can do to help is to take those who are sensitive simply serious.
@ms.schnapp7415
@ms.schnapp7415 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for encouraging us to be ourselves and to not feel guilty for who we are
@SimpleHappyZen
@SimpleHappyZen 3 жыл бұрын
You're so welcome and there's absolutely no need for guilt or shame! 🤗🍵🌾 We have very unique gifts to bring to the world. Enjoy your day!!
@quackquack-fy3jm
@quackquack-fy3jm Жыл бұрын
I'm glad I'm not alone who is very sensitive person...I hate when my family tell me how much sensitive I am... Whenever I get angry I always try distance myself from other so I won't cry in front of them... Sometimes I even tried to hold my tears and at the end..i did crying in front of them... So thank you doing this video zen...
@jmfs3497
@jmfs3497 3 жыл бұрын
This is the first time I've heard positive comments about being sensitive. "Antisocial, does not participate, thinks too much, no fun, etc". Funnily, it usually comes from people who don't like my honesty, my boundaries, my autonomy, or my positive relationships that exclude the person giving the negative feedback. I have unknowingly adopted all the techniques in this video EXCEPT the idea that it is perfectly fine to be sensitive. My favorite experiences are with people who are sensitive enough to be intensely creative. I want to pivot my attention away from the brute force complainers, and towards the folks that recharge my life by appreciating my sensitive approach to creating value.
@SimpleHappyZen
@SimpleHappyZen 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing your thoughts! :) I want to spread the word about the positive sides to being sensitive, so there's more coming :)
@rishabramaswamy5761
@rishabramaswamy5761 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the tips! As a sensitive guy, I certainly feel things deeper. It can be exhausting but on the other side, being sensitive means that I am not afraid to be vulnerable and can make long lasting friendships :)
@SimpleHappyZen
@SimpleHappyZen 3 жыл бұрын
Love that, thanks for sharing Rishab!
@PriyankaYadav-lt5ml
@PriyankaYadav-lt5ml 2 жыл бұрын
I too feel I am hyper sensitive..I feel things deeply
@poetjames
@poetjames 3 жыл бұрын
Good advice. I’m an introvert. Being in loud social situations with lots of talking wears me out.I have to decompress afterwards. Thanks for the helpful tips!
@SimpleHappyZen
@SimpleHappyZen 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing your thoughts and I can relate to needing to decompress afterwards :)
@lalisa488
@lalisa488 Жыл бұрын
Yes, decompress! That's the word I'm trying to say but couldn't find it. Thank you for sharing. 😂 If I attend a party or an intense discussion or meeting, it would take even days to decompress 😢
@chane11ee7
@chane11ee7 Жыл бұрын
It sounds small but another thing to avoid for us sensitive souls is comment sections. (Ironic saying this in a yt comment section) but I find that going into the common sections of tiktoks or reels and posts on instagram can be extremely toxic and full of hate, people argue over anything on there so reading all of that can be extremely emotionally draining.
@janejana333
@janejana333 Жыл бұрын
I am not fully HS but what is interesting for me, I started to be much more sensitive and introvert in my 34. Crowded events, sleeping over out of my home, small talks..started to be so much draining! I definitely need and enjoy time alone...
@clairbear1234
@clairbear1234 3 жыл бұрын
I will say as a life long sensitive person, when I was horribly burnt out at my hospital job as a nurse, I could not tolerate intense exercise, it would trigger migraines and nausea and ruin a whole day, I tried to “push through” and I came to realize it never worked, no amount of will power could overcome the intense physically ill feeling it would induce. Now that I have been a year out from switching to a lower stress job I have incorporated more intensity and weight training which can help with stamina and guard us from fatigue. My personal experience is that it depends a lot on my current life circumstances how I will tolerate exercise.
@SimpleHappyZen
@SimpleHappyZen 3 жыл бұрын
Yes great point Clair, it does depend on how you're feeling with everything else as well. Sometimes my body can handle more than other times :)
@nmariekuu
@nmariekuu 3 жыл бұрын
What do you do now? Are you still in the nursing field? I am an aspiring nurse but often worry that I will quickly be overwhelmed as I am also very sensitive.
