Let's Have A New Modesty Conversation (feat. Lillian Fallon)

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You’ve heard modesty talks before. Perhaps you believe you understand the general concept and you don’t think this one could apply to you. Think again.
Today, Lillian Fallon-Catholic writer, personal stylist-debunks the traditional understanding of modesty as a “set of rules” and speaks rather to the internal state one is in when dressing modestly or immodestly. Fallon says that approaching this topic is immeasurably important because it addresses the question of human worth and dignity. Reverencing the body affirms the goodness of mankind and it recognizes that you, in your imperfections and flaws, personally contribute to the beauty of God’s Creation.
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@calmcomb7603
@calmcomb7603 2 жыл бұрын
“You were created on purpose” was something I didn’t even know I needed to hear
@MsLaura704
@MsLaura704 2 жыл бұрын
THIISSS so much^^^ 🙌🙌🙌
@nikkid8834
@nikkid8834 2 жыл бұрын
On purpose, for a purpose
@caterinadc5567
@caterinadc5567 2 жыл бұрын
For real, I came back to this video today to hear it again. "It's the Creator of the universe who created you, too... In creating this world, God was like, *'Hmm, you know what, this world is pretty great, but I think Sarah needs to exist too. I want her to exist in eternity with me.'* ... It's personal. It's really personal." Cheers and thanks, Lillian, for sharing this video. :)
@heathersnyder8789
@heathersnyder8789 Күн бұрын
Same.
@mariamallozzi7047
@mariamallozzi7047 2 жыл бұрын
Love how you used the word “reverence”. If I would’ve been taught in that way, it would’ve been a game changer. Due to the way I was taught about modesty, I viewed my body as a bad thing and reverted to sexualizing myself and having anger against those who would tell me I need to “cover up for the boys”… If I ever am blessed with daughters one day, I will totally be using that word instead. Thank you for all you do! ❤️
@madams.5976
@madams.5976 2 жыл бұрын
I really never thought too much about this topic. I guess because I always was taught to dress appropriately. I know that word is very relative, especially in todays culture. For me, it’s dressing classic or appropriately. I don’t even have to think about it. That doesn’t mean we have to wear a potato sacks or look frumpy or like a pilgrim. It doesn’t mean you can’t wear shorts or even a bathing suit when at the beach. It does mean you don’t wear shorts so short that your cheeks are exposed or your bathing suit was made of less fabric than a Kleenex tissue. Have respect for our body. That’s what my mom used say. We don’t have to see your body to tell you have a good figure. If you feel you have to show off your body, then maybe there is something else deeper going on. Your body is a precious gift. Anyway, that’s my take away.
@andreagilberti4776
@andreagilberti4776 2 жыл бұрын
Well said Maria!
@michelgellad8666
@michelgellad8666 Жыл бұрын
Maria hello!
@uteme
@uteme 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you!!! Your outfit is darling, feminine, flattering AND modest. But, as you stated, modesty begins inside...your points re: modesty are spot on! ♡
@boss56679
@boss56679 2 жыл бұрын
As a guy battling lust, this greatly helps me look through the eyes of God and how He sees women and their incredible role in creation. Thank you so much. God bless!
@hoakerhoaker
@hoakerhoaker 2 жыл бұрын
Regular confession will nip that one in the bud. Eventually you’ll be disgusted looking at women who dress to sell their wares. They’re not wife material, I promise you When a woman doesn’t respect herself, don’t expect a man to respect her either.
@Neb-ie5mj
@Neb-ie5mj 2 жыл бұрын
You’re not alone in this battle my friend.
@EcstaticTemporality
@EcstaticTemporality 2 жыл бұрын
Try this. Pray to see as God sees and feel what He feels. Make God center.
@carlswindelliv2701
@carlswindelliv2701 2 жыл бұрын
yeah as a guy battling lust myself I still find it hilarious the way women get mad at me for staring at them!!!!!!! ur mad cuz I am staring but ur dressing very immodestly!!!!!!!!
