A Theology of Style: How Your Clothing Can Improve Your Spiritual Life (feat. Lillian Fallon)

[@Swee_tay]

I was an athiest for a long time... i was born and raised Catholic. This channel has really helped me come back to faith and modesty. I filled 4 yard waste bags with clothes to take to the goodwill. I look forward to dressing in a way that honors god.

[@MMHay16]

Such a lovely story, I will be praying for you. Welcome back! Goodwill is a great place to donate and it is also worth checking if there are Catholic charities in your area in need of clothes.

[@Georgy.J.M.Sassine]

God bless you dear ❤️✝️Ⓜ️

[@hollyslager2883]

Love this! I love dressing up for my friends it just makes a lot of sense to do it for the lord even more so. I think some might argue that it is prideful but its something special when it is between you and the lord.

[@AlexanderBrown77]

1 Peter 1 kJV ♥️ 19 But with the precious blood of Christ, as of a lamb without blemish and without spot: 1 John 1 kJV 7 But if we walk in the light, as he is in the light, we have fellowship one with another, and the blood of Jesus Christ his Son cleanseth us from all sin.

[@JimmyBryant-r8t]

3:45 😅

[@justinhawthorne2809]

God has just the most amazing timing

[@liveforever4190]

He sure does in His own way.

[@CrankyGrandma]

Doesn’t He! Everytime

[@marklipanski8696]

Thank you! Now I don't feel quite as goofy for ironing my shirt and pants before Mass. Love the color/liturgical suggestion! Even if it's a watch band or something small to remind me.

[@ylandryrati]

Thank you for this reminder. In our country people put their best clothes on when going to church. It is because you are going to visit the most important Person of your life. The clothes are to be modest unless you want to be given an extra one by the priest. We are recomanded to dress according to lithurgical calendar. But mostly people dress as confortably as they can, it is important to stay concentrared in church and not to disturb others concentrations.

[@4runner4ever83]

This is my take on clothes. For as long as we are properly dressed, not too revealing or inappropriate, that is okay. Not everyone have the money to buy nice clothes with the economy today. I have clothes that are very old but I make sure it's clean and pressed. Remember if you are poor and want to go to church, you are supposed to be able to go and receive the body and blood of Christ.

[@annainspain5176]

Exactly.

[@phoebea]

And, in the same vein, if some people want to dress up to match the liturgical colors, it shouldn't be an issue nor should their action be assumed to be vanity (there's a chance it's not.) I agree that clothing should be appropriate.

[@AlexanderBrown77]

1 John 1 kJV 🩸all🩸 7 But if we walk in the light, as he is in the light, we have fellowship one with another, and the blood of Jesus Christ his Son cleanseth us from all sin. 1 John 5 kJV 13 These things have I written unto you that believe on the name of the Son of God; that ye may know that ye have eternal life, and that ye may believe on the name of the Son of God.

[@AlexanderBrown77]

@@phoebea♥️ speaking of clothing. Cardinals and bishops are arrayed in purple and scarlet ✅ They are decked in gold and precious stones , they have gold woven into their robes. ✅ The pope has a golden cup in his hand . ✅ Revelation 17 kJV 4 And the woman was arrayed in purple and scarlet colour, and decked with gold and precious stones and pearls, having a golden cup in her hand full of abominations and filthiness of her fornication: Vatican city, and Rome are on seven hills . ✅ Revelation 17 kJV 9 And here is the mind which hath wisdom. The seven heads are seven mountains, on which the woman sitteth. Vatican city is definitely a great city that has reigned over the kings of this earth. ✅ Revelation 17 kJV 18 And the woman which thou sawest is that great city, which reigneth over the kings of the earth.