@shyaaammeneen63
@shyaaammeneen63 3 жыл бұрын
@@nmariekuu Do a few public speaking courses. Join group activities even if you feel uneasy. Dont compare yourself with others. Practice assertiveness. Never say"YES" when you want to say "NO'. Develop your mental muscles. Reduce negative thoughts with a simple practice. Your breath and mind [brain] are closely related causing stress-anxiety. For a better life sit on a chair, neck straight, eyes closed and observe the sensations of your incoming--outgoing breath at the entrance of the nostrils for 5-10-15 minutes or more. Don’t fight your thoughts. Slowly the mind will relax. No deep breathing needed. Do the practice without any expectations. Change happens from within by itself. Day or night, when taking a walk, sitting in a park, when reading, before sleep etc sit or lie down and observe your breath. Like me, make this a lifetime daily habit to have a good life. Avoid constipation as it affects the mind instantly. Best wishes Shyaaam Sir. -Counsellor.
@Claudiaf93
@Claudiaf93 3 жыл бұрын
Are your migraines gone?
@nadiarambles
@nadiarambles 3 жыл бұрын
Such wonderful tips, I especially love the second about acceptance. It reminds me of a time I was recovering from heartbreak, and telling a friend that "I am so sensitive and take a while to process... I need to get better/faster at processing." My friend told me that no, I processed perfectly and uniquely how I should. That conversation stuck with me, and has helped me better appreciate and care for my sensitive lil self haha. *Much love to all my fellow sensitive souls* 💜😊
@SimpleHappyZen
@SimpleHappyZen 3 жыл бұрын
Loved reading your story, thanks so much for sharing it Nadia! :)
@madelynsmith8281
@madelynsmith8281 3 жыл бұрын
I found out I was an empath by accident on social media. Scrolling through Facebook. I was in my early 60's. I am 65 now. It was definitely an eye opener. The answer to a lot of questions. We are very special people and it can take a toll on me everyday. Thanks for the tips. I really appreciate it. This was a great video. Welcome to the family of sensitives.
@SimpleHappyZen
@SimpleHappyZen 3 жыл бұрын
🤗🍵✨
@Mary-pg1rf
@Mary-pg1rf 2 жыл бұрын
I'm sooo sensitive that I have to be careful about which KZbinrs I watch, because I can't tolerate people who talk too loud, too fast and too much 😆 Also videos full of colours, lights and 50 different angles stress me out. That's why your channel is my safe place because I feel really comfortable and even I recharge my energy 🤗
@SimpleHappyZen
@SimpleHappyZen 2 жыл бұрын
Aw that's wonderful, thank you! I try not to do those things you mentioned, I also don't like videos that are all over the place. :)
@sscs99
@sscs99 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for bringing more attention to highly sensitive people. I just discovered that book a year ago and found it life changing. I'm much more able to accept myself now. About time, huh? I'm 65! lol
@SimpleHappyZen
@SimpleHappyZen 3 жыл бұрын
It's never too late 😄🌷🌱 So happy you also enjoyed that book! It definitely was life changing for me as well 😊
@tuanoini
@tuanoini 3 жыл бұрын
The survival kit really resonated with me! ❤️ It's been a journey for me to accept that I need to have a snack at hand whenever I go out. I simply cannot function if my blood sugar is low, and it can drop quite suddenly. The same goes for accepting that I'm a slow eater. I need to chew my food well. I still have some shame around it, but it has gotten better. It's just that the world is not built for people like me, and there are days when every little inconvenience reminds me of that. I continue to assure myself that I'm not the problem and there are people who love me as I am 🙏 It's so weird that I have carried this shame my whole life, needing food and being slow is literally just HUMAN.
@SimpleHappyZen
@SimpleHappyZen 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts and I agree about accepting yourself as you are, and doing the things that you need to feel good :) There's absolutely no problem there. Take care my friend!
@judithrussell9162
@judithrussell9162 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much Vera. I am an INFP and HSP and am in the middle of some horrible discussions with a company I’m dealing with, so very depleted. It is good to be reminded of our community of separate people 🙂
@SimpleHappyZen
@SimpleHappyZen 3 жыл бұрын
Hi Judith, thank you for sharing your thoughts. I'm sorry to hear you're going through a tough time with your work, I can imagine it must be a lot to deal with. Take care and take lots of self care breaks!