@yesindeed804
@yesindeed804 2 жыл бұрын
@@hoakerhoaker The virtuous man will respect her regardless....
@Storyteller2078
@Storyteller2078 2 жыл бұрын
The most beautiful thing to me… is a pregnant mother. Every time a see a new mother, no matter the stage, I can’t stop myself from smiling. I can’t stop from thinking "there is the most stunning thing of all God’s creations-the bearing of Life."❤️
@cuttiecrazy11
@cuttiecrazy11 2 жыл бұрын
When I see a pregnant person, all I can think about is how miserably uncomfortable she probably is And how painful giving birth will be And how awful the recovery process is And all the sleepless nights she’ll have once the baby is born Kudos to you for seeing the beauty in all that suffering
@heathera2874
@heathera2874 2 жыл бұрын
Carrying a child and birthing a child is the MOST Beautiful experience. Both my pregnancies were amazing. Thank you for appreciating this lovely Blessing granted to Women❤🙏
@jazzyLee573
@jazzyLee573 2 жыл бұрын
@@cuttiecrazy11 thanks for killing the mood buddy
@cuttiecrazy11
@cuttiecrazy11 2 жыл бұрын
@@jazzyLee573 Just being real
@cuttiecrazy11
@cuttiecrazy11 2 жыл бұрын
@@jazzyLee573 Pregnancy and motherhood is no fantasy
@jeromemassimino
@jeromemassimino 2 жыл бұрын
i am a guy. Your talk was simply marvelous. I loved the way you spoke about the beauty and reverence of being a woman
@sarahfebruary
@sarahfebruary 2 жыл бұрын
I 100% wear skirts now, all the time, and I cannot emphasize how this has changed my life. I wear below the knee to ankle length skirts, and sometimes I hear cover. Arms covered to the elbow most of the time. I feel like a queen, and I find that I can wear in Our Lady's footprints, as her daughter.
@Ellie-ff9jo
@Ellie-ff9jo 2 жыл бұрын
I've never thought a person might be immodest could be coming from a place of self doubt. Than you for the refreshing view!
@F3z07
@F3z07 2 жыл бұрын
This is pretty refreshing stuff, as a single Catholic myself. Thank you!
@michaelchovanes6033
@michaelchovanes6033 2 жыл бұрын
Trying to "legislate" modesty with quick repeatable rules is a completely losing battle. Good work by Lilly threading the needle with a thoughtful, practical, and uplifting discussion on the topic!
@carlswindelliv2701
@carlswindelliv2701 2 жыл бұрын
it's only a losing battle cuz too many people have a negative view of modesty already I. their hearts!!!!!!!!!!!! let's face it if women aren't modest it's cuz it's cuz lust from the guys is what women want so what they do is show a lot of cleavage!!!!!!!!!!!
@TruthSeeker-333
@TruthSeeker-333 2 жыл бұрын
Lillian, if you didnt know already, the TLM groups in NYC/NJ are amazing, many women and men trying to live your advice
@iidentifyasayoutubertoday7025
@iidentifyasayoutubertoday7025 2 жыл бұрын
My dad was a really strict, mean, angry and scary Christian. I got in trouble for stepping out of line even the slightest bit. He was very strict about everything but he never actually explained why. So when I got older, I didn't appreciate modesty because I was never taught what it actually meant.
@andreathemisses1422
@andreathemisses1422 2 жыл бұрын
Nothing like trashing your dad.
@samanthas969
@samanthas969 Жыл бұрын
I experienced the exact same thing! Im glad i understand the importance of modesty now.
@grimspound7981
@grimspound7981 2 жыл бұрын
My spouse is not religious but very ‘modest’. She’s shy but very decisive in what she wants to wear and when, and sees her fashion choice as a personal issue and a source of pride
@peace-and-quiet
@peace-and-quiet 2 жыл бұрын
I don't think modesty and pride go together. They're opposites. You cannot be "modest" and "prideful" at the same time. Just say'in.