[@AlexanderBrown77]

@@phoebea ♥️ Hebrews 10 KJV 11 And every priest standeth daily ministering and offering oftentimes the same sacrifices, which can never take away sins: 1 Peter 3 kJV 18 For Christ also hath once suffered for sins, the just for the unjust, that he might bring us to God, being put to death in the flesh, but quickened by the Spirit: 🩸all🩸 1 John 1 kJV 7 But if we walk in the light, as he is in the light, we have fellowship one with another, and the blood of Jesus Christ his Son cleanseth us from all sin.

[@maame176]

i love this! to be honest, i clicked on this video expecting a condemning lesson on female modesty, but this was a very pleasant surprise! as someone who takes a lot of care in how i dress because i see my personal style as a form of self-expression, this was a great reminder that my style is also a reflection of my Heavenly Father and who He carefully crafted in His own image. thank you for the reminder :)

[@luispedroza3043]

Just Wow. You have completely shifted my view on this topic! I love the idea of repping liturgical calendar colors!

[@Elizabeth-mp6tr]

Thank you! I love this!! Personally, Ive discovered shawls, large scarves, to wear over my shoulders with dresses, jeans, etc. It reminds me of Mary wearing her "long mantles." I love it. I feel so close to Mary, wearing a large scarf or shawl as I go about my day! I love this! Thank you! I "knew" this in my heart, but didnt "know" this in my mind! You know, Id like to add, I feel the same: What would God want me to wear today. In fact, most every day, I pick an outfit out, "without even thinking." Its like God is picking it for me. One day, I wondered where a funky matching sweater was. I couldnt find it. So I prayed to God, "Oh God, Id love that sweater....where would it be." I was drawn to an area of my closet, and rummaged through and there was that sweater! I do believe, that "style," if dressed for God, for HIS PURPOSE, for HIS LOVE, IS LIKE PUTTING ON GOD, ALL OVER US, AS WE DRESS. It helps us to be closer to Him, Mary, Jesus, St. Joseph and the Saints. Thank you!

[@rosealenius-spencer4823]

This talk is so important and beautifully stated! Most “fashion”, especially these times, offends God…. Liturgical garments have been a part of human history from the earliest of times. I love to see the different vestments priests wear throughout the year. Since the whole community of believers is a holy priesthood through the sacrament of Baptism, why not dress keeping in mind liturgical colors? I think it shows effort, and love for Christ, that you keep these things in mind. When I was very young, I was taught to dress my best for Jesus….I mean, why wouldn’t you dress your best for the King of the universe? Definitely something to think about.

[@rachelvryhof8896]

Love this!! Mass is the wedding supper of the Lamb. Who goes to a wedding and doesn't make an effort to look festive?

[@ijc12211]

You don’t need to wear expensive clothes for Mass. You should wear what is within reason for your financial state in life. However, if your partying clothes is nicer than what you wear to Mass. Then, reconsider your priorities. Our culture emphasis doing things for your “self”. When we should do all things for God. That includes wearing our best on Sunday.

[@seans.131]

It's a good idea. Thank you, Lillian.☦😀✝ “He wears our nature, refashioning it to His own life...Now, through participation in the Spirit, we are refashioned to the likeness of our Maker.” ~St. Cyril of Alexandria

[@marijagrandov5712]

Wow! Thanks for this. I love fashion and jewelry. I also thought it was kind of vain. Well, I'll be dressing up from now on going to church! 👗👠

[@josephrainonejr.4381]

Thank you Lauren, this is great! I too believe in dressing for God.

[@felipeperez2991]

I see style now as a form of respect and appreciation for other people. It shows you care about the people you are around.

[@tplayspiano]

Dressing nicely to go to church ( and one would argue, in daily life) is a sign of respect for both God and yourself. Your take on colors is interesting, something I have not heard before as I am not Catholic. Makes sense.

[@justinhawthorne2809]

You are absolutely going to trip out. I wish I could copy posted this. I was just talking about this this morning.