@williamshaw8106
@williamshaw8106 2 жыл бұрын
INFP/HSP here..
@Jelsaya
@Jelsaya 3 ай бұрын
I often remind myself "We can't even agree on how to prepare our breakfast or tie our shoes... So why would there be the one perfect lifestyle for everybody?" It helped me to accept who I am instead pf comparing myself to others I am sensitive, I get overstimulated easily... So what? Who said, that this is not normal? Maybe we are the normal ones and the others are the weird ones? This video gave me confirmation and more help to just... be me Work with who I am and not who I seemingly have to be
@alanahjade27
@alanahjade27 3 жыл бұрын
Thankfully for me I'm only fifteen and discovered this year that I'm a HSP.. I used to have awful anxiety but I am so much better now! There's still much to work through but now I actually understand myself! EDIT: I literally feel so DRAINED after school each day that all I want to do is sleep and it takes a couple hours to feel myself again
@Izz740
@Izz740 Жыл бұрын
Try to do a bubble or energy meditation before. Scents help me too if you could keep an essential oil roller in your bag.
@PraveenSrJ01
@PraveenSrJ01 Жыл бұрын
I’m 39 and same thing here
@Enigmaticharm
@Enigmaticharm Жыл бұрын
I dedicate an hour a day just to wrap myself up in a blanket in the dark and listen to comforting songs (or just use sound blocking headphones ). It helps me cope
@emilypumpkinseller
@emilypumpkinseller 3 жыл бұрын
For years I have done the planning ahead strategy and people shamed me for it, since, essentially, ''the need for it is a flaw I need to fix.'' Similarly, I'm incredibly sensitive to violence/pain/sadness so I avoid media with it, and people tell me it's not healthy to avoid, and that I need to work on getting over it. But you reiterating that all of this is okay is really helpful. Thank you for this video
@SimpleHappyZen
@SimpleHappyZen 3 жыл бұрын
You're very welcome Emily, I'm sorry people have told you these things. If you haven't already and you're able to get it somewhere (or borrow it), I recommend reading The Highly Sensitive Person by Elaine Aron, if you want to understand high sensitivity better and feel more empowered :) I thought it was absolutely wonderful.
@vathsalavt8050
@vathsalavt8050 2 жыл бұрын
Same, i like to plan things ahead even the route as I don't want to panic or get flustered at last minute
@tohrurikku
@tohrurikku 3 жыл бұрын
A few years ago I would have been nodding my head agreeing with everything. Now though, I know that a lot of those symptoms that I exhibit that are similar to the ones you listed happens because I am autistic. That diagnosis changed my outlook of all the things that made me look weird to others and now makes me look normal and explainable.
@eugetesta5847
@eugetesta5847 Жыл бұрын
Yes, but i 've heard autistic people would show less empathy, though some trades are similar
@magicpillowmp
@magicpillowmp Жыл бұрын
@@eugetesta5847 higher empathy is just as likely a trait for autistic people to have
@bethreis8982
@bethreis8982 Жыл бұрын
Excellent video....very helpful! I'm 62 years old, highly sensitive and just watching this has me crying! How many times I heard over the years that I am "overly" sensitive. I even yelled at my mom as an adult....why are you always trying to change me? I also get ....you are so defensive....now I know why! It's exhausting!
@shawnaford5540
@shawnaford5540 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks, I did not find out until someone recommended “The Highly Sensitive Person”. It was such a relief to know I was not defective and planning ahead does really help.
@SimpleHappyZen
@SimpleHappyZen 3 жыл бұрын
Exactly! :) Happy to hear you also enjoyed that book :)
@Cecibug1
@Cecibug1 3 жыл бұрын
As a sensitive person Iv also found myself as a people pleaser, so much to the point I will inconvenience myself to help someone through a hard time regardless of it making myself happy. I just feel a duty to help. My mom has been helpful with this as she is the same. She's told me how I need to pull back a bit and make sure I'm taking care of myself before I help others, so I don't drain myself in the process. You can compare it to putting your own oxygen mask on when the plain is going down, before you help your neighbor with theirs. I also struggle with crowds.because of this shopping gives me anxiety 😝 and I love alone time, I'm a big one body ❤️
@SimpleHappyZen
@SimpleHappyZen 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing your experiences Cecily! I think it's great you want to help others, and that you found out that you sometimes cross your own boundaries when doing so. Recognizing is the first step :) It's really nice that your mom is helping you out with this as well. :) Take care!