@xty070
@xty070 2 жыл бұрын
@@peace-and-quiet I don't think he meant pride in the way you are thinking.. If something is a source of pride to you, it doesn't necessarily mean you are being prideful.
@grimspound7981
@grimspound7981 2 жыл бұрын
@@peace-and-quiet Well, perhaps a different sort of pride. As in she’s confident and not boastful.
@grimspound7981
@grimspound7981 2 жыл бұрын
@@xty070 Thank you! Also I didn’t receive the notifications for these messages how odd.
@theresecampion8445
@theresecampion8445 2 жыл бұрын
" This world is pretty great, but I need Sarah to exist too. I want her to be with me in eternity. " As a Sarah, that is exactly what I needed to hear. Thank you!
@johnmccrossan9376
@johnmccrossan9376 Жыл бұрын
The other side of this is absolutely crucial too, from our pov as men we have to start having our own version of modesty talks that encourage this sort of thing. If you claim to be a man of faith you have a duty to help make a world where no young girl should feel like she has to make herself an object to please you or gain some sort of attention from you. It's not enough to just be careful about not falling for lust or seeking women who dress in ways that encourage lust you have to find other ways of complimenting the women in your life, particularly the young women in a way that highlights their soul and who they are. If you want to say you're pretty or you've lost weight or something about their outfit talk about their face, their hair, the colour coordination. We need to seek out women who do dress modestly, not because they feel obligated to but because they feel confident in the father's love for them and don't need the sort of fleeting validation you get by dressing provocatively. When we see a young woman dressing like a harlet we shouldn't be like the pharisees, judging as if we were better than they because of unspiritul things, but we should be like our lord and weep for the person who, underneath it all is trapped within her own mind.
@angelalemos9811
@angelalemos9811 2 жыл бұрын
I'm glad that you talked a bit more about the internal aspect but I wish you had also explained other sins against modesty such as gossiping, boasting etc since it's not just the clothing being reflected on the outside. It's about overall character. Glad you mentioned the inside to some extent because that's not something we really get in these other modesty videos on KZbin. You can always count on a Catholic
@mytwocents7303
@mytwocents7303 2 жыл бұрын
"It is through Eve that Adam understands who he is," I love it! Even in marriage woman sets the bar in the conjugal relationship. Fallen man needs to be led by the woman's modesty. Modesty states our value and self worth.
@hoakerhoaker
@hoakerhoaker 2 жыл бұрын
Mmm, no. Not a wife’s duty to disciple a husband whose mother didn’t raise with respect and reverence. She’s his wife, not his mommy and nanny. Adam wasn’t the only one who “fell.”
@mytwocents7303
@mytwocents7303 2 жыл бұрын
@@hoakerhoaker After the fall, we are all fallen and need to come to a state of grace through conversion and redemption as Jesus established. I would add that holy men need to raise holy men (father's role). Mom's definitely need to demonstrate modesty to form a man's mind in holiness as he grows up. But parenting often falls short too and wives end up with the task. Male and female have a spiritual responsibility towards God and each other always, modesty is part of that spiritual responsibility.
@affel6559
@affel6559 2 жыл бұрын
@@mytwocents7303 "But parenting often falls short too and wives end up with the task." Let's not forget the ladies here. When I leave the house, it is the women who dress 100 times less modestly than the men. There are exceptions and many men dress sloppy/inappropriate for sure but let's not kid ourselves that women are dressing like whores to the Millions in most Western countries.
@dialogos585
@dialogos585 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you Lillian. I love your perspectives. Grateful you're educating girls and boys how important this is. We need to end objectification. Not objectifying ourselves is the first step.