[@Ladyoffidelity14]

I love this so much honestly

[@barlow335]

I have always dress in my best clothes for Mass to show my love and respect for the Lord. It makes me cry inside for the Lord when people come to Mass in ripped jeans, mini skirts, sweat suits, gym shorts and t-shirts and even pajamas. 😓

[@AlexanderBrown77]

1 John 1 kJV ✝️🩸 7 But if we walk in the light, as he is in the light, we have fellowship one with another, and the blood of Jesus Christ his Son cleanseth us from all sin. 1 Peter 1 kJV 19 But with the precious blood of Christ, as of a lamb without blemish and without spot:

[@YiriUbic3793]

I saw a woman with white see through yoga pants and another woman with yoga pants and a crop top showing her belly and both women when to take the Eucarist, most Catholic women are lost with no respect for JesusChrist and his church

[@MMHay16]

I used to feel the same way, but while I was pregnant I had a bit of a perspective shift. We don't know what those people are going through, but at least they are at Mass. We can pray that they come to a place where they feel called (and enabled) to make the sacrifice and dress up.

[@beautifulrose8619]

exactly@@MMHay16 I still dislike Mass. I am working on it. If I went to msss it would be bettrer than now.

[@c.j.r.02]

@@MMHay16bit mini skirts and shirt shorts? Especially from kids you know have respectful clothes? It does erk me. As women, our bodies are powerful and meaningful, so we should recognize that it’s time for God not us.

[@lld3007]

Dressing nice and taking care of yourself is not vanity. Our bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit. Just as we adorn the church with beauty, we too should present ourselves well, to be good stewards of what God has given us.

[@Ingrid0410]

Well said👍

[@ഈശോ_മിശിഹാ_കരുണയും_സ്നേഹവുമാണ്]

Thanks for sharing. Peace be with you.🙏❤️

[@katarzynanowakowska5603]

Thanks .He knows everything...He loves so much.

[@Atothe7420]

Man, I can hear speak all day. Learn that blue is Mary’s color. Ty

[@angrypotato_fz]

I like you, Lillian. You bring some unusual perspective :) I hope you are happy in life, may God bless you!

[@heatherslining3319]

The physical world is important too, as long as we don't let it get too out of hand and not concentrate on God, It is VERY important what we wear. I really appreciate your emphasis on how we look.

[@Gabriela-te6ul]

LOVEEEED THIS

[@LucasTorres-w9r]

factssss you love to see it catch me pulling up to the church function absolutely DRIPPIN

[@randystrong6713]

I am so glad I watched this video. Now I will not study my Bible, nor listen to any faith based commentary it’s. Now I know it is more important that I pick out the proper clothing and colors, and possible I will become the Saint of Clothing. So that, in Advent I will wear a purple golf shirt with tan shorts, and at Corpus Christi I will wear a red golf shirt with black shorts. I am so happy that I know what to do now to better Dress for Success as a committed Christian. This has changed my life.

[@Tigermom1984]

Not sure why the sarcasm…That’s not what she said. Listen to the whole thing with an open mind.

[@patty.cakes.]

This was awesome

[@joyaleaherdeck]

I absolutely love this! Thank you!

[@frano.1234]

Interesting topic! Was hoping to gain more insight concerning the theological/Biblical basis for the ideas that were shared.

[@fabriciapinheiro5999]

I love painting my nails purple during advent and white on Easter! It feels right hahahah

[@DavidFS4]

I guess I never gave it much thought. Thanks for an awesome video

[@bettyadejo890]

Thank You. Would love examples .

[@madgiemadgie9128]

I love this !!! St. Gianna Molla was said to like stylish clothing. She always looked very well put together. I like to debut, where possible, my newest well made clothing for Mass, not to show off but so that Jesus gets it first, I know it sounds odd but it’s hard to explain.

[@kevinalbright8576]

That cover photo is Glorious! 🔥

[@jude1515]

I think your video is good.

[@patmason9512]

There are some very specific directions about clothing and adornment in the Old Testament. Beautiful fabrics and jewels in the breastplate of the priests. And Esther had a whole year to spiff up. I always wondered about that.