@tinalemna7998
@tinalemna7998 3 жыл бұрын
Vera, this was such a good video. I identified with all your points. It’s good to know what we can tolerate and what upsets us. Crowds, scary films, animal cruelty, not enough alone time all drain me. Thanks for another great video!
@SimpleHappyZen
@SimpleHappyZen 3 жыл бұрын
Yay, glad to hear you enjoyed it Tina! 😄🌺✨
@Eowyn3Pride
@Eowyn3Pride 3 жыл бұрын
Animal recovery/rescue stories are sad at first then so uplifting! 🥰🐶🐱
@danielganciar7193
@danielganciar7193 9 ай бұрын
It's just like born for the second time when you finally understand why you think so differently and deeply from most people!😊
@jessrinker9549
@jessrinker9549 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you 💕 I’ve been down on myself lately for carrying so much in my bag, thinking I’m too materialistic. Now I realize all the items I pack help me to feel comfortable and stay in a positive head space when I’m out of the house.
@SimpleHappyZen
@SimpleHappyZen 3 жыл бұрын
You're very welcome Jess, it's absolutely not a problem if you bring the things with you that help you feel your best :)
@renee7567
@renee7567 3 жыл бұрын
Wow! This really spoke to me. It all makes sense now. Been sensitive person since I've been little and now into my sixties. Every bit of that rang true for me. Now I know what I can do to help with my energy.
@SimpleHappyZen
@SimpleHappyZen 3 жыл бұрын
So happy you could relate to the points in the video :) Definitely lots of things we can do to feel better! :)
@jessie9653
@jessie9653 3 жыл бұрын
I've been the same way since I was little. I'm now 40 I always wished I could be like other people. I feel like I'm on an island all alone
@BallisticTomato
@BallisticTomato 3 жыл бұрын
I stumbled upon this video and related to it, hard. I'm a guy, and in my family I was known as the sensitive one. My parents just didn't understand why I was so scared of the dark or why I would have breakdowns. It continued to affect my relationships, platonic and romantic. As I've gotten older and matured, I've managed to do what you said; made things more comfortable for myself. Thank you so much for this video. And a shoutout to all the sensitive men out there who don't quite feel like they belong!
@SimpleHappyZen
@SimpleHappyZen 3 жыл бұрын
Loved your story, thanks so much for sharing it! :) Have a nice day
@herzz-e
@herzz-e 11 ай бұрын
when growing up, my parents always told me, "stop being sensitive" or "stop crying" or "stop crying or i'll give you a real reason to." and because of that, in my life, and even now, i questioned, what was wrong with me? why am i sensitive? im not normal. ect ect. and then i always surpressed my emotions. and everytime i cry, get angry or sad, i beat myself up for it and tell myself that i shouldnt feel this way and theres something wrong with me. i then told my self that i didnt want to have emotions anymore and that i didnt need them. it got worse but, now im trying to push through and refresh my mindset. its probably going to take away, trail and error, but ill try. thank you for this video
@kuura37
@kuura37 3 жыл бұрын
"so whether you consider yourself to be a highly sensitive person, an empath, an introvert, an infj.." i am literally all of those. life is pretty hard sometimes
@timinou6764
@timinou6764 Ай бұрын
When you talked about lighter exercise feels better than the high caloric burning kind, it really hit me as to why things never worked out long term unless I did my easy does it types ( especially nature exercise and even regular home chores, yoga, 20 min exercise bike and all outdoor fun activities) I wish , like many I'm sure, knew this all my life ! I always thought it was my willpower. Thank you as always, for making these videos. You are helping so many and I hope that it helps you with your own self-care knowing we all understand 🦋🌺
@tracygolwitzer9978
@tracygolwitzer9978 3 жыл бұрын
Omg!!! You have hit the nail on the head. Today....52 years old...have the understanding of myself. I've been a mess for years,; feeling guilty or out-of-place for years... Just bought the book for my Kindle. Looking forward to reading it. Ty
@SimpleHappyZen
@SimpleHappyZen 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much for sharing Tracy, I'm so happy my video gave you some understanding and clarity. I hope you'll enjoy the book as much as I did, but I'm pretty sure you will :) Take care and have a nice day!