@nicoleyoshihara4011
@nicoleyoshihara4011 2 жыл бұрын
Yes to modesty 💯❤ It's so difficult finding cute modest dresses so I'm thinking of getting sweaters and maxi skirts and then can mix and match ^_^
@nicoleyoshihara4011
@nicoleyoshihara4011 2 жыл бұрын
​@Bok Choy Yes and it's so refreshing to not have to worry about accidentally showing something. Let's make modesty cool again!^_^💯❤
@juliakolbe511
@juliakolbe511 2 жыл бұрын
I am looooving these videos with Lillian ❤️
@nikkid8834
@nikkid8834 2 жыл бұрын
She's brilliant and beautiful A breath of fresh air
@marilynvelez8147
@marilynvelez8147 2 жыл бұрын
It's about time someone covered this for you ger crowd dressing modestly doesn't have to be old or frumpy.
@emagenie
@emagenie 2 жыл бұрын
this is the first catholic " modesty " video that actually wasn't condescending to women.
@BrookeTherese
@BrookeTherese 2 жыл бұрын
Such a great explanation of modesty!
@knowtheebetter
@knowtheebetter 2 жыл бұрын
What a beautiful video. I never thought that addressing self-worth and reverence can be so powerful.
@ryanscottlogan8459
@ryanscottlogan8459 2 жыл бұрын
The funny thing is Lillian is that you can be very modest and look stunning.Look at the gorgeous fashions of the 1950’s!
@aenigmatica8
@aenigmatica8 2 ай бұрын
I love the way you’re coming at this contentious and difficult conversation!
@ireneniederhut5076
@ireneniederhut5076 2 жыл бұрын
What an insightful and beautifully expressed way to view modesty! The idea that a woman’s womb is touched by the God who created the universe at the sacred moment of conception, and that self-worth and reverence rather than rules are at the core of modesty are powerful concepts. All young girls need to hear this.
@alejandromilatorres8053
@alejandromilatorres8053 Жыл бұрын
Yes, that is why abortion is a satanic sacrifice... first immodesty, then lust, then fornication, then murder (abortion).
@musiclist4792
@musiclist4792 Жыл бұрын
I get what Alice Von Hildebrand is trying to say, but conception, and thus the beginning of life, does not occur in the womb. It occurs before the baby implants there. Does any other theologian or any magisterial document refer to woman as a co creator or is she the only one?
@cheche3380
@cheche3380 2 жыл бұрын
Love this video ❤️ lots of blessings and love sending out to all of you who is watching, and thank you 😊
@lisaharmon8401
@lisaharmon8401 2 жыл бұрын
There was a commenter on Brian holdsworths channel who presented modesty in women as a counterpoint to chivalry in men. There is a lot in that thought.
@catherinef2260
@catherinef2260 2 жыл бұрын
Reverence is a nice way to think of it especially for the guys who struggle with lust. Saw some guys in the comments who implied they cant help but stare if a woman is dressed immodestly. I think when you find reverence for the female form it wont matter how immodestly she dresses you wont lust, but will have reverence. You might not like the immodesty either, but just remember to approach her with love and not write her off as someone unworthy.
@mattkosta9755
@mattkosta9755 2 жыл бұрын
I expected just another bad talk on modesty, but what I got was very well-done. Great work!
@christinaschmidt5539
@christinaschmidt5539 2 жыл бұрын
Lillian, I absolutely love how you addressed this topic. It's so beautiful and I think it will help so many people who struggle with it.
@hopehelmer7797
@hopehelmer7797 2 жыл бұрын
Wow. This was SUCH an informative video and gave me such a pause for thought. Lots to reconsider and pray about. Thank you 🙏🏼
@andrewewell
@andrewewell 2 жыл бұрын
Wonderful job, Lillian. Beautifully explained!
@thenotoneman2812
@thenotoneman2812 2 жыл бұрын
It's weird but often when I hear modesty talks I became very anxious and afraid of looking to any woman that I find on the streets or even female characters that don't match exactly what people prescribe in those circles. And also some times I think I don't sin see women that don't wear those prescribed clothes, but only in a few cases: cartoonish female characters and some body types that don't look inappropriate in those clothes.