[@acrxsls1766]

Good thing we don't need to follow it 😂

[@adamaj74]

There are also instructions in the NT about not adorning yourself with such...

[@jessicapae9642]

REALLY ENJOYED THIS. NOW I WILL DRESS TO PRAISE GOD, MY FATHER, BECAUSE I REPRESENT HIM.

[@ivanajukicgloban6627]

Beautiful!Thank you!❤😊

[@shoopthatoop]

I always get my clothing from thrift shops or blessing boxes. I make a rule that clothes cannot be too tight, although I stay to fitted clothes (they look better), and generally look down on short sleeves (tank tops are an automatic no unless I’m working out, then it’s kind of whatever). Idk. Just my take :)

[@celiareyizg523]

I love it!!! I actually thought it during mass...yikes... thank you. God bless!!!!

[@rruiz4145]

Thank you for this video! I will make every Sunday a bit more fun for the family…letting them know to pick an outfit to match the color of the Catholic season! This is such a unique way to learn more about our faith!

[@BoyleFrancis]

Great video!

[@Ladyoffidelity14]

I was told that dressing up was vain, and that make up and nail polish was vain too and that Catholics should stay away from it, by a prayer group leader in the church. It's nice to see another perspective

[@IONov990]

I am sorry for that. I can understand why they may think this. Plenty of women spend tons of money on beauty and seem to value their appearance above everything. Only God knows your heart. If you have pure intentions, then please don't worry

[@c.j.r.02]

I think over dressing can be irreverent to God, just like underdressing.

[@IONov990]

@@c.j.r.02 That's true. If you can afford better clothes to go to church in, I say why not.

[@PatriciadeOroCantón]

Hi, I'm looking forward to read this book! When can we buy it out of the United States? I'm writing from Spain. Thank you!

[@simple_naildesigns]

Great advice!

[@SenorCinema]

fashion is vanity

[@kathrynhoke4830]

I struggle with the feeling of “hey look what outfit I created today” whether I’m at mass that day or not.

[@Angelina6518]

I always ask my Guardian Angel to pick out my clothes. He’s a genius and modest too.

[@jojomcelwee1380]

❤️

[@charizardsniper5064]

I love this, but I’m a dude and I’m trying to work out in my head how I’m going to convince myself to wear, purple and pink and pull it off…………. Any suggestions?……….. please 🙏

[@c.j.r.02]

My husband wears very many shades of both colors. There are so many options.

[@covonedigrano7491]

“Therefore I tell you, do not worry about your life, what you will eat or drink; or about your body, what you will wear. Is not life more than food, and the body more than clothes? Look at the birds of the air; they do not sow or reap or store away in barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not much more valuable than they? Can any one of you by worrying add a single hour to your life? “And why do you worry about clothes? See how the flowers of the field grow. They do not labor or spin. Yet I tell you that not even Solomon in all his splendor was dressed like one of these. If that is how God clothes the grass of the field, which is here today and tomorrow is thrown into the fire, will he not much more clothe you-you of little faith?” Matthew‬ ‭6‬:‭25‬-‭30‬ It’s good to dress appropriately for mass but if you are spending all that time to pick the perfect clothing combination, with the “right” color and style and such, maybe you are putting a bit too much attention to something that doesn’t really require it. You’ll end up going to Church thinking about your appearance and you how you look to others, which isn’t what church should be about in my opinion.

[@lillianfallon5016]

Yes! I actually conclude my book with this passage. I really recommend reading my book because I talk about how personal style is just a tool for growing in understanding one’s worth!

[@linamateus9367]

Thank you so much for writing this book. I’m halfway through it. I really needed it. I love using style as an artistic expression, but was feeling guilty. I’m so happy and will enjoy my wardrobe and think of God.

[@johnlopez5955]

Eagles!😢 Don’t you mean Cowboys Jersey??