@RanasEspace
@RanasEspace 3 жыл бұрын
Okay so the first tip shook me to my core, I already do that and yes my friends and family make fun of me too like 'oh do you have ___ in your backpack too?' but yes I do feel more comfortable and safe knowing that I have everything I -could- need.
@bobbysmith8095
@bobbysmith8095 3 жыл бұрын
Wow I just saw this video randomly and it is life changing. Thank you so much for this video. All my life, I always wonder what wrong with me. I tend to overthink everything, I have an over active conscience, and I am always so easily depress and stress from everyday thing. I was always trying to fix myself. Didn;t realize I was just HSP and it ok to take thing personally. All the thing you mention really touch me. I think I realize I was HSP when I was 11 but I never knew. I was crying when my teacher yell at me cuz I didn;t get the step. I was like why am I such a cry baby? Always crying at everything. I am so weak, I need to be stronger etc and over the years I try not to cry so much, be stronger etc. Nice to know now at 30 I am a normal person. I need to stop fixing myself. Take time for myself. Make myself comfortable.
@lesliemcfarlane783
@lesliemcfarlane783 Жыл бұрын
I'm very sensitive and at a very challenging time in my life someone close to me said I was weak. Once again my self esteem was hit. Turns out I was very strong and just a sensitive person. I didn't have the understanding of this to explain myself. Sometimes if you are considered to have a weakness people take advantage of this in not a very nice way. I'm much older now and have learned how to set boundaries and understand there are gifts that come with being sensitive.
@hxhdfjifzirstc894
@hxhdfjifzirstc894 3 жыл бұрын
When my personality developed in grade school, I had to block my intuition because I was overly sensitive. It has been a lifelong problem, with untold cost. I sincerely thank God that a very special person recently began teaching me to hear, to speak, and to dance.
@rehabilitacionencasa
@rehabilitacionencasa Жыл бұрын
I found many of the things you said I've been doing them all along, many not even aware it was because of this. I would also add to your video that "recharging" doesn't mean watching Netflix, which I agree with 100%, because recharging for us means doing something that allows us to stop receiving inputs from outside. For example painting, writing, meditating, having a bath with slow music or none, anything creative from DIY to building furniture, etc. where the inputs come from within and so our self can either rest or express itself without pressure.
@TC-rv6sz
@TC-rv6sz 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the loving care and kindness in this video. It's very easy to forget how unproductive pretending to be non-sensitive can be in a world where grind/hustle culture is worshipped. This video was filled with sweet and affirming reminders that my life/time/effort isn't worthless just because I need more rest and accommodations in between bursts of activity/productivity.
@SimpleHappyZen
@SimpleHappyZen 3 жыл бұрын
Absolutely love what you said, thank you Tia! :)
@clairedebbs9972
@clairedebbs9972 Жыл бұрын
Also doing seemingly dull things as a serious hobby, like doing the same jigsaws over and over again calms me down, helps me relax and brightens my mood. It is a sort of way if making sense on a very low scale of all the scattered bits of information floating around in my head.
@MKTutorials4u
@MKTutorials4u 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for letting this know. I never realised why I always feel uncomfortable among people?
@SimpleHappyZen
@SimpleHappyZen 3 жыл бұрын
You're very welcome, definitely a topic you could study up about if you wanted to :) Lots of info out there!
@zoe_mayaa
@zoe_mayaa Жыл бұрын
this is such a good help for me because i have hypersensitivity and sometimes it can be hard to deal with it because you have a lot of emotions and stress and prefer to not have loud noises around me and be drained by people
@mandyrichmond3989
@mandyrichmond3989 3 жыл бұрын
At 58, I'm finally not ashamed or embarrassed to be called "sensitive". I embrace my HSP traits today. Thank you for the reminder and for all your content. Much love 💘
@jessie9653
@jessie9653 3 жыл бұрын
I'm going to try to do the same, age 40 🙋
@SimpleHappyZen
@SimpleHappyZen 3 жыл бұрын
🤗💖
@rozl6178
@rozl6178 Жыл бұрын
I’m 65 years old and have struggled with the judgement of others for my sensitivity and also for the strategies required to cope well. It’s a trap because when those strategies aren’t in play, my ability to function optimally is hampered and the negative cycle of judgment and reaction is perpetuated. Your information is invaluable and I thank you for it.