@khaiylahwiththestyla8722
@khaiylahwiththestyla8722 9 ай бұрын
Beautifully stated!! In other conversations on modesty, I’ve always felt an undertone of condemnation. Thank you for sharing your wisdom. May God bless your soul!
@alejandromilatorres8053
@alejandromilatorres8053 Жыл бұрын
Your video is amazing, almost unbelievable, a very intelligent woman, a modest woman, a woman of God, God bless you, the whole world needs more women like you!!!
@thatblackcatholicchick
@thatblackcatholicchick 2 жыл бұрын
Modesty for men can come in various forms. First off, modesty in the way we ALL speak and carry ourselves are indeed a part of living modestly. Let's keep that in mind. And for men, where does modesty in dress come in? Well, how much skin you're showing, as woman can be tempted by that and objectify you physically too. Tanks, shirtless, grey sweatpants, sagging pants... You know what I mean if you spend any time on social media. But I think also for men who feel their worth is tied up in leading with money, designer labels, and trends. Are you attached to worldly images of success? Is trying to show off what you have your vice? These are where places of modesty definitely can come into play for men today. So it's definitely not just the women. Wonderful talk.
@jorgeestradajr2217
@jorgeestradajr2217 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you! I search constantly for ways to be a better father and how to approach this subject with my daughter. I appreciate the reference to Von Hilldebrand, very insightful!
@roseideal2411
@roseideal2411 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you This is a highly edifying topic and graciously wisely presented
@BarbaraTheViolinist
@BarbaraTheViolinist 2 жыл бұрын
I loved it.Thank you so much. I have been changing my clothes choice over the past few years along coming closer to God. It is hard in my profession as a performer but I do my best. God bless! x
@kaityroseg.9051
@kaityroseg.9051 Жыл бұрын
Please please keep making videos. This is exactly the explanation I needed to hear. God bless you
@lorraineklimek1677
@lorraineklimek1677 2 жыл бұрын
I think men also need to dress modestly. To be sure, this is not nearly as big an issue as it is with women because men’s clothing in general is different than women ‘s. But when I see a man in a public place (not the beach) walking around without a shirt or wearing very short shorts, I find it disturbing. Gym clothes should not be worn on the street by either men or women, but looking around, I see that my opinion is in the minority.
@anneschorr3406
@anneschorr3406 2 жыл бұрын
I am a " mature " woman, so to speak but I am recently exploring this topic. Thank you for your thoughtful insight. Lately, I have been relating modesty to kindness. Immodest dressing can come off as very haughty and boastful like " look at me ". Modestly, on the other hand says, " there's more to me than what meets the eye. I am deeper than just my physical appearance." I helps people to see the inside, perhaps, before just the outside, especially with women since our bodies are more shapely, generally. Just a thought.
@davidcole333
@davidcole333 2 жыл бұрын
I agree with this very much. Immodest dressing is just a cry for attention in my opinion.
@jimlittle7111
@jimlittle7111 Жыл бұрын
One of my favorite things to say at Mass. "Show a little modesty" And you'll get the attention you deserve.
@sarahh6401
@sarahh6401 2 жыл бұрын
I was apprehensive to click on this video, but I loved that you reframed it with the word reverence and spoke to it more of an internal state, rather than an external behavior that is focused on dressing a certain way because we're "supposed to" or "for the boys." I have such hope that younger generations of women will feel much less ashamed about their bodies. I wish the youth group leaders I had in middle/high school were sharing this side of the story. Loving all the videos with Lillian!! ♡
@Neb-ie5mj
@Neb-ie5mj 2 жыл бұрын
Lillian you are hitting all the right marks!! Thank you for your witness
@anonimai
@anonimai 2 жыл бұрын
I like how you said to not approach people callous or disgusted
@Frank020
@Frank020 2 жыл бұрын
Hii, I liked your singles vid. Can you please make more about living out the single, loner, chaste, life ? Lol. Practical daily stuff to avoid temptations maybe. Or, finding friends group. (single guys w no GF are not popular )
@ArrozConPollllo
@ArrozConPollllo 2 жыл бұрын
I second this idea!!!