[@btxteppei7327]

😊

[@janeEyreAddict]

1 Peter 3:3-4: "Whose adorning let it not be that outward adorning of plaiting the hair, and of wearing of gold, or of putting on of apparel; But let it be the hidden man of the heart, in that which is not corruptible, even the ornament of a meek and quiet spirit, which is in the sight of God of great price." 1 Timothy 2:9: "In like manner also, that women adorn themselves in modest apparel, with shamefacedness and sobriety; not with broided hair, or gold, or pearls, or costly array;"

[@phoebea]

Who says that she's wearing immodest clothing or an excess of expensive jewelry? She's just saying that one can match liturgical colors when wearing appropriate clothing for mass. Correct me if I'm wrong, but it seems as if you're disapproving of the topic in the video for a reason that wasn't even related to the video. I put the most effort in what I wear when I go to mass because I'm there to worship God. Although, a t-shirt and jeans or sweatpants are more comfortable to wear than a skirt, blouse, and cardigan combo, I choose to put a bit of effort when going to a place of worship and meet the Lord. My grandfather used to wear his best suits when going to Mass. We call it Sunday's best because God deserves our best effort (regardless of what one chooses to wear.)

[@covonedigrano7491]

@@phoebea It’s good to put effort, but one must be aware *in what* are you putting that effort. In this case you are putting effort in clothes and your appearance, take a quick read of Matthew 6:25-31 and you’ll see what Jesus himself teaches us about worrying about clothing. It’s one thing to dress appropriately, I find it a bit excessive to go out of your way to find the “appropriate mass color-palette”, that’s not putting effort in spiritual matter but in material trivialities. God doesn’t care if you’re dressed in blue or brown or red at mass, and if you do care maybe you’re putting too much of your attention in the wrong place before and during mass, which is about God, not picking the “right color” of clothes.

[@phoebea]

Lillian says that wearing the liturgical colors helps remind her of the season. I don't see anything wrong with that. I don't get why people assume the worst when talking about clothing. Assuming other's scruples/sins is a sin, so unless someone specifically tells you that they're dressing for others/immodest reasons and not the Lord, I don't see there being grounds for such comments that assumes that the person is being sinful. For myself, I'm not into fashion, and I tend to wear jeans and a t-shirt during the weekdays. I don't even wear make-up unless it's to a very formal event. However, I always dress my best when going to Mass because I am entering God's house to worship him. I am reminded of the story of the man who went to a wedding banquet but was kicked out because he did not wear a wedding garment (Matthew 22.) I understand the spiritual meaning behind the story, but I also understand it as the man not showing reverence and being prepared when invited to the king's wedding. If Jesus is king, then I want to be prepared both spiritually (interiorly) and physically (exteriorly) to receive him. When I see the priest wear specific colored vestments according to the liturgical season I am reminded of the season, so I don't see anything wrong if a lay person also wears the same color to remind them of the liturgical season.

[@covonedigrano7491]

@@phoebea I'm not saying that she's dressing for others or for immodest reasons, simply that we shouldn't worry so much about clothes and be so absorbed by our own appearance, especially before and during mass. Friars, nuns and priests all wear very simple clothes and often of the same color and for a reason, the jist of the video seems to imply that we shouldn't strive to be like them, but we should show off our personalities with our clothes to church. I don't think that's the right mindset to approach mass, it's not something that should be about us or showing our personalities. It's not a fashion show, and if you think you need a certain outfit to praise God properly I doubt it's the wrong outfit that is the problem. The spotlight shouldn't be on us before and during mass in my opinion, unlike this video seems to suggest. And my point wasn't to say thay she's sinning or to judge her, I wrote it just to underline that what she said it's simply bad advice, I don't see how this could help anyone, but I see a lot of reasons why this could make people more self absorbed.