@kiki_163
@kiki_163 Жыл бұрын
I am also a hsp! I used to see it as a negative trait, but I decided to accept the fact I am sensitive and learn how to live with sensitivity. I know it could be hard especially when you have to face a lot of stressful situations. But here’s some tips for you all! 1. Make a simple to-do list. (This helps me not to freak out even when I have a ton of things to do. But I recommend you to keep it less than 5 tasks per day.) 2. Try yoga! (I personally think people at yoga class are super nice and gentle😌✨) 3. Forest bathing. (If you’re living in a city like me, you could probably go to a park or even zoo!) 4. Live in a routine. 5. Take supplements. Some nutrition helps us to maintain our mental health. If you are having trouble with sleep, take melatonin. If you feel stressed, probably you can try gaba or vitamin D/B!! I understand how hard it is to live with sensitivity nowadays, but it got much easier when I accepted and sifted how I think about it. Now I believe god gave me the sensitivity to let me actually feel emotions and appreciate what I have. A lot of people don’t even see the beauty in this world, but we do! Just appreciate what we have got and live with it 😌💖 you’re not alone!! Sensitivity is a special gift 💝
@Nightchriss873
@Nightchriss873 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your videos. I am 31 years old man and I still do have really hard time in accepting myself as I am. My natural introversion, singledom and sensitivity. Your videos are really helpful for me and I always do learn a lot from them. Keep them coming :D. Thanks and have nice day.
@SimpleHappyZen
@SimpleHappyZen 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much for sharing your thoughts! I can imagine being a highly sensitive man can have its own challenges. Actually, the male/female ratio in HSPs is 50/50, so you're definitely not the only one :) Take care!
@NoraZiehr-ei3gn
@NoraZiehr-ei3gn Жыл бұрын
I always thought there was something wrong with me because I was highly sensitive and empathetic. I have gotten a lot of unwanted advice and criticism, told to toughen up, to not be so sensitive,etc. It is only now, at 64 years old, after seeing this video, that I realized for the first time, that my sensitivity is not something I need to change or fix. I thank you so much for this understanding, supportive and helpful video. This is exactly what I have needed for a very long time. Although I may be seen as weak by others, I have incredible inner strength. In short, your video inspires me to be myself and accept myself as I am.
@awarenai
@awarenai Жыл бұрын
I never noticed that high intensity forms of exercises aren't for everyone. I only thought I wasn't able to do them because I'm not strong enough. Buuut this video made me learn so much about myself. I'll do the gentle ones next time. Thank youu!!❤
@pameehanson3866
@pameehanson3866 3 жыл бұрын
When I figured out that I am a sensitive person it helped me to get over the anxiety and I lived with for long time. What you shared is spot on for sensitive people and helps other to have an awareness. Journaling and drawing doodles in my journals helps me to let go of the things that bother me. Thanks for sharing
@SimpleHappyZen
@SimpleHappyZen 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much Pamee, loved your comment! :) Take care!
@maviszer
@maviszer Жыл бұрын
i did not find this video, this video found me. by coincidence, i'm also an infj. i've always thought that i am *too* sensitive, so coming across this video is really comforting.
@nemranaseem9536
@nemranaseem9536 3 жыл бұрын
I love the point you made about exercise. It seems like such a common trend to work out for hours and to do the things that will burn the most calories. When in reality, I have also tried to do these super intense workouts just to feel burnt out afterward. I am also more likely to stay CONSISTENT with a gentle yet effective workout.
@SimpleHappyZen
@SimpleHappyZen 3 жыл бұрын
Exactly! :) Much better to be consistent with gentle yet effective workouts, than to go all out every once in a while and then needing a week to recover from it :)
@anngray398
@anngray398 3 жыл бұрын
So nice to hear from someone who feels like me - I hate when I stand up for myself and the person says oh you are too sensitive😩
@sorenkierkegaard3344
@sorenkierkegaard3344 3 жыл бұрын
Your presence and smile are so soothing and comforting. Watching your videos and hearing you speak is therapeutic in its own right. Thank you for being who you are.