@randallgoedel
@randallgoedel 2 жыл бұрын
I like how this is presented, however, both males and females need to have reverence for their bodies and dress modestly. I will probably have all of my kids watch this one.
@peytonfamily1198
@peytonfamily1198 2 жыл бұрын
The intro killed me!🤣🤣 But seriously, great video! I love the way you tackled it!
@gabrielaperez3120
@gabrielaperez3120 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you! We need to listen more about this. And know the reason behind the word. I agree with you, we need to know our worthiness as women, and feel as God beloved daughter to show internally and externally his love.
@cjgonzales1994
@cjgonzales1994 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you Ms Lillian
@Atothe7420
@Atothe7420 2 жыл бұрын
All I can say is wow! I can listen to you all day
@paulashute1054
@paulashute1054 2 жыл бұрын
Amazing content as always, Lilly!
@jamieesalcido6804
@jamieesalcido6804 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video. This is going to help the girls in my Youth group so much.
@GB-xt4hc
@GB-xt4hc 2 жыл бұрын
Well, we could use more modesty at Mass.
@andrewadkins533
@andrewadkins533 2 жыл бұрын
Decency is to avoid lusty dress. Modesty is avoid opulence in dress. Both avoid ostentation for its own sake.
@kurtteixeira
@kurtteixeira 2 жыл бұрын
Hahaha. Thank you and God Bless. Reverence is such a powerful and beautiful way to put it.
@leamarie6039
@leamarie6039 2 жыл бұрын
Inspiring talk from this Queen🙏keep up and God Bless you!
@Ezekiel336-16
@Ezekiel336-16 2 жыл бұрын
Ok, I'm with you sister (just over 5 minutes in), so I don't know if you get to this, but I would encourage you not to differentiate between the sacredness of a woman's body compared to a man's. I say that because, if the Holy Spirit is truly living inside any follower of Christ (man or woman), that makes that person's body a sacred temple of the Lord. Given that, it is no more appropriate or faithful for me as a man to dress and present myself (and the Lord in me) in a way that dishonors Him and my body anymore than it is for you or any other woman to do so. In Christ, Andrew
@davelaz5582
@davelaz5582 7 ай бұрын
Jackie Kennedy was a wonderful modesty example.
@anniethompson1041
@anniethompson1041 10 ай бұрын
I have a slim figure but large bust. I am committed to dressing modestly but It's a lot tougher with a larger bust. For example, if I wore what Lillian is wearing in this video it would be considered immodest. It's almost impossible for those of us with larger ones to find flattering modest clothes. Thinking about starting my own line of clothing.
@ryanscottlogan8459
@ryanscottlogan8459 2 жыл бұрын
How about a video encouraging women to cover their heads in church.It is an ancient practice that existed for 1970 years and is enjoying quite a revival among Catholic women!❤️
@WillNelson73
@WillNelson73 2 жыл бұрын
Modesty applies to men as well. Not as much as with women, but men should be modest as well
@uteme
@uteme 2 жыл бұрын
You're correct; they need to think modestly & respectfully, keeping our Savior in mind at all times. You made a valid point. Thank you. ✝️
@csongorarpad4670
@csongorarpad4670 2 жыл бұрын
Most definitely. Women, as well as, men need to be considerate by dressing and acting modestly so as not to lead their brothers and sisters astray and into temptation.
@peace-and-quiet
@peace-and-quiet 2 жыл бұрын
There's nothing worse than seeing a man in skinny pants or a slim-fit suit. Yikes 😱. The man-bun is also gross. Catholic women want men to be men. Stop with the effeminate attire. Children see this and assume it's the thing to do. Stop setting a poor example.
@Frank020
@Frank020 2 жыл бұрын
We don't have much to show. What do you mean?
@Frank020
@Frank020 2 жыл бұрын
@CJ P. lol 😂 will do. I go shirtless we have 100+ around the house. I try not to show plumbers crack, although sometimes it happens by mistake, since I like loose pants.