[@phoebea]

@@covonedigrano7491 I disagree with the assumption that people wearing clothing to Mass is somehow a person's way of trying stand out, is all. Unless someone says that's what they're doing, you (nor I) know that is the case. As long as people are wearing appropriate clothing to Mass, I don't think I need to police/ask their reason behind wearing an outfit. Also, what people wear to Mass doesn't distract me from the Lord at all. I don't think that it's a sin to want to look presentable for the Lord. Dressing for Mass actually puts me in the mindset that what I'm participating in is serious and deserves reverence and my complete attention. Ex. Dressing up in jeans and a T-shirt (my regular wear) means I'm doing something ordinary, even mundane. But, when I dress more formally or put effort in my dress (like for Mass, weddings, baptisms, 1st Communions, confirmations, ordinations, or funerals) I know that what I'm participating in is more than just the ordinary. These occasions are important. I don't mind if you disagree with me. You're free to do so. However, please don't take offense to my disagreeing with you. I hope you enjoy your weekend. God bless!

[@MidwestPyro55]

Not a bad idea. But i think giving less effort and attention to what we wear is better for our relationship with the Lord.

[@metildajoseph5265]

Greetings Lady Lillian, Thoughts :- -> Dress Etiquette displays Portrayal of One's Own Dignity, Modesty and Humility before Lord Jesus Christ in all aspects. Special Thoughts :- -> "All are Equal in The Eyes of Lord Jesus Christ in every aspects." -> Thanks.. Take Care.. With regards, Ranjith Joseph (R.J)

[@ElizabethDMadison]

the theology of the body is not my favorite because it (or its adherents) seems to sexualize everything. But i believe modesty is the appropriate everyday "habit" of someone who lives chastely. I became sad how immodestly women dress in short shorts or mid thigh length skirts or low cut or leggings or etc and decided to dress in a way that keeps in mind that we are at the Last Supper, the Foot of the Cross and the Resurrection at daily Mass, and to dress according to a traditional standard of modesty. Last time the Church stated a standard it was noted that no dress should be called modest that isn't well below the knee. Could be applied to pants too. I have never felt that short skirts are appropriate, i feel uncomfortable even seeing that. Long skirts are good for year round with appropriate under layers. Modesty in some ways starts at the clothing store (for me that's a thrift store), don't buy immodest clothes for yourself or your kids, shop for modest clothing. For children, modesty in dress, speech, actions etc is an age appropriate thing to learn when still too young for a more complete understanding of chastity.

[@lillianfallon5016]

I totally get that TOB sometimes seems like it’s only about sex. I felt the same way before I dove into the texts! I really encourage you to read my book because I go over exactly this!

[@ElizabethDMadison]

@@lillianfallon5016 I'm sure your book is great I have ~a bazillion books about it and 2 different translations of the actual TOB talks so that's how i know it's not my favorite. I'm in favor of morality but not the biggest fan of JPII in his exposition of that or about women

[@jesusworksbro4Life]

Jesus loves you

[@caseyk.1386]

:( I really disagree with this. It’s one thing to dress up for fun during the week, but I don’t agree with bringing that to church. We should wear our best for God, but this just sounds like an excuse to be self centered when we should be focusing elsewhere. I also believe we shouldn’t wear anything to mass that may distract others.

[@spytung]

Go Birds 🦅 haha

[@vstu7643]

CORPUS CHRISTI IS WHITE FYI! Also, Holy Week is NOT subdued colors but Purple Mon Tues Wed & Thursday MORNING. For Mass of Lords Supper its White. Palm Sunday and Good Friday is Red and Easter Vigil and Easter are Good or White! Also, LITURGICALLY its never called “pink” but “rose” vestments! You can look up the ancient reasons for this. My suggestion is to re do this properly because although well meaning, you are defeating the purpose! My entire family went to campus ministry and in forty years we all tried to dress liturgically correctly. My sons still wear liturgically correct tie colors for the Triduum. I am like 😮 listening. Thank you fe the effort of “the meaning of the message (errors and all) ….. MAYBE red is also acceptable for Christ the King but NOT in my circles - most guys aka priests who have GOLD wear those, others white…. Please clarify all my comments as right, wrong or indifferent!