@SimpleHappyZen
@SimpleHappyZen 3 жыл бұрын
Aw thank you so much 🤗✨🍵
@maggietaylor9713
@maggietaylor9713 4 ай бұрын
Highly sensitive introvert 67 here.... Always got drained around people especially when they were obviously lying and attempting to manipulate. It used to really pull me down and I'd carry the upset for days even though their lies didn't impact on me. After a lifetime of listening and supporting I've changed tactics and now interrupt and ask if they are really telling the truth. Their reaction saves me taking their rubbish home and thins out the people who are not my friends but just need to use someone disrespectfully. It's definitely a good 'self care' approach.
@cvetlica_11
@cvetlica_11 3 жыл бұрын
It is also important to address that this is also a coping mechanism - because we were usually born into a family, where the basic stable feeling of safety wasn't provided most of the time and we learned to tune into the feelings of our surroundings so that we can have a little more control, be safer, predict the reacting of others by sensing them. So I personally think it is also very important to heal the root cause of us empaths
@sarinasuisse6933
@sarinasuisse6933 Жыл бұрын
I agree!
@testtestsson4927
@testtestsson4927 Жыл бұрын
Bruh what's this. I think you might be describing exactly what I think I am starting to realize. Always super analyzing people which makes me exhausted and not pay attention to what is actually said. Probably because I want to predict like you say. My mom pretended to abandon me as a kid and had abandonment issues since then when I was a kid. Maybe I analyze people so much now to see if they will abandon me or something lol I don't know. But doesn't make sense for strangers and people I don't rely on. I caught myself analyzing old childhood friends and stopped because it felt disrespectful and I didn't want to predict their behavior etc because I love them and they were always nice to me as a kid. Like second parents. Maybe i don't analyse due to trauma maybe it's just something I was born with but I am trying to get rid of it and just relax and enjoy social situations and go with the flow instead.
@SylvesterAshcroft88
@SylvesterAshcroft88 Жыл бұрын
I'm an INFJ and i feel like there aren't enough videos like this helping people, especially since i have symptoms commonly attributed to aspergers syndrome as well, so it's like constantly being overwhelmed by my emotions.
@kimberlyd7091
@kimberlyd7091 3 жыл бұрын
It felt like a lightbulb moment for me as well to find out that I am an HSP and that there is nothing wrong with me. This video is so relatable. Thank you for talking about this and for the great tips. ♥️
@SimpleHappyZen
@SimpleHappyZen 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you Kimberly, comments like yours make me happy I made this video :) Take care!!
@mcfrog5473
@mcfrog5473 3 жыл бұрын
The thing about exercising really resonates with me. I never understood why I felt such resentment towards going running, but now I realize it’s because it’s quite hard on my body and makes me feel really uncomfortable in the moment, even if I feel good afterwards.
@MissBeeMarie
@MissBeeMarie 3 жыл бұрын
I absolutely LOVE the Fall colors (my favorite season). Your videos are well thought out. Some people do not know how much work and time it takes to create content. I understand, because my son is a KZbinr. Thank you so much for these beautiful images and insightful information. 😊
@SimpleHappyZen
@SimpleHappyZen 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much, that's so nice to hear! 🤗🌾 Yes it does take a lot of work haha. Happy you enjoyed the autumn scenery!
@MerryMoss
@MerryMoss Жыл бұрын
"You are not being selfish, and you're not being a baby, if you take the time to practice self care. Everyone needs it *and it takes a strong person, in my opinion, to tend to what they need on a regular basis to feel their best."* This made me cry... I always hear that I'm too sensitive and need to get used to a "normal" life and "normal" activities. My mum in particular can never understand me. She seems to be able to stand everything, sleep anywhere with any amount of sound, and do 10-15 things on a single day. It's relieving and validating to hear you say that you're actually a _strong person_ when you're taking care of yourself.