@seans.131
@seans.131 2 жыл бұрын
Very important message, Lillian. Thank you for sharing. I just read this and it agrees with you [5:43]: “God made you [women] beautiful, that He might be admired even in your beauty.” ~St. John Chrysostom. God bless😊
@seans.131
@seans.131 2 жыл бұрын
@@cassie1421 Chrysostom gave precedence to the soul over the body, and Lillian states, "A woman's beauty [is] both physical and internal." God bless you😊I am certain God wants to be associated with you😊 (Source: 'Women & Men in the Early Church: The Vision of St. John Chrysostom' by Ford)
@dezmondaigilo
@dezmondaigilo 2 жыл бұрын
Women like Lillian are rare
@mariachiarabertolini1496
@mariachiarabertolini1496 2 жыл бұрын
Your outfit😍
@franciscos.a.l.135
@franciscos.a.l.135 2 жыл бұрын
BOUNDARIES, DID YOU SAY BOUNDARIES, I LOVE BOUNDARIES!!! It is an important topic, both in reverence to the temple in us as the lord God's. I think today is a problem for men also. Wearing shorts to Sunday (any) Mass, but women have a task, definitely. They have to think about others. Reverence is a good term. Reverence to ourselves, deserved respect most certainly.
@taraelizabethdensley9475
@taraelizabethdensley9475 4 ай бұрын
I struggle finding skirts or dresses as i'm only 5ft, so the midi skirts/dresses end up ankle length 🤣
@nhy320
@nhy320 2 жыл бұрын
"in becoming a co-creator ... (women are) given a piece of God's heart"
@musiclist4792
@musiclist4792 Жыл бұрын
Does JPII also refer to woman as a co-creator?
@geoffwilson9273
@geoffwilson9273 Жыл бұрын
I think the first thing that got some warning bells ringing was the exclusion of rules, this same line of thinking was used at the beginning of the feminist movement. Next was a ‘new age’ one liner, ‘if it feels good,do it”. How one feels does not substantiate reality or morality. But, for some reference, if someone dresses (either directly or indirectly) to cause thoughts or feelings of desire and lust to make themselves feel wanted and desired, that’s called Scandalizing others. Btw, I would not allow my daughter to wear the shirt you are wearing, slightly to low for sure.
@mariab9707
@mariab9707 2 жыл бұрын
I loved this video, thank you for putting it into these words!…
@alinacash786
@alinacash786 2 жыл бұрын
Wow. I am amazed and floored! Thank you
@bridgetg2661
@bridgetg2661 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you - great video 🙏🏻
@geoffwilson9273
@geoffwilson9273 Жыл бұрын
Ever read St. padre pio? He kicked women out of Church who weren’t wearing a full shawl to cover up. He called them scandalous
@alejanmf22
@alejanmf22 2 жыл бұрын
4:35 I would personally add the fact that the average female clothing that you can find in the market is pretty unmodest (in focused more on been sexy than anything else) and the average man clothing is really a lot more modest (men shirts cover all the chest and shorts go down to the knee). You can also look at fashion magazines and publicity in general, were women are more likely to be shown in a sexual way and the young girls are probably thinking that they should look like that too or that's the only way you can dress.
@antonionwachukwu1054
@antonionwachukwu1054 2 жыл бұрын
Thank You
@maryritatrzybinski3836
@maryritatrzybinski3836 2 жыл бұрын
Modesty is a loaded term, but I think it would actually be more effective to re-capture its true meaning instead of substituting a different word.