[@JimmyBryant-r8t]

😂ppp

[@C.L.190]

Not trying to be negative but I'm just not sure about this... I don't think God wants us to be putting our focus on our looks and material things. He wants us to be focused on him and becoming closer to him

[@annainspain5176]

I agree.

[@lillianfallon5016]

I felt the same way! I so encourage you to read my book because I go over exactly this!

[@PraytheRosaryEveryDay]

I think she will find that after she has as many children as God wants, she will be content with simply wearing modest, clean clothing to Mass and elsewhere. 😅

[@ProfessorSzivacs]

You are the best example of hypocritical priests who just grin, hide the money,... only care about your thoughts and don't respond to people's comments!

[@cathylevitt8186]

See this is we're I get confused so help me here , for putting an effort in what you are wearing and how you look is that not vanity???

[@lillianfallon5016]

Hi! I was super confused too when I was trying to understand the balance between putting in effort without being vain. I cover this in my book!! I definitely encourage you to read it! I think it’ll help shed some light on this topic!

[@wiiildfire]

I see where you’re coming from so here’s my thoughts on it: Mindfulness isn’t vanity. You’re not invisible, so whatever you do people are going to perceive you by how you present yourself. We have to be mindful of how we look to others because we shouldn’t be distracting or scandalous. I’ve been to churches where the youth and even their parents come to church like it’s a trip to Walmart; short shorts, pajama-like clothes, messy hair, see-through shirts, etc. I struggle through mass to not find that distracting. Normal “Sunday Best” isn’t distracting. Your eye looks and then moves on. Coco Chanel famously once said “Wear makeup, it’s so vain not to.” I always thought it funny bc people think of makeup as vain and if you wear a lot it’s also distracting, but it’s a point that a little bit of effort is actually modest. Scandalous is that outsiders think you have as little respect for the house of God as to not even bother presenting yourself to the altar nicely. It takes me as much thought and effort to dress in shorts for outdoor work or to put on a cheap dress from the closet for mass. It takes me 5 minutes to do my makeup bc I’ve been doing it for 35 years and it’s minimal. If someone showed up to a wedding in cut-off shorts you’d think them disrespectful. If someone showed up in a bathing suit to a State dinner you’d think them disrespectful. If someone shows up to church dressed inappropriately it could be perceived as disrespectful. You don’t have to look at you but other people do, so to paraphrase Coco Chanel, “Dress nicely when you go to church. It’s so vain not to.”

[@covonedigrano7491]

@@wiiildfire I don't think I will take spiritual or moral advice from Coco Chanel of all people. Jesus told us not to worry about clothes, he sent the apostles out with a pair of sandals and just one dress, he criticised the Pharisees for they worried more about their appearance in the eyes of other people then about doing what is right. You see where this can easily become problematic. There is nothing wrong with going to church with any clothes as long as they are appropriate and modest, what we should worry about when going to mass is our heart, not what we are wearing.

[@wiiildfire]

@@covonedigrano7491 the Coco Chanel part was tongue in cheek but thanks for being judgmental and not seeing the point. You say “appropriate dress” and I guess the trouble is people having different opinions on what “appropriate” is. Your priest dresses for mass, in vestments that match the day, and it would be a sad day when they stop doing so because you think it’s vain. In a nutshell, other people see you, you’re not invisible, so show them that you have some respect for God and His church.

[@wiiildfire]

@@covonedigrano7491 I’m going to call you out, though, because Jesus’ issue with the Pharisees was them trying to put themselves as spiritually superior to others. I know you know that and misused scripture to make your point. A very Pharisee thing to do and dangerous thing to do.

[@LeMarTV1]

Heavy disagree. How you explained you get ready for church and how you say you present yourself there in the past when the church was worth it's salt you would have actually been fined for that.

[@brianwayne3735]

Interesting… and can we jump out of the norm and inspire people to smile and lift up their minds to higher things by employing cool modesty? this is an important topic! 🫡