@alexandraalmeida3661
@alexandraalmeida3661 2 жыл бұрын
Absolutely great tips. I always go shopping early in the morning when very few people are there, I avoid loud and crowded places and I always go to sleep and wake up at the same hours. Sometimes this is seen as weird, but I learnt how not to pay attention to other people’s opinion, although sometimes I still feel like I am a bit strange 😕😊❤️❤️
@lanceanderson4531
@lanceanderson4531 Жыл бұрын
I'm a 29 year old male. I didn't realize I was sensitive until I was 16. It took me over a decade to find all these things out for myself. The biggest part of it was realizing that I wasn't like everyone else and didn't have to be like everyone else. When I finally accepted my sensitivity and allowed myself to look after myself (even if it was different from all my friends), I finally arrived home. If only I had seen this video years ago. Very accurate stuff!
@Queen0fNoize
@Queen0fNoize Жыл бұрын
The worst thing for me is nervous or violent parents at public spaces. Especially mothers tend to shout at their children when they don't sit absolutely still at one place all the time or when they talk "loud" when the other people sit or stand in silence. Public transport is sometimes a nightmare.
@harrietgate
@harrietgate Жыл бұрын
Worse than that is when you yourself are the target of violent parents.
@jayneread2178
@jayneread2178 Жыл бұрын
I have always been told that I am over-sensitive. I could never understand why my family did not see, or feel the things that I did. They tried to make me feel inadequate, but strangely I felt I knew something more than they did....but kept it to myself. I have had people say to me...'be more confident in yourself' but I realised I just had a different type of confidence, which was not evident to many others. I was, admittedly, very shy and there was a time when I tried to 'fit in' so I tried many ways to 'be more confident'. My family were very musical and they wanted me to sing on stage with them, so I became the lead singer in not only my family's band, but later on joined another band. I have tried sooooo many different ways to 'overcome' my sensitive nature. I would regularly put myself in situations and jobs in the hope of de-sensitising myself, but that just resulted in me crashing at week-ends, or on my days off. I was once told by someone that they thought I was very astute and now at 65 years old I realise that being over-sensitive really means being extra perceptive, and it actually helped me to be successful in whatever I chose to do, by using this extra perception to deal with situations that others missed. I hope this helps others to realise their secret power! 🤩😊
@anasantiago8201
@anasantiago8201 3 жыл бұрын
I enjoyed your video very much. I am a very sensitive person and this video was very helpful.
@SimpleHappyZen
@SimpleHappyZen 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you Ana, happy to hear you enjoyed the video! 🤗🍂🍁 Take care and have a great day
@tinybutmighty4795
@tinybutmighty4795 3 жыл бұрын
As someone that has been told that I can be "exhausting" and/or am not "pleasant to be around most of the time" since I guess that me having depression, anxiety, PTSD, & phobias = me being a burden, I appreciate vids like this
@SimpleHappyZen
@SimpleHappyZen 3 жыл бұрын
I'm happy you appreciated the video :) Take care and have a nice day!
@anaaraujo7907
@anaaraujo7907 3 жыл бұрын
Than you so much for this video. Only today I've heard the "you have to though it up" 4 times. Glad to know I'm not the only one
@SimpleHappyZen
@SimpleHappyZen 3 жыл бұрын
You're definitely not the only one Ana, and there's no need for you to toughen up! :) Take care
@KAZTube5
@KAZTube5 Жыл бұрын
Feels wonderful to be understanding. You made me smile at life today. Even i already know all taht you said it reminds me that i'm not alone ... Thanks
@suryacoapy5129
@suryacoapy5129 3 жыл бұрын
This is a great presentation. I have learnt all these things about myself over the years. However this information wasn't available when I was younger. I really wish it had been, and I'm glad it is now for people learning about them selves. I'm also sensitive to noise and I realised this is true for acoustics in public places. Cafés with hard flat surfaces, especially the floor (no carpet), are acoustically 'live' with lots of echo. This means the voice of the person you are talking to is overpowered by reflected noise from all directions. This makes people speak louder to be heard and that makes the problem worse. So finding spaces with soft furnishings and carpets really makes me feel more relaxed while conversing.
@SimpleHappyZen
@SimpleHappyZen 3 жыл бұрын
Ah I totally get that :) It can be very tiring to be in an environment like that.
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