@lauradahlus
@lauradahlus 2 жыл бұрын
I think men need to display and act out in modesty too. If they don't it could be tempting to women which is not pure. 😇
@sneed3529
@sneed3529 2 жыл бұрын
Your terms are acceptable
@luke9747
@luke9747 2 жыл бұрын
Wow this was really good. Thanks for posting
@K1R4SH1KE1
@K1R4SH1KE1 2 жыл бұрын
When you said something along the lines of, "The same God who created the universes, created you," I never thought about it like that. I'm a teenage girl who's going through a lot of self worth issues and I have been for about five years now, and it's gotten really bad recently. I think that's a line that I'll think of a lot more often. Hopefully I'll be able to make that reflect in the clothes I wear too. Almost every day for school, I'm worried that if I wear a certain something, I look like a w***e (figured I'd censor myself lol). It's a constant fear that I have, but hopefully in time, I won't worry about it. According to my dad, I dress very modestly, and I usually go clothes shopping with my mom, so I believe there's no way she would let me go out looking like what I fear I do. Now that I think about it, most of my clothes consist of baggy anime shirts and the few "crop tops" I have don't even go further up than my belly button lol. Sorry this came out like a full essay, these were just some thoughts I had. If anyone has any advice or anything to ad on to what Mrs. Lillian said, I'm all ears. Thanks to Ascension Presents too. I started watching them in the eighth grade for an assignment, and now I've been subscribed for a while. Again, sorry for the long comment lol.
@davemart8221
@davemart8221 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you…. Well done!
@fram1111
@fram1111 2 жыл бұрын
I like your explanation and advice.
@mraemartinez
@mraemartinez 2 жыл бұрын
It’s not that difficult. It’s called dignified. The end.
@jennifer8535
@jennifer8535 2 жыл бұрын
4:18-7:01 amazing message!!!! ❤️
@michaelanthony4750
@michaelanthony4750 Жыл бұрын
If you dress with respect for yourself, you will attract those who have respect as well.
@bryt8158
@bryt8158 2 жыл бұрын
This is a great one 👏 👌
@petersimon5874
@petersimon5874 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you. 🙂
@MissPopuri
@MissPopuri 2 жыл бұрын
Speaking of the King of the Universe wanting me in his world, I had the theme song for Jimmy Neutron in my head this morning. This kid was a boy genius who created many inventions. I relate more to the female counterpart Cindy even though I wouldn’t say I was very good in Science or Math in school.
@avia9735
@avia9735 2 жыл бұрын
Beautiful explanation
@3boymom05
@3boymom05 2 жыл бұрын
Excellent explanation of this controversial topic!
@17cmmittlererminenwerfer81
@17cmmittlererminenwerfer81 2 жыл бұрын
You can't "shirk away". You "shrink away".
@loismcmillan5464
@loismcmillan5464 2 жыл бұрын
Nothing complicated about the word "" Modesty " you either have it- or you don't - really sad - when females don't know !!!!
@sappireflames0009
@sappireflames0009 2 жыл бұрын
using the term "female" makes you sound super alpha male over text, gonna be honest.
@metildajoseph5265
@metildajoseph5265 2 жыл бұрын
Greetings Lady Lillian, Modesty also comes with Simplicity and Realistic in Social aspects. Key Thoughts : I Simply respect Humanity but Preferably Stay away from Empowered Thoughts of Women. Special Thoughts : HolyBible clearly mention about Modesty through Corinthians : 6 - (19 - 20) in every sense in All aspects. With regards with Prayers, for Everyone, RanjithJoseph (R.J)
@oliviaswyden4808
@oliviaswyden4808 2 жыл бұрын
Off topic, but this beautiful room behind you!!! Is this your home, Lillian?
@josemariacorti9490
@josemariacorti9490 2 жыл бұрын
Excellent
@user-ji2on8eg3l
@user-ji2on8eg3l Жыл бұрын
Saint Matthew 16:24 Then Jesus said to his disciples, “Whoever wishes to come after me must deny himself, take up his cross, and follow me.
@haydongonzalez-dyer2727
@haydongonzalez-dyer2727 11 ай бұрын
Cool
@tagabulodchastityobedience7292
@tagabulodchastityobedience7292 2 жыл бұрын
Many people wearing horrible disgusting clothing in the Church ( club attire) specially and women they look like they’re there to pick up men .specially young women parents don’t do anything.. it’s upsetting..